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ilostitattheclub/r/seduction19/03/12 07:36 AM
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Ive heard whispers that there is some sort of community there, I'm not sure if any are on seddit or not.
/r/seduction02/08/12 07:44 AM
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Literally
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:22 AM
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all the upvotes
/r/seduction16/07/12 06:09 AM
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My bad my bad, then what you said is correct. Better to call than fb
/r/seduction08/07/12 05:16 AM
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Yeah I find that I have an overall vision of where I want to go in life, yet I don't get too hung up on how I get there. It actually helped me to stop having and reading small goals, I know where I'm going, with my business and my personal life, and I know what I need to improve. I've done a few things and failed and gone through some tough times, coming out with a pretty clear sense of purpose. I don't really question my vision anymore, but being present helps it to grow and change naturally. I…
/r/seduction07/07/12 02:02 AM
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I don't have his number so, in an attempt to be direct and put myself out there, I send him this facebook message She can't call bro. I think it would be better to go with the direct line on FB, seeing if she asks for the number over Fb you still have to wait the same amount of time for a reply then you have to call and ask the question. Better to treat this like a band aid and rip it off fast
/r/seduction07/07/12 12:02 AM
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I'm reading A New Earth at the moment. I feel that a lot of people confuse the idea of "being present' and think that you can't plan for the future. You can have goals and plans for the future, but "being present" means that you have no care for whether these goals or plans actually eventuate, you are outcome independent. The truly content and happy man should always aim to improve himself, yet also be completely happy with how he is in the present. I am trying hard to incorporate this mindset i…
/r/seduction06/07/12 11:58 PM
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Its all how you frame it. If you are at your parents because you cant afford your own place...well that doesn't sound so good. If you are staying at your parents to save money while you are starting up your own business and you are putting every effort into that...well that actually sounds alright. Personally I was running my own business and it failed...I have a young daughter that I care for, and if I didn't have my family to help me I would be fucked. Any girl that wants to judge me for that …
/r/seduction20/06/12 08:19 PM
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Yo I feel you, most of your shit is solid, however Im 28, back living with my parents. I have a 4 year old daughter though so that explains a little. Never worried me at the slightest, every girl I've hooked up with it was the same. It only matters if it matters to you. I just have this priority hierarchy. Until I moved out of my parents' basement, I did not try to date anyone. It was just... how would I explain that That is a limiting belief. Just saying. Theoretically, they should work on gett…
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:17 AM
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Don't worry bout the haters brah, we good. Take all the confidence you can you gotta suck every last drop out of experiences like this.
/r/seduction13/06/12 06:20 AM
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tried it, dick didnt work...
/r/seduction04/06/12 08:13 AM
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I haven't met any girls that have been turned off by my tattoos, but then again maybe because I tend to attract girls I want to attract. I don't think you should be thinking about attracting anyone with a tattoo, if you're gonna get one it should be for you only. If someone thinks its unattractive, do you really give a shit?
/r/seduction28/05/12 09:38 AM
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Bring a salad
/r/seduction23/05/12 08:43 AM
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5 years with my baby moms. We aren't together anymore.
/r/seduction23/05/12 05:29 AM
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Fuck everything about this. What is your point here? Proving to a guy who says he won't cheat that he will? I'm with testmypatience on this one. Have all the self defeating beliefs you want but don't force them on people who don't want them. And I have been in a long term relationship, been cheated on several times, have not lost trust in people, have never cheated, and never will.
/r/seduction22/05/12 08:05 PM
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Respect
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:53 AM
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I feel ya.
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:40 AM
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Yeah sounds pretty similar to my situation. Might be too hard to pull off, target will probably back off even if she likes you too...
/r/seduction22/05/12 04:39 AM
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painfully obvious reality that she was behaving somewhat sluttily Really? Really? You think a girl coming onto you is her behaving sluttily if that is even a word? Man I don't even get it. If there wasn't such a social condition on female sexuality, half this game shit wouldn't even be necessary. Don't enforce the same conditioning man, this community needs to be open and against slut shaming of any degree.
