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| 1 | What do you think of this paper from Cambridge promoting single motherhood and marginalization of low value men to solve the fertility crisis ?Nice, so 90 percent of men should have their main incentive to work, pursue status, and participate in the rat race taken away. I could never see this going wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 08:05 AM |
| 5 | Men are not the arbiters of reasonable standardsReality has its own rules. Reality says that 99% of women will not be able to date a man long term who is tall, handsome, and rich, all in the same package. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:56 AM |
| 5 | Paul Elam - Why men don’t stand up for their own rightsVery true | /r/MensRights | 07/06/26 04:06 AM |
| 5 | If you’re not acknowledging men having an outgroup bias, you don’t care about men’s issues.MRAs talk about this all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 12:00 AM |
| 1 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”Most men don’t care if a woman is toxic if they find her attractive Most women actively seek out some toxicity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 06:47 AM |
| 1 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”It’s not any more like “astrology” than any other branch of psychology | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 04:11 PM |
| – | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”You volunteered to date every “asshole” you dated. That’s my point. Is that hard to grasp? Take some accountability | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:52 AM |
| 4 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”He is absolutely a body if you had some kind of sexual contact. How is this so hard for women to grasp? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:52 AM |
| -1 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”Have you ever heard a woman say to “resource acquisition” or “dominance hierarchy” when referring to things she finds attractive in a mate? No? Well these are consistent findings for things women select for according to EvoPsych. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:27 AM |
| 5 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”“Stop over-analyzing” something people usually say when they’re losing an argument, by the way. Even if I were to concede that it’s more about “social competence” than about status (I won’t), that doesn’t make it much better. Imagine telling some socially awkward guy who possibly has either autism or social anxiety disorder that all he has to do is be socially competent. A lot of this is stuff you’re either born with or gain through continual positive reinforcement through your whole life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:25 AM |
| 0 | “I’d date a chopped guy who’s funny” is womanese for “I’d date a chopped guy who’s charismatic/high status”Every woman can find a “good guy” who will commit and treat her right. You don’t even have to date an ugly guy. I’m not ugly (I’m not exceptionally attractive either), and I’m a decent person, and I still get rejected by women. The truth is women choose to date assholes, when they all have the option not to. I have little sympathy for women who say “all my exes have been toxic/assholes”. It’s in your control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Conspiracy : We will see never seen levels off self improving in the next Years for Men, and it will get really bad.There’s only one kind of self improvement being increasingly focused on right now, and it’s looksmaxxing. Guys who are into game and charisma will get a higher ROI in the coming years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Just went on a first date, feel like I screwed up. What should I do?I agree, she probably isn’t interested | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 01:14 AM |
| 0 | Just went on a first date, feel like I screwed up. What should I do?She wasn’t asking for me to meet her friend, she was saying she had to leave and hang out with her friend. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Just went on a first date, feel like I screwed up. What should I do?Can she read my mind though? Of course I’m interested in getting a second date. This is my first opportunity in months. I’m just being realistic. I can’t pretend like it’s no big deal when it really feels pretty devastating. | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Just went on a first date, feel like I screwed up. What should I do?For a second date of course | /r/seduction | 13/12/25 12:27 AM |
| – | Does it feel like relationships “just happen” for you?There are no participation trophies… except for women. Who have inherent value in the eyes of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 11:29 PM |
| – | Does it feel like relationships “just happen” for you?Women don’t know rejection like men know rejection. Rejection is the baseline reality men deal with, nearly every woman a man tries to talk to won’t want to talk to him. Your average man swipes on 1000 Tinder profiles for 6 matches. I’ve done 5 cold approaches, and I didn’t get a number from any of them. It’s easy to say “rejection is a part of life” when you know you’ll always have options at the end of the day. Men don’t. You have a CashApp link on your profile, presumably because random men s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 11:16 PM |
| – | Does it feel like relationships “just happen” for you?You’re being completely ridiculous. If you had to deal with the amount of rejection your average man has to deal with, you’d collapse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenPeople only say this “law of nature” shit when talking about men. Never women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Men have absolutely no legitimate reason to be angry at womenI absolutely have the right to be angry with women who are able to self-correct their toxic behavior but refuse to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 12:00 AM |
