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I think what's hurting us more is how we treat other men around us. There's so much more competition between men now due to how hard it's become to get jobs and girlfriends compared to the past. Hard to have that solidarity when you feel the need to mog other men in one way or the other. I've tried making friends at the gym and things like that but it just felt kind of toxic in my experience even though it sounds nice in theory.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 03:31 AM
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Yeah a lot of women are sharing men and might not realize it or they do realize it which is why you get terms like "situationship." I've never heard a man use that word in the context of his relationships with women once in my entire life. What does that tell you? By contrast, of people that are 65 and up, only 21% of men are single vs. 49% of women. Men die younger that's why.
/r/MensRights01/10/24 07:30 AM
1

there's way more men who desire constant casual sex than women The only reason you feel that way is because you sleep with men who have all of the options so it seems to be true in your little bubble but isn't actually true. Who you can sleep with isn't always who you can date and marry long-term because the truly filthy guys out there will gladly use you as a fleshlight if you're giving it up for free. Many average men out there have been waiting for their average wives for literal years but th…
/r/MensRights01/10/24 05:29 AM
0

Capitalism is the failed experiment though sorry can't run from the truth forever.
/r/MensRights30/09/24 03:16 AM
2

Isn't serial monogamy basically when you get in and out of new relationships quickly? People should be getting married by the age of 30 not dating and racking up a huge body count casually. What's the alternative?
/r/MensRights27/09/24 05:51 PM
8

dunno its all so complex to me, it's why my only true advice for people is to stop using the Internet more. Go outside more, interact with people Maybe this is slightly controversial or weird to say but I actually think this needs to be solved where it started and that's online. Governments should just provide a fair dating app experience that encourages people to call or video chat more somehow. Maybe add a waiting list function to keep the gender ratio closer to 50/50 so that hypergamous behav…
/r/MensRights27/09/24 10:21 AM
8

It's just that modern women seem to be content with casual sex and their female friendships over having relationships with men. It's so sad that it has to be this way but women have to change on their own. Do they want monogamy again?
/r/MensRights27/09/24 09:16 AM
11

I beat Black Myth: Wukong over the weekend.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 08:12 AM
3

Damn right they will!
/r/MensRights07/09/24 06:55 PM
-2

Sounds like redpill cringe.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 12:23 PM
-2

Survivorship bias and bootstrap worshipping.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 05:45 AM
44

They aren't "paid less" they "earn less" for a variety of reasons.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 01:24 AM
1

Great post and I love how you tied it all together with the LGBTQ support! we are aligned.
/r/MensRights26/08/24 05:29 AM
40

That has 157k likes they have plenty of attention already. I think a response is warranted.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 12:37 AM
-3

They want to start a war with China.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 12:01 AM
2

NATO's running dogs. (Literally)
/r/MensRights11/07/24 11:54 PM
5

The government doesn't want us to get any big ideas like to form some revolutionary vanguard or something. It benefits them to keep men weak, atomized, and the gender war ongoing.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 05:38 AM
38

The pay isn't high enough for the vast majority of men to afford that anymore though unfortunately.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 05:36 AM
13

More accurately liberal propaganda.
/r/MensRights08/07/24 05:40 AM
1

Being attracted to someone's "status" is much different than simply being attracted to someone for something unrelated to money.
/r/BlackPillScience04/07/24 05:47 AM
120

Because they hate men. Next question please.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 03:23 AM
2

It's easier if a musician or other famous person initiates that change first though.
/r/MensRights28/06/24 01:36 AM
1

Progressivism is a good thing it's just that men were excluded from it and so it failed. It wasn't actually a geniuine movement and was fueled mostly by hate and the spinning of data.
/r/MensRights20/06/24 05:39 AM
6

I edited in the results of the referendum and also Ukraine is a corrupt failed state at this point and not a legitimate country anymore in my opinion. Zelenskyy doesn't even have a Democratic mandate anymore and suspended elections while more and more men are disenfranchised and sent to the meat grinder until the last Ukrainian.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 11:42 PM
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"The breakaway provinces as well as Crimea are Ukrainian territory." Let's see you be consistent and say the same about Taiwan then. Taiwan is China. Although Crimea had a referendum to join Russia with an overwhelming vote in favor. "The official result from the Autonomous Republic of Crimea was a 97 percent vote for integration of the region into the Russian Federation, with an 83 percent voter turnout, and from Sevastopol there was also a 97 percent vote for integration with Russia, with an 8…
/r/MensRights17/06/24 11:34 PM
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Biden is more of a fascist than Putin could ever be. At least Putin enjoys mass support in his country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 11:51 AM
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You can believe what you want to believe about the government in Russia but that doesn't change the fact that this is a defensive war for national security purposes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 11:39 AM
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The special military operation was a defensive war not a war of aggression to believe otherwise is pure liberal delusion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 11:29 AM
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The only war criminals here are the Ukrainian nazis and Zionist terrorists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 11:18 AM
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When you've lost you have to give it up not sacrifice millions of men for NATO.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 11:16 AM
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You're an idiot and have no idea what this conflict is about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/24 11:14 AM
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Difficult to expand when this place still can't decide whether or not it's "leftwing" in the liberal sense of the word or the Marxist one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/24 03:25 PM
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North America doesn't need any of those countries it's imploding by itself with it's own demented liberal ideology that all US politicians of both parties support.
/r/MensRights05/05/24 08:38 AM
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Democrats are also the right.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/24 01:13 PM
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And yet it's israel who gets the UN treatment for war crimes while Russia remains largely untouched. Which countries support Israel again? That's right Western liberal democracies and their regimes. Russia chooses it's targets wisely and with purpose unlike the terrorists supported by the West. Also there is no evidence for the sarin gad things. Just like the dead babies in incubators false story about Iraq. https://www.pbs.org/newshour/world/u-s-has-no-evidence-of-syrian-use-of-sarin-gas-mattis…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 07:34 PM
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Do you believe all offensive wars are "imperialist" no matter the case? If you do you're a moron. Also all of the world's most unpopular leaders are presidents or prime ministers of liberal democracies so whose the real dictator here? It would be the failing degenerated West of course.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 07:19 PM
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Putin is helping Assad deal with western backed ISIS terrorists you should be cheering him on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 07:04 PM
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US and NATO imperialism is the primary one and also imperialism has more to due with the economic side of things rather than merely when lines on a map are changed. Read Lenin's "imperialism the highest stage of capitalism." Also you should research the Maidan coup and how the US orchestrated the situation in Ukraine which led to Russias SMO.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 07:01 PM
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If you support Ukraine you're a fascist or Neo-Nazi adjacent period not a Leftist or Marxist. You're just a weird liberal who eats up everything that the deep state and CIA throws at you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 06:30 PM
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Support for Ukraine is exactly what keeps these young men forced to fight alive and protected. If you've paid any attention to the conflict, you'll note the very stark decline and increase in Ukrainian casualties the moment US funding What would stop Ukrainian men from being killed is a regime change and the forfeit of lost territories. Also the NATO dreams have to be abandoned and the Neo-Nazi banderite ideology has to be defeated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 06:28 PM
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The war started in 2014 due to US and NATO encroachment and the CIA loitering in the vicinity trying to goad Russia and influence Ukraine politically like they're doing in China, Syria, North Korea, Venezuela and just about every country on the planet which decides not to be their bitch. If you support the Neo-Nazi government in Ukraine you can't be left wing let alone a male advocate for that matter.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 06:21 PM
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You're a moron to believe "supporting Ukraine" saves lives when it's literally the opposite in reality. It's NATO's refusal to simply let it go which has made the death toll so large.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 05:41 PM
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It's a problem women mostly created and they will have to learn the hard way by being single or used by the top men they all seem to want. It's better for men to give up modern dating until things hopefully stabilize again to give average guys a chance in this world to be loved.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/24 12:04 AM
5

So painfully unfunny that they had to add a laugh track to make it less awkward. Her bit had me all like "😐."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/24 05:51 AM
5

I don't think doubling down on hookup culture by legalizing and encouraging widespread prostitution solves the gender problems at all actually. The root of the problem is misandry and economics. Ultimately it's a political issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/24 06:12 AM
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The system kills them. A system that most women give the seal of approval to.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 11:49 PM
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I thought they wanted to dismantle the patriarchy not uphold its laws and institutions? Another feminist lie? 😯
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/24 01:03 AM
5

Or they bring up the flawed clapback where they try to lie about women supposedly attempting suicide more because they're more likely to seek treatment and get diagnosed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 06:53 AM
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I'm not afraid of telling the world I'm an MRA and men shouldn't be shamed out of identifying as such. It starts with us until the movement is too big to ignore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 06:39 PM
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While women have their own issues unique to them it's obvious that men are the oppressed ones. I don't even understand how this is controversial to say considering all of the stats out there on drugs, homelessness, suicide, forced conscription as you said and etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 05:43 PM
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Marxists aren't "left-wing liberals" that's the problem many of you people get wrapped up in. Also modern bourgeois feminism has very little to do with Marxism as well. There's only one group of people who genuinely care about men and that's Marxist-Leninist male advocates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/24 06:15 AM
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South Korea is about to go to war with the North next year by the way it's all but confirmed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/23 12:56 PM
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Never forget that men have mandatory military service over there and not women. This is likely also a large factor in the discontent for feminists who often don't fight against this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/23 04:17 AM
1

The good guys have to win all of the important wars going forward.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 07:09 PM
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I'm well beyond policing my language for people who are going to hate me regardless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 05:52 PM
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People should stop losing their marbles over this. It's a commonly used word now and it gets the point across.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 04:13 PM
1

If women stopped rewarding bad behavior with their pussies then maybe men would start to change to their "liking."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/23 09:11 AM
6

Being a Marxist sure hasn't made any difference in my dating life.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/23 05:26 AM
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If it ain't my kid it's gross.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 10:38 AM
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Why can't women handle freedom and power without wrecking the family and all of society? What are you doing wrong? Worth considering.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 06:36 AM
3

I don't think "it's in her nature bro" is a valid argument. If we're going to say that then it could be argued many things men did to women in the past was due to our lustful "human nature" and desire to dominate or whatever. Women can be shamed out of this if men collectively stopped excusing and rewarding bad behavior.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 06:28 AM
3

"I'm looking for a guy who's 'ambitious,'" And the biggest one is demanding "princess treatment." You're not a princess, you're just some entitled hoe.
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 01:00 AM
1

Yeah
/r/AllPillDebate14/11/23 12:54 AM
3

Why can't I just order a Japanese girl off of Amazon? It's all I want.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 01:42 PM
3

At least when chad "exercises his options" he knows that it's just about sex most of the time. Whereas the women seem to think they're in a relationship with him instead of a side chick in a harem. People need to understand what their actual options are for a relationship and act according to that not according to what they can fuck.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 09:19 AM
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Prove it by giving him a freebie in the janitors closet. Pow right in the kisser.
/r/AllPillDebate13/11/23 06:47 AM
4

Yeah but your wife is. She's sucking her boss in his office while you're on reddit.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:27 AM
5

Don't want to be called a hoe? stop being a hoe.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 07:15 AM
2

I mean you already knew that I was shifting focus judging by your first response to me but that's rather here nor there. I don't think encouraging more girl bossing is going to fix the problem of hypergamy and unrealistic standards on their part. As women advance in their careers their standards also rise. The "bare minimum" bar that men have to reach continues to go up. The genders can keep trying to one up each other in regards to their career or social status but at a certain point the family…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:55 AM
3

I'm not even really picking a fight I was just trying to have a human conversation with you. That's why we're both here. If I'm reading into your words in a certain way then your words are coming across that way. Maybe change your words or leave the debate arena.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:36 AM
2

It's not accurate to call them lazy but they did get more out of the work they put in back then compared to the post-neoliberal revolution men. And it was easier to impress women and be the breadwinner they wanted you to be. Now both genders have to work to earn money but men are still expected to earn more while also supporting women who want to close the pay gap. It's a logic trap and gaslighting. Essentially women will have to actually materially accept gender equality and the abolishment of …
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 05:22 AM
1

I think your argument essentially boils down to you believing men of the past were more hardworking, which isn't exactly true for one. Secondly, it's important to note that there aren't as many industrial and manufacturing jobs today as compared to the past. We now predominantly live in a service and technological society. It might look like we're "working less hard" now but we're just working smarter instead of harder. Productivity continues to grow as does the economy over time. Also we just a…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 04:45 AM
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What’s not natural is today. You guys don’t get how much the internet has made your day to day experience different from the men who came before you You're still kind of blaming men for this when it can be argued that the internet and social media fried women's brains much more than ours just in a different kind of way. Also it was a lot safer to cold approach women back then because you wouldn't be accused of misconduct as much and could get away with a lot more and women were more warm and app…
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 04:31 AM
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I would rather make the world a better place and worth living in.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 02:31 AM
2

I'm 6'1 and in okay shape for most of my life and women don't even look at me most of the time.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:28 AM
8

It's called a soft-harem. A very easy concept for you hoes I mean ladies to understand but you wanted it this way. Being a side bitch is empowering when you get your chance with chad.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:17 AM
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I mean it's disproven by this same study if you look at the slightly older demographic. If it were true that young women were simply dating slightly older then you would see a huge reversal in the next age group but men are still overwhelmingly single compared to women even though is slightly more even.
/r/AllPillDebate12/11/23 01:11 AM
0

I do miss Stalin, Mao, and Kim Jong-Il tbh. Although Kim Jong Un is quite based.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/23 06:45 AM
2

I got 1,376 followers on Twitter so that's something I guess. 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 07:38 AM
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Download tinder, get the phone number of 2-4 chads and delete, secure a couple booty calls from that, "situationship" for a few months with your favorite one, get cheated on, TikTok rant about how all men are assholes, repeat. Meanwhile her looks and social status match got ghosted and decides to go rant on r/AllPillDebate. And here we are arguing with angry fat feminists with gonorrhea and early Gen Z incels trying to unravel it all.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:28 AM
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Men shouldn't approach women anymore tbh. That should be your job. Wine and dine me baby I'm not cheap either. 😚
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 06:18 AM
3

This is unhinged and cringe I'm sorry
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 12:53 AM
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They should be happy. They wanted us to leave them alone I thought?
/r/AllPillDebate09/11/23 04:13 AM
6

Just look at how the beatles looked. They would definitely be incels today.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 03:52 PM
2

All of them apparently. Even grannies are getting it in. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1ha24as__kk
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 10:12 AM
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Sex isn't everything it's just the only thing women are offering to men.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:57 AM
1