/r/seduction21/05/12 08:43 AM
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I have been through this. Ended up taking the easy option, then found out the one I wanted was actually keen, but she backed off because her friend liked me. The one thing you need to do is isolate your target, that's what I did wrong. If you have a buddy or wing, go out with both of them and get your buddy to jump on the grenade. If you can't do that, try to sit next to the one you're interested in and kino them, while still talking to both. Long term goal: Take the easy option, and really fuck…
/r/seduction21/05/12 06:32 AM
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Yeah this is true, I was in this situation recently. I knew it was heading down that road, we were seeing each other a lot, and I found myself wanting to spend time with her and not with my other option. I got caught in my head for a bit, but realised I still should wait for her to bring the situation up, which she did. Now I was keen for an exclusive relationship there, however if the situation was different, if I was seeing her a few days in a row, and doing fucking cute shit like going for br…
/r/seduction19/05/12 09:54 PM
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I disagree slightly. I think its fine to assume that the relationship is casual until SHE brings up the subject of exclusivity, to which you then say whatever it is that YOU want. But yeah, then always be upfront, but you can wait until she brings it up.
/r/seduction19/05/12 08:48 AM
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yes yes yes
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:52 AM
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D'Angelo. Prince. The Weeknd.
/r/seduction18/05/12 07:58 AM
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Maybe its because you sound like a dick, no homo. Evidence. completely disregarding women as competent adults.
/r/seduction06/05/12 08:44 AM
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Yeah, I used to keep repeating "Im so awesome" but it actually works better if you ask "Why am I so awesome?" Its asking the right questions.
/r/seduction04/05/12 03:44 AM
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I like your posts man, you sound sorta similar to one of my good friends who is my wing sometimes, he is a natural that can grow a social network out of nothing in no time.
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:01 PM
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Im gonna steal some of your lines man, they are gold. I feel like we're either going to kill each other or have passionate sex. Honestly, I'm hoping for both." Fucking gold.
/r/seduction01/05/12 10:53 PM
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I think by dropping in a drug story or reference here and there in convo you can pick up if they are down or not by the reaction. If the girls are completely against...I dunno thats sort of a turn-off for me. I fucking love MDMA, a little weed, a little more other shit. Fucking love life yo thats what I say But I tend to attract girls that are down. Girl Im seeing now is was a big dealer in the day. Shit is off the chain. I think I like her too much but thats another story
/r/seduction01/05/12 10:29 PM
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fucking valium at a pool party ftw. Very true
/r/seduction01/05/12 10:25 PM
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I dig both beards and GFK. The beard fucking slays lately it has a power of its own
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:16 AM
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nope, obviously she will have some rules, respect them, then it should be all gravy, ya dig?
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:05 AM
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Just play it like you would normally. If she asked for your number and said she is in an open relationship, that means she is interested. Go on a date, escalate, close.
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:40 AM
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I'm just plain not interested in someone I haven't encountered outside of a 'dating' scenario beforehand. Sorry bro, you're just gonna have to change that. You can hide behind you're Aspergers all you want bro, but its not gonna do you any good. Your whole mindset is pretty shit really, you're using that as an excuse, and then blaming your friends for not wanting to have sex with you to help you? Shit man, it doesn't work like that homes. How about dating a girl you find attractive and pursuing …
/r/seduction23/04/12 07:12 PM
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This is really bad advice. Slut shaming is ridiculous in this community. Please don't do it. The longer you go without sex, the worse you get with girls, which isnt a bad thing. Um... what?
/r/seduction23/04/12 06:51 PM
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The points you are making in this post and your conclusions don't match. Just because there are a shitload of people in the world, and possible partners, doesn't mean true love doesn't exist. And what is true love anyway? Do you mean one partner for the rest of your life type shit? If that's what you mean, then I'm skeptical too, but fuck it if you're gonna say it doesn't exist because I have seen it. I have loved before and it ended. Does that mean it wasn't true? meet as many as women as you c…
/r/seduction23/04/12 08:17 AM
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This is how I've been doing it lately. Not talking can work wonders. You aren't required to speak. Yes.
/r/seduction23/04/12 05:50 AM
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Dont know why for the downvotes that was funny. But seriously though, who keeps safety scissors handy?
