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You try and frame men being competitive as a bad thing, I explain to you why men are competitive, you try to justify why women force men to be competitive. I mean, what are we even doing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:37 PM
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Yeah, so men should also gravitate towards the top of the food chain for our children's sake. Don't want to breed with bad genes and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:12 PM
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submissive 16 year old looking hourglass bodied girl No. They're not. You're projecting that onto men and it comes from a place of your own insecurity/resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:22 PM
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I think that's just a fetish. But no, the vast majority of romance book love interests in stories written by women are extremely powerful, influential, attractive men who are basically masters of the universe lmao. That's why the stereotype of the 8 foot tall vampire billionaire exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:10 PM
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Men are competitive because they've learned that women gravitate to the top of the food chain. Which is why they compete so hard with other men to reach it. It's a learned behaviour that has been directly influenced by women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:07 PM
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Shallow isn't only about looks and even then, it's hard to argue that men are more shallow looks-wise then women when you read about the "ideal" male in smut romance books lmao. Women also like to compare their partner to others more than men do. Where he ranks in the social hierarchy, how he's perceived by others, how much power he has over society at large. It's a much deeper, borderline nefarious version of being shallow than "I want big boobs and skinny waist"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:57 PM
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True, imagine being some guy living in poverty in the Philippines trying to court a local girl and then some white nerd with a bunch of money shows up and whisks her away to America, I'd be so pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:19 PM
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I think if you want to be a passport bro, you should just do it. You're not going to get everybody "on board" and to agree with it on an ethical level, but it doesn't matter. It's your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:58 PM
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Yeah, but according to your bizarre worldview, these trans shootings are completely isolated incidents and are reveal nothing about trans people as a whole while the Montreal shooting can be applied across the board to "incels". Your stance actually implies that these trans shooters just did it for no reason at all, like they're brainless babies without any agency whatsoever, which could be taken to mean that they're even more dangerous than the incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:32 PM
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Fun fact about the tumbler ridge incident, she actually posted tik Tok edits about the other trans shooter who killed people in Nashville in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:20 PM
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You're talking about Montreal right? What about the tumbler ridge shooting perpetrated by the trans individual? 3 times more people died and ten times more were injured. I would consider that a one off incident, similar to what happened in Montreal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:16 PM
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This doesn't apply in the modern age at all. Some computer nerd who's never touched a weight in his life could press a button and blow up an entire squadron of elite soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:10 PM
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I just found like a dozen other studies claiming women are more emotionally fragile than men lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 10:02 PM
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You know why bro, they think they might get laid and/or enjoy the validation that chicks give them. It's an extension of broader weasle-like behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:57 PM
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I actually doubt they think that deeply about it. They just like men paying for their stuff, acting like a diva/princess, etc. They always want that to be an option for them and when they see society slowly straying away from that, they use these shaming tactics to try and shift things the other way. It's like an implicit cost/benefit analysis in their heads. It's not even political.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:59 PM
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If the woman you're dating shows clear signs that she has a very "transactional" personality, then break it off. It's literally better to be single than to be with a transactional woman because that entitlement bleeds into every other aspect of her personality. Don't allow yourself to be victimized
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:26 AM
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This video is basically the squidward tweaking out meme while the fish family tries to look away from him
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:27 PM
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Getting a gift that a woman spent her own money on is literally the biggest green flag ever. Because it weeds out the "my money is mine, his money is ours" women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 04:24 PM
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The only way this would work is if we're both like 60. If we're like 30 and she's already sworn off sex, hell no, it's not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:21 PM
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Is this hypothetical woman asexual or is she just physically repulsed by me? Like wtf is this scenario lmaoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:12 PM
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I was making fun of people who would respond that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:27 PM
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I disagree that "hoeflation" is even happening. Sure, women can go online and go off about what they deserve in a relationship but that doesn't mean they're going to get it, especially if it requires a disproportionate amount of effort for men. Like the reason they're online complaining about it in the first place is because no man is willing to give it to them lmao. I really don't think most men are that desperate that they're willing to capitulate to a bunch of crazy demand. This guy I know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:30 PM
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Ugh. So gross of you to use "mid" to describe women. Maybe you should just do women a favor and stay away from them you chud??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 09:25 PM
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That's what I thought it was as well but it's kind of just thrown around a lot that it's lost most of its meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:57 PM
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What is a pick me then? Somebody who just doesn't defend women in every single possible scenario? Because that's basically how the term's thrown around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 07:40 PM
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Oh, so there are tiers of threats that I should worry more or less about in accordance with how likely they are to happen. Interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:27 AM
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Okay? So we shouldn't worry about it happening to us?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:43 AM
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Yeah, so was I
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 08:01 PM
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Yeah, so you can see how annoying it is to have your grievances dismissed by somebody going "but X can happen to Y!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:46 PM
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that's not YOUR fear Not you personally Anyways, do you kind of get it? If you bring up X grievance and somebody responds with "yeah but Y could happen to me and it's worse than X, so X is not that big of a deal, don't talk about it" Gets kind of annoying and disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:38 PM
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How do you know what I'm scared of when going into a stranger's house? If a woman invited me into her house and offered me an unsealed drink I think I'd have good reason to be wary about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:16 PM
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Men can also get raped by women, it's just less likely to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:21 PM
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Being spiritually retarded as in being as open as you possibly can without being constrained by any fear of social judgement or repercussion. This could also get you beat up but it'll increase your chances of getting laid like at least 80%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:41 AM
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Retardmaxxing is the best way to get casual sex iykyk
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:32 AM
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You might have some sort of physiological problem then. Might be worth seeing a specialist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:02 PM
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How do you have all this and still can't get laid bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:55 PM
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So here's the thing. Does viewing somebody in a sexual manner mean that they've completely stripped away every other aspect of that person? Maybe they're not interested in getting to know the person on a deeper level and just want them sexually but that doesn't mean they're under the impression that they're just a sex doll and nothing more. That's what casual sex is. Are women objectifying the tall good looking guy in the club when they cling onto him the whole night? Are they objectifying the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:21 PM
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Yeah there's no way to quantify how many dudes actually get off to AI porn. I'm gonna say it isn't popular and you're gonna say it is, so that's a dead end argument. But what is "objectification" then? What qualifies as it, short of a man writing out an essay explicitly stating that women are good for nothing but sex? Like a dude going out to a club for the express purpose of getting laid isn't objectifying the women there. He's well aware that they have their own lives and are sentient beings, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:08 PM
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In that case, the vast majority of what people are calling objectification isn't objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:03 PM
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What does "objectification" even mean though. Like if a guy sees a girl and thinks "wow she's hot" that's objectification? Also 99.99% of men aren't making AI deepfakes and putting cameras in toilets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:55 PM
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Since when does finding somebody hot mean you view them as only an object and nothing else? Like who made that shit up LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 02:53 PM
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You sound like you're probably under the age of 20
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:04 PM
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A tip for going out alone to a club would be to go on a night where an artist you really like is performing. So you can genuinely enjoy the music and not worry about trying to find people to talk to and it'll make it much easier to talk to people at the same time. Works really well if you like EDM
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:48 PM
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Clubs suck so much ass. They're full of tough guy clowns trying to act hard and the most shallow, tik tok brained women you could find anywhere. Raves are awesome though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:46 PM
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Yeah but you don't speak for all women lmao. You might not want to talk to any men when you go out, but other women go out for the express purpose of meeting and hooking up with guys lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:44 PM
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The average woman is no more spectacular than the average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:43 PM
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Who acts like injustices in the world never happen? And discussing wages in the workplace is already a thing that's actively being promoted. But let's be honest with what the gender pay gap really is and not doom and gloom and spread misinformation. I've worked physical jobs were I was nearly injured and the manager didn't give a fuck but when one of my female coworkers was in the same position, they ran to her rescue. I'm not going to use that experience to frame myself as a victim until the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:12 PM
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Okay? So what, you want to make it illegal to hire men? That's the solution? Every company I've worked for has been nearly split 50/50 between men and women. Career fairs have plenty of female recruiters. Clearly this isn't some insane, pervasive issue that should be keeping you up at night. Hell, the last 2 jobs I had, it was a female manager interviewing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:03 PM
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But what can society do about it beyond what's already been done? Create campaigns being like "hey, definitely don't pay women less for the same job you evil mangers!" If somebody is so sexist that theyre going to do these things, you aren't going to change their minds. Also, this sort of sexism is more than likely going to get them in trouble down the line. So like, just do what's in your control and work hard and apply for the jobs you want. Your gender isn't going to stop you in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:01 PM
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Ok, then bring it up to your manager/boss and threaten legal action. I mean society has effectively done everything they can at this point to legislate these things. You're never going to be able to stamp out every sexist asshole in the workplace. It goes the other way as well, where female managers give preferential treatment to female employees. Also male managers giving preferential treatment to female employees. Every possible outcome is going to happen at one point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:56 PM
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I feel like I'm making a very clear point and you're still firing back with nonsense? I never said it was illegal to hire a man? Like I couldn't have made my point any clearer, like what are you actually trying to do here lmfao. Idk, am I the crazy one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:51 PM
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It's illegal to use gender as a precedent for not hiring somebody for a role. It's just very difficult to prove that gender was part of the reason for why anybody is hired for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:45 PM
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That's not a gender pay gap, that's hiring discrimination. Which is illegal. Gender pay gap is often parroted as women making less than men doing the EXACT same job. Which logistically speaking, isn't possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:39 PM
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What is the pay gap exactly? If I see a staff accountant role advertising a 55k salary and both me and a woman apply for it, that salary is going to be adjusted based on our genders? That's not a thing that happens. Also, if they were planning on paying the woman less, let's say $45k instead, why wouldn't they just hire the woman? The whole things makes no sense, especially in the context of standardized jobs and jobs with a posted salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:33 PM
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Who gives a damn what's socially acceptable. Look at the state of society these days. Some people aren't worth taking seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:56 PM
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I think both genders are blamed about 50/50 for dating woes. Men generally blame women and vice versa. Though there are some weasle-ish performative men who also blame men in hopes of somebody touching their limp dicks, so maybe it's like 52/48.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 03:45 PM