You can't even spell philosophy yet you want to talk about it?
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:55 AM
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Worked for me during Facebook days but not anymore. These hoes don't care about my quirky niches anymore if anything it weirds them out that I'm not a golden retriever.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:52 AM
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Easier for the people having sex to say this.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:46 AM
1

Loneliness is a silent killer. Apparently it's worse than smoking.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:36 AM
1

People who have less access to water are thirstier who woulda thunk it.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:18 AM
-1

And yet women have most of the casual sex now.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/23 01:16 AM
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They're just as horny if not more. They're probably just okay with being single due to the low-key sex with chad. So it's easier to cope with your bad personality and decisions with being a side whore.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:47 PM
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If anything men are the ones who experience the wall to a greater degree. The great god above even blessed us with the bald gene just so the ugly ones can suffer even more.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:17 PM
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Have you ever considered why so many men have gotten so desperate? Perhaps the decisions of the other gender play some role in this?
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:16 PM
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Yeah like I'm going to grind my entire 20s away while my "future wife" is living her best life and getting her back blown out by chad and giving birth to his spawn whom I'll have to pay for also. It's entirely unsustainable, undesirable, and not romantic at all. No amount of used up pussy is worth this sour deal. Why wouldn't men be resentful when our otherwise would-be future wives are instead sucked through the black hole of hookup culture and cultural rot? Black pill and MGTOW is the way to g…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:00 PM
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Lol grandma's mog us.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 11:31 AM
5

Many of us are working class and just don't earn enough to fund a hoe and her lavish lifestyle or desires.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:29 AM
5

"Having one's shit together" just makes me uncomfortable when it's used and it's a bit ableist.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:28 AM
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There's your answer. A bubble as I said.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:12 AM
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I mean do you live in a well off area full of yuppies or are you working class?
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:11 AM
5

Which men do you interact with in your bubble?
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:06 AM
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They aren't our looksmatch though that's the meme.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:21 AM
2

They should socialize the apps and then give all of the profits to women in the form of UBI. Ultimate gynocentrist move. 😆
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:15 AM
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Most modern men absolutely have problems with women now. It's a different world we live in now. She got options bro.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 04:11 AM
7

Men are treated as the bad guy and entitled for simply wanting a girlfriend or family someday in general.
/r/AllPillDebate06/11/23 02:22 AM
1

I guess things never seem like they will change until they do. Dating apps and the internet changed everything. I guess AI and some other factors will influence the behavior of women even more in the next 15 years. It will be interesting to see what happens I suppose.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 05:33 PM
1

Just more and more women coming out about sexual misconduct of varying degrees. That's my basic understanding of what it is. Women feeling more comfortable to tell their stories. But I guess more men are wanting to avoid getting caught up in that so they don't want to be the pursuers anymore.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 05:31 PM
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I'm just saying it caused men to be more cautious around women and not wanting to approach them due to the possibilities of it being misconstrued as harassment or worse.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 03:22 AM
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Women will have to change and not be validated for participating in hookup culture and ruining the family unit with their unrealistic standards and poor choices.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:35 AM
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If things are supposed to be that way then you can't blame men for being misogynistic. Isn't that also the natural way of things?
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:33 AM
0

I'm saying yes.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:31 AM
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I'm misogynistic and think they're awful people, most of them. Fuck it I'm sayin' it.
/r/AllPillDebate05/11/23 02:25 AM
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Wrong the men women are having sex with on those apps are using them for hookups. There are plenty of average to decently attractive men on the apps looking for relationships that's just not what the women are looking for otherwise they would adjust their standards to be a bit more realistic. Considering a grandma can get more matches than a decently attractive guy in his 20s shows that women are the ones with the options and thus the responsibility to choose wisely.
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/23 04:18 AM
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Not a liberal
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 09:35 PM
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I'm not a racist conservative dingleberry so I don't have to worry about all of this. But I do have to deal with that other stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 02:05 PM
1

CCP was totally justified in destroying Tibet https://redsails.org/friendly-feudalism/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/23 01:26 PM
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Most men won't be naturally confident and charasmatic when approaching women and will need to practice to improve. But it'll be impossible to do that if we're just going to get clowned on for stumbling a little bit or being anxious while being the gender expected to do all of the initiating in relationships even though we're bigger and scarier. Make it make sense.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:49 PM
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Honestly the guy is doing better than I would. Those comments though... Yeah I'm never approaching a fucking woman ever. Why are we the gender who has to do all of the initiating anyway? So tired of this shit.
/r/AllPillDebate02/10/23 01:45 PM
1

Keep telling yourself that
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 04:41 AM
1

Yeah maybe you approach a 10/10 model but not a guy on your level.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 02:46 AM
1

It won't pay off because you dumb bitches refuse to approach or at least make it easier for men to have the green light to approach you.
/r/AllPillDebate30/09/23 12:30 AM
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This being prevalent in Communist China just proves that this transcends ideology something is very wrong with these hoes globally.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/09/23 05:30 AM
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These damn females man
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 05:44 AM
2

Once you get off tutorial island I recommend training your woodcutting level so you can get your skill cape and start mogging all of the osrs noobs in lumbridge.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 05:41 AM
1

Not to women. In fact most of them laugh at the homelessness and suicide statstistics or don't take it seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 05:21 AM
1

I'm a Marxist-Leninist, I think you're just talking about the ultra-left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/09/23 03:51 AM
3

TERFS are just transphobic misandrists but misandry doesn't get taken seriously so you need the intersectionality of being trans on top of it to get cred.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/23 03:51 PM
1

I mean it made the rounds some months ago I'm surprised you haven't heard about it. Just search pew research and 63% of men and you will see it come up and some articles talking about it.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 02:38 PM
3

Doubt it pew is well respected.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:41 PM
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63% of men aged 18-29 are single and only 34% of women in the same age bracket are single. This means that nearly half of young women are in a chad harem or dating older. But we already know that men who date younger women are seen as pedophiles by modern women so that couldn't be it. Basically the only chance young men have nowadays is to hope that the women decide to hop off of the cock carousel at some point in their 40s or 50s and marries them out of pity. Hopefully they won't have 15 differ…
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 01:26 AM
1

Flyweight division? heh heh
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 12:42 AM
0

You wouldn't rather share a top guy? Harems are probably the future for women. You might be lower in the rotation depending on how attractive you are but at least you don't have to be in a relationship with a boring average guy or midget.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/23 12:24 AM
1

Could always trade him in for someone better on Tinder. All the other hoes are doing it.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:28 PM
1

How rich is he? Women aren't capable of love.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/23 11:20 PM
7

This song is anti-welfare and taxes so the person singing enjoys suffering and wants to suffer more.
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 05:41 AM
1

I think that was English
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 03:05 AM
11

They chose to just call every guy who opposed their hypergamous hookup culture lifestyle an incel when we have been warning them for YEARS that this would happen to them. Now they create facebook support groups about how they're all dating and sharing the same guys and they seem confused!!!
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 05:42 AM
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No we don’t love creepy men, attractive or not, we value our lives tyvm. Getting cat-called from visibly grown men since we were visibly in school uniform is usually an intimidating encounter and our first look at how depraved and dangerous men can be. And yet you let the crazy feminists tell men to stop approaching women and be mindful of their boundaries. We listened as you ladies told us to! The only men left still approaching women are the creepy and depraved ones who don't care about bounda…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 05:23 AM
2

They can find BF's more easily but they might have to share him. "As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men." This means that young modern women are all in polygamous relationships whether they admit to it or not.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:43 AM
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They can find BF's more easily but they might have to share him. "As of 2022, Pew Research Center found, 30 percent of U.S. adults are neither married, living with a partner nor engaged in a committed relationship. Nearly half of all young adults are single: 34 percent of women, and a whopping 63 percent of men." This means that young modern women are all in polygamous relationships whether they admit to it or not.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 03:43 AM
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If it works for him then he can have all of the hoes I don't care. If women want to have success with dating in this modern world they will have to approach more that's just the reality. Otherwise they will be competing for a small percentage of men because most have already read the room and stopped approaching. These feminist women claim they are no different than the men so they can prove it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 02:32 AM
1

It's brutally lonely out here
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 01:15 AM
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They also love serial killer documentaries. They love creepy men and cat callers. Just the hot ones. Many women also have rape fantasies. Women are crazy. No sane man will date a cheating modern slut woman who hates them anyway. The dating market is all women's fault. Dating apps were supposed to make dating easier and remove awkward encounters. Instead women used them to be brutally hypergamous and superficial. All women believe the same evil feminist propaganda meant to grind 99 percent of men…
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 01:07 AM
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If its socially acceptable for women to make fun of us for being anxious and awkward then they can be alone with their cats, convince themselves that they're lesbian, or make the fucking first move themselves. But we know they'd look even more awkward if that were the new trend.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 12:59 AM
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Men have to make all of the first moves but also you gotta be confident doing it.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 12:51 AM
1

Idk when do you think?
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 06:21 AM
1

Yeah I prefer the socialist type of government. The future is Marxist.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 05:43 AM
1

Capitalism has killed billions of people.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:40 AM
1

Not while the majority of the world is capitalist no but they did yeet the nazis off the face of the earth. Unfortunately we lost the cold war though but we're making a comeback. :)
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 03:06 AM
1

Because capitalist countries have all of the spoils from the imperialist wars and domination.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 02:41 AM
1

Bourgeois liberal feminism isn't the same as proletarian class-based feminism.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 04:09 PM
2

Pay people to gaslight you into accepting your drudgery every week. lol
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 03:47 PM
1

Why are you sending this?
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 03:36 PM
1

So she's essentially complaining about reverse hypergamy. Hilarious femcel moment. Do you realize how often men experience this type of thing? lol
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 03:35 PM
1

Sounds like you need to lower your standards if you're so overweight and unattractive and old.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 03:30 PM
1

Well the gender split is roughly 50/50 so how would you explain hypergamy and the growing incel problem random stoned woman in-passing?
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 08:56 AM
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Marxism is a major part but a lot of it is due to our culture surrounding sex and relationships which is mostly informed by the old world not the modern one. You Red Pill or Black Pill people can keep wallowing in your misery but I've watched your content on Youtube and read many posts on Reddit. It's all circular nonsense and no solutions. What's your explanation?
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 07:43 AM
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Most modern women subscribe to this apex fallacy where they generalize all men due to the bad actions of the few men they decide to have sex with. So in that sense you are absolutely a misandrist and many women are. There are a lot of men out there who are perfectly willing to set aside their "toxic masculinity" and love you but you aren't attracted to those guys necessarily. You want to date and fuck the strong alpha males of society who have won the game of capitalism and you want to leech off…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 07:36 AM
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Many women do that's why bourgeois feminism is such a curse. It's not overly concerned with class or private property and focusing on uplifting women which isn't necessarily bad at face value but the popular notions of modern feminism which push toxic femininity and misandry are definitely heading in a concerning direction.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 07:31 AM
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First of all onlyfans exists as a way for women to diversify their income in a similar way that men are trying to gamble in the stock market or crypto coins. I wouldn't say most women are on OF simply because they enjoy being a whore or whatever you believe. Marxism is the first step to the sexual problem by eliminating the need for women to seek provisioning from individual men thus limiting the role of economic hypergamy which is the primary driver. You understand that men and women have a who…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 07:29 AM
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You're clearly not interested in our sexual problems and just want to proselytize a political ideology. That's true to some extent but I'm still interested in the sexual problems as I'm suffering from them too. Why would you support an economic system which strips you of your ability to provide for yourself or others? Women won't want to date you if she can't secure a future for herself or her children and under neoliberal capitalism there will be no help from the state to allow for women to sta…
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 07:17 AM
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It's succeeded in every country it's been tried. Utopianism and excessive idealism is not Marxist. https://www.marxists.org/archive/marx/works/1880/soc-utop/index.htm
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 04:37 AM
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Sexist women are bad people and should be hated and shamed not validated.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 04:34 AM
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Marxism has worked everywhere it's been tried even while the west has done everything to make sure it doesn't work through things like trade embargoes and military expansion globally. Marxism is not when one guy has all of the power. Lol
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 01:26 AM
3

And how does that get you some pussy?
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 01:23 AM
5

That women aren't all perfect little angels who can do no wrong in society.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:57 AM
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I took the Marxist pill long ago. I don't understand how more capitalism is supposed to solve the mating crisis. It will just lead to more open polygamy eventually when a few attractive and wealthy men own most of the resources in society.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:56 AM
1

It's not bad to hate bad people
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:52 AM
1

Idk why you're being all homophobic randomly do you need a hugie wugie? 🐻
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:26 AM
1

Lol what? 😆
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:19 AM
2

No more hypergamous and misandrist cheating women we're taking all the other men with us.
/r/AllPillDebate29/07/23 12:15 AM
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I don't think modern young women want to get married. Just focus on their careers and maybe fuck their boss or some dude from tinder to get themselves off every once in a while.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 12:04 AM
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Most are just men venting and are likely normal or even pleasant in real life. More than the toxic attractive dudes who are cheating on them probably. All the data I've seen seems to indicate wide spread cocktail sharing going on with all the under 30s women.
/r/AllPillDebate25/07/23 05:30 AM
3

Women get preferential treatment In hiring and education but then demand men still outearn them and shit it's such bullshit.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 08:14 AM
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Women won't even do the bare minimum and recognize male issues like homelessness and suicide rates but then expects us to be captain save a hoe.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 08:11 AM
1

I think it's more likely that women will hook up with the concubines of their polygamous rich chad boyfriends.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:15 AM
2

There will be a huge market for cuck chairs in the future for sure.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:11 AM
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Tradcon beyonce back at it again
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 04:00 PM
6

I mean dudes get fat, old, and bald at a certain point. If anything the wall is worse for men.
/r/AllPillDebate19/07/23 03:12 AM
7

If you have a high body count it often means you can't make a relationship last for long so that's my biggest issue with it.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 11:53 PM
2

I guess you could say that they are their "only fans" ba dum tss and all that.
/r/AllPillDebate16/07/23 02:19 PM
1

I don't want the baggage, kids, or STDs. Any woman 30+ who is still single is very likely to have at least two of these.
/r/AllPillDebate14/07/23 05:44 AM
8

Dating and romance is completely fucked now and marriage is dying. It's nice to have a place to vent about those struggles sometimes.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 06:19 AM
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Dating was always commodified or glorified prostitution pretty much but it's gotten much worse in recent years. At least in the past we pretended to love each other but with sites like seeking, onlyfans, dating apps, etc it's much more in the open. It's disgusting in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 02:26 AM
3

