Simps and Pickmes get used interchangeably often but the results of those types of people couldn't be more different. For instance, despite various women claiming they want this princess treatment or guys pining over them, more often then not they treat guys who exhibit such behaviors towards them as annoying desperate creeps they want to avoid. Then gravitate more towards men who exhibit more stoic indifference towards them.

On the flip side, how many guys you hear complaining about women simping for them? Not many. There was a post recently on PPD by a woman complaining about another woman bragging online about basically ignoring what her single friends advised and now being engaged. There's a growing trend of women posting how they're going above and beyond to cater to their men and the ones calling them Pickmes and complaining are only women. Yet these "Pickmes" are married or engaged. Meaning the behavior has gotten them what they wanted.

On the flip side though, how many men have gotten what they wanted from simping? Any trends of that working or famous simps? The most viral simp I can think of was 6ft+ Derrick Jaxn, who wasn't even really a simp. Dude just pretended to simp to sell books and targeted to women. His own wife said he was quadruple timing her in college and he had side chicks coming out of the woodworks talking about how he knocked them up. So yeah, not a simp. So yeah, although both groups are talks about like they're equally negative behavior, one group is actually seeing success from the behavior, while the other has been failing badly.