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This. Downgrade to plate and keep hitting it when not if she comes back. As long as you go radio silent and weren’t too beta when she walked away there’s a high probability she reaches back out for more.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:03 PM
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Assumptions meaning shut up and mind my own business correct?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 11:41 PM
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I didn’t and wouldn’t do it bro. But that’s just me.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:09 PM
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I told her these things leading up to the last time I tried to leave but failed. Biggest takeaway my friend is in the first sentence. Another bitter pill: you’re too weak. Your woman does not trust your masculinity, meaning she doesn’t respect you, which means she’ll go on a eurotrip without you and not fear losing you. You don’t say what you mean. When you say you’re going to walk away, do it and don’t look back! I told her I’m not interested in Marriage (big argument) But everything else you s…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:06 AM
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Good points you’re not wrong but doesn’t answer my question. I’m not getting sucked my question is why women by nature can be so flippant as to how they’re able to fluctuate from a bit cold, to head over heels in love within a day. I don’t react at all I live a drama free life.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:01 AM
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Keep up the silent treatment and see what happens. Has always worked wonders, it’s just when it’s radio silent on the other end of the comms I wonder if I go too far. This might be a bad sign or just benign drama, just be more alert of any other red flag behaviors. Definitely. It hasn’t increased per se but if she starts being bitchy, which she hasn’t truly tbh just a bit less warm than she usually is, then I would just go totally distant on her ass.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:57 AM
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Hard pill to swallow coming right up: Did you ever man up and tell her any of what you just told us? Put it in woman speak: “baby I just don’t think our values and interests in life are aligned, etc.” - Because it’s true. If she agrees offer to split and go in different directions. Current trends are an indicator of what’s to come in the future: sex once a month at best for the rest of your life? This isn’t what you or her want she’s looking to escape. Remember watch what she does not what she s…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 12:49 AM
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Rollo is right. She definitely had trouble overtly pushing me for commitment until 6 months in. After 3-4 months she would be so sad I wouldn’t text her for a period from what my buddy told me, and said things like “I don’t know what you want from me”. She had a LTR before meeting me which we haven’t spoken about which was for like 2 years; she was still a bit heartbroken from that because we met not long after. I wouldn’t give her commitment until we dated for at least 6 months, luckily that wa…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:30 PM
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Go see a doctor
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:43 PM
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It’s 99.9% just in your head and you‘re thinking about it so much you’ll even kill morning wood dude. I was getting so paranoid a while back trying to google ED and fix it. I went to a doctor and he’s like dude what you’re fine, I even took a blood test. Between getting the blood test and waiting for results I had sex with the girl I’ve been seeing. I never bothered to get the results from the doctor, even though I should have. Bottomline once you get going with a patient girl at some point who …
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:56 PM
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No offense but you have to participate in your own rescue man. I have empathy for your situation but nobody can fix the odds for you now in the job market. Get to work on that final project and quit whining about what hasn’t happened yet. Quit letting your conviction keep you as a hermit now. Clearly you received an ample punishment, don’t further it for yourself. Nobody you meet needs to know that. You don’t have to be an open book, remember women like mystery and working to unravel a prize? Yo…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:48 AM
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OP is serious about marriage, better to go through this for 6-12 months in a lease to verify she is/isn’t worth it for him than get married to a woman he hates and be fucked. For more sex yeah OP needs to balance his attention.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 11:45 AM
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Yeah just act like you’ll take it or leave it man. Don’t apologize for just a little bit of teasing and don’t go over board. Just naturally be having fun and if she’s so stiff that she stops fucking you over that her loss lol. But god damn it stop hitting on coworkers dude
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:15 PM
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I’m just speculating, that’s the best explanation I can think of to match her interest level. She’s fucking me all day and night when I’m with her but I can’t understand how to better “open her up” so to speak to simplify my life. Unfortunately the answer may be just get more chicks.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:13 PM
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I understand that but overtime you would figure a girl would be comfortable enough to just reach out without feeling needy. I guess case in point some girls just need to feel totally led and completely dominated. Easy enough so long as you give them space to get scared of leaving you but still different than the standard prescription.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:54 PM
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In this case we’ve been seeing each other for months. She is either super intimidated by me or something because I sometimes won’t hear from her for 2-3 days once in a while and when I or her reach out it’s all smooth sailing. She basically admitted she loves me but is so nervous or afraid of being rejected she sometimes won’t chase. Again it’s just an atypical scenario and leaves me scratching my heads at times.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:51 PM
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I know, but still why would a girl who is crazy about you not reach out? Not worried about being needy, I haven’t reached out in a couple days.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:32 PM
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I get that but most advice is stop chasing girls, let them pursue you. She should do most of the initiating contact because she wants to receive your love, and you just set-up sex. In this case she is not chasing me. She told me she doesn’t want to be needy before but still this could be easy if she just didn’t play hard to get. Maybe because she already asked me out and doesn’t want to be following up on it? Really not understanding the dynamic, is she just mirroring my no contact or what?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:31 PM
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Ultimate wisdom. If only it were easy to internalize..
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:09 AM
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Good point. For OP with characters like Draper or Corleone, those are men who command attention like a magnet. You aren’t seeking to entertain, people seek you.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 11:41 PM
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It's only a sign of your insecurity. Many high quality women with integrity have orbiters or genuine male friends. From my experience women will actually only use these to test your value. She will actually be closer to a guy who doesn't flinch at her hanging out with guy friends. Counter-intuitive but this is why so many guys fail with women. The less you chase, the more curious they become. Non-LTR material are girls who have male friends with whom they openly encourage flirting, reciprocate, …
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:19 PM
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Good post OP. One thing I would note in regards to your point about working with women, and something I picked up on heavily from Corey Wayne’s book: Treat all women the same You’re being authentic, you’re not putting them on a pedestal, and they notice it. It helps you too because you’re honest about your intentions always and never hiding what you are. It doesn’t mean spank your coworker on the ass because she’s been a bad girl, (you only behave like that in the bedroom) it means treat her as …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 02:04 PM
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Good for her. Stop worrying about it and focus on you. She’ll come to you. If she doesn’t that’s fine, walk away. You’re thinking of worst case scenarios; who knows who a girl is fucking ever? Stop calling her to check-in at work like a scared housewife. Be a man.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:30 AM
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Instead of just blaming her for being a slut like everyone else- you failed, you didn’t court your girlfriend and got complacent, she made out with a different dude because she wasn’t getting what she wanted. Then she broke up with you and had sex afterwards. She at least did you a courtesy there. It’s over now, move forward. Two major lessons learned about understanding women. 1.) The romance never dies. If you aren’t dating her, another guy will come along and do it for you. Textbook case. She…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 11:21 AM
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Not bad timing but a definite barrier to the growth of the relationship. Let her go without explicitly saying anything. You might end up back together and nobody met anyone else after the summer, she might get with 3 guys and you don’t want her after, or you might just forget about her and not want her anymore. Yeah it’s unlikely my dude but you just never know.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:36 PM
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What I mean by that is, you can have a woman who is basically a "female player", fux who she wants, etc. She might maintain a rotation in the same way a guy would. Totally familiar with this syndrome. She thinks she’s a dude up until the right guy comes along and she’ll revert back to virgin princess default factory settings. Then when she ends up breaking him she’s right back to her roster. My OLTR2 is a hard 9, but because, as she will say sometimes, she's not entirely sure where she stands wi…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:12 PM
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Could you expand on this vas? Foundational understanding I have is that relationships and commitment is feminine energy. Men shut up, set up opportunities to fuck, and keep driving towards their goals and she will ask for it over time. I have been in a similar situation to OP where I had a girl invested in me, doing things, and exclusive (to my knowledge of course), but wouldn't outright ask for a relationship. She would always wait for me to escalate and mirror. She'd make comments like "I don'…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:54 PM
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If I were you, I would be fucking crushed like I'm sure you are. You're not alone, many have felt that feeling of deep disgust and betrayal you feel now. She faked you out and almost got you to sign on the red dotted line. But guess what, you're so fucking lucky you found out- most guys never do. Change your perspective: You just hit the lottery and get a chance to meet a new better woman. You're not yet aware of the material and perspective here, so you wouldn't see clearly how mechanically her…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 05:53 PM
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I had an opportunity like this during one period when I actually had some interest from girls (was a pussy and fucked a lot of it up). I was at a college bar with some buddies. My friend had a hb7.5 girl he knew that he only kissed once or twice so they were cool, and she had friends. One was heavy set and had the hots for me like a furnace in January. Of course it was always “why is it that girls I don’t want want me?” syndrome back then. The weight made her an hb4, but she wasn’t disfigured or…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:49 PM
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Understanding it’s likely it will eventually fail is different from making moves to expedite/anticipate that which will lead to it failing. Remember, what you think is what you get. You’re expecting it to dissolve and your actions will get you there. Why don’t you work on trying to build it instead? I’m just wondering if I’m orbiting or if this is a worthwhile investment. Look up an EC post: “the only question that matters: are you fucking her?” In short: if you’re not escalating - you’re orbiti…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:48 PM
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It’s only natural to think about other pussy while in an LTR every guy does it. Yeah I’m looking at hot bitches at the gym. Of course I’m not going to just ignore other beautiful women because I’m in an LTR. That’s just nuts. It’s just now up to the OP to decide if he is willing to cheat. What I’m saying. OP ideally needs to own his intentions. Either you’re a man who honors your commitments, or you’re not. If you decide to do an LTR, you can’t be in it and out of it. “You can’t keep your foot o…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 01:40 PM
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Up to you. Do you want to be in an LTR still? You have to look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you’re really committed to your current girl. The answer is almost certainly no, you’re just too scared to walk away and hurt her, and have no other definite options. The way you make it sound is your current girlfriend is an ankle weight while your head is already thinking about other pussy.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:31 AM
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ABC Always Be Closing OP is meandering and not sure of himself. What’s your goal? To get her in your bed. That’s why it is so important to be honest with yourself and her about that. Otherwise you end up agreeing with LJBF and entering orbit.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:41 PM