The Red Pill just wants men to double down and accept the abusive behavior of women by giving in to their increasing demands. Demands, I might add, which have been greatly exacerbated by the effects of dating apps and the internet more broadly. I'm a Marxist myself, but I would honestly say that most women who would call themselves Communists or leftists still demand that men be breadwinners and the like in their personal lives. I definitely haven't had any Marxist women or feminists in my DMs a…
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 01:47 AM
2

The truth is difficult for these people to accept. Lol
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 11:19 PM
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Unfortunately, women have brought this upon themselves with their "boss bitch" personality and hypergamy. They only date across and above, leaving out the vast majority of men from the dating market, and then complain about getting "pumped and dumped." Essentially, women have completely ruined the dating market. Capitalism simply cannot work unless people pair bond and form families. We can't be at odds with each other like this for jobs and resources. If women only want to date men above them i…
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 08:56 AM
2

We're also more likely to risk our blood, sweat, and tears for a more physically demanding or dirty job that women would refuse. Yes these jobs aren't always well paying but usually more than the service industry on average sans like bartenders or someone who gets fat tips consistently. Even considering this women still control or influence 85% of consumer spending. However the "gender wage gap" is slowing rapidly and I don't even think tip money is included in those calculations anyway. We live…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/23 02:49 AM
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Can't imagine you applying Marxist theory correctly if you often get in the habit of skimming through text and not playing around with the information in ways that are more stimulating. Have you REALLY read Marx, Lenin etc? Like TRULY? If women on the left actually did I don't think neoliberal feminism would still be so appealing to them... it'd be nice to see MRA spaces adopt those ideas. There's actually a lot of men on the left who want to talk about men's issues more but we're afraid of gett…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/23 11:53 AM
1

I'm saying the "connection to biology" argument for why gender is still widely enforced one way or the other is patently false. You're underestimating the effect culture and the mode of production has in directing human behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 11:45 PM
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Nah that's BS. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJ-k4im-ZP4&t=1s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/23 10:38 PM
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I wish women would stop being so passive in their romantic lives and approach more guys. And I wish they would take dating in general more serious and stop being a side piece in some attractive guys rotation acting as if it's empowering when they're just getting played in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:34 PM
1

Well women are sharing chads and not marrying their looks match which is probably not the direction we should be going. I'd rather have my future wife when we're both young and can explore our lives and sexualities together. Not when she's 45 and has a body count of 400 men and 4 children from different men. At that point I won't want her anymore and she'll spend the next 40 years of her life alone with emotionally stunted and neglected children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:21 PM
2

It's not just the women who are treating modern average men horribly it's also the whole broader economy. Of course it's affecting all of us but at least women can work in the service economy getting fat ass tips or selling their nudes on onlyfans. Men have to sell their bodies doing all the physically demanding jobs women don't want to do while getting disrespected for it. If I'm going to throw my back out for chump change then rotting in bed isn't so much worse. Regardless I'm throwing my life…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:19 AM
4

You act like it wouldn't be normal for someone to not want to work or live while having next to no or zero friends, no partner or kids, can't afford a nice place to live, etc. Why would I give a fuck if I'm mooching off my parents at that point? If life is so fucked why should I keep the gravy train going for the economy? Fuck the economy and fuck this country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:07 AM
1

Sex and gender aren't the same thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 09:41 PM
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Women seem to be embracing the current sexual marketplace through hookup culture and things like onlyfans. Women also seem to love capitalism and hierarchies because it quenches that hypergamous thirst to only sleep with the most powerful men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:19 PM
1

At this point I'm MGTOW if women won't approach there's just too much risk involved. Otherwise women can continue being pump and dumped and shared by fuckboys as that pew research study seemed to indicate. I don't want to deal with that petri dish of STDs and I definitely don't want to raise some other mans demon spawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:27 PM
1

I don't have any nor do I plan to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:45 AM
5

Having the perception that men aren't helping isn't the same as them not helping. Just because you don't recognize the things your husband does for you doesn't mean they don't exist. I just don't think it's so much work to clean a two bedroom apartment that it's worth making such a big deal about. Now if you have 4 children, 3 dogs, a cat, and 15 house plants it might become a hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:32 AM
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Many men are or they're helping out in other ways like taking out the trash or mowing the lawn. Also as I said. Men work longer hours on average and also usually more physically demanding jobs too so that probably plays a part in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:12 AM
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Maybe this is an issue mostly with older couples who grew up in a time with more ingrained gender roles and divisions of labor? Also earning more doesn't necessarily mean that you work harder or longer hours. Sure if your husband doesn't have a job and just sits around playing video games all day while you're working 70 hours as a nurse or something then there's a problem there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:37 AM
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Men work longer hours on average. Why do women on here act like house chores are some daunting task? Machines were created to make it even easier with very little labor or time needed. They even have robots that will clean the floor for you! Even then it takes me 30 minutes to do an entire sink full of dishes and probably only 30 minutes of sweeping/mopping every few days. Laundry once every Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:21 AM
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Smarter nations realize the risks of such an environment and find ways to get everyone's skin in the game. Not going to happen. We live in an individualistic "free" capitalist country. Don't worry they got a plan for us in the great China war to come in the next 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:59 AM
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Most women find average guys to be invisible most of the time so I would take whatever they say with a grain of salt. Because whatever is an "average" guy to them is likely very above average considering most average men are actually poor and probably slightly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:50 PM
2

Right I can't go up to all of those toxically masculine coppers and tell them to stop murdering black men. Not alone I can't. I'll never understand why so many left leaning women prefer to fight this gender war BS instead of working together to topple the whole rotten system.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 09:36 PM
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She's a political opportunist like the rest of them. When it comes down to it she will screw over the working class. This is why I'm done with the Democrats and even the Democrat aligning DSA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/23 09:34 PM
2

You're a minority of extremely privileged and probably white reddit woman. Doesn't change what I said which is still true for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:01 PM
4

Funny how the more rapey acting a man is the more sexually successful he is. And then women wonder why all of their past partners are assholes or abusers go figure. As much as I hate Andrew Tate and as much as women claim to hate him, you know that guy has fucked probably thousands of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:42 PM
2

I mean it's the #1 job women go for when getting their degrees. Unless you want me to make one of those gender studies jokes. Some stats if you're confused. https://www.dol.gov/agencies/wb/data/occupations/most-common-occupations-women-labor-force
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:02 PM
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Well unless she has her degree and is a nurse then the only other options typically for women are low paid teacher or service sector. And women make the vast majority of service jobs it's not a hard stat to just google.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:38 PM
2

What if women still prefer being single rather than being in a romantic relationship and having kids? Women as a whole or you? If it's actually true that the vast majority of women don't want kids or relationships with men in their entire lives then I guess our species won't be able to replace itself and we all die eventually. So if nothing romantically changes how is communism a better option? Well communism is a better option for more reasons than simply making money a less defining role in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:43 PM
2

So you're more partial to polyamory or open relationships? Seems like a bad deal for most men. Women have a lot more choices than men to sleep around so it usually ends up one sided and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:35 PM
1

Maybe your job is sweet but most women work in the service sector.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:31 PM
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Well people could spend more time building their relationships outside of work and could prioritize money less in the relationship. I don't believe women need to be coerced economically to be with men. Maybe these reddit crazies do but not the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:28 PM
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They want us to rot on the street or prison and call us entitled for wanting a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:19 PM
0

Communism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:32 AM
3

Is marriage itself so bad or is it simply bad to marry extremely young with someone you're not compatible with simply because you went to the same high school together or something? Personally I believe we're more meant to live communally but that doesn't mean we can't still get married and be monogamous still. We just have to choose better and have less alienated communities. Of course I blame a lot of the problems on urban sprawl and late-stage capitalism tbh but that's just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:55 AM
0

If women are only valued for their bodies sexually men are only valued for their bodies for physical labor and grinding in the gym to be attractive enough to get a date with a fatty on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:49 AM
1

Communism would lead to a better standard of living and probably would make people happier and marrying again. That's the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:44 AM
4

Women love capitalism more than those weirdo right wing libertarian guys it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:37 AM
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Neoliberal girl boss feminism yay for throwing away our happiness to be a slave to our boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:35 AM
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The "loving women" of that time became the crazy lunatic karen's of today. Do the majority of boomer couples really seem happy today? I guess you're right. Do you think it's not possible for us to get to a point though where there's an equilibrium and the majority of people pair up with someone again? Women have more choices than ever before to actually choose the guys they want to marry now so hypothetically they should be able to find the right guy easier than the women of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:31 AM
1

It's more likely that women see men as a commodity where as they refuse to marry a man unless he's extremely wealthy or hawt. That seems to be the case. Most men would be happy to marry an average lowly paid woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:28 AM
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I highly doubt women will be happy in the long term either remaining single until old age our forming polygamous relationships with wealthy chads. Why don't the women want to see it all burn too and replace this society with something which allows us to be happy together again? Why are women proud to sell their souls to their boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:24 AM
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The future of capitalism is probably polygamy so enjoy your 4 wives I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:56 PM
3

But the problems are deeply political and socioeconomic not simply "men can't get laid." It's a lot deeper than that. And video games won't placate the millions of men who are starting to fall through the cracks of society. I give it 10 years or less until full societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:23 PM
1

Only if they increase their wealth and social status somehow which is increasingly not happening for many men no matter what the red pill gurus or hypocritical feminists tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:00 PM
3

Usually it's when you disagree with a woman or complain about your dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:12 AM
1

The ideal situation for modern women is for average and below average men to filter themselves out of the dating pool and sleep with the guys they actually want on tinder. Male harems is our future probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 09:12 AM
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Women be racist as fuck and getting away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 08:14 AM
4

Lol these are some of the worst examples of men on the "left." that you could come up with. Hasan Piker in particular is probably one of the biggest gaslighters when it comes to this topic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 06:47 AM
7

I've only heard women say stuff like "big dick energy."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:48 PM
9

Joke country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:47 PM
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I've just kind of accepted that our future of late-stage capitalism will just lead to polygamy and sugar daddy type relationships becoming more normalized. It will be empowering to sleep with old rich men like hugh hefner. Women just love capitalism so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 06:26 PM
0

Keep coping
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:51 PM
1

Cope and seethe
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:42 PM
16

The men complaining about a woman's body count aren't looking for casual sex those are just the fuckboys. The men complaining are looking for wives and girlfriends but the girls are too busy having their fun and hoe phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:20 PM
1

I don't see how losing money on therapy sessions and meds really helps in the long term. I feel like one of the biggest contributing factors for mental illness is probably financially related. Especially for men. I have my doubts about the effectiveness. I feel like there's just way too many cascading effects in regards to how the whole society is setup which is the main reason for an explosion in mental health problems. But of course I don't have all of the data. I'm sure therapy is helpful in …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/22 12:12 AM
1

We need to stop pushing therapy on men until there's some real studies to suggest that it actually works. I highly doubt going into debt to get therapy is going to help any man get out of the trenches. But if you have any data on it I'm willing to look at it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/12/22 11:23 PM
1

Foreign media is extremely popular globally, I'm taller than the local men, and I come from a different culture generally. If they wanted to find a sugar daddy they'd likely date older men or use one of those websites which is catered to that lifestyle. Honestly I've come across way more outright gold diggers in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:24 AM
1

Maybe for a similar reason I am? They prefer foreign men and I foreign women? You have to keep in mind that those three countries I mentioned are home to over 485 million people. Why do you think so many Indian men send DM's to so many random white women? Because their population is over a billion people and they don't have as restrictive of an internet as the Chinese.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:14 AM
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I dunno I have something like 300+ matches from women from those countries. It's hard to believe every single one of them is after a green card only.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:08 AM
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Who wants a green card to go to the U.S. anymore? Our economy and infrastructure is crumbling and less opportunities than ever before. I think these women just have different priorities but I suppose some might be looking for green cards hard to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 10:48 PM
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When I think of left-leaning women I'm just reminded of that picture of grimes reading the communist manifesto while dating billionaire Elon Musk. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:38 PM
2

Not every socially conservative country stones people to death...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:34 PM
0

A dictatorship over capital can be described as "authoritarian" I suppose. But it's also distinctly Marxist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:29 PM
1

I've never heard a conservative say their ideal society is modern china though. Obviously OP is based.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:28 PM
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Anarchism/left-socialism is revisionism not leftism. If you oppose every current and past countries led by communist parties how can you call yourself a leftist? You're just spreading the same neoliberal propaganda. You probably believe all of that fake Uighur genocide stuff propagated by the west to undermine china and communism don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:25 PM
4

I'd like to see the data on conservative women abroad and western "conservative" women I believe the data would be much different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:17 PM
0

I couldn't date a western tradcon simply because of the brutal expectations that come with being a provider but privately I've seriously considered figuring out a way to date and marry abroad in Southeast Asia or something like that. Economically I'm also a communist but I favor more stable relationships and families which are more common in conservative cultures. All of this hookup culture open-relationship YOLO stuff just doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:08 PM
2

The men are a product of the same culture and environment you're apart of. Look inward.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:32 PM
-2

The femcel movement in the next 10 years is gong to be YUGE! I can feel it. It's already happening I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:28 PM
2

The growing number of single mothers tells a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:17 PM
5

I think if you're actually serious about your political views it can be very difficult to date someone who is diametrically opposed to what you believe actually. The other stuff doesn't matter that much to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:14 PM
18

The reason most women on OLD are garbage is because they're either mentally ill, single mothers, morbidly obese, or extremely narcissistic. I'm none of those things yet when I try to date locally I get few matches or interest from women. Meanwhile I log onto OkCupid and I can match with hundreds of women from the Philippines, Indonesia, Vietnam, etc who are mentally stable, not obese, attractive, and actually make an effort to talk to me. It's obvious that western women have unrealistic standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:01 PM
5

Carrying the conversation by asking him boring ass small talk questions which don't challenge him at all. You just don't have any game girl improve it, get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:19 PM
1

Probably you're matching with the hottest guys who already have way more matches than the average guy. So they are more likely to be flakey because they have other options. Not just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 06:10 PM
2

This is why dating apps only work if they have stringent questionaries with algorithms that link you up based on that and similar hobbies or music taste or something. It's the only way I've ever had success with dating anyway. Of course if dating is reduced to a simple "hot or not" swipe system both genders are going to fail hard in the long term without a wife or husband to show for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:08 PM
2

She will be all like "Oooo I didn't know I was so popular let me sneak to the bathroom when he's sleeping to find his replacement hehe"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:06 PM
2