| 3 | You’re not him; play the long game or be aloneIt’s best to move on. A woman who previously rejected you should occupy as little space as possible in your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Men who have multiple women without spending money or losing peace — what’s the logic behind it?Polygyny is stupid and bad for society. If I were a top-tier guy with a ton of options, I’d just choose one woman, and leave the rest for other men. Society is better when most men get a wife. | /r/seduction | 06/11/25 07:17 AM |
| – | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeIt is women who enforce the norm that the man makes more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:42 PM |
| -1 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeBecause you’re a chadlite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:52 PM |
| 4 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeI never said men aren’t attracted to their girlfriends, they are. They’re just a tad bit more attracted to other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:48 PM |
| -3 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeYour average man swipes on 1000 Tinder profiles for 6 matches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:46 PM |
| 2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeThat’s a perfectly fine strategy. Just make sure you do that with every man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:26 PM |
| -2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeI would try to take you down for what’s on your account but I can’t see your post history. What are you hiding exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:25 PM |
| 15 | Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date?Have you had any bad reactions? | /r/seduction | 03/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 0 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeA lot of women do actually want that, at least in its mild form, and I’m sure you know that too. The fundamental reason I got into the red pill is because these truths hurt so much to learn. On an innate level, I want to treat a woman well, and see her as my equal. Women are not as attracted to men who do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 0 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeYeah, but the problem is women bear some responsibility for that. Obviously the men who treat their girlfriends/wives like shit are wrong, but the responsibility is also on the woman to choose a man who will treat her better, even if he’s a tad bit less attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:07 PM |
| -2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeSex isn’t a need, it’s just a necessary condition for overall life satisfaction in MOST humans. If you had enough empathy you’d admit this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:03 PM |
| -4 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeChads are the only men who have women PURSUE them. While there are a few relationships here and there where the man is equal or below the woman in SMV, I’ve found that most cases of men “dating women out of their league” are cases where the man is actually equally as attractive as the woman, and people are overrating the woman, or the man is compensating somehow, and couples where the man and woman are supposedly “equal” usually have the guy being a bit higher SMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:01 PM |
| -15 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeI’m not trying to make women feel bad about themselves, that’s not my goal. I want women to understand that unrestrained hypergamy has bad consequences, so that maybe guys who aren’t chads can have a decent shot at finding a good relationship with a woman who is on their level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeThat’s a healthy mentality. Just because he finds some pornstar hotter than you physically, doesn’t mean he’s not also attracted to you and doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:44 PM |
| -2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeYeah, and that causes problems that women MUST accept if they’re going to act like hypergamy isn’t a problem. Don’t come to me complaining about men not committing, men cheating, men not respecting you, men not putting effort, being “used for sex”, etc. because these things are the direct result of hypergamy. Isn’t the reasonable conclusion here that women should maybe lower their standards just a tad bit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:35 PM |
| -3 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typePrimarily looks, money, and status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:28 PM |
| -7 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeIt means wanting to be with a man who is higher on the SMV ladder than you. For example, a 50th percentile woman, ie, a woman who is of average attractiveness, generally speaking will NOT settle for an average man, and instead wants a man who is the top 5%, and will settle for a guy who is in the top 20% under the right circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:26 PM |
| -2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeThe difference is men are capable of loving a woman they see as below them, whereas women are only capable of loving a man who they see as equal or above them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeOk, I can see that. We’re mostly garbage from their perspective. Not objectively though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:22 PM |
| -13 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeFundamentally, I’m tired of women saying hypergamy is a good thing, and I’m trying to demonstrate that while hypergamy harms men, it’s not without downsides for women either. Women don’t get to have their cake and eat it too. If you only want to select for men who are higher SMV than you, then you have to accept the negative consequences on your side too, that you’ll be used, objectified, and settled for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:21 PM |
| -2 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeHow are ALL men comparable to a swamp? That’s the problem with this analogy. You’re assuming all men are garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:10 PM |