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Me: I'm totally okay with that :) But I'm not obviously. THEN WHY THE FUCK DID YOU TELL HER YOU WERE OKAY WITH IT? Yep. That’s the part that really hit home with me and my past long ago. Not being honest with your intentions, not being forward, not being patient, making plans way in the future with a girl you haven’t had any romantic chance with. Definition of Mr. Nice Guy This whole post was tough to read. I honestly would love to see this guy go hard and come back and give us an update in 12 m…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:15 AM
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Welcome. You have a long way to go my friend.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:08 AM
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Yeah you‘re starting to get it bud. A lot of times you have to get burned to heal and be stronger. Persevering through pain helps us grow and become better. One door closes ... another opens! Life is crazy and unpredictable like that. Have faith, time will heal your heart. If something, maybe having girls everytime you want while you still miss your ex its not the best idea. All you can control is showing up and being awesome. It’s okay if a girl is with you, and it’s okay if she’s not. If you g…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 12:52 AM
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No reason to be a cold dick. Just “That’s my girl” Don’t salivate, just play it cool. 2/3 rule and you’re good
/r/askTRP24/03/18 06:20 PM
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Any sexual/suggestive pic, is her attempt at fishing for your interest. She hit the nuclear button to get your validation and it satisfies her. I’ve seen girls in my experience, send me a pic, ignored, send another one, ignored, then you can tell they get anxious and send hot pics. That’s their attempt at getting your love and feeling fulfilled, (AKA figuring you out). Watch their behavior (always anyway) change when you start salivating at nude pics over text. It’s as much of a stimulant for th…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 05:52 PM
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The more you try to "work" at attracting her, the more work you would have to do and you've now lost because relationships aren't supposed to be work for the man. Very good point, it should feel effortless. Only contention I would make as a man setting up dates, the work I put in is to keep things fun/spontaneous and not routine; not for her but for me. That would be a tweak to my game I think I need to make, and it would be for my benefit. I know relationships aren’t for men to worry about, tha…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:42 PM
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Not sure what too unplugged means lol. What is your alpha as fuck life? Yeah you need to be balanced and not sit on social media, reddit, and gaming all day. I know one thing, by getting social media and receiving these nudes, you are entering these girls frames. You got it because they told you to, they send you pics for validation and you salivate. Who cares about nude pics? Go get a stack of Playboys and you won’t even give two fucks about these normal girls snapchats. Bottom line like the ot…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 04:32 PM
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I get for one of my buddies 3-4 hours a week is good...but for my LTR? That’s just not realistic lol, plus once I get ahold of her I’m not going to let go until I get mines. I need to really do some damage or I’ll have to bring her back over the next night! Gotta be efficient with your time dawg
/r/askTRP20/03/18 06:24 PM
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If your ~1 year long gf asks you to spend more time with her two times, you’d ghost her? How about just agree and amplify and don’t go nuclear on a simple shit test: “OP I hate you you never want to spend time with me” “I know, I just have to keep you wanting more. Now get that ass over here” Yeah if she started getting super dramatic and had a mini meltdown I’d soft next for 3-5 days, but ghosting upon request to actually want to be with you is extreme dawg.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:04 AM
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My opinion is she has a point. If you only on average spend 4 hours a week with your LTR you really don’t have more than a long lasting plate. I get you’re busy, this is easy to manage, and you find her to be a high quality girl, but if she is truly a great compliment and asset to your life 4 hours a week is pretty slim. That’s 2% of your week for her. If my serious girlfriend gave me 2% of her week I’d be like fuck this she’s just a fuck toy. So if I were you I would re-evaluate your relationsh…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 03:00 AM
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You press the big red button on a pussy that says squirt on it. Duh
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:56 PM
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It’s good so long as you keep striving to do better. In however long, 6 months or more when you’re benching 4x8 at 185lbs you’ll start to feel like a winner. Make sure you get on a program dawg
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:30 PM
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Move on dawg. She may miss you but this girl is hungry for attention and unstable. Not your problem anymore let her go.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:24 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=515AfqXjSno
/r/askTRP17/03/18 03:48 PM
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Maybe. Maybe not. If you saw your unicorn and are looking for someone to say “no buddy, she’s out there waiting for you to text her”, you’re not going to hear it. Yes she’s most likely fucking someone new.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:31 PM
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So if you’ll remember in NMMNG, Dr. Glover points out that nice guys are often attached to women who require care-taking. He lists a myriad of types- those women with low integrity (sluts), low self esteem, substance abusers, abusive emotionally or physically, etc. If you look at your post you can see there are several things that happened which are indicative of the book. 1- She has low integrity. She’ll sleep with every guy in a social group. Especially the guys with big bank accounts. 2- She …
/r/askTRP17/03/18 02:27 PM
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This, and: I still care about her because we’ve been friends for years. OP let’s make this abundantly clear for you. This dear sweet unicorn that you care about just tossed you out for someone else. You’re a regret. A mistake. A blip in her sexual Matrix. Your attention doesn’t matter to her. If you valued yourself, you wouldn’t care about a bitch who just deleted you from her life.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:26 AM
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No. You are not ready for this at all. You never had frame, you moved an FWB in with you bro. You basically gave her everything except a ring just for knowing you for a quarter of a year. The level of drama is through the roof, your emotional control may as well be totally non-existent. I’d say pack her shit, say it’s not working, and don’t fall for the fucking crying. You are in way over your head right now dawg. EDIT: Don’t call her a fucking ltr, you haven’t even known her long-term. Yeah she…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:12 PM
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Congrats dawg that bitch upgraded. Not your problem anymore, go find a 9 that fucks you better than her
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:17 PM
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Very good perspective thanks.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:05 PM
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I can’t help but agree, and always work to shut my mouth and not share anything negative about me. When it comes to women, I am always cocky and positive and funny and charming. Always. There's not a millisecond of a frown or anger or depression. Sometimes because of how much sleep I got, how my day went, etc., I’m not always “on” though. No matter how much I don’t want to show it they can tell I’m not at my best/prime. But the greater point is striving to eliminate as much of that as I can cont…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:12 PM
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Its not about what you say but how you say it. Over text it doesn’t even matter. Totally dependent on her mental space when she receives it. Exactly why I am skeptical about dropping it. Was thinking of breaking a ‘radio silent’ period with it but that gives her so much power. Either it’s an excellent pull that makes her feel super warm and happy feelings for me, or it’s a huge push- “I’ve ignored him for two days and he tells me this? Loser.” Gauging a woman’s interest during a radio silent per…
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:07 PM
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Being creative and more personal with the phrasing definitely makes it palatable. Appreciate that spin. I was trying to gauge whether on not it’s one of those things where no matter how genuine and healthy those feelings are you’ll always disgust a woman with it out of the blue.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:00 PM
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Forget about it. In 5 years you’ll barely think about this broad and laugh your ass off you even asked this. Go bang other chicks and never look back.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:50 PM
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Just say “what?” or “huh?” like you have no idea what she’s talking about. Send her on a fucking rollercoaster for you own entertainment. Don’t worry about her being all mad 😠 about when you get back to her, youre living a badass life dawg
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:45 PM
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Fuck OP I feel for you dawg. Just when everything seemed awesome there is a glaring dick of reality just fucking a gaping hole in your fantasy. Like others said, tell her you think you guys should split up. Better to walk away now and hurt knowing this then sleep with one eye open until her lust takes full control and she’s got more cock in her mouth than yours. This just frightens me with girls I’m dating. You think everything is great and meanwhile they’re living a double life of hypergamy on …
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:49 PM
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After I didn’t respond to a few I got a video later on that night of her taking her clothes off and I said “that’s my girl” Then she responded “too bad I’m going to have to take this skirt off myself tonight ;)” because she’s out of town for a bit. Didn’t respond after that but i know she was trying harder and harder to get my attention. I didn’t go full beta or tease her to death but i know putting that pussy on ice doesn’t hurt me.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:28 PM
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If you find the right girl you probably won't even have "the talk". It'll be assumed your monogamous This in action gentlemen; over time and through mutual actions. It won’t be quick but over time you’ll slowly develop comfort and she’ll invest more and more in you. Just back off and give women space instead of jumping on. Although one thing to note is making sure they don’t use this against you. Land on a different dick and say: “b-but we never said we were exclusive!” Easy fix for this one tho…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 07:36 PM
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I told you in my first comment. Wait for her to come to you, then keep hitting it until she gives you drama. Ignore her when she does, and then fuck her when she comes back after letting her cool off for a few days. Then once she gets to a boiling point the plate totally drops or you commit. No reason to commit this quickly man. Edit: read the sidebar “how to handle the talk” - literally explains how you manage it.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:47 PM
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Another thing that I've seen is that TRP c0mmunity always makes things difficult, analize this analize that. Do what you want. It’s just a toolkit man. It’s a foundation to become better than you were and open you up to new ideas. Take what you want that works and discard the rest. Be her boyfriend if you like, or don’t- you decide.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:17 PM
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You rejected her (hard next) so you live with the consequences. Likely she’ll text you again to try again unless it was truly a clear split. However since you know she’s not a good fit you should walk away not expecting anything. Oftentimes when this happens women will revert back to just sex My view is men act and make decisions and stick to them. You did this, and I commend you for being clear with what you want (alpha characteristic), but to go back on this would make you enter her frame due …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 07:00 PM
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The answer is no because there is no overarching commonality. More often in small towns near me girls have those "values" at face value, but they are also interested in roping cattle, bud light, and their baptist church. As with everything you get something and you lose something. There is definitely less diversity in rural areas so that's more what you would find. As far as cities and large towns go, it's a mixed bag just like anywhere else.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:35 PM
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Order your priorities: 1.) Money/School 2.) You 3.) Family 4.) You 5.) Friends 6.) You 7.) Girls Your mind is naturally going to wonder off and start flipping this list. For me I had horrible discipline at 17-20. If you just work at it now you'll be in great shape later. At the time it was almost impossible to not be looking 5 minutes ahead instead of 5 years. Now I have so much more clarity and discipline I want to kick my own ass from back then for fucking myself.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:34 PM
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I understand the tone I'm setting, but I don't care that much tbh. So embrace where it's going. She's your best girl, I would reward her good behavior accordingly. As long as you stay solid (frame) you will be fine.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:29 PM