There was a post a while ago that while women get more likes, men and women end up with about the same number of face to face meets from these apps, which is interesting. Despite women having infinitely more matches they're still humans who get busy, having to arrange a time for a date, etc. What's so interesting about that? Men go on dates with the women who say yes women can just pick the most attractive richest guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 06:03 PM
4

We're stronger maybe tougher but who's to say that we're naturally providers? Money is a man-made creation and women can make theirs now too you can provide for me and pay for my dates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:07 AM
3

If you aren't prioritizing a husband that shows in your body count. I think any woman under 30 who has more than 10 past partners is a red flag. That being said no I haven't turned anyone down for their body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:33 PM
2

You forgot to mention capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:29 PM
5

Jumping through all these hoops to become a top earner muscle freak isn't worth the mediocre pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:33 PM
2

I'm more of a homebody too. I want to meet someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:40 AM
2

I don't usually get a chance to chat with them long enough for the conversation to get too interesting. I feel like they're either not attracted to me (despite matching) or just way too busy with their daily lives to check their phones enough to see my message.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:07 AM
4

We need an all-encompassing paradigm shift of our culture, economy, institutions, and urban development I agree. I've already decided in my mind that the only way we get there is to have some type of proletarian revolution and political capture to force this stuff to happen I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:56 PM
1

Yeah that was always at the back of my mind too. I think it's possible with the amount of matches women get flooded with they just pair off much faster with some fuck buddy chad type dude and delete the apps. But the sexless rate seems to be increasing for women too even though it's not as bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:45 PM
1

I heard about it I'll try to read it maybe even though I have a low attention span for books.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:43 PM
2

I like basketball but every time I go to the gym there aren't any girls there only men. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:00 PM
4

I don't send dick pics or harass any women yet my experience was still constant ghosting and disinterest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:56 PM
2

I feel like a lot of these social events are just wealthy boomer havens anyway. Not really places designed for young people. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:52 PM
2

There's a good urban planning channel on youtube called "Not just Bikes" which is worth checking out. My solution is to end capitalism by any means necessary but also it makes sense to work with the reality on the ground if you want a relationship. But it makes sense to check out of dating and wider society in general in my opinion with the way things are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:49 PM
4

I think we also have a problem of over-policing in our communities here so even when we try to congregate there's always that fear that we could get murdered on the street for looking too suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:29 PM
5

Yeah and you need a designated driver so you're pretty much forced to go only if you have friends to accompany you... There have been times where my mother offered to go to bars with me but that would be kinda weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:25 PM
2

I think with online also they could be all the way across the world or be anonymous. Sometimes I wish it wasn't seen as creepy to just DM random girls on facebook or whatever who live in your respective communities. I know some men still do it but it's another case of weird dudes ruining it for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:22 PM
2

Yeah I feel like with the second group at least they probably don't have much of an incentive to delete their profiles if it keeps working so they're allowed to remain on the apps to abuse more women giving off the perception that all men are like that online. The algorithm probably also boosts his profile too. lol I think this would probably be solved if these companies cared to improve the reporting functions and if they cared about safety in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:12 PM
1

I feel like the algorithm rewards more attractive men who are more likely to use dating apps in that way. If you're an attractive guy genuinely looking for a relationship you probably won't be stuck on there very long. Especially if you're getting a lot of matches and date opportunities so it just leaves the abusers who refuse to delete their profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 06:06 PM
10

I think feminism definitely plays a role so does the fact that women still refuse to approach men. I feel like there's always a social pressure to spend money and not loiter around public businesses for very long though. There's generally an expectation that you must leave to make room for another person after paying for a meal or coffee or whatever. Otherwise there is a real risk of police confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:51 PM
9

I feel like a lot of women don't even want to interact with men online anymore without some sort of payment. That's why onlyfans has popped off in recent years. I feel like no matter my intentions it's nearly impossible to make female friends online. In theory online dating would be a godsend. But I guess dating and relationships being completely privatized like this is just another example of late-stage capitalism doing it's thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:43 PM
7

I feel like it's probably better and safer with dating apps though because at least if they're the type of guy to send dick pics and be weird you'll have a better idea about that much earlier on. In real life you could be dealing with a total creep but he keeps it to himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:33 PM
3

Yeah in both situations they can't leave easily If they can leave easily though you probably won't make much of an impression unless you outright ask for a phone number or something right? As for exploring night life it's way easier with a group of buddies, but sometimes when you're in a new city you have to learn how to be comfortable on your own until you cultivate a new group of buddies. But with all of the mass shootings and everything going on I feel like it's rather suspicious probably for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:18 PM
15

Also attending activities like yoga where women congregate is tricky for guys because a lot of those are spaces where women look forward to unwinding, so hitting on her can make her feel like she has no easy exit strategy short of giving up her favorite class and having to find a new one. It's the same problem with hitting on a girl at work or when she's at the gym. I feel like if you don't have a social group where you feel comfortable exploring night life with you're pretty much screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 05:04 PM
5

Thank you I appreciate that!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:59 PM
4

Unfortunately for me my family was always on the go growing up so I don't have a consistent social group as an adult beyond the friends I've made online. Honestly the best way to meet someone is to get a group of friends together, go to a casual but decent pub, try to merge your group with another, include everyone in it and then start to single in on your target but don’t make it obvious I think this is true but I tried asking some of my coworkers one time to do something like this but we never…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:52 PM
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No problem I've noticed how a lot of posts here are rather repetitive and don't offer many solutions to anything beyond trauma posting it seems like. haha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:48 PM
1

That's a shame not every man out there wants to cheat or abuse women some of us want genuine connection and marriage some day. Maybe chads and young men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:47 PM
8

I feel like women are a lot more social than men in general we don't really have hobby groups or large social circles it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:45 PM
11

So where do I go to meet these women if they aren't on the apps? Don't bars have unequal gender disparities too? So where are they? I want to get married someday. Are they all just sitting at home on netflix avoiding men!? Also I don't understand why men send dick pics and ask for nudes when obviously it reduces their odds of hooking up to a guaranteed 0%. Is this really that common? I think you can't even send an image on most dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:41 PM
9

So where are these women meeting their partners then? Because after college basically apps and bars/clubs is what you got.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:39 PM
11

Obviously it's gotten to a point now of being mostly unmanageable for the average person which is why there's an explosion in loneliness and mental illness in general which affects BOTH genders might I add. I think people shouldn't be focusing on relationships right now rather reshaping their communities and economies from the ground up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:37 PM
10

I don't understand why more women don't use dating apps then to even the odds? Why does there seem to be a gender gap in all spheres of dating? Ideally the genders should be 50/50 when it comes to dating apps, bars, clubs, etc. Is it due to the explosion of bisexual women or wgtow (women going their own way)?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:30 PM
3

The men in the 30-54 range likely found their partners before the explosion of dating apps and hookup culture. It's mostly that 18-29 range who are most affected and going sexless while young women are mostly doing okay (though sexlessness is rising for them too for various reasons) It's just easier for them since men are still expected to be the ones to approach and also they can actually use dating apps to their advantage too unlike men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 04:25 PM
2

Just become an mma fighter bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:18 AM
0

You seem both disgusted and interested in it at the same time. lol My point remains that men also value superficial things, so the average man can’t be trusted to be loyal to the average woman The average man has much lower standards than the average woman in fact many are so desperate that it's pathetic. Don't believe me? Watch this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ggm4nUSxtTY&t=41s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:56 AM
1

So you do or don't do hookups? If you do then I'm not sure why you're complaining about men wanting to use you when you want that to happen. Having standards is fine if what you mean is simply finding a guy who respects and values you. But it seems many women value more superficial things like height, money, model looks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:50 AM
0

So you're sleeping around with strangers and you're confused why they don't value you emotionally beyond a quick pump?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:43 AM
0

So focus on getting a boyfriend who you're comfortable with as opposed to casual sex with strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:39 AM
-1

You can be used by anyone but it's a lot harder to get a guy to commit to you if he's already sought after by many different women. it's not hard to grasp. Women already chase men for their money so I'm not sure what you're getting at. You're mad that men are attracted to your body? Why? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:28 AM
1

I'm not strong nor am I independent. I never had the opportunity to really "use" anyone and neither has the vast majority of men who aren't in the top 10% of male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:03 AM
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What do you expect men to do? It's not our fault women want to have their sexual revolution with a select few men and make us wait for the privilege of marrying them when they get bored. For myself I don't want to just accept any woman that comes along but many other men will. That's how desperate things have gotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:56 AM
-2

It'll be a lot easier to secure commitment from a guy who isn't already on the radar of hundreds of other women though. The uglier guy has less leverage so has to accept whichever women shows interest in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:35 AM
0

I feel like if she's dating with a purpose it would likely keep her body count on the lower side anyway don't you agree? I don't understand how a girl gets to have a triple digit count with that kind of mindset for example. Unless she's some type of swinger who had open relationships in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:43 AM
1

Actually they can't if they want to be married someday. They have to lower their standards and stop being so picky! Not every guy can be 6ft+, model, huge dick, and six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:23 AM
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There's not a number which would give you pause? If a girl has a high body count it indicates she isn't one for long term commitment with a single partner she'd rather sleep around for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:18 AM
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I don't think anyone is shaming women for having sex with their husbands? I think all men want is for women to date for marriage and stop getting used and abused by men out of their league who won't commit to them. If you have to lower your standards to find a partner who wants to marry you then do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:12 AM
0

I feel like with the amount of choices women have for dating compared to men it's a much bigger red flag for them to be single in their 30s. Basically I'm thinking to myself "What were you doing all of this time?" Meanwhile even a fairly attractive guy with a good job and everything else might hardly get any matches on dating apps and might not come across many single women in his daily life. There's also the fact that many older women simply refuse to date younger guys so that also plays a role…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:41 PM
3

Also most affordable homes are in the middle of nowhere with few job prospects or women around besides widowed grannies if that's your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:07 AM
0

All of this shit is because of late-stage capitalism not because men "forgot how to be men." that's your delusion pal because you lack any real analysis that's based in anything real. Stop watching so many movies real life isn't fight club or that 300 movie from 2006.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:46 AM
3

He's well off but also probably lives in one of the best cities in the world for socialites.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:12 AM
2

That would be sexual harassment it's your job to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:02 PM
1

As long as you're having fun that's all that matters I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:05 PM
1

Okay but you gotta be paying for half of those dates or going 50/50 on all of them because I have a strict "pay on first date but nothing more until exclusivity" policy. I don't think I'm alone with this thinking so just keep that in mind if you want to have this rigorous interview style dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:27 PM
1

Seems like you should be preaching that to your sisters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:25 PM
1

More rigorous process than most jobs. You really think men are going to wait around for that? It's not even about the sex at that point. Also I feel like you'll ghost during one of those dates and it wouldn't even be my fault. I'd just be on my toes and make some minor mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:24 PM
1

Maybe but it seems like this is a common occurrence now I'm just wondering why it has to be that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:21 PM
1

I'm not sure which studies to believe honestly but It does seem like sexlessness is growing across the board. What do you think needs to change for relationships to happen more frequently? I want to get married or something someday I'm getting lonely over here I don't know how much time I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:47 AM
1

But dinner dates are extremely formal and anxiety inducing I can't imagine doing 6 of them in rapid succession like that. Sounds like it could get pretty pricey if I'm expected to pay for all of it too. Maybe you're just an extremely bad communicator? How do do you meet men and how often do you go on dates with a different guy? Honestly I wouldn't mind waiting for sex but there's a lot of pressure to escalate as fast as possible because so many people will ghost you at the drop of a hat. And sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:43 AM
1

Young women have a much smaller sexlessness rate than young men so they're having sex with somebody. They're definitely not trying to meet men for long term relationships so unless the vast majority of women have become cat ladies already they're definitely fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:36 AM
1

It's not THAT difficult to get the basic gist of a person in a short amount of time enough to decide if you want to get intimate with them or not. 6 dates is a lot. It also depends on how you met them like if you're coworkers or met at school you might have some idea of who they are already. Also aren't you texting them too like? I don't see how I'll ever get a partner if this is the norm now with dating because it's seemingly a lot easier for women to go on dozens of dates with a bunch of diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:35 AM
2

Also if you're a lonely depressed guy you likely won't find a designated driver and also men don't seem to enjoy going out with their bros anymore. They'd rather play multi-player games together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:10 AM
2

Not only that but I've been conditioned to believe bar fights are pretty frequent and I don't really want to get into it with some dude simply because I'm talking to the girl he wanted to get with or whatever. Maybe I just watched too many early 2000s movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:06 AM
1

For some men it's true not for me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:57 AM
2

The vast majority of women will have casual sex with the right kind of guy in the right situation. Even if she's withholding this information. Do you honestly believe this isn't true?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:53 AM
1

How many different men have you gone on dates with? It's hard to understand because for a lot of men we may only get to date a handful of women in our entire lives. Maybe you have choice paralysis?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:43 AM
1

Imo casual sex is simply one night stands or sex on the first date. But also I'm not typically the type of guy who thinks you should be going on 30 different dates with different dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:41 AM
1

6 dates is a lot of time and investment. Honestly I don't care about body count in that situation I would be very concerned If things haven't escalated up to that point unless she explained clearly why that's the case. For me 2 or 3 dates is enough. Or roughly around a month or so into the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:38 AM
1

Because it would be annoying having to wait years depressed and developing self-image issues meanwhile my future wife was fucking chads and having fun for her entire twenties. I don't really want to he with someone who has a mismatched body count to my own. In my case I'm 28 with a body count of 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:31 AM
2

Men are still expected to be providers and pay for dates and stuff like that. Most of us have never lived in a world where sex and relationships weren't transactional. For women these things are given to them on a silver platter for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:28 AM
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Attractive men don't have approach anxiety to the same extent due to years of positive reinforcement so in that way it's kind of a benefit. You're less likely to be treated like a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:25 AM
2

Seems like a good decision congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:17 AM
1

A promiscuous man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 11:06 PM
2

I guess the dudes hanging from a noose forgot to check their privilege.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/10/22 08:24 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:41 AM
1

Nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:23 AM
1

They would probably put up with my anxiety and joblessness for longer and maybe even help push me out of the house and out of my bubble. In return I could cover for their weaknesses and we could have a mutually beneficial relationship as I'm extremely affectionate and loving to my partner and can offer the little things that often don't get appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:52 AM
3

