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I have no idea why you think that being a 'playful friend that they can gossip about sex with' is a bad idea.
/r/seduction24/11/14 06:20 AM
1

That was fast, less than 1 minute. Bot looking for the phrase 'tips fedora'? :P
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:38 PM
1

Indeed it is good sir. -tips fedora-
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:35 PM
2

I used to have this problem. It's not hard to fix, but it took ages for me to figure out how to fix it. Be aware that you have to express interest. Be aware that if you don't express interest, you have high chances of not getting with the girl. If your main goal is having any kind of relationship where sex is involved, remember that expressing interest is more important than having fun with the conversation. Sometimes I'm having so much fun that I won't express interest, but I'm aware that it wo…
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:23 AM
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You're less horny if you masturbate. Duh. Calling it 'sexual energy' sounds like some hippie bullshit. Either way, I think your advice is good.
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:08 AM
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The problem is that nice guys only get girls after they are done with the assholes. You might not think it's a problem, but it is. I'll leave it to yourself to figure out why if you want to know.
/r/seduction19/11/14 08:06 AM
2

Note that her 'primary sexual partner' in her 'polyamory relationship' is a confident 'nice guy'. Chances are he's confident, and he's the one she's emotionally invested in. Sadly, it's also likely that he's beta enough to let her fuck other guys while not getting any, and pays for her stuff.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:31 PM
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Hey, I had to hear the truth for years and have repeated punches to my face to start changing my way of thinking. You don't just throw 20+ years of beta down the drain in one internet conversation.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 08:26 PM
0

I keep asking myself why I reply in discussions that offer no benefit for me. Over and over... and over.
/r/seduction20/02/14 01:54 AM
1

What I wrote was black and white, so I adjusted it to grayscale to reflect the truth more accurately. Anyway, the female perception is more valid about some things than others (I'm sure the male perception is the same), usually a female that's sexually attracted to you will give fantastic advice on how to look to turn her on, but her advice on how to get her in bed will be horrid. Note that, if you listen to her, buy her a drink, take her to a restaurant, treat her like a princess, she will feel…
/r/seduction20/02/14 01:52 AM
1

I don't really know why you're being downvoted. I guess /r/seduction also has a collective mind like any other subreddit... Anyway, I think that in her specific circumstances (she really has a boyfriend, and isn't looking) this kind of comeback will hurt his chances, but you're better off going after a single girl who's looking anyway... and if there are plenty of fish in the sea, crashing and burning is not that bad. It's just a bold move, if you ignore the moral implications.
/r/seduction20/02/14 01:32 AM
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He didn't generalize, he specifically said that it was about her.
/r/seduction20/02/14 01:28 AM
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What I'm trying to say is that the guy who brings up a comeback like this isn't thinking in the same context you are. He doesn't wants a friend, he doesn't cares if she really has a boyfriend, he doesn't cares about your friends unless he's going to get in their panties, he doesn't cares if you think he's scummy; he just wants to get laid. Okay, I exagerated a bit, because everyone except sociopaths have feelings, but hopefully you get my point. If a guy who is clearly just looking for his next …
/r/seduction20/02/14 01:24 AM
1

Great! then she'll get another one, so she can have 3 choices of whom to fuck depending on her mood!
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:02 PM
1

Actually I like the one that implies it's a vibrator. I mean, I might just try it once, to see what happens. No, chances are that I won't get slapped.
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:01 PM
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You're right this is a bad response... if the guy is looking for a long term relationship. And luring guys into being nice to you by saying you could introduce them to your friends... isn't that manipulation ;)
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:59 PM
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One basic bit of knowledge in seduction is that what girls want, what girls say they want, and what girls respond to, more often than not, are different things. One liners are a clutch for beginners. They have their use, but they are attractive because they seem to easy to say.
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:58 PM
1

