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He has a 401K she doesn’t!! She needs a lawyer to “aggressively negotiate” for her. I can imagine if he is this shitty over a couple hundred bucks, it’s the tip of the iceberg with struggle she has to get money for basics like food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:15 AM
123

This, we have been conditioned by the Patriarchy to compete with each other and see each other as threats. Not just for mens romantic/sexual attention but also for the very few positions of power available to us. As the decisions lay with men for access. Men don’t see us as competition so we are pitted against each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:35 PM
19

Wow this really resonates. Such a great comment. We are not acceptable if we have that variety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 08:16 PM
29

You mean what is wrong with him!! ‘These people’? She was a kid, he was a grown as predator groomer. You have your post backwards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 08:01 PM
21

Poor kid was groomed by this disgusting scrote. Not surprised at all unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:58 PM
37

It’s half that. $550/63 = $8.70. Less than $10 🤡shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:22 PM
75

Or has a DUI.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 09:13 AM
31

In our pornified culture, men are conditioned to see our bodies as barely human objects to masturbate into, the ship sailed long ago for ‘free the nipple” movement to be meaningful for desexualising woman’s bodies. Getting naked is not helpful at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:53 AM
179

‘He helps with chores’ made me laugh. The hobosexual ‘helps’ her clean up up after him. Jesus. The bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 07:39 PM
3

I got the audio version read by the author on the my free library app! So easy to listen to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 11:24 AM
46

Book recommendation on this topic ‘Rage becomes her - the power of a woman’s anger’ Soraya Chemaly. It’s available on Libaray apps. Absolutely brilliant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 09:39 PM
12

Through our biggest promoters!! Angry scrotes shitting on FDS in other subs. Not sure I want them to die mad just yet. They are sending women here in droves with their thrash talk. All while we living rent free in their angry heads. It’s fucking hilarious. If we paid them they couldn’t do a better job. For the success of the sub and podcast they deserve some credit. Every time they mention FDS, they make us more popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 03:00 PM
168

Strangled! You choke on a sandwich. You get strangled by your Pornsick scrote ‘boyfriend’.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:23 PM
143

So normalized we call it choking not strangling. It’s Strangulation guys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:20 PM
563

Can we start calling it what it is. STRANGLING. It’s strangling not choking. Choking is something lodged in windpipe. Strangulation is a better description of this violent act. As for her saying she ‘loves it’. Like fuck she does, I’ll bet good money she has past sexual trauma and a history of self harm. No one who loves and values themselves wants to be physically hurt by a loved one. And those doing it are beyond fucked up. ‘kinky sex Pozzie’ brigade defending this can go fuck themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 02:17 PM
559

If she was even that bad!! I don’t believe him. Likely dismissed her ability because it’s a women in STEM. Or is throwing that lie in the mix to make himself look better. She managed to pass the test ok. I don’t think her ability was ever a problem. Men love to underestimate womens ability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 09:09 PM
51

Ok that explains a lot, looking at her post history she posted in some BDSM sub. Of course it’s his ‘kink’ 🤡She is married to a cheating depraved shit head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:41 PM
63

That’s hilarious. ‘I want people to side with me and telling the full story truthfully will not achieve that’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:35 PM
15

Nail on the fucking head. If she insulted HIS job, it would be personal though. They see him as an actual person but not her. I hope she doesn’t get gaslit into any apology shit. They centre themselves as the prize. This world is ass backwards, where only their feelings matter and we provide service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:33 AM
30

For the fool lurkers shitting on FDS. Go suck a crusty unwashed dick, then die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 12:01 AM
55

Yes jealous we can’t suck off unwashed dick in the middle of the night and catch ass parasites from our gay porn addicted husband. Boo Hoo I’m so sad 🤡 .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 11:59 PM
29

Jesus. The bar is in hell. Ignoring all these red flags is pick me behaviour. You should want much more for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 07:45 PM
4

