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DATING ADVICEComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 04:47 PM
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RELATIONSHIPSComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen17/07/24 11:30 PM
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DATING ADVICEComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 11:04 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen30/03/25 03:20 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen21/11/24 05:31 PM
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DATING ADVICEComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 01:33 AM
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Comfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen24/02/25 02:40 PM
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RELATIONSHIPSComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen11/02/25 02:59 PM
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DATING ADVICEComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 02:38 PM
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DATING ADVICEComfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 01:48 PM
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Comfortable_Funny496/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 09:40 PM
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I just want to add that if you do have the conversation with him, be ready to walk a away if you sense that he is not on the same page to avoid getting hurt and wasting your time if you are interested in a long-term relationship with him. If I were you I would not keep things casual if I expected more/wanted more in my heart. I hope everything goes great :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/25 10:31 PM
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My friends and ex boyfriend actually made this joke too and I was never offended and joked back and found it quite funny! However, you can tell from the way a person says it and the conversation after if it's more than a joke or not. I mentioned in another comment but he'd have a drink and just look me dead in the eyes and out of nowhere say "you have a hate for America deep in your heart. You know why? because it's in your blood. You can never change it" just hearing this over and over again wh…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 01:51 AM
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Thank you so much for your advice, that's such a great resource and i will definitely look into it! Our dynamic was actually quite playful. We both teased each other a lot and when I felt I was crossing a line (such as mocking him, which he hated) I would stop. But I didn't get the same reaction from him after asking him to not make certain jokes about my country, especially when he had a drink or two and his guard was down, so a lot of what he said stuck with me and affected my self-image a lit…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/25 01:32 AM
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My mom is truly an amazing mom (even though she lives far away back home she supports me just like she is sitting right next to me), and I can tell that you are an amazing mom as well and your kids are so lucky to have you to guide them, so congrats to them :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 06:07 PM
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Thank you so much for your response! Now that multiple people say that he is not ready for commitment, I am starting to believe it. It's just that since our second date back in the summer he told me he wants a family and kids so I thought he was genuinely looking for a committed relationship. And you are right, there are a lot of women who wanted a serious relationship with him who were great, so if he wanted to settle down, he could have done it by now. I am deciding between cutting him off com…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 06:03 PM
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My relationship was great! We were together for two years when I was in college and he was working (he was older than me, he was 30) He was very consistent, introduced me to his parents within 1 year of us dating, then I met his whole family, everything was great. He worked in his father's firm and wanted to have his own business and found a position in one of the Middle Eastern countries but I wanted to stay in the US. He suggested that we do long-distance but knowing myself, I know it wouldn't…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 05:57 PM
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Thank you so much for your great advice! I will definitely look into the book and study the content you linked! Yes, he has told me about his past and asked about mine. He says he wants a family and kids and his own "empire." The first time he ended things with me was because I was in my gap year and unsure of where I would be located this year. He reconnected with me after I got into graduate school in our area and has asked me out to dinner but he has been playing games: for example, he texts …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 05:54 PM
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This is a bit heart-breaking but I think this is what I need to hear, so thank you for being honest. My mom told me this a couple of times and I thought she was being overly cautious. She says this man is just starting to see the fruit of his hard work (he has been a business owner for a year) and will not give up on all the attention he is getting from women due to his looks and financial power and won't commit to one person anytime soon unless he finds a woman who 100% matches his ideals. I ha…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 05:54 PM
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Thank you so much for your great advice! To give some details about myself: I am 5'6', 118 lbs, and work out 5 times/week, do modeling on the side, put a lot of effort in my looks and get approached frequently. He (and other men) have commented positively on my femininity and behavior overall. I have also learned that men like him want an educated woman: he went to a great school himself and I went there for undergrad - although most men who are in a lower "league" than him that I have talked to…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/25 05:40 PM
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Hi! I know this is an old post but I was wondering if you had the conversation with him and how it went? I’m somewhat in a similar situation and could use some advice. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/25 02:59 PM
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Thank you so much! Do you have any examples of subtly hinting at feelings/being vulnerable by any chance? I feel that I only know how to reveal my feelings very directly😅
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/25 08:39 PM
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Thank you so so much!🥹
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 08:31 PM
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Thank you so much for your response! Yes, I would say that femininity (in general) is very important to him and he has made comments that he wants an educated woman who is also feminine. He had also started to be more vulnerable himself recently, such as sharing struggles he’s been facing with his company and staff, etc. The only thing is that on Valentine’s Day he called me at 5 AM then when I texted asking if everything is ok, he said it was an accident. Since that day until I got into this sc…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 01:09 PM
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Thank you so much for your response!! It's helping me be more realistic. One last question: does him trying to hold power mean he is not that interested in me? And how could him holding the power potentially impact us? (is this different than him leading the connection?)
