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Fundamentals CrazyRepulsive8244/r/seduction14/06/24 09:26 PM
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Fundamentals CrazyRepulsive8244/r/seduction10/05/24 12:17 AM
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The way things are looking man Las Vegas is a ghost town. Tourism is dead and people can't afford to go out. If things stay the same, where do you think Day game will be at in a year? Not even getting to mention night game. It'll either be dead or overflowing
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:21 PM
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Well I answered that in my other recommendation posts to you right after but social gathering and social proof is King right now in my opinion. Since everyone is socially awkward and socially starved since covid, if you can assume a leadership position and organize a group that would be an easy transition. Besides that, yeah dating online. And it seems the culture is shifting to workplace dating being more acceptable in my opinion as well.
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:20 PM
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My biggest tip for you to do something like this would be to secure a friend group or social circle with you as a high value male and then seduce new members. Dead serious. In this climate, social is in great demand and creepy face-to-face interactions are in low demand with strangers.
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:05 PM
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Well that kind of stuff is now old school man. And it's only dying instead of the opposite. You do better to learn something more modern in my opinion. Depends on the country you're at I guess. In the US the social climate is not built for day game anymore and it's only going to get worse. Just my opinion anyways. I'd say if you kept going for it, you'd probably have the experience you're looking for. I have maybe two or three times your lays, And the experience we're talking about has only happ…
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:04 PM
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If you have a question about something regarding women, you could try searching here or on Google with keywords. There's lots of gurus and stuff. If you can't figure this out, you have a long road ahead of you. Everyone knows you can find everything out on the internet
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:00 PM
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Study seduction theory and put it into practice for 15 years Eventually, while you're doing that stuff will happen probably
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:59 PM
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It's possible and I've done it and it happens all the time but it's not going to happen all the time to you most likely. This kind of stuff applies to most things in life. It's concerning to me. There's so many posts about stuff like this. Is it possible? Of course it's possible. The trick is figuring out. How do you do it for yourself. People pay good money to learn from people who have consistent results for a good reason
/r/seduction05/06/25 08:53 PM
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All you need is inner game. And decent social skills. It helps that average attractiveness. I've been very successful without ever doing anything like a cold approach. Not really anyways.
/r/seduction04/06/25 02:18 PM
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Your suggestion is a good one. However, many men will bark at the idea of spending money up front because of many reasons. But one of them is that many women are exploiting dating as a means of things. So many guys are being taken advantage of and are completely against the idea of spending much money up front if ever. That's their choice though. There really shouldn't be an expectation for women anymore to have money spent on them. If women want equality, it's time to have equal monetary expect…
/r/seduction03/06/25 07:53 PM
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Morality all over the world, but mostly in America is falling rapidly and polyamorous, swinger and cuckold relationships are more common than ever. Lots of guys get off on having you f*** their wives. I'm dead serious
/r/seduction22/05/25 08:15 PM
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You got to either man up and do it or live a life full of regret. Many people live their lives full of regret
/r/seduction22/05/25 05:50 AM
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Sounds like a good start. Now when you approach try to work up being more direct. Compliment their style or something about them like their beautiful smile and how they're positive vibe is lighting up the whole bus or something. Seriously. A genuinely given confidently delivered compliment is a great opener. You don't need to listen to these wannabe bad boys who say to never give a compliments or something like that. The balance is to not be a simp. You give and you get. And you stop giving if y…
/r/seduction22/05/25 01:04 AM
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Well. I don't know what you're looking for but atleast youre uh neutral about it all Unfortunately you never mention looking for something casual to a woman. Its generally a bad idea. No big deal though. I will add, since I don't know your general skill level, that at this point it is over. Very rare very hard to come back
/r/seduction22/05/25 12:42 AM
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It's fine. This is not a new situation. Quite common really. All you've done is a rather severe version of the game technique 'push/pull'. You pulled her in by entertaining her company, and then pushed her away. I wont get into the technique too much, but I know what I'm talking about so here's what ya do. now that you've pushed you've gotta pull. Her emotions are going to be obviously all over the place. Try to set up another thing to do with her within 5 days. Don't text her for 1-2 days, and …
/r/seduction22/05/25 12:04 AM
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They are probably judging you negatively, criticizing your style in their head, and wondering if you are dangerous to them. I'm not being mean, but this is how women really think. They see style more in-depth than most men, they have to worry about peoples demeanors and their safety and they factor in your appearance quite a lot more than men as well. Luckily that's a pretty easy set of opinions to change, if you care to
/r/seduction21/05/25 11:56 PM
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I just focus on myself and my hobbies and come back better
/r/seduction20/05/25 10:47 PM
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Alternatively theres many ways to trap a cat. Some people, like me, will never be this fun loving person. I'm more dangerous semi tall dark handsome type. If I tried to be this way it'd be obviously fake. You, like everyone says, gotta find what works for you. And if you don't know what that is just pick something.
/r/seduction20/05/25 10:39 PM
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I've pulled a handful of tens as a seven. I prefer seven to eights. Most of my relationships have been with a minimum seven. And that's just based on your opinion of her style.
/r/seduction20/05/25 08:58 PM
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Moving on has always been a go-to suggestion as long as I've been studying pick up for the past 15 years.
/r/seduction20/05/25 08:54 PM
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Or, alternatively, you could hate them. If you care about them very little they're easy to seduce as well. It'll end horribly of course, but who cares? You see it all the time
/r/seduction20/05/25 07:35 AM
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Just forget about that part and focus on something more tangible. Whoever you learned that from, is not applicable to you in this moment and not much in general . So focus on something better. Like how to be confident, funny and entertaining in conversation. By doing that you will have the same result.
/r/seduction19/05/25 08:39 PM
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Haha well your comment did make sense. Even people with a lot of money have different problems. I just personally believe it's much easier to get women when you have money because women are largely motivated by money.
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:47 PM
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Well if you're rich and can't get women then it's definitely a personal/personality problem yeah
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:44 PM
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That's just how it is. Work on your game and yourself the best you can. When you're older the urges go away because it's mostly just your testosterone. Once you get around 30 you care a lot less. Money is better than women
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:13 PM
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No problem and since you were so appreciative, I'll give you some wisdom that I learned. Women don't want to have a logical discussion. They don't want to learn about you. They don't want to get to know you. They want to live a fantasy. They want to be swept off their feet by a prince and take off on a fairy tale adventure. You are supposed to provide an illusion of that and the closer you maintain to real life the worse off you'll be in creating emotions. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:41 AM
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Here's another example of a risky opener. But it could work and it would work more often than just talking about their job. Hey are you a dog person or a cat person?? Her : I'm a cat person You: I hate cats. i HATE EM!! You would say. Very exaggeratedly in an obviously joking manner. There's some s*** she's never seen before. Not only do you stand out because you aren't going along with what she says like a simp, but you are definitely not hitting on her. You transition from there. That may soun…
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:37 AM
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No, I gave you an example of an alternative method. A catchy opener that creates engagement that leads to open discussion topics. Her tattoo is always talked about. Her job is always talked about. That's because uninteresting people that can't think of things to talk about always talk about those things. That's why you'll never be interesting talking about those things. Unless they're already interested in you and then they will have ulterior motives that will overlook the lack of interest. Your…
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:34 AM
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Another problem is that they're just not interesting people. And that's many people these days. That's why your questions have to lead to something interesting instead of finding out more about them because there's nothing to find out.
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:10 AM
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Imagine that someone is asking you those questions. Are you interested? Personally, I'm annoyed. I'm annoyed by those basic ass everyday can opener questions that get asked every single time I have to talk to somebody new. And I don't even have to talk to hundreds of dudes a day. If you think of something to say and you think somebody else has probably already said it, don't say it next time. Try to come up with something completely original and see how that works.
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:09 AM
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You always want to ask something that requires a response and isn't something everybody says to them every day. To be truly skilled at this is to be observational and topical. You would ideally use her appearance, demeanor or environment to create an observational topic. Thats for you to figure out. Hard to give an example but ill give you an example of something better than that to say. Hey whats your name? Great nice to meet you... I'm considering doing an open mic on Thursday. Can I run a jok…