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I like dinner. I don't like paying for some other person's dinner who I barely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 06:14 PM
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Hey blackpill incel guy, listen to this person, they're making a really good point. Also look up what America did to white women who married Asian men back in the early 1900's. And if Asian men are feminine, then what does that make the white nations that were conquered by the Mongols?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:19 AM
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It's not that accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:54 AM
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Feminine features according to who? Western media gaslighting has worked too well on everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 03:53 AM
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It was definitely some engagement bait tik tok. Just complain about the most retarded shit possible and you'll get views.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:31 PM
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He doesn't. He's coping
/r/BlackPillScience03/03/26 03:12 PM
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If somebody's "standards" are that they don't want to contribute financially or do any labor and they just don't want to work or do any sort of household chores and all of it should fall on the partner, then they should either go to a psychiatrist or do the world a favor and stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 10:29 PM
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The problem is, a lot of people's "best lives possible" involves somebody else having to sacrifice something and making their own life worse. So it doesn't really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:43 PM
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To the person in which your actions/behaviour negatively affected.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:38 PM
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Yeah doesn't change the fact that when men talk about wanting women to take more accountability, they're drawing from personal experiences with women who did not take accountability and blamed everything/everyone else for their mistakes/behaviours. It's not wanting women to be dehumanized? Like that's some insane conclusion you reached on your own via your own biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:09 PM
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IME women are willing to apologize for inconsequential things like stepping on the back of your shoe. But when it comes to things that actually do have consequences like popping a car tire or even cheating, they legit have every excuse in the book. Generally speaking. I'd like to see a study on that. Also from the first paragraph of the study you linked: "Despite wide acceptance of the stereotype that women apologize more readily than men, there is little systematic evidence to support this ster…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:53 PM
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No it's more like just admit it and apologize when you make a mistake lmfao. Like if you borrow your boyfriends car and hit a curb and pop a tire instead of going like "well you should have warned me that the roads were icy and I never would've drove!" Just be like yeah my bad, I'll take it to the shop and get it fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:38 PM
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I feel like if we all stopped looking at this sub our lives would all improve. Like everybody here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 01:08 AM
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Tbh that whole post and comments section really just pissed me off and I wanted to vent about it lol, that's all it is. Because there was really no getting through to anybody there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:11 PM
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But what does incelism even have to do with this at all lmao. Like this convo was happening in the comments of an ig video where some woman was complaining about how every man nowadays is broke and can't afford to take her anywhere nice and I pointed out that there are rich men out there and if she can't get one, then she maybe she just can't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:36 PM
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The vast majority of these comments are under those man hating rage bait posts on IG (before you say "just don't take them serious and don't acknowledge them!" just think about how you personally react to woman hating rage bait posts and apply the same logic). I just saw one with a caption like "when I see a lonely elderly man I don't feel bad for him cause he's probably a pedo and has abused women". And there were some men in the comments like "isn't this a pretty unfair and damaging generaliza…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:30 PM
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I'm saying this is representative of the kind of woman who who don't like to be argued with and would suggest that men never argue with them. What % of the overall female population is like this? Who knows. But they're out there and they are very vocal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:24 PM
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"if you can't find a man who meets your standards, maybe the men who do meet your standards don't want you" "Do you just hate women or something?" Verbatim
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:20 PM
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I've never seen a situation where that question has been valid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:18 PM
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They don't say "please dismiss my opinions" but when they do get challenged with a good point often times they defer to the old "do you just hate women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:07 PM
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I've taken a look at this sub. It's almost always women bringing up the male loneliness crisis to weaponize it in arguments lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:14 PM
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I only see women complaining that men are complaining about this loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:10 PM
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Not really. Some men express self love by smoking weed and playing video games all day. But I reckon most women would just call that a waste of time/destructive behavior and not view it as self love at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:58 PM
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I already defined entitlement as expecting somebody to go out of their way to explicitly do something for you or feel a certain way towards you, which refraining from discrimination would not qualify as. And I think I made it pretty clear so your pushback against this is likely coming from something beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:24 PM
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This comment indicates to me that on some level, you think that you are indeed entitled to the things you desire. Maybe you're one of those manifestation girlies
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:04 PM
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There's a difference between wanting something and feeling like you're inherently owed that thing for existing. Like let's say I'm an aspiring author. I want people to pay money to read my books. But I understand that the books I write have to be worth reading. I don't think I can just write a bunch of slop and "why isn't anybody reading my stuff? Ugh this makes no sense it's unfair, why aren't they reading it?" It's the attitude you have about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:56 PM
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Entitlement just means that you feel like you "deserve" and are "owed" something that somebody else has to go out of their way to give you, such as affection. If this doesn't apply to you, then it doesn't apply.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:46 PM
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Actually, it is entitlement. Because you aren't inherently entitled to anybody's affection. This is the message we have been sending to men in the 21st century, and women need to start hearing it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:37 PM
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Women do deserve to be able to go about their life without the fear of sexual abuse (as does everyone) and they also deserve to be evaluated solely on their skills/work ethic, etc. In professional workplaces. These are pretty much the bare minimums. Anything beyond that is entitlement. Like if they can't find a guy that meets their standards/preferences, it just means that the guy that they're picturing in their heads doesn't consider them to be worth it. So they can either just accept being sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 03:50 PM
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In the 1960's you could get an apartment and a car flipping burgers. Now you need a bachelor's degree in order to not make a living wage but maybe come close to it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:35 PM
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Inherent difference in gender dynamics fueled by both biology and societal expectations and overall culture
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:28 AM
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I think they get personally offended by certain words because they associate them with things that they don't like. Super bizarre stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:22 AM
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Conquering literally means overcoming a problem/weakness. It's a very broad term. What's up with redditors and nitpicking vocabulary lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:17 AM
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I'll admit it feels nice and cathartic to throw a pity party for yourself every once in a while but at some point you gotta decide if that's the way you want to live for the rest of your life or if you're actually going to do your best to fight back against your circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:15 AM
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Unironically I think low test does lead to BP thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:59 AM
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It's the courtesy of it. Both partners in like 99% of relationships know that they aren't each other's "ideal" partner. But if either of them acts in a way where it's clear that this is the case or holds it over the other partner's head, it becomes really shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:22 PM
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So many guys out there just settle for a woman who tolerates being around them lmao. I really don't get it either, like why not just be single and live on your own terms. It's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 04:19 PM
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Courting def isn't a feminist psyop because courting was more of a thing when feminism wasn't a thing lol. I think courting in the way that you've described (planning, paying, disproportionate effort) just doesn't make as much sense to men these days when the woman they're courting has the same professional/economic opportunities as them. That's just the way it's going to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:20 PM
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I think most of this stuff has to do with money tbh. Leading = provide money. The purchasing power of our dollar has become abysmal and it's never been harder to break into a career and start making a good living. Social media grifters also really fuck up people's expectations of what a life "should" look like. So women recognize this and defer to the old "I want a masculine leader so I can feel feminine" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 03:20 PM
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So basically people stop having casual sex? This would be such a huge dub for incels
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 03:11 PM
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Here's one: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/3575604/ And there's like thousands more. It's not really like a debatable thing. I mean is this what we're doing now? Denying that testosterone is correlated with aggression and violent tendencies? I know delulu is the solulu and all but there comes a point where it's just like what are we doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 08:48 PM
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Men still have 1400-1900% more testosterone than women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 06:07 PM
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And the women in this group and reddit in general just cannot wait to use it to dunk on men in online arguments for a quick Gurl power ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:22 PM
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I see women complaining about random bullshit all the time, I'm not gonna assign a "crisis" to it lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:07 PM
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Good God, that is the most reductive explanation for why that conflict started. Like almost painfully reductive where it's basically just you trying to push an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 05:03 PM
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I don't even think it exists. You do, and you attempt to weaponize it for the sake of online arguments lmao. I'm not lonely at all. I'm stressed out, but not lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:56 PM
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I've seen the male loneliness crisis brought up 10× more by women who use it in an attempt to denigrate men or make a point than by men who are actually complaining about it. No man I know IRL has ever talked about it or mentioned it but several women have brought it up out of the blue. At this point I think the concept of it exists exclusively as ammunition for women to use in the gender wars.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:49 PM
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Hey, can't have the good parts of testosterone without the bad
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:45 PM
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I have no qualms about protecting a woman being harassed in public because I think I've trained enough to be able to handle most men in a physical confrontation but if there's a knife or gun involved I'm gonna be thinking "ehhhhhhh I don't know man". Also "n*gga die" was pretty funny lmao. I can laugh at misandry when it's actually funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:36 PM
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Women and men are bound by different rules when it comes to dating, it makes sense that advice isn't going to be the same across the board
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:47 PM
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She's just talking about Tate lol. Like all three of those examples she's just referring to Tate
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 03:42 PM
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Men can generally mitigate the risk of alimony by following one simple rule, which is not to marry a broke woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 03:16 PM
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The thing is, emotional intelligence is vague enough that a woman can weaponize it to just demand whatever she wants. Same thing with "mental load" and "emotional labor".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:43 PM
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Yay ofc effort comes first. But even picking a girl up and paying for meals is effort. Also another factor is if your effort is reciprocated. If it's not, I'm not gonna be a sucker
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:40 PM
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From my experience, attractive women are 1200% more likely to expect you to pay for expensive things or cheat. It is not all peaches and cream with them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:39 PM
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The #1 criteria is how grateful she seems about the effort. If she's one of those "as he should" women, I personally just wouldn't date her to begin with or the minute I got the sense that she was like that, I'd break things off. As far as looks go, I wouldn't date anybody I wasn't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:00 PM
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I agree. What's actually difficult is locking down a baddie lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:55 AM
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It's like a scene out of a comedy movie made in the mid 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:36 PM
18