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Do I signal I want commitment by doing this? Why do you care? Just have fun and don't worry about it. This isn't mathematics where if you input x you get y; you're bringing one of your girls on an awesome trip. If more comes between you as a result, then you re-assess where she stands.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:26 PM
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First it's not fun to figure out, but what do you want? You definitely look much better so that's a start. but now when I look in the mirror I feel very small. Ties into what I said above, but you're not going to feel like a monster if you're cutting. You have to get bigger to feel bigger. If I was 5'9 156, I would bulk to 170 over a period and see. One thing that has helped my confidence in sticking to a plan has just been setting one year goals in the gym instead of just speed bulking/cutting.…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:19 PM
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Limited money and time, I have to take extra classes and focus on my degree to regain lost ground, so that eliminates the time for social interaction. It feels I am going to get mad before the remaining two years are over. So you can't be better now, and everything is going to be perfect in two more years right? Sorry but you're delusional man. You need to start laying the groundwork today. If you think there is no room for improvement in your life you are lying to yourself. I only have 4 - 5 ho…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:09 PM
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This and never spy on a girl like that again.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:33 PM
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This. It’s pretty simple OP; Girls like attention. Dressing hot, sexy, slutty, (whatever you want to call it really, it’s all the same thing) gives girls attention.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 10:40 PM
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Never complain about work. First this. You don’t want to come across as a tired wage slave zombie because..oh wait you are one. I am too don’t worry. OP, some days after a long day of work especially after a late night of having a girl over, I am not mentally on point for interactions. I feel numb and disengaged worse than usual. Just try your best to get ample sleep, and exercise. I honestly couldn’t imagine having different girls over every night unless I got to switch my career to rich celebr…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 12:02 AM
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"Are we exclusive? Handling the talk" Great post. I would say before this point there are some very easy protocols to follow: 1.) Keep your feelings for her unclear, and she’ll keep chasing you. 2.) Don’t text her beyond logistics, don’t beg her for to hang out more than two days in a row 3.) Bottom line is don’t be needy and she will keep wanting more dick. Then step 4 is if she brings up “the talk” refer to that post. You won’t get there if you don’t follow the mechanics and focus on you thoug…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:56 PM
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Been a while since I read this one. Something simple to look back at every couple of months for young guys like me. Yeah, no shit you aren’t drowning in pussy with a minimum wage job, no friends, and no hobbies. But OP- use this as a baseline and see what happens when you do something outside of your ordinary, and obviously low quality routine. It might take 12 months or 60 months to get genuine results, but either way you can’t get much lower than where you are now.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:22 PM
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I had gotten the go out and get hammered at college bars out of my system Agreed. Haven’t been up for drinking since I finished school to be honest. It is important to always be stepping out of your comfort zone socially, the same old shit will start to bore you. The same old shit is boring me. What did you do to meet new people. I was thinking joining a martial arts studio and yoga.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 07:39 PM
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Re-read what you wrote: Because I have poor excuse 1, poor excuse 2, and poor excuse 3 You’re not going to get anywhere unless you stop viewing these features as negative and start viewing them as strengths. Yeah you’re not actually going to be Jason Statham, but you can become great in your way
/r/askTRP07/03/18 06:40 PM
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Why don’t you look like Jason Statham yet? Turn your negative into a positive.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:36 PM
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Would you say the transition from undergrad to where you are now has been difficult?
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:29 PM
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To reply to OP: no, my SMV is about the same as last year in college. I am in the best shape of my life after going through high school as a neck beard and not getting into fitness until about 18 months ago. I think in another year once I successfully bulk up about 20 lbs, I’ll be in much better shape than I am now even. To the above: This is an extremely accurate comment for me. Just moved into my own place at 22 9 months after graduating college. I have a few old friends near me I catch up wit…
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:27 PM
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Did someone link the Rollo article about putting you out of your misery yet? If not google it. She’s begging you to break up with her dude.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:32 PM
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She isn’t sad in a bad way- She genuinely misses you and it makes her feel sad when she isn’t seeing you. I know that feeling myself, when I don’t get to see a girl I truly enjoy being around for 2-3 days, I start to feel kind of down and lonely. Not because I think I need her, or can’t be without her, but because it genuinely is what I want to do. It makes me really want to lay some pipe on her too! Awesome side effect of giving each other some needed space. You’re thinking you went too far bec…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 07:31 PM
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First off, take a step back and stop worrying about what those girls think. If you are a man who has committed to an LTR, and you are simultaneously strategizing about how to string a carrot along for other women, you should strongly consider what you want. I’m not trying to shame you- think about why you would want that instead of an LTR. Good chance you find out you want something different than what you have and that’s okay. El Chapo didn’t build an escape tunnel because he wanted to stay in …
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:07 PM
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I wouldn’t say that. Why? She pushed you away and you would be pulling her.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:03 PM
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You definitely don’t need to provide comfort in response; She already thanked you for being so understanding, the (you’re such a gentlemen shit test which I always ignore). Not responding would be a bad move too in my view. She is testing for compliance, and to make you unsure about round two. Your move in this dance play is to flip it and leave her unclear. Some would advise you just say “okay” and let her spin. I would say “last night was fun. sounds good” and leave it at that. Just focus on t…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:02 PM
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She texted my mom yesterday https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wYNbSuRnsFM (I'ma call ya momma up) - Bitch that's a no no Don't get personal, I'll never let go The rest of the song is pretty brutal lol but you get the general attitude behind a girl coming at you with that bullshit.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 12:37 AM
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On to the next one. Here’s another parting lesson from this for you young blood. Stop using logic and reason with women who are teasing you to test your frame. You failed her shit tests and she disqualified you. She’s trying to get you to get her worked up and you’re literally doing everything you can to turn her off. Remember it’s always better to say nothing than to say something stupid, let your actions talk (invitation)
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:30 PM
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It’s a test. You just say ‘okay’ and soft next. She doesn’t qualify you, you qualify her. You could also pressure flip and ask her why she’s ‘been on so long, don’t you have anything better to do? 😏’. I would stick with just okay though and move on. When she hit you up, don’t say maybe we should have a date, you plan an actual date. You lead, she follows. For now just soft next until she comes back for more attention, and then escalate. If she rejects, then next again until she offers a time and…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:24 PM
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By just going dark on women for 2-3 days between meet-ups am I punishing good behavior? A.) I have shit to do B.) I don’t want to see her other day and that’s just needy, smothering behavior. What is the balance between not punishing good behavior and not feeding her enough attention. I’m not trying to soft-next a girl who is doing great.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 05:02 PM
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I‘ll take my EC tag now
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:59 PM
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That’s true, I remember tinder got noticeably shittier after they went pay to play. My pics sucked because I didn’t put much effort in, but I know that there was limited pool of women I wanted to fuck anyways. Also what I realized after reading TRM and why I haven’t been back online in a while is because the apps keep me complacent (buffer mentality). I would match with a hot girl and not follow through with a meet up because my ego was in the way. Then I wouldn’t be pursuing other women because…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 06:34 PM
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Could be a good topic for a post on the main sub from somebody up for it: “Why Tinder Died” Seems like in the past couple years unless I’m out of the loop completely online dating has just dwindled in popularity.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 05:20 PM
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Yessir I’m not throwing a counter-argument your way. Quality, stable women I’ve been with usually have a 3:1 ratio with me. They will ask me/or hit me up and I will set something up. There is a difference between chasing and being clingy.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:58 PM
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She will chase you by reaching out, to which you’ll create a sexual encounter. She will still be cautious and only reach out so many days a week instead of just going crazy on your phone because she will respect you more than Billy Beta. Of course I’m just speaking from experience with girls I’ve been with since coming on here- I’ve had girls before I got on TRP in my confessional beta days who fucked me and blew up my phone as well. Your mileage may vary girl to girl because some are clingier t…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:08 PM
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I think for OP’s sake and many other guys this is a really good point. Speaking from experience, women who will rarely flake on me (if they do they reschedule), and have high interest actually end up texting me less and fucking me more over time. The comment I’m responding to nails it. From a behavioral and psychological standpoint she’ll feel compelled to text her orbiters and girlfriends incessantly but not her Alpha. Why? She may not want to feel rejection/clingy from a guy she perceives as e…
/r/askTRP28/02/18 04:01 PM
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Wow this thread is eye opening for me in a way. My practice to this point has been to never vocalize commitment. Just keep letting her come to me and then I fuck her. So technically if she is doing things for me and I am acknowledging her, then I figured eventually a woman would be at an emotional threshold where she spilled she needed commitment. So what we’re actually saying is some girls are doing things to show they are worthy of commitment/investment, but others will show it through their a…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 08:46 PM
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That’s a great idea. One day when I have a son we will do this, great project. When he comes to 15-16 I’ll tell him what he can really use it for haha. If the girls he brings up there are screamers I’ll tear that motherfucker down
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:48 PM
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I love that shit dawg. Keep up on crushing that fucking pussy player.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:37 PM
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Would also add ‘It’s Your Ship’ by Captain Michael Abrashoff to anyone interested
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:29 PM
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Just talking shit ignore it. I had a girls gay guy friend say the same stuff about me because I was clowning on him when I met him without thinking about it. Needless to say I got laid that night.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:23 PM
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Like another said, not enough information on my end to speak on which path you should take definitively, and nobody probably can. It’s always unclear. Best advice to me would be: 1.) you have some time before you’re out of the current company. Start spending it all by fleshing out all of your options. 2.) set deadlines for yourself. “a couple months to play with” puts you in too much of a laissez-faire position. Now is the time to map out a new course. Go fucking hard. 3.) view getting canned as…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 03:21 PM
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It’s good you’re working on all that stuff, keep going and don’t let anyone try to stop you, even your brother if it’s positive for your growth. Try to drive towards something you have a real passion for in all those hobbies. Have you worked with a therapist at all? Could be very valuable to help you lay out and organize these issues. You seem to still have a really toxic viewpoint of your family when you would be better off letting go of the resentment and just appreciating their existence. It’…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:38 AM
