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They meant because chest hair is a more "traditionally manly" trait and his voice isn't traditionally masculine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:30 AM
133

I can not focus on anything but that bounty of chest hair 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:57 PM
32

Make no mistake, this is divide and conquer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:35 PM
3

Oh yeah I definitely agree with you. I think it's healthy to just take stock every couple years or so and be like "what am I doing and why am I doing these things?" And have an introspective period Also I got a notification that I was banned after this post but I can still comment so I guess I pissed someone off and then they changed their mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:46 AM
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This is only tangentially related but I feel like I'm the only person that doesn't really buy into the "male gaze" as a thing you should waste time worrying about. Men will fuck a sack of potatoes with a tshirt on it. They have fetishes for fat chicks Skinny chicks Tall chicks Short chicks Chicks that wear sweatpants Chicks that wear nothing Light skin Dark skin Body hair Totally shaved Long hair Short hair Blonde hair Brown hair No hair "Girly girls" Tomboys Punk chicks Straight laced chicks Li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:20 AM
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Pay for shit I'm fucking DONE with it. I've done it way too fucking much in the past because my pride is deeply entangled in my finances. Still bites me in the ass every time. I'm over it. Not doing it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:12 AM
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Do you mean being a dominatrix in the context of sex work or just like, being into dominating men that you date in your personal life? If the former, pretty much any and all forms of sex work are a no-go in FDS because at the end of the day they all fuel the sex trade and all the harmful shit it perpetuates. And I would assume that it would be just as dangerous as regular sex work. As far as in your personal life, eh. Personally I think this is one of those things where it really does go both wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:08 AM
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What did these comments say? They were already gone by the time I got here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 08:52 AM
159

Oh come on, he's nearing fucking 90.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:01 AM
9

I have like a weird extra sensitivity to getting wet in my clothes, I've always seemed to be bothered by it more than other people and I physically cringed at that weak ass suggestion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:58 AM
12

"The same picnic in my apartment" Not even his house lmao. Does this guy have roommates? Ugh. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:57 AM
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Worth noting that Lele Pons got famous pretty much assaulting random men on camera. Not trying to do a "but women too" thing here I just think you have to be a special kind of scum to be an influencer, male or female.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:32 AM
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Call me in 10-20 years when she's posting in the reddit polygamy sub about how her husband wants to make them have an "open relationship" so he can bang his 22yo secretary, because he feels like he "never got to explore" when he was younger and resents the hell out of his family. That is if he isn't already banging other women behind her back. Also, she looks barely 20? Why is a guy saying for a couple years an accomplishment? Men in way longer relationships have walked out on their wives, sis. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 06:37 PM
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I never lived with my most recent ex but we live very close together so we were over at each other's places all the time, and he never suggested anything ever. I basically just wore whatever the hell I wanted just depending on what I was doing (gym clothes, sleeping, ect)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:46 PM
1

My "pulled out of my ass" theory is wispy twinks that still have an aire of masculinity are pretty rare outside of like, rappers and stuff that are usually covered in tattoos and piercings. So it's really unusual to see such a clean cut guy with that body type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:41 AM
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Wouldn't do it either tbh. Something something dodge chargers and proposing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:37 AM
22

Yeah but it sounds like he's still broke. It's one thing to come up from a poor family and work yourself into a stable adult, its another entirely to be a bitter crab in the bucket about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:34 AM
44

"So you've chosen death?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:35 AM
57

She sounds ESL so I wonder if there's something cultural going on there tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:33 AM
1

How do people with this much money even have problems just hire a maid goddamn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:31 AM
13

"Is this person some kind of male Olympic water polo enthusiast? I'm confused"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:35 PM
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"He comes from a struggling family and he considers them "low class" DING DING DING THERE IT IS FOLKS. The root of his insecurity. He can't STAND to see this presumably decently well off, beautiful woman, let alone with a seemly nice well off man (not to mention she's so much younger) and its eating him apart inside so he needs to take that frustration and put it onto her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:29 PM
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Well, considering it's a stretch even on the grounds of the relationship length because we -dont know when this post is written -dont know the age of the person writing it (if they started dating around like 16-18. It's generally accepted in FDS that the younger you are the longer it's okay to wait until you get married) -dont know if she's even referring to something that happened this year. She could be referencing something that happened in 2016. So no. It's not that obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:58 AM
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You should have mentioned that somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:22 AM
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Am I missing something? Only thing I see here is the length of the relationship pre-proposal and that's assuming this was even written in 2021 referencing a day also in 2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:21 AM
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Maybe throw in a "he could put an onion ring on my finger and I'd be happy!" Just for good measure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:17 PM
9

I'm huuuuge on birthdays! I've always been so confused about why a lot of men hate their birthdays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:57 PM
19

Why not both? I mean, not the grinding or whatever but damn am I the only person that enjoyed school dances? 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:51 PM
5

What size is your stone, if you don't mind me asking? Natural alexandrite can REALLY get up there. Good for you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 09:03 AM
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Oh how chairtable and ethical of him. He definitely doesn't have anything to gain from this. I'm actually surprised more people don't talk about Moissanite when mentioning ethical stones Moissanite: -nearly all specimens are lab created (the original stone itself landed on earth in a meteorite) -nearly identical in chemical composition to daimond to the point where it sometimes fools daimond testing machines -very similar in durability to daimond -very similar look, takes a trained eye to spot t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:18 AM
13

With opals that are guaranteed to crack within 5 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:16 AM
219

The dead eyed stare of exhaustion on that kid at the end is really what brings it home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:54 AM
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Sounds like a decent idea non-satirically imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:58 AM
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Also most men will just say something dismissive like "where was she when I was that age hur hur lucky kid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 05:07 AM
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Imo getting attacked for being rude is much more rare than getting your boundaries pushed (possibly to attack anyways) if you're polite
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 02:01 AM
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Would rather die on my feet than live on my knees tbh. Pepper spray helps too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:55 AM
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You know what... that actually may be a solid strategy to get out of shitty relationships and guarantee he won't hit you up 6mo later. I'm pretty sure you can buy positive tests on ebay or rig your own lmao "I got knocked up by another man..." cartoon dust cloud of him running away "Thank fuck" pours a mimosa and turns on the tv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:51 AM
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Oh god, I could only imagine a wishlist system. That would just be only fans with extra steps lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 10:08 PM
8