/r/seduction11/04/12 09:16 AM
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Yeah definitely bro, I totally feel where you're coming from there. I don't even fuck with girls who have boyfriends at all. In my mind there are plenty of single girls out there for me, minus that whole fucking drama. Its easy to bring that hurt that you feel from your own experience onto new relationships though, be careful with that. It can sorta develop into a self fulfilling prophecy. That being said, I fully agree with your last statement, I don't tolerate that behavior at all and do nothi…
/r/seduction02/04/12 05:52 AM
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Heaps of girls wont move out of a relationship until they find another guy. I don't necessarily agree with that line of reasoning either, but calling a girl you don't know a 'deceitful cunt' is a little strong don't you think? Choose your battles wisely, you're never gonna change that sort of behavior, security is a big thing for some women. Understanding is far better in this community than finger pointing and blanket judgement
/r/seduction02/04/12 05:34 AM
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Judgemental much?
/r/seduction02/04/12 05:17 AM
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Work on your self esteem. Its different from confidence. You gain self esteem from pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, doing things solely for youself and your personal growth. This will build a foundation from where you can grow this "unshakeable sense of confidence." IMO confidence comes from success. Often you get it after you need it. To achieve success, you have to push yourself to risk failure. Self esteem comes when you realize that the true lesson requires no success or failure, j…
/r/seduction28/03/12 07:46 AM
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Use silence. Keep eye contact, but if she says something, you don't necessarily need to say anything. Increases tension immensely. Tension is good. Obviously combined with all other types of flirting, if you just do only what I say you might look like a murderer or something
/r/seduction28/03/12 06:16 AM
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Which bar in sydney was it? Heading there soon, I love cocktails
/r/seduction26/03/12 08:15 AM
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I feel like, as a big drinker, I should comment. I used to think that it was the alcohol that loosened me up and helped me enjoy a night out. Its actually not. For me, when I would go out with friends, we would drink and have a good time. I only realized this recently, but all of the big nights I've had, the ones that I felt like i was just "in the zone" or the stories I'll tell my grandkids when they are old enough, those nights we were always so amped to have a good night, it was like we decid…
/r/seduction21/03/12 09:18 AM
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Yeah you got those points spot on my bro. Keep posting.
/r/seduction21/03/12 09:04 AM
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Do you know what roofies taste like?
/r/seduction20/03/12 04:57 AM
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Its all about emotional intelligence. What I do with negative emotions is ask a series of questions to myself in my head. This honestly takes seconds, your subconscious has all the answers 1) What emotions am I feeling? 2) Why do you feel this way? 3) What is the best lesson you can learn from this? 4) What is positive about this situation? 5) Forgive the event, let the negative emotion go 6) Why am I awesome? Try this the next time you get a blowout or rejection, and immediately go open someone…
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:55 PM
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Thanks brah. Yeah your point about being non-reactive, that's what I was telling myself in my head. I'm pretty big on emotional control, I just wanted to analyze that part because I know a lot of guys that have good game, but completely lose it when something like that happens. This is how you achieve outcome independence, by not letting these things affect you. Ill be throwing up some more FRs, my wingman and I have some big plans for this town.
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:48 PM
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I'm from New Zealand, wahine is the Maori word for woman. I think its also Hawaiian too.
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:45 PM
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haha good shit
/r/seduction19/03/12 10:10 AM
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Watch out bro those things have claws and most of the time they high as fuck on that menthol. Scary ass fuckers
/r/seduction19/03/12 09:42 AM
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I like your style bro.
/r/seduction19/03/12 08:28 AM
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Part 2 Thought 1: I need to bounce. Thought 2: Fuck. I cant let this ruin my night. Action: Go find N. He is trying to find us some beers. The party is wack. I tell N we should bounce to the Irish pub. He is totally down. I try to find T-Pain to say we are going. She is sitting by S. I say “ Yo T, we out.” Don’t even look at S. Im fucking angry but I don’t show it. Just blank face. Out the door onto the street, its packed people everywhere.I tell N whats happened he’s like, whoa sorry dude. I'm …
/r/seduction19/03/12 07:46 AM
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I didn't see this, listen to this man.
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:50 AM
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Just give her a nickname and relentlessly call her that until you fluke it, or be completely honest and say you cant remember.
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:44 AM
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Yeah its all in the frame. " Ive been looking for you guys, you should look after your friend..."
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:43 AM
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Yeah that's it, its attitudinal. Entitlement. Thanks brah. I'm a little different in that I'm normally too chill, although when I drink I can rock a party. I know what I need to work on though, I got some mad momentum going so I'm looking to really push myself this week. I'm psyched there are so many good posts today. Where are you from anyway your name intrigues me...