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:42 AM
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You could start by asking something more interesting. Why are you putting the blame on their response? What would you say?
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:14 AM
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Nah nobody will want to date you really, its still considered embarassing. Sorry thats just the facts.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:00 AM
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Well it did and I was there for all of it. I guess you must be young. Or just not paying much attention. Before the internet and social media, human interaction was much different. I'm just going to leave it at that and if you can't understand how that changed things than it is what it is
/r/seduction18/05/25 02:27 PM
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The hook is something that would stop them from leaving, in some cases. In other cases it is something so interesting that it makes them curious enough to give you their time. The first one would be, like.. Riding around on a long board. See a cute girl you like. Ride over, say hey can you take a picture holding this? You'd look great with it .and physically hand her the long board. Take the picture and refuse to take it back, so she's stuck in the conversation. Maybe you could call that one an …
/r/seduction17/05/25 06:57 AM
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The game is outdated. You're around a decade too late. No big deal, it's evolved from that time. Just learn modern game with the same spirit. And yeah read the truth. Being a PUA isnt really that great in the end
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:57 AM
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You don't always have to have sex to be successful. Seduction can be a multi stage game. Plus with enough experience, situations like this may become the norm instead of a rarity. Now that you had this success, perhaps you see her again, or her friends. Maybe a girl at that club sees you again, anywhere. And now they have that positive impression of you. It could work to your benefit. Even if you don't, you have that experience to pull confidence and positive emotions from, for the next time. Ne…
/r/seduction17/05/25 02:59 AM
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You're gonna hate it
/r/seduction17/05/25 01:49 AM
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Dming these days is more normal than tracking her down irl you must adapt to the times, the second one will come off badly due to the current world state dm her 'Hey, I was looking through old photos(make something up?) and it made me think of you. I was just wondering how you've been?' A very neutral friendly opener you can sense the vibe off of. You can then lead her to mentioning her bf and transition to flirting if you think itll go well.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:38 AM
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Chivalry and Old fashioned manners are going out of style and women find them more charming than ever. its easy to do without being seen as a simp if you have no confidence problems. Being a good host depends on the culture of the person you are hosting, but a few things are generally accepted by everyone, and some things ill mention are specifically best for women. When somebody enters your home and is a stranger, or lets assume for these examples you are in control of the environment, like a b…
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:36 AM
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The best way is to treat them like a typical human and ask them questions that are related to getting to know them as people before talking about sex or seduction. It's really that simple, you just treat them like a new person you are trying to befriend. Having knowledge of how to be a good host helps as well, if you're at your place/a friends place. Most people dont know this stuff i guess though, based on my experience. Might be due to the company I keep and the area im in though.
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:27 AM
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I agree with the other poster. But also my comment on it is it's mostly luck, circumstance and vibe. If your vibe is good, or will attract more encounters. This comes from inner game. If you go out 100 times you may have a good encounter 0, 8, or 100 times. This is completely out of your control except for the vibe you put out, and the actions you perform throughout the night. That's why a lot of deductions revolves around social things, because that creates opportunity. If you want to harness t…
/r/seduction15/05/25 03:59 PM
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I agree with the other poster. But also my comment on it is it's mostly luck, circumstance and vibe. If your vibe is good, or will attract more encounters. This comes from inner game. If you go out 100 times you may have a good encounter 0, 8, or 100 times. This is completely out of your control except for the vibe you put out, and the actions you perform throughout the night. That's why a lot of deductions revolves around social things, because that creates opportunity. If you want to harness t…
/r/seduction15/05/25 03:58 PM
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Well what I'd also recommend is playing it safe for maybe 3 to 6 months. I don't know how long you're there for. So that you can establish yourself in a good way, and that way if you mess things up, people will already know your character. It's also best not to be super sexual and to start out making real connections as much as possible to avoid this. If you see an attractive girl and you want to talk to her go ahead but I'm just saying all this because some guys on here have no idea of how to b…
/r/seduction15/05/25 03:32 PM
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Yes I had my most success during that time
/r/seduction15/05/25 03:16 PM
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You should use this opportunity to get the results you want socially. I was in your same situation. I moved to a small town for college. I use the opportunity to go by a different name and try to seek out the results. I think I deserved in my previous location. It worked rather well. But requires a great bit of social intelligence I suppose to make it happen. You should start off by by getting to know the lay of the land and the people. Become familiar with the hot spots in town where people go …
/r/seduction15/05/25 02:23 PM
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Fuck things up and you'll have to move again
/r/seduction15/05/25 02:01 PM
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Older women are more jaded and any woman single after 28 has issues
/r/seduction15/05/25 12:16 AM
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It's way easier to get younger women than older.
/r/seduction14/05/25 04:34 PM
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She lost interest because you were talking too much so talking to her more won't help, no 10% chance it's something else
/r/seduction14/05/25 06:02 AM
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No these guys don't actually seduce women they just talk shit Nice report
/r/seduction12/05/25 04:00 AM
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Maybe if you look on meetup or eventbrite websites in your area you could find small classes for massage. I dont have any youtube channels in mind as I went through all this a handful of years ago, but what Id recommend is just search what you want to learn 'foot massage, back massage' instructional videos. and just go off of those theres plenty.
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:50 PM
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Its better to watch youtube tutorials online, and then practice them with women as a conversation piece. That's worked for me, I dunno how good I am but the women don't complain and the only other way is to attend classes afaik. If you pay attention you will learn the massage types, what the differences are, pressure points and what they do and those are also great conversation topics during a date.
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:27 PM
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Well it doesn't really matter much. In the end, all relationships with women are transactional. You will be really lucky to find a woman who wants you for you. Like soul mate lucky. This is just reality and with that in mind, I'd say picking one of them that you like even if her intention is to lock you down for her own benefit might not be the worst thing. It all depends on how she treats you. If she ends up being perfect wife/girlfriend material but her main motivation for starting something f…
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:26 PM
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Download all the dating apps and make them come to you
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:05 PM
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Don't ever give your money to a woman without getting sex, that's how you end up in a Findom situation. But a lot of guys are into that these days it seems
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:00 PM
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It's pretty obvious. The majority of these women will see you as a way to escape. Not just war, but subpar living conditions. A lot of the world still lives in conditions we wouldn't consider so modern. The fact that you're good looking is just a better deal than you were hoping for. You gotta think. There's plenty of men closer to her. What intentions would a beautiful woman have in order to be motivated enough to ignore all of them... And invest in a man thousands of miles away. But sure, you …
/r/seduction11/05/25 08:56 PM
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Women don't find most men attractive. That's why you're all here learning seduction. Otherwise you'd be on a grooming sub and stop at that. It's your job to make them attracted so as long as there's women, that's all you need. Thinking 'if I'm ugly I'm fucked' is literally the opposite to this entire subreddit and is crybaby quitter behavior. But that's what this sub is, largely. Failed men too poor to be passport bros who just talk about looksmaxxing and don't actually go outside.
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:36 PM
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ok incel. so a small town in south dakota will work for me just as well as los angeles? fix your negative mindset
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:15 PM
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Well she doesnt go out a lot so she is probably a 'good girl' type. Seems innocent. I agree taking her to a bar but you should be more emotional about this. She would probably benefit from a connection of sorts first to feel more comfortable especially if being promiscuous isn't her usual vibe. So I'd invite her for a walk around a park or a lake or in a city around 5 and then when things go well suggest going to a bar for happy hour around 6 or 7, maybe a cheap meal before drinks, and from ther…
/r/seduction11/05/25 07:13 PM
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Cold approach is anytime you start a convo with the intent of seduction without any prior relations. Meeting a girl at a club is still cold approach if you approach them to meet. Usually you don't have to approach them to end up mingling one way or another.
/r/seduction10/05/25 05:12 PM
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It's 50/50. 50% of it is natural selection weeding out the weak. The other 50% is societally induced anxiety.
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:51 PM
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Congratulations. You're normal
/r/seduction08/05/25 05:46 PM
