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You realize we’re on the cusp of developing arrival intelligence which will accelerate reverse aging and biological immortality… also your argument sounds very bitter and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:46 PM
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What’s your dating life like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:42 PM
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What’s your dating life like ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:38 PM
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I’m saying it’s still expensive regardless. It’s cheaper but still expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:26 PM
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Can you make a new rule of preventing AI responses that are obvious and just turning this subreddit into dead internet theory ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:18 PM
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$3,000 is a lot of money with the way inflation and cost of living is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:04 PM
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This sounds like an AI, that you typed this up in 1 minute response.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 07:02 PM
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It really depends on people, I knew professionals married that ended with divorce. These are lawyers, doctors, dentists, accountants. A few hundred dollars is still a lot of money… plenty of people live paycheck to paycheck, I feel like this specifically is a bit out of touch to say it’s cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:55 PM
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Unfortunately no one is obligated to be honest and plenty of people do lie and mislead people. It’s moral to be honest, but you’re talking about the general public…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:23 PM
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I’m not saying getting married is a bad idea because of divorce. I have family members that are fine and married but have prenups. Unfortunately finances are a reality and not all of us can afford the lifestyle of getting married and divorced repetitively like a Kardashian.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:02 PM
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People do think getting married will solve their personal issues. This will not fix anything at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:59 PM
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Duh, I don’t lie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 05:55 PM
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Don’t take advice from 99% of Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 03:36 AM
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The only guarantees in life are death and taxes… also bad haircuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 11:51 PM
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Sex is just one aspect of human and biological nature. Violence, expansion, extermination of competitors, and drive for power are other aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:49 PM
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I disagree, Give a mouse a cookie it will want milk. Also what is a chad ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:28 PM
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This depends on the individual. I agree sex is not the most important thing. I had sex with a random woman on tinder right after a break up. The sex was good but I was not having an emotional good time. However as I got a bit older I realize that relationships like in dating are not the most important thing to me in life really. Neither is sex (yes it feels great but still not the most powerful thing to me feeling wise). The most important thing to me, is having meaning or purpose in life, I fou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 03:24 PM
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Nothing you said proves anything or disproves what I said. A hookup and a situationship isn’t the same thing… you know I just realized I’m truly on Reddit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:03 PM
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People who see someone, therefore a self confirmation bias. Or they will presence a niche of a sub group which is exactly proving my argument that is not broader culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:59 PM
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Not according to data
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:56 PM
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Self viewership bias does not replace data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:56 PM
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You do t need to be a historian or an anthropologist to see that Gen z men are looking to Andrew Tate for life and relationship advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:51 PM
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What the hell was that psychotic breakdown about your friend's imaginary sex life?! You just proved my point while sounding like you've never talked to a woman without her calling security
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:11 AM
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This still isn’t mainstream. Mainstream means broader culture. Gen z ≠ broad culture, broad culture is all age groups/demographics. Anime is still a niche. Now if you wiped out all demographics except for Gen z, than sure you’d have a valid argument. But that’s not the case. Not trying to be rude but are you Gen z or millennial ?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:45 AM
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Okay that’s still not mainstream in broad culture in the west which I’m talking about. I’m not talking about Asia
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:31 AM
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I’m not talking about hentai… that’s for weirdos, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 02:11 AM
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I mean brands these days are using average looking people these days besides attractive people. Also high end brand models these days tend to look rather peculiar face and are different from the pre 2020’s look.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:53 PM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7293001/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27480753/ Also asking nicely and respectfully please don’t call me bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:42 PM
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Can you elaborate ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:32 PM