Oh was it the one about the artist that had to solve that girl's murder?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:06 PM
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Dating while being a woman that's into anime and nerdy hobbies is an extra layer of hell because "normie" guys have a higher change of being HV but also either don't share your hobbies or will actively talk down to you, and then "nerdy" guys will get your hobbies and lifestyle (if you cosplay and run the convention circuit and whatnot) but have a way higher chance of being greasy manchildren. Guys talk about how finding a chill gamer gf is super rare but the "Functional Human Cosplay BF" might a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:05 PM
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I'm less worried about women hiding skeletons in their closets and more about women having to give their personal info out to god knows who. People give their bank account info to PayPal because there's an impression of security and trust. There was someone downthread saying that people should have to verify their income with bank statements, and honestly if you guys think people are going to be willing to have their privacy invaded that far for some small startup app, I just don't see it happen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:14 PM
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I get how the whole "references and background checks" thing sounds nice but it borders on orwellian imo. Remember that if you make an app that does this it won't just be for the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:18 AM
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Wish I could say I was Galaxy brain enough to come up with it myself, but I got it from this pic that's been circulated over the years https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/theydidthemath/comments/duj2xz/self_what_are_workers_getting_paid_in_sri_lanka/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:35 AM
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I mean you aren't wrong 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:29 AM
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When I was 17 my first job was at a very popular pizza chain, and over time I found out one of my managers was a convicted sex offender and was not supposed to be in charge of minors. That shit wasn't worth 7.75 an hour Editing in more work stories because they're coming to me now. Worked at a mall retail store where the manager would teach men how to do certain tasks but wouldn't teach me even though I asked multiple times. Also got bullied HARD by one of my coworkers but was too dumb and young…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:15 AM
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Slight correction, they only had two children, not three. Cecelia and Philip. t. Person who has seen the entire show at least 10 times over. Send help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:12 AM
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Women are generally stronger in the legs than arms though, and if there's a large height disparity it can he more difficult. I cant win an arm wrestling contest but I could kick a hole straight through a man's chest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:42 PM
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Something about her is just incredibly manufactured and really puts me off. Never got on the Queen B train. Like, if girls run the world why are they working in sweatshops to make your merch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 11:36 PM
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Something I've been thinking about for a while, how do you vet the difference between a guy that has genuine respect for his mother as he should, and a mama's boy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 03:40 AM
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FYI pink sapphire is really cheap so that ring is gonna be HUGE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 02:02 AM
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If you want an ethical natural daimond there is a brand called Canadian Ice that mines all their daimonds from Canada, and tracks everything down to a laser inscription on the stone itself (that can only be seen under magnification of course). But I will say blood daimonds largely aren't a thing anymore. They've since passed laws like the Kimberly Act to avoid that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:55 AM
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So I used to sell jewelry so my taste is a bit more narrow and expensive than others. When you spend all day looking at shiny shit you weed out what's valuable and what's not. Requirements: At LEAST 2ct, closer to three if possible Cut should be either elongated radiant cut, heart cut (odd choice, I know, but im a sucker for em) or oval cut. Cushion cut may also be acceptable. I'm on the fence currently. Of course it should have a nice bright shine and not be littered with inclusions. That's for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:49 AM
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For a while I had "swipe right if you browse FDS" in my bio. Never got any bites with that one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:40 AM
2

As far as the ghosting thing goes, I don't know if this happens to anyone else but there's like a 40% chance at any given time it will actually give me a notification if I get a message from someone. So I've ended up accidentally ghosting people and I suspect the same has happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 01:28 AM
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I think you're right I dont know where it happened either. All I'll say on it is I've had words put in my mouth with everyone I've spoken to on this subject. I've never said that women should be pressured into liking certain things, whether it be traditionally feminine or masculine. I'm actually advocating the complete opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:18 PM
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"This is hard or sometimes impossible for other people to do if they don't have any interests in drawing or art at all, which is why we don't pressure or force every human into doing it since it makes no sense to force hobbies onto people" Please point out to me where I or anyone else here has said that women should have hobbies forced on them. Please. The only people I've ever seen that come from are men or very very deluded women. Nobody present is saying that. "Fashion is as extreme as any ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:15 PM
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Maybe I missed it but I didn't see anything about this in the handbook. Exchanging one form of "go here do this" for another doesn't strike me as a win. "Don't do what men say they don't know best for you, do what I say because I know best for you" Edit: I've been googling comparisons for liberal feminism and radical feminism for the last ten or minutes trying to find anything that sounds specifically like the agenda you're trying to push: (specifically anti-feminine traits like clothes and make…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 06:44 PM
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I guess I was mistaken in the idea that feminism was about women's right to choose what they want to do rather than have someone, male or otherwise, lord over them. My bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:58 PM
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I dont think its just your personal opinion. But you posted this, so im here to engage with you, not other feminists. Not that you owe me a direct answer or anything, you don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:56 PM
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What makes makeup not art other than the fact that you don't like it? Condescending. Demeaning. Invalidating. Take your pick honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:46 PM
1

The current fashion is constantly changing though and there's a million different aesthetics to pick from. It isn't hard to find a niche you like and work within that or be as experimental as you like. You and OP both seem to have this runway trend chasing image in mind when you mention these things but you forget that fashion and aesthetics are a vast, vast ocean of styles from modern to vintage to DIY and everything in between. Someone posted downthread about how they like to wear leather jack…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:05 PM
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Honestly this. Say what you want, but when it comes to birds (especially birds of paradise, highly reccomend Danging With Birds on netflix) The males truly have to sing, dance, and build their hearts out and just hope a female comes along and choses them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:36 AM
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"My girlfriend broke up with me because of you, so you owe me" Fantastic! What's her username so we know where to send the basket of welcome muffins
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:22 AM
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In your makeup post you said that women who like makeup are "deluding themselves" into thinking it's an art, and in this post have taken a very condescending tone with phrases like "they watch hours of makeup tutorials" as if you consider that to be a waste of time, that being good at makeup isn't a skill worth practicing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:20 AM
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Yeah. No. I'm still not buying this. "Today we have young women who grew up during those times defending "femininity," by which they mean makeup, plastic surgery and fashion." I mean yeah plastic surgery is one thing but what exactly is wrong with makeup and fashion? And you know that fashion can mean any range of styles, right? Not just whatever hyper feminine runway image you had in mind when you wrote this post. Everything from street wear to athleisure to club attire to any other peice of cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:15 AM
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Tomboy fetish is a really big thing on incel forums right now, fwiw. No escape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:01 AM
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You left in the username in the bottom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:00 AM
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I dated a "fighting game" dude a couple years ago Hooooly fuuuuck their rank is everything to them. She should seriously end the relationship right now because she will be hearing about this until the end of fucking time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:00 AM
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"Sexual panhandlers" Ahahahaha perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:56 AM
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You might be on to something! I wore one of those big floppy sun hats today and got cornered by some crackhead that wouldn't stop talking, and a 12 year old boy not so subtley checked me out for like 5 whole minutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:55 AM
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Hes been hosting The Masked Singer for the past few years, thats the only thing I know of he's done recently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 05:51 AM
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Fuck, you're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:08 AM
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Has anyone ever laid on their deathbed and said "I wish I took more dick"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:57 AM
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Wearing makeup because men tell you to isn't a win but not wearing it because strangers on the internet tell you it "iSnT EMpOWerIng eNOugh" isn't a win either. Do whatever the fuck you want and don't let people that aren't you control your life. I used to do a full face on a daily basis and I genuinely enjoyed experimenting with different colors and looks, now I only ever wear makeup when I'm going out to the club or something. I'm no more or less valid than I was 2 years ago. And just because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:18 PM
1