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Maybe she's testing you. Or she's bored, or she is busy with her other man. It sounds like you still have fairlytale expectations? She's probably getting railed by some other guy. Always assume that. If you want any claim to her get her in a relationship. Since you can't do anything about it don't worry about it? Either she will turn up or she won't.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:50 PM
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When OLD started and I was 19-25 I was pulling like 5 chicks a week, on average. Now its complete opposite. Maybe 3-5 if I try every day. I am the same person, if anything I look better. It's rigged. And it's causing self esteem issue for men. we're all cooked. you gotta be above the psychological game these days too.
/r/seduction08/05/25 02:12 PM
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Why bother? Why bother with any of that when you can just get rich. Instead of spending money on protein powder and gym passes, just start an overseas telemarketing company by putting aside 50% of your burger king wages for 6 months. If you're right enough it doesn't matter how fat and ugly you are, you can date women of all ages and beauty.
/r/seduction08/05/25 04:52 AM
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I really don't believe when men say they get a lot of matches. I believe it's mostly location based for them. I live in a big city and I get lots of matches but only if I use certain apps. Dating apps are rigged these days, like a casino. The house being the app developer. The only way I recommend making them work is by doing what I've always done which is message as many people as you are allowed to a day and work off the responses you get.
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:53 PM
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your insta sucks or looks bad, obviously. link it to me in a dm and ill see if theres something wrong with it
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:47 PM
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The biggest thing I've learned regarding this is people are so different and going through their own stuff that pretending to know what they'll do or how they'll feel/act is a waste of time. Skip the trouble and just approach. Good luck
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:56 PM
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Sounds emotional and irrational. I don't see how those things are related but trust me I've never been good at that sort of thing. I think most people would find your reaction odd. It's odd how you felt the need to mention that to me. In psychology they call that an emotional dump'. Have you considered a therapist? Most people online will not understand your situation and may assume you are spreading a falsehood. Anyways this isn't that big of a deal
/r/seduction07/05/25 07:07 PM
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You guys sound really sad constantly asking for signals, signs, gestures, ect. That's not how life works, and it sounds very feminine. I'll just be real with you. That's the truth. The truth is people are so different and especially these days, socially awkward. You see something you want, you should go for it. Anything less than that is just you failing. Looking for a good reason or justification to make yourself feel better about it is just looking for an excuse. You'll know really quick if yo…
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:53 PM
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Sex is fine but oral? wtf And if anybody does something with you they do it with other people. People are rarely special in any way.
/r/seduction07/05/25 06:48 PM
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I have been observing this in my life for years, so I can speak on my experience. Social proof is NOT important but VERY useful if you can apply it. For a small example from my experiences, I went to nightclubs for many years. About 8. For the first 4, I was a nobody. But I was still me, so I still had experiences which were pretty great. For the last 4 years, I was top dog. I was very integrated into the scene, and everybody knew me. I was a bit of a mini celebrity. I would walk into places for…
/r/seduction05/05/25 08:37 PM
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You will never be pursued by women. they just don't do that. So forget about that. You as a man will always be the pursuer no matter what, outside of dumb luck and rare occurences. brad pitt or whoever is the modern male figure these days also barely gets approached. if youre having bad results get higher numbers. you should be talking to atleast 30 women a month. ideally more, if you're serious. if you're good at what you do, you should be able to secure atleast 10 numbers from that pool, date …
/r/seduction05/05/25 08:33 PM
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If someone is that shy at my age, it's already a no go
/r/seduction04/05/25 11:10 PM
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Yeah maybe that was the wrong wording to use. I haven't had to deal with a woman withholding anything I wanted sexually in a while. I attribute most negative female behavior to some sort of unsatisfaction in the relationship. The reason being that it's almost impossible to completely satisfy a woman, especially without being very knowledgeable in all the aspects required. So by default most men fail. This is observable in most modern marriages. We can just get past that though. I'll assume that …
/r/seduction04/05/25 01:02 AM
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Weak femboys down voting you
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:39 AM
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Most women don't mind being a mistress. Some even seek it out. You can't tell though. That's dumb to think there's some sort of signal. There isn't a clear sign for most things in life, you make your way. I had three girlfriends at one time who all knew about each other so I guess they weren't mistresses. It was more of a typical polyamorous relationship. Id say it wasn't any better. The only thing I got out of it was when you have problems with one you can get emotional comfort from another one…
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:37 AM
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Women will voluntarily go celibate for years and not think twice.
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:59 AM
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That's a pretty good response. Because it's neutral and depending on how you said it, didn't really give a reaction. Whatever emotion her comment made you feel is probably how you sounded. Tonality could make that sentence sound different in a few ways. Just something to consider. Anyways, women dont want sex most of the time. It's your job to make them want it. Tease them, excite them. Over the course of a day, in preparation for the night. A lot of it can be subtle, playful and physical but al…
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:12 AM
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sounds like a shit test, most women dont want sex the same way men do. some do, most dont. so its a useless piece of information meant to elicit a response aka a shit test
/r/seduction03/05/25 04:06 AM
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The funniest part is a woman would never write something like this. They would never take the time to self improve themselves or reflect on their shortcomings enough to come to these realizations. Women are funny like bots
/r/seduction03/05/25 12:52 AM
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You probably look weak. This doesn't happen to me because of how I come off to people. If go to the gym they'll probably respect you more for example.
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:04 PM
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online dating usually, i dont go out irl much as im too busy
/r/seduction30/04/25 03:04 AM
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Its best to be talking to 2-3 women at once to prevent this. Works for me.
/r/seduction30/04/25 01:47 AM
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YOULL NEVER BE ATTRACTIVE ENOUGH TO MAKE WOMEN APPROACH YOU CONSISTENTLY stop pretending life is a movie and join us in real life
/r/seduction30/04/25 01:41 AM
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You guys focus so much on looks you sound like girls
/r/seduction24/04/25 02:17 AM
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Women rarely seek to improve themselves. Usually it's only to get what they want. What does OP want, then?
/r/seduction19/04/25 07:04 PM
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You have to provide value. Most women provide little to no value, so the only value they bring is sex. The relationship dynamic is very skewed wherein the man has many more expectations to fulfill
/r/seduction19/04/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah man. A big part of seduction is safety and comfort. Always be willing to escalate, but it's not always necessary to escalate. You just need to show you want her sexually. But you are in a prime position right now if you have a little patience while showing sexual desire. If you have any questions about that let me know.
/r/seduction09/04/25 05:28 PM
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Forget about it. It's either a test or she has something she's anxious about. Either way it's minor You can convince her in person
/r/seduction09/04/25 04:59 PM
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It's good to get her comfortable coming over to your place if you have that type of dynamic ... eventually she will be there as much as you let her. They're like cats.
/r/seduction09/04/25 04:52 PM
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Interesting to see your opinions on how various methods have fallen off. I studied seduction on sosuave.net forums starting around 2008. What do you think about using text game and body language/frame control to DHV or has the idea completely fallen off? Has the idea of DHV simply shifted to being a masculine male? What do you think about text game now? I know it was generally regarded negatively overall on the past. Cheers
/r/seduction08/04/25 09:50 AM
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These dudes just don't get women
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:56 PM
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no
/r/seduction25/03/25 03:32 AM
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Well, it certainly becomes less of a factor. I'm 31 now and I have zero friends and nobody my age I know has any either, and I'm sure it'll get worse. As far as 'call me on my day off and hang out all day' kind of friend. Of course people my age have friends, but it's not like it used to be and I know it's not just MY experience... Anyways, In the past 20 years I've had hundreds of experiences so of course I'm calmer. I'd be calmer regardless of who is around.
/r/seduction20/03/25 04:33 PM
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So? You trying to pretend or what? If you're serious, be serious. Just try to make it work on a style that works for you. It'll work better for you than if you fake being a clown. I'm serious too and it's never been a big issue, though maybe I'd have been more success with flirtiness and humor. I often think of clever things to say after the matter, which is useless. So I'm working on being more clever, witty, sarcastic in the moment instead of honest or serious. By thinking about it and trying …
/r/seduction20/03/25 11:02 AM
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Just another example of two people unequipped to have a non emotional relationship, falling into an emotional relationship. The fact that neither of you can admit this shows low emotional maturity. I'm sure it will end badly. Stop going for FWB if you can't live the lifestyle. It's not for you and high value men will see you as lower value in the end.
/r/seduction20/03/25 08:44 AM
1