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Yea “know a guy” is not an argument. I’d say the decline of hook up culture is not necessarily guys are less sexually empowered, I’d actually say it’s a generational thing of the culture they are raised in. Controversial what I’m about to say: Gen z men seem to on average to lack confidence, lack self dispcline, and self perseverance (Grit). Millennials have this to a degree too. However not as bad and broad as Gen z, and I don’t know what caused them to be this way culturally speaking…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:18 PM
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Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:06 PM
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Data is going a new direction. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/00315125221138395#:~:text=human%20participant%20protection.-,Conclusion,retrospective%20memory%20of%20program%20information. Also here’s a tertiary source talking about a meta analysis. https://www.zmescience.com/science/news-science/sex-sells-advertising-26062017/#:~:text=Sex%20in%20advertising%20has%20a,What%20is%20this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 10:03 PM
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60’s 70’s during the sexual revolution it was much more predominant in the broad culture. 80’s and 90’s it was not as much but still more common. It started to decline gradually and but it collapsed since roughly the mid 2010’s and a new generation aka demographic group are not hooking up that much and it’s more niche
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:55 PM
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Look at any commercials very very few these days in comparison to the past, magazine ads- nobody read magazines much anymore (also its much less sexual than the past) it’s all mostly digital, also this goes to my next argument social media ad- they have you’re data and selling to companies who than find your demographic and market to you customized based on your search’s and comments and likes. This a niche group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:52 PM
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You’re making my arguments it’s a niche group. not the broad culture. Niche = sub group culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:48 PM
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I have no idea what you’re talking about and confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:47 PM
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I guess if you mean an imaginary hook up culture as idiots of TikTok or instagram complain about making it seem huge… but in reality it really isn’t. Than I can agree with you on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:42 PM
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I feel like you’re not understanding what I’m saying. I’m saying the US does not have a hook up culture itself as the broad culture. Is there a niche group that has hook up, yes but this is not 60-70% of the us young adult or adult population.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:39 PM
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I did hook up a few times before, I’m not into one night stands anymore… too time consuming and little reward. I prefer non monogamy and dating multiple woman. Anyways this is not even an argument you’re making or disproving data of broad societal trends on hook up culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:36 PM
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Yes, but again you’re making my argument. It’s a niche group participating make an elite group who does. Just because we’re not pro athletes and talking about it that does not make us all pro athletes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:29 PM
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First sex sells culturally is not really a thing for gen z or millennials in main stream advertisement and mainstream media . It was true for boomers and gen x. If you mean sex sells in the sense of literally sex consumerism like porn that is completely different argument from hook ups culture topic we’re discussing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:26 PM
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That’s a niche culture not the broad culture of society and broad population I’m addressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:19 PM
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So EVERYONE who does pills and lines are hooking up ? Everyone is defined as every person. Therefore if every person on earth today just does pills and lines they will hook up ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:18 PM
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Yes this is a niche group are you and everyone else having The same experience? If not you’re making my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:15 PM
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That’s an exclusivity of a niche population not the broader population. The broader population is culture. You’re making my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:14 PM
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You just proved my point. If hookup culture requires 'meeting criteria' and being 'privileged to participate,' then it's not culture… it's an exclusive club. You literally admitted most people are locked out. That's not culture either, that's elitism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:13 PM
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That’s a niche sub group. Niche subgroup does not equal broad society. A culture is broad society and the broad population. You’re talking about a subculture which is a niche group not a culture which is larger population wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:06 PM
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Yeah, of course you'll see hookups at clubs and resort parties…those are literally designed for that. But that's exactly my point about it being a niche thing now. In the 80s and 90s, hookup culture wasn't confined to specific venues, it was everywhere. Now it's mostly relegated to these concentrated spaces while the majority of people aren't participating. A niche group of people is not broad society and broad population of 60-70% participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:02 PM
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That’s a niche group not a predominant part of society affecting 60-70% of the broad population of let’s say Americans. Culture is a predominant part of society affecting the broad population, sub culture is a niche culture affecting a niche part of society. My argument is Culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:02 PM