/r/seduction19/03/12 04:41 AM
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I routinely get shitfaced when I'm in the field This makes me feel a lot better. I fucking LOVE drinking. Doesn't hinder my game at all either.
/r/seduction19/03/12 01:10 AM
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Don't do anything differently you just need to do more, you need to escalate very quickly. You were holding that girls tits, that's a green light bro just do it. You have a good physique you shouldn't have ANY trouble take that as a compliment no homo
/r/seduction19/03/12 01:05 AM
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The trick would be to ask EVERYONE if they knew her, or where her friends were. When you do find her friends, you have just pre-opened a whole lot of people, so you can go back to anyone that interests you and be like " whoa that girl is definitely gonna feel it in the morning..."
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:45 AM
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I personally don't think sleeping with a drunk girl is rape but hey wtf make up your own rules. I guess it depends on how drunk
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:35 AM
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This is awesome, I have the same thing bro, its easy with the girls that are already attracted, but if I see a girl that's my type, maybe she's sorta alt (tattoos, piercings etc), or just maybe she's really cute I dunno, I sorta revert back to my old self. That's what I want to change, I want be that guy that goes after what he wants, and is not scared of it. This is inspiring.
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:32 AM
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Dude, first up, good Fr. Just one thing... I'm thinking I'll give it three days before I text her. 3 days is too long. That whole wait a few days thing is bullshit.
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:25 AM
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I'm not a rapist What would Im_a_rapist do?
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:17 AM
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1) Good wingmen are awesome. Not necessarily just for opening, but just being around naturals that are fun people keeps the state high. 2) St Patricks Day is fucking awesome. So easy to pull. 3) Open open open 4) I learnt I can come back from a shitty event that could have ruined my night, but I picked myself up, asked my wingman to pick me up a bit, he gave me a pep talk, then I got right back into it and had some sweet success. Gotta write up an FR soon.
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:01 AM
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Hendricks is the shit. I fucking LOVE martinis.
/r/seduction18/03/12 11:53 PM
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This is so boss...Good work
/r/seduction18/03/12 04:19 AM
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Unless I was already down to fuck you Thats the bet OP is making here. If the girl isn't into him, its not gonna work. But he's assuming she is, from the work he did on the first date...this is just a means to an end.
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:10 AM
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Yeah this is true, travelers are generally heaps of fun and have their guard down a bit. Plus if you plan to travel in the near future, you are opening up relationships that can help you when you do, its win win.
/r/seduction13/03/12 02:52 AM
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Yeah this one time, at band camp...
/r/seduction11/03/12 04:55 AM
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Troll the trolls. I'm serious though, calling a girl your wife and playing that whole roleplay does actually work.
/r/seduction11/03/12 01:29 AM
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Im for, have done it myself and it worked very well
/r/seduction11/03/12 01:04 AM
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Im so fucking "this" right now. I know because it does work, so so well
/r/seduction11/03/12 12:31 AM
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As a general rule, single mothers are undateable under any circumstances. Don't even sex them. Bullshit.
/r/seduction29/02/12 08:24 AM
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Saying 2 nights before would have been better than lying about it. If youre gonna lie about it, make it over the top, like 2 minutes ago or some shit. I always think its a good rule to never answer a question properly. I've got myself out of some hairy situations just by making up ridiculous answers to questions. Never be honest straight away, but don't lie because you fear the honest answer will scare her
/r/seduction22/02/12 10:55 PM
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Dude that shit is common as fuck. Don't worry about HPV just deal with it when they show up its no biggie.
/r/seduction22/02/12 01:39 AM
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just do what you're doing, it works. Over time you will become more confident when sober.
/r/seduction15/02/12 01:32 AM
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Fucking farmers markets man, shit is off the hook
/r/seduction31/01/12 08:26 AM
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right back atcha son
/r/seduction20/01/12 11:52 PM
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it works 1% of the time
/r/seduction20/01/12 11:34 PM
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Bro if your friends have game you have inbuilt wingmen right there...its a good thing. Go out together and study what they do you will be able to improve your own game and bounce off their success. Just change the way you view this situation to a positive one
/r/seduction19/01/12 06:42 PM
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yes.
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:18 AM
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do you ever want a fwb situation or you just cool with a new girl every so often?