A long long time ago one of our kind (homosapien) learned that being good and honorable lead to a higher likelihood to the survival of our species and ever since then more and more of our types took it upon ourselves to also take up this strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:16 PM
2

I feel like as a man you have to give off an illusion that you're always off to bigger and greater things even if it isn't true. The moment you get comfortable and content is when they get bored or turned off and dump you. I'm just not interested in getting a bunch of loans to fake a luxurious lifestyle to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 05:21 PM
1

Honestly I just think people use the anonymity of places like this on the internet to vent out their frustrations about the opposite sex I don't think even the horrible sounding people here are like this all the time in their daily lives. But a lot of men on this sub try to separate themselves out as being "better" or "nicer" options right after calling women they don't desire horrible names and assuming women should abandon all bodily autonomy and freedom of choice so they get their needs met. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:18 PM
1

With women racking up these MONSTROUS body counts I disagree vehemently. I think men are just more desperate because they get less sex and validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:10 AM
3

Distancing themselves from men when it comes to relationships? Likely. Sexually? It's hard to say but I think a lot of women are just sharing top guys. you can't fire us, we quit" amongst all the droning on by sexless and abusive men Where do you get this idea that sexless men are inherently abusive or bad in some way? I would argue that the more abusive types are a lot more sexually successful than more docile or anxious men. The type of guy to approach a lot of different women on the street wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 10:06 AM
0

That's what the misandrists want. They want you to hate yourself and delete yourself from the equation. Know your worth king. 👍 It might be low now but that's only because we're in a sexual economic bubble. When the vast majority of women realize they can't all marry the same top 5% of men the game is up and everything comes crashing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:34 AM
4

Many men here point out how easy it is for women and a small percentage of men to have casual sex but that doesn't necessarily mean we want to be in their position. Only that it's reducing the odds for us to find relationships because everyone is just screwing around not looking for anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:25 AM
1

Because not every man is after casual sex like you and many women seem to think? Also I don't agree with it morally and I can masturbate just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 07:23 AM
0

If you can't sus out the bad apples when you have endless options that's your problem FOR SURE. Get good queen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:09 AM
2

The men are just spinning plates and having sex with all of them. What do you think west elm caleb was all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:33 AM
0

Women just use dating apps to get a couple chad phone numbers and then just rotate dick as long as they need and repeat. They don't need to be on the apps very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 02:25 AM
0

We just get told to "be a man" and being a man is already such a horrible thing in the eyes of many so there's no need for a more demeaning slur.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:07 AM
1

Real proud of yourself huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:15 PM
1

So you're scum
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:15 PM
7

So bodyshaming is okay if it's against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:13 PM
9

Stop saying it. It's body shaming, men don't appreciate it so stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:12 PM
1

Do you always have this much trouble with your brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:33 AM
2

I mean I don't know what kind of point OP is trying to make to begin with or why you're defending them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 05:12 AM
1

That video is what informs the entire post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:58 AM
0

You're the goofball watch the fucking video linked in the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:21 AM
2

Read the thread
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 04:08 AM
0

Heyyyy girlfriends who's ready for slutwalk weekend in miami? Our husbands don't gotta know. Our little secret. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:51 AM
1

Steakman1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:48 AM
3

Right going to miami every month alone without your SO is just "vacationing."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 03:45 AM
2

She doesn't have to be a virgin just don't be the town hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 02:39 AM
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More and more men are getting less play romantically and sexually from women for a multitude of reasons which in turn creates a massive army of desperate simps who inflate women's egos and thus lowers the sexual market value of all men as a whole. And dating apps/social media creates a paradox of endless choices for women. In a normal society we wouldn't need 15 different pills to try and understand relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 06:40 PM
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Well most women have multiple suitors at any given time so it would be a lot easier to avoid the neo-nazi in favor of a better match. Meanwhile men can become a lot more desperate due to longer dry spells on average. Of course he would still be wrong for dealing with toxic women and I definitely wouldn't encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:49 PM
2

Valuing human beings in this way is so stupid. You know nepotism exists right? Just because someone is wealthy or powerful doesn't mean they're necessarily that intelligent or good-natured in anyway. When you have your own principles in life you aren't only concerned with being on "someone's level." You just sound like an elitist. So what do you think of people below your level then? The world only works when you have many different types of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:11 PM
2

I mean the ultimate forms of the power couple seem to always fail. Whether it's jeff bezos and his ex wife or the outbursts of will smith. These people don't seem to build lasting and healthy relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 10:23 AM
0

Just look how often celebrities get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 09:46 AM
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I can't view the data it's behind some type of paywall or something. It looks like the graphs are shrinking though. I'll just disregard you for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:49 AM
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We should be forming relationships anyway and working with what we got while attempting to replace this system for a better one. Instead we're growing to hate each other. I don't like it but if you want to compete and resent your partner while believing in the lie of a power couple go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:41 AM
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You can't be a homemaker anymore it's too expensive. You have to work regardless and might have to forgo children too. Welcome to late stage neoliberal capitalism lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:36 AM
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Seems like a lot of stress. Your home should be a place of refuge and comfort not arguments over finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:34 AM
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I mean it's declining yes. And even if you get married the chance for divorce is extremely high. There's no point marrying modern women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:31 AM
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If character and morality isn't on the table then no man should be dating anymore. Time to leave women alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:30 AM
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How can you love someone when you're competing with them? You should be working with eachother and covering for eachothers weaknesses. Do you want to abolish the fucking patriarchy or not though? Because you aren't really making an argument to why any man should support you in your career if all it means is that you will lose attraction for him and want to fuck your boss instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:29 AM
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Only men who found their wives before online dating and social media took off. Average men who try to find long term partners after that are forced to be alone instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:21 AM
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So do women want to abolish the patriarchy or not? If women are sexually attracted to more powerful and wealthy men then they should exit out of the rat race and leave the corporate ladder climbing to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:07 AM
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If attraction has no morals then why should we respect women for their mating habits? Shouldn't sexual shame in that case be justified? I'm reminded of that neo-nazi chad who was cleaning up on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:06 AM
1

You two are doing your part to take down the patriarchy for sure. Go off queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:46 AM
1

You make 400k as a waitress? God damn. I knew women got much higher tips than men but that's wild. Talk about privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:45 AM
1

Damn I get to die 20 years earlier than women? Alright I'm gonna check my privilege sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:43 AM
2

Just the women only
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:42 AM
1

Their dating pool only shrinks because their standards increase as they advance in their careers. They could date poorer men or homemaker men if they wanted to like men had to do in the past but for some reason are refusing to. Men don't mind career women what they don't like is the change of mindset and less bargaining power and respect they get out of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:33 AM
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For me it's not so much that she's getting older it's the fact that she's single in her late 20s or early 30s and what that could mean. How many times has she been ran through? How fucked is her mental health? How many children does she have already from different dudes that I will have to pay for? No thank you. Growing old with someone who found you in their youth is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 03:22 AM
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Not sure where you got that idea. All I'm saying is that it's not really worth it for most men to pursue casual sex with multiple different women because it's not a lifestyle that is attainable for the vast majority of us even if we wanted it. For me I'd prefer a relationship either way but it seems modern women want to stay single rather than settle for the average guy. They'll only marry you or take you seriously if you're extraordinary.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:25 PM
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Only like 3% of the male population has access to easy sex like that so it would be for a relationship. That's the only way the vast majority of us are getting any realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 05:01 AM
5

This persons idea of self-actualization is going full off the grid monk mode in the middle of the woods somewhere I guess as if we don't need the support of others to help with our needs in anyway which is just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:36 AM
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Such a BS take. Other people absolutely do have an impact on your life whether you want them to or not we have to form relationships with others if we want to get anywhere in life. Even if that's just to advance in your career only.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:29 AM
1

It's a lot easier to satisfy men's looks threshold than it is to become a high earner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:17 AM
2

Apparently that's empowerment though. 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:23 AM
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Marriage rates are declining though and a lot of women are choosing to just be single and getting their sexual needs met with a toy or fuck buddy they found on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 05:44 AM
1

Didn't most pre-industrial men die through war and disease before the age of 40? And a lot of those women reproducing likely pubescent children who couldn't consent no?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:51 PM
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The new dating market seems to be men being depressed and celibate until their mid 30s while women are having their hot girl summers every year. How long can the relationship guy wait around truly? Probably will go mgtow before long.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:34 PM
9

Lasting relationships speaks more to maturity rather than astronomical body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:11 PM
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Or extremely lucky even then your relationship might only last a few months to a year if you're lucky. You can be easily replaced by a better guy from a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:08 AM
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Women don't date average guys anymore. Dating apps increased the supply of high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:35 AM
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Seems to be the case nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 07:34 AM
0

Right but "looks are important" shouldn't mean only dating supermodels.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:55 AM
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When women stop valuing men purely off of looks or status. Probably won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:12 AM
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If often enough probably. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:06 AM
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Sounds like your mind is in the gutter then. Why are you pondering about casual sex? Just dump him and try it if you want so bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:02 AM
2

So you're cheating on him? Dating apps weren't around like that in 2008. You said you're having casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:54 AM
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You girls are all gonna have a mental breakdown in unison when you realize you can't all share the top 3% of men if you want to get married someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:49 AM
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The average guy doesn't want to screw up his odds because he's on a tighter leash. Tinder superstars get away with a lot more shit. If you're gonna be a hoe at least be a consistent one. No more of this different rules for Chad stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:42 AM
2

Regular guy has to work for it chad gets it for free huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:29 AM
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Please do try and stop blaming women for your own choices and the state of the world I mean women seem to be responsible for the decline of marriage and relationships so why wouldn't I blame them for that? I'm trying not to hold a grudge against them but it's obvious that women have much higher standards than men do when it comes to relationships and stuff. Now that they can look after themselves they won’t willingly lose that independence unless it’s worth it. And as a woman that decided to giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:56 AM
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I'm already off the apps. I just refuse to go to clubs or bars either. I'll just stay single. It doesn't even seem worth it anyway as most relationships are just temporary now. No one wants to be in a long term relationship or get married. Ideally I'd find someone and stay out of the dating market but it seems most relationships have a shelf life of about one year at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:40 AM
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Dating apps mostly but I think we live in a culture now where women have to make the first move in general. They just haven't realized it yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:23 AM
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Are you hitting on them? No I'm not trying to harass anyone. women don’t “need” to do anything at all, mate. Right that's the problem. I'm not going to hit on women who don't make it very obvious to me that they're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:16 AM
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Women are the ones with the options so they are the ones who need to lower their standards. If you have no options to begin with how are you going to lower your standards? It's not like I'm out here fending off all of these fatties and single moms who are clawing at the prospect of being my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 10:08 AM
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I think women are probably better at hiding it than men. Maybe historically men cheated more but it's hard to argue that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:52 AM
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Non-mongamous people don't know what non-monogamy is I guess. I'd rather be loyal to a single person. Not like men have many choices anyway. I guess the power is in women's hands to cheat these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:40 AM
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Why are men who are antisocial necessarily unpleasant or have bad personalities? Just because I don't want to have a conversation with every person in town doesn't mean I'm a bad person. Maybe I'm just avoiding shitty people too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:02 AM
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Right apps would be an amazing thing if women would just lower their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:53 AM
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Why are men the only ones expected to have social skills? Women can clean up just fine without them. Women should approach men more if not more than we approach. We're bigger and scarier so it only makes sense for women to be the only ones approaching men in safe environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:44 AM
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How much should a fit, over 6ft tall guy lower his standards? I'm not really attracted to fat single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:42 AM
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don’t go out, shun hobbies, and hang out here all day. Do you honestly believe most young attractive women are hanging out at bars and clubs all day? I don't think so. They're probably even more likely than men to be sitting at home all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:39 AM
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More and more men are choosing option 4 and I applaud them for it. No reason to settle for someone who has an unrealistic and exaggerated opinion of herself. I can be happy alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 04:38 AM
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Any women specifically who aren't young instathots though? Those are all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:44 AM
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He only invites Miami instathots onto his show I thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 10:37 PM
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I don't support either of the neoliberal parties so I could care less really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:22 AM
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Lol well I'm not a democrat and about as far left as one can get so you're talking to the wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:20 AM
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I mean millions have been raised out of abject poverty and they are developing faster than the U.S. currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:12 AM
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I mean do you get along with every person who supports capitalism?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:21 AM
1

Ok sinophobe do you have an actual argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:19 AM
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I mean I still support all of those types of progressive things but there are of course extremists in every mass movement who aren't very educated on the things they purport to believe in. like those types of gender abolitionists who believe men and women have no physical difference and lia thomas should be able to compete against biological women. Or the extreme feminists who don't understand how the wage gap works and thinks every man they encounter is a potential rapist. However I still suppo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:13 AM
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I mean these types of people are just liberals more than likely why not just call them that? Less confusion and you'll get people like me on your side agreeing with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:46 AM
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Right that's a legit problem and makes me feel like shit. That's why I don't normally make friends with feminist types.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:41 AM
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Right but these people are just radlibs not necessarily socialists or communists that's different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:40 AM
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I mean I never explicitly made the argument that communism will come to the forefront necessarily. There's still too many hurdles to overcome and cold war era propaganda infesting the minds of millions of people like yourself who likely haven't done the research just believe CIA propaganda willingly. Of course socialism is never left to "fail" on it's own. There's always coup attempts and sanctions against it. You can't just destabilize regions with your military and then say their systems of go…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:36 AM
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Like what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:17 AM
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https://www.worldbank.org/en/news/press-release/2022/04/01/lifting-800-million-people-out-of-poverty-new-report-looks-at-lessons-from-china-s-experience https://preview.redd.it/zt311lqe7rm91.jpgwidth=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=aad9c8d57fc1d8e182b2f9373d917be977c0c99b China is building for the future. Their economy is a lot more resilient than the U.S. but of course there are still global market downturns that's normal. Especially considering most of the world is operating under capitalism still…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:04 AM
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Right capitalism is great for building wealth but not so great at distributing it fairly at all. And we still have a global capitalist system involving global markets and trade so you can't get rid of it entirely but they're transitioning and have a plan for the future unlike the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:00 AM
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They're doing A LOT better than us and are set to be the #1 economy in the world soon. The U.S is declining. Our infrastructure is decaying theirs is expanding and innovating. How many high-speed rail lines do we have?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:41 AM
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I mean it's working pretty well in china right now and cuba is doing decent considering the embargo and small population. Vietnam is still kicking it too. Of course the system would work better if the majority of the world wasn't hostile to it's development. The human nature argument is pretty stupid though I doubt you've done any real amount of research on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:31 AM
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I mean it's the only system that "works" as far as increasing the standard of living for the most people possible and not decimating the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:27 AM
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I doubt anyone who claims to be center truly is they're always partial to something. Listening to what people have to say doesn't mean you'll automatically be placed in the center. My conclusions about certain things has pushed me to the far left because that's where the truth lies. Having a marxist analysis about life opens everything up and you'll start to understand why we're all in this predicament.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:19 AM
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Nah if you're smart you'll recognize the kernels of truth in any mass movement while throwing out the bad stuff and try to come to the most correct conclusions. Staying hard center is just putting plugs in your ears and pretending like you don't hear anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:15 AM
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Grannies didn't have the endless options that women have today so are more likely to get trapped in marriage that don't make them happy. There aren't many excuses for modern women today. They have all the tools to find their dream man and commit to them. They just need to prioritize the things that are most important to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:11 AM
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If you're smart you'll eventually be shifted towards the left regardless recognizing that leftist spaces are often ambivalent towards you. I still think misandry is something the left needs to address and correct though if they want to make any real strides in the future. The revolution needs men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:00 AM
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THE BIRDS ARE CIA DRONES SPYING ON US TO TURN US INTO GAY COMMIES!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:52 AM
1