I think the 'secret rule' thing, and saying how you feel would apply... in a long term relationship. This is just random chick that he has oneitis for. Doing this will just make him seem needy. Which he is, but if he does, it also shows it.
/r/seduction16/02/14 07:28 PM
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Guys do it too, but for different reasons. Typical example: jocks.
/r/seduction15/02/14 07:28 PM
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Yes, it's going to be awkward. Do it anyway. Imagine it's like a girl losing her virginity, but instead of having the pain of a broken hymen, it's more about having to go through emotional pain for you.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:30 PM
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If you're not sure, keep going. That's my whole point, I want OP to be rejected hard, so he knows when no is no.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:03 PM
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If the girl doesn't rejects you, it's not rape. If the signs she gives are ambiguous, sadly, the best option is to go for it. If it turns out she isn't into you, just take a step back. Making a move and failing will hurt your rapport with the girl. Be a man and be willing to take the hits anyway.
/r/seduction11/02/14 04:59 PM
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Go as far as you can until the girl rejects you. I mean, literally try to get a far as you can until she's fed up with you. I did that, the girl will never want me around again (so do this with someone you just meet or someone you don't care much about) but I figured out how far I could go, and how to work around it. So just as practice, try to go as far as you can, and while chances are that you WILL fuck up when escalating / closing, you'll figure out how to do it with the next girls.
/r/seduction11/02/14 04:05 PM
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There is a thread celebrating that /r/TRP got promoted by accident every week or so, this is getting boring.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 12:46 AM
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This is strangely conforting.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 01:58 PM
2

You're right, I apologize, "One of the girls I talked to seemed extremely attracted to me" isn't good enough of a sign, OP should definitely ask the girl to write a formal handwritten letter expressing consent to physical contact.
/r/seduction10/02/14 01:55 PM
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Physical escalation, isolate, and kiss. BAM.
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:12 AM
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I think that whenever you are learning game, your goal should be try to get as far as possible until you get rejected. What this means is that the ONLY thing that should make you stop running game on your target, is being rejected. But, the mentality of having rejection as a goal? it might take a load off your shoulders for a while, but it will soon stop working because you know it's a fallacy, and then you'll only end up with the downsides. In other words, this might help in the short term, but…
/r/seduction10/02/14 05:10 AM
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I'm still bitter. I know why I'm bitter, and that true free will doesn't exists, but it doesn't means I like it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/14 10:09 PM
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THIS. I don't know why anyone would think you NEED to run game on a girl to get her interested, after all, don't you get interested in girls without them having to run game on you?
/r/seduction09/02/14 12:01 AM
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The problem is not between hooking up and helping, they are not mutually exclusive; the problem is in the way it happens. The problem is giving your help for free. Girls can get hookups anywhere, so why would having a hookup with a random guy have any value to her? that's what she offers. If a bunch of nice guys are willing to help her, yet she only needs the help of one, that help will also be devalued. This happens more often than you'd think. As a boyfriend or husband, there's a pre-establish…
/r/seduction07/02/14 03:34 AM
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I think neediness is more about inner game. Forget if you come off as needy or not, worry about BEING needy. That is, don't be needy, make your emotions independent on the outcome, or you risk depression. What you want to know is when to stop hitting on a girl; from my experience, you need to look for cues, if she tells or acts like she wants you to stop but does not gives you cues that you should stop, then don't. For example, if you're touching her and she laughs, says 'stop' but doesn't do an…
/r/seduction06/02/14 10:29 PM
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Like /u/JohnDoe78 said static holds are good. The problem with them is that you get good at them fast, so you could do planks, but after a while you'll have to switch exercises, unless you get a weighted vest, a weight on your back or something like that. My routine is taken from /r/bodyweightfitness, and pretty much every strength exercise in that routine works your core; however, I think that the biggest core-buster so far are weighted squats. BTW leg lifts (hanging leg raises, eventually gett…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 12:50 PM
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Nothing against a strong set of abs. However you have options! rope jumping, aerobics, dancing...
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:54 AM
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That onepack. BTW you can't lose fat from a particular spot, doing crunches all day won't help, go for cardio instead.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:05 AM
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I didn't imply location when I said society. While you never said you spoke for everyone, you didn't say the opposite either; if you wanted to refer to a sub-group, instead of a group in general, you would have mentioned it. I don't see how saying that women aren't the flowers you expected them to be, contradicts my post. I'm just assuming this is part of your progress.... or at least I hope so, because you definitely haven't reached the point where you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 04:03 AM
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That sixpack.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:23 PM
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I think this is a bluepill post in disguise, from someone who hasn't taken enough redpills yet. Let me explain: First he talks about society like he's not part of it. Second, he's focusing on the worst. If there's a girl that has more emotional damage that what you are willing to deal with, next her. The amount of girls like this might be daunting, and you might never find a satisfying partner, but that's how things are, so just have a fun ride, even if you never see the ending. Third, he's focu…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 09:22 PM
2