She also complained about having to buy him a Christmas present using his own money. This iceberg goes deep and it is depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 06:27 AM
2

Man I feel like there's gotta be some way for some hotshot lawyer to leverage those videos she made to work in his favor. Because they are horrendous.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:48 AM
23

Lmao that's the part you honed in on. Never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 05:39 AM
2

She's made a bunch of videos basically stating that she does nothing all day. Could this help him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:47 AM
41

No idea how it works but Akaash's situation is one of the most hilariously tragic things I have ever witnessed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 02:38 AM
1

Dude, I had to move out of my last apartment I was paying $1,100 for because it went up to $1,500 due to new developments around the area. My savings from college were wiped because I immediately paid off my student loans cause I'm not having that shit hanging over me. All that stuff about being promoted and lifestyle creep is true, but you're still ignoring the crux of my point. Men aren't dating less because they're spending money on porn and video games or whatever else you think young men ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:37 PM
1

Lol what leisure? Most of that money's gotta go into savings, into an emergency fund. What about eventually saving up for a house so that you don't have to rent forever? I know that Americans have 401k but Canadians don't so we need to contribute to retirement. This is not to mention that rent's gonna shoot up to $2200 next time it's renewed. The prices of groceries are increasing every month. Some people need to drive to work and that car payment's gonna kill them. Wages aren't rising relative …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:11 PM
1

That $5400 a month is pre tax, pre deductions. Their take home pay on that salary is gonna be closer to $4000. And rent isn't the only thing that's skyrocketed. Everything has. The economic strain on young people starting out in their careers today is the worst it's been in a long while. I know engineers who are still living at home. And it's even worse in Canada. I just heard on the radio that 29% of the population in Alberta would be fucked if they got hit with a sudden $200 bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:18 PM
1

If you're just talking about hosting parties, buying cheap food and shots at bars, I think most men are perfectly willing to do those things, myself included. But the things that men are actually worried about are going to expensive restaurants, travelling to exotic locations and music festivals, going to expensive concerts, all of which they'd have to cover entirely. I'm sure most women don't actually expect this, but there is a growing sense of entitlement to those things these days due to soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 03:10 PM
14

I don't plan on it!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:38 PM
3

Honestly I still enjoy my life. My biggest passions are writing and practicing combat sports (I've been a member of my gym for a while so I pay a pretty low rate) so those things aren't really breaking my bank anyways. I don't really have a desire to eat at expensive restaurants or go clubbing. The only thing is, I'd like to travel more. Which I could honestly do right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:31 PM
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It's weird to assume that most dudes are wasting money on porn and video games lol. Porn is pretty much free and I don't personally know many people who play video games. Also there's a lot of factors that are at play right now that weren't when millennials were graduating. Like mass adoption of AI, the gross oversaturation of uni degrees, etc. And while I agree that you should be surrounding yourself with people who are in a similar socioeconomic situation, there's this sense of financial doome…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:27 PM
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27, putting most of it into s&p/NASDAQ ETF's and letting it grow. I'm not rich by any means but by living somewhat frugally I have more than most and could certainly afford to fuck around for a few years. But I know I'm not entitled to the luxuries of this world despite working hard and would rather have a large safety net. Not sure what I want to do with my money ultimately, IE saving for a down payment or saving up to move somewhere across the world or just using it to travel sometime. But one…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:19 PM
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I'm totally fine with grinding towards my professional goals in my 20s. I'm currently doing so. But that also sure as hell doesn't mean I want to spend large amounts of money on a woman who thinks "my money is mine, his money is ours" and a "keeping up with the Joneses" mindset. Do you even understand the economic reality of the world right now? Even those busting their asses to make a good salary are going to go into debt eating out at nice restaurants and going to clubs and travelling all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 07:56 PM
11

I don't think that women always win "no matter what". Men at large are not just completely willing to do whatever their partner says to their own detriment lmao. Most men have no qualms about breaking things off when they realize that they're putting in more than they're getting back. Women take romantic L's all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:47 PM
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She wants men to spend as much money on their wives as she wants and to never question anything about her moral character or the moral character of women at large because they can do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:38 PM
2

Every time you do, the fog gets a little closer to consuming Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:33 PM
2

It doesn't even have to be 50/50. It's more of the attitude towards it. If I'm making more than my partner I don't expect her to split finances down the middle. But it's just chipping in when she can. Buying groceries, paying certain bills, etc. as long as she doesn't have the "my money is mine, his money is ours", we're good. Unfortunately there's a lot of toxic content on social media pushing this idea onto young women. And it just makes everyone miserable in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 09:05 PM
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There's a lot of content on social media trying to gaslight men into believing that if we don't take on all of the financial burden, we don't really love our partners. And before you say "oh just don't look at that content", it doesn't really matter if I see it or not. It still hits the target audience (which is young women), and they start to internalize this message. And then everybody ends up miserable because in this economy, it just isn't feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:59 PM
2

Uhhhh you should date and worship any woman who's willing to look your way? I mean you should be grateful that any woman is giving yuo any attention at all chud??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:00 PM
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Ugh, what a completely gross thing to say ugh. You don't want to date overweight women with kids? Ugh. Such an ugh incel. Ugh. The men's loneliness epidemic is a good thing ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:49 PM
19

So this is basically a femcel rant, yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 01:07 AM
0

I feel like only weak-willed men could possibly be gaslit into something like that. This is anecdotal but my friend used to date a girl (not for very long) and one night we were out and she was drunk and like kinda flirting with the bartender. My friend called her out on it in front of a bunch of people and just walked out and left her there. That's how you react. You don't have to accept that kind of behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:36 PM
1

Exact same things happen to simp men. They spend a lot of money and their wife doesn't respect them. Also I've seen women get called a pick me for saying they're okay with coffee dates so I mean how's that term being defined
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:15 AM
2

I feel like this is coming from a place of frustration and I get that, but being funny will definitely help you get laid or get a girlfriend. It won't guarantee it, but it'll be more beneficial than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:40 AM
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I don't think it's rare at all. It's just done slightly differently. Some women really don't like it when their partners have free time that they spend doing what they like. They either feel like that time should be spent paying attention to them or spent doing something that would make them more money (which these women would feel entitled to). This is a sense of ownership that's more exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:26 PM
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This sounds like she was as fucked up as him. There's plenty of women out there who would be with a homicidal man because of the fact that she's homicidal. Who would actually assist in his killing because they're just fucked up. Fucked up evil women exist. Like I'm 100% sure that the women ive dated would not put up with that for a second lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:51 PM
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He has the right to approach younger women, you have the right to chastise him for it, he has the right to not give a shit. I would advise him to just stop giving a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:03 PM
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Short answer: I'd rather dodge the bullet than be hit by it. The chances of the pussy being good enough to warrant having to put up with all that shit is miniscule. And honestly, if my gf or even wife called me in the middle of the night telling me she hit somebody while drunk and needs me to pick her up/bail her out or whatever, I'm going back to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:21 PM
2

It really is a case by case basis. I know dudes who "technically" own a house but are completely drowning in debt and can barely afford to pay the mortgage and are basically fucked and also know dudes who are still living at home but have so much money saved up and could afford to fuck off for 3 years and be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:15 AM
1

Would you consider living at home and paying a portion of the mortgage (which would still be considerably less than rent these days for houses purchased around 2010) in order to stack cash and then eventually put a fat down payment on a house/condo a reasonable thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:50 AM
2

Canada is so cooked man. I can't believe this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:24 PM
7

Yeah I don't know about this boss. Aren't women complaining en masse that "men aren't men anymore" or some shit? I think feminine in this context basically means being passive, not taking initiative, kind of just expecting to be taken care of. The vast majority of women fucking hate that in men. The performative/laid back/easygoing males are usually handsome/charismatic/fun enough to get laid but those relationships rarely work out, especially when finances become strained and hard decisions nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:14 PM
9

So you're telling me a random woman in public is gonna tell me to smile and then shoot me if I don't? I mean what is this scenario? It is 1000x more likely that I'm gonna die while driving to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:15 PM
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If a woman told me to smile in public it would be so cute. And I recognize this is due to the fact that she poses no physical threat to me. It would be different the other way around I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:06 PM
2

Those are all things you kinda have to earn. They aren't entitled to anybody for just showing up and existing. Like you first have to prove that you're somebody worth being devoted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:06 AM
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If you genuinely treat your husband really well then I'm glad to hear that, you definitely deserve the same treatment. As long as the respect and effort is mutual, it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:16 PM
12

Imagine a dude walking around going like "I've done my self reflection and I know that I'm entitled to being treated like a king". Like good god 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 09:37 PM
2

What do you think you're entitled to? I mean honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:58 PM
2

Fair, anything is on the table if you're just trying to get laid. This advice is more relevant to looking for a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:38 PM
5

Well, that's a fundamental disagreement we have, which is fine. I'm sure we could debate about that for hours but we don't need to lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:31 PM
2

Yeah, the vibes are important but I was mainly talking about online dating, where it's pretty hard to catch a vibe if you're not speaking in person. It never hurts to float the idea of a low stakes date like coffee when you're chatting on hinge or tinder. If the vibes are really great during the initial meeting, you can escalate it into dinner or drinks. I'm just saying that leading with something expensive is not a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:30 PM
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You can exploit the person you're dating. Yeah, they always have the option to leave but emotions are a tricky thing and it isn't always that simple. This really isn't hard to understand. Also, you were the person who framed dating as a market to begin with. If people can be exploited in the market, it can also happen in dating. Unless you're of the mind that might makes right, which is fine but I don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:26 PM
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You can get more than what you deserve. Like if I robbed a guy who just took cash out of an ATM, I "got" the cash but I didn't "deserve" it. Same thing if I were to scam a guy out of cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:16 PM
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Investing more than $10 into a first date is too much. Even if you can afford it, it's too much. Because if a woman has a problem with grabbing a coffee and having a chat, she's only going to cause more headaches down the line and it's not going to be worth it. A lot of dates are simply not worth going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:15 PM
4

I wouldn't use the word "deserve". If what they can get is derived through exploitation and is actively making the other person's life worse/more difficult, they don't deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:12 PM
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I feel like the men who are extremely vocal about sexual morality and all that stuff would totally be down for some kind of western sharia society lol. But for the average guy, the extent of their "slut shaming" boils down to finding a massive body count to be a turn off when it comes to relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:45 PM
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I think it's because emotional intelligence is commonly weaponized by women in an attempt to denigrate men or prop themselves up as the more moral gender. Men never claim to be more emotionally intelligent lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:11 PM
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Look, they can say that stuff. But then they shouldn't raise hell when somebody insults them using weight, facial appearance, body count, etc. I think most everybody is a hypocrite in this regard
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:16 PM
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I've also told this to some feminists. Using high body count as an insult doesn't mean I hate women with high body count. I just know it strikes a nerve!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:47 PM
5