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Like others have said, if it was Chad, she would likely be begging him to change his status, and if not, putting up a bunch of instagrams of her trophy man. That being said, it’s a really tough indicator. I would think about it too, OP. Based on what you said my gut tells me it is her giving you the old “slow down” routine. Women want to be a long drawn out love story, not a race to be Facebook official from her guy. Always remember she needs to be the one pushing for commitment, not you. Anothe…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:30 AM
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This exactly bro. Literally paste what this guy quoted. She rejected your option then you went back in for more. We all have learned the hard way, it’s nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 02:20 AM
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At least you did it. Don’t listen to the haters - you cringing is just because it’s so new and unfamiliar to do that. Remember you’ve basically been programmed to not express your desire to women, so it’s going to feel awkward when you start changing that behavior. Honestly keep grinding and putting yourself out there and in a few years you’ll be a rockstar man.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:07 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being assertive. You know what you want? Good. There is a big difference between being a manservant pleasing others and being assertive. In one case you’re being honest with your intentions and it isn’t always pleasant. In the other you’re getting trampled. I know which I’d rather choose for myself and everyone else.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:28 PM
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Both. If you want to bulk, you need to eat more. If you want to cut, eat less. Factor boxing into your caloric intake and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 01:00 AM
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Others explained it already. But I’ve been in this same stupid mindset you’re in so I’ll explain since I have almost done exactly what you’re putting on paper. Shut up about this. You don’t ever give women an ultimatum. She will offer commitment when she is at a breaking point, you never willingly give yours. Why? It makes you look like you have no options, which makes you weak. You being weak means you are not attractive, and you definitely want to be attractive. You’re all caught up in your fe…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:36 AM
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There’s a young actor about your age named Timothée Chalamet. Not too long ago he wasn’t getting to where he considered quitting. Someone (kid cudi) gave him advice backstage, if you want it bad enough, there’s no other possible way you could live. You’d be willing to starve, even die a failure knowing you had no other choice but to pursue that art. Thought that was some valuable wisdom. In your case I would advise you stop worrying so much and start working harder. Grind so hard you’ll get resu…
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:16 PM
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This. OP got busted cheating on his girlfriend and is spinning his wheels on how to save his honor. You don't have anything left to hold onto, just move on and don't do stupid shit again. Men don't break their word and you need to own that if she asks.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 07:14 PM
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I think part of swallowing the pill is being ok with the fact that she probably did fuck a dude while y’all were felling each other out. There are no unicorns. Fuck it I can potentially accept her past, but not her present.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:10 AM
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Women are like cats. If you chase them they run away. You might’ve held her attention too long. Try pulling back first and make her curious to build attraction. That way you’re the one to break away because you have something do. Also like others have said she could’ve just been genuinely uninterested and that’s no big deal too. Just focus on you having fun and not on her enjoying you.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:08 PM
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Didn’t actually happen to me but it’s the grey area I dread with girls. I’m forced to promote a plate into exclusivity without knowing if I could trust her and she holds the chips as to what she has done. If we’d been dating for a month and she fucked a different dude and I didn’t find out until after we had been exclusive for a while I would feel fucking burned.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:59 PM
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I’m saying I wouldn’t. I’m asking if I’m just being an insecure loser for caring about someone she slept with while we weren’t exclusive.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:27 PM
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Do you beg for her to reply back two hours later too?
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:13 PM
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How are you ever going to upgrade a plate if you assume they’re all just cumsluts and you’re a side piece? Shame on you. What? I asked a hypothetical.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:16 PM
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Think you just helped close this thread and affirm my position. Thanks
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:15 PM
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You really think your plates are only banging you? No. You asked like a insecure cock fag and they promised your dick was the only one for them. No. My question was pretty clear and nothing I’m going through. Just something I’ve been thinking about for some time.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 08:13 PM
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I’d have to agree. If she would do that early on it meant she never fully respected me or reached my enthusiasm. Part of why I’m so nervous escalating past plate status with girls.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:58 PM
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I am always excited for an awesome new relationship. Finding out she fucked another dude in the middle of it is like pissing in my face for me. I’m not insecure enough to where a girl HAS to be a Virgin. If she’s had a few serious boyfriends before me that’s fine I’ve been around the block myself at this point. ask OP when she's going out, what would his first thought be Wouldn’t be controlling, I’d let her. But if I see a trend of that behavior, like I said I have to walk away. Can’t spend mont…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:57 PM
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Why are you asking us then? It’s something I’ve been thinking about for a while. Push forward into the unknown? I don’t have a problem doing that. But a woman reveals her cards inevitably at some point and the walls come down with further exclusivity. At some point something is going to come out you don’t want to hear. I think I’m asking for a response on whether or not I’m too insecure. I consider it a dealbreaker while plenty of guys might laugh and not think twice about it.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:13 PM
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It’s not my case yet, but it’s something I would want to be prepared for. Like most men loyalty is paramount to me. A woman fucking other dudes and not telling me is an irreconcilable difference and I would straight up cut my losses and walk away that far in. I get why some could make her a plate after, but for me I would be hurt enough by that behavior I think I have to walk away. Probably a hard next immediately and move forward. Life is short, you only get one chance to show me you’re not loy…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:56 PM
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Still need a couple more months to decide. Her going all out and being awesome in bed didn’t hurt her chances.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:27 AM
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Was thinking more along the lines of what coach Corey Wayne suggests...discount late Valentine’s Day card just showing I thought of her. I might throw skittles in too good idea
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:03 AM
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You’re absolutely right. I had a mentor for a time last year who was huge on this as well. Older woman from a smaller city in central India. I used to visit her at her home with others at my college and she would talk often about how couch/chair is just punishment for the body. For millennia humans sat on the floor in many cultures, only in the past 150-200 years did we start making things to sit upon. It is something many centenarians have in common. Your body has to do a lot of work to get up …
/r/askTRP02/02/18 02:42 PM
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You’re not giving her anything to dread. You’re just distant and rubbing it in her face.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 12:26 AM
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https://reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4a5akh/shes_not_yours_its_just_your_turn_the_glass_is/ Citing this post for the broken glass portion we all should internalize, I have struggled with it: The glass is already broken "You see this goblet?" asks Achaan Cha, the Thai meditation master. "For me this glass is already broken. I enjoy it; I drink out of it. It holds my water admirably, sometimes even reflecting the sun in beautiful patterns. If I should tap it, it has a lovely ring to it. But wh…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 12:12 AM
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Depends on how you hold frame. There can always be an external test you can not be predict. Yes it doesn’t help that you’re walking into a potential hornets nest, but I see no reason why as long as you aren’t intimidated by some guy you don’t even know to look you will have problems. It’s unlikely her ex will have the balls to approach her on a date anyways, if he does he’ll look stupid and you just stay cool. Have fun and don’t worry about it. And moving forward just know you can see an ex anyw…
/r/askTRP14/01/18 12:02 AM
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So there’s this one girl? https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260
/r/askTRP31/12/17 04:54 PM
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I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve internalized this to not care to do any of that possessive bs. What is going to happen will, and I can solely control my behavior based on the information i have available to me. I don’t share though. With a plate, she is not sucking other dicks while I’m around. It just means a hard next. I definitely don’t like it, and my safety is at stake. I’m not going to say she can’t, but once she makes her bed she is going to sleep in it.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:36 AM
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Sorry to hear about this. It's not fun for anybody involved. All you can do now is try to lessen the damage to your kids, your wallet, and your happiness. The best advice I could give: Be patient, but don't sit back while she fucks you over. Massage your will into her, the courts, the kids, your lawyers whoever. Brute force only gets you so far before the leash rips you back and you're just barking and making a scene. No matter what happens, at the end of the day the planet still keeps spinning.…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 01:55 AM
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You're just feeding OPs fantasy anyway, hes the one who isn't there to get work done. That search mechanism on the sub? Yeah people ask this question every fucking week.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 01:47 AM
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Also sleeping over with a plate is like begging to get drama. Interesting. I have had women who only want a casual relationship ask me to sleep over, haven't always done it just depended on what I had planned for the next day. Definitely sleep better alone so I tend to do that plus I think it builds some mystery. If the woman wants a casual relationship, you think this leads to unwanted attachment on their part/ shows neediness?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:10 AM
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Agreed. To an extent we can't worry about looking weak 24/7, this isn't Gladiator it's real life. If someone is suffering like OP says she was, there is nothing weak about getting them aspirin, water and helping them go to sleep. That doesn't mean go fucking overboard and start tracking their periods and staying up with her, but during circumstances like that yes I would do as you did OP.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:04 AM
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Good input. I think you're right on this point: if you are 'good looking' (which I would argue is mainly "strong looking and not fat".. aka masculine and athletic) you will see a VERY different side of women than you will even as the same person, but a little soft. Guys on here and everywhere need to stop worrying about looking like a supermodel. That is what women do not men. I'm not saying it's an excuse, some motherfuckers are just bad looking. But if you're a 6 or an 8 or a 10 as a guy and y…
/r/askTRP15/10/17 02:51 PM
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True. I know a lot of guys in this thread put all the blame on him and deservedly so, but to answer the OP, there are some teachable moments. Once this powerful freak fell from grace, these bitter bitches came out of the woodwork to ruin him. Kick him while he's down?- They poured gasoline and set him on fire. The funny thing to me is they don't mention how he is responsible for a LOT of the money/fame these women have. Once his influence ran out they were on him like vultures on roadkill.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 02:49 AM
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Never really understood this graph. Almost seems like a "hey don't feel bad! You're not supposed to be getting laid!" Are guys really supposed to except that at 21 when they aren't getting their dick sucked it's no big deal because they're low SMV, but in 9 years they'll suddenly start drowning in pussy? Can anyone 30+ confirm that you magically started drowning in pussy at 30?