So.. what happens if I have symptoms of stages 2 to 5?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 09:09 PM
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Next time you see that on facebook, you should post the pictures of a fat guy with man boobs and acne to see the reactions. Post the results here :)
/r/TheRedPill03/02/14 05:19 PM
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I think this explains why unicorns are unicorns; all of them were taken at a young age, if a girl is an unicorns she never rode the cock carousel. The only logical solution for someone looking for LTR would be to go after the ones with a short sexual history, hoping to eventually hit the jackpot and find the unicorn. But I suppose a short sexual history is only one of the cues you'd need to weed out sluts, then again, I think that even if you limit yourself to just looking for unicorns, chances …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/14 12:47 AM
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I don't think this post is red pill. After all other men don't give a shit about your problems either. It's not limited to women.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 09:39 PM
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I have yet to be with a girl where she takes the initiative just from me rubbing her leg. This includes girls who didn't do anything, and who moved my hand away, both groups being mad at me later for not doing more, so I don't think this is enough. This is just hoping she'll act instead of doing it yourself. I'm curious in any other solutions though :) In a few days I'm going to try kissing the neck after rubbing her leg. Another idea is that, after you're rubbing her leg, to look into her eyes …
/r/seduction20/01/14 03:26 AM
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Every sub has a reason or two to 'hate' it. This one just happens to be more often against mainstream thought, in issues that people feel strongly about. However, I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with guys fucking wives, from the point of view of the guy. I mean, the guy didn't make a commitment with that girl's husband, she did. She's the one married, the one that's supposed to be loyal, and breaking her oath, not the guy. I've never been angry at another guy, unless it's a close…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 10:40 AM
2

I'd add that a questionary is not a good way of building rapport. Just skip this method and find a better one.
/r/seduction11/01/14 05:13 PM
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It's up to the parents to teach them and put them into social situations. If they do, that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 06:54 AM
2

Just to clear something about sticking with the first guy, that no one seems to be saying: Girls usually have the upper hand in dating, that is, there's a larger demand (guy's sexual interest) than offer(girl's interest), until they hit the wall; If you had not stuck with him, you'd have tasted a lot of choices, develop a liking for certain kinds of guys, and would end up trying to get the choice that satisfies you best. That includes money. This is called hypergamy. Honestly I find that being a…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 03:09 AM
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but all those relationships were tough ones in Reddit-disapproved ways: long-distance, had to work out different life trajectories, no/very little "honeymoon" period, treats me like a mortal human rather than like a "princess"/"queen," doesn't immediately snap to be what I want after we have long conversation where I articulate everything I desire
/r/TheRedPill22/12/13 12:34 PM
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Having read it, I'd say it's best if you get better material. The book is well written and draws you in, but it's primarily a story, a narration; it won't teach you to pick up girls, or even RP material, though if you come from a mostly BP life, it might be the beginning of seeing things without pink-tinted glasses, but there are so many better sources than this. And if you're even remotely experienced, it won't help you one bit. Skip this unless you're just looking for an interesting story.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 03:17 AM
2

Like /u/ProfessionalJerk said, the first step is not caring about going solo. Second step would be don't act like an AFC. Don't look lonely, by not needing to go with other people to get what you want out of going out, and this is why caring about people think is the first step, if your mind gets in the way your actions will be undecisive, and you will be lonely and act congruently with this. If you fail to do this, go down the /u/HappyJerk route, and lie.
/r/seduction18/12/13 07:19 PM
3