You can use any insult you want, as long as I can also use any insult I want
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 09:25 PM
3

For every red pill alpha male page out there, there's also one of these
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:22 PM
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I mean if we both agree that men and women should both pay for their own shit and not expect otherwise then we're on the same page. But the OP was talking about certain corners of social media promoting otherwise, which is very much a real thing. It might not show up on your algorithm but it certainly exists and it's gaining more and more traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 04:08 PM
3

But in order to be able to consistently go on nice trips and extravagant adventures without being financially irresponsible or having somebody else subsidize you, you need to grind your ass off and dedicate thousands of hours towards cultivating a successful career and mastering your craft. Which means years of sacrifices and anxiety and struggle. Which is not a soft life. These things are not compatible. The true "soft life" is finding a rich guy to latch onto who's willing to just pay for ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:58 PM
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There's like thousands of accounts on IG where it's some woman selling courses to other women on how to strategically place themselves in situations where they can meet rich men and how to subsequently "charm" them and have them subsidize the "soft girl" lifestyle. Of course these courses don't work because rich men usually only date rich women (as they should). The woman you're talking about on the dating app has nothing to do with this. Also a lot of women (and men) living these adventurous gl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:46 PM
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Bro soft life is literally the antithesis to working hard. Like what? Also divine feminine is like the equivalent of a dude saying he's a primordial alpha male, which I'm sure you would balk at lmaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah the hard work is the thing here. Social media isn't promoting hard work to women. It's promoting women being in their "divine feminine" and their "soft girl era" and "manifesting" the good life. If a woman posts something like "girls you gotta work hard and create a good life for yourself' don't rely on men!" there will be a bunch of comments calling her a pick me. These are the things that OP is talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:28 PM
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Everybody wants to go on trips and adventures and stay in nice hotels and eat good food. But these are things we have to put in the work for. Things we aren't entitled to. It only becomes an issue once the entitlement comes into play. Which is what certain corners of social media promotes to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:18 PM
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I think he's talking more about those "soft girl luxury life manifestation" pages. Where it's footage of some woman sitting on a yacht and the caption's like "when you stop putting up with dusty men and manifest the luxurious life you deserve" or some shit. I've seen these a lot and they usually have like 100k+ likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 03:01 PM
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Because there's so many bad takes and delusion on here that it rage baits my monkey brain into continuous engagement
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 04:49 PM
2

Uhhh only 8%? Sounds like women gotta step it up. Periodt 💅💅💅
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 06:34 PM
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The only way that a man would start getting flooded with attention after his thirties if he didn't get any action before would be if he actually used his 20s to develop himself into the kind of guy that gets attention. This means making more money, climbing up the social ladder, buying nice clothes, developing a muscular physique, learning to be more socially adept. Nothing magical will happen to the slobby socially avoidant 29 year old guy working at Subway when he turns 30. It'll only get wors…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 04:06 PM
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They think it's not productive and that you should be spending your free time doing something that can improve your finances or social status. Either that or they feel like it's taking time away from them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 06:17 PM
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And the people who do go out a ton are in massive amounts of CC debt, don't have an emergency fund, little savings, are basically fucked if anything happens. And literally because they're going out with the purpose of appearing more attractive/interesting as a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:31 PM
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Even if you're discouraged, you can still do it. You don't have to listen to those mfs, just be ready to accept any social consequences (which don't really matter)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 05:17 PM
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Counterpoint: the take that men are coping for being conformists by claiming that women are conformist by default is a cope by women who are compensating for the fact that they're conformists by default
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:41 PM
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I feel like you can't make a declaration like this unless you've tried dating as a man who's average height, makes an average salary, non-model looks. I definitely don't buy into the whole doom and gloom outlook that is pedalled by some but calling it "easy" could be misrepresenting a lot of people's real experiences. If the bar is in hell for men, it's also in hell for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 04:28 PM
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It is a lot of ego. And if bleeds over into other things, like paying for dates. The same way that guys will think "so she's not gonna sleep with me on the first date, but she probably has with other dudes". The mirror situation for women is "he's not putting forth explicit effort to approach me, but he probably has for other women". Or "he's taking me to a coffee shop on our first date but I bet he's wine and dined other women". Human ego is very fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 04:15 PM
1

Redditors in general are fucking insane. Have you seen the scenarios they make up and the shit they whine about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 03:16 PM
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They don't care about your career if you're insanely hot and they can show you off and you're good in bed. They're not gonna take some frumpy woman with no money or career just because she's willing to raise his kids lmao. These men have options that transcend what you can understand
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:50 PM
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This all seems fine (financially supporting YOUR parents is fucking wild though), just don't peddle the "the bar is literally in hell" narrative. Cause it's not. That's closer to being true for men than it is the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:36 PM
5

Based on the downvotes this somehow offended some people which is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:11 PM
7

So I've actually done the sneaking alcohol into bars thing three times. The first girl laughed about it and thought it was great and was all over me the rest of the date. It was a great time. The second I could tell was put off by it, but she was kinda unpleasant in other ways so it was whatever lol. The third girl also wasn't a fan but said something like "if you're too cheap to buy drinks, I'll just buy yours". And she did. Also a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 07:10 PM
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Not me. I try and actively signal the fact that I'm cheap on dates. I'll use gift card at mid tier restaurants. I'll sneak alcohol into bars. This is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:56 PM
7

She's the kind of woman that incels think all women are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:00 PM
12

Yeah but shouldn't they be taking the onus to regulate their emotions, as you have defined emotional labor to be? The thing is, it usually isn't men who cry about emotional labor. Some women really act like it's a women-specific thing to have to deal with your partner when they're being overly emotional, angry and perhaps even irrational. Like it's insane. Men have been dealing with it forever! We just shrugged it off as "yeah my girl's just tripping right now haha" instead of trying to weaponiz…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:46 PM
13

This is anecdotal but the amount of emotional labor imposed onto me by women during relationships has been astronomically one sided. They start crying out of the blue and you ask them what's the matter? "I don't know". Then you ask what can I do to help? "I don't know". Then they later admit to you that they just had anxiety about going into work that day after you tried comforting for 30 minutes. It's like man this is draining.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:26 PM
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For me personally, even if a woman that I'm attracted to insists that we only be friends and that it won't go any further, I'd be okay with that and just remain friends with her. Because the world is large and there's plenty of attractive women out there that aren't her. And I can empathize with the idea that somebody is just looking for a friend and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:42 AM
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If a man is loving a woman unconditionally, that's their bad. Have some standards, don't be a doormat. No relationship is better than one where you're being drained of your energy and resources and getting nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:30 PM
13

Sure, if a woman is making six figures, it's more reasonable for her to go after a man making similar. But what about the women making 40k. Or unemployed women. Still asking for six figs? Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:26 PM
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Zero. If the dude being sexualized has a particularly nice physique or style it even motivates me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 10:25 PM
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Women are fragile creatures and they want to be treated as such but not in an overt way and without it ever being explicitly acknowledged. Very fine line you gotta walk in order to avoid all the issues lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:58 PM
2

Nobody enjoys it. Once AI replaces me I'm not going back to school to do whatever bullshit accounting tech certification they're gonna come out with. I'm going to become a violent criminal instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:22 PM
6

Why's the second guy a loser. He seems chill as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:02 PM
18

Not sure what's worse tbh, being born addicted to opiates or being an accountant
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 10:02 PM
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Disagree. Both people in the partnership owe it to each other to maintain a healthy lifestyle. If one party starts severely slacking in this regard, it's grounds enough for the other to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:36 PM
2

Women often say "delulu is the solulu". It works for men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:56 AM
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Lmao x 2
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 10:46 PM
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Yeah but that relates to being a victim of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:26 PM
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Going out to concerts and sporting events and clubs every weekend sounds expensive as hell. I have friends who do this and they're deep in credit card debt despite making decent salaries. The economy is not good right now and prices are nuclear. I'm not gonna put myself in credit card debt to appeal to women. You don't even have to do all this. You see a woman you want to ask out while you're out and about, go and do it. Maybe she says yes, maybe no. You can also just use dating apps. Dates don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:44 PM
1

Same thing with women who advertise the fact that they enjoy cooking for their partner. Other (more lazier) women see this and feel some kind of resentment because they think that men will see that and expect their woman to cook for them, so they try and push back against it and gaslight by saying things like "ugh, he can't cook for himself? What is he, a child?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:22 PM
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Yes, women are not inherently more moral than men. Default human nature is self serving. But higher testosterone in men will compel them to act on self serving impulses more often. It's not that women are above those thoughts/impulses. They just don't have "balls" (literally and metaphorically) to act on them as much on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:46 PM
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The whole point of my comment was to challenge the bar is in hell notion. And even then, "dressing to their body type" will be a subjective assessment no matter what. Everything about her comment was terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:17 PM
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Sure, but does this mean that the bar is in hell? If most men do not optimize their wardrobes? I'm sure most men have a lot of things on their plate and do not prioritize these things. I'd say that the bare minimum is keeping in shape and wearing reasonably sized clothes. Can I say that the bar is in hell if most women I meet are slightly overweight and do not meet my fitness standards? Or if I don't like their makeup? Or if their hairstyles do not compliment their facial features?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:39 PM
2

Nah, if you break down what she said it's just complete nonsense. She's implying that straight men (what % of straight men? 80% 100%? Who knows) do not know how to dress for their body type (every man has a different body and clothes typically come in 4-5 sizes. Unless a guy is 250 lbs and wearing size small, this means nothing) and this somehow means that the bar is in "hell". So long as the man is wearing properly sized clothing within the parameters being offered to them (the vast majority of…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:28 PM
5

Yeah I think I, along with any other man, can just dress however I want. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:21 PM
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"Dress for their body type" means dressing in a way that appeals to your personal preferences. This statement means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:16 PM
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If anybody unironically says the bar is in hell it's your cue to stop taking them seriously and stop engaging with them. They're just venting and will respond emotionally if you try and challenge them. Waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:14 PM
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If you are friends with a woman, just don't do anything for her that you wouldn't do for a male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:38 PM
2