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I agree my generation but specific age cohort(I’m 33) had it better environment wise growing up. We were crude, not exactly pampered by teachers as much so (at least my school environment we didn’t give participation trophies if we sucked lol), also we didn’t have to deal with social media bull cr*p. Also personally I did martial arts at 11 to 18, and was a specific martial art environment that valued stoicism, self discipline, toughness and despised weaknesses. This was really a strong factor f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 12:17 AM
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I have a high N count. I’m risk adverse, take calculated risks, participate in community service, I enjoy helping others, had a 3.91 gpa in college. I think you’re making a broad assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 09:29 PM
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Uhh no, I don’t do romance it’s not my personality at all. I’m very nice and respectful to my partners but romance is not my nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 07:37 AM
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Lol I had a woman 12 years older hook up with me. Therefore she’s a predator ? I was 29 and she was 41.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 02:10 AM
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Well yea, but I had woman in there early to mid to late 20’s approach me from time to time, I’m in my early 30’s. I wouldn’t date someone unless they are like 24+ personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:54 AM
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Well yea, but a woman in Her early to mid to late 20’s do approach me from time to time, I’m in my early 30’s. I wouldn’t date someone unless they are like 24+ personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 01:51 AM
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This is not true. If I took al the guys complaining about this dating issue and took him back in time to the early 2000s and 1990s. They would still be feeling miserably in person when it comes to dating. Let’s not kid ourselves excusing bad dating life for getting into Nazism and Misogyny (which go hand in hand) is just lazy. If they embrace radicalism then likely terrorism is the next step... than they will get arrested and be imprisoned being segregated from society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:43 AM
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Oh okay never mind. Everyone ignore my example B it’s not MGTOW at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:09 AM
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Apparently example B is not MGTOW at all and my example was wrong. Example B is called an Eligible Bachelor lol. Ask u/Few_School2680 this is apparently what the case is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:09 AM
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I feel like you’re referring to the example A type of MGTOW. The type B MGTOW is a temporary type not out of low self esteem like type A but out of having an actual life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:27 PM
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Depends on the MGTOW. For example exhibit A: is it the mindset I can’t find woman and therefore I’ll keep myself happy and never talk to them again and focus on my self. I’ll be happy even though it’s not my first option ^^<sup>This</sup> one is just unhealthy and a low self esteem issue or got burned and is going about it the unhealthy way. Exhibit B: I’m not avoiding women because I can’t find one, I know I can attract a woman whenever I want. Right now, I’m choosing to focus on myself whether…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:21 PM
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You mean Gen z guy ? They have zero social skills, worshipping Andrew Tate, voting far right. Things that turn off a woman faster than anything else. Of course these guys will fail miserably. This is not all gen z men but a good chunk of the ones that complain about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:01 PM
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I think dating is getting easier for both genders. From my experience once dating apps became more mainstream back in mid 2010’s it got easier imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 06:30 PM
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What in the Eugenics did I just read ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 04:44 PM
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I think the height filter thing is an exaggerated idea, yes there are some people that do that but like 10-20% if I had to guess. I’m only 5’9ft and have matched with a few woman saying “6ft only”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 02:51 PM
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Yes and most guys have no self awareness and take crap photos thinking it looks good when it’s dog sh*t. This goes for most good looking or average looking, meh guys. I’m saying this as someone who sees so many sample photos of other guys on Reddit and holy Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 01:00 AM
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Looks aren’t the sole important thing, you have to she’s good photos. I know guys who have amazing photos and are not exactly male models who do very well on apps. Heck I didn’t have success in matches really till I started using good photos on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 11:51 PM
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There won’t be walls for either genders who have money in 15-20 years likely due tot he advances in biotech from ai advances in R&D by than.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 10:29 AM
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That’s false, if they have zero social skills then nothing happens. A cheat code would be born in to a 50+ million net worth family. Everything just becomes easier from what I read from education, jobs, dating, networking and then to bring able to afford to travel and do unique hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 02:54 PM
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I’d argue there is no such thing as friend zone. Either she wants you or she doesn’t. Usually the whole friend zone thing fizzles out with drama or resentment usually in a quick manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 05:04 AM
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men who don’t make their woman success the meaning of their entire existence meaning and actually have other things going on in life helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:43 PM