This is so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:52 AM
239

Flowers and chocolate are such thoughtless impersonal birthday gifts. The flowers decorate the shared space and no doubt he will eat his share of the chocolate while he mindlessly games. She writes 6 paragraphs and he leaves her on read . Remember ladies ‘ComMuNiCatE’. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 10:00 AM
351

Everyone banding together to gaslight her! That’s heartbreaking. So disrespectful. He planned it too. Disgusting asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 09:12 PM
9

Cane to say this! Lundy was great on the podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:09 PM
29

He threw it out of the van with her. Like hell I’d give it back to him. I’d keep it as compensation for the shitty way he treated her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:05 PM
116

Convince her to come back? I think more likely rape and kill her. He threw her out in a state park (that should be attempted murder) because he didn’t like how she drank her coffee. He is mentally unstable. I can’t believe she told him she had the watch. Fuck him, he threw her and the watch out of his van like garbage. Like hell he’d get that back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 07:04 PM
55

You know for real those little unresolved issues are some MAJOR shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:36 PM
174

Of course, why the fuck would you have expired food containers in a storage unit. He doesn’t feel like tidying up whenever he is there!??? Why would you even be hanging out there except to put stuff there or organise/tidy??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 01:48 PM
113

Jesus that’s strange as heck. This guy is a grade A weirdo. No boundaries when it comes to children. I wouldn’t let him past my door. What grown ass man is friends with a 12 year old child. Bikes and Pokemon? Who knows what else he was up too, your boyfriend was a child and probably doesn’t remember everything or was too young to see through his true intent, No fucking doubt this guy had a weird creepy agenda. Maybe to try befriend your boyfriends female friends or sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 06:16 PM
136

That’s weird, your boyfriend is 22, this guy is 34 and they were friends when your boyfriend was 12? He was 22 then? Am I reading that correctly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:48 PM
25

Yeah sure we want the creepy old predators for ourselves 🤢. They have to tell themselves that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 11:13 PM
360

Defend Sex Work? And wear nipple tassels? FFS, sounds a hoot, objectify yourself while advocating for men to purchase women solely for their gratification. How is this even happening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/22 05:58 PM
56

And caught cheating on his wife with a ‘professional’ mistress.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 11:54 PM
39

Oh no, that’s disappointing. Had a lot of hope for that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 08:45 PM
56

As if a Vagina caused it! Pornsick loser Coomer deforming himself with his own hand is not having sex or physical activity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 11:13 PM
53

Caused by Porn addiction. ‘Real medical condition’ as if, lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 08:35 PM
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fourthwavewomen is the sub you should check out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:08 AM
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fourthwavewomwn is the only feminist sub not modded by men and truly not pandering to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 07:06 AM
127

We need to call out how gross and creepy these are at every opportunity. Mock these fuckers. Under 18 is a child. Call them Pedos. And as for those gross old washed up Hollywood creeps that only date 20’s year olds, DiCaprio and Depp call them out as the immature weirdos they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:34 PM
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I watched the Doc Antle documentary on Netflix. Fucking creepy pedo was grooming children in plain sight. What struck me was the women recalling being in a ‘relationship’ with in him. These weren’t relationships it was hostage situation and rape. He should have been tossed in jail long ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 08:26 PM
80

He seems to think his diseased dick is some kind of appetizer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:53 AM
274

‘girls that love to reject guys to stroke their own egos’ how twisted and immature is these fucks logic that they think this. I do not know of a woman ever on the planet who rejected a guy she liked to stroke her own ego. Newsflash - She just didn’t like YOU Mr purple dick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:15 AM
189

He doesn’t do any, it’s your job to try satisfy his Pornsick limp dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:04 AM
104

Oh it only gets more insane. You need to do a full application process and pitch yourself to be this losers free prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 10:01 AM
122

He needs to see a doctor, that doesn’t sound healthy 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 09:57 AM
22

Fired cop. What shit was he up to to get fired without pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 06:32 PM
13