| 2 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withThat’s not true. If that were true then celebrities and pornstars would be the happiest people around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:51 AM |
| 8 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withYou can say that, but don’t complain about being used by the small % of men you consider attractive. No one is asking you to date men who are genuinely less attractive than you. People are telling you to go for men on your level if you want long term commitment and stability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:09 PM |
| 2 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withDo you see how “women don’t have sex with the hottest man” and “they have sex with a man who they are attracted to” can’t both be true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | The reason men place so much value on sex is because women are very selective with who they have sex withIf that were easy to do then men wouldn’t be obsessed. It would just be normal. Women are the ones who make sex a scarce resource for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Meeting girls at collegeI agree that the girls have higher standards in college. I think for most of high school my mentality and personality were not where they needed to be for me to have a good shot at dating a girl I found attractive, and I think that’s true for a lot of guys. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 04:24 AM |
| 15 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personIf it is, the old adage “watch what they do, not what they say” applies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 04:21 AM |
| 4 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personWomen don’t treat nice men better than they treat assholes. A woman texts and calls her favorite asshole first and makes sure he has to put in as little effort as possible to sleep with her, ghosting the good guy, who is left scratching his head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 03:23 AM |
| 8 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personSo you’re nearly 6 feet tall, very fit, I’m presuming white, very social, and you have little issue finding women? I’m very surprised… not. You’re way more above average than you think and that’s coloring how “easy” and “simple” you think dating is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 01:00 AM |
| 5 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personHow tall are you? What race are you? Where do you live? How social are you? On a 1-10 scale, how attractive was the last woman you slept with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:55 AM |
| 6 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personDefine “no problems”. Could you get a date with a week of effort? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:53 AM |
| 4 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personI’ve seen numerous examples of men who have followed your advice and have gotten nothing. In 2025, unless you’re very, very good looking, getting women is very difficult and not simple at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:47 AM |
| 9 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personThat’s one of the stupidest things I’ve heard in my life. In the post I was trying to draw an equivalency between men and women, but after reading that now I think women might be even worse in terms of who they choose to date. What makes women think they get to “fix” men? Also, what makes them think that just because he’s nice to them he’s now “fixed”? There are plenty of love stories where it’s a good, normal man but there’s some other source of conflict. The guy doesn’t have to be a massive pi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 08:46 PM |
| 14 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personDid you read my post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 08:15 PM |
| 8 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personThere are often major red flags and/or the guy has a reputation for cheating/abusing women. Even more often you will see women persist in an abusive relationship after finding out the guy is abusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 07:28 PM |
| 13 | A man’s ability to attract women has nothing to do with whether or not he’s a good personDo you think red pill men and incels say misogynistic things from the off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Meeting girls at collegeThat might be so, but let’s be honest here, dating as a guy isn’t easy at any age | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Meeting girls at collegeWhat I’m taking away from your comment is that I probably shouldn’t try to be a woman’s friend first. I don’t have any experience with the friend zone, but I’m definitely not trying to end up like that, and part of the reason I haven’t is because I didn’t have friends for most of high school, and more recently I’m only able to be friends with loser/nerd guys who aren’t friends with any girls, let alone attractive girls. I think I should try a direct approach but I think I’ll tone it down and cal… | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Cold Approach Will SAVE YOU.You have to find fulfillment in the smaller wins. Personally, in the past month I went from being terrified to approach a girl, to doing my first approach, to then managing to get a number from an approach. The girl I got a number from didn’t even respond but I still see that as a win because there was a time when I had doubts I could ever get a girl’s number from an approach. My next step is to get a girl to respond over text, and after that, I want to work on getting a girl out on a date. Thes… | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:54 PM |
| 0 | Society doesn’t demonize masculinityMy argument is that men are under attack, not masculinity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Society doesn’t demonize masculinityI agree with everything you said. I think your comment itself disproves the idea that masculinity is under attack. Men are. Not masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Society doesn’t demonize masculinityMasculinity and men aren’t the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 12:18 PM |