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:18 AM
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dont hate the playa hate the game
/r/seduction14/12/11 08:04 AM
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just wash your dick in a sink you gotta think on your feet in these situations
/r/seduction12/12/11 03:29 AM
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Bro, well written, fucking spot on observations. Shit is real
/r/seduction08/12/11 06:20 AM
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Thats good you've used kino on your gf dude...
/r/seduction07/12/11 08:58 AM
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If you're a true baller, you'll get a whole eye fillet, and wrap it in caramelised onion and streaky bacon and cook that mofo till the bacon is crispy on the outside but the inside is pink as fuck. Serve with sweet potato mash my man and some grilled courgettes sprinkled with feta cheese. Shit is real homie. Also costs a fucking ton.
/r/seduction07/12/11 08:52 AM
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Great post, well spoken
/r/seduction07/12/11 08:43 AM
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This post was brought to you by the letter A for Adderall
/r/seduction07/12/11 07:46 AM
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Its anxiety man, re read the stuff about inner game and work on becoming the best you. If you feel anxiety about talking to a certain person, imagine them doing something really embarrassing, like spilling food on themselves, or farting really loudly. See, they are just another regular person. Even the hottest fucking girl in the world is a clumsy fool sometimes...imagining this makes it way easier to talk to them. Everyone is equal, any anxiety you feel about talking to others is your mind erro…
/r/seduction06/12/11 10:17 PM
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BTTW 4 lyf
/r/seduction06/12/11 09:01 AM
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Breathe fire out of your pierced dick and you'll be right
/r/seduction05/12/11 08:13 AM
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Its all about your thought patterns man, if you are not conditioned to think positively then you need to trick your subconscious mind by using affirmations and the like. It may take some time for you to actually believe this shit, but you need to just keep telling yourself you are awesome, keep telling yourself that you are a catch, that everything is good. Its second nature for me now, I'm constantly reaffirming how awesome my life is and I have moments everyday where I'm just in awe of this wo…
/r/seduction05/12/11 05:49 AM
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we decided to try and go exclusive I think that was your problem. You didn't decide to go exclusive, you decided to try to. Don't beat yourself up for this just be a boss and decide whether you're gonna tell her or not. Either way, guilt does nothing positive.
/r/seduction04/12/11 07:16 PM
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That's awesome bro Ima steal that one
/r/seduction04/12/11 04:16 AM
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Ima upvote this just because you said "fuck the haters" in the first fucking sentence
/r/seduction01/12/11 09:48 AM
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Nice. I like that "for now" touch. Ima steal that bro.
/r/seduction01/12/11 09:47 AM
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Its not you
/r/seduction01/12/11 09:45 AM
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Call girl, win, put your killer whale badge on, then drink the blood of your enemies from your trophy. Shit sounds pretty good yo
/r/seduction01/12/11 09:41 AM
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Yeah I'll jump on that bandwagon, is there any special privileges for this club? I can get some badges made...
/r/seduction30/11/11 05:37 PM
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Most crazy sex ever for me after that film. Shit is real
/r/seduction30/11/11 05:32 PM
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Good God bro, Secretary, yes
/r/seduction30/11/11 09:03 AM
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My man. We are oft mistaken for Australians, alas I'm from NZ brosef
/r/seduction30/11/11 08:55 AM
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Seddit brolove! Which country do you reside in? Mine is surrounded by sharks
/r/seduction30/11/11 06:36 AM
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I fucking LOVE coffee
/r/seduction30/11/11 04:42 AM
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You're good brah. We gotcha.
/r/seduction30/11/11 04:37 AM
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This is the only part of game I consider myself a natural at, probably honed by many years spent taking E at parties and having deep and meaningfuls with completely random people
/r/seduction29/11/11 05:51 PM
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I always try to have a slight smirk, and try to picture the girl trying her best to seduce me. You want to look like you know something about her and your sorta giving her a little shit for it subconsciously...I don't really know how to explain how to do it...I find if I actually think this then it will come across somehow
/r/seduction29/11/11 05:45 PM
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you don't even know how accurate that is
/r/seduction29/11/11 09:41 AM
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Get her talking about some emotional shit, listen well, eye contact. Relate to her story with something of your own, show yourself as vulnerable, then lighten the mood and get her talking again. If you can steer the conversation into something that means so much to her that she almost starts crying, then you know you're doing good, but you have to be able to bring it back up into something light hearted. Eye contact the whole time. Playful eye contact too, you don't want her emotions to take ove…
/r/seduction29/11/11 08:18 AM
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Try saying shit-testesque 5 times fast. I love meeting travellers you can go as hard as you want because they are leaving anyway...so there is no confusion, plus you leave another city open for your future travels...its all life, its all good
/r/seduction29/11/11 07:56 AM
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How to Have a Beautiful Mind-Edward de Bono
/r/seduction29/11/11 07:47 AM
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It would have been awesome if you had said "WTF get some glasses honey, I'm obviously a 10..."
