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Telling your mom. A red flag. Not respecting your boundaries. A red flag. Your knowledge and intuition about the citizenship. A red flag. Certainly not HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 01:20 PM
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Thank you for this. It's so easy to scroll down FDS "oh how terrible men are" but it's much more difficult to make your own life better. We often have our weaknesses too and our own LV ways and it really pays off to change them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/21 11:55 AM
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Which fandoms have HV couples?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 09:27 PM
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The most FDS like I've read is a modern setting GOT story, where Sansa Stark was a jurist and got flowers from a man who wasn't her boyfriend in a (semi?) professional setting. Then her boyfriend (I don't remember who) came and came and gave her some gift or something to be better than the other man. So 2 men making a good impression on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 05:13 PM
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They also talk about the mating market and the biologist(!) asks how do people decide who to mate with if not with some market theory. The host says quickly "pheromones", but the biologist just lets the information pass. So they really don't know (care) about a crucial biological factor of women's mate selection. Stupid men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 03:54 PM
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How to avoid: Find lesbian/bisexual (not queer) communities formed around specific interest you share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:12 AM
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List in the end of this page: https://womensdeclaration.com/en/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 12:28 PM
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I'd like to see a good analysis. I have just started to see the problems not so long ago (just before covid) and I'm still working on my boundaries and seeing the red flags. Most of my friends/acquaintances are from those circles. I'm working on editing my friends group HV way (many people work in the same field so no burning bridges at least not yet).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 06:37 AM
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I have stronger sexual desire for women. I've been a terrible pickme towards them wile being queen towards men. FDS has changed my views. It has made increased my self awareness and other awareness. I have stopped idolizing women. I hold them the same standards as men now. I've started to see red flags/signs of LV among queer culture: A lot cluster B personality disorder behavior which I'm gonna avoid from now on instead of "understanding". Some specific red flags inside the community: Misleadin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 07:54 AM
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Sweet Magnolias (Netflix)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:38 AM
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Same genre: The Bletchley Circle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 08:37 AM
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Very enlightening. Thank you. I dig a bit more and found a whole archive: https://tattle.life/tags/anna-bey/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:10 AM
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She's selling a fantasy but at the same time she's teaching women it's okay to have boundaries and standards. I like her videos as entertainment but I don't find the aesthetics of her videos very classy. Her lips look cheap and the environments in her videos feel like a too small stage in a theater. Not very professional or believable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 07:30 PM
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Please make a detailed post how you get high quality men that wait for sex and please you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 07:08 PM
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Good for you, sis! Excellent. I'm very proud of you. Behavior like this teaches men that their bad actions have consequences FOR THEM which is the only thing that makes them stop. Thank you for your action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:03 AM
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Anything that resembles negging even remotely. -> Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:55 PM
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Greetings from Finland! The best way to find a HV partner here (and get HV treatment) is through HV friend circles, so that you know each other some way before the HV date. Formal (HV) date is not for getting to know each other, but showing a serious interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 01:30 PM
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I love this list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:28 AM
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This explains all my friendships with males?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:53 AM
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HV content. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:29 PM
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I just made a general high value list: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mv9mh4/high_value_basics_selfawareness_selfreliance/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 02:20 PM
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Thank you. This is very important and helpful, handbook material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:49 PM
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Social self-reliance. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:29 AM
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I see how they take "no" for an answer for any situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:56 AM
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Congratulations!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:39 AM
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Not just romantic comedies but all Hollywood/American entertainment is focused on centering males (male feelings, aspirations) and women's lives roll around them. If woman has a goal, it is being with a man (WandaVision, WW1984).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:30 AM
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Anne with an E. The main character is a strong girl with a lot of imagination and psychological wisdom. Her foster mother is an old queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:51 PM
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The Bletchley Circle is this genre, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:49 PM
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Not just you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:48 PM
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It's not just the second wave, its the second step, the elevated version. FDS takes back the power to us women. #metoo is about male power and how they're using it against us. FDS is using our (female) powers like understanding (vetting) and intuition (seeing red flags early, reacting to them) and avoiding conflict (=block and delete) to keep us safe and sane and in a good path in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 09:15 AM
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r/LesbianDatingStrategy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:10 PM
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Why should we care what trolls say? But since we're here, some of you might be interested in r/LesbianDatingStrategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:09 PM
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This sub reminds me daily that I can have and prioritize my own needs, values and goals. I'm more critical about social interactions. Do my friends give back the same energy I give? How they treat other people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:58 AM
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I used to be huge social pick me. I used to have quantity over quality what comes to friendships. But now I'm navigating towards smaller amount but better, deeper friendships. It's been quite sad to see how low quality some of my friendships have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:06 AM
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I just woke up and wrote a post about dating in a LGBT+ community. It was such lovely surprise to see this post on top and so many other WLW women here. I think I must continue on the topic. How to date women romantically or having just friendship in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:53 AM
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I think vetting our entertainment is as important as vetting our company. Why should we use our precious time cultivating our minds with stories dragging us down? The male gaze is real and it produces low value entertainment for women even if the stories would be of interesting topic or brought value to men. Nowadays I just quit watching after the second red flag (violence against or overly sexualization of women). Why not first? I'm still learning there always be another after one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:14 PM
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A Low Value Male, a man who brings low value to your life, thus to be avoided. Please read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:34 AM
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Content warning: violence against women (and children), sexual harassment/rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:59 PM
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In Atlantic Crossing Märtha is a HVW, men around her are not so HV. She has problems with her husband Olav but he'll level up in the end. President Roosevelt is a fuckboi. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9348700/ In La Otra Mirada (Different View) women help each other and level up. https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7905548/ And so they do in Netflix's Sweet Magnolias https://www.imdb.com/title/tt9077540. Self Made is a total badass queen level up story. (Neflix) https://www.imdb.com/title/tt8771910 In …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:56 PM
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You are not being unreasonable. What I'm seeing here is a man trying to fool a woman as her second "wife" in a country where you can have only one legal spouse at a time. So the woman must know that if the man doesn't divorce his wife first, she can not have the legal status of a wife. I'm from another European country where polygamy is a crime, too. But I think it means only an attempt to legally marry twice, to fool the authorities. If they're not trying to get the religious marriage legalized…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:14 AM
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Her show on stage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LHH0DvaTKSI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:42 AM
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Men are teaching each other how to have avoidant attachment style. How to be NVM. How not to get emotionally involved. They lose in life with this attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:00 AM
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More fictional LVM examples: males of the Marvel Universe: Tony Stark has zero consideration of Pepper's well-being and gets in conflict with everyone, Stephen Strange keeps a weird situationship, Black Panther messes his girlfriends job because he wants her to see him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 08:06 AM
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I had my firs boyfriend at the age of 15 (right before turning 16) with a boy same age as me. It was really nice and sweet, we kissed and did things clothes on. I think it's good to practice being in a relationship without any pressure to develop it. Then when you're more mature and ready for a "real" relationship, you know yourself (both emotionally and sexually) a bit more already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:55 PM
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You're very HV. Don't settle for less for a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:10 AM
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Men can fake pairing without really pair bonding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:17 AM
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As a butch leaning bisexual who's been interested in butches and femmes: it's not about the styles/roles, it's about your attitude! People treat you badly if you treat yourself like you're cheap/too easy/let them. IME it's been more difficult with women because I've had less guards on around them. I've grown up with boys, I know their tricks, I can keep my boundaries and I know my value and how to see the difference between those who bring value and those who don't. But I've been a terrible pick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:16 PM
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I see this as the main difference: secure attachment style means your mind (and guts) know the difference between people who can be trusted and people who can't. Avoidant people avoid everybody for not being hurt (because they "know" nobody can be trusted). Secure people also know that even if they get hurt, they will recover so they can let some (good enough) people in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:03 PM
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This can be done with two accounts. Have a "test account" (with a picture not matching with your main account) to match with the same guys and test how they react if you tell free and easy sex available.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:23 AM
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Your being supportive may be interpreted as coming too close (too soon).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:41 PM
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I agree. Not a person you can trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:45 PM
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Wow. Congratulations, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:55 AM
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Good for you letting that go. Nobody sees us just the way we do, but sometimes it's difficult to understand and accept when there's a big lack of understanding with supposedly close person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:38 AM
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Minimalism can be done the way it looks good and is good to your health, too. This is not the way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:17 AM
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This is so true. Conscious versus unconscious mind. Consciously they love women showing their interest but unconsciously it makes them value the woman less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:12 AM
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How is the covid situation in your country? Is it safe to meet people, go out etc? If not, what is the HV way to get to know each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 05:56 PM
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Handbook material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:36 AM
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This should be in the Handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:58 AM
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Negging like that won't take you to a fulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 06:50 PM
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Women in general have higher social status (measured as psychological benefits social life brings) than men. We have more friends and we take keep in touch with relatives more. We take care of each other. So men have less to offer us in the social field than they think they have. Wise men learn form women. Because of better social and life skills in general, young women earn more than young men. Money is not what interests women in men. Sexual pleasure would be something straight men could give …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 06:37 PM
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Notwasting2021 feels the most motivating. It's likely gonna be a very special year with covid still on, but the theme reminds us to make the best out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:32 AM
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Handbook material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:21 PM
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Oh yes, high quality and Handbook stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:33 AM
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If I meet a man who negs I turn him down with "I need a man with a better self-esteem."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:32 AM
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I say no to alcohol, drugs and smoking. If it's a problem with somebody, I avoid them from then on. I think the issue is a good test if understand and accept your boundaries or not. "Why is it a problem for you that I don't drink?" is something you can say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:49 PM
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I'm (childfree) 40+ and not into dating either. I love this sub for the female-centric attitude and focusing on strategy, not being "fair" or kind of other libfem stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:27 AM
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