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 01:04 AM
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What is the best way to react in this situation? What's interesting is that he accidentally called me a few times, last time at 5 AM on Valentine's day, and that was when he became distant and I didn't chase him. Now he is back to being normal. Do you mean he might be playing games?
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 12:19 AM
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Thank you for sharing this :) Just to clarify, we dated back in June, and I was deciding between two main career paths, and decided to pursue one. He reached out to me in October, when I was prepping the materials for my grad school application which had a deadline of December, so there has been 6 months in between. I totally agree that I need to be very cautious, which is why I don’t feel that I can be fully vulnerable with him unless he expresses the desire to date me seriously. I think once I…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 05:45 PM
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Thank you for sharing this! He actually does want a SAHM! (I want the same, but since I’m a foreigner in the US on a visa with no family here, I want to make sure I can have a source of income in case things so south some day (I hope not) he also mentioned that while he admires his business school classmates, he doesn’t think they’d be suitable partners for him when it comes to marriage, so I think you’re right. It’s just that internally, regardless of what he says, I feel “less” than them which…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 05:15 PM
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That’s a great advice! I’ve also realized that I’m thinking way ahead and need to be more realistic, especially since he really seems to want to make sure that I’ll stay here before asking me out. I will also work on my self-confidence in the meantime. It will be useful regardless of whether I end up with him or not (I really hope I do😅) Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 05:10 PM
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That’s such a sweet and reassuring response on his part and I think it’s important that you shared how you felt/why you were thinking of, when he sensed that you were not happy. Would you say you always felt comfortable to share your vulnerabilities with him or did he make you feel safe enough to do that? I hope I can reach that stage of telling him (or a man, in general) what’s wrong when I’m mad. The thing is that as a kid my dad would always just know what was wrong when I was mad or would pl…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/25 03:34 PM
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You’re the best! You helped me navigate this situation when I was dating him by giving me amazing advice 🥹 That’s such a great idea! I actually told him about the pistachio baklava I made recently when he texted asking about my day and he seemed to enjoy hearing about that :) I will initiate next and take it from there without rushing things! And you’re very right, I should understand that if he wanted that specific type of woman he could easily go after them. I think I need to work on my self-c…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/25 03:15 PM
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Thank you! She's wonderful I remember watching her contents before will definitely check it out again
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 03:31 PM
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I recently bought the whitening strips! they make my teeth sensitive but definitely work. Thank you so much :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/24 03:30 PM
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Thank you so much for your help :) I agree, I should definitely wait to date seriously. I needed to hear it from others :) I will for sure be back to ask for more help!
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/24 08:59 PM
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Thank you for your response :) Most of the men I have been dating also come from educated background and would want a woman that has a career but they don't want her to have her career as the priority in her life (which is why I think I got along well with them since I definitely don't want to prioritize my career) The degree takes 5 years to finish and I have asked other females from my background who are pursuing it and they said they definitely have had time for serious dating (one got marrie…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/24 02:05 PM
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Thank you so much for your response :) I'm glad the connection between you and your husband grew after some time, and from the way you described it, it seems that you had the fundamental connection but just needed time to get more comfortable. After reading everyone's comments and reflecting, I agree that I don't find myself respecting this person's beliefs and attitude which means we are fundamentally different. I have decided to not go on another date with them to prevent wasting their time an…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/24 11:21 PM
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That’s true, I just thought maybe over time we could grow to like each other’s interests but based on my previous experiences I know it’s possible to find someone who is already interested in the same things as me (and vice versa)
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 01:13 PM
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You’re right, I definitely feel that I don’t respect him, as opposed to the two previous men. I respected them a lot, could trust their opinion, and had more meaningful conversations with them as opposed to this person.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 12:44 PM
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Thank you for sharing your experience! I totally get the attraction part building over time. I think sexually I am attracted to him (although not in a crazy way) but personality wise I can see some deficiencies, different habits due to our very different upbringings, etc
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 12:43 PM
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I honestly would say I think of the previous guy often. I did feel less worthy of a relationship at first because when he broke things up with me he said he thinks I’m not ready for a relationship and need to stay single for a while to figure out my career path. I also check to see if he watches my stories (he watches every single one) and maybe a part of me hopes we would have another chance?) With this guy, he’s in a similar life stage as me, closer in age, is smarter than the other guy. But s…
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/24 12:42 PM
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Thank you so much, Wife_and_Mama for being such a nice and supportive person :) you have such a kind heart and I really appreciate you sharing your experience. I am so glad you have a loving family and the part about your husband made me teary and I hope I can experience it in the future with the right man :) You are right, things will work out in the end. I will take some time to reflect and clear my mind before moving forward :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/24 12:23 AM
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Just wanted to thank you and say that this was exactly 100% the case. Both the casual relationship part and the part about me making decisions down the road and him not wanting that
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/24 12:20 AM
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I agree that he invests in dates with me, is very attentive (although doesn’t remember some stuff about me sometimes), and is very respectful, sweet, protective. Definitely has the qualities I look for in a long-term partner (I still need to get to know him better, of course) I’m very serious about having children and a family and ideally, I would want to have them before I hit 30, and would definitely want to take a few years break from my career to raise th…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 08:27 PM
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Such a great set of questions! We have actually discussed almost all of them: he said he wants a partner, a cheerleader that will support him as he grows his career, his parents divorced when he was young and the father remarried but not the mom (interestingly enough, that's the exact same case for my parents too), he said he doesn't want a SAHM, but a woman with her own career that is open to taking a break to raise their children (which would be my ideal way as well) I have definitely noticed …
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/24 12:07 AM
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You are such a strong woman and I'm very sorry about your mom and the difficult pregnancy experience. I am very glad that your children are doing well and have you as their mother (I was raised by a caregiver since I was 8 months old and believe me, that makes it so hard for the child to form healthy attachments to the parents.)