/r/seduction28/11/11 07:00 PM
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Im just gonna throw this out there: I have been sorta noticing this lately. I've dressed preppy, smart, casual and g unit and lately I've been more of the latter, new era caps, sneakers, I always wear my shirts with the top button done up... definitely have been getting checked out more. Weird. I thought it was because I've become more confident, but it could just be the gangsta lean. I might try a little experiment like this too
/r/seduction28/11/11 04:42 AM
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Why are we even having this conversation? I was meaning the material not the jargon but whatevs man, if it bothers you don't read it
/r/seduction27/11/11 08:22 AM
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I think you already know. Talk about more emotional shit. You don't need to make it a rant, you can just say little stories, that get to the heart of the matter, show your vulnerability, then bring it back into something a little light-hearted after. You could segue out of a story about your ex breaking your heart right into telling the girl you are with she is a heartbreaker/player etc and say it would never work between you 2...straight away your back into teasing and banter again. Although ex…
/r/seduction27/11/11 06:04 AM
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I just think there might be a better attitude to go about this then the one that OP has. Are you so fucking arrogant as to believe that your way is the only one right way? OP said this was a theory he was working on. Also Keep in mind, this is a generalization. There are no 100 percent rules in this game. I don't think anyone here is coming at you with some "my way is the only way" shit. This is a pooling of knowledge and experiences to hopefully help others. That being said, what you said about…
/r/seduction27/11/11 05:31 AM
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Seduce him: If you don't want to be as overt as asking for FWB thing on fb, just casually ask him out for a drink then flirt like crazy. He should take the hint. Bat your eyelashes and bite your lip, that shit is fucking hot and it works like crazy
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:41 AM
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Fucking A
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:36 AM
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Its fucking awesome when you see them melting. I tried that triangular gazing shit on friday for the first time (im sure Ive done it before subconsciously) and it worked hard...I was trying to build tension so I did it for a few seconds and then I was going to fucking move closer like a boss but she interrupted my plan to go 90 when she went 100 and kissed me. Shit works
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:34 AM
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As part of the self-development courses and books Ive read over the years, Ive made it habit to always say ridiculously positive responses to mundane questions like 'How are you?' Even if you have had the worst day of your life, odds are there was at least one semi-cool thing that happened. So when someone says "How are you?" Ill say fantastic, great, awesome etc etc. Naturally they will ask why, and I'm pretty sure I'll find something to answer that question, even If I've had a really shitty da…
/r/seduction27/11/11 01:22 AM
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If you are a natural...good for you. The reason this sub exists though is to help those that aren't natural at this, hence the theorizing. There's a lot of jargon, but its not bullshit.
/r/seduction26/11/11 09:52 PM
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This is not going to help you: Dont watch Savage. I mean, the movie is shit, its horrifying, and I watched it with this cougar I was dating...I dont even know bro just dont watch that movie
/r/seduction24/11/11 08:27 AM
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Really? Trololololololol
/r/seduction24/11/11 08:20 AM
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What is on your bucket list/Tell me whats on your bucket list
/r/seduction15/11/11 08:40 AM
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go on more dates bro shit is craaaaaaaaaazzaaaaay
/r/seduction15/11/11 08:31 AM
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Word
/r/seduction15/11/11 08:14 AM
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That's conditioning for you. The way to get out of it is to condition yourself the opposite way. So that means affirmations. You have to do this for some time though, and receive positive reinforcement through your actions, but if you stick with it, you will realize that you deserve everything and anything you want. Try this affirmation "I am awesome, I deserve to be happy." Say it in your mind over and over, say it out loud into the mirror, write it on your hand. Over time, you will change your…
/r/seduction15/11/11 08:12 AM
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My man, my man
/r/seduction13/11/11 09:43 AM
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That's great bro, do another six. Who knows you may get a cheeky smile
/r/seduction11/11/11 08:51 AM
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liquid nitrogen, or if you wanna go all hippie/hipster on it, cider vinegar
/r/seduction10/11/11 07:21 AM
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Go out and fail more. If you're really that bad, you should be able to completely fuck up at least 10 approaches in the next week. Then tell us about the worst one.