Its better not to worry about what other people do because theres too many people to figure it out in a reasonable amount of time
/r/seduction20/03/25 08:03 AM
0

Maybe try a flashlioght as well. It's a better way to Masturbate while avoiding Death grip.
/r/seduction19/03/25 03:40 PM
2

It would but you need to figure out your erection problem because women don't like that at all Stop being addicted to porn it's very bad.
/r/seduction19/03/25 02:28 PM
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First figure out how to get hard. Then take your stuff penis and stick it, touching to the top of the vagina, where the clitoris is. Apply gentle but firm forward pressure, keeping in contact with the vagina. Move down the vagina towards the bottom until you start to enter the opening due to the pressure. You're in. Move back and forth to lubricate if dry and the rest will go in. Id recommend saliva or lube on your penis before step 2 for easier entry. I only wrote this because nobody else did. …
/r/seduction19/03/25 12:45 AM
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It's your life. And your soul. I can't talk about such things online. But I can tell you that I did seduce over 100 women. Now I don't have any women. I don't want any. They're trouble and would just keep me from meeting my goals faster. They're a burden to me, Instead of a benefit. It's better for me to be solo right now. Women can't keep up with me. I have plenty to show for the 15+ years of seduction study. I can get any woman I want, and they are all super predictable to me. Probably why I'm…
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:49 AM
1