| 8 | Society doesn’t demonize masculinityEssentially. It’s masculinity in the service of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 06:10 AM |
| 4 | Do men care about confidence in women?I personally don't find confident women more attractive than women who aren't particularly confident, in fact, a certain level of confidence is unattractive. It's unattractive when a woman is overly confident about her attractiveness. All it tells me is she's going to be a pain to deal with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there any truth to the idea that too many consecutive rejections will damage your psyche and ultimately hurt you?I did my first in person cold approach last week. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Most alpha/sigma grindset guys or dating coaches are really just normie/attractive men subconsciously preying on the undesirableMost of them didn’t grow up desirable. I think men have a natural amount of skepticism towards attractive men who are claiming they became successful with women due to hard work. Most alpha male red pill influencers increased their money/status/game through work. They grew up with little to no success with women and improved. There’s definitely an element of luck to their success, but I think these influencers are more genuine than you’d think. They see themselves as having transformed through h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 07:00 AM |
| 1 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenThis advice is given to men who would be better off doing something else, is what I meant. It encourages men who would be better off being proactive to be passive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 09:11 AM |
| 2 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenI’m not saying never meet women through friends, but guys who have issues with being friendzoned should definitely give cold approach a try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 07:45 AM |
| 1 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenHow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 04:23 AM |
| 3 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenBefriending women with the intention of dating them is wasting time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:53 AM |
| 2 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenOneitis is more likely with meeting women through friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:13 AM |
| -7 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenOf course women care about compatibility. Men generally have much fewer requirements for compatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:10 AM |
| 2 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenYou don’t have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:07 AM |
| -7 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenI think a lot of players view women that way and have no trouble | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:56 AM |
| 8 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenFair point. I think it does benefit women and I think that’s why a lot of them push it, but just because something benefits women doesn’t mean it’s bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:36 AM |
| 3 | “Just date women in your social circle” gives men the wrong idea and benefits womenI’ll be honest. I don’t care that much about “compatibility” in terms of the things you listed. You know what girl is the most compatible with me? A girl who is attracted to me and is nice to me. I think I speak for a lot of men when I say this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledCan you tell me some personal stories of women giving advice like that to other women? I’m not trying to gotcha, I’m genuinely curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledWomen don’t struggle initially though. They struggle with keeping a guy around. There is plenty of real advice that could be given around that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledNo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 03:22 PM |
| 7 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledTelling women not to settle is the opposite of telling them to do something. Even if I somehow conceded that it counts as telling women to take action, it doesn’t compare with the amount of different things men are told to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 12:28 PM |
| -1 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledExcept this kind of content just reinforces the attitudes that women already have. It doesn’t make them change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Typical dating advice for men vs typical dating advice for women shows who is really more entitledImagine you’re trying to find a place to live, and you only want to live in a very spacious apartment in a big city. You move in, but you end up frustrated with how high the rent is. You’re fed up with this, so you decide you won’t live in an expensive place ever again, but you keep all of your other standards, when you could live in a decent suburban home and pay comparatively less. Is that looking for a solution? Or is that just raising your expectations? I view this kind of “advice” the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 12:00 PM |
| 17 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioMost young women don’t date significantly older men. The majority of girls in their early 20s like guys that are their age or maybe 2-3 years old at most. Women are more likely than men to date significantly older, but those situations are uncommon and don’t explain the difference between how many young men are single vs how many young women are, with half of young men reporting being single and only about a third of women in the same age group reporting being single. It’s more likely that women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratioThe red pill was made for nice guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 08:49 PM |