Ok but is it easy to get married and anyone can do or it is hard to avoid being a forever gf and you need to vet thoroughly to prevent it? I see both ideas being expressed a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:02 PM
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You'd be surprised how far a little spending money and a good local sex shop will get you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 09:28 AM
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I'm in this post and I don't like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:26 AM
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I'm a fan of the phrase "Participation Trophy Wife" personally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:21 AM
3

The thing is this is fine for like a night in or something but you quickly realize with guys like this that they actually don't want to go out ever and you end up fighting tooth and nail to pry them out of the house. One of my exes declined going to a fireworks show with me (that didn't even cost anything mind you, it was a public event) because he was busy playing League. I love playing Just Dance while my boyfriend tries to catch that last fish he needs in Animal Crossing but we actually go ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:42 AM
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This reminds me of when i had a dream some months ago where I was getting married (to nobody in particular, some fake person my brain made up) and he saw me in my dress and wasn't as floored as I would have liked him to be, so I called off the whole wedding 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:37 AM
3

I agree, I think its one of the few times Matt and Trey really just took the cheapest easiest shot. Little Qties was hilarious though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:46 PM
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I found it incredibly off-putting when South Park wrote off people that beleive the upper class have their hands in shady dealings as "crazy right wingers" in their most recent special
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:43 AM
18

Dude My Twisted World is such a trip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:46 AM
7

She really shouldn't even have given him him "second shot"or whatever. It was just opening him to insult her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 04:12 AM
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"Can we just collectively decide that men are just figments of our imagination" 🤣🤣🤣 this got me Sadly they must be real because I'm sure our imaginations could do better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:18 AM
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Gather round ladies gather round (not all of these are the same guy btw) -bought him a 400$PS4 for his birthday and pretended to be super hyped about a video game that I really didn't care about at the end of the day -bought him a 300$ Nintendo switch for his birthday and a bunch of other toys totaling up to probably 500$ -drove him to work every day for weeks because his car broke down and he was too broke to fix it -gave him something like 100$ when he had no money because the IRS garnished hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:44 AM
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There's no other female characters because there kinda doesn't need to be. You have shrek, donkey as the sidekick, Fiona, and Farquad as the antagonist. And a handfull of magical creatures peppered into the background mostly for jokes. You can't just throw characters in for no reason, you actually have to give them something to do. Listen I want to watch Fiona get white wine spritzers with her princess friends as much as the next lady but theres a whole movie going on and we gotta keep the plot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:30 AM
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You could say you're positively over this shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:24 AM
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I didn't know she did a vogue shoot so I just looked it up. Well, that's rather ... dissapointing. Im not a big fan of her in general but she had kind a of a cool style and niche going there and just sorta tossed it out. The cover is painfully generic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:31 AM
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Hear me out, this actually hits. Just not in the way OP intended. Ok so men are basically given a blueprint of how to manipulate ("treat") women from the get go. But women are sorely underprepared for how to handle and defend themselves from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:27 AM
3

Shes friends with the dragon and some of the other princesses in the sequels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:51 AM
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I mean if we're going to do the "woooow you're arguing about a fictional character?" thing I can bring up the fact that I'm not even the one who brought her up and there's been a lot of posts about Disney princesses lately (apparently it was in the podcast?) Crazy how feeling one way or another about a fictional character is only silly when it isn't the way you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:46 AM
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Yes exactly! Less sex positive and more positive sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:03 AM
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The thing about "sex positive" too is that you can be "sex positive" with out being "SEXSEXSEXSEX SUCKING DICKS 25/8 HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME IF YOU DONT WANT IT YOURE A MORMON" To me being sex positive is like, being confident in your own sexuality and not hesitating to make sure your needs are filled in the bedroom. Quality over quantity and whatnot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:05 AM
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I literally said "I don't know why" so chill. Sounds like you aren't even reading my comments before making assumptions, at least I put myself through reading yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:51 AM
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Idk why you're calling me riled when you're the one swearing. Projection?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:41 PM
1

Coralie was made by a studio called Laika, not disney. Whoever told you Coraline is disney is wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:10 AM
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Can we stop calling literally every princess a pick me just because you guys don't like princess movies? It's also troubling how it seems this community is so willing to write off women who are subjected to slavery, imprisoned, or choosing to go their own way (even if it isnt the perfect path) as "pickmes" (Cinderella, Fiona, Ariel). Really fascinating insight into how FDS views women they deem as "below" them in value. It seems like yall have forgotten that Fiona is a master of hand-to-hand com…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:53 AM
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Some of yall haven't seen Shrek 4 and it shows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:42 AM
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They had me in the first half not gonna lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:45 AM
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Sis I think you might be gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:05 PM
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"We have a large age difference" "We've been dating for 3 years" "I'm 22" WEEWOOWEEWOOWEEWOOWEEWOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:13 AM
2

Because she had to make Eric fall in love with her to remain human, which is what she wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:34 PM
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But she didn't give up her voice and legs to catch a man, she did it to explore the human world. Eric was a side quest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:25 PM
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You can argue that they don't recognize each other because she was under the influence of "magic". Miraculous Ladybug does the same thing but in a way that's 10x as infuriating. It's kind of like when people don't recognize superheroes in plainclothes even though they only cover their eyes with domino mask. You just kinda have to roll with it. Idk. People give disney princesses way too much flack. Cinderella lived day in day out as a slave, of course she'd run out of her situation at the first o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 05:30 AM
3