I was a man of darkness for most of my life. During that time I seduced many women. Now I've sworn an oath to God, and try to live by Christian values. I am not perfect however and do not attempt to be Essentially I'm you, but my journey has completed. Now I don't bother with women much, And when I do I engage with the idea of a relationship. But I got it out of my system and now live with no guilt over my decisions.
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:09 AM
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I am religious, in my own way. It's a long story, but I am a Christian yes.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:55 AM
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Well sounds like you're at a crossroads. Personally from that explanation Id advise you to give up on religion, because you don't see to be that serious about it. If you go to church just to hook up you aren't there legitimately and they could possibly tell. If you have reservations about committing to your faith you probably will eventually give in. So just give in now and get it over with and hopefully out of your system, like I did. However this is risky advice because if you believe in the B…
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:54 AM
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And what I mean is either live in sin or live in God's image. Stop pussyfooting around and be a man about it.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:46 AM
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I mean you know it's wrong and you're trying to convince yourself to do it anyways. That's called temptation, which the devil uses to get you to sin. All these justifications in your head are the devil leading you to sin. The constant battle of man is to avoid sin and live by the Bible. Assuming you are Christian anyways, based on the stated beliefs in your post. Anyways, you should know all this. But most people in the modern day won't tell you to your face unless they're a pastor.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:45 AM
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Seduction and Piety don't exactly go together. You are falling into sin, and trying to justify it. Either own up to it or forget about it.
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:25 AM
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Wow man. Really? You're older than me. Why are you still messing with kids? I dunno about you but I'm an adult now. Showing up anywhere at 4 am black out drunk at 30 years old with no phone? Is that what adults do? Sounds like a party girl that never grew up. Just had one of those myself. It was pretty lame, felt like I was 18-22 again and dealing with all the shit that entails. But she was 31? 33? Anyways, women like this are drama and trouble. I know from experience. The age being so high ampl…
/r/seduction17/03/25 06:57 AM
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She is using you for emotional validation, Google PUA tips emotional tampon. Waste of your time. Exes are exes for a reason, and you're playing this like shit. Your texts back might seem normal to you and they are but if you believe in seduction and woman psychology it is a mistake. By responding in the way you did you gave her what she wanted (validation) with no requirement or effort from her (qualifying). This will make a woman less interested long story short because you make it too easy. Wo…
/r/seduction17/03/25 06:23 AM
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No information. If you want advice you have to post relevant info, like people say. Anyways, I'd assume you're getting close to 30 years old. Enjoy!
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:50 AM
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If youre on a subreddit full of knowledge and still can't find the answer, you probably never will.
/r/seduction17/03/25 05:24 AM
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No. It's disgusting, masculine and trashy. Ghetto bitches are gross. They'll negatively impact your life.
/r/seduction17/03/25 01:13 AM
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Worry about something important. fuhgeddaboutit
/r/seduction16/03/25 08:52 PM
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It's mediocre. I've been to Vegas around 20 times, most of the women are sex workers, in very big groups or with their husbands. if that's your scene, enjoy. Sure there's groups of 2 or 3 women, rarely though tbh. But also a lot of the. Are ugly. good look finding a 1. Hot 2. Approachable realistically 3. Non sex worker woman Just my experience, it's overrated AF. Different story if you have 10-30k $$ to blow. Much different story.
/r/seduction14/03/25 01:59 AM
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Feel free to ask anything
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:01 PM
2