I did an on-line CBT program over 6 weeks. It was advertised on radio/media etc. It was over ZOOM and was FREE! (small refundable deposit) and provided by a well established mental health charity. Guess how many men attended?? Zero. Over 20 women and no men availed of this free opportunity to manage their mental health for zero $$ They don’t care about their mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:13 AM
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And sued him for damage to your property. Honestly would have no problem telling him you would have called the cops on him. He was definitely testing your boundaries OP, there was nothing funny about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 07:33 PM
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As if their mediocre heads aren’t full of themselves enough already! Chasing them?? Yeah that’ll fix their overinflated egos. LMFAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 11:49 AM
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How quickly he makes himself the victim. ‘It’s hard for a young guy dating’ and he ‘didn’t want to put that pressure on her’ . Oh what a hero to spare her like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 11:15 PM
3

I’d bet on Pornsick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 08:46 PM
137

The bar is so low for men that by even doing the barest minimum we are socialised to see them as some kind of prize! Conditioned to think ‘we’ve won the Lottery’ while carrying all the load. Who told them they were the prize? We did 🤡. Thank God we are waking up and not settling anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 08:36 PM
98

IBS playing up. Act like you are queasy and about to barf. Call Uber and dash out saying a family members outside to take you to urgent care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 08:11 PM
144

He was going to suggest calling to your house or going to his, skipping dinner unless you make it and get straight to hitting on you because there were ‘no slots available in the restaurant’ He got mad because you caught out his lie. I don’t think it was just because he is cheap, he also just wants to get physical with little effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 03:04 PM
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Adult Material is on Netflix now. It is a drama about a woman in the Porn Industry. It’s eye opening and doesn’t hold back on portraying how destructive it is for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 08:52 PM
20

Hilarious how men aren’t always shitting on themselves and their fucking poor Communication skills! Where are the guys on Tik Tok yakking about what they can do better?? No it’s all on us to make them be civil adults.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 07:40 PM
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Never had a ‘Blonde’ or ‘Slim Brunette’ - like women are fucking Baskin Robbins flavors .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 02:53 PM
11

I’ve never heard of him before, but that’s hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 11:07 AM
2

Recent one is excellent - maybe listen to the first Gail Dines one in advance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 10:42 AM
12

Google Maps shows up as Maurice Lane, Newburgh. It’s basic ranch style houses in a shabby lower end upstate suburb. 🤡. I find it hard to believe anyone would get $900 dollars for a room in that neighborhood. Seriously take a look. Never mind free maid services and prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:28 PM
7

For real! He was a disgusting loser. Full confession I could not get into the show, but he was so awful, I never warmed to him or the rest of it. But he was gross from the offset, I’m not sure what appeal he had to anyone, and totally immature and unfunny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 04:34 PM
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Yes, it’s called free-bleeding, she should do it all over his clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:34 PM
6

Phillip Schofield…🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:47 AM
0

U
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 07:00 AM
32

That last sentence rings true for so many men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 10:17 AM
58

He is older than my Dad, ugh,that’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 11:10 PM
68

She was a 16 year old child when they got together. Society has to stop accepting this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:33 PM
43

Straight facts! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:33 PM
19

Wow! That’s powerful. I’m saving to re-read again and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:26 PM
24

Together 5 years and he has a six year old …💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:07 PM
37

That was AMAZING!! Best episode ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:36 AM
48

MtF calling a woman ‘reeel pouty’ because you had bare back anal with her husband in front of her, bait and switch any expectation her pleasure would be important. God I miss the GC sub, at least a space where we weren’t gaslight into pretending TW aren’t misogynistic as fuck and SW is empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:59 AM
33

‘We are so busy teaching girls that they should be likeable that we often forget to teach them, like boys, that they should be respected. Soraya Chemaly ‘Rage Becomes Her: The Power of Women’s Anger’ I can’t recommend this book highly enough, the audio is available free on library app (borrow box etc) it’s exactly this topic. Here are some other quotes https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/60165024-rage-becomes-her-the-power-of-women-s-anger It’s an empowering read ladies!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:41 AM
30