While going out with friends is usually best, going out alone can be an enlightening experience and sometimes even convenient. Just another tool in your arsenal.
/r/seduction18/12/13 07:15 PM
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I don't like the beta bashing though.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 12:24 PM
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Honestly, I get mad at women because I have a standard for human beings, not just women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:45 PM
2

I don't think you feel empty without a woman, but rather, something that they provide. Besides sex, you can get anything they could offer from other sources, so just find an alternative.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:44 PM
2

In my country, if you fuck a minor, it's rape even if she was willing; the only chance you have, is to make a deal with the parents to marry, or at least to live with the girl. I've seen someone get off it by living with the girl for a few months, then dumping her, but I guess that's a small price to pay to avoid jail.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/13 10:31 PM
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This is the sub's description on the side bar: "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men." I guess you're right in a sense, I left out the gays by mentioning women, since they are men too.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 03:39 AM
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It seems there's a lot of bias.. /r/seduction focuses on techniques /r/mensrights focuses on defending on the wrong doing of women /r/theredpill is about the mental aspect of dealing with women There's a good and bad side to every one of those subs, even this one. Make an effort to be touched only by the good.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 07:21 PM
2

Or a throwaway.
/r/seduction02/12/12 10:53 PM
3

If you want to learn a new language, what would be better, tutoring or learning on your own? Replace 'a new language' with 'social skills'. That being said, a girl teaching a guy social skills is like an british teacher teaching formal english to a guy who wants use english to live in the USA's ghetto.
/r/seduction02/12/12 10:53 PM
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It might work on guys, but I doubt it works on girls that well. Girls like the feeling of things happening 'naturally'.
/r/seduction06/10/12 12:39 PM
1

Sometimes guys who are too good looking get this problem. Besides that, why don't you try asking people? the same people who might shun you, if they dislike you enough, they'll forget about courtesy and tell you head on.
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:07 AM
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What's wrong with changing yourself into someone who gets better results? Just the fact that you have always been an introvert sounds like a weird reason not to change. Additionally, being congruent is vital for comfort.
/r/seduction22/09/12 04:57 AM
1

Nah, I'm strictly speaking about sample size.
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:39 AM
1

I feel silly now
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:38 AM
1

You mean you use this as a means to qualify her?
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:38 AM
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If you are going to believe what random people say without a base, you aren't going to get very far in seduction.
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:36 AM
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Approaching is easy. Even if you screw up, things will be fine of you can keep things going, unless you got a girl with her bitch shield high and you crash and burn, which rarely happens.
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:27 AM
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Even if you think it's small, it's probably bigger than the sample size of your own experiences, therefore, in that sense, more accurate.
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:25 AM
2

How do you attract girls then? is it your looks, your clothes? what you are doing? not saying anything is not a good enough reason for girls to approach, but it might compliment something.
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:24 AM
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I disagree; in my practice, smiling is crucial. My hypothesis is that when you smile, the other person feels you are not a threat; superficial comfort, it's necesary to move beyond small talk. Then again don't grin. See, I learned to take research on social interactions with a grain of salt, because small details like the kind of smile are very important, but they don't seem to notice. They are scientists! people who often have less social skills than the average person.
/r/seduction17/02/12 07:23 AM
1

Later you find out it's not about what you are, but how you are presented.
/r/seduction15/02/12 08:07 AM
1

Want to make sure you move forward? Go out. WRITE DOWN YOUR STICKING POINTS. Fix them. Track your progress. Don't stop. Shit happens? keep going out.
/r/seduction09/02/12 06:02 AM
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Because seddit is made of mostly green PUAs in the making.
/r/seduction08/02/12 11:53 PM
2

While I haven't tried it, apparently no one says that Ross Jeffries stuff doesn't works, and being that he has been in the PUA movement since it's beginning and only has gotten bashed all along because of his personality, I'm pretty sure it works.
/r/seduction08/02/12 11:48 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain, and tell not to bash the guy. You have the community, he probably doesn't. There's no one to teach him. Besides, friendzoning nice guys is as the fault of both the male and the female; interactions take two people. The guy might have gotten himself friendzoned, but fucking a jerk is contradictory with what women say they want.
/r/seduction01/02/12 08:05 AM
1