I didn't really go for game the entire time. That being said, I ended up with about six different women and a couple dozen. I'd say other experiences that branched off from the social networking that came from the club. Personally, the club's in my area are super packed like shoulder to shoulder and super loud. The only place to talk is the smoking section and that's where I ran game. The real game comes from making friends in the smoking area and then navigating to after parties which is where …
/r/seduction10/03/25 07:00 PM
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Lol that is chasing bud. Because heres the question, is she doing all of that? Or is she just existing? Nope only one of you is doing all that work. Whatever you wanna tell yourself lol
/r/seduction08/03/25 03:27 AM
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You are just describing seducing vs being needy. If you have a girl who is attracted to you and you don't do anything nothing will happen. You have to make it happen, that's the chase. However efficient you do it is another story. So basically you do agree.
/r/seduction08/03/25 02:56 AM
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As a person who spent 10 years gaming in clubs, I can attest to this. If you know how to dance you are instantly showing high value. People will watch you, be impressed, make room for you. Other women that know how to dance will approach you, and it can lead to easy physical escalation. However I never really learned to dance. I did learn how to 'move' well enough to the beat, like everyone else that I was complimented a few times however. I think an important lesson is that you don't need to be…
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:27 PM
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Men that dont chase would in a more natural world, fail to reproduce and aquire mates. Women wanting to be chased is biological. Women chasing is unnatural. And the opposite for Men is true. You might not like that, or agree. You may point out the differences in reality that youve seen. well, those people may manage but they are most likely unhappy. Just because it works doesnt mean its good. Look at the divorce rates. Just my opinion. You want women to be more 'seductive' so that opportunity pr…
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:14 PM
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Most women don't want to fix a man. That's a stereotype from media. Most women just want a man that has something they can benefit from. The bad boys dont need to be fixed to attract them, theres many other factors. men that game using emo style tactics sometimes draw the fix it type woman. The reason why is because they have emotional damage.
/r/seduction06/03/25 02:53 AM
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Instead of looking for signals, start small and go bigger until they reject you. Then, back off for 30 minutes or so and try again when the mood is at a high. If they reject you again I would personally shut it down at that point, and push/pull.
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:38 AM
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that was dumb. you did what most consider a 'cardinal sin' by 'double texting' which generally implies you are over invested and emotional, like you are. You never want to text and ask them out of the blue. you always want to try to get a fun convo going or a situation like that pinky touch and ask them out during an emotional high. For the most success anyways, you can do it normally too and have it work out of course. But double texting at 10 pm is not it lol. idk how long ago you sent 'not ba…
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:20 AM
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50/50, or she'll make you wait because she knows you'll expect it. This is actually a good moment to gain a piece of info. If she responds before, she's not gaming. If she doesn't, she is actively gaming you.
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:18 AM
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Also asking her out at around 10pm at night with no opener is awful if thats what you did indeed do
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:03 AM
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i am interested to know what she says. I predict it will take her over 2 hrs to respond, up to 2 days to respond, starting in 8 hrs (because shes probably asleep) and she will have a flaky noncommital answer.
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:02 AM
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women can tell a lot from a text. and the thing is, even if they cant accurately do so, they will usually attempt to. through the power of assumption. thats why its best to craft your texts in a way that dont convey unintentional emotion or things that can be interpreted multiple ways. that is also why texting is recommended to be short and sweet, until recently when people started to think they have all the text game they need to make it work. i can give examples if that still doesnt make sense…
/r/seduction04/03/25 06:01 AM
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Most women are a brick wall like that. Either push through it, or find a woman more engaging. Just because she's staring at you doesn't mean she's the one. In fact, she sounds awful. I value myself, which women find attractive, so I'd simply ignore her and focus on somebody that is interesting. I've been with quite a few women like her and they don't tend to 'warm up' very much. They are actually, uninteresting. It can be fun to find out though. The last one like this took me 6 months to win ove…
/r/seduction04/03/25 05:59 AM
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She isn't very attracted to you because you are insecure and lack masculinity. Kissing on the cheek? In 2025? Bad move unless you are under 18 y/o or in some foreign, conservative non US country I am unfamiliar with.
/r/seduction26/02/25 11:46 AM
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Being in an open relationship is completely counter intuitive to a womans biology. It's usually a sign of a trauma. That's what I hear and has been my very in depth experience anyways. I think telling a woman that will immediately be a turn off because of this. And you've said it yourself, you've seen the same in your observations. You're right, it's best done by starting monogamously. But another thing, an open long term relationship is almost a pipe dream. The type of people that have those ty…
/r/seduction10/02/25 06:16 AM
1