Woah! that's quirky!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:43 AM
1

Crazy bird ladies? They're evolving!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:37 AM
1

Here kitty kitty kitty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:34 AM
1

Do you plan to live past the age of 30? Your parents won't always be there nor can they take care of all of your emotional needs. Friends will likely have their own partners and children to take care of on top of their jobs and other needs so won't always have time for you. Unless all the single women are going to form feminist cults in the woods in the 2040s. I can see it happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:27 AM
1

Taking a break to focus on developing yourself isn't a bad thing but why is the goal to be alone for your entire life? Being a single mother is the ideal life for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:18 AM
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Being alone has broken down a lot of barriers and problematic beliefs I help in the past in turn opening up my dating pool. I think women need to choose to be alone for longer and come to this same conclusion. Rather than fixating on a checklist for the types of men they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 AM
1

I don't believe women are only attracted to the top 5-10% of men. Perhaps they don't know what they're actually looking for in a partner so they just choose the most conventionally attractive options? Or maybe social media and netfilx dramas warp their views of what an average guy looks like? Hard to say. I know that for myself at least the older I get the more types of women I find attractive. You probably need self-development and growth to figure out who you are and what you want in a partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:06 AM
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There's no point in settling down with you boys. You wouldn't do it if you were us either. Men have lower standards and don't require their partners to make more money than them or be super tall and perfectly fit. The fact that many women have all of these options and still can't make a choice says more about them than it does the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:38 AM
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Birth control and condoms. I mean have fun! But for me personally I wouldn't want to be with a woman who was hopping on a smorgasbord of dicks all throughout her 20s and 30s while I was suffering alone. I want to be with someone who stuck with me through thick and thin. Communism doesn't equal financial prosperity Alright so adapt. Can't say I have any sympathy for your situation however. Someone loving me isn't sexually attractive to me. Or to you, for that matter. Sure, we all want a partner t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:30 AM
2

So you put kids off till when? Till you're 30? Median salary at 30 is $48k. Then you can get a trash mortgage with someone. You can keep working and spend half your paycheck on housing and childcare, or...stay home and live paycheck to paycheck? That's not anyone's dream. Probably put off children entirely tbh but it's still better than being alone and getting pump and dumped by chads leaving you a single mother. I care about the men in my life. I just don't see the point of being a "wife." So b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:22 AM
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There's nothing stopping women from adapting and putting off children, a home, etc though. Sure it isn't ideal but if women cared about men beyond their ability to provide they could still make a relationship work somehow. It's still cheaper to split rent with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:05 AM
1

I just want some pussy whenever I want wherever I want any time I want it It used to be that relationships were the most reliable way for men to get pussy but now that the sexual revolution has taken place it seems the only way is to take red pill advice and become as high value as possible. For me at least the pussy isn't worth all of that effort but have fun out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:28 AM
4

Why are you bringing up inflation?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:51 AM
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what does women entering into the work force have to do with capitalism. do women not women in socialist countries? I already answered this question. Women entering the workforce lowered wages for everyone and reduced men's ability to provide which is still expected of men. I suppose in a different economic model childcare services would be cheaper and maybe even free at point of use.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:48 AM
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I mean you can trace many of these companies back through their family lineage if you follow the money again, what does have to do with capitalism? are you saying that if these men lived in cuba they'd be just fine? i dont get it I'm saying as women entered the workforce in droves it lowered wages across the board which made two income households mandatory. It's nearly impossible to have a healthy family structure now because people are just too busy grinding 60+ hour weeks with no time for thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:28 AM
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wow you named 1 company, you really got me there chief. you can google these companies and the date of their founding chief. Tech giants are only one sector in the economy but even then you can trace them back pretty far if you go down the rabbit hole. what does capitalism have to do with millions of men falling through the cracks in society? can these men not get jobs or something? Do you not know how to use your brain or something? The problem is that men aren't building wealth like they used …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:17 AM
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the companies who are successful today are not the same ones successful 100 years ago Lol are you kidding me? Coca Cola hello? also i dont see what that has to do with dating You don't see how millions of men falling through the cracks of society and living in squalor effects dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:08 AM
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In a capitalist system there are winners and losers. As you said women are winning and they refuse to date men below them economically and socially. The gender roles expected of men is for us to lead and be providers so feminists are taking that away from us while still expecting us to fulfill our masculine roles in society. Why would any man support that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:37 AM
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Most of the red pill are conservative tradcons some are just players or wannabe fuckboys. My view is that there is no saving the decline of humanity. We are in the later stages of capitalism, family and social breakdown are the byproduct of that. at least the femnists are doing what they think is right And what is that exactly? Praising Queen Elizabeth II? Fapping each other off? Feminists are only worsening gender relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:32 AM
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I suppose they recognize marriage as an institution is dying and not worth it for men as it's currently setup? Maybe they're just trying to enjoy the decline of civilization by being as high value as possible so they can take advantage of hookup culture? It's not like women want to get married either. Red pill recognizes that modern women simply want to sleep with the most attractive men while they're young and retire with boxed wine and cats when their sexual marketplace value declines. I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:18 AM
12

In my experience asian women are the most hypergamous. I've pretty much dropped them out of my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 10:49 PM
2

You are a victim to your circumstances there's only so much you can change about your life. Whether you like it or not everyone else around you play a bigger part in molding your life. It sounds nicer to believe you can change your entire life by simply making slightly different personal choices but it isn't true generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:36 PM
1

The world is getting shittier stop putting the blame on individual people use your brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:34 PM
1

Seems to be the case. I'd like to live in a world where people love each other though. I think there needs to be an entire economic and social zeitgeist switch for us to get there honestly. Marxism will save us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:28 PM
1

I feel like talking about relationships and the issues involving them is a lot more healthy than letting tensions boil over and cause problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:08 PM
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I only get along with marxist feminists who aren't rabid man haters. Liberal feminists are a cancer and need to be eradicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 05:07 PM
9

The guys they fuck are capable of spinning plates but the average guy definitely isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:16 AM
1

I guess if I am disabled that would make you an ableist and who's the bad person then?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:11 PM
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What is there to understand? What are we missing exactly? Women on this sub act like family and social cohesion isn't important I don't get it. There's no real motivator for us to perform without it. We can just get any simple job and live alone in a one bedroom apartment with only the basics and no furniture.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:09 PM
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That's a lot of rubbish imo. The reason younger men might be more sexless is because of a stronger step toward female freedom And women's freedom just leads to them only sleeping with the hottest most wealthiest men and leaving all the prime working aged men alone breaking their backs trying to keep a failing hegemony above the waters and for what exactly? We don't have a wife or kids to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:28 PM
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So if you weren't concerned with getting a boyfriend then why should I take you seriously now? Who's to say you won't get bored of me like you did those other guys and want to spice things up? Saying that if you had casual sex you can’t be loyal or in a LTR is like saying you can’t eat healthily because when you were 20 you used to buy fast food 5 times a week. Doesn’t make any sense at all. How doesn't it make sense? It's hard to break habits and it's likely the person who eats that much fast f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:26 PM
1

It's hard to empathize with the privileged. Women have the choice to choose the men they want men don't really get a choice in the matter we have to just pick someone out of the few options we get. It's up to you to choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:21 PM
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Most of the sexless men are young and often more progressive men not older tradcon men. The progressive feminist woman is likely some kind of sex worker or conservative landlords sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:17 PM
5

Acknowledging that both sides have it tough doesn't equalize the dating market though. Changing behaviors does. There's only one side here who needs to lower their standards if they want to get married. Your guess is as good as mine...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:06 PM
2

It's not huge because women didn't have to be "woken up" to believe those things they already did. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:01 PM
1

How dare you I'm a sagittarius
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:34 AM
1

I don't care about virginity I care about her ability to pair bond and be loyal to me. Naturally if you're good at relationships you probably won't have an unreasonable body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:19 AM
-2

I mean does it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:17 AM
1

You're not appealing to an extreme when you compare human mating strategy to that of the animal kingdom? You ran up this hill you can die on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:49 PM
1

Don't make an appeal to the animal kingdom or survival of the fittest type language then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:46 PM
1

If we want to go full animal kingdom things can get a lot worse for women I don't think you want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:08 PM
0

Sounds like someone should have gotten a divorce a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:33 AM
1

Why won't they help?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:06 AM
1

Aren't men still overwhelmingly the one's doing most of the more physical jobs though? I mean every job is difficult in it's own way I suppose. I think it's just important to have nuance. Like if your husband comes home late exhausted from working overtime it would be kind of unreasonable to expect him to do the dishes that night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:09 AM
-1

And if your husband or boyfriend is lazy you can easily replace them on tinder in a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:03 AM
0

Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:31 AM
1

40 something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:16 AM
1

Wage gap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:15 AM
1

I feel like it would be important to know who in the family has jobs and which don't then. Boomer men do seem more lazy and entitled overall though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:15 AM
1

Yes we do. That's why there's a wage gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:13 AM
2

Did the women in your family have full time jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:52 AM
1

All I'm saying is that there could be a lot of miscellaneous activities that aren't included in the statistics. I'm just curious what they study for and what they're expecting us to take from it. I'm not sure why your panties are all in a bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:52 AM
-1

I mean there's plenty of nuance you're purposely ignoring time and time again. Also none of the data seems to indicate men don't do ANY household chores just less. But that doesn't necessarily mean putting in less effort in the relationship overall. Again men work longer hours at their jobs on average. You don't get to define that away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:25 AM
-4

There's also home and car repair as well as other miscellaneous things that men do that goes unappreciated. I'd argue men work more than women on average especially if children aren't included.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:08 AM
1

And if you're smart you wouldn't bring a child into this world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:05 AM
0

And men work longer hours on average more than making up for the disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:04 AM
0

And people act like it's particularly difficult to put dishes in the dishwasher or let a machine wash your clothes for you. Also men still do those things just less frequently. But men work more physically demanding jobs and often longer hours too they deserve a break every now and then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:00 AM
3

Most people do but it just isn't realistic anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:54 AM
0

I'd be interested in hearing how they define housework. Who takes out the trash, mows the lawn, or cleans the garage? Also is cooking included?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:36 AM
5

They need to create a dating app for childfree people so us poorer guys have a better chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:35 AM
2

I'm ready 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:49 AM
1

Women are still disproportionately the victims of sexual violence and intimate partner violence. That's true and we should do our best to address the problem but it's still true that men are the primary victims of both suicide and physical violence overall even if it's at the hands of other men. There are still things we can do to reduce male violence other than simply shaming men individually though. We need to address the mental health struggles of men and other root problems. And yes both men…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:01 AM
1

I just don't really see how feminism is needed right now besides maybe attempting to codify roe v wade further in as many states as possible. But besides that one issue what else? There's a host of issues men go through which doesn't get any media attention at all. Also, the term incel is in reference to the incel community. A guy who can’t get laid is not an incel, because they aren’t acting entitled about it. Right but the way that word gets used to to describe virgin men or any man who compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:47 AM
1

What gets blamed is the incel community, Right and the incel "community" gets treated as a monolith even though there are plenty of loner or virgin men who aren't involved with them and plenty who don't outright hate women either. They'll still get grouped in with the extremists however. I’m not having sex with rich white dudes (also the white is kind of pointless here). We see the dating app statistics and how choosy the vast majority of modern women are. Maybe you aren't only associating with …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:05 AM
1

Because it’s been women who have been discriminated against and have had little to no power. The issue is that of class not gender. Majority of men don't work in fucking government. The poor guy fixing your toilet or picking up your trash isn't privileged. Maybe if he's white he'll have less issues running into the police but that's more of a racial issue not a gender one. Although black men are the primary victims. The joke is you assuming I'm some socially and economically conservative guy. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:54 AM
2

And those women are a fraction of a fraction of a percent of all women Yet all men are responsible when an incel shoots up a school. Women have to accept responsibility for their part in toxic masculinity the time is now. Again you're not going to end the patriarchy while you're fucking wealthy rich white dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:47 AM
1

"the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes." Men aren't included. It's a female advocacy group and if you enter any feminist space trying to talk about male struggles you will get banned or shamed. I don't see how being more selective has anything to do with equality if anything it's the opposite. More and more men are single every year. Why would we support a movement which is partially responsible for sabotaging our ability to have our own families?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:44 AM
1

Charles manson in his final years had a 26 year old wife and prominent serial killers are known to get love letters from women while in prison all the time. https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/ted-bundy-charles-manson-women-14188211
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:41 AM
1

Women are attracted to toxic masculinity. What the redpill does is recognize that and use it to their full advantage. If women stopped having sex with the patriarchy maybe it would end. I'm anti-feminist though because I don't support supremacists. I'm an egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:37 AM
-1

Relax don't get your tentacles in a twist.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:39 AM
1

Since when did being 20 make you a child? Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 02:29 AM
2

The girls like your flowing locks. ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:17 AM
-2

And then you complain how all of your boyfriends are assholes. Because you only date pushy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:14 AM
1

Men's life expectancy is a whole 5 years less Than women on average. There's a lot of pressure and expectations that come with being a man obviously. I don't want men hurting themselves or others that's why I want to address male issues and stop this stuff from happening. But it will never happen as long as all the resources and care go to women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:51 PM
1