Alcohol just turns you into a mess tbh. It's really the psychedelics and psychoactives that really open up your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:06 AM
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Yeah but sometimes you just gotta go for it. Live your life, create some stories
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:17 AM
1

Bruh why didn't you arrange to meet up. You fumbled so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:46 AM
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I think if you both find each other attractive and enjoy each other's personalities and spend a lot of time with each other, feelings will inevitably begin to arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:56 AM
2

Tbh I just like the music
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:30 AM
2

Well I'm a man telling you it's good advice and you should take it (obviously do your research about drugs and be careful). Rave chicks will not throw around SA accusations so easily. They'll cheat on you but they won't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:23 AM
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There is a certain subsection of women who think that a man opening up to them and being vulnerable means that the man is imposing upon them "emotional labour". I'm sure you've heard that phrase tossed around a lot. "Oh im not doing emotional labour for a man and if I do then he has to provide X or Y for me". Completely ignoring the fact that she herself is constantly doing the same thing to him. These kinds of women are not empathetic and have some inherent entitlement woven into their beings. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 12:26 AM
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Also VERY important to monitor your alcohol consumption as well while you're on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:16 PM
4

"I smoked one weed and now I'm paralyzed" PSA type response 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:56 PM
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Mf's talking bout the male loneliness epidemic need to take MDMA and go to an electronic music festival. Life changing stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 08:35 PM
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Be level headed and recognize when you are being overly emotional/unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:17 PM
1

Unfortunately from my experience the norm has been women making similar salaries or working similar jobs to me expecting me to still pay for most things. But maybe I've just been getting very unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 08:05 PM
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Yup I'm the cringe master. I am so jealous of all the pussy you must get. Big ups bro, you are killing it and your parents are proud that you are crushing all these cringe Redditors 💯💯💯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:35 PM
3

Makes sense. I will make 50/50 a standard for myself moving forward in my dating endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:25 PM
1

How are you calling anybody a child when you're advertising the fact that you get laid on Reddit lmao. Really cringe look bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:25 PM
7

Man like 3 women ever have offered to split dates with me and I've gotten extremely petty responses whenever I don't just pay for everything, am I just getting extremely unlucky lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:11 PM
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Sure, but making an absolute definitive statement that dating is not a drain on one's resources when you are not the one expected to foot the majority or even all of the bills on dates is just extremely tone deaf. Unless you actually are footing the majority of the bills for the men you date in which case I commend you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:20 PM
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Dating is objectively a net drain on your resources lmao. How is this even a point of contention. Even if the woman did offer to split every time I'd still be spending money going out to restaurants and attending events I have no interest in just to appease her. It's a drain. Is it worth it? In some cases maybe. But it's a drain, especially in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:54 PM
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Men in women dominated fields XD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:27 PM
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It just seems like we have different philosophies about this. I would consider that person who accepts them a victim of their own sensibilities, just like other people who make bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:50 PM
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Maybe for smaller things. But for considerable things like finances and physical fitness, it's just a terrible look
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:26 PM
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Why? If you insist on a partner that has favorable traits that you yourself do not have, it's kind of cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:16 PM
4

Like 80% of programs being offered in uni are borderline worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:15 PM
3

I hear ya. But I'm young and in this economy money is very consequential for me. So more cowardly for my situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:07 AM
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Okay? Should they not? Pay half the dinner, pay half the bills. Share the household chores. What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:12 PM
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"incapable", "whining", you're really hitting all the generic gaslighting terms lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah, you've already established that the relationship is contingent on the fact that the man is paying for certain things. The man understands this and just tells you what you want to hear in order to avoid the argument. Also, discussing the topic isn't "whining". It's an issue that affects men and we're allowed to discuss it. That was a failed attempt at gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:10 PM
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Ah yes, you can read their minds and know that they enjoyed paying for it and that it didn't breed any resentment in them. What a profound thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:50 PM
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Are you really arguing against the claim that society at large pressures men to pay for first dates? Can I also argue that there's no pressure for women to look or behave a certain way? Or is that off base. I mean, give me a break. I usually always pay for first dates. I technically chose to do so. Doesn't mean I enjoy it or think I should be obligated to do so. I'm just following prevailing social convention and now that I'm thinking about it, it's kind of a cowardly thing to do. The last time …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:39 PM
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They probably felt pressured to do so and have been fed the idea that if they don't pay there will be no relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:16 PM
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The funniest part about this is the attempted gaslighting. "Oh you don't want to pay for the bill, I didn't realize you were in your feminine energy era!" Or "oh you're not paying the bill, I didn't realize that this was just a meeting between friends, but now I understand!" It's not even the gaslighting itself that I find offensive. It's the fact that some women actually think it could possibly work
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:13 PM
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You can also just offer to pay your part when the bill comes, before the guy says anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:11 PM
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Man I have had like the opposite experience. Low-key I'm curious what dating a boss bitch type would be like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:07 PM
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There are some things worth getting worked up over and this isn't one of them imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:30 PM
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Yeah buddy just cause you haven't met them doesn't mean they don't exist LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:21 PM
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Yeah it's still a gamble on what kind of relationship you end up being in. Didn't buy your girl that handbag she was glaring at? Now starts the resentment and the mind games and the withholding of sex. You kinda have to sift through a bunch of BS to get into a relationship worth hanging onto and if you've gotten even slightly unlucky, you're thousands in the hole by the time you've managed to find it. Or you just don't end up finding it at all. A lot of my friends are in relationships that I wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:43 PM
1

The fact that so many dudes still allow themselves to be in relationships like this is a huge part of the problem tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 05:16 PM
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Half of the dudes I know are in relationships that are not sincere and lean towards transactional. These women just get their BF's to buy them a bunch of shit and become resentful when they don't. Fucking escorts isn't much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:58 PM
1

You said that straight men have prostates as well, implying that getting railed in the ass by their male friends is somehow an option to fulfill their desire for intimacy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:28 PM
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Imagine being advised to try being sexual with people you are not attracted to at all. Just imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:23 PM
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Unironically these dudes should just hire an escort. The amount of money spent on average taking a woman out before you get laid is basically the price of an escort. Framed this way, it's probably an easier pill to swallow for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:19 PM
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So what you're saying is that dudes who can't attain intimacy with a woman should just accept that outcome and hug their friends? Yeah that's not going to appease them in the slightest like at all. Maybe the ones with low testosterone, but that's it. And what do you mean "especially" males won't get partners. If the gender ratio is 50/50, which it is in the west, why would males specifically be the odd ones out? This is not a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:09 PM
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Whether women do or do not find physically fit men attractive is irrelevant to me. I exercise and train for my own sake and it has become an integral part of my being. I'll never stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:19 PM
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This is an uncomfortable truth but there's nothing to be done. The world is an inequitable place rife with injustice and hypocrisy. You can't change other people's desires or how they feel about things. The human mind is stubborn and most people's egos won't allow themselves to reflect upon anything in any meaningful way. I agree that the class struggle is one of the biggest societal issues but this is going to be a messy thing to deal with and it'll only get worse before it gets better. The onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:15 PM
5

It's easy not to be fat. Harder to look like Jason Momoa lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:18 PM
8

It likely helps to recognize that pretty much every aspect of the world is unfair in one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:17 PM
4

I think they think that achieving a ripped physique is easier than it really is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:08 PM
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Personally I think it's kinda cute
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:01 PM
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Interesting. You're sure that men become bitter when passively rejected but you only "think" that maybe women might as well. And the case that you've offered for this is also framed in a way where the men are being unreasonable and that the ensuing bitterness on behalf of the women is somewhat justified. I presume you feel the same about the cases where it swings the other way, which of course you should. And no, men can feel grossed out when there are large age gaps as well. But it's a case by …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:09 PM
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It's just that you've framed men getting bitter about women's preferences in a certain way. Just wondering how you feel about the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:50 PM
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What does an unemployed 25 year old woman have in common with a 30 year old finance bro with a master's degree/CFE working in midtown Manhattan? Ew. Why is she interested in somebody who's well established in their career while she's just coasting along in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:21 PM
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Do you get bitter when you see your favorite male celebrity dating a woman 15 years younger than them. If not, do you think it's justified for another woman to feel bitter about something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:16 PM
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Are you also a stoner who's into mixed martial arts. If so then Godspeed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:27 AM
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They're all yours bro. Go wild
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 11:40 PM
4