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This is not true at all, woman won’t flock to you just because your attractive or does it make dating easier you have to have dating social skills(different from genral social skills) and confidence. Lots of men seem to lack in these areas. Also To look your best, groom yourself, and exercise not red pill this is common sense and a universal standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:32 PM
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Interestingly being a loner is either three categories these days for example Category 1.) overworked and no social life out as a result. (Surgeons, lawyers in huge firms, people with multiple jobs to make ends meet) Category 2.) socially inept people (as discussed) Category 3.) lone wolf type (rare)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:09 PM
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Every girl I ever dated or had a fling with was all on dating apps. Heck relative of mine met her future husband on an app. I remember back in 2013 when it was considered taboo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:01 PM
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Lmao if you time traveled these guys who say that back to the 80’s or 90’s and 2000’s they would not be killing it and would be in the same position they are currently just without the dating apps ruined aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:56 PM
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They would have horrible odds, having met people like this In real life. They are usually bitter and socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:55 PM
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I think we’re more likely to cross paths with AI made by alien species who merged with their technology and live inside black holes or were able to to transcend to a new form of existence that our mere human brains can’t comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:38 PM
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I never “holla’d” at a chick. Not my personality. I just prefer meeting on dating apps that will than lead to an in person date at a bar. But I’m a millennial not gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 02:34 PM
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What are mainstream standards? Because I feel like this is entirely subjective by preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:01 PM
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I think an issue is as others outlined looking for a marriage partner mindset. I think it should be more dating mindset than it flows to marriage mindset naturally as time progresses. Otherwise it just comes across as Way too Rushed. I went on a few dates with different woman like this, it was just too much for me and felt pressured and didn’t go out again. When I go out on dates with woman who are relaxed and want to see where things go is usually where my relationships became more long term. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:54 PM
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Because you have guys who are outliers and skip college becoming rich. I know 3 people like this. They are very smart, hardworking, but got lucky to a degree. Remember that’s out of hundreds of people (who are smart and hardworking)I knew that’s a fraction as the rest are college educated or went beyond into professional school. Many people love to take outliers and make it seem like a norm. College is statically a better option if increasing your salary more than a high school degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:43 PM
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What you wear can change your body shape to a degree. For example I’m lean athletic build (think Cristian Ronaldo but average height) but when I wear a big baggy shirt I look like a skinny dude. When some of my exes or FB wore Black they looked thinner and their ass looked smaller (a lot of the woman I dated or had a fling are on the Cuvier/thicker side )
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:54 AM
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Gentleman she means like this. Take notes 📝
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:14 PM
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This generation of young men on average seem to have a skill issue. They never faced adversity at such a high enough level that made them bold. I blame the parents for this as they could have pushed their children to limits to be competitive and ambitious, but instead were stuck with emotionally immature young adult men these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:57 PM
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A temporary neurotransmitter high which humans pair bonding express and experience during the honeymoon phase of a new relationship. The marriage and “till death due us apart” is more of a cultural phenomenon, and not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 11:10 PM
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I see where you’re coming from. However it depends on how many partners someone has. Like if a someone and 3-5 partners only before marriage or a relationship the chances of cheating are low. However, if someone had 50 sexual partners…. That’s going to be an issue for them mentally to commit as the mass variety of partners likely does something to the brain and psyche when it comes to long term monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:18 AM
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I’d say it depends on the guy. I don’t look for admiration or lust from woman I date or casually see. Why ? I don’t care for external validation, my validation comes from myself and my own goals and accomplishments and self accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:04 AM
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Just curious do woman really compare her man to previous boyfriends ? I never compare my ex girlfriends, they were all good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:59 AM
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No, I gotcha. This is fair enough, I see where you’re getting and I agree with it. People should aim to be healthy as possible which involves grooming and exercising. However not just because you want to attract other people but mostly to take care of your mental health (self esteem) and physical health (age healthily and live long). I’m not into the misogyny aspect of the red pill. Which I think gets almost into extremist territory. Think of Andrew Tate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:27 AM
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Okay, you’ve got your views and I got mine. You’ve clearly had your world experience, and I have my own. Nobody’s changing one’s mind. Let’s just leave it at this. You’re Not convincing me, I’m not convincing you. Let’s just end this here .