"So do you care more about jewelry or about your relationship" Well considering that daimonds are about 3,000 USD per carat, and men are a dime a dozen....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:43 AM
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Honestly in the grand scheme her stepsisters were WAY more "pick me" than Cinderella was. All she wanted was a night out to socialize and meet people. She idealized the fuck out of the ball but she lived day in day out as a slave. You probably would too. She didn't even know he was the prince until he came and found her later. The stepsisters were like rabid hyenas trying to shove their feet into the shoe and make the prince love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:38 AM
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The mice didn't style this outfit, the Fairy Godmother did. The mice styled her first dress which got ripped to shreds by her stepsisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:36 AM
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So im not a fan of the Little Mermaid anyways but people really slam Ariel too hard. Shes interested in the human world long before she meets Eric and she has conflicts with her father before she meets Eric as well. Hes just the catalyst that sets everything off. This article goes into detail about it https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thethings.com/the-little-mermaid-gets-a-lot-of-criticism-heres-why-the-haters-are-wrong/amp/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:31 AM
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Edited my comment to elaborate that the larger stone will be worth more when the other quality factors (cut, clarity, color) are the same. A 1ct stone that's totally wrecked with inclusions and yellowish coloring may be worth about as much or even less than a half carat with a nice white shine and clear face. Also, when you have a singular large center stone as the focus of the ring it's much easier to change out the setting over the years as styles change or you decide you want bigger daimonds.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:12 PM
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Side note, can we like... not use cutesy internet jargon to describe criminals? They aren't "pick mes and scrotes" they're rapists and sexual abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:20 PM
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frenchfriesfrenchfriesfrenchfries Holy fuck these women are genuinely hilarious. Every line was gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:04 PM
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The "terrible statistics" that single parent households are a part of are usually from young women who got knocked up by some scrote and were forced into poverty. Not established older women with their own money, jobs, and houses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:58 PM
7

I dunno, I think love languages are valid, it's just that people abuse them into the ground
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:33 AM
88

Honestly this is probably the best thing about dating when you're a little bit older (I'm talking mid 20s) The "broke college student/working a min wage starter job" thing is no longer really in play and its easier to be more confident in expecting your dates to have money. And when they don't you know something is up Edited to continue the thought It's the best thing about making friends too. I've been making a lot of new female friends lately and it's perfectly reasonable to ask them to brunch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:31 AM
26

I've always really liked the idea of a man proposing with just the center stone (pro tip: that's where most of the value is. A single 1ct daimond will always be worth more than two 1/2 carat daimonds of the same clarity cut and color) and then you go and pick out the setting together. They make special ring boxes for it and everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:19 AM
23

I love the "psh, put it towards a down payment!" argument as if the 1000$ or less he would spend on her would count for fucking anything towards a house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:06 AM
2

I've sat on this post for a couple days and I think finally gathered my thoughts on it. In short, no, I don't think this is a "pick me" mindset in and of itself. It could definitely feed into unhealthy tendencies on wrong person, but I feel that the desire to be noticed is a very human emotion. People have been showing out since 8000 BC when we realized that some rocks were shinier than other rocks. In addition, some people have mentioned dressing one way or another and since it's a topic that c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:23 PM
3

Honestly I think that the desire to be noticed is just a human thing. People have been "showing out" since the beginning of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:34 PM
6

It isnt just you girl. At my peak I had around 5k likes and they were all trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:29 AM
0

Which circles back to my first point which is "do what you want"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:40 AM
2

Yeah I mean it's just kind of up to the individual which way they'd rather go
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:14 AM
2

I've been hit on in everything from sweatpants to party dresses so idk. And the question wasn't about "how to avoid getting hit on" (tip: you cant, at the end of the day) the question was "how to feel comfortable in your clothes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 01:57 AM
10

Stop giving a fuck and don't care what other people think. Just wear what you want. No, really, this is the way. Dressing yourself down to try and fight the "male gaze" at the expense of doing what you want isn't a win. You're still being controlled by it at the end of the day. The only way to win is to not care and do what you want. I feel the same way about the female body hair thread we had recently tbh. I dont care if other women have body hair, but I don't like it and I'm not going to chang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:17 PM
3

Total aside but that's a lovely kitchen. Shame it's got a LVM infestation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:05 PM
131

"if he doesn't need support as a first time parent, why should she?" BECAUSE THERES A PERSON COMING OUT OF HER WHAT THE HELL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:31 AM
11

And one of the only men in her life was so bitter and jealous that he threw her cats in a river for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:39 PM
5

God this. Acts of service is such an underrated love language. My boyfriend came over this week while I wasn't home, swept the floors, cleaned the sink, and folded some laundry and its honestly the most attractive thing I've ever seen 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:36 PM
11

Oh fuck I just noticed she said specifically one flower girl what are you doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:20 AM
13

She used a bad example but I agree with the spirit of what she was getting at. Maybe frame it as, you like a particular kind of lily or a certain color of rose that is harder to find than just red pink or white, and someone goes out of their way to find you that specific thing because they know you like it. Even if it costs the same as every other bouquet it means more because they took the time to learn and understand you and your preferences, and applied that knowledge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:17 AM
267

For your sins you will be banished to A house that is exactly as clean or as messy as you wish it to be An environment that is as loud or as quiet as you wish it to be A schedule that is as free or as booked up as you wish it to be You can start begging for forgiveness now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 09:59 PM
2

It doesn't really matter if women are the "primary" benefactors or not. A woman's life saved is a woman's life saved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:04 AM
1

Also just asked a chemist friend because I was interested in the answer. You would only ignite yourself by firing a gun if there was a high enough concentration of gasoline vapor in the air. I have no idea if she was covered in enough gas to ignite that way, or even how much that would take. Doesn't hold any weight pertaining to the argument but it's an interesting thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:02 AM
2

I may or may not be a narcissist, but it sure isn't for this. And? Obviously in an ideal world the police would take women seriously. Isn't this just more of a reason to own a gun and take self defense into your own hands? We can sit here and nitpick for literal hours about the "well if he entered the house through the northwestern door and took the hallway double jumped got the loot chest and and and". Doesn't change the fact that she still would have had a better fighting shot than being unarm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:52 AM
2

I mean of course police reform is ideal, I never said it wasn't. But what to do in the meantime if it ever even happens?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:51 AM
1

This link is being a bit odd for some reason, it's cutting to the photos but the article is about a woman shooting her ex for breaking into her home https://news4sanantonio.com/news/local/gallery/woman-shoots-ex-boyfriend-in-chest-as-he-tries-to-break-into-her-home So try again. A chance is still better than nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:40 AM
10

Adding: examples of women who's lives were saved when a man broke in to their house because of guns https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/local/philadelphia-woman-shoots-home-intruder/2713391/%3famp https://abc13.com/sugar-land-shooting-home-invasion-woman-shoot-man-burglar/9900267/ Here's a 12 year old boy shooting someone that broke into his house and shot his grandmother. She lived. The intruder did not. https://abc11.com/goldboro-police-goldsboro-break-in-s-william-street…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:44 AM
1

WEW this is the fastest I've been downvoted in a while. I'll bite. Why exactly don't you support women being able to defend themselves as best as they possibly can? Can't wait to hear FDS perform next level double speak because the world is simultaneously an incredibly dangerous place filled with psycho men who will do anything to hurt you but also "don't have the singular most effective self defense weapon in history because it's bad :( " As if a rapist will draw the line at gun laws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:29 AM
5