This is one of the oldest questions. Google last minute resistance in seduction
/r/seduction10/02/25 02:58 AM
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Start googling stuff you wanna know and then practice it
/r/seduction10/02/25 01:55 AM
1

Jeez bud if you finally got all the women you wanted, guess what, you'd probably wish you didn't. It isn't that great. They're pretty difficult. In my opinion. You have plenty of time left as a man. About 20 years to have sex. Get over it, you sound so dramatic! Jesus! Some people die a virgin you already got them beat.
/r/seduction09/02/25 04:19 AM
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Well dude, if you're only meeting them on trips it should be temporary anyways right? Or are you looking to reverse marriage migrate? Anyways, I think you don't need to be worried about the first can come to, but long-term sealing the deal. You'll either have to figure it out over the first 6 months or change up your dating style completely to not be based on such short-term early sex. That will create a greater pressure and therefore value on your value in that area. If you approach it from a d…
/r/seduction04/02/25 10:14 PM
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When women like you, you can just tell them how it's going to be and they'll accept it. For example once you form the connection and have a relationship you can just explain the situation. And if you have difficulty getting it that far because of the situation, just play it differently
/r/seduction04/02/25 09:40 PM
3

The women create the game. We're just playing by the rules. Biology sucks, and so does modernity
/r/seduction03/02/25 07:28 AM
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Pretty pointless to worry about what a woman calls you. I've had women call me a lot of things and most of the time it didn't matter good or bad
/r/seduction28/01/25 04:04 PM
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People like you are so annoying. You didn't know what you were talking about and even worse when he linked you the facts you had to have him hand feed it to you. You should be upset with yourself. That's about as helpless and unhelpful as a person can be. You were so helpless you made him work to educate you.
/r/seduction28/01/25 03:59 PM
1

Women don't value time spent, only value spent over time
/r/seduction23/01/25 07:53 AM
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You are too inexperienced to handle this, you'll end up messing it up and losing your job probably. Id start by learning how to handle women in a more casual setting. To answer your question, you sound like you have no idea what is going on or how to handle it. And to learn will be a long process. Especially if you don't care to learn for encounters in your future. So anyways, stop worrying about this and start looking up specific questions you have about things. And then try them in other place…
/r/seduction23/01/25 05:52 AM
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You should use push/pull, a method known in this community which boils down to this. You messed up by being too invested, and it showed you were a low quality man on the second date. So now you should reverse that. Ghost her for a week or until she texts you. Have an activity lined up that you could be doing solo, and invite her along and go from there. That's the only way to fix this I think. If would act like a reset button.
/r/seduction22/01/25 03:53 PM
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No, it's good advice, I was mostly just thinking of my personal experiences. It'd be nice to do this to a woman, it would definitely be an exciting experience. I'm going to try to do it for myself. Cheers
/r/seduction14/01/25 03:01 PM
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Honestly I've never had to do anything like that. If I'm able to close, they're already excited. If I'm doing all that stuff you described it's already going down. I'll probably try some of this in a library or something though
/r/seduction14/01/25 02:53 PM
3

Just keep gaining experience until you don't care anymore. That's the main secret all the gurus don't tell you
/r/seduction12/01/25 06:02 AM
1