/r/askTRP11/10/17 01:10 AM
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On top of that you did some things that I would've done in the past, but now I prefer to not. Don't text her "good luck!", or "I had a great time!". You don't need to tell her any of that shit. Keep her head fucking spinning and constantly mind fucked. No "good morning gorgeous! :)" texts ever. Why? To me it just implies neediness and that could be why she's not responding. "Is this guy really that zeroed in on me taking a fucking test?" It's stupid but that's how these broads interpret it. Don'…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:32 PM
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What are the actual rules on doing this?
/r/askTRP27/07/17 02:53 PM
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But see the lesson learned? She does all of those great things, but she's also not doing what you want. AWALT in action. Like the other guy said you've got her on a pedestal. Knock her off unless she does what you want yesterday.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:48 PM
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You're over thinking it and over invested. You've got the theory right, now act right. Delete her number and erase her from your memory banks until an unknown number sends you nudes. Anything else she says treat as total incomprehensible gibberish
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:02 PM
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Will do, appreciate the advice. Both of the girls are freaks. My play was I going to get one turned on enough to convince her friend. Where it failed in practice was she's jealous/insecure, and women play the "im not enough?"
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:10 PM
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Lesson learned. Going to ghost the main one and just move on unless she has an epiphany. One thing to take away for me from this is, girls will try to make you jealous by telling you this guy tried to do X, and "he told me he wanted to fuck me! What an asshole right!". They hamster that that this is perfectly rational. If you even bring up another girl in the same way, these broads go fucking ballistic.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:46 PM
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Yeah of course it's not ideal. I have to manipulate this one to open another door. Deleted my social media way back though, no way to contact the other one.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:38 PM
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Question I know a lot of guys who are young and hopeless out there wonder... We always hear it gets better at 35 if you grind and achieve. Seems like a dream though, nothing falls in your lap right, especially not pussy. What is making 35 so good, you're just fearless now? Does the money, achievement and pride make you confident and take more chances? I think from a young guys perspective it seems like the end of the world when a hot chick rejects you, totally dejected and crushed. Does that jus…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 10:58 PM
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Except i havent tried therapy or pills yet and study much less ( 2 -3 hours a day ) as a computer engineer(the rest of the day i play League) . I hope you find an answer or direction as much as i do. You're miserable and depressed and you don't know why right? No answer in sight? You're in a cycle within a cycle of destructive behavior. There are 24hrs in a day. I'm going to hope you get 8hrs of sleep a night. In 16hrs you're doing 3hrs max of productive work on a week day. That's 15% of your ac…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:33 PM
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My parents are both largely to blame for who I am today. Your parents may have not been perfect, but they didn't make you miserable. They gave you life, and you are not a victim you are privileged to be here, remember that. Nobody held a gun to your head to do compsci and work your ass off for no trophy. You chose that. This is all a product of your perception. You choose to feel inferior to your classmates. I was in compsci once, and I had the same problem as you. Know what I did? I stopped giv…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:25 PM
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Henry Hill had it all Well the really Henry Hill was a gay rat. Sorry to blow that for you, I do love the movie.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 12:28 AM
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Haha was thinking that last time I watched it. Legitimately got mad watching this stupid broad run wild. That scene where she drives the car into the front yard high near the end and goes ballistic and the officers just let her in the house almost brought me to a boil. Anyways don't forget Nicky also was a fuck up, he lost his head on drugs and banged Ace's wife. Definitely did it his way, but he made some equally stupid mistakes.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 12:27 AM
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Yeah just be clear you want to fuck her. Get that MILF pussy son. Although I would make certain to wear a condom because these old broads who have a ton of partners like this are way more likely to be carrying more than one disease. On the other hand she probably fucks like a champ and isn't shy. Remember, if you fuck this mom you're a certified badass, but if you fuck the mom and the daughter together you belong on Mt. Olympus. Also make sure the daughter can hear to raise the power trip. Edit:…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 11:53 PM
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Like the other guy who responded said, but also look for more general engineering orgs. Much bigger draw and you'll blend in better to game more people. If it's a smaller and more specialized org you'll have to try making strategic plays to build power. For example if you're a project manager or an electrical engineer, look for a big general prof org on cost reporting or safety if it's applicable. Easily explainable depending on your job and will create a big pool to quickly network
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:08 PM
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Good insight. To all the guys here who have gone through 'hell' for a broad who turned out to be a big time waster - don't drown in resentment. You aren't a victim, you made these choices. Let go of that anger towards them, they aren't even thinking about you. And if they are then who cares! That simple.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:53 AM
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Bottom line: People love it when their son or daughter get with someone someone in the 'tribe'. Instant value and validation. You instantly have rapport and lose that invisible status. Why? You have an identity that matters to the other person. Best advice here by far. Yoga class works if you're a total Chad who looks like a king, yes, that's the go to advice, but we also know that this is where people come to find real partners with perceived values. The girls could feel like they can be total …
/r/askTRP19/07/17 05:56 PM
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In my experience sometimes I'm on fire, but often my brain will point me towards not having anything really interesting to respond with..so if they test me I might act aloof and not respond because I'm more focused on something else..I suppose it makes them feel subservient because I'm putting them on ice and they then want to win my attention? My question is does this make women turned on because I won't buckle in this frame* or does it make me seem different in a bad way. I guess what I'm aski…
/r/askTRP17/07/17 05:51 PM
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Amen. I'll fly Southwest, take a ferry, and plate.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:01 PM
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Depressed and flunked out of college and all his friends didn't want to talk to him. All boy genius can come up with is that they're disloyal assholes which means that all men and women are. OP if you focus all of that energy you spend self-loathing into working on yourself you might start to offer value, which will make people want to talk to you...like this guy said it's you not them man, not brain surgery.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 10:10 PM
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Great post for the most part. Only part I'd change truly is that therapy will help a lot of guys. Even if they can't diagnose the guys properly every time, it will get guys used to opening themselves up about the way they feel and learning to be vulnerable, something they don't yet have a grasp of. Hard work beats talent every time, beat that into your head. Someone's better than you? Make yourself better.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 05:50 PM
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Yeah try now and see if you can remedy this because the longer this goes on anyways the more likely the relationship is to fold. You're going to quickly become bitter towards her because she's an emotional sinkhole.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:37 PM
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Afraid of what? You aren't fucking girls are you? That's what you're scared of. Go try falling flat on your face in front of girls that give you a hard on. You'll never think about jerking off again, but yeah don't use porn. Those whores don't deserve my attention anyways fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 01:56 AM
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Get a new happy one. Let's say you have a girlfriend with kennel cough. She's sick with something horribly unattractive, and you aren't a doctor. So, you probably wouldn't hesitate to find a new one. Just because depression isn't a very visible and easily treatable sickness doesn't mean you're forced to stick with it. You aren't obligated to be a nurse. Find your balls somewhere between your legs and spend your time making you better.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:48 AM
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Link is great, really opened my eyes to social situations I've been having recently. Definitely worth reading in full.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:32 AM
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Thats what I thought lol
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:45 PM
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Thanks for posting, I'm just trying to understand where the other poster was coming from. From a cost for macronutrient standpoint milk is actually a pretty attractive product in my view. Greek yogurt is such a rich product, it contains great quantities of protein without incorporating a lot of fat, a "super food" if you would for someone trying to gain muscle mass while not packing on a bunch of calories. Dairy contains a shit ton of hormones such as the estrogen called estrone and prolactin. C…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:37 PM
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Cut back on dairy, or eliminate it all together if you can. Can you defend this?
/r/askTRP21/06/17 06:38 PM
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You're golden bro happens to everyone. Difference is the way she overreacted. I've been in bed with broads drunk and sober and had problems getting hard for a for number of reasons. No shame, just move on and forget about it. Practice makes perfect, especially with issues like this.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 08:37 PM
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How about just telling her up front "hey I know this is going to go downhill, I don't know you well enough to get wrapped up in drama sorry. If you want to fuck until you can't anymore though I'm in." Not those words obviously but to each his own. I wouldn't blame OP if he decided this is too much, or if he felt guilty and decided to be a nurse. That's a tough situation to through a guy in because its manipulation on top of circumstance. I think the objective truth is she thinks she's found some…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 08:11 PM
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Better yet OP, pack your bags and move to a cave
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:15 PM
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Say this OP
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:14 PM
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"And you only want me for ..."