You don't support women's right to defend themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:28 AM
10

I'd rather be in jail and alive than burned to death in front of my kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:28 AM
-1

This is why we support gun rights. If this woman was allowed to defend herself she would have at least had a chance to blow his head off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:58 AM
146

Honestly she's doing us a service. Yes girl take him. I'm begging you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:41 PM
9

https://www.etsy.com/listing/999750361/how-to-talk-to-me-dont-introvert-short?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=dont+talk+to+me+shirt&ref=sr_gallery-1-19&organic_search_click=1&frs=1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:44 AM
28

Lol, I have a relevant story for this actually. Just today I was walking down the main street in my town, as I often do for exercise and to peruse the shops and cafes. Some random crackhead was being loud enough that I could hear him making noise through my wireless earbuds but I couldn't tell what he was saying. As I walked by he started to shout something at me but I couldn't hear it, so I just pointed to my ear and kept walking. I was talking with a shop owner on my way back, turns out crackh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:41 AM
207

How does one man have a jaw so sharp and hair so soft? But really, fantastic message. I love the idea of intention bracelets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:38 AM
7

My mom interrupted me watching Billy and Mandy when I was like 9 to tell me what periods were. I cried because I couldn't beleive something so horrible could happen to a person and I just wanted to go watch cartoons 😂 There's a metaphor in there somewhere about girls being forced to grow up too early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:02 AM
5

I have tattoos and I'm richer than most of my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:45 AM
21

Maybe not weird because generally nixing gamers is a no-brainer, but as someone who has nerdy hobbies and is hard pressed to find a guy with similar hobbies who isn't a gamer: If he plays league of legends. Seriously. If he plays league, run. Here's why: -its a game that you have to pour a lot of time into to get really good at. Hes going to be playing all the time. -the matches last for like, 45min-1hr. You heard me right. Have fun trying to plan anything or get him to go anywhere. You'll be he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:41 AM
4

This. Hell I'm interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 05:04 AM
40

My aunt. Became a doctor and traveled the world working with some kind of charity that I cant remember the name of. When she was done traveling she built up a large amount of wealth doctoring and doing her own thing. Lived alone and never married until she was about 64.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:55 PM
4

Steve Harvey?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:53 PM
1

It's less about the degree and more about having skills and experience. I lost my job due to covid last year. I'm a community College dropout but still managed to rebound and get an even better job because I had built up proper skills and experience beforehand. When you fritter away time being a ... um... "tiktok bimbo" or whatever other kind of SW is in right now, you build experience that's only really related to that field and like, maybe social media management at best. And then when you ine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:44 AM
2

Right? At list if I don't I saved myself some money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:28 AM
3

You're right, but punishment fits the crime, I think. Stupid games, stupid prizes Or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:25 AM
30

Porn, probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:23 AM
3

He struck me as taking the passive route to just try and get the dude to go away. I know it's fiction but take for example this KOTH clip (skip to about 1:30) Hank is calm the entire time but entirely ready to fuck up that dude if he starts something. https://youtu.be/GzcZ_DrrmUk The brother seems a lot larger than the ex so I would assume he would be able to smoke that string bean no problem if it came down to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 06:13 AM
1

sigh Okay, ill bite. Who the hell is Kevin Samuels?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:43 PM
3

Wdym? It looked to me like the brother was just trying to get the dude to go away calmly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:34 PM
5

Trying desperately to get your son laid is... strange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:21 PM
1

Reminds me of that old concept for a 1950s themed zombie game https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/GirlGamers/comments/441kcl/anybody_wanna_make_this_50s_housewife_zombie/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:14 AM
10

Interesting how "nice to others" is tossed in there at the end, because in reality it just means "agreeable to men"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:10 AM
82

You could reason if you wanted to that its "the magic" that made him not recognize her, because she was under the influence of magic when they met. I'm not saying it's a good excuse, but it is an excuse that has been used before. Miraculous Ladybug comes to mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:04 AM
181

Watched the movie for shits and giggles last year and a few things I definitely didn't remember there's a line in the song about the mice making Cinderellas dress that goes "leave the sewing for the women!" -the entire reason for the ball in the first place, is because the king wants to get the prince laid so he can have grandkids. He's like, obsessed with having grandkids. It's bonkers. The prince is generally disinterested in relationships as a whole. -they supposedly danced for hours but the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:01 AM
5

Disagree tbh. I think the real-world examples are really useful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:55 AM
9

Eugh, I nearly downvoted this on reflex. The fucked up part is a picnic date could actually be acceptable if he put proper effort into dressing nicely, picking the perfect spot, packing a basket of fine charcuterie and sparkling drink, ect. but we both know he's going to make her prepare the sandwiches and then put them in his highschool lunch box. Maybe you'll get a single bottles water with the plastic all crunched up because it's been rolling around in his fridge for a while. If you're lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:51 AM
1

And to add, im not here to try and say that you're responsible for the way other people feel about your words, someone out there is always going to take something the wrong way. But I also can't deny the fact that some people here really seem to get off on dishing out the "tough love" Edit: to anyone who got this deep into my 5am incoherent ramble god bless you, you're a trooper. Another thing is (especially here) getting called a pick me is one of those things you can't really defend yourself f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:21 AM
1

Consider the following: what you and other FDS kweens(tm) see as "calling out behavior" and "tough love" , someone in a poor relationship state, who especially may be a bit sensitive about the place they are in, may see it as dripping in condescension and like they're being talked down to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:57 AM
1

Sloppy formatting warning. Phonepost and I've never really been a "reddit person" so I don't know how. "If your personal views are different on this that's cool for you but we won't change our opinions here on this no matter what you say. And no, we don't want to discuss it. We simply don't want to. WHY we are against it IS, in fact, being discussed in the handbook" You missed the point entirely and seem to think that I'm advocating for polygamy when I have never and will never do so. The point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:50 AM
2

Tbh I wasn't really going to pull the "scrote/men are trash" thread because that won't really get anywhere and there has been at least some justification for the "men are trash" thing because, well, fuck me a large enough amount of them are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:29 AM
7

Yeah BDSM is cool but have you ever been lovingly caressed by candlelight?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:22 AM
3

My point is that women name-calling other women is remarkably unproductive for a community that's supposed to be about "empowerment". I've said this before, I get it for the more vitriolic "I have a man and you don't screeeee" types, but I've seen some examples ranging from mildly petty shitting on women who just kind of find themselves in shitty relationships to horrendously tonedeaf as calling a woman from a culture where polygamy was widely accepted a "pick me" for going with what her culture…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:56 AM
3

2 minutes in and already got a downvote Here we go lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:52 AM
2