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:18 AM
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OK, this is getting delusional. I see way too many looking guys with women who are average looking or good looking in dating or relationships (yes, holding hands) in Walmart all the time. Now is the world of pleasant easy place ? Hell no, it’s hard, Tough you need grit. Are all women and all men and woman: pleasant, nice, and not competitive ? Hell no, you have a mixture of people like this, welcome to the real world. Is everyone like this ? No So what is your advice to regular young men? Tap ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:05 AM
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You said this “Dating is B2B sales” this is true don’t be a creep or weirdo or be a motor mouth. Be polite (not a wimp), relax, and enjoy the moment. “,but in this case it’s person to person sales to be considered a chance a dating. Rules are still the same no matter the gender. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don’t be unattractive 3. Follow rules 1 and 2.” This comes across as you Must be attractive. You can’t be unattractive.” Now if you mean severely overweight, not groomed: bad hygiene like bad breath,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:37 AM
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Okay why are you bringing up something that was never part of the conversation? Answer my question Only attractive guys get dates and nobody average guy can ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:31 AM
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So only people who are attractive get dates and nobody average at all can get dates? Because that’s what you’re saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:03 AM
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Well nobody is going to listen unfortunately. Too many guys on here would rather blame that they can’t get a date with someone because they are not attractive enough. I’ve seen way too many average looking guys (who take care of themselves) who get dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:35 AM
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Philosophy is more broad in this concept. I feel like this is a reductionist approach to thinking about the world and approaching life hacks. The red pill is essentially an extreme ideology of the world that simplifies that woman are the enemy and reason everything for guys have it bad these days. It’s black and white thinking that will make you bitter, angry and resentful. Kinda like how Hitlers Mein Kampf the basis of Nazism ideology spouted by Neo Nazis and conspiracy theorists which simplifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:24 AM
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You don’t have to be attractive. There are people who are average looking and killing it. There is a homeless guy who is doing good (video below). He is average looking and chubby. Yet he still does good. Note he is met dating them he is hooking up. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmav517MQJc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 02:10 AM
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Yea this is just a dumb generalization post by OP. I’ve met both men and women who are egomaniacs. This ain’t a sex/gender thing this is a personality issue among a select amount of humans. IMO the internet created echo chambers that make men who make insane claims like these feel validated by men with the same view. When someone calls them out they get hostile and attack rather than listen to reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:45 PM
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I feel like this is overcomplicating things. Like when people try to do something like impress, seduce, or laugh it just seems obvious and not attractive. Of course there will be knuckleheads easy to work around with. I think people trying to seduce is just trying too hard. I’d say relax and don’t take life too seriously and have a good date. Of course dudes will have to learn dating skills like how to communicate properly but this takes trial and error. Unfortunately too many dudes these days w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:40 PM
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The red pill isn’t exactly known for its scientific contributions to mankind lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:30 PM
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Okay after this whole conversation. It seems that dating both got easier and harder at the same time. It’s multifaceted to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:27 PM
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I’d think this is more of a common sense thing for people in my age range. Gen z I have zero idea. If Hasan Piker is seriously the standard of masculinity than people need to touch grass and get off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:48 PM
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You don’t have to be 6 ft lmao. I’m 5’9 ft and went out on dates from woman I matched with on apps. You can show your personality texting (to a limit). Example: I texted for my friend when he started dating again after a long relationship ended and he never used a dating app. When I got him a date with a girl (he ended up dating her) he told me that she was suprised as he was different than than how he (me) sounded on tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:26 AM
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I mean there are so many to compare to that are a mainstream standard of attractiveness that are masculine like Brad Pitt, Jamie Dornan, Chris Hemsworth, Robert Pattinson. (No I do t look like those guys) but my point is now we’re making Hasan piker into those guys lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:32 PM
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3 is too little keep going. It’s a numbers game the more you go the greater the odds increase as you meet more people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:38 PM
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I don’t disagree with that meeting in person is much better. However time is an issue we only have 12 to 16 waking hours a day with work and other life things to address. Talking to a random woman or man could be for 30-60 minutes than they may not be single at the end or they may not have the same chemistry ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:37 PM