/r/seduction10/11/11 07:17 AM
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pull her hair...seems to be some sort of sorcery I don't know how or why but it works
/r/seduction10/11/11 12:08 AM
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Yes, thank you
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:26 PM
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I clicked on this link then looked at my clock, it was 11 11am. Fuck thats some twilight zone shit
/r/seduction09/11/11 10:16 PM
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Don't listen to your friend
/r/seduction09/11/11 09:37 PM
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Dating is heaps of fun but doesn't necessarily imply commitment. I don't want another LTR for a while but if the right one came around and I could see it working then yeah, shit could change. Dunno about marriage though, it seems a little unnecessary
/r/seduction08/11/11 04:24 AM
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Word, I have a 3 year old daughter, its yet to be a deal breaker for me.
/r/seduction07/11/11 02:48 AM
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Ima throw a big 'word up' your way, that's some clever shit
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:33 AM
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Love Life Constant improvement Take the lesson Treat everyone like your best friend CTFO (chill the fuck out) Nothing really matters Give value Actualize yourself Fail better Own yourself, don't make excuses, own everything
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:18 AM
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yeah I do this fuck question marks for real. And exclamation points never use those !
/r/seduction03/11/11 04:54 AM
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oh shit bro, well you seem to have an answer for everything so, maybe just dont even try? You can have an amazing emotional connection with a girl on the first fucking date, have sex that night, never see her again and it still would have been a special experience for you. Or you could meet a girl, date her, meet her parents, fall in love, then take the time to explore your sexuality. Or any other variant in between those 2 extremes. But honestly, the best sex comes way after the first time, so …
/r/seduction02/11/11 10:21 AM
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I had the same fear, but the girl was so in love it didn't matter. That could be the case if you're just going for a quick screw, but dude, why you so caught up with what she thinks in that situation. And how do you know you are bad if you havent even tried it? You get into a situation you know youre gonna have sex, get your fingers down there, then go eat her out. Doesnt matter if you come in 2 minutes when u finally get your dick wet, its the fucking thought that counts. And it IS gonna be sca…
/r/seduction02/11/11 10:00 AM
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Yeah i was just rolling of his last sentence dude, but I feel that
/r/seduction02/11/11 09:10 AM
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I'm not gonna lie bro, I like the way you write
/r/seduction02/11/11 08:46 AM
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"keep my shit funky when I spit this braggadocios"-Method Man Sounds like you got your shit together man that's probably why you are having mad success. You know how everyone always says, you learn from your mistakes? Well I think that its not that simple, the biggest lesson for me is when I make a mistake, and then I do something right, and then I put those 2 together, and the success amplifies the lesson.
/r/seduction02/11/11 08:25 AM
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If you can get her to hit you/push you/punch you in a playful manner, then you can say "hey, we haven't set up a safe word yet"...that easily transitions to sexual conversation and also sets the frame for how kinky/freaky she is gonna be. You gotta watch out for those shy girls man they can turn nasty in the bedroom
/r/seduction02/11/11 08:12 AM
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Good shit bro, but I dunno if the future is looking positive, I just saw this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gmWWePoYHYk
/r/seduction02/11/11 08:06 AM
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In my rather limited experience, I find that opening the guys in a mixed set first seems to work pretty well
/r/seduction02/11/11 08:02 AM
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all lies it was the sparkly skin
/r/seduction02/11/11 07:54 AM
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You can't go past D'angelo for sex music, seriously, the whole album Voodoo
/r/seduction02/11/11 07:36 AM
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yeah I'ma steal this, plus, shoe shopping-yes
/r/seduction02/11/11 07:27 AM
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Bro, I didnt lose my v card til I was 21...ended up having a 5 year relationship with the girl and a daughter...we arent together anymore but hey it was mostly good, my point is, 21 is still young, and you are putting way too much emphasis on certain things. I understand wanting to have a meaningful first time with sex, but first kiss....man that shit is gonna be sweet even if you suck, like, fuck it, just do that shit. You are thinking you are gonna be terrible off the bat...ok with sex, probab…
/r/seduction02/11/11 07:16 AM
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I feel alcohol amplifies whatever mood you are in
/r/seduction02/11/11 05:50 AM
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I smash caffeine as hard as I do alcohol, you gotta beat your liver into submission, that way it don't give you no problems. I find that if Im drinking, with caffeine, like red bull vodkas, jager bombs etc I'm always on a really good buzz, lots of dancing energy, shit just pops off of its own accord.