| -5 | Women are overly fearful of male strangers and have rose tinted glasses towards men in their social circlesI’m trying to point out a contradiction. Women trust their male friends and family, and if I point out that they’re every bit as dangerous as male strangers, that’ll cause them to realize that all men are humans, just like the men they’re close to, and aren’t necessarily dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:56 AM |
| -6 | Women are overly fearful of male strangers and have rose tinted glasses towards men in their social circlesMy argument is that if you fear strangers just because they’re men, then you might as well fear your male friends, as they are just as, if not more dangerous. I’m trying to point out a contradiction. The reality is women shouldn’t be particularly fearful of men, since very few of us are actually dangerous. Maybe you aren’t attracted to your female friends, but many men are, and that’s fine. I’m just pointing out to women that their male friends are just like any man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?No. It just means I prioritize different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:12 PM |
| -2 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?I guarantee if the woman was hot enough you wouldn’t give a fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?I’d consider it. It really doesn’t make that much of a difference to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?It’s not objectifying if I’m not just after sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:57 AM |
| -3 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?A guy approaching you and your friend doesn’t mean he’s taking anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:52 AM |
| -1 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?Well you’re implying that I’m only after sex. That’s not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:49 AM |
| -2 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?What’s with the assumption that I want to pump and dump the girls? I’m looking for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:48 AM |
| -15 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?That’s not a fair comparison. If a girl wanted to fuck my friend, but got rejected, then wanted to fuck me, I wouldn’t particularly care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:47 AM |
| -18 | Why do women usually get offended when you approach/dm their friend and them also?That’s most men though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:18 AM |
| 7 | It’s not your job to make someone feel safe. You are not obligated to make someone feel safe just because you are a man. If someone feels unsafe simply because you exist, that’s their problem, not yours.Exactly | /r/MensRights | 04/07/25 12:16 AM |
| 11 | Most stuff women put up with in relationships is only worth it if the guys richMen date women we find acceptable looking to not be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Men’s lives don’t suck because men repress their feelings or hide them, men’s lives suck because society doesn’t care about themYou’re accusing me of “cherry picking” when the studies I linked described how people broadly have comparatively less empathy or care for men, whereas every stat and scenario you’re bringing up is a very specific situation where females might allegedly have it slightly worse. You dramatize every setback women might face in their lives, but you want to completely gloss over the huge, proven biases men face as “no one is protected”, and I shouldn’t be surprised because our society is quite gynocen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Do men care if a woman is a celebrity or high-status?The majority of men are more attracted to feminine women than “formidable” women, which reads more masculine. Men will certainly date women with dominant personalities if we find them physically attractive, but if most men had the choice, it’s likely they’d choose women who are kind, soft, supportive, and maternal, and in a world where women call out men for being broke, unambitious, timid, and weak without hesitation, we should be honest about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | The best way to attract women is to not try.Men should put up a front of “not trying”, but actually be very strategic, especially in the early stages of approaching a woman and asking her out. Game, or rizz, is essential. The average guy can’t just “not try” and expect to get women. Go try it yourself, it won’t work. Men should use the right body language and words to create just the right switches in a woman’s head to create attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:58 PM |
| – | Participation trophies were never a problem. Thats a conservative myth.I think the derision towards “participation trophies” is foolish because anyone who has any familiarity with these competitive activities knows how hyper competitive these kids can be and would honestly say there’s an opposite problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterWanting something and requiring it are different things. Most men are willing to date down. Women will generally only date up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterWomen would even become more bitter and resentful than your average guy. Notice how average women, who could easily hook up with 90% of guys, constantly cry about how insecure they are about not being considered the ideal beauty standard. If average women dealt with the amount of rejection, abuse, and loneliness average men do today, they’d probably go insane or kill themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:42 PM |
