Internalizing Inner Game?

ilostitattheclub · 2011-12-05T05:49:22+00:00

Its all about your thought patterns man, if you are not conditioned to think positively then you need to trick your subconscious mind by using affirmations and the like. It may take some time for you to actually believe this shit, but you need to just keep telling yourself you are awesome, keep telling yourself that you are a catch, that everything is good.

Its second nature for me now, I'm constantly reaffirming how awesome my life is and I have moments everyday where I'm just in awe of this world...but this is a skill that I have spent many, many years practicing... Trust me just keep at the affirmations and try to find the most positive and awesome things that happen to you each day and focus on them.

StormTAG · 2011-12-05T23:41:38+00:00

You probably haven't been practicing your inner game effectively long enough. Your mind is like a computer. Your willpower has surprisingly little to do with it. Instead, you need to set up situations that give it the right kind of feedback.

Figure out what you want. Something small. Then get it. Sweet! Mission accomplished! Next, pick something else you want. Something slightly bigger. Then get it. Sweet! Mission accomplished again! Now try something a little more risky.

Each step you're conditioning your mind that "Pick goal, succeed." is awesome! And, again, don't pick a big goal to start with. "I'm going to do my laundry! GET IN DA CHOPPA! DO IT NAOW!" Laundry all done? Sweet! Mission accomplished! You've just proven to yourself, albeit in a small way, that you can actually accomplish what you set out to do. Then pick another small goal and keep moving.

Affirmations are cool and all and they're part of this whole programming bit. Your mind is a chemical computer. You have to program that sucker. The release of endorphins from a job well done is an EXCELLENT way to do that.

Coz7 · 2011-12-05T01:22:36+00:00

I think that the issue is too broad to give specific tips for it.

But if your inner game is based on external factors, then it's not inner game at all. You have to trully believe it, without someone else having to remind you. Remind yourself.

Title	Internalizing Inner Game?
Author	nycprowl
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	December 4, 2011 10:35 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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