/r/seduction02/11/11 05:49 AM
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The ice cream aisle at the cinema, then play dem bitches this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HmJbJs-9ST0
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:45 PM
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I dont know, I was in a pretty bad space a few months ago, and I feel there is a difference between 'low state' and depression. I can be low state but still be happy...I thought state was more about energy levels or did I define that myself? I think the biggest crutch is this high state mindset...Its easy to talk and pull when you're high state, but why cant you do it at any state? Sometimes I just want to roll at my low energy state, because I know there will be another opportunity around the c…
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:37 PM
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It starts off innocent, you're out with friends, someone passes around a coffee cup, nek minute, you're doing lines of instant coffee in a public toilet, brushing your teeth with red bull, shelfing caffiene pills
/r/seduction01/11/11 07:30 PM
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I know that shit just makes connection so easy but its like your dick didnt come to the party, it just stayed home and had an early night
/r/seduction01/11/11 01:37 AM
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what is the age rule again? Half your age plus 7? I dont even know whats appropriate, Im 27 and it seems like 18year olds are kiddies to me
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:39 AM
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Gold tooth, or silver? Fuck that go Kanye on a playa. Now that would be peacocking
/r/seduction19/10/11 08:29 AM
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balls as big as small dogs
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:39 PM
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i didnt mean read this sorta shit, I meant stuff like newspapers, blogs, books, just in general the more you read the more you have to speak about. But yeah I agree with everything else
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:34 PM
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read heaps, remember interesting things you read, bring them up in convo. It really helps if its something you are interested about or have an opinion you can passionately share. Other than that, you're at a halloween party, you can comment on peoples gears, ask questions about their costumes, where they got them from...or point out other people in the party " hey check out this dude/chick that setup is craaaaazay... " If you are going as a notecard you could easily spin that into getting number…
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:54 AM
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"ZOMG NONSTOP PICKUP LETS GO"- yep, Ima steal this, thats fucking gold
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:53 AM
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yeah bro hit that. She put her number in your phone without you asking bro...that's a pretty big sign.
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:26 AM
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just a quick question: how the fuck?
/r/seduction17/10/11 08:45 AM
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On that last note, I find that when I buy myself some new clothes, I feel way better about how I look. Also, when you have a negative thought about the way you look, dont beat yourself up about it, but use it as a reminder to say an affirmation. Mine is " I am one handsome mothafucka" Shit is real homie, it takes a while but you build up the confidence over time. Just keep doing it.
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:37 AM
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As I work a lot and I share custody of my young daughter, I only get 1-2 nights that i can possibly go out, so thats when I hook up with my friends and shit, so I have to game with them. Fuck, I went out with my Dad last weekend, he is the best wingman ever. Seriously. But I know, awkward dudes can be awkward...I think whatever you think is better for your game do that.
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:22 AM
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sometimes situational things can flow well, but I never can rely on my improv ability, so I tend to go with " so I read in the paper/blog/book etc" I read fucking heaps, so Ive always got conversational topics. You dont even have to pose a question when you do that, you just make a statement about something you read that you think is interesting and wait for what they say. Hope that helps
/r/seduction17/10/11 05:08 AM
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"do you have a pen?"- this, Ima steal this
/r/seduction17/10/11 04:40 AM
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this is a good post thanks cuz
/r/seduction16/10/11 01:16 AM
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ha same thing happened to me once with this hot, hot girl, I couldnt believe it man. She had a tongue stud and everything. Fuck.
/r/seduction15/10/11 08:53 PM
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I agree. I fucking hate working out. So I don't. The thing is, once you make a rule to something, someones gonna break it.
/r/seduction13/10/11 07:34 AM
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Mine would be similar to @n0c0ntrol, " If you think thats good, wait 'til you see how good I am at kissing.." Mind you, you have to be uber confident and say that while maintaining eye contact, probably would be good to disqualify her straight after but Ill leave that up to you. I did something similar in the weekend it worked very well
/r/seduction12/10/11 06:06 AM
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