Don't worry about what you'll find; just take suggestions and enjoy the experience, you'll learn a lot if you get mixed in the environment.
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:59 AM
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They didn't want to screw things up or feel vulnerable, and as a result the first guy got friendzoned, which I dare to suggest, is because you find the second guy more attractive.
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:54 AM
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The picture of the smiling guy in the article makes him look like her next friendzoned best friend forever. The smile you want is one where you don't show your teeth much or at all. There are different types of smile. Besides, general attraction is easier to get than comfort, so smile even if you show your teeth. Getting a women to approach on her own is definitely better, but unless you didn't notice her before, approaching yourself has better chances of scoring because you started the interact…
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:49 AM
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Even though I know that my parents could have done a lot better, I realize that they can't teach me what they never learned, even if they tried their best. That, together with the only honest talk ever I have had with my dad, made me realize that whenever he did something, he thought it was the best for us, not because he had any special love or hate for any. People continue using tactics that have helped in the past; if you randomly pick what to do, and it turns out it's manipulative, and it wo…
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:37 AM
2

I'm in too. And the sedditor No_black_allowed just inspired me to do a NoFap-until- I-get-a-girlfriend challenge. =] I have done part of it, but dropped out. Which is why I can tell Tyler182 that he doesn't needs the videos, but the audio files are useful. However, when I downloaded the video, my video player told me the video was corrupt and that it could attempt to repair it; upon repair it played. The program I used is VLC, you can get it here http://www.videolan.org/vlc/ for free.
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:16 AM
1

Nice Guy here, I can confirm this. It doesn't even has to do with marriage, just knowing there's something about you two that doesn't click and that will explode in a colorful fashion. Do it anyway.
/r/seduction01/02/12 07:07 AM
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Probably his greatest contribution was to make pick-up arts more mainstream.
/r/seduction27/01/12 09:44 PM
1

I think that's a great way of reframing the situation, and a good qualification method.
/r/seduction24/01/12 08:22 AM
1

The problem is that girls don't expect you to have a kid, so when you reveal this, they look at the downsides of it, independently of it having any real effect on your relationship with her. Even if they don't have anything against it, they don't know how to deal with it, so they would rather not bother with thinking too much for a guy they just meet and when they can just find another guy without a kid. The solution is for them to figure out you have a kid in a way that it's not surprising for …
/r/seduction20/01/12 10:07 AM
1

Yes, but don't let girls know that. Get something out of that relationship, otherwise there's no point. I might have a female friend if say, I genuely like to play videogames with her, or she's funny.
/r/seduction20/01/12 09:55 AM
1

Girls are asked more often the hotter they are until they are about an HB 8.5, after that, the frequency drops, but a HB 10 still gets hit on more than a HB7, and even HB5's are hit on with certain frequency.
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:18 PM
2

There are different issues to consider. If you have your own place then you have the biggest obstacle removed. Facebook / chat are used the same way as a phone; to set meetings only. Pick areas for the meeting that have multiples sites of interest within walking distance. Meet the girl at the place instead of taking here there.Make an excuse for her to go to your place, or for you to go to hers. Really all you have to do is find alternatives without showing the girl that you are broke.
/r/seduction13/01/12 07:22 AM
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Kino is the one thing that improved my game the most, even more than improving inner game. If you get no feedback, then it means to keep trying. I mean, really, keep trying. They aren't backing off, so they are allowing you to keep moving. That's the most frequent way a girl 'shows' interest, by giving you chances to move forward.
/r/seduction13/01/12 07:17 AM
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Maybe it's the kind of environment I'm in, but it's simply to pull alphas out of their comfort zone. It gets worse if most of the group feels at ease, and the alpha notices that.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:53 AM
2

She is describing the perfect way to make her feel good. It's not a guide to getting her in bed, just how she wishes guys would approach her.
/r/seduction11/01/12 06:58 PM
2

Rejection is not a bad as you think. Taste it a little, and you'll notice it's only a mild bitter-sweet taste. There's always the sweet taste of knowing you dared. Both tastes are balanced.
/r/seduction11/01/12 05:18 PM
2

