| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | This Is Why You Should Never Give An Ugly Man A Chance. It's The Audacity For Me. Hell No!I have one word for you - delusional. oh, men are victims (cries). women have ALWAYS been bashed about their looks. don't like the taste of your own medicine? deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | This Is Why You Should Never Give An Ugly Man A Chance. It's The Audacity For Me. Hell No!this post exposed some entitled mf who abused a woman way out of his league, literally abused her CHILDREN, wanted them to end up homeless even though she paid for an apartment herself, did way more for a relationship than he etc., and the only thing you're worried about is that men have to look a certain way? go whine about it somewhere else. women always had to look a certain way. you are delusional if you can't notice that men have been screaming about all those physical standards and ways th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/22 10:46 AM |
| 23 | An Ode to Living AloneLiving alone is so much better. After living with my huge family and then in a dormitory with 3 girls in university I don't want to go back to that ever again, even if it's going to be just with one roommate. - no one touches my things - no one is making a mess that I have to clean up - no one fucking eats my food - no one interrupts my sleep or naps after a hard day at work - no one wastes my alone time - no one pressures me to go get drinks etc when I want to study or workout - I feel free and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/22 11:54 AM |
| 15 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?At the end of the day, you do you. No matter what we suggest here, the choice is yours so pick wisely. Best of luck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:26 PM |
| 14 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Sounds to me like you're glorifying the bare minimum, gaslighting yourself into thinking that he likes you and you're overly invested in him anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 02:02 PM |
| 71 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?YES YES YES. All of this is so true. Let's stop making up excuses as to why he's not pursuing you. He's not shy or intimidated. He's just not that into you and doesn't even think of you as much as you do of him. Move on. We all deserve someone who's 100% sure of us and takes action. Again, if you have to wonder if he's into you or you're confused - red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:21 PM |
| 94 | “If he wanted to, he would” fair, but how do I let him know I’m interested without directly asking him out?Just don't. First of all, it's a very bad idea to date guys you work with. It can turn ugly and awkward real quick. Second of all, the reason why he didn't make a move on you yet is that he's not that interested. It's really that simple. If he wanted to, he would move the heaven and earth for you. Of course, he'd be into having someone who's attracted to him, wants him, etc to stroke his ego. But that's ain't it, queen. Speaking from personal experience here. When I got a new job, there was a gu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/22 12:13 PM |
| 27 | Women Never Hit the Wall: A Field StudyDefinitely. During my shift, a male coworker (early 20s) admitted that he doesn't want to move out of his parent's house because then he will have to live alone. And coming into an empty home from work will make him feel worthless and not needed by anyone. So he'll move out only if he gets a girlfriend or a pet. Just FYI, he can't cook, do laundry, and do other adult stuff, he is short and already balding. And don't get me started on a character, or should I say a lack of thereof. Men are a fuck… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/22 04:14 PM |
| 240 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.Oh, yet another reason to stay away from dating straight men! Thanks. Sometimes after watching a movie, I catch myself thinking "I wish I had a significant other", but movies are not the reality we live in. Men will literally use you as an object for as long as it's convenient for them. I'll pass. I am really grateful to find this community at my age. It has opened my eyes and after what I have seen I think I won't be able to look at the world the same way. And it's for the better. Without FDS a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 104 | Watching 'Ultimatum' on Netflix - the epitome of 'if they wanted to, they would'.As if being married to some useless scrote is the best thing that could ever happen in your life. Queen, please! Most men are LVM, therefore most of them bring little to nothing to your life. What is the point in offering yourself in every possible way to a scrote who doesn't care about you that much? If he wanted to, he would. He should be the one who's begging, not you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/22 04:40 PM |
| 99 | Scrotes exploiting women refugeesfor real though. as a man, during wartime you are most likely to die really, that's it, maybe you'll be taken into captivity. and MEN START WARS, NOT WOMEN. as a woman, you're most likely to be raped, sold into sexual exploitation, tortured, forced to cook for enemies, impregnated against your will, and at last killed. so who's suffering more? and whose fault it is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 249 | Scrotes exploiting women refugeesFucking disgusting and pathetic. Ukrainian women and children are raped by russian beasts in Ukraine (google Bucha for example). The ones that were lucky enough to escape this hell have to deal with this bullshit. Entitled horny men use someone's suffering and problems as a pathway to free sex. I am so done with men and I wish I wasn't straight because WTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Can Dropping Out Of College End Well???It will be kinda useless though. For example, among other jobs, I was offered a job at an IT company and at a private school (to teach English, for my country I have a really good level of it), and I don't have a degree yet. They were more interested in me as a person, my knowledge on a certain topic, and my experience living abroad. (the only reason I took a job as a waitress is that I needed a high salary asap because of some serious health issues, I could not afford to work as a teacher or in… | /r/askFDS | 10/12/21 10:49 PM |