This is exactly what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:38 PM
151

Absolutely, he definitely gaslight, negged and manipulated and encouraged her disorder with every second he spent with her. He is glossing over that fact, but that is why he is suicidal. He fucking knows exactly that is why she died. He didn’t want her to get help, her getting better is not a turn on. He actively made her ill. God knows what he said to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:37 PM
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‘They think I owe them something because they find me attractive’ Nail on head. Watch how mad they get if you tell them you know you are attractive. It drives them nuts as they think they have currency with compliments. I have a mirror I’d be pretty dumb not to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:26 PM
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https://www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:41 PM
13

https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:40 PM
12

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/the-survivors-handbook/what-is-a-refuge-and-how-can-i-stay-in-one/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:39 PM
15

Give the little man a time out on the naughty step. He is probably exhausted from fucking around on you. Consider how you contributed to the situation. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:58 AM
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Good for her. It’s actually hilarious, men have themselves on such pedestals that they think these crusty old Scrotes are a prize women covet. Need to keep calling out these age gaps as predatory and a massive disadvantage to women. Especially vulnerable women wasting years of their time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:52 PM
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Oh my God, he is a text book grade A creep. was just thinking of him, he constantly bulldozes through their boundaries, negs them and is fucking gross. He raped a woman before. He actually said to Liz she was born when he was going through his divorce (cheated on his wife) so she was put on this earth for him 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:33 PM
17

Look up the free pdf online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:27 AM
60

He says ‘Thanks for dinner and putting up with my shit’ She says ‘Men of Reddit what should I do, he is only using my Mommy Maid services and not the full Bang Maid experience I’m offering for free, it’s been 9 whole weeks and we haven’t been on a date, by the way I have my shit together 🤡🤡’ She honestly believes she has her shit together 🤡. Lady, he thinks you’re a doormat with low standards and boundary’s and that’s not turning him on, he would prefer to go home and jack off to porn after he h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:54 PM
4

You mean dust off the butt crumbs and launder their nests. The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:22 PM
50

Kink shaming is my kink. Funny these ‘kinks’ centre on men’s pleasure and women’s degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:27 PM
11

You just know the crusty van dweller is going to be trying to grope you while watching said sunset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:09 PM
20

Good for her, it makes not sense, why on earth would you encourage a stranger to tell you something they think will make you mad, these guys are dumb as rocks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:55 AM
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Can I get a code, I miss GC, thanks so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:32 PM
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Thanks so much, she is fantastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:24 PM
19

Who is she?? I can’t read her TikTok handle on my little phone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 10:38 AM
10

Wow so cool! Great story, amazing woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:32 PM
21

That’s hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:21 PM
5

They believe they are the prize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:10 PM
40

Love her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 09:58 PM
16

You realise how little respect people had for you when you begin to enforce boundaries! You realise you are not the problem. Good for you keep strong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:39 PM
18

It’s never friends, just low grade casual sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:19 PM
69

Exactly and there is absolutely no ‘friendship’ either. As if!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:15 PM
4

I hope they euthanised him, only cure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:42 PM
65

Spent all their time on Porn and gaming, no useful education and now their dick doesn’t even work 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:47 AM
10

Anger is an emotion. They are very emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:34 AM
10

20 year age gap to add to the dysfunction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:28 AM
32

Hey! Wait a minute he told her it helped with his anxiety to subscribe to OF. Totally not clownish behaviour 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:01 PM
74

We have been around this earth millions of years without on-line Porn, yet these fucking morons believe not only is it perfectly normal but they can’t survive without it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 07:16 PM
6