In our current society, the techniques used in PUA are never going to be taught formally.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:00 AM
1

Friendzoning is more effective for women because they are traditionally the ones being chased, and because of the same thing, women don't have to friendzone guys because they do it themselves when they try to be 'nice guys' without crossing the sexual barrier. If they never cross the sexual barrier, the topic never comes up unless the women wants to. But it sounds like an effective way of creating orbiters.
/r/seduction09/01/12 03:14 PM
1

I like simple solutions. I suck with names too. When a girl gives me her name, I declare while smiling 'I really suck at remembering names', then I follow it with (no matter if she replies to my declaration or not) 'you know what, I'm going to give you a nickname. It's what I do when I want to remember people. You are now called X'. The nickname must be something that I know I'll remember for the entire interaction, for example, if she has a ridiculously big shiny purse it could be 'purse'. If I…
/r/seduction07/01/12 08:46 PM
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I feel like there's hope for humanity each time a guy finds out that rejections aren't that bad.
/r/seduction27/12/11 02:40 PM
1

Any and all kinds. After you learn some basic steps, keep improving. =] Besides, I'm sure that not knowing electro dance in a room full of people doing it it's going to make you unpopular.
/r/seduction27/12/11 02:35 PM
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I used to be a very social person when I was a kid, but series of events led me to be a very reserved person since the end of my pre-teen years, therefore I didn't have much sucess socially. These events were a constantly moving home, very secretive untrusting religious parents (specially my dad), not having female friends, family problems outside of my inmediate siblings(including death threats and legal action), an evil older brother, geeky hobbies, a rocky path through college, etc; just a bu…
/r/seduction27/12/11 02:18 PM
2

I built confidence just fine with HB9s (almost no HB10s around). Like it has been said, talking to everyone and pushing your boundaries in general is the right way of building confidence. However, when doing a sexual approaches, it's best to start with HB5s, because HB10's are less forgiving with errors, so you won't be able to move through all the stages, and therefore won't learn about the later ones. Keep moving up the ladder, so that the experience is hard enough to teach you, but easy enoug…
/r/seduction25/12/11 11:20 PM
2

I have been gaming within my social circle, and so far the only negative outcomes I have had are, assuming I have been gaming two girls: When I give attention to girl 1 while girl 2 had my attention before or is currently trying to get it. In this case girl 2 is put off by this and will think you are not interested, but if you game her again, you can fix it. It will take a bit more time than if you didn't have this precedent, but it's nothing major. When I am giving attention to girl 1, girl 2 s…
/r/seduction15/12/11 02:35 AM
2