| 158 | How To Know Better That The Older Guy Isn't A Friend, He's Preying On You"Women tend to see the potential of good in men. We need to start seeing men for the bad potential they have: potential rapists, murderers, sociopaths". WOW. I never thought about it in this way and you're so right. Nothing is more important than our safety, so screw men and screw giving them the benefit of the doubt. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:34 PM |
| 46 | How To Know Better That The Older Guy Isn't A Friend, He's Preying On YouAs far as I know, women at my job including me got harassed while doing their job and our management did nothing but blame it on us being women. Literally said, "I thought that by now you'd know that you're a woman and everyone wants to fuck you, get over yourself". So pointing out this dude's behaviour will mean so little to them and this will accomplish nothing, sadly. Why am I not leaving my job if the treatment is so bad? As of right now, I can't just walk away and find a better place to wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:31 PM |
| 8 | My country is breeding ground for LVMyes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 64 | My country is breeding ground for LVMYes! Once I posted about how if 5 men are abusers/rapists and 10 are not yet they are not doing anything about it, then 15 men did nothing to stop violence against women. Had a pathetic incel trying to argue with me that NoT AlL MeN and that fear is ok, he should not put himself in danger in order to save others, stuff like that happens and it's life, those types of men are the minority who need to be cured, women provoke them with their clothes, etc. This dude saw his female friends getting gro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:59 PM |
| 18 | How come this is a relevant topic for 50+ men to discuss?Ah yes, because fucking some 18-year-old who's now a LeGaL aDuLt even though yesterday she was a child is ok. You have to be blind to not realize that there is a child in front of you. Just admit that you're a pedo, you gross old piece of shit. Like how possible is that scenario? A 15-year-old stealing her older sister's ID? He is really out there imagining things to justify his own perverted behavior. "I am not a sick old creep, it's those young teen seductresses!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:36 PM |
| 35 | The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪I just want to go back in time and shake my 14-16 years old self from this nightmare. I was too brainwashed that old men with wrinkles and gray hair are cooler, hotter, and more "experienced". Good thing that I thought that way about celebrity crushes only. Your average day-to-day white man looks so old and unattractive starting from his 20's. They might as well say thank you to the patriarchy for telling them that just BEING or LIVING is enough for women to desire them. Yeah John, you sure as h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 89 | you could try, I don’t know, being her friend? what is wrong with men that being friends with a girl doesn’t even occur to them and they need to ask the internet?I kid you not, ALL of my straight male "fRiEnDs" managed to go from a friendship to "I like/love you, let's date". Every. Fucking. Single. One. Of. Them. Somehow they thought that because they put in some friendship and human decency, I should give my affection to them. You know, kinda like you put coins into a vending machine for a snack. And then they would be so offended when I wasn't all happy in their feet because OH MY GOD A MAN WANTS ME WHAT A GIFT. Give me a break. Some of them told me t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 26 | How to move on from a crushYes!! This one time when I had just started my uni I had a crush on this guy, who happened to live in the same dormitory as me. While in the kitchen, he decided to talk to me, and OH MY GOD my crush just immediately disappeared. I think the problem is that we paint them in a way that pleases our hearts/minds, but that does not reflect the reality of what they are. My problem is to get over fictional or celebrity crushes. Lately, to help myself with it, I began to think that the whole personality… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:09 PM |
| 71 | Don’t Let him Skip the CourtshipCould someone please make a post about what a proper courtship looks like? Being a member of gen z unfortunately I have no idea :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How to detach from men you have crushes onI rarely have crushes on real, day to day men, but oh boy how hard it can be to get over a fictional or celebrity crush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 12:45 PM |
| 12 | Freddy Carter 🥰YES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 22 | A clown in his natural habitatSaving this as a reminder of how gross men are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:57 PM |
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