Certain elements of both conservatism and liberalism are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:54 AM
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Yeah man, you're really just not gonna convince me that these are equivalent things at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:39 AM
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Well at least with casinos you have a chance of winning something lmao. And credit cards and loans aren't really comparable because the terms are clearly set out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:26 AM
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I only dislike the ones that allow clearly mentally unwell or terminally lonely dudes to donate thousands of dollars to them just to say their names in the chat or some shit. Like I know the onus is on these dudes to get help and stop doing that shit, but they are still feeding into and benefiting from something absolutely terrible
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:11 AM
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I don't think there's actually any reliable way to measure how often sex is happening in LTR's. In any case there's like 1000 variables that go into that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:27 AM
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Male gym culture is basically: Guy has a better physique than you = juicehead with shriveled testicles Guy is bigger than you but not lean = fatass Guy is leaner than you but skinny = does he even lift I find it all greatly entertaining tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:53 PM
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Absolutely not, sounds like a recipe for disaster
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:02 AM
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Do you think you have the ability to make the kind of money for the lifestyle you want to live on your own accord?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:27 PM
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So you think the OP's post was reasonable? It's a bait account trying to make women look bad. The fact that you're defending it is pretty telling lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:06 PM
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Bro this line of thinking is pathetic. Respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 08:19 PM
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If you want to go ahead and not sleep with any man until he puts a ring on it, then I support your decision, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:21 PM
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With this logic, you also chose to sleep with the guy. So it's not a big deal either because it was on you. "Oh but he manipulated me into sleeping with him". Well the girl manipulated me into spending money on her. I mean, what point are we trying to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:57 PM
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So don't have sex for the first 3-5 dates. If the guy can't wait that long then dump him. Also if I ever become single again I'm no longer paying for first dates. If that's an ick for her so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:51 PM
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Likely a difference in expectations. I would overall say that my experience has been positive despite being ghosted like 8 times lol. (I expected more ghosting than that)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:30 PM
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Yeah sucking corporate dick working 50 hour weeks in order to make 70k a year isn't a great existence either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:19 AM
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I'd argue it's actually the opposite of pathetic. If, as a dude, you're able to finesse your way into being a stay at home dad you've gotta have some good dick game or be really funny or something. (Doesn't count if you're just really good looking, no skill was needed there)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:16 AM
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All of these things are controlling. I think if you don't have a strong sense of self esteem and self confidence you shouldn't be dating because you'll likely get taken advantage of or forced into accepting compromising positions. The moment you are confronted with bullshit like this you should call it out and if it happens again you should leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:58 PM
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I'm just glad that not every woman is as entitled and delusional as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:43 PM
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Bait posts are getting a bit weak there Windmill. Gotta put more effort into the next one to be convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:16 PM
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I've always found this to be a curious topic. There's this whole narrative about "marriage actually benefits men much more than it does women! Unmarried men are depressed while the women are thriving!" If this is really the case, then shouldn't women be lukewarm at the prospect of getting married and instead embrace being long term gf's without ever expecting to be proposed to? But that doesn't seem to be the general attitude towards it. All the time you see situations where the woman becomes re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:49 PM
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I'm genuinely curious how you want this to be received. Like do you want women to validate it and say something like "yeah you're right we are very shallow and only date millionaire surgeon Chad!" Or do you want them to push back against it and say that status and money aren't the end all be all? Like either way I feel like you'll be rubbed the wrong way. Honestly what is even the point of this post. It's common sense that money and status will open up an entire new world for you but that it's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:10 PM
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I'm almost certain that half the posts on this sub are by people pretending to be the other gender and coming up with the most off putting posts they can think of in order to paint the other gender in a bad light.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 05:32 AM
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Just be un-manipulatable bro
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:40 PM
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The 4B shit seems more like performance art than anything else. It's basically MGTOW. "Women r so bad I'm just gonna do my own thing you know!" It's the female equivalent. "Men r bad and we ain't gonna fuck you no more!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:27 PM
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Yeah, all this shit just makes me really never want to get married lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:16 PM
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Oh yeah by get nothing I meant no alimony. Whatever property you came into the marriage with should remain yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:01 PM
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I think it's pretty simple. Whoever cheats gets nothing. Edit: just looked through your posts. You are definitely some weird dude larping as a woman for reasons beyond my comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:01 PM
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This take is so bad that it almost sounds like a passport bro pretending to be a woman who's against passport bros in order to make their opposition seem extremely deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:22 PM
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I mean it's kinda true. Most women are not so cruel that they'd call some unattractive guy who approaches them creepy out loud and try to humiliate them, so long as he isn't overly aggressive. They kinda just look at him with this expression of soft pity and they almost look embarrassed on the dude's behalf lmao. Source: people watching at clubs and raves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:03 PM
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Men are often told that if they are in a bad financial situation, they shouldn't even think about dating. And the same thing should apply to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:25 PM
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When you see shit like that, just respond like the women do and call them a incel/femcel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:05 PM
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Just don't follow their rules bro. Be in control of your own life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:10 AM
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Blatantly hating the other gender just makes you look bad as a person. If it's widespread enough it means we're failing as a species
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:26 AM
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Women with combat skills hit different
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:53 PM
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For every screeching blue haired liberal, there exists an equivalent screeching Maga supporter. I didn't need social media to tell me this. I used to hang out with these people. Young men in the trades who take out 20k loans for a mustang or Dodge charger who get belligerently drunk and then start ranting about shit they clearly know nothing about. "Yeah bro Trump gonna save us from the libtards and terrorists bro". These people are real and there's a lot of them. But at least they are more fun …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 05:05 PM
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Dude, I'm sure a good portion of people who voted for Trump did so solely because he's loud and brash and says edgy shit and Trump's team knows this. And those people are just as retarded as the Reddit liberals. The options that Americans had this election were hot garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:59 PM
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It depends on the woman. Obviously a real quality person with a lot to offer would justifiably have very high standards. But some woman in 30k debt who don't date no brokies is a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 03:32 PM
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In all seriousness, if I saw somebody fucking with a disabled person, I would go scorched earth on that fucker.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:26 AM
5

Drops down to like 40% tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:50 PM
5

That's the type of situation dudes be fantasizing about in the shower (I'm dudes)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:13 PM
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I'm also confident I can easily beat 95% of able bodied men in a physical altercation, provided they are unarmed. So I think I'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 10:02 PM
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If I saw anybody being physically attacked by somebody else and it's very clearly not a fair fight and one party is clearly incapable of defending themselves, I'm gonna step in (as long as I don't see a knife/gun). The idea that they may or may not hold reprehensible beliefs just wouldn't cross my mind at that moment. I want to live in a civilized world where that kind of shit doesn't happen and so I'll contribute my efforts to creating that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 09:42 PM
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Nobody can have it all unless they were born under the most luckiest of circumstances, which is like 1 in a million people. Thinking otherwise is just deluded entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:00 PM
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Low income, low physical fitness, low social status is what I would guess is failing at life in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:21 PM
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Validation is earned. Hard to get, yes, but that's how it is. Besides, you don't want validation for nothing/simply existing. That's fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 11:09 PM
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This is a really empathetic response, much appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:47 PM
4

Boss babe EASILY
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:44 PM
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I wouldn't treat her any differently, I would just be more hyper aware of any red flags that pop up. And if none ever do, then that's great!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:12 PM
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Of course I couldn't be sure, which is why I wouldn't immediately leave. But the real world is hardly ever idealistic. Which is why I would prepare myself accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:55 PM
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I'm trying to align my idea of the absolute perfect woman with one that would be partying with NFL players on a yacht and it just doesn't work. But let's say that she's kinda close-ish to my ideal and I found that picture in her garbage, I'd think to myself "damn that's crazy", and continue the relationship as usual. But I would be well aware that she could cheat/leave me at any time and I would be fully ready to bounce at the first red flag. Basically I would just accept the fact that this rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:10 PM
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They don't have to respect the guy lmao. Like I said, it's long term prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 04:10 PM
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Bro gold digging is just long term prostitution. They don't have to be attracted to or like the guy, nor does the guy like anything about the woman beyond her looks. It's a pretty simple and straightforward arrangement tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 03:53 PM
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For a fulfilling and satisfying life, then yes, for the vast majority of people. But you already know how people are going to respond. "Obviously companionship and intimacy aren't needs! You'll still be alive after all! XD"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 02:28 PM
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I enjoy male power fantasy content for sure, but I wouldn't expect most women to share that enjoyment. As for athletes, the only sport I follow or give a shit about is MMA, and quite frankly those guys deserve all the respect and admiration in the world. Those guys work incredibly hard for what is not very good compensation (for most of them).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 10:32 PM
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I watched a few episodes of the show and it was trash as hell LMAO. It's written like a female social power fantasy, which is fine, but I ain't gonna enjoy watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 08:12 PM
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Oh yeah lol. Now that I'm thinking about it, maybe there's some truth to this. I've been to a lot of raves where some dudes in the crowd try and hit on absolutely anything. Like they start with the attractive ones and when that doesn't work they slowly move down the totem pole. And it's a truly bizarre sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:22 PM
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They can, but they cannot coast in the relationship like a lot of more attractive women. They have to put in a lot of effort. Either that or they just latch onto a dude with extremely low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 02:15 PM
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They don't. I'm with the blue pillers when they say that extremely unattractive women are not easily hooking up with average/attractive guys. That's not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:39 AM
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That all men would fuck any woman just for the sake of fucking because we're all feral creatures that can't control our impulses. Some of us have standards. And I've seen some of the people out there in the wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:24 AM
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Yeah I think this is pretty much true. Most of the discourse on this sub basically boils down to trying to prove that one gender exhibits more terrible behaviour on average than the other lmao. But honestly I don't think there should be that much of a discrepancy. We are the same species after all. At the same time, I think a lot of the complaints being brought forth by both sides are valid, because a lot of people are just nightmare assholes to deal with. The best way to go about this is for ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:15 PM
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Why would I add that layer of complexity into my life when I could just find a woman who doesn't have kids. That's pretty much it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:47 PM
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I would find fulfillment in providing for my partner if I knew she would do the exact same thing for me, including the work and effort it would entail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 12:25 AM
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Depends on her height. For 5'11 and above, 180 isn't so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:18 PM
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What should be done here is to just continue living your life however you were going to live it and not taking the people who say those things seriously. Like why would you allow those sentiments to hold any power over you lmao. The people who say those things do it as a means of personal attack and if you just disregard it, then they've lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:24 PM
2

It's to qualify that while it wouldn't give me the "ick" to see her getting beat up, it would make me think more of her if she were fighting back really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 04:12 PM
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I will say this. If she was fighting back really hard and refusing to give up, it would be really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 05:07 AM
2

Oh I just remembered another one. There was a couple in which the dude was unemployed and the girl posted his LinkedIn profile on her IG story with the caption "somebody PLEASE hire him! He needs to start working!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:35 PM
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More or less equal attractiveness, but the dudes made much less money. I was at a party with one of these couples and while I was talking to the girl (in a larger group), the dude was trying to get her attention and she just ignored him and continued talking. Like just pretended he didn't exist and I was like man this is so awkward lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:04 PM
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I know a few women who are dating men "below" their level. From the brief encounters I've had with them, they treat their partners with blatant disrespect and it's almost uncomfortable to be around. I can't imagine what goes on in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:58 PM
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I've found that when pursuing these kinds of women, the ego isn't really on my side, it's on theirs. I don't mind if they are more educated, make more money, are taller than me. Honestly, all those things would be amazing in a partner, are you kidding me. But those types of women tend to have a really high opinion of themselves, which is fine, but it's also what makes being in a relationship with them insanely difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 02:47 PM
3

The title of the post is "women should find enjoyment in providing for their PARTNER". The comment I made relates to the post. I mean give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:38 PM
3

I think it's painfully obvious I was talking about being wined and dined in the context of a relationship. The fact that you've chosen to view it as if I wanted a random woman to do this for me tells me that you're purposely trying to be a hater because of your own personal biases. You just seem so bitter all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 10:20 PM
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I don't want to be a SAHD. The women I've dated have all worked as well. This post just made me realize that I've never actually been wined and dined despite doing it several times on my end. It'd just be a nice thing to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:11 PM
4

