But unfortunately women used these tools to practice their hypergamy and "explore themselves" rather than looking for husbands. Sure the algorithm and pay to play model influences this somewhat but ultimately women ruined it for themselves and should be blamed for it to some degree in my opinion. How does having more choices lead to worse outcomes? It doesn't even make sense when you think about it. Men listened to women and the #MeToo movement and got collectively punished for it. Meanwhile the douchebag approaching women who doesn't care about boundaries gets the girl. So most decent men get locked out of dating in the real world and online too thanks to the choices of women.