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:13 PM
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They call it KCPD (Kansas City Panty Drop) music for a reason.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:15 PM
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All great advice in my view. Especially the following: Always have an exit plan. A GOD bag, with a lock. (Get Out of Dodge - some spare money, keys, personal hygiene stuff, change of clothes, important papers, bank acct info) Do NOT pass all financial control to her. Create a joint acct, and only put in 50% of the bills into this acct. The rest of your money goes into your own savings\checking acct. If she makes less then you, to fucking bad. This is so important because it keeps you constantly …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:02 PM
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Well if she's a self-described cum bucket, you sound a little bit over invested in her, judging by the fact that you made this post. Not necessarily a bad thing, just view it as a learning stepping stone. To help you out though, what you're asking is how to rage fuck this cum bucket. Now funny as that sounds in my head I think it's pretty simple. You don't respond to her loaded question but direct her over to your place at a designated time. When she gets over you act dominant, aggressive, etc. …
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:47 PM
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Whatever right. As is said don't try to "unplug" him. He chose this, he must face whatever the consequences are.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:40 PM
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But it doesn't take away from the fact she has the ABILITY to do all of these things men think their unicorn couldn't. You might be right, she probably hasn't done anything and loves her husband, your friend. But that doesn't mean she won't have a change of heart, it doesn't mean she won't ever suck a Jets players cock after a Super Bowl win (which won't happen more likely because that would mean the Jets go to a Super Bowl in our lifetime). The issue here is does your friend treat his wife as i…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 10:16 PM
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Wouldn't that have her only be fucked for a short minute? See you're a fast learner. Women don't get off from just getting pounded anyways, put your fist in her pussy. If you've been seeing her for a while and she's vetted not to be a filthy bitch, go down on her. Men aren't too different, I love receiving head. Which is why if a bitch has a cold sore shes on my block list.
/r/askTRP13/06/17 09:47 PM
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Recomposition is the best way to go dude. Honestly though the thing about this is you just need to start lifting now man. It's better to just not be fat, start experimenting now with what works best. If you feel like you're too thin with not enough muscle mass, guess what? You can always increase your intake and lift more. Simple as that. IIFYM -> track your calories -> get on a beginners routine. Best way to see certain gains. It's really a two year investment and the quicker you start, the qui…
/r/askTRP13/06/17 06:16 PM
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But with all things, there's a middle ground between nihilism and getting that girl who will see you through rose tinted glasses Great comment bringing me back to reality. Appreciate the advice too man, all we can do is our best.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 06:03 PM
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You are either in the "Denial" or "Bargaining" phase. Probably. I understood all of this from a theory standpoint but since I've started to apply TRP over the past few months, I have been considering what life I'm going to have in 20-30 years. Honestly knowing that I will never have an awesome "dream" relationship with a woman like I might have hoped for in my teenage years has taken me off guard. Self-analysis really is a kick in the nuts, it's truly difficult to put those dots together that yo…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 05:27 PM
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If a girl is all over social media I really don't want any part of it. Why? They're vapid people who offer no value. Think about it, who will offer a richer experience, the person who looks at other people all day, or the one who reads, does yoga, is focused on her career, etc. There is a reason women are often secretaries.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 07:08 PM
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things go bad What exactly does this entail? Can you be my general counsel?
/r/askTRP07/06/17 11:26 PM
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That's honestly one of the most egregious things about today's work place. That she just has to feel a certain way and guys are fucked. I don't blame employers either, I see why they do it.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 06:24 PM
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Thanks...MIKE JONES
/r/askTRP07/06/17 05:11 PM
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Well they are all married so that's not really a bad excuse.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 04:30 PM
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Yeah exactly. Chad fucked her life over so now she's looking for someone to cling to so that she has insurance on the kid. So I think you've figured out how to play this right? Pretend you're going to take care of her so that she wants to fuck your brains out then when she starts trying to levy responsibilities you suddenly can't handle the pressure. She's great but you realized you're not right for it but you're sure she'll find someone.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 03:00 PM
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getting sexts from other guys and answering them while with me Tony Soprano: "When you're not with me you can do what you want." OP that means when she's with you she can't just act like a fucking slut for the whole town. You don't have her focus, and it's probably too late to get it. I'd soft next until she begs to suck your cock.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:27 PM
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On one hand there's visual proof she puts out, on the other it seems like a lot of these single moms could potentially be a lot less care free because of the kid. Seems like what has to be done from a strategy standpoint is fuck her in the ass because last time she had sex she had a kid. But seriously I would think she would be hesitant and wary of men, so you probably have to work on establishing some level of comfort without breaking your frame. How exactly is above my pay grade i haven't trie…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 07:52 PM
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You can say anything. The problem becomes when you get lost in this fairytale and abandon your frame that made you successful. That's why these women begin to resent you.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:28 PM
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Sort of at a crossroads myself. Just graduated and I got a good job. Am keeping my head down, lifting, and saving money like crazy. Problem is I'm living with my parents. I've seen some advise here to get the fuck out of mom and dads house asap. While I would like that my expenses go crazy as a result. Also if I'm moving out I'm moving to a decent area where rent would be a lot. I hate the idea of paying rent because I know it's just money down a drain. My grandfather my great uncle and their fa…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 08:19 PM
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Watch "The Color of Money", and just study Paul Newman. Fucking Adonis man. Rewatched that one recently and just threw it on again. His performance is just unbelievable.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:42 AM
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I'm on board with you man. My only question with you saying I'd fit into your moral code, but if your friend thought about banging one of your plates, he's not a friend right? How does that all work, is it okay as long as it doesn't impact you or what?
/r/askTRP06/05/17 11:38 PM
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Yeah completely, this is exactly how it would play out, and I would suffer. Trust me, i don't have a death wish and I'm not immature enough to act on it. I've already steered my ship away from the opportunities. I'm just speaking on whether or not based on TRP theory it would be "wrong" per se. More than anything it's been interesting to say how as my SMV has risen, I can not only lead my group, but women with other men will also fall into my influence and that's it.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 11:07 PM
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This is true, but I replied to another in the thread to further my question. Also these girls always tell, they get a high off seeing a dude react that they fucked "x" guy with certain status, and holding over his head.
/r/askTRP06/05/17 10:58 PM
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My question wasn't realistic. I'm just speaking from a conceptual standpoint right, shouldn't our friendships be deeper than going off a cliff after one off fucking some girl they're not even serious with? How vapid and empty are our friendships? And speaking on abundance and men taking action, there's also plenty of dicks in the world. If these guys don't support my value systems shouldn't I just go find new friends? Explain why someone shouldn't have casual sex with another"'s" girl? Why shoul…
/r/askTRP06/05/17 10:56 PM
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Sure. I just imagined the way OP acted was calm, but in retrospect yeah there probably was a more agreeable way to end the night
/r/askTRP04/05/17 08:25 PM
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He might have over reacted. But still her pulling this shit killed his attraction. I don't blame the guy if she was really making a point of it like OP says. Fuck that
/r/askTRP04/05/17 02:22 PM
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Delete tinder, stop using social media it's a validation tool for women, and start really talking to women. You know the drill
/r/askTRP04/05/17 02:05 PM
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How to win friends and Influence people by dale carnegie. Classic book and examples all over the place of how some of history's best leaders, and top guys in business implement this information. Very essential if you haven't read, but make sure you follow the instructions and use it like a handbook for best results. Read every chapter twice, take notes, and keep referring to it after reading to think about how events impacted you.
/r/askTRP04/05/17 02:00 PM
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Do you think there are women out there who are so vindictive they try to give out STDs? Like do you think the hyper feminization of some of these broads makes them want to fuck over their "oppressors"?