Lol. How do you know I've never wined and dined a woman or done some other grand gesture for them. I see how happy it makes them. It'd just be nice to be on the other side sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 05:03 PM
10

If a woman ever went out of her way to wine and dine me I would literally die and melt into a puddle of flesh juice but I would die happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:20 PM
5

Oh in that case I agree. First dates should be cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 03:10 PM
2

What does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:17 PM
18

Usually, the more matches you get, the more quality matches will be amongst them. You're never gonna get like 4 matches in a month but all 4 are amazing with no duds lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 09:02 PM
1

I said outside of work. I'm doing my CPA right now and it demands a lot of time. Also need to exercise five times a week. And work on my personal projects that I'm actually passionate about in hopes that I can make a career out of it so I'm not working in an office until I'm 85.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:02 PM
1

Because there's not much time because there's like a thousand other things I need to do outside of work in order to ensure that I don't drown in the future in this terrible economic situation we're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:53 PM
1

I love that you would cover the bill and see if he would cover it next time, honestly that's the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:08 AM
1

Absolutely fucking not lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:46 PM
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Man I don't even think it's that deep. There are just certain individuals out there (not just women) who are kinda lazy, feel entitled, like to be coddled, get free shit, etc. I think a healthy relationship is one where you treat your partner like a princess every once in a while but for the most part you're working together as a team and putting in equal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:55 PM
1

Honestly, I am rooting for you. Go get you a sexy non-reading, non-professional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:35 PM
0

Yah you're right. I've been exposed. Good job bud 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:21 PM
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Look, I think you understand exactly what I'm trying to do and are simply trying to frame it as if I'm presenting some meaningless, inane prompt because you personally don't like discussing this topic. I'm not going to play into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:10 PM
7

"men who read" yoooo what 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:43 PM
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I am trying to understand why some women feel one way vs another. In order to understand the underlying psychology of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:24 PM
2

All I have to say is keep it up! Your future partner will appreciate this more than you know. (So long as he doesn't have an ego about it lol, but those guys are kinda weird to be around anyway)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:14 PM
1

Fair enough! I appreciate that you approach dating like this. It's very refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:43 PM
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When I make it big I am likely going to be pretty stingy just to guard my assets so you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:38 PM
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This is a very reasonable response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:27 PM
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I love that you recognize that! And yeah, it's not about being so cheap that they wouldn't cover a coffee but the expectation that he is obligated to or else the relationship is null. For the record, if I was out with a girl and I knew that this was her philosophy regarding this topic, I would absolutely go ahead and splurge on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:18 PM
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Not all men are the same. I have definitely paid for the first date even when I was absolutely not interested, just to get it over with. Honestly for the girls that I see potential in, I don't immediately offer to pay, I wait to see if they offer first, just to gauge what kind of person they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:59 PM
6

So if you guys went to a more expensive place and the bill came out to $100, it would be more acceptable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:43 PM
2

Lol why? It's a noble profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:38 PM
0

Haha there's numerous ladies in this comment section who have answered something like "he can't even treat me to a coffee on a first date? Nope, no second date". It's just interesting to see different perspectives here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:26 PM
7

I would go and help her
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:13 AM
2

There is a simple solution to this. Men should just always go 50/50. Don't let other people's judgements dissuade you from it. On any first date, make it clear that you are going 50/50 and that this will be the norm going forward. If the woman implies that if you get this one, she'll get the next, then go with that. If she doesn't, tell the waiter you're getting separate bills. Obviously try your best to make it a great date for her. Be kind, receptive, playful, listen to her. And if she still g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:59 PM
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The title of the post is bad, I read the actual post and it's even worse. This idea of women being irked by men opening up about their feelings/struggles didn't materialize out of thin air. It's a sentiment that came about due to centuries of experience. The vast majority of women want to feel like princesses in a relationship. The idea that they have thicker skin is laughable. You can try and diminish men's issues as much as you want, but men aren't going to respond like "oh yeah we're just big…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:05 PM
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I mean, even calling this hypothetical dude a creep means that you do care to some degree and that it makes you feel a type of way. Which is the same way men feel when women simp over that tattooed guy who murdered people. And it's fine to feel these things. It's natural. Are you saying we should close off all of our emotional responses to these things? Cause that's not going to happen. When we see bad behaviour, we will always feel some kind of way about it, even if it has nothing to do with us…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 05:35 PM
1

And this topic is part of the broader gender debate. You can't just call insecurity on the elements of it that you don't like/rub you the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:19 PM
1

I think if you really didn't care about this stuff and didn't spare it a thought, you wouldn't be engaging so much on this subreddit and leaving so many defensive comments. Let's be honest with ourselves here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:13 PM
1

"that standard is gross". You don't spend time worrying about it, but it still made you feel a type of way. Just like how men feel a type of way when women fawn over Ted Bundy. They're not thinking about 24/7, but when confronted with the idea, it irks them in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:00 PM
1

You realize that there aren't infinite women on Earth right? The woman who wants Ted Bundy is no longer an option. The pool of available women becomes diminished. It's like, such a clear and obvious point I'm making.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:58 PM
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We'll look at it this way. Let's say there is a guy you know that meets all of your physical/financial preferences. However you find out he only dates 25 year old women. That guy COULD have been a great option for you, but now he's not. I'm sure this would make you feel a type of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:16 PM
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Well, that person COULD have been an option. Which is the source of this anxiety. Men will view the entire population of women in a certain age range to be potential options. And then that pool gradually diminishes based on preferences/traits they don't meet. And the more this pool diminishes the more anxious they get about it. Which is why men push back so much against height/income requirements, which should be much more of a concern as opposed to women who go after criminals. Sure, it doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:11 PM
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They care in the sense that it diminishes their options. If there is an increasing rate of these women, or at least if they get the sense that there is an increasing rate of them, they will feel as if their available pool of potential partners is shrinking which they will then worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:37 PM
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If a woman has $5k+ in credit card debt, there's a good change she's gonna expect you to pay it off if you get with her lmao. The virgin and tattoos are not so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 02:29 PM
5

Is your advice here literally just for women to be prostitutes in their early 20s. This is why 50/50 has gotta be normalized smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:16 PM
1

Honestly, I would love it so much if my partner out earned me. As long as she didn't feel a type of way about it, it would be so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 02:25 PM
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You just gotta get lucky bruh. There are still women out there who are incredibly loyal and appreciative of their partners. If you don't believe that this is true and that all women out there will truly flake once a better option comes along, then just give up on dating, focus on yourself and fuck some escorts every now and then. But I don't think you really believe that and are just venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:27 PM
4

Well you know what they say. Delulu is the solulu 💅💅
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:12 PM
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I'd love to date a rich, attractive, powerful woman who loves me genuinely. But that's so far out of the realm of possibility that I don't even think about it. It's just not realistic in any sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:52 PM
5

You just said that if you have to go 50/50 you have to be 100% interested in the man. And now you're saying that 50/50 is a dealbreaker for men you're extremely interested in. And the 50/50 thing is more about the principal than anything else. It implies that the man's time is less valuable than the woman's so he needs to compensate her in some way for the date, which I do not believe and refuse to engage in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 06:18 PM
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So basically what you're saying is that if a woman is really invested in a man, she will have no qualms about going 50/50. If she's lukewarm about the guy, 50/50 is more of a dealbreaker. Which is something I've already figured out. Which is why I advise all men to go 50/50, even if they can afford to pay for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:30 PM
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Yah. 50/50 no matter what in any and all circumstances and I hope this becomes normalized in the next decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:42 PM
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And lemme guess. "Whoever approaches first should pay for the date teehee!". This is just a roundabout way to keep most of the responsibility of dating on the guy by implying that it benefits us smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:31 PM
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That's not true. That's something you've internalized by being terminally online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:32 PM
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By nice I don't mean acting like a caricature of a Disney character, I mean acting like a well-adjusted person with baseline level of social etiquette. Acting like some hard alpha bro who don't take shit from nobody is unfathomably cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:05 PM
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I'd rather die single and alone than be used as a personal wallet lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:51 PM
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You should still be nice/pleasant to any woman you're trying to court. If she doesn't respond well to it, then she isn't worth trying to court. That's a nightmare relationship waiting to happen. However, just because you're nice doesn't mean you have to be a doormat. Men should be nice/pleasant/courteous/whatever while also maintaining a very low tolerance for bullshit. She blatantly disrespects you once, immediately call her out on it. She blows up on you for some bullshit, walk away and don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:12 PM
7

I'm sure you're just talking about Saudi and Dubai, Qatar. There are poorer Arab countries like Egypt, Algeria, Libya where most dudes are not rich. And they have to still be having families for the population to maintain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:25 AM
2

This might not be the advice you want to hear, but you really just have to pretend like none of those rejections affects you and be a stone wall about it. Like unironically bottle it up and never talk about it and pretend like it has no impact on your self-worth even though it does. Men have zero leeway when it comes to feeling sad/being mopey about this kind of stuff. This is when the whole pick yourself up by your bootstraps thing applies 😂. Fake it till you make it and keep trying and don't c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 04:39 PM
1

Nothing. My emotions are impregnable and I am a fortress of willpower. (PP small, I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:23 PM
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Nothing. My emotions are impregnable and I am a fortress of willpower. (PP small, I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:23 PM
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Nothing. My emotions are impregnable and I am a fortress of willpower. (PP small, I think)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 08:22 PM
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If my partner earned an extremely high salary and did not belittle me for making less than her, holy shit that would be a dream relationship. Yes I will do the dishes and vacuum lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 12:43 AM
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Yah, you're right. Moving forward I will unashamedly NEVER pay for dates again. I will always make a hardline stance that the bill be split.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:29 PM
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"it seems like men have an illogical desire to be loved for who they are?" "Why can't men just accept that they can't be loved for who they are? Is it an ego thing?" What the hell is this post 🤣. Also, it's much harder to find a woman who will split the bill than you may think. Most of the time they don't offer and when they do, they do it in such an unenthusiastic way where it's palpably obvious that there will be no second date if you agree to it. This seems like more of an ego thing on the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:22 PM
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I'd be like no thanks lady! You ain't getting my organs!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 12:50 AM
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Honestly, if BlackRock and private equity firms have their way, only 10% of the population will be having kids and the rest of us will be paying 70% of our salaries to rent a closet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:36 PM
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Uhhh if a woman wants kids and can't afford to live off her savings, she should quit being a brokie and get her money up beforehand???
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 08:59 PM
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I do think the whole "my man gotta make higher than me no matter what I make!" is an extremely toxic attitude that can't be rationalized lmao. It's going to take a long time before this shit dies out but I think eventually it will be reduced to an acceptably low level
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 04:17 PM
1