Oh I’d say so. They are dumb enough for sure. They blame their failing academic performance on colleges favouring women and society ‘failing our boys’, their Porn addiction and broken dicks are because women are not given them a chance on Tinder (I’m not joking, they actually believe this). We are getting to uppity and not dishing out casual sex to Scrotes so online Porn and gaming are their only options to entertain and develop. They are 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:26 PM
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I know you say that now, but what about when he is cashing in all that Female Privilege at the bank?? won’t we feel spited 😤?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:36 PM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:19 PM
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Really, it’s on FDSSuperfans, he sent it to a few FDSers! As if we need any more evidence their brains are damaged from Porn and Gaming. Logic and reasoning fell out of their heads long ago 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:53 PM
155

They are threatening to get sex changes for ‘female privilege! because of FDS! they are that stupid they think we would be bothered they chop off their bits to spite us😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 06:40 PM
5

Except she sees it as ‘our’ problem that she and other people have to fix. Her, his therapists etc. ,it’s other people’s job. He has very little accountability, just has to put effort into not getting caught and if he does, we’ll not his fault. She has to police the issue as he can’t help himself 😞.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:29 AM
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Lemme fish something out of the plug hole or some rags from the laundry basket that I couldn’t be arsed to wash. Maybe I’ll get it back clean. Seriously I’d be tempted to wrap up my period stained underwear and armpit hair to up ante on intimate romantic gifts, it’s obviously his ‘love language’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:56 PM
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Hey credit where it’s due! He stopped getting caught cheating. He probably agreed to let her check his phone. Now he has to put a little more effort into not getting caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:23 PM
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There is no scientific evidence that attractive people are dumb and ugly people are smart. Anyone who implies that is pretty stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:03 PM
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Honestly I was gob smacked, there was all sorts of theories, none taking any responsibility. One was that education favours women because the can sit quietly, boys are more active and energetic, so the cards are stacked against them. Claiming Society should find better ways to encourage boys to learn and make it easier for them to enter college to redress the balance 😂. They belong in 🤡college
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:04 PM
11

Then describes horrific abuse and wants to know how to nicely communicate that they don’t want to be abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 12:45 PM
29

Yes, though not sure it reflects how disgusting those old Scrotes are. I’d like something more insulting 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:37 AM
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There was a chart showing rates of 3rd level (college, professional trades were included) for men and women posted in the Europe sub. Of course women was way higher. The amount of whining comments about how society was ‘failing our boys’ and colleges have too many fluffy women centred studies that don’t appeal to guys. Not one comment that they choose to spend their time on porn and video games instead of getting education. No, they all agreed ‘society’ was failing our poor boys 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:05 AM
3

Great post. We are brainwashed to believe we are inferior and that they are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:28 AM
1

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 02:24 AM
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I hope you feel confident enough to ignore the next time. His behavior did not deserve that level of engagement. Being nice, obeying their demands etc. it absolutely not the quickest way out of the situation, it is entertaining them. They need to learn a firm NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:06 AM
2

I know the comments will be a gear laugh. Let me in please 👍,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:36 AM
20

No, F*ck off and ignore is a perfectly acceptable response. You don't have to do what he tells you and remove items to show him your face for his approval. And you don't have to imply/tell him you have a boyfriend as if that's a consideration. That implies your feelings don't matter, but there is a man that might not like it so you are not interested on his behalf, it indicates things might be different if you were single and he could have a chance. I stopped pretending I have a boyfriend to Scr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:07 PM
5

That bucket of spaghetti was scrounged off of a pot luck or event leftovers. It was cooked by a women for an event and scraped into a bucket either by him or a well intentioned lady who felt sorry for his hobo ass. In fact I'd say all of it was potluck leftovers that were going in the thrash but a nice lady organised a bucket for Steve who was wolfing it down like a hungry bum longer than everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:43 PM
71

Just missing the ages, her 22 him 48, and please don’t mention the age gap, it’s not the issue here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:34 PM
3

Many conversations feel like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bxOaW6aHpak but not cute or funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:44 PM
48

We have plenty pejorative terms for women like sluts, whores, slapper, gold diggers freely and liberally applied without consequence. But if a man is called abusive, all hell breaks lose unless and he is defended to the nth degree without fail and the blame put squarely back on the woman. Even if he is found guilty or acknowledges he is abusive. Looking at you Johnny Depp and Shia LeBouef. We find away to absolve the man and blame the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 11:21 AM
9