/r/askTRP04/05/17 12:53 PM
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Better to feel bad now and know you made the right choice later, than to keep looking back and not know if you did. Negatives outweigh the positives, you're totally right.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 07:41 AM
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Bullshit. I have seen several fat disgusting programmer Indian American holding hands with a blonde bombshell in my area. I have indian friends who have all fucked white girls that were hot. I have seen a fob indian guy get an attractive Asian American girlfriend because he had game and worked out. Now is a FOB less likely to succeed? Yes but it has nothing to do with being Indian. A dude straight out of Guatemala who mows lawns is not going to be first in line to fuck any all American girls unt…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:50 AM
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She included the rest of that stuff because she's pissed you made her pay. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who goes out of their way to make things right with you? I sure as hell would, take this opportunity to stop responding.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 03:17 AM
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Start working ahead this summer man. Use that insecurity as fuel to crush the challenges. And keep in mind you're not alone, a lot of other people are intimidated by the course load.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:29 PM
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Watch The Tao of Steve. You are not smart enough to understand the value of game. When you ask for advice, listen and don't act defensive about how bad you are. Just shut up and work hard. It could take 5 months or 5 years for you to get laid, but if you commit yourself to a goal it's certain you'll reach it. Just focus and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:29 AM
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Exactly. Tonight I just went back to an old college bar I used to frequent and sometimes feel like a loser at with my old friends who I still happen to be friends with (for three more weeks until I graduate!!!). Guess what, when I went back to this frat bar tonight, I felt like a loser! Because I put myself in a social situation where I was a nobody in this environment and people gave 0 fucks about me. In the professional or the academic environment I am respected, but in this one? I am just a p…
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:24 AM
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People like this guy are just looking for confirmation they can look as bad. Validation seeking that they could be better. Complacency and comfort to be fat and maybe get laid one day by a fat unicorn who just loves him for who he is. How cute.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:19 AM
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I think the answer is start now to both. Start trying to fuck hot girls and start trying to get in the best shape of your life. I've been lifting for three months and I'm stronger than I've ever been, but pussy isn't just falling in my lap yet. I understand it's a long grind towards getting what I want, and a lot of breaking old bad habits, but that doesn't mean I don't have huge blue balls.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:09 AM
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Yeah I felt like this at one point. OP you have to challenge yourself and put yourself in difficult situations moving forward. What was fun became routine and predictable, you need to elevate yourself to another level.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 05:58 AM
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Smart. Honestly my biggest problem with western society is how we segregate people by age. That's not how people were naturally split in our communities.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:06 AM
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Right, I get that . I just don't to be put in a situation where I see myself as abandoning them in a bad state. For me, when I see human evolution, sometimes it is a good thing to let go as people decline. However, we tend to ask ourselves did we do the right thing, did I take care of my family the way I should have? I don't want to just dump them on assisted living and spend my time spinning plates and lifting while my own parents are melting away with some hourly helper microwaving them a lean…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:10 AM
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Absolutely. I'm gonna look back at this thread later, but for I am concerned about how I'm going to deal with my parents as they get older. Older TRP members, what is your advice on dealing with and handling the responsibilities/guilt of older parents. I feel like this will be a major roadblock that will affect my growth at some point in the future.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 10:20 PM
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Yeah I agree with you, if he was a friend like that I'd close my mouth. But I figured in OP's case just throw this gym acquaintance some advice and if he doesn't like it fuck em. Up to OP to determine the risk factor though.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 05:08 AM
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Good advice, thanks
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:22 AM
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Yeah that might be what gets me so excited True, often enough, but they come with a triple side order of DRAMA!, so rarely worth it. That's why I have a lock on my front door after I kick them out in the morning! Hahaha
/r/askTRP09/04/17 11:10 PM
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This is true but usually they are a certain type of "hipster" weird girl. I don't know why but something inside of me just wants to slay one of these wild animals hahaha
/r/askTRP09/04/17 11:09 PM
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Haha yeah I would love to see science linking these two things
/r/askTRP09/04/17 11:06 PM
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I would throw it because fuck it. He has no reason to think you're trying to screw him over and you might help the guy make a good choice. What's the worst thing that can happen to you by sending him that TRM article? If a dude sent me that without me being aware I would be like damn maybe I am a sucker. I might not follow through with the advice, but it would definitely have planted a seed in my head.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 10:48 PM
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wouldn't most mothers have a husband / baby daddy while the kid is still really young? Ever heard of this little thing called hypergamy? If OP has decent game and high SMV, these women will rationalize it as emotionally needing sex from outside. I'm so bored and lonely home alone, plus my husband is gone all day and /u/ravenhiss was here to help...
/r/askTRP06/04/17 12:45 AM
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WHY ARE YOU TOUCHING MY GIRL MAN http://i.imgur.com/MoaGORu.jpg
/r/askTRP05/04/17 07:38 PM
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It could. Or it couldn't. You won't know until you find out. Why are you more worried about what people think anyways? If you're to guys and girls, just people you find interesting there shouldn't be anything to be freaking out about dude.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 09:47 PM
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Find "different girls"? Abundance. If you don't like how sex is with one girl, go try 10 more. You did read the sidebar right?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:31 AM
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Another good thing to keep your reputation up in the workplace from my experience is having people do written feedback about your performance. For example, if you are working with someone in the company and they say you did a good job, ask them to email that to your boss so that regardless he knows you are taking care of business. May not be applicable to OP but I would keep my head down and work my ass off no matter what because I am valuable.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:30 AM
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Aim for higher quality women? She's an 8 start gaming 10s. The grass is always greener.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:58 PM
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Everything I look for What is a man if he can't hold his word-- You look for loyalty but you aren't loyal? You're becoming what you hate most man. Guys like you are volatile and unpredictable. Those aren't good traits to embody.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 03:57 AM
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Sounds like anger phase internalizing AWALT. You're just now getting visualization of it through experience and you're shocked by it all. Once you begin to accept these people for who they are then you'll find happiness. But you really need to work on letting go of that anger and just being happy with who you are and not worrying about these other idiots.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 03:55 AM
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What I did was started doing it at most every other day, and the depleted feeling vanished. I don't think it was because i jerk off less, but because I stopped watching porn. That's the most important part. And work out for fucks sake. I'm convinced a lot of dudes are just low energy and can't fuck these girls because they put a bunch of fat sugar and processed foods in them selves laying on the couch all day.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:54 AM
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Fuck her? Asking you if you'd tell her friends isn't really indicative of that. Critical reading for all anyways: http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-avoid-a-false-rape-accusation Frame is everything. She won't accuse you if you hold frame remember? Your SMV is too high and your dick put the fear of God in her.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:51 AM
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First I want to point out that TRP is amoral. Then think about this: are you happy? Does doing all of this make me happy, or are you just seeking external validation? Before you keep demeaning yourself and calling yourself a psycho and a sociopath, think about how these are all ways that you are ashamed that others may see you. If you were a sociopath you wouldn't feel as guilty as you do. Remember that you aren't necessarily the "scoundrel" feminists may paint you as in any of these cases. Look…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 02:32 AM
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I've dealt with a lot of kids like that in my day since I majored in libtard arts. Luckily the professor and other kids didn't side with him too and blackball your credibility. I've had classes like that and it makes it 10x worse to sit through. That being said you did the right thing. By combatting him you will always lose because you are not PC on these issues. It's fine to bring up counter-arguments and observations like you did, but make it clear those aren't necessarily your views. For exam…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 11:52 PM
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Thanks, and for the story. Actually had a similar bed in my freshman year dorm room and when I brought any girl back all my neighbors knew because the damn thing shook like the Eiffel Tower on stilts. that is the most obvious signal in the world I thought it was too, but "hesitate and masturbate nice guy" is apparently still hardwired in my playbook and can really fuck me over. Actually just saw the same girl at my school gym in yoga pants smile and wave at me while I was doing cardio. The whole…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 01:51 AM
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Do Option B, watch your frame crumble, and learn the hard way this is almost never a good idea.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:39 PM
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AWALT. Obviously don't be 100% dead inside about this, but treat her like a certified plate from now on. I think you definitely have her wrapped around your finger at this point anyways since she dropped the knowledge of her being somebody else's cum dumpster. You nailing her anally, dominating her across the board is enough proof. Change your mindset so that you know in the back of your head she's a slut because you have to keep the muscle strong and not be surprised by whatever other madness c…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:19 PM
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I would act like it's hilarious. Treat her like an absolute child. She got mind fucked and took it hahahahahaha. Is she supposed to deserve your sympathy for her stupidity?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:48 PM
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Exactly where treating her like a child comes in. Flip the power dynamic on her fucking head and make her feel like a kid. How cute she has a crush on you.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 07:28 PM
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As a kid I always thought he was crazy for doing that. Only now do I see the genius. And you know what he was smart! He made himself more attractive, people always wanted more Dave after that. Brilliant move and a great teachable moment.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 07:08 PM
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Thanks man, you nailed it. Appreciate the anecdotes I'll try to make use of those
/r/askTRP26/03/17 04:56 PM
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In this moment you're dealing with a giant curveball and trying to act like it isn't a big deal at all. You're trying to react to possibilities of how this is all going to play out in a rational manner and that is completely normal. The problem pal is, you need to need to be a bit irrational. Your sister, someone you've likely shared a lot of life experience and molding with, is going to pass very soon. Try to start thinking about what this means for you before you start thinking about everyone …
/r/askTRP15/03/17 10:02 PM
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You answer back like the other guy said, you use actions instead of telling her you have other options. Women are emotional beings, they respond through feeling something. Basically you have to make her feel your abundance. I know a popular thing around here to teach guys is using dread game. You make her feel legitimate dread about your ability to attract other women like it's picking up milk at the store. So there's the one example of a guy leaving a gift basket on Valentine's Day at his plate…
/r/askTRP15/03/17 04:09 AM
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Life is a game. Why are you a spectator? Start asking yourself that every time you're curious about something, instead of just observing. A scientist doesn't just observe and take notes in experiments, he/she manipulates (GETS INVOLVED) in order to see unique outcomes. I always feel that I'm not good enough Your self confidence is low, this is going to steadily build up with time, patience, lifting, and beginning to believe in yourself. Experience and practice.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 05:07 PM
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Care to expand on this. If a guy goes from a fatass to jacked his SMV will not be raised and help him get laid? It's a pretty simple equation, lifting = confidence gain + muscles. This is a great combination for a guy to get laid if he wants to.
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:57 PM
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It is a long, long road. One thing for me is in my journey I have started to notice a change in myself regarding my immediacy to pedestalize women. When I'm at the gym and I see some really hot chicks, sure I notice them and am very attracted, but I am not doing this sick thing where I think of them as deities. Oneitis is a habit, it is an ingrained behavior that we can change. If we keep working on that muscle, we can reshape how we view people in a much healthier lens. I consciously consider t…
/r/askTRP11/03/17 04:47 PM
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step outside of your comfort zone, get ahead. Yeah good advice. And be confident, just be yourself, etc. Kids just do your HW and start lifting. There isn't a special snowflake guide about how to survive the brutality of being under 18. Same rules apply. If you're in high school why are you making a guide for it. Shouldn't you at least complete it first and get some experience where you can look back at it then make this lol?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:53 PM
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Same. 8 year old here and I had to step out of finger painting class to let you guys know that this post just made me swallow the red pill
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:30 PM
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Tell her you're sorry and buy her flowers.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 02:37 AM
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That lawyer is a total winner.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 08:23 PM
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So you blew your frame because you got high and drunk? Make a mental not to do any of these things again. This girl wanted to hang out, so next time just hang out with her outside of a toxic environment, like say your bedroom?!