As long as she is within your arm's reach you can do kino. It can be work, church, or a cementery. Being able to isolate her easily is important though. I think you are overthinking it. If you do kino right when you meet her with everyone, she'll think it's just the way you are and you'll be able to kino anytime. If you didn't do this, just start small and build up. I think the most important thing with kino is learning not to step over your boundaries too much. Learn to isolate instead.
/r/seduction09/12/11 01:06 AM
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From your posts and descriptions, I feel like your life, and interactions with women go better than mine, yet you are taking it harder. I feel happy just for making small improvements. Any improvement. I have to go to presentations for college 3 days per week, and during those presentations you are allowed to stand up to make comments and ask questions. The first time I did so, I completely screwed myself over with all the stupid things I said. I couldn't even look at the presentator in the eye.…
/r/seduction05/12/11 04:22 AM
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I think that the issue is too broad to give specific tips for it. But if your inner game is based on external factors, then it's not inner game at all. You have to trully believe it, without someone else having to remind you. Remind yourself.
/r/seduction05/12/11 01:22 AM
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I still get scared, but besides improving my self steem, these two things have worked for me: Talk to a few beautiful women without the intention to get anything out of it, just for the experience. Not even a 'what if' or 'it could happen' type of hope. You are there for the sake of understanding what's in her head and to have fun. After doing it to a few of them, you'll realize they really are like any other woman, except they look hot on the outside. Realize that you are not panicking because …
/r/seduction04/12/11 10:03 PM
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You categorized girls by age, and said that while not all the groups were attracted in the same amount, all of them showed an increase of interest. On the other hand, I would like to know if you noticed a difference when it comes to other categorizations, for example, smart vs emotional girls, or depending on their HB rating.
/r/seduction29/11/11 12:43 AM
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I disagree, it makes OP feel better to celebrate his achievement =] Though a field report would be awesome
/r/seduction28/11/11 11:53 PM
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I have never been called out in the moment. Once when talking about cool tricks, I mentioned the five lies game by style. Some dude mentioned that it's used to pick up girls and that was it. That's about 1 out of the 10 other times I have used it. The second time was curiously today, when a classmate tried to pick on me for running game on a girl from another college in front of a bunch of girls. I felt he was jealous. Girls usually can tell you are running game on them after a few minutes unles…
/r/seduction24/11/11 04:49 AM
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Learn to notice IOIs and IODs =] It's part of the standard pua knowledge.
/r/seduction18/11/11 08:19 PM
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If a girl screws me over once, I put some distance but continue to talk to her. If she screws me over again, I move on, and only talk to her when I have to, without letting her know I'm mad.
/r/seduction15/11/11 04:02 AM
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Open them first.
/r/seduction13/11/11 02:01 PM
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Perfect practice makes perfect. Spend 10 years doing the same mistakes and you'll be the same. Improve each time. You know what you are doing wrong, now think about how you should have done it and remember it next time you talk. Simply talking might help a beginner, but after a while you'll need to make some concious effort. Your confidence will improve when you improve at talking.
/r/seduction13/11/11 02:30 AM
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Make a list of common IOIs. Read your list of common IOIs before sarging or somewhat often. Go have an interaction. Think about why the girl behaved the way she did. Identify the IOIs you were given. Repeat from step 2 until you get the 'I have seen this before' feeling from IOIs, even if you can't tell they are IOIs during the interaction. Interact again, and during the interaction, try to figure out quickly if everything that gives you a familiar feeling is an IOI from your list. After the int…
/r/seduction08/11/11 10:12 PM
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How about you stop blaming someone, anyone? That's irrelevant. Just change your actions to get better results, no matter whose fault it is. You might think it helps you identify the problem, but if it's true that the girl is having a bad night, that just means you have to lift her spirit.
/r/seduction30/10/11 01:58 AM
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I'm not sure this is enough information. If I cold approach, and the girl initially doesn't like me but I show value and wait for her to give me hints before I turn the conversation personal and sexual, then I think it counts on me. Bottom line, it doesn't matter, just approach regarless of any hints you get.
/r/seduction20/10/11 12:29 AM
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If you are in love with a girl rejection will hurt badly, but oneitis seems like such a basic subject that I assumed you are not dealing with that kind of rejection. I meant the kind you get when you are sarging.
/r/seduction15/10/11 09:01 PM
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What do you want? that's the right choice.
/r/seduction23/08/11 12:31 AM
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Just a crazy suggestion... wear some kind of gloves? maybe fingerless ones?
/r/seduction10/08/11 10:09 PM
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I actually think that the 1 - 10 scale of looks is over doing it. In my book, 1 - 5 is an easy lay, 6 - 7 is normal ( still easy but you have to run game ), and 8 - 10 means you have to work for it.
/r/seduction28/07/11 05:11 PM
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For me it's only cheating if you hide it. So one night lays, multiple open relationships, multiple fuck buddies, multiple friends with benefits are all good. On the other hand NO ONE can answer this question but you. It's a morality issue, you have your own morals.
