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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Children BracesThat’s not what I asked, but thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/26 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Children BracesYeah but these guys are there to make money so they’re not sending people away | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/26 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Children BracesLet me further clarify to avoid any assumptions, the child in question is 12 yo, braces are being suggested by mother because others are getting them, not because the dentist proposed them for an ailment etc, out of pocket expenses the past 4 months are $19k+, the court order which I’m trying to modify states I pay for all out of pocket medical expenses, but (this is just my opinion) there is a attempt to use this as “an open checkbook” | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/26 05:34 PM |
| 9 | The dogI would’ve taken the dog for a car ride and came back later when everyone is calm and think I went to the vet | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/01/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | It’s doneHow old are the kids, my teens so it coming and seem relieved when it happened | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Divorce debtI’m thinking about going solo, using AI and dragging it down through many court appearances | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/25 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Divorce debtYeah her lawyer acts like I’m divorcing him personally | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/25 08:12 PM |
| 6 | “Never move out”?Initially I moved to the basement but without heat or toilet it became extremely difficult, then she continued to badger me about door security, I finally realized that I have to leave when she started threatening restraining orders, which she had a history of doing, so I left. She filed months later anyway | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | My lawyer is acting really weirdI’m going thru the same thing and currently shopping around for a different representation, although I’m financially drained but my lawyer has been incompetent | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Less of a man wanting to modify child support?If the roles are reversed she will be running to modify, you need every extra penny, think about the age when you can’t work anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/11/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Wondering is splitting is the best option..If you’re asking then you already it is | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/25 09:47 PM |
| 3 | In the divorce process and my wife wants me to move outI made the mistake of moving out, but she was threatening abuse and restraining orders which she ended up claiming later after I moved out anyway | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 11:00 PM |
| 10 | Just checking in, how's everyone's mental health?The ex wife financial demands are exhausting | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Regretting leavingAsk her to go to couples counseling, detail the issues that bothers you and state that you’re trying very hard to make things work but it takes two | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Pitbull Lawyer in MAWhere can I look for a lawyer. . . Besides the obvious | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 11:09 PM |
| 4 | What should I expectYes, two car loans and student loans | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Should file for divorce or wait for her to file ?What are the benefits? I’m in the same situation | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Meeting before the meetingThey’re ignoring meeting prior to the pretrial hearing | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Don't even know how to caption this.Same | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Where any of you able to keep your house?I’m trying to force a sale because neither of us can buy out the other | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/10/25 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Fucking bitchIt’s good to express anger and let it out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/25 09:53 PM |
| 6 | Don’t get a job till divorce is overI don’t understand the logic when they can make thousands more by working and living better than receiving support and being a grifter | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/25 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Kids Sports EventsI setup my camera tripod on the far corner and that’s gives me the excuse to stay away from her, record my kids game and especially keep her in the camera view in case she false claims which she’s done in the past | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/07/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Divorce review and pretrialNot sure about attendance, I’m sure I will hear from my attorney when the dates get close, I o be honest I would rather go through the rest of the process without stepping foot in court or seeing her | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm Letting Her Win This Divorce!! How Do I End It As Soon As Possible?Your mental health, peace and control is the most important. The kids will eventually come around and probably leave their childhood through their kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Good gym routine for post-divorce?Just show up, stay at least 40 minutes and you will realize you put some work | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/25 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Cash outMy ex is doing the same right now as we go through proceedings, I knew of two accounts that she is not disclosing because it shows income | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/25 11:43 AM |
| 12 | Father's Day giftI sarcastically told my kids I don’t want any gifts, and they didn’t even say “happy Father’s Day” but called the next day asking for money for sports | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 02:27 AM |
| 4 | Handling Abuse AccusationsSounds very familiar, unfortunately we have 3 kids, and she filed false RO several times and the courts always sides with the woman, I finally moved and filed for divorce, now we’re dealing with her bs hopefully finalizes soon. I wish I ran away years ago | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/25 02:15 AM |
| 5 | I don't get it anymore.Why did it take a whole year to sell the house | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you pay for child support?Do you have a mortgage? Who assumes the payments? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone leave for these reasons?That’s exactly why I left | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/01/25 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Anyone leave for these reasons?Unfortunately sounds very similar | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/25 12:38 PM |
| 7 | She wanted this…why is she increasingly so hateful?This sounds scary similar | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/24 08:52 PM |
| 5 | What were your breaking points?For 16 years it has been more downs than ups, the obsessive connection to her family, and what they tell her. The hatefulness towards my family, towards coworkers and/or anyone I knew. Jealousy, insecurity, too lazy to do anything around the house, the stubbornness which often caused her to lose her job and relationship with others. At the end I realized she’s a very troubled person with a lot of issues and the unwillingness to seek help | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Those men who are finished with divorceWhat about the equity on the house? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How did you deal with living together right before the physical separation?Lived in the basement which was unconditioned, musty, no bathroom and completely unhealthy, while she locked ever other door, so I decided to leave before losing my sanity | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/24 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I stay for the kids sake?weight is an easy problem, just do Ozempic, but staying for the kids is never the answer and mental health is very important | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/24 01:04 AM |
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