/r/askTRP28/02/17 07:24 AM
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So you spent 5+ hours on working out today? How is that feasible lol
/r/askTRP28/02/17 07:01 AM
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Yeah I guess just take advantage of low hanging fruit right. Something about it being so damn easy just throws me off I guess. Thanks.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 04:07 AM
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many of us wake up at 5 or 6am for work every day because if we don't, we won't have a roof over our heads. Lol poor me? I actually work on my own schedule. Not all advice is for everyone, different circumstances. It may not be a problem for you, but it could be for guys like me, those in college, or the unemployed.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:41 PM
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Sounds like anger phase hit you hard.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 04:31 AM
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How do I lead tonight You lead tonight by having a clear plan of fucking her. Escalate and do it, and don't cry again if you "cant". If she complains or gives you hell tell her off. Ever heard of abundance mentality? Value your happiness and don't look for any validation from her. What would you be doing if she wasn't there? Think about how you don't need her, there are other things you can do. You tell the therapist everything you want. Go prepared with items you want to talk about and start br…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 07:50 PM
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You need to start practicing meditation. Make sure your diet is proper and you're doing proper exercises. Stop watching porn and masturbate once a week. You have oneitis for this girl. Stop. You're treating her like a special fairy when she wants to get bent over and fucked. Now she's playing caretaker and you're a fucking wimp. Go see a therapist and work through some of this. The investment is worth your happiness. Read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' if you haven't.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:09 PM
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Just try to network and get some people together. Worst case scenario you just go random in roommates and slug it out for a while, and sometimes you can have some badass ones.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:16 AM
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With a quality degree and experience you should have no problem doing well in finance right off the bat.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 12:14 AM
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Go to the best school.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:25 PM
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I know it's not ideal but if you do decide to live with him and go to school think about the positive parts of it. You get to spend serious time with your old man, do it he's not going to be here forever. Your mom has her story and he has his, learn it. Then figure out how to pay all your expenses and move onto campus. There won't be a social life unless you do, but getting your education comes first. Plus you'll have few distractions.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 05:23 PM
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Respond with "Okay." Then never text her again.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 04:32 PM
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Javier Bardem in VCB is Frame 101. Watch this guy have balls of steel and fuck everything he wants.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:22 AM
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Damn. In a way you could be indirectly/partially responsible for the successes of thousands of men if that were true?
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:44 AM
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Well if you're going to "reheat" chicken don't do it in a microwave. Reheating meat tends to dry it out, gives chicken that chalk texture. You can do what another commenter said though and make a large stew that will last you days and is very easy with a crock pot (use dried herbs and throw fresh in at the last bit of cooking). I would use a whole chicken and not just breast meat for this though. If you bake chicken breasts, just try rubbing them with salt and cayenne and a bit of avocado oil on…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 01:26 AM
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I'm with you man. Fighting and agressive physical behavior is natural, but society has levied punishments and hefty consequences. You get into a fight you're looking at jail time, fines, a fucked up face, and a criminal record. Do not fight anyone unless you have to for self defense. If someone calls you that just ignore it. Part of being the man you want to is outcome independence, so going at it with some meathead is only going to fuck you over. That being said lift so you're prepared if he tr…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 11:16 PM
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Yeah man you did good. That's a bullshit situation anyways and any reaction would be valid imo. The way you should try to react is like the other guys said. Don't lose your cool, but make it clear to him that was not okay. The other guys had your back.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 10:16 PM
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Yeah Harold is 15, give him a break OP lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 03:11 AM
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Uh dude you said you're putting in minimum effort, so try working harder? The reason that guy did better than you is he studied for 2 weeks and you studied for 2 days.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:31 PM
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Lifting can be a cure all though. Instead of OP twiddling his thumbs at home fretting about this party, he could be crushing steel. It solves anxiety by forcing him to be in a public place exposing his bodily functions, makes him work on himself, and the improvements show him that he can be happy if he works hard, depression handled. It's a lot of birds with one stone.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:51 PM
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Right, cops are working hard to make sure people are safe. While it's not everyday a man will come in to say a girl beat his ass, not helping him would be flat out ignoring their duty. The biggest problem with all of this stuff goes back to my education as a kid. Women who were authority figures in my school always said never hit a girl they can't fight back. I remember being told men can't be raped on different occasions. I would never ever hurt a woman, haven't hit one and won't. But when a gi…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:45 AM
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I knew a girl who matches that description from when I went to high school who had an abortion. Very smart, very focused and a great student. While she had all of these great qualities, there were some that were a red flag relating to the abortion. I personally think having had an abortion means you're reckless and overly seeking adventure. Just an apathetic and go with it attitude, lot of drug experimentation, involved with weird groups. While some people may have serious career ambitions and b…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 10:10 PM
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Yeah do not have kids. Wait until you have life experience, financial stability, and wisdom to make that choice. Don't let her influence you especially when you know you aren't ready. So much life to live for yourself, don't be scared to be selfish and have fun.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:57 PM
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That they're a two wheeled vehicle? Are you telling me to fuck one of these big broads in 4WD in quit pussy footing around? Hahaha
/r/askTRP15/02/17 12:45 AM
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Sure that's a good point. They could just be becoming more comfortable and there's nothing to it. However, if you're a strict Muslim and you take a cooking class where people are talking about how delicious pork is and how they love cooking with it, does that mean you just kneel to the realization that was pork is good? These girls knew sex was enjoyable, I'm sure they masturbate all the fucking time. The point is you'll follow a strict doctrine if you believe in it, a college course can't make …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:19 AM
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Yeah that's what I was puzzled about.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:58 AM
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Yeah this is standard for gender studies. I play the beta card male feminist in class discussions because anything else is academic suicide. It's different for girls though. They are vocal about their sex lives and get rewarded by the professor for honesty.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:58 AM
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Not saying they don't. I agree with the girl being able to make choices about her sex life but if she's going to "save herself" I don't want to be anywhere in the mix. My point in posting this was that these choices seemed to be reversed so quickly for the girls in class confirming some things here, it was an eye opener for me. It could be bias because of the specific girls being more inclined because they're in this niche course like another mentioned. However there is a pretty good mix from al…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:50 AM
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Hahaha was sitting next to her and made some small talk after that got dropped.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 02:44 AM
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Apparently. What was truly jarring to me about it was that these were girls who were socially programmed over ~20 years to do one thing, and when they were presented the idea of an alternative, their biological hardwiring overrides their system. Hamster crashes and they fuck 20 guys in a semester.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 10:17 PM
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Best advice here.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:01 PM
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aside from joining up with this group, what did you do to create opportunities for yourself? That's a good point and something that I need to internalize. While I was with the group and saw several people out that were familiar or that I found attractive, I didn't try to make things happen. But beyond that I just didn't have the vision to know what were and weren't potential opportunities. I suppose that's where trial and error comes into play and I need to start putting myself out there more in…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:06 PM
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That's could be a good prescription. I often feel like some of the people in my group are idiots. While a couple of my guy friends and I do engage in hobbies or conversation which I do enjoy, there are other occasions where I am having a lot less fun with this larger group. I'm not alone here, one of my best friends didn't come out with us because he knew he wasn't going to have a good time. He's more of an introverted and smart guy that likes movies, books and gaming. The girls whined he was be…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:08 PM
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For me I would plan to break up with her after this. Considering your entire relationship with her has been built on you being blindsided and improperly reading her, I would be disgusted and no longer enjoy her company. While some may say you should never expect her to be loyal, her openly communicating to several others, including an ex-boyfriend about how she finds you unfit is treason. Not confronting her allows this to continue.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:19 PM
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Great read, well executed. Most guys just flop at that "we're not having sex tonight". Either they get frustrated and keep pushing and piss her off or they just act stupid and give up. Happened to me more than once, and I failed on some really hot chicks.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:09 AM
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Yeah this is what OP is just refusing to understand. Try studying 8 hours straight, then taking a test for 2 hours, and feeling primed after to go out on Friday night. Repeat that for 3 months and for 4-6 different classes while working see how persistent you are in gaming women, and keeping up with everything you want to.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:51 AM
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Go to college first. Saying you have 10 hours in a day, then 8 hours of sleep then 6 hours of free time is not how humans function. We aren't programs. Life doesn't work like that in college. You'll get to party, you'll get to sleep with girls, but like the other post said, it's not like you think it's going to be. College isn't a fantasy, there's plenty of down time where shit isn't going down, and weekends where you're not crushing pussy after pussy. I've had times when I've been able to set u…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 04:47 AM
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Yeah accountants can make millions for sitting behind their computer. Networking is always good, but it can't be used as a cure all.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 04:03 PM
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Yeah my parents are wealthy and I'm fortunate to get to go out and party with my friends, drink, and meet some women. This only has gone so far for me and relied upon connections I have slowly made in and out of class. I still have to work now as well, and I am looking forward to complete independence and developing on my own after 25. I wasn't allowed to join Greek life by my parents, but I know if I was things definitely would have come easier. Kids I know with parents that let them do what th…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:22 AM
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Just being myself around her Where did I go wrong You didn't do anything wrong. She wasn't right. Like the other guy said get back out there and learn so many new names that you can't remember hers.
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:34 AM
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8.) Shakespeare, Hemingway, Ayn Rand Well fuck that just went off a cliff
/r/seduction24/01/17 05:31 AM
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Professional organizations. Chances are there are a number of them related to your job you can join. My work paid for my membership fees. You get better at your job, you could get to travel like me, get leadership and planning experience, and get plenty of networking. Even in STEM fields like mine women will be at events who don't work with you = doesn't affect your paycheck if you fuck their brains out! Yes, it will take time out of your day to organize, communicate and plan. But at the end of …
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