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 11:58 PM
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thank you for your comment! I also appreciated his honesty. The thing is I have myself contemplated on my career choice and am actually on a gap year to understand medicine better and so far, I have worked with many physicians and have noticed the high burnout rate, lack of time for themselves, their families, and kids, etc. I was even talking to my mom about this and she was surprised since the medicine path is very different in my home country (you're a full MD by 25 and don't even have to do …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 11:55 PM
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Thank you for the clarification :) I have talked to a few of my friends about him and most say that he seems like an insecure, possessive man and maybe in my brain I'm trying to overanalyze his behaviors and fit it under the possessiveness critera?(again, so far, he has been nothing but sweet, respectful, and dependable) Can I ask about your experience? Did you ever regret focusing more on family vs career? One thing he said is that he doesn't want me to resent him in the future for giving up on…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 08:51 PM
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts :) Just to clarify one point, the person I was talking to/texting was my mom who lives in another continent and was worried about me because I hadn't been able to reach out to her for hours (I was enjoying my time with him!) Also, I certainly don't mean to villainaize him. I could see myself developing a strong relationship with him and family comes before career for me in terms of my personal values. The only thing that worries me is that for me, higher educa…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 08:24 PM
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First, thank you for your response :) second, wow!!! you are very very smart! When you mentioned the codependence point it made me remember that he actually said he doesn't want overly independent women. He also has said that he is not looking for a housewife (after I said I could never not have a career) but gathering from what you said I imagine he means a low-pressure career? I have also noticed him paying attention to other men that interact with me; one time we were having dinner and I got …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 03:29 PM
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Hello, I hope you are well :) I wanted to give you updates on my situation: We met yesterday at his place, he cooked dinner for me and talked more. We kissed and then made out. Before this, I made sure to tell him about my sexual inexperience. He said he finds it attractive because he doesn't like sexually promiscuous women (my friends say this is a very misogynistic statement.) As he tried to progress things sexually, he would ask me if I was comfortable with his touch and how far we were takin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/24 06:58 PM
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I agree with you. Thank you so much for your help again :) I will let you know how it goes!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 03:09 PM
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Thank you for your response! No, I have not gone to his place. He invited me back to his place on the first and third date (both times he presented it as an option: "1) we could go to my place on the rooftop or go to a bar. 2) we could go my place to chill or we could do that another day and you could go home" both times I politely chose the second option and he has been understanding. Another reason why I wonder if he only wants sex is that he has been single for two years and says he hasn't fo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 03:08 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! I'm so glad your husband was understanding and a good man :) I was also thinking of sharing the fact that I'm sexually inexperienced. Sometimes I wonder if this makes men run away but if he actually wants something meaningful, he probably wouldn't mind
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 02:58 PM
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That's exactly the reason why I was dwelling on it; he has chosen very nice places for our dates so far and paid for all of them, he comes from a way higher financial status, and I don't want him to think that I just want him to spend money on nice dinners or that I don't want to eventually become intimate with him (I definitely find him physically attractive but would like to take my time.)
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 02:46 PM
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Thank you for sharing your insight, that's such a smart approach that I hadn't considered! He has invited me to dinner on a sunday night and he goes to sleep early and wakes up early himself for work and I have work the day after as well. I think mentioning work would be a great approach here. Can I ask what would fall under showing lots of interest without having sex? I'm asking because I have only had one sexual partner in the past (we were in a long-term relationship) and am a bit inexperienc…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 02:04 PM
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Thank you so much for your response :) I also agree that he definitely wants to progress sexually, and I am definitely not ready for that. He has not talked about sex and has not touched me in sexual ways but him inviting me over two times shows the intentions of doing so. I also don’t want to jump into conclusions as you said! I will be careful with him definitely. Also he is quite physically fit and attractive and my friends said that he is probably used to “getting what he wants.” While that …
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/24 12:32 PM
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