Interested to see the discussion regarding this post, considering throwing the term "pick me" around seems like it would fall squarely in those categories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:46 AM
2

"Who raised these gerbils" has me cackling out loud in an empty room lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 05:56 AM
3

I'm not saying the scenario itself isn't feasible, it absolutely is. I'm saying there's something about the writing that kind of tips me off. There's almost a rushed immaturity about it that I can't explain. The way this person describes everything in a really quick, glossed over manner and only really goes in depth with the insults the guy threw at her seems odd to me. You would think the highlight here would be the pain/injury right? But it's just kind of shuffled to the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:11 PM
3

I may just be in the minority but I don't really walk away from this with the sense that she clapped back, I just kind of get this awkward feeling that she is clearly really bothered by this comment and kinda sad that she wasted her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:31 AM
3

I like her look and her shtick and all that, but putting in the time and effort to give some random scrote a personalized video response, especially for such a petty insignificant comment that only took him 5 seconds to write feels a bit counterproductive. Maybe it's the boomer in me speaking but that's something I never really got about tiktok. You arent "OWNING THE HATERS" with these responses, you're giving them the troll Holy grail and confirming that their comments bug you enough to directl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:12 AM
31

Is... is it just me or does this sound like it was written by a man feverishly typing out his BDSM fantasy with one hand and jerking off with the other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 09:01 AM
5

That's definitely not his voice, it's the voice of the guy in the video. I'm guessing either he stole Rahuls ode or the other way around, or they both got it from someone else. I don't use tiktok but isn't a big thing making your own versions of stuff other people have done?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:44 AM
-20

Great video but she really couldn't find a better example than Hillary Clinton for the bit about politicians?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:39 AM
2

The fact that I got downvoted for this is fascinating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 04:02 AM
7

What the HELL. Girl congrats to you for throwing the whole man out. That's totally unacceptable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:07 PM
6

I cant speak for anyone else but this was interesting and insightful. Always neat to hear from the kind of person that can tell you what planet is making you sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:32 AM
14

"Pissnugget" "ma'am I beleive that's a kidney stone"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:29 AM
17

This. I need to know how the hell he even managed to bring this up in conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:27 AM
2

Subconscious artist portrayal of the average male maturity level 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:02 AM
5

This is the fucked up part honestly. Most women start out pretty optimistic about dating and men mess things up for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 09:01 AM
5

This was almost 100% made by a man Even if it wasn't calling these women "pickmes" feels really tone deaf since depending on the exact Era this came from this either was from a time before women's suffrage passed and women were basically on 24/7 lockdown or shortly after it passed and women were still heavily brainwashed/under threat of physical violence (which still continues even today) "Old school pick mes" you mean domestic abuse victims??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:40 PM
7

Yeah, my mom worked at a few daycares in her time and the art style on the cover reminds me of the little wholesome posters they'd have on the wall with poems and everything on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 08:29 PM
20

"I own this house, I own these drums" Bet his wife paid for them 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:30 AM
5

You're getting downvoted hard for this but I see where you're coming from. FDS has strange standards at times with the women we choose to be sympathetic to/dunk on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:26 AM
3

I love Nicole and Azan omg "oh my god you're so lazy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:22 AM
13

One time I gave my ex like 100$ because he was flat broke from the government garnishing his paycheck. This mf had the nerve to go out to the bar the same night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:52 PM
5

I understand what you're getting at but 90 Day Fiance is a whole other thing entirely. With "Romance Scams" they usually use a fake name and picture, including a whole fake basckstory, and the victim is never intended to meet the scammer in person. The scammer will keep asking for more and more money promising they'll be in the US soon but they never come. I know Dr. Phil isnt looked upon kindly, but he has done a bunch of episodes on these and they're really interesting. "Green Card Scams" are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:50 PM
7

This is why I wasn't really jazzed about the whole "tinder will let you run background checks on matches" post from a couple weeks ago. You mean you want me to give these creeps easier access to our personal info? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 11:46 PM
78

Ftr, the "knees to your shoulder" thing is called a "mating press". It's a big thing in porn. the more you know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 06:49 AM
0

I get where this applies in other situations, but I kind of doubt her own mother wants her to suffer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 04:57 AM
1

You would think "should I take shit that isn't mine??" Would be a simple moral question. Plus like someone else mentioned, once they're all stolen then women who actually need to purchase them fair and square won't be able to get them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:49 AM
1

This is such a strange hill people are chosing to die on. Shoplifting? Really? Would you sleep with a man if you knew he stole the condoms 🤔 And if youre the one stealing condoms why are you that desperate for dick? This is not HV behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:36 PM
1

I really don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 02:34 PM
-3

I guarantee you literally nobody cares. The employees don't care. The other people in the store don't care. And if some random asshole happens to care, fuck em. Theyre the weirdo caring about what people are buying with their own money. Not like teens should really be having sex anyways since it's always the boys pressuring the girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:33 AM
0

I've been poor. I've been rich. Don't steal things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:31 AM
2

I am absolutely gobsmacked that "you shouldn't steal" got downvoted harder than my other comment on this post honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:30 AM
-6

If "stealing is HV" is the hill you want to die on then by all means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:37 PM
-4

Stealing is LV behavior and we shouldn't condone it either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:58 PM
7

Preparing for the impending downvotes, but this is a non-issue and the "~sTiGma~" argument I see in the comments down here seems like a cop out. They lock up things because they get stolen at a high rate. Simple as. They're still there available for purchase. In the grand scheme of things grabbing an employee to ask is a minor inconvenience. Youre nervous to ask because of stigma? Then order your things online or suck it up. That's a you problem. A HVW should have no issue with such a mundane ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 09:46 PM
4

I suddenly got a flashback to the Tinkerbell movie where she breaks a sacred crystal, but by shattering the crystal more of its surface area is exposed which amplifies its power and she saves the day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:49 AM
1

The real answer is it probably highly depends on what kind of prison and the culture of that particular prison. Plus keep in mind you won't be in there with uwu FDS qweens, you'll be in there with mentally ill addicts/felons/ect. Honestly if I was ever in a situation where I had to go to prison I'd have a ton of money set aside for commissary. You can have someone stabbed over a bag of cheetos in the clink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 09:39 AM
4

Maybe this is my rebellious American spirit talking, but I'd just carry it anyways. Fuck it. At least if they put me in prison it'll be all women there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 06:35 PM
9

Fitness/weightlifting mostly. Fucking adore it. Its incredibly freeing to feel like you have control over your own body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:28 PM
3

I was actually just thinking about the food thing the other day. Why are some men so fucking weird about someone wanting a bite of your food? I get if they eat half of your plate it's annoying but this and that iconic bit from Friends that gets passed around are literally about someone just taking a couple fries? Maybe I just want a taste? Maybe I don't want a whole ass plate? Maybe I have an ED and if I get my own plate I'll binge so I just want a small portion? Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:34 AM
19