All of the mods on menslib are feminists who remove uncomfortable truths and attempt to control the whole narrative to play nicely with their supremacist movement. Leftwingmaleadvocates is a better community.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:23 AM
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The reason it's brought up is due to the fact that women often get away with serious crimes with only a slap on the wrist or receive overall less time in jail for the same crimes as men. The reason that subreddit feels like like backlash is because in some cases it is. There's a lot of feminist beliefs and propaganda that gets pushed uncritically while men and their struggles are belittled constantly by people like you who seem more interested in their supremacist movement rather than true equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 08:09 AM
1

There's hateful people in every subreddit. If it's not a common theme it doesn't deserve to be banned. Obviously misogyny isn't what that subreddit is about just read it. Don't give in to hearsay.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:41 AM
1

Yeah where did you hear that from? If it's such a misogynistic place why hasn't it been banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 07:07 AM
1

I mean if you think male suicide is funny and you want to spread lies about it so you can try to justify not caring go ahead. But people shouldn't take you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:42 AM
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There's a good thread on this myth on the mensrights subreddit with sources not difficult to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:39 AM
3

Nah that's just selective feminist propaganda. Men's lives are just worse that's why we kill ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 06:30 AM
3

I call BS on that suicide statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:34 AM
10

She's more beautiful without the makeup imo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/22 06:27 PM
5

Now take her experience and extrapolate it to most of the female population and everything starts to make sense. The "meh" options of today used to be pretty goods catches in the past they just can't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:24 PM
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sTrOnG aNd InDePEndent
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/22 03:05 AM
1

The black pill is reality there's no escaping it. Don't listen to these people.
/r/seduction17/08/22 01:37 AM
10

Socialize the means of reproduction! We have nothing to lose but our virginities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:08 PM
5

But traditional relationships don't work anymore and the types of guys who are more likely to cold approach you probably don't care about boundaries. How do you make yourself approachable so I know for sure I'm not going to bother you or creep you out if I say something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:15 PM
2

When I think of left wing I don't typically think of capitalism though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 11:17 AM
0

Might as well be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 08:57 AM
-1

Social democracy is neoliberalism though. Social democracy is just having a better safety net. While that's preferable to the American model it doesn't account for the fact that social democracies are still capable of exploiting the third world and domestic workers as well. I strongly advise you to look into left-libertarianism/communism further.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 06:08 AM
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I think capitalism is fueling the growth of men falling through the cracks of society. And honestly there seems to be very little empathy or understanding from leftist spaces. Theres an obvious masculinity crisis going on that isn't taken very seriously. That's why I'm on this sub and not menslib. I'm not a feminist and I don't believe we solve mens issues by catering to feminist causes. Menslib just feels like womansplaining our issues away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 05:56 AM
7

Why don't you ask him out instead if you like him and notice him struggling? Maybe he isn't confident around women irl due to not getting many matches on apps and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:46 AM
6

Ma'am this is a Wendy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:41 AM
4

There does seem to be a growing trend of bisexual women though. I'm not sure if that's due to it being more acceptable now or if it's just more women forgoing relationships with men for one reason or another. There seems to be a mgtow and wgtow movement going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:39 AM
2

Because there's not a lot of posts connecting the failures of capitalism to the gender war going on when to me at least that's a huge factor in all of this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 05:33 AM
1

I wish you guys would become actual left-libertarians though and not ancaps please.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/22 05:51 PM
1

What's stopping you from building a diverse social network? The same forces stopping many other men and even women from doing it? It's a generational shift why do the women here always try to stir the direction in a more personal direction rather than focusing on the data and changing social dynamics going on in the dating market? This is a debate sub not a "Give me dating advice" sub. But If you really want to know, no I'm not the most social guy in the world but exactly how much of that is my …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:58 PM
1

Women get invited to social events a lot more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:21 PM
2

How are you qualified to be giving anyone any advice? Who are you? No I don't want to go and sit alone at a bar to meet women. Did I even say that I was trying to date in the first place? I've dated in the past with varying degrees of success and decided it wasn't an enjoyable experience for me so I opted out. So what are you aiming to accomplish by trying to be a tough guy on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:08 PM
1

Yeah I'm not going to fall over backwards for some girl at a bar I'll wait for the girls to come to me if that doesn't happen I have other things in my life to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:46 PM
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I don't really want to compete with hundreds of men for your attention. All that lets me know is that you would probably be swiping on your phone again at the first sight of trouble in the relationship and wouldn't make an honest attempt to make it work.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:56 PM
8

Lol malls are dead in most of the country people shop online now mostly. It makes sense for couples to be at restaurants and the movies. Likely those are people on a date too. I don't see how going to a place where you are likely to see people on a date proves anything about statistics or the fact that less people are dating now. All it seems is that you want to make things personal and live in your just world fallacy bubble. I don't see many people going to restaurants or the movies alone. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:38 AM
1

I'm not asking for your help don't tell me what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:13 AM
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Ok you're right. People who started dating before the advent of social media and online dating have likely paired up with someone. I'm mostly speaking about younger people who aren't dating not married boomer couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:36 AM
2

jesus christ dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:32 AM
13

They're all sharing the same guys they found on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:10 AM
1

I moved a lot growing up so I don't have a reliable social group to go bar hopping with check your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:53 AM
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I see old boomer couples and older men with much younger women. I work at lowe's so. I don't see young happy looking couples AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:51 AM
1

I don't live in the city check your privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:21 AM
5

Maybe that's because you're some type of socialite or something most men aren't. We go to work and if we do leave the house it's to go to the gym or grocery shopping or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:14 AM
9

And do what exactly? I'm not going to go to a bar and sit alone to drink my sorrows away or something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:09 AM
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I mean most of my co-workers since the past few years are ALL single men and the sexlessness stats and everything else seems to indicate that less relationships are happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:09 AM
15

Maybe couples are just more likely to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:08 AM
14

Look around where? Where are you going where you see couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:05 AM
1

When I say "I' I'm not specifically making this about me I'm speaking about the hypothetical guy you're aiming for but it doesn't matter anymore. You're the one making personal by speaking about your personal relationships since you're terrible at choosing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:38 AM
1

Why is having a stable job not enough why do I have to be aiming to always improve when I'm happy in my current position? Again, I didn’t say anything about expecting men to be providers. Then why the fuck do I need to aim for a higher position at my workplace?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 10:22 AM
1

How can women treat men better? The expectations placed on men are ridiculous. Maybe not from you in particular but as a whole (Although I think in your subconscious you aren't any different). So yeah I don't blame men who have had nothing but terrible experiences with women for checking out of dating and relationships. and I think it’s based on pathological obsession and extreme insecurity. Why do you believe women play no part in this behavior from men? Men are socialized to seek validation fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:47 AM
1

Go from an intern to business analyst to a senior business analyst or something; I don’t care. If you want to stay an intern for the rest of your life, you do you but personal and professional growth is important to me. So move to silicon valley then? Most men either work in the trades or service industry like the women do. I'm not a capitalist so I don't really have the passion to be the next Mark Zuckerberg or anything like that. Yeah, long term, I want to continue working at Burger King and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:37 AM
1

Most therapists are women who aren't very privy on male issues nor do they care. It's up to women to heal the resentment once they start to treat men as a whole better but unfortunately we live in a man-hating gynocentric society that only shames men rather than actually caring about helping them. I'm sure telling men they're incel school shooters in the making will definitely help! Though for me personally I don't really give a fuck what you think about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:24 AM
1

I'd rather be with someone who wants to build a life with me rather than fucking chads in her twenties waiting for me to "create economic status" so I will be worthy of her used up meat curtains and 4 children from different men. No thank you. If you think I'm a loser and don't respect my hard work all the better then. You can leave me the fuck alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:10 AM
1

Actually I'm getting pretty sick of women and their boring personalities so much so that I'm losing sexual attraction. I'm not attracted to women the same way as I used to be. Being valued for your sexuality is a lot more human than being valued for your economic value. I'm tired of being treated like a utility no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:02 AM
1

means having a job that has some sort of upwards momentum This is your mask slipping right here all the other shit you wrote doesn't matter this is what you want. but I’m not going to date the 28 year old who wants to work at Burger King and live in his parents basement for the rest of his life Why are you blaming the men and not the economy or housing market? I don't understand. It's fucking expensive to live on your own and I'm tired of the classist "lives in his parents basement" bullshit. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:01 AM
1

It's a lot more fun relating to men though. I don't care about kim kardashian and netflix dramas sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:40 AM
0

Women don't need to be "put together" or have "ambition" to be successful with dating there lies the difference. All that translates to is that you want a rich man and there's your "impossible standards" that the men here are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 04:34 AM
3

On apps that's all women are looking for. They get hundreds of matches and pick the most attractive ones only and don't read profiles when swiping maybe after matching if they're attracted enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:14 PM
9

LOL you actually believe this hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:28 AM
1

Women's swiping behaviors will have to change and the gender distribution will need to be equalized somehow too. Okcupid when it was less tinder-like was still a pretty awful experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:27 AM
7

At least you can change your weight. What about all the balding, short, small dick men? Pretty acceptable to shit on lower value men. Weight is also easier to control for than being able to provide which men are also expected to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:21 AM
4

They're obviously homophobic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:49 AM
3

I understand I'm not invited to the harem yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:57 PM
0

You betcha carol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:40 PM
8

I dunno there's a point where I think shame starts to become justified in a way. I start to have serious pause if their body count gets into the double digits that tells me they probably aren't that interested in long-term relationships or just aren't very good at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:11 AM
9

I feel like girls are a lot more on the down low about it probably. You think women are going to admit to fucking tons of dudes from dating apps in any study?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 11:09 AM
6

Idk the girl I was replying to said those were rookie numbers for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:14 AM
6

I just don't understand how you fuck that many people in such a short amount of time. You would have to be purposely avoiding Long term relationships or something. And I thought men were supposed to be the ones who cared more about sex... christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 08:11 AM
2

In what aspect? Do you like squid demon monstrosities? 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 AM
2

Pretty much but it depends on what you're selecting for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:49 AM
6

Just stop being a hoe it's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:47 AM
1

This is a dating discussion/debate sub glad I could help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:46 AM
5

Fucking over a hundred dudes is disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:36 AM
3

Maybe if women would start paying for dates and doing romantic gestures for men then we would appreciate you more. It seems men have to do all the courting so it should be us being appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:11 AM
5

If those are rookie numbers then I think I'm just gonna stay single for the foreseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:04 AM
1

It's pretty easy for a girl to get there though so gotta be careful. I don't want aids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:14 AM
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Kinda have to ask these days. I feel like it's a lot easier to get in the triple digits with all the apps and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 02:50 AM
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Idk but he'll definitely get made fun of by the other kids for it. If he ends up being trans or whatever he can always change his name to Sabrina then... why force weird gender politics on your kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:41 PM
2

But if we text less you think we aren't interested...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:09 PM
1

Why don't you... stop swiping and talk to the ten guys you already matched with? I don't get it..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:06 PM
6

Maybe in my early twenties not so much now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 02:51 AM
2

With Chad only and if they fail they settle for being pumped and dumped. They won't lower their standards for love. They aren't actually looking for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:06 PM
2

Sounds like a person who would benefit a lot more developing their self-esteem and body positivity rather than concern trolling for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:37 PM
8

Being indifferent towards women hasn't done anything for me and how exactly are men not "treating women as people?" Where is your evidence for such claims?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:17 AM
17

I think you're just talking nonsense out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:14 AM
17

Mens and boys lives matter less.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 01:37 AM
3

I don't think all women are having casual sex all the time but I do think most of them have at least dabbled in it and perhaps decided it isn't for them. That still leaves a lot of pussy leftover for chad however. Easy access to casual sex is probably a pretty good deal for someone who is too busy for a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 02:33 PM
1

Honestly a lot of the men here who claim to be leftwing are tweaked up democrats at best. I'm not sure how many actual Marxist-Leninist adjacent male advocates are here but it would be interesting to know if they were here or not.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/07/22 04:51 AM
9

As if these types of women aren't bringing extra baggage and children from another man on top of that. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:59 AM
1

Choosing for leadership qualities and good career is hypergamy yes...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:56 AM
9

Damn hypergamy working well for you. Have fun being dommed! 🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:06 AM
4

Looking for a bad boy or something? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:59 AM
5

Why do we need to define it? How often do we ask women how they define femininity? There isn't a definition they just live their lives how they want to. Just as we should do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/22 08:12 AM
1

I guess I have good news though middle aged chads ( the ones I know) are way picker than the college aged ones you know. Middle aged? Yeah I guess it works out great for the young trophy wives looking for a sugar daddy husband until he ages out of her range eventually and she's trapped being single at 40 in a much harsher dating environment than her 20s. I guess she should have simply chosen the option to grow with a guy more her age, class, and attractiveness level so she doesn't have to spend …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:59 AM
1

Dude look, I know Chads personally. They don’t fuck ugly women, they don’t have to. I'm not talking about the giga chad at your university here I'm strictly speaking on chad lol. If a chad isn't too concerned with getting a relationship at the moment he can get quicker access to more convenient sex from easier women. The ones who are more likely to be on the apps if we're being honest right? I've heard various stories of these types of men (the ones succeeding with online dating) who basically h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:18 AM
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Guess who’s not going to be part of a soft harem? Ugly women Actually ugly women are more likely to be apart of a soft harem because more attractive men on apps will just use them for easy sex and then the ugly girl will get an inflated ego since she fucked some chad. The person with 100s of thousands of matches is supposed to lower her chances but the incel with 1 match a month isn’t? Seems backwards to me, especially since if I personally got 100s of thousands of matches, I wouldn’t choose the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:48 AM
0

lol sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:22 AM
2

I'm not sure but it seems a much smaller percentage of men compared to women are considered attractive by the opposite sex. I'm not sure why that is. I guess we're just made that way. If you're only attracted to 1% of men or whatever that's fine but you're probably apart of a soft harem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:48 PM
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how can you tell if ur not attracted to them? By talking to them? and what makes someone who’s not attractive suddenly more attractive? No one I'm not initially at least somewhat attracted to can become attractive otherwise but someone I'm on the fence about can become more attractive through their personality and how we seem to vibe together. Man I was brought up to believe men were supposed to be the superficial ones but social media and dating apps seem to have reversed that trend if it were …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:38 PM
2

I wouldn't say that I would date someone I'm not attracted to but I'm not sitting here with hundreds or thousands of matches and only choosing the best ones. And also I don't only focus on photos when considering whether or not I'm attracted to someone. People can be attractive in many different ways...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:24 PM
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Seems like you need to lower your standards or figure out what you're looking for exactly if 99.99% of the options suck. I can assure you men don't think 99.99% of women suck at all. Why do nearly all men suck in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:53 PM
2