| 3 | If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests.If women weren’t being 304s then men wouldn’t have to get paternity tests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Do men care if a woman is a celebrity or high-status?“Formidable” women are not sexy. That’s not what makes a woman attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Do men care if a woman is a celebrity or high-status?We might care a little bit, but it would be a sense of intrigue that’s completely separate from attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | The internet has enabled men to listen in on female spaces, and men don't like what they hearThe redpill has always talked about women, what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Men’s lives don’t suck because men repress their feelings or hide them, men’s lives suck because society doesn’t care about themDo you think the porn industry and sex workers exist because they genuinely care about men? These industries exist to make money off men, plain and simple. I see excuses made for men who are accused of sexual abuse, but it’s always powerful men who have people behind them like politicians, the wealthy, and community leaders. People never make the same excuses for average men who are accused of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Men’s lives don’t suck because men repress their feelings or hide them, men’s lives suck because society doesn’t care about themI will concede that this has become less overt since then, but to act like it isn’t still the norm is wrong. A man who openly cries not might be overtly shamed and be told to “be a man” like in the past, but the difference in treatment between a man who has shown vulnerability and one who has not is definitely real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:20 PM |
| 6 | Men’s lives don’t suck because men repress their feelings or hide them, men’s lives suck because society doesn’t care about themDoes it necessarily have to do with the fact that society views women as weaker, or is it the fact that society sees men as disposable? Society generally does NOT encourage men to be open about their feelings. Men lose social status by expressing their feelings. The only times a man is allowed to openly cry for example is when death or something similarly devastating is involved, not about their insecurities or their every day frustrations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:14 PM |
| – | When you ask a girl out in social circle, you’re not just risking rejection. You’re risking your reputationI agree. The point is that women can be shitty people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:00 PM |
| – | When you ask a girl out in social circle, you’re not just risking rejection. You’re risking your reputationAsk women. They’re the ones who will shit talk a guy just because he asked someone out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:53 PM |
| – | When you ask a girl out in social circle, you’re not just risking rejection. You’re risking your reputationI’m curious what kinds of things women say when gossiping about men that ask them out or their friend out. I have been a victim of this kind of gossip at my high school when I tried hitting on girls (though it’s a bit different because it has been girls that I either didn’t know or didn’t know too well), but I don’t know specifically what was said. I see people all the time say it’s ok to approach women as long as you respect consent and don’t do anything inappropriate, but it seems like IRL mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:51 PM |
| 9 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.I was raised in the US. Do I really need a source that specifically says society makes it hard for men to make friends? I’ve already proven that loneliness affects men more severely than it does women. Contend with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 03:03 PM |
| 4 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.15% of men report having no close friends, compared with 10% of women. The difference might be even higher, since male friendships tend to be more shallow and less intimate, so men probably have a lower threshold for what they consider a “close friend”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:50 PM |
| 11 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.The way our society is set up makes it harder for men to make friends than it is for women. That’s the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:45 PM |
| 15 | It's very dangerous seeing all these female dating experts using male loneliness as a way to bash men when there's literally no co-relation that lonely man=bad men.This is just the classic “men just want sex” myth women believe. No, men are not just after sex. Men are more likely than women to have no friends at all, and that is huge part of the male loneliness problem. Even in dating, men are not just looking for sex, not at all. Men want love and connection, not just sex, otherwise, prostitution would suffice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Women tend to greatly underplay the validity of men's worries about being seen as a creep.The difference is everyone will see the woman as the victim in that situation and take her side. There is next to zero sympathy for a man who is falsely called creepy, and no one will come to his defense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to greatly underplay the validity of men's worries about being seen as a creep.It’s hard to just not care when there are potential social consequences. You’re not in any literal danger, but most people care about their social reputation to some extent. It’s the best strategy for men to approach women and to pursue, otherwise, most men will get nothing, but it’s a fine line to walk. You won’t get arrested, but it’s very likely you’ll be branded a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 12:16 AM |
| 4 | Women tend to greatly underplay the validity of men's worries about being seen as a creep.Being afraid of being called a “creep” is a valid fear for any man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 07:46 PM |
| 6 | Women tend to greatly underplay the validity of men's worries about being seen as a creep.MOST men WILL be branded a creep if they decide to approach a few women. Women talk about men who approach them with their friends all the fucking time, usually laughing about them and how “weird/creepy” they are for daring to show interest. There’s no safe way to approach women as a man, and if you do it, it can be detrimental for your reputation in a college/school/workplace. I wish women understood this, or maybe you do but you’re willfully ignorant/dishonest. Creepy is one of the very FIRST … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 07:39 PM |
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