This sub actually does allow opposing opinions. From women who actually have something to say/a point to make. Not from men that just want to butt in where they don't belong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:22 AM
60

You are quickly becoming my favorite person in this sub lol. Keep it up girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:16 AM
6

I have a friend that works with airlines and knows a lot of pilots. Apparently it's not that uncommon for them to have secret families across the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:01 AM
3

I'm pretty sure small compounds of hippie chicks did this kind of thing in the 70s. You'd probably have to sacrifice a certain standard of living but I think it could definitely be done. Legally though you might get into a sticky situation with possible LGBT discrimination because if it's a town with only women then you have to draw the line somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 08:06 PM
1

Dude, sign me up to run the gym!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:40 PM
2

This is a good idea. Islands are harder to infiltrate. Theres a reason the North Sentinel people have been untouched for decades. Plus you can buy a sizeable island for like 100 grand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:38 PM
32

Fellas is it gay to save someone's life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 11:38 AM
1

What's DTB?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:55 AM
6

"Fellas is it gay to be 24?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 12:53 AM
6

It's not even just her contacts tbh. She has beautiful features but the sum of all the parts is kind of visually overwhelming. You've got the contacts, plus the emphasis on eye popping, plus the way her eye makeup is done emphasizing her eyes even more, plus the angle isn't doing her any favors highlighting her super white teeth and full lips. Shes a beautiful woman, it's just a lot to take in visually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 11:18 AM
1

Never from PIV but most guys I've dated have been able to do it with oral or other methods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:34 AM
7

It took me a while to swallow this pill honestly. There may be things you prefer but a healthy relationship accommodates all or most of the "love languages"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:25 AM
4

I would give her my life savings to recite the phonebook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:21 AM
44

"Fellas is it gay to x?" Is one of my favorite one liners at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:17 AM
15

I got mine for dissing someones engagement ring lmao. Yeah it was petty, but people say petty shit here all the time so I dunno. I guess one of the mods has a cluster set 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:20 AM
2

Oh yeah, I remember there was a reality TV show like this called Million Dollar Matchmaker, I absolutely loved that show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:16 AM
6

I cant beleive I come back from a 3 day vacation and forced vasectomies is the first thing I see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:13 AM
3

Side note, why do people get down voted in this sub for asking questions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:09 AM
2

It's a.... cute idea I guess? But as if any man is attentive enough to read your underwear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:13 AM
6

Drove his ass around for MONTHS while I helped him extremely every avenue to get a car, what do you know two weeks after the breakup he showed up at my house with his new car to show me what a good boy he was. Unimpressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:06 AM
3

Honestly. I'm fortunate enough to be early 20s and in a place financially where if I did want to settle down and have kids I could, but I don't even fucking want to because it seems like such a fucking drag. I browse breakingmom all the time and my word the things those poor women are putting up with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:46 PM
84

I dated a guy from Iceland a few years back who told me about how tourists come to Iceland just to try and bang the "viking women" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:32 PM
7

A gold yogurt lid like from The Office😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:03 PM
29

Lol, me too. In defense of my former self it was highschool and I'm from a small town so Walmart dates and rings made of twine were romanticized. Would never put up with that now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:06 AM
61

I mean, if this is the "cheap ring olympics" Mine was 1$, it was plastic, from a yard sale, and I picked it out. I'll take my gold medal now thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:22 AM
22

Lmao I actually heard about this on the radio, the hosts were absolutely ripping on him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:51 AM
2

Tbh sometimes you need to forego the rulebook and allow yourself a little whimsy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:07 PM
117

"He said it's just a retarded day someone made up" God, imagine being with such a soul crushing bore of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:19 AM
6

Haha yep! It's so stereotypical it almost can't be real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:16 AM
1

Glad you like it♡ Look up cell shades too if you've never heard of those! I never knew about them until like two years ago and now I have them in multiple places around my house lol. I like them because they completlet obstruct view bc there aren't any slats but still let light in through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:15 AM
5

I think some bamboo shades would look lovely with your place and be more effective at keeping peeping scrotes away♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:37 PM
14

He got out of his car but didn't take a step towards the house and said he was selling textbooks. I dont remember exactly what I said back but it was something along the lines of "uh, we don't need any textbooks. I get the those at school." And he got back in his white van and left. Have never heard of someone selling textbooks door to door since
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:32 PM
20

Thank you 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:03 AM
108

So during the summers when I was a kid I would stay home alone all day because my mom worked. When I was like 13 some "door to door salesman" pulled down our driveway in a van. This was extra unusual because we lived out in the woods. You can't even see the house from the road. But the upside of being rednecks was I had a hunting bow and a decent grasp on how to use it. I walked out onto the porch overlooking the driveway in bare feet with my bow drawn and told him to state his business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:15 AM
3

Yep, everything now just has an extra layer of complications on it because she has to be in the loop. You can't even take the kids on vacation without her knowing and she may even have to approve of it depending on the custody agreement. Shuffling things between different houses, I swear the amount of times I've heard petty bickering over "well I sent them over in this shirt and they didn't come back with that shirt where are the shirts"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:08 AM
10

This is why I love Rottweilers, gentle giants when your friends come over but will rip an arm off a rapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:57 AM
5

Yeah I still wonder every now and then exactly how much of that was planned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:05 AM
-1

Idk what kinds of dudes are around where you live but I've never once heard the "dog needs a mom" thing. I've heard people calling themselves dog dads but not the other one. But go crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:03 AM
4

MY TIME TO SHINE! (tw for assault I guess) Edit to add a TLDR since I didn't realize just how long this story was. TLDR I got super drunk on a first date with a guy that may or may not have been lying about alcohol intolerance (despite inviting me to a bar) and he took my clothes off in my own home. Okay, so im gonna preface this by saying, yeah, I KNOW there's tons of red flags here and I REALLY should have seen them coming. This was pre FDS and I would never put up with this garbage now. Okay …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:55 AM
2

Sorry, what? Of all the terrible OLD tropes this seems like a weird one to be pressed over. Back in the dark times when I had OLD I put pictures of my pets up because, I dunno, I love em and stuff. I dont really see how it's weird to put a picture of a pet on your OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:32 AM
4

I think they meant more of a, she comes first as in her demands come first kind of thing. Even if the dad hates her she has the ability to drag his ass off to court if he doesn't comply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:30 AM
3

WEW! I'm about to print this out and hang it on my wall because it is so true and in depth. You hit the nail on the head here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:27 AM
7