Seriously you only value looks? Looks fade with age. Do you want to be married to someone for a lifetime? What are you going to be doing with this hypothetical person all day when you aren't having sex? i just want someone that’s fun that treats me romantically I'm tired of romance being a one way street though. Why would I treat someone romantically who doesn't want to do any romantic things with me or get to know me as a person? I guess it doesn't matter anyway since I'm not a top 5% attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:51 PM
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but if i have a thousand options, why wouldn’t i talk to the most attractive and exciting ones? You can do that if you want to but don't be surprised if this guy isn't also getting a bunch of attention from other women and is just spinning plates. Don't you value anything else in a relationship? Or are you not looking for a relationship only casual fun? I'm not judging but don't go crying to anyone about your dating struggles if these are your choices. where did all these options come from anywa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:21 PM
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By knowing what you're looking for and not only choosing for the most attractive or exciting options possible? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:07 PM
5

You have thousands of choices just learn how to vet them properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 10:01 PM
7

Right it's pretty easy for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:45 PM
4

Most of these women don't want us to be better they want us to be perfect...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:46 PM
1

Choosing men with the most choices and the higher likelihood to pump and dump you is choosing better?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:44 PM
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They're sitting at home watching Netflix and tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:19 AM
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If this "sex strike" actually becomes a reality all that will happen is that chad will continue as usual having access to the majority of sexual encounters while average men will become the punching bags getting even less access than before.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:16 AM
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You don't understand the shade? Really? She's asking for a man to pay for her car, house, and to be a provider so she can be a stay at home mom. She's basically saying women shouldn't date any men unless they're willing to give them a couple million dollars minimum and she sits on her ass all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:56 PM
5

They're suckers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:13 AM
8

I ain't providing you shit you wanted equality you got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:06 AM
2

I don't think I've ever heard anyone in my entire life say being called a pussy made them a better man or helped them.
/r/seduction22/06/22 11:09 PM
2

Your advice just boils down "stop being depressed and just be happy bro" but in this case it's "just be confident and approach bro" it's not legitimate advice. You don't think someone has told him to be confident before? lol
/r/seduction22/06/22 10:50 PM
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I feel like letting these people have the left isn't the way to go. We have to push the extremists out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/22 12:49 AM
1

Vast majority of men have the same bad experiences with women. There's a culture of hypergamy and misandry against men thanks to social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:25 AM
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All three
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:33 PM
1

Going to college is statistically likely to be a bad choice for your finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:25 PM
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Anyone who uses the phrase "man up" is a sexist prick and shouldn't be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:24 PM
2

This just shows how priviledged men are. Women in the west are some of the most privileged in all of history. Men are the leading victims of suicide, workplace mortalities, violent crime, and receive harsher sentences for similar crimes to women. i am not interested in dating men and will probably not be in the future. I dont lament any good men, because i have never met one that i am compatible with. Yeah you're a disgruntled situational lesbian who'll get tired of that lifestyle trend fo yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:03 PM
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I do not date men as of now, but i have dated men with a high bc, and i didnt give a shit And you aren't in a relationship with them anymore go figure. You were just another notch on his bedframe do you feel empowered now? i also wouldnt be dating a guy shorter than me (for example), no matter how good of a person they are Unless you're an extremely tall woman you likely won't meet many men who are actually shorter than you. However if you only date men who are 6ft+ you're limiting your options …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:02 AM
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Ok, how do you want to solve the "only some people get action in this dystopian neoliberal dating market we've created for ourselves" problem, without forcing people to lower their standards and without forcing them to have sex with someone they dont want to have sex with? It's not about forcing anyone to do anything. I want people to assess their options and make the smartest decision for their future. And obviously just fucking the hottest guys a dating algorithm feeds you who is also fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:47 AM
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Fucking people just because they're hot isn't having "standards" while they only want to fuck 4"8 blondes with bug blue eyes, botton noses, no makeup, virgins, can cook, never as much as held hands with a guy, soft spoken, clean shaven, not overweight, not flat, no scars or stretch marks or acne etc. Oh my god you're so delusional. How old are you? How is a guy struggling with ghosting or even getting a single match on a dating app going to demand all of this shit? Women and top 20% of men are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:01 AM
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See that's the thing even if women claim to have tried casual sex but "don't like it" they still dabble in it anyway even if only for a short time. Who are the men on the other side of women's hot girl summers? A small minority of attractive men likely at the top of all the dating app algorithms. Basically there are A LOT of west elm calebs out there that women are just sharing. Often catching feelings for them and getting burned in the end. This likely turns them off from dating in general when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:13 AM
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This post isn't going to do you any favors my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:53 PM
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[removed] nice!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 03:01 PM
2

Yeah they're called players and fuckboys...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:52 AM
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It's about respecting the other person. I'm not paying for your meal while you're out fucking other dudes. You aren't owed my kindness about it either. I prefer girls who focus on a single guy at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:40 AM
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No self-respecting decent guy is going to take you out on dates and do all the romantic courtship rituals and shit while you're getting your back blown out in-between dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 10:54 AM
1

Can't find the actual compatible guy if you're fucking around perpetually tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 08:18 AM
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Many women purposely choose abusers hard to sympathize with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:31 PM
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Yes sis 👏 fuckboys are the perfect human Male ideal. What kween doesn't love being a side chick. 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:32 AM
2

But you can't be surprised that the guys you like don't approach when you look like you want to bite their head off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 03:01 AM
2

The reason I don't approach women especially my crush is because they all come across as extremely unapproachable. They have resting bitch face, make zero eye contact, never smile, are busy with their phones, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:38 PM
2

The only way to learn about someones personality before approaching them is to stalk them. Is that what you want men to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 11:31 PM
2

How else would men have a 20% higher sexlessness rate than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:28 PM
7

Single parent households are bad for the child though. It's not only about you. You're bringing another human being into this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 02:52 AM
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But women want to lead and be boss bitches. If they don't have to follow a gender role neither do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:12 AM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:18 PM
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What makes you think looks rank higher on our scale? I don't think women want to date fat and old guys either. Maybe If they absolutely need a sugar relationship. But time and time again women show that their standards are higher than ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 10:41 PM
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OP didn't mention sex once in his post get your mind out of the gutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:20 PM
0

How can you call us crybabies when most women haven't approached a guy to ask him out in their lifetimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:12 PM
1

Women's standards for men will somehow get even stricter even though it's tough out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:47 AM
3

Nothing in particular I'm not the one demanding respect just for my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:59 PM
4

I don't really want to be in a relationship with someone who only offers pussy. There's a lot of pushover guys with low standards who might but I'm not one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:59 PM
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For some reason women are always equating the guys they fuck with ALL men I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:51 PM
3

You have to do something worthy of respect first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 02:49 PM
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Men have more to offer than women have to us though. I've come across so many women who don't have any real hobbies or passions in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:25 PM
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Maybe you ran out of interesting things to talk about after those three hours?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 11:05 PM
1

Well the only women I see are at work. So on those days 2-3 usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 04:01 PM
3

Why would I want to attract someone who would leave me the moment I stop being a literal perfect human being who has flaws and emotions?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:28 AM
5

Where the hell did you hear that from? I haven't heard any of these expectations once around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:35 AM
2

Women don't have to go to the gym or worry about their diet to attract men so why do I have to grind at the gym and at my job to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 12:32 AM
1

So sounds like a win/win for men then. Since you're more attracted to women you can stop wasting the men's time in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:54 AM
1

Your personal anecdotes aren't evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:24 AM
1

The man is there to help you not to be a drain. If someone gets to the point of being more of a drain than a benefit either monetarily or otherwise you can dump them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:23 AM
4

Where do you get this evidence that modern men don't want to pitch in equally with household stuff? Maybe some of the hyper-traditionalist wife beaters of the 50s idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:20 AM
1

Sounds like an argument against equal rights. If women won't even share resources with their own children it's probably best that men control the income side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 03:01 AM
2

You don't have to be a literal perfect human being to want to be in a relationship and grow with someone. Majority of the women you're jumping through hoops for aren't special either. You really think most women are as well-rounded as you're demanding the guys to be? No most are just scrolling through their phones and watching netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:20 PM
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He's probably worried what you'll think if he allows you to pay. Also a lot of who offer to pay are only doing so out of formality but aren't serious about actually paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 12:23 AM
5

women simp for money not love
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 03:15 AM
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If we aren't animals then why did you mention the animal kingdom? I think hypergamy is mostly a cultural phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 01:43 PM
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🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:35 AM
1

Idk live your life qwerl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:31 AM
0

Is the patriarchy an evolutionary trait? 🙈
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:30 AM
2

I was more mocking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 05:27 AM
3

Do we know that hypergamy is an evolutionary trait?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:15 PM
4

200 IQ play. Gud work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 12:52 PM
6

So you've embraced monkey branching then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:41 PM
3

Therapy doesn't actually work at solving any issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:46 PM
1

Who said I haven't tried? Hell who said I haven't made progress? That doesn't automatically mean that I'm going to be sexually successful. I have made friends at work though and enjoying my online friendships more too. And no I don't believe because someone is in a weak position in their life that they're a bad person. Especially if they aren't lashing out or harming anyone in the process. The fact that you want to kick people while they're down and call them bad people because of their hardship…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 07:31 AM
1

So because I have social anxiety I'm a shitty person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:11 AM
1

There is no option of being with a man who doesn't have high looks and high status, but you still like the man. They're called friends or orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 06:55 AM
0

And even if he does not earn in the top 10 percent , he earns enough to maintain a decent standard of living and support his SO. What does this mean exactly? Support his SO? She isn't working also? Supporting an entire family on one income to a comfortable standard requires you to be in the top 10% if not higher as a man. And no the men who are having the most success in the modern dating marketplace aren't any more or less compassionate to the opposite sex than your average basement dweller. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:50 AM
2

That's not what a high value man is or what is generally expected when people describe high value. High value is an economic term. Usually it means higher status and wealth + attractiveness. Dating is a marketplace in the modern day for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 05:42 AM
0

That type of man is likely not at the top of your match queue though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:58 AM
7

Damn is it really that difficult to settle for a man who's below top 10% in looks and status? You'd rather die alone with cats?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:52 AM
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That's still like 58 dollars an hour for a 40hrs a week job. Who's really making that kind of money? Definitely not women who work at starbucks complaining about men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/04/22 02:46 AM
1

Come here cutie give pappa a big smooch 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:15 PM
1

I do things I enjoy because I enjoy them not because I want to be attractive to the opposite gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:43 PM
1

I have hobbies just most don't require me to go to a specific location to enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:48 PM
5

No one cares about your mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:57 AM
11

Why are you coming to the defense of some random douchebag trying to steal a guys girl? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:38 AM
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Seeing how in the modern age 80% of men are disqualified from dating doesn't it seem like all women are out of our league? Since you only swipe on the hottest guys on apps and men can't cold approach anymore or do anything to equal the odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:12 AM
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Women have 10 years to weed through thousands of options to pick a perfect husband and the men simply take what they can get essentially. How is that fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 05:25 AM
4

Just learn to code bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 10:44 PM
0

Why are you angry do you want to hold hands?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 03:42 PM
1

Liberal and left wing politicians will have to do a better job advocating for working class men. Not all blue collar workers vote republican especially non-rural ones. But I don't think either party really cares all too much about working class people to begin with. Also I think you should give a fuck!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:19 PM
1

So you're classist and take for granted the the things blue collar workers maintain so that you have a place to shit to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:00 PM
0

Yeah how many blue collar jobs have you worked if it's so easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 11:06 AM
1

So what is your main reason for checking this subreddit daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:22 AM
2

What do you expect him to do then? Why do you need a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 02:06 AM
1

You don't buy gifts or take your man out on a date every now and then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:58 AM
1

I mean it will never return to the way it was before. Every generation is effectively gayer than the last. At least those who are willing to admit it openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:57 AM
1

What does that mean? I could theoretically live in my car if I wanted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:52 AM
1

And calling a man "bum man" isn't sexist or classist at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:46 AM
0

So why do you need a man on your level financially? You don't even have a lot of expenses. How many lattes do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:26 AM
0

As in doesn't ask you to be a stay at home mom caring for his children or something else. Are you going to quit your job after you have children and be a stay at home mom instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:20 AM
1

But you basically want a traditional man economically speaking who also allows you to make your own money. Somehow you don't understand that having all of these women in the workplace in the modern age lowers their ability to provide due to an abundance of worker drones. Do you only support social issues that benefit women? Why are you not willing to be a breadwinner? Do you want children? Who's going to watch them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:18 AM
2

So you're more like a neoliberal than a conservative. You're both capitalists so what does it matter in the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:12 AM
0

But the people who are most financially independent are likely benefiting from the system already and won't be leftist. Why are you a leftist? You sound more like a bougie liberal. I make my own money and keep finances separate. This is why people don't want to date feminists. They're supremacists and selfish. In the past men had to work and their money wasn't only for themselves. It was for their families and their significant other too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 01:02 AM
1

Answer the more important question I asked you. Why does a left wing woman only date financially well off men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:48 AM
6

Many in that stat are bi or ace too though. Maybe 20% of people have always been lgbtq but it just wasn't socially acceptable then? I do think some should stop forming their entire identity and self-worth on their gender expression though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:47 AM
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Why do you care about financial independence if you're a left winger? Isn't the world falling apart? Shouldn't it be understandable for someone to not be entirely independent in an unstable economy? If you want stable date a conservative blue collar worker. Most white collar workers are straight capitalists anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:41 AM
3

Like financially well off men with higher social status. Also how many requirements do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:36 AM
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Something like 20 percent of gen z people identify somewhere on the lgbtq spectrum though that's not really niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:35 AM
1

Do you only date high value men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:30 AM
1

Browsed your post history for like 2 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 02:52 AM
2

Don't call me bud pal
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:39 PM
3

But you have an illusion of choice. Choose the one who wants to stick around who's good enough. You will die alone chasing perfection. Besides you could mould to each other's sensibilities and desires over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:36 PM
3

Then you are choosing the wrong guys for you. Why is it taking you so long? You have irl dating, social media, and apps all in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:30 PM
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That's because at 32 you should have a long term partner by now and thinking about marriage. You shouldn't be playing the field anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:59 PM
6

There's no future because they don't earn six figures? Is that all you care about in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:57 PM
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