/r/seduction17/07/11 10:40 PM
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How about you wait for a moment of high spirits, when you both are laughing and having fun and say something like 'You know, we should definitely exchange numbers!'
/r/seduction17/07/11 01:08 AM
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It sounds like you have a LONG way in front of you. No quick tips will help you enough. Dive into the seduction community; I'm not saying you have to do uncomfortable things right away, but learn about seduction and stick to it, and make steady progress, though I'm pretty sure it will take months, maybe a year, just to fix your introverted nature. First focus on inner game. It's worth it.
/r/seduction14/07/11 03:52 AM
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I listen into what the group is talking about( with my back or shoulder towards them ), and when I see a chance to make a comment they might find interesting, I turn to them suddenly( which usually makes them slow the conversation and look at me for half a second, which is a good thing ) and declare in a loud( but not horribly loud ) fashion my comment. From there I act depending on the interest their body language indicates( smiling AT ME, eye contact WITH ME, head and body turning TO ME ): - I…
/r/seduction13/07/11 12:31 AM
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I exercise regulary now, live in the moment instead of inside my head, scheduled my life, and obviously have a lot more sucess socially.
/r/seduction13/07/11 12:17 AM
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Maybe it's oneitis. Just give him time, that's what will show the truth.
/r/seduction25/06/11 03:46 AM
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Look for 'inner game'. There's this DJ Fuji guy comming on reddit tonight( look at the right bar ) and from the videos I have seen of this guy from the 21 convention, he focuses completely on inner game so you might learn something from the Q&A.
/r/seduction25/06/11 03:44 AM
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care to explain?
/r/seduction19/06/11 06:01 AM
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Are you any better at pickup? Have you worked on your skills through this year? Otherwise you'll stay in the friend-zone
/r/seduction17/06/11 08:27 PM
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I just opened normally, except I tried to find a male around to talk to first. I would tell him stuff like 'hey, I want to do a psychological experiment with you' then ask him stuff and draw obvious conclusions, for example 'since you prefer doing things for yourself instead of others, you are most likely this X kind of person who has the X personality traits'. Females around would become interested and the guy would try to get back at me with his own take. Next, try it with the girl next, and t…
/r/seduction15/06/11 05:44 AM
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I have done it before, and there's a few things I can point out: Be fast. You don't know if she's going to get off in 5. Then again, don't rush if you don't have to( you can even ask where she's getting off ), but remember that the clock is ticking. This is the most important thing you have to know. You are obviously going for a number close. This girl has plans and it's on her way to meet them, she doesn't have time for you now. Of course, after you get her number, keep talking. Just going to p…
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:57 AM
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Thanks for the confirmation. This is what I thought at first but I wasn't sure. I do believe this might have been a shit test, but not a game changer; I could have failed it but still have 1 life left to win.
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:51 AM
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I'm actually dumping that opener. One reason is that it can put you in that situation; however, I have used it like 5 times before and it worked marvels all those times, but these where with HB7.5 tops. This is the kind of girl who has been cheated a lot on before, and thinks that most guys who hit on girls are taken. Sure, you might learn to get it 'right' but this opener isn't good enough for me to use my time to perfect it. But the main reason is that it's needlessly complicated; I have used …
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:49 AM
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How about you go back at the burger shop and try to get a date? I think you are making asking her out more complicated than it is. However, it might work IF you teased her and gave the umbrella reluctanly, in such a way that she thinks you are only trying to NOT look like a jerk( but she shouldn't think you are one ), so that she doesn't thinks you are needy enough that you need to give people stuff to get them to go out with you. If it's the only way to get the date, go ahead and try that appro…
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:38 AM
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A girl once told me that her ideal first date is meeting at a park( because she likes nature ), being drived around to a cafè or something similar and drink tea ( she's brittish ), then walk a bit. Your ideal date might not be hers, but that's an idea to start.
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:08 AM
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I'm 26, virgin, haven't had a gf in years, still living with parents, haven't graduated college ( will do in december ), don't have a job. Game is doing marvels for my life in general. There's a difference from not even being able to talk to ugly girls that I midly like to being able to kiss close the hottest girls around( even if I haven't fuck closed any yet ). Best friend is 22, virgin, still living with parents, still in school, has a job at KFC. Game is improving his life bit by bit, mostly…
/r/seduction15/06/11 01:58 AM
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Unless you have some self-steem issue, if you feel bad about something, it probably wasn't the right choice.
/r/seduction08/05/11 11:33 PM
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Congratulations man. Now keep that game running, your accomplishments haven't ended yet.
/r/seduction08/05/11 10:42 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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