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Hmm I think we’re on to something here. Maybe it’s a combo of dating apps combined with gen z or younger millennials having bad social skills. I can see how that combo can create issues on dating app. Next thought experiment: if we brought our younger parents from the 80’s and they were in 2025 and Abel to understand dating apps and had the social skills from what they grew up with. Would dating apps be less frustrating and if anything an amplifier ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:31 PM
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Hasan piker is a new standard in masculinity too ☠️?! I guess our culture really did change with time… I always thought the standard of masculinity was more Clint Eastwood Are you Gen z or millennial ? Im 33 and im guessing you’re obviously younger ??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:51 PM
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Hasan piker is now a beauty standard for men ☠️ This is officially a crazy timeline
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:34 PM
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If I sent you back to the 80’s and 90’s with a Time Machine you’d think you’d kill it with the way dating worked back than ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:13 PM
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As a woman, if you were let’s say single and younger (not sure of your age or martial/dating status) today how would you navigate dating today? Or would it be the same as before (nothing different) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 06:06 PM
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Pictures must be good like professional level and not decent (had to learn this myself). Do you groom yourself and improve everything you can ? Like for example I’ve got to wax my brows in the center or I grow a unibrow. I use a medical cream on my face everyday or my face flakes (from some kind of dermatitis ?). I don’t need to lose weight as I’m quite thin, but if I did gain weight,I’d just diet as I run already. You get my gist. I like to see guys do good with dating today. Yes rejection happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:48 PM
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How are your pictures ? Also did you try using Instagram or Facebook ? Like dm woman on who is on a Facebook group ? Dating apps are only one tool in the arsenal you must diversify
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:42 PM
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Yes that was rough for you guys I don’t blame you on that. My age cohort didn’t have this issue we lucked out. Just curious Did you think dating in college was hard ? I remember it was pretty straightforward at the time but we had Facebook where we can post on people’s walls, I don’t know about now and if college students use dating apps when they are in a 10,000 student public university (they don’t likely need it imo.)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:39 PM
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Yes but you must push through the no’s and eat sh*t. When I first dated I sucked and had zero game and got rejected left and right yes this was back in the early 2010’s when I started. I improved myself through trial and error. Was it easy ? Hell no it took time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:17 PM
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Have you tried a speed dating forum meet up ? Also don’t do M4F that’s not the place stastically it’s too low. You need a high volume. If you use Facebook there’s Facebook groups and you can dm 1000 woman in one week with an opening after 52 weeks that’s 52,000 openings to 52,000 woman. Historically that would not have been feasible back in the 80’s or 90’s. Finally how are your pictures on apps, they have to be good not shit as 95% of men have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:13 PM
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Fair enough I see your point. How old were you back in the 2010 and 2011 ? I was an 19 year old and in college as a freshman and sophomore. Social media was definitely different than today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:08 PM
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I see what you’re getting at and I’ll just add on that Meeting people for example got easier if you look for a specific person you have subgroups of niche forums (yes people even met on Reddit subs). This narrows down to people that have similar interests and hobbies. Unfortunately people do judge on appearance more harshly thanks to expanded social media. But not every person requires a 10/10, but to be fair they don’t want an unkempt and ungroomed(no showers, smells, bad breath, I brushed teet…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:06 PM
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Essentially what This Redditor said ^
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:57 PM
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Apps are not the only thing, you have the internet to meet people there are niche spaces to meet in person like Facebook groups for D&D or cosplay, or historical art enthusiasts clubs yes those exist . You can dm people on Instagram. Rejection is going to happen but you can send out 1000 dms in one week. Stastically speaking after doing this for 52 weeks = 52,000 openers somone is going to respond. Now if your talking about game itself that is through trial and error. Thats a different topic all…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:57 PM
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what specifically made it worse for 99% of men ? If you can give factors
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:39 PM
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That’s actually a good spin. You gave me a Thought experiment: if we can time travel and let’s say take people today like Gen z and younger millennials, do you think they would do better with dating in the 80’s & 90’s ? Also to address your comment: the future of dating will likely be guys either doing sugar dating like you said, AI companions like in blade runner 2049 or Cortana from halo, and those that traditionally date real humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 04:37 PM
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