Spoiler alert, it’s always dick relateted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:53 AM
4

Rod Liddell is a disgusting old scrote. He left his wife & 2 kids for a 22 yr old after continuous cheating and rubbing it I her face. Here is an article she wrote years back about what he put her through https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2014419/Rod-Liddle-cheated-days-wedding.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:39 AM
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Absolutely. That court case revealed what a disgusting abusive asshole Depp is. His texts say it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:10 PM
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She was definitely not anywhere near as bad as him, read the 132 court ruling to find the level Depp went to. Firstly he is more than 20 years older than her. This is a guy that texted his mate about burning Heard to death and fcking her corpse (while he was with her!) Also called her a 50 cent Stripper and cum guzzler that he was happy he replaced with ‘a fcking sublime little Russian’ (24 year old). He has never dated anyone over 25 when they started out btw. There is a reason he lost his cour…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 11:10 PM
12

We don’t know that. He definitely had no non-sexual interest in them, as he immediately stopped entertaining them when their mother wouldn’t get naked with him. Nothing good comes out of a random old guys interest in little girls. He had an agenda, they all do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:48 AM
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Look at Johnny Depp, men put these guys on pedestals and will always jump to their defence, even when the judge rules against them! Not surprised at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:39 AM
26

Have you seen him lately, aged terribly, with gray old beard and he was hospitalised due to starving himself for a role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:02 AM
24

I don’t want to be victim blaming either, but I am absolutely shocked at how naive women are about idealising the notion of male friends. Men don’t do that, they absolutely see it as wearing you down to fck. There have been posts here this week and even a Tiktok video with same narrative, guy asks girl out, girl says she just wants to be friends, guy sends dick picks or harasses for date. Men don’t do friendship like women, it’s always, always transactional, we need to get rid of this delusion. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:33 PM
8

Agreed, it is a worrying trend that we are getting argued with posters defending cleaning and cooking for a guy after a couple of weeks of dating and actually going to extreme lengths to defend it by speculating it was convenient as she was doing her own laundry and cooking anyway. And a side order of shitting on the Single moms struggling to raise their kids. It’s never about the deadbeat dads supporting their kids 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:22 PM
2

Oh the book was a novel so completely different genre/theme. It is ‘my year of rest and relaxation ‘ by Ottessa Moshfegh. An FDS OP posted a cool quote from another of her novels ‘Eileen’. I’ll link the post. Anyway Eileen is on audio reserve on BorrowBox so I got the other one which was also recommended. It’s unrelated fiction so don’t want to derail the important topic of this thread too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:00 PM
10

Right?! I’m not imagining this. Another theme seems to be justifying drinking and hanging out with random LVMs and justifying it by saying I just want to be friends so it’s ok. Of course it goes tits up as guy just wants FWB. A HVW does not need LVM friends. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:41 PM
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Dating a few weeks and already cooking, having him over, washing his clothes etc., I’ll say it again, after a few damn weeks of dating. ugh no thanks. Etc., about says it all. There are major issues despite what you think, she is textbook being a wifey Pickme for a LVM who is harking back to his exes. I’m a bit surprised you don’t see major issues tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:48 PM
2

Thanks for this recommendation. I have reserved the audio on Borrow Box (free library app)! Can’t wait. I have just finished another recommendation from an FDS lady!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:22 PM
17

And he liked it more! Goes to show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:59 AM
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I don’t know how HVW the new lady is, cooking and cleaning and doing his laundry for him and seems to be financing things. Sounds like a Pickmeisha. The other ladies waiting months to sleep with him and letting him support them and cook and clean seem to be the HVW 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 09:13 AM
19

A random man who asked you out at the the bar. Ugh no. He is not looking for a friend no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 08:51 AM
6