I could never date a man with kids because: You either won't be able to maintain me due to distractions with kids or you will maintain me and neglect your kids which means you're a garbage person and I don't want you anyways. At my age if you have a kid that's older than four theres a 78% chance you're living below the poverty line and, just no. Your kid is probably young enough that you're still pretty entwined with your ex and, just no. The other million reasons this is a bad idea that I'm for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:24 AM
53

Honestly one of my life goals is to be able to afford a regular maid/housekeeping service. That sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:59 PM
37

I was about to say Jezebel is a satire site but then I remembered I was thinking of Reductress. Kinda sad that its hard to tell the difference now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:51 PM
63

God, this. Women: are in/have been in bad relationships that they are actively conditioned by society to accept and gaslight in to never leaving Other women, for some reason: "uhm okay wow Pickmeisha(tm), this is like, totally not it sis 💅🤦‍♀️👀" There's a lot I like about FDS, truly, but my god the absolute war on coming to terms with your own weakness is not one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:47 AM
9

Lmao this video reminds me of the time that I once told a man that he fucked like he had rabies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:40 AM
-2

But everyone knows what you're saying anyways. Whether you say b*ta or beta I still understood exactly what you meant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:15 AM
10

I cant speak for the hydro boost stuff but I use First Aid Beauty ultra repair cream and it's really nice. I don't have sensitive skin but the bottle says it's safe for sensitive skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:23 AM
41

These are so hilarious I need more. Men are such crybabies, I love how housework is a fate worse than death here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:04 AM
3

This tbh. I'm a community College dropout and make more than a good portion of my male friends with and without degrees.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:53 PM
20

Oh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:51 PM
1

Meh. I too left an abusive relationship but I like the video. Some people need to hear it this way. Honestly I think that consistent use of terms like "pickme" is more belittling to women that are/have been in bad relationships than this slice of tough love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:20 PM
95

This is me, plus a vibrator and a case of black cherry white claw. Bro quit wasting my time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:07 PM
2

"Its like candy crush but it has sex in it" Then Play candy crush?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:29 PM
19

Ok but imagine having the job of measuring how much piss is around a urinal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:57 AM
11

You know this couple has a tinder (under the girls name tho, and only had pics of the guy like 3 photos in) advertising that they're "looking for a third to have some fun 😘" trying to rope some poor bi girl just trying to make it in the world into their toxic dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:53 AM
6

Maybe it's bc its nearing 5am but idgi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:50 AM
32

Couldn't find the coat but it does come on a variety of shirts and coffee mugs 😂 https://www.etsy.com/listing/956493257/your-opinion-will-never-cut-me-a-check?gpla=1&gao=1&
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:42 AM
1

Makes sense. No idea why I'm getting down voted for asking though. Thanks FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:52 AM
-5

Don't know why I'm getting down voted to oblivion, I was literally just asking what that phrase even means
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:45 AM
7

I stand by these if you want something with a more realistic feel. I'm not really into all the spikes and ridges and bad dragon stuff. I think they also make different lengths too if you want something bigger. https://www.amazon.com/Novelties-Colours-Pleasures-5-inch-Purple/dp/B018JPU52K
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:53 PM
-11

"Disgusted by body hair, just like your average pedophile" What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:41 PM
49

Right? As if tinder isn't full of disgusting unicorn hunters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:27 AM
3

You right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:59 PM
77

I've honestly been waiting to find the right words to have a conversation about this weird niche of hyperactive busybody men and I think this is the opportunity to do it. I used to see it on OLD a lot, try hards that have their fingers in so many pies that you get left in the dust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:46 AM
4

Yeah, I mean I've read the handbook and all, but old habits die hard and my pride is deeply entangled in my finances. I've also had experiences before with family members directly trying to "buy love" so offering to pay for things puts me on the defense. I'm working on it. Fwiw he does pay for things a lot and has no issue with paying for things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:32 AM
1

I beleive in you, we're all gonna make it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:10 AM
9

It was kind of a rollercoaster but ended up okay. WEW this ended up longer than I thought it was going to. Sorry for weird formatting, phoneposting. We got a cabin for a lovely mountain getaway that ended up being pretty wonderful. Spent our nights sipping champagne in the hottub and eating fine chocolates. I had planned the trip itself (picked the cabin and whatnot) and asked him to plan an itinerary of things to do. The place we were going to had no shortage of activities to the point of choic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:58 AM
6

This is probably it. Which seems ironic almost because aren't men supposed to be the ones with no expiration date? Sounds like projection, I think we might have found something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:37 AM
1

That's probably part of it, I've met guys from all kinds of backgrounds that are like this though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:34 AM
1

Do you want some cheese with that whine? Girl you gotta rely on yourself, expect nothing from others so you won't be let down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:30 AM
63

While we're on the subject though, yall ever met/dated men that are weirdly adverse to their birthdays? Like actively hate celebrating them? It's an odd trend I've noticed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:29 AM
59

God THANK YOU. I'm a very celebratory person. I love every excuse to have an occasion, holiday, celebration. Oh it's your cousins dogs half birthday? Well shit, let's throw a party. Thankfully I've never had to date this variety of soul sucking parasite, but it would honestly crush me to have to be around someone that doesn't get joy out of holidays like that. This also goes for people that snarkily point out that Christmas is a pagan holiday every damn year. Yes. I know. I dont care. I'm not Ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:29 AM
36

Wait wait, are we really known as "The FeDS" in other subs? I love that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:41 AM
37

WOOF. Any way to find her on social media?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:51 PM
3

Recently a friend of my boyfriends, who has met me exactly twice, DMd me in the middle of the night and told me I'm perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:11 AM
12

I feel the same way about Dolly Parton. I know ow she's no FDS idol but you can rip her from my cold dead hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:05 AM
10

This reads like a breakingmom post, so if I had to guess they're just together for the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:01 AM
32

Once saw something that said "I dont date men, I foster them until they find their forever homes" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:45 AM
3

I always wonder who the target audience is for these? Like I looked up a few of these videos when I was an extremely insecure preteen fawning over a dudebro with no interest in me but I cant imagine the kind of adult woman that thinks these are a good idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:52 AM
10

Ladies you ever reject a men and then he starts talking like he's from the civil war
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:36 AM
4

Interesting. On the flip side, I actually would have liked to have known about this while my abusive ex was stalking me on OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:57 AM
31

This post cuts like a knife
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 01:52 AM
11

I got banned from breakingmom for telling a woman in an extremely abusive situation that she should save up some "fuck you" dollars and leave her boyfriend/husband (other people were also telling her to leave him, I just got banned because I'm in FDS)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:25 PM
34

"Spit me out" wh... what? What does that mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 07:06 AM
15

Dating in your teens wouldn't be that much of a problem if we would actually emphasize FDS principles to teen girls to help them avoid getting manipulated by horny boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:06 PM
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