I use this style. I learned from RSD like they recommended too. If you have any questions feel free to ask. However, id say the key to this is to have an abundance mindset ingrained to the point that it's genuine, so that you don't pedestalize women. But I'm not sure what you mean. You do use seduction concepts and stuff. If you choose to, being a natural doesn't mean you don't do any of these things, just that you do them effortlessly or flawlessly.
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:41 PM
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Id say it's more likely to go south before it ends up profit
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:19 PM
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Without a full word for word convo breakdown, it was probably nothing. Gauge her reaction next time, if friendly, match energy. if mad, joke with her 'why so upset? can i cheer you up like last time? Somehow?' or something like that. Then youll know. She may have just realized you werent going to be annoying after a while of talking with you, and changed perspective during the convo, no feelings involved. Happens to me when I speak with some customers in my job. If it's just as simple as that, t…
/r/seduction08/01/25 11:52 PM
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That's right. It's called inner game. You develop yourself and at the same time use or become aware of seduction techniques. Good luck mastering one without the other.
/r/seduction08/01/25 08:10 PM
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That's a personal experience. It sounds like you think game is a series of pick up lines and cold approaches. I specialize in inner game which was an alternative method of PUA when it was big, and I never have those issues because I never play a 'character'. I have developed myself to be a genuinely attractive, seductive man naturally.
/r/seduction08/01/25 05:15 PM
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I'd bring it up in a feminine way. Say, I really want to make out with you and bite you, but I don't want things to go too far, do you think you can control yourself? And then it's up to him to live up to his word, if he's any sort of man he'll keep his word, and if not, it's a good test of character. Of course he may try something, or give a non-answer, and i'd just go ahead if you feel safe in the environment you're in, to go for it and then stop when you feel like it. Or not! Just evaluate hi…
/r/seduction08/01/25 04:24 PM
1

You're pretty needy if she can't even stop talking to you for a day without it bothering you. She is probably tired of constantly having to entertain you with small talk, because if you won't let her stop talking to you now, you probably never stopped talking to her before. Women are people too. And unfortunately you cannot control what they do, or what they go through. There could be any number of things wrong, including you. But there are times when you have to respect them as people and stop …
/r/seduction08/01/25 02:44 PM
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A girl usually isnt that into you unless you make her that into you. That's kind of the whole point of this sub
/r/seduction08/01/25 02:25 PM
1

I'm not sure that's funny though
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:23 PM
3

This routine is easy and a good conversation starter on a date. It's pretty simple. What you want to do is tell them that you want to see how good of connection you have. Between the two of you. Think of a number between 1 and 10 and then when you have it tell her to guess what number between 1 and 10. You can go back and forth and you can let her win or be honest about it. In my experience and spirituality beliefs, I have met women with a very strong connection that are able to guess every numb…
/r/seduction07/01/25 06:37 PM
1

What kind of experiences have you had since changing your behavior?
/r/seduction07/01/25 04:03 PM
1

In my experience the long game is way more common than short seduction like the guys here fantasize about.
/r/seduction06/01/25 01:18 AM
1

I'm the same way, even after a long time running game. I just enjoy being a provider, and I CANT afford it like you can lol. But it's fine, it makes me feel masculine when I do it and it's one of the more motivating parts of an LTR for me. Though I can see why some guys wouldn't want to pay. If a date was going badly I'd probably ask to split, myself.
/r/seduction06/01/25 01:16 AM
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Bad response. Competition? Too insecure. Competing for what? Putting her on a pedestal. Id say the first response the way you wrote it can be interpreted too many ways to be sent over text. For example I see it as insecure and needy but it might go differently on a girl that knows you better However I would never follow it up with that last part. It sounds passive aggressive af.
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:55 PM
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Sounds like some sort of trauma or just socially rusty. Depends on how bad it is. Better start grinding on it though it's harder in your 30s by far
/r/seduction05/01/25 12:28 AM
2

Yes, this situation is actually quite common in real life and I've never felt bad for blowing them off because I mostly didn't like them anyways if I wasn't going to have a relationship with them huh
/r/seduction31/12/24 05:12 PM
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Women dodge questions all the time, you probably don't notice it. Also, women do not operate on the same idea of respect as a man.
/r/seduction31/12/24 01:34 PM
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There's no good way to go about this. It's difficult because it directly contradicts female nature. However most women that are into you will accept mostly anything. Imo you have two choices. Never answer the question. This is the best method. There's really no reason to let her know, she will find out on her own by observation or you can go to a different bar. When asked you say we aren't together. Or you could just tell her directly. But that's so lame to me. Why not just wait and tell her if …
/r/seduction31/12/24 04:57 AM
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Yeah because it's weird and socially inappropriate dude. So either commit to it 100% or don't bother people. You opening a set and not following through is annoying for everybody. If you're in it finish the job
/r/seduction30/12/24 08:25 PM
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When I want to kiss them I go for it. You say 'you don't just mean in and do it right?' to that other guy. Yes I do. If I feel like kissing them I'm gonna try it. Sometimes if I think they might not be down I'll throw in a little 'Can I kiss you?' said as I'm obviously preparing to kiss them and so far it has never failed.
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:13 AM
1

Women want what other women want. And if they think other women want you they want you
/r/seduction23/12/24 01:36 AM
1

Depends on what they're looking for or into I think. Both have worked for me
/r/seduction22/12/24 03:43 AM
3

You have a long way to go. Most notably, don't get advice on how to seduce women from women
/r/seduction20/12/24 11:16 PM
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'I wonder, if the „framed man“ that doesn’t show too much emotion and is calm and composed, maybe has a little bit of mystery and speaks with seriousness and only seldomly cracks big jokes is more likely to be seduced' Well maybe you're on to something lol. You're basically describing me, and I've loved it when women have approached and initiated me. In my life I've had it happen 3 or 4 times I don't know if any particular type is more receptive, but I appreciate and find attractive a woman with…
/r/seduction20/