They didn’t ask a question, they made a shitty trolling comment to undermine a valid point and yet made the meme implying they got banned for ‘just asking a question’. Dumb as rocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 12:34 AM
5

Seriously? That’s ridiculous, it doesn’t make sense and he probably thinks it makes him sound down with the kids 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:46 PM
3

So. Inarticulate, educationally subnormal fool says blah, blah, blah on Social Media. Why would we listen to anything he has to say. Like this dope has any peer reviewed papers in the works. I'd say allergic to condoms, education and anything with an ounce of integrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:39 PM
8

Inquiring minds would like to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:57 PM
49

He got her pregnant right after the baby died. Have no doubt he was having unprotected sex for God knows how long before that. Could not even be arsed using protection when cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:53 PM
5

Please look up the case of Steven McDaniel. Honestly going over to his apartment alone when you have been drinking is crazy unsafe. I mean he had already asked you out, he doesn't see you as a friend. Have you got people you can talk to when you are sad and drinking alone? He is creepy with no boundaries, please don't even talk to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:02 PM
7

Her and Nikki Glaser, who are genuinely funny, I really wish the were both not brainwashed by LibFem BS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:00 PM
6

Ugh I don’t even talk to my male neighbours and have absolutely no interest in dating or friendships with them. They just see it as convenient low effort FWB on tap 100% of times. OP you mention being bored and drinking alone, honestly work on that it will benefit you more than spending time hanging with and trading dick pics with your neighbour. In some places it’s a crime to send unsolicited and you can report so don’t waste time googling and sending him back. And ladies including OP are you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:53 PM
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Red flag is not strong enough language. We are too conditioned to ignore them or even debate if they are real and doubt them. We need a stronger term. This guy needs to be sectioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:54 AM
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Right. So not only do you arrange all these groceries, he is going to get you to do some dumb clownish tricks on FT for 'a laugh'? Whats the betting it's swallowing teaspoons of cinnamon and destroying your counter tops with spilled liquids. What is he a 10 year old child. He sounds awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 02:22 PM
1

Don’t drink alcohol, be clearheaded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:16 PM
9

You were selling yourself short with him. His message is disgraceful. Not for nothing but I would not trust him as far as I could throw him. If he prioritises his dumb hobbies over emotional intimacy, he would prioritise side pieces as well as side hustles. You are well rid. You will shine without him dragging you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:50 PM
12

Damn, if only there was a way of ending this affair, while I figure it out let me escalate it by spending Thanksgiving with my mistresses family. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:40 PM
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'I asked husband to wash it FOR ME'!! Why is it always phrased like the Husband is doing the Wife a favour (washing his kids clothes)? We constantly use the term help/helped when a Man does anything around the house. Like he is doing a favour to the Woman 'helping' her with her responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:53 PM
7

Written on a big red flag! Love it. This is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:23 PM
38

What about the guy who was implying he had been tricked and let down because they were using the rhythm method and she ovulated early. Dumb as rocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:46 PM
2

Because we’ve been feed a narrative that Men’s Health and Men’s suicide rates are huge societal issues, when in fact way more women are suffering from suicide attempts (up to 4 times as much). Because Men are more violent even with themselves they succeed more. So nobody calls out Male Violence as the scourge in society, somehow women are to blame for not mommying them enough. Oh and because they won’t talk about their feelings, that’s our job to coax out of them too.. You couldn’t make it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:57 AM
5

It is so important to figure this out, to be role models especially to younger women, undo the brainwashing of society that we need a man to be happy and that we are servants and commodites for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 12:57 PM
12

Don't you love these dumb statistics. As if these unicorn daddies aren't a drop in the ocean compared to actual Deadbeat dads. I have learned when discussing these, seeing as we are pulling facts out our ass without context,have some up my sleeve. Did you know able bodied fathers are more likely to go on welfare & hid assets to avoid paying Child support than seek full custody?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:23 AM
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I honestly think we could take over the world while they are busy pulling off their dicks to porn and gsming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:15 PM
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