It improves my life in the sense that it gives me something interesting to look at while I'm slacking at work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 02:35 AM
8

As a man, I also fucking hate car maintenance so I'd probably just laugh/offer a playful response.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:59 PM
2

Yeah man, I don't even look into that deeply lmao. If I ask a hot girl out and she laughs in my face (which admittedly has never actually happened), I'll just think she's gonna be a nightmare of a person for whoever she does end up with lol. Like I'm not going to concede to the idea that she's better or superior to me in any way just cause she's hot. So I really wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 05:16 PM
2

You're allowed to approach people out of your league lmao. If they laugh in your face, it just means they're a fucking asshole and extremely insecure in their own right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:06 PM
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You can meet anybody anywhere, but I think the most important thing that a guy needs to do is adopt a genuine stone cold, don't give a fuck attitude when it comes to rejection. Like even if you approach somebody and they laugh in your face, you need to frame it in a way where it's a character flaw with them and not yourself. Just smile and walk away without saying anything. And of course if they reject you politely, just recognize that it wasn't meant to be at that current moment for what could …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 07:44 PM
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It's def not a thing I just invented. I've seen many discussions about when a woman's brain is "fully developed" and I've seen people claiming this ranges from anywhere between 22 and like 25 lmao. It definitely is a cope from older, bitter women to villainize men their age for not being interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:07 PM
5

Even if the childfree thing wasn't a priority and you just found 26-32 year olds more attractive due to their youthfulness, that would be fine as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 04:02 PM
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As long as the woman is at least like mid 20s, the easy to manipulate thing has always felt like a coping mechanism to me. Same thing with the oh he can't get a woman his age so he goes after younger women because they're easier! Like you're telling me Leonardo DiCaprio can't find a 40 year old woman to settle down with so he goes after the 23 year old model. Not excusing him btw, I think Hollywood is evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:54 PM
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I think what they're saying is that men who are able to "sow their wild oats" at a young age are typically very attractive, perhaps come from a rich family or are exceptionally charismatic/outgoing. If you insist on only dating these kinds of men and disregarding men who may not have had the means to sow their oats and are only recently entering into the dating scene (for whatever reason), it kind of creates a vicious cycle. Which is also where the advice of lying about your dating/sexual histor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 03:13 PM
2

Some very unnecessary edge there 😂. Python was released only 30 years ago. Now we have machines programming other machines. But sure, we're not in the midst of any technological revolution, that's crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 03:16 AM
1

I'd disagree with that actually. We're currently in the midst of the technological singularity. Progression at this point will come fast and it will be exponential.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 01:25 AM
1

That's kind of what I meant when I said the future. In the year 2426 LMAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 10:52 PM
5

I think it's widely accepted that women generally care more about a man's income than vice versa. But this could change in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:22 PM
2

Working at Burger King is a very noble profession... Those guys really are the backbone of society and I think any lady would be lucky to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 09:09 PM
0

A common response to men being wary about women who use them to pay for their meals and other personal things is "well uhhh you probably broke anyways, so don't worry about it". This is an anger-driven deflection from the main point and is likely fueled by a sense that they've been called out for behaviour that they themselves have exhibited in the past. And yes, gold diggers primarily target rich men, but they also have no qualms about manipulating not so rich men into giving up the little they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 06:11 PM
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Ahh, you're trying to bait me into an angry response by insinuating I've implied something that I clearly didn't. All I'll say is that if Kpop men are twinks, the one direction dudes are equally as twinkish. Perhaps you need to address some inherent stereotypes you may have!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 05:51 PM
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Amazing comment!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:50 PM
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It's such an unnecessary comment and has no purpose beyond trying to make people angry while adding nothing else to the conversation. I just cannot take people who make those kinds of comments seriously. It's also a diss that was conceived out of resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:48 PM
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Unintentional racism lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:09 PM
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She probably did receive death threats from some terminally online Redditors. But pretending like there's no issue with her comment and that it's really as straightforward as "she's just saying not all women are gold diggers what's wrong with that??" is hilarious and you know it lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:00 PM
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"Most of you guys don't have any money so I would argue that most women aren't gold diggers" Dismissing men's fears of being used as a personal wallet because we're all brokies anyway periodt 💅. Just a quick look through her comment history and she seems about as bitter and as much of an instigator as the dude posting. Not really somebody worth defending.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:48 PM
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It doesn't count because it absolutely does not reflect what you actually look like, depending on how much you use. I don't have anything against it, and I wouldn't even judge men for using it. But the facts are, it's a mask that you're putting over your actual face, making your features appear more conventionally attractive. The hair transplant thing isn't really equivalent because that man once had that hair that he's trying to get back. If a woman loses hair and gets a transplant to return it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:11 PM
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I don't believe this is true at all. The average man is simply more willing to have sex with more women than vice versa for whatever complex biological reasons. Also, women wear make up which skews things heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:47 PM
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Clingy is not good when you get the sense that they are relying on you for too much, as if you are the main source of their happiness. That much pressure starts to make you feel a bit uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 04:11 PM
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And those children live absolutely god awful existences bruh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 02:17 PM
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I also met my current gf on an app, but I saw maybe about a dozen other women over the course of a few years before her. Those all ended with ghosting or some variation of I'm not interested in pursuing it further, even though I thought the dates all went really well. Please don't think that online dating is easy for men just because you met some guys in their forties who told you otherwise lmao. It's possible they just got lucky or did have terrible years on the apps before they finally met the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:23 PM
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Not sure. But assuming the hooker economy reflects the state of the rest of the country... probably too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:25 PM
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Ah. I hear AUS economy is cooked as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:14 PM
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Sounds like you might be from Canada. RIP us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:03 PM
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Well the economy is kind of insane right now. Especially in Canada where I am. Nothing is affordable and meals that should cost $9-15 have now ballooned to $15-25. And I can't really control what my dates order and sometimes they get drinks. And then I have to tip on top of that so the total bill ends up coming out to like $60-70 which isn't bad for a one off, but most dates usually don't go anywhere which means I need to rinse and repeat and it ends up just burning a huge hole in my wallet. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:58 PM
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My favorite response is "of course we can split! It's no problem. There just won't be a second date". It's like ok... Great 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:13 PM
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Lol I've never actually asked a girl to go dutch on a date because I feel too much social pressure to just pay. Kind of spineless, but it is what it is. The few times that the girl has offered to pay, she's asked it in a very unenthusiastic manner like "I guess we can like... Split the bill? If that's what you want?" And then I just sigh on the inside and pay for it anyway. There's only been one girl I've gone out with who was firm in her decision to pay and didn't make me second guess it. I sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:48 PM
2

As long as you consider hoe phases for either gender to be equally immoral, I can get behind your sentiment. At least it's consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:32 PM
1

I don't believe the situation regarding human nature you've presented is necessarily true, at least not as bad as what you've described. But if it is the case and humanity can't figure out a way to remedy it, then we were never meant to be an advanced civilization and we should just sit back and try to at least derive some amusement from our impending extinction. Just view it as a dark sitcom and try to enjoy the show lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:05 PM
2

I like debauchery era
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 04:18 PM
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I think you're over complicating this whole thing lmao. 40 year old guy becomes successful, self actualized, etc. and goes to Ibiza to party. He sees some attractive women at a beach club, goes up to them, flexes his money a bit and then he parties and sleeps with them. At which point in this process is the dude supposed to be like "hey, I just want to make sure your brain has completed its development process, I don't want there to be any fucked up power dynamics here baby". She's a young woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:26 PM
1

So many people are getting hung up on the word "entitled". Obviously I didn't mean it in the sense that every woman should be obligated to suck this hypothetical man's dick because he's reached success. I meant it more as he's inherently justified to pursue the life he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:03 PM
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I'm not a red pill guy, I think that shit's cringe as fuck. I once read a few pages of Rollo Tomassi's alpha male book years ago cause I was curious and I nearly got AIDS. Still doesn't change the fact that it takes some men much longer to self-actualize than others. But this shouldn't preclude them from living the life they've always wanted to live, which for most men involves fucking attractive women in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:55 PM
2

Hell yeah dude! Sounds like you're killing it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:42 PM
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It's probably because he wasn't in the public eye so much. I mean, maybe he was but I've never heard of him. It seems that in recent years there's been a lot of pushback against celebrity men dating younger women. Like whenever a well liked male celebrity is revealed to be dating a woman 15-20 years younger a lot of the comments go something along the lines of "ugh I was such a fan of him and now I'm disappointed in his creepy behaviour! ☹️" Mostly coming from older women. And it's just interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:41 PM
1

Ok, this man should only fuck 26 year old models then 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:30 PM
3

"as someone who has his Chad days" 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:23 PM
14

Dude, most of the shit being posted on here is redundant and doesn't need a thread. We're just having fun here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:08 AM
1

You're calling me a red pill cultist but I don't even know what "DHV" is supposed to mean lmao. I only ever browse this subreddit at work and thought it'd be fun to make a silly little post. Also almost no dudes I went to college with got laid in college. But to be fair they were mostly engineers and had no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:07 AM
-6

I mean a twenty year process of becoming self-actualized isn't improving "a bit" lmao. And "entitled" in this case more so means that he's justified in his motivations to pursue something. Words can have numerous definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:55 AM
-1

TRT + Hair transplant homie. That'll cover those bases.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 05:47 AM
2

The easiest solution to this would be to ask women out on coffee dates/cheap dates anyway. And if she refuses, it probably wasn't going to work out anyway. Obviously this would be an issue if absolutely no women would accept a coffee date. But that's not reality. Some rando chick on tik tok legitimately does not represent all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:14 AM
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