Evolution biology: avoid LVM, they will drag you down

Japanese-Spaghetti · 2021-11-22T14:33:53+00:00

We are biologically wired to avoid and not reproduce with creepy, weird, unsuccessful, unfit, unhygienic men. Listen to your gut! It’s telling you to let the genes of a creep die out so that there is none of his bloodline in the future!

Digital_Coyote · 2021-11-22T15:16:33+00:00

They lost me at "think of the poor incels and their pain" and not judging them by their loudest voices. They cheer on men who murder us FFS.

It's interesting the researcher said the incels were older than he expected and what other characteristics they had: 30ish, not doing anything with themselves academically or professionally, living at home. Men, especially incels, often talk about how women are toast at 30, the traveling wine-drinking cat lady, or frigid women who were so busy getting careers that they forgot to make themselves attractive. It's starting to sound like projection or just plain anger that single women who don't want to be single are still finding ways to be happy in life.

TikiTikiTata-chalala · 2021-11-22T19:49:44+00:00

I really liked some of this: I can in at like the he mark for some reason. I liked how they talked about mate retention strategies: cost strategies (beating down your partners self esteem so they won't leave you) vs benefit providing strategies (you provide benefits to your partner so they choose to stay).

And how incels are men who doubt their ability to provide benefits to keep a mate- and therefore they follow cost retention strategies. They mistakenly believe that looks are the only thing that matters to attract and keep a partner They also tend to date within their lane- these attractive women they love to blast- they never date or try to date them. So these men overemphasize looks while doing everything in their power to keep someone they perceive as 'not the attractive ideal' around.

Mate value needs to be equal or else there's risk of mate cost retention strategies- EX the woman who loses weight and her attractiveness goes up- is likely to experience abuse from her partner as a cost retention strategy so she won't feel good enough about herself to leave him. However I would argue that incels must use these cost retention strategies on any woman they date- if these men aren't dating the 'hot' women they proclaim constantly to want, the they will only triangulate and resent the women they do date.

They lost me when they went on to defend JP- which I acknowledge some of his stuff is real, but that's only to give him tiny microcredit as a source for complete bogus information. I also was supposed that the host made a super obvious point about I forget what- and the researcher says he'll research that what a good idea. Like it seemed so obvious to me I forgot what it was bc it's a TRUTH kinda thing. I also didn't appreciate how they talked about benevolent sexism only becoming more prevalent if women select for it LIKE WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE? OF COURSE IT WILL BECOME MORE PREVALENT IF WOMEN ARE ABLE TO CHOOSE THE LEASE BAD MAN 🤦‍♀️ maybe I'm just not being considerate enough that these are men speaking and of f#cking course they have no idea what choices women are presented with. Also he dropped the name of Dr Lora Adair and I looked her up 🙌🙌https://www.brunel.ac.uk/people/lora-adair/publications *Am reading up on her now, and her research

Sallou9 · 2021-11-23T04:15:05+00:00

Ugh, Benjamin Boyce is awful. Cant bring myself to watch anymore of him to be honest.

mothboon · 2021-11-23T14:03:02+00:00

It's gross to think these whiners are out there looking for sympathy when they do nothing but obsess over sex.

It's so pathetic that they can't fathom ever taking responsibility for themselves and that they should just get what they want by putting zero effort into being a decent human being.

Nothing will ever get better just sitting on the internet complaining about women not wanting a greasy, hateful, bitter, perverted little man-baby. If you have zero good qualities you have to accept that people aren't obligated to be forced to be around you.

If you want someone in your life, you kind of have to be a good person with compassion, understanding,kindness, humility, respectful, loving, positive... Traits that are worthy of a long and beneficial relationship. If you don't have these traits, you're not going to find any woman who will want to be around you for more than a few minutes. It really isn't rocket science.

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Title	Evolution biology: avoid LVM, they will drag you down
Author	Conturas
Upvotes	89
Comments	10
Date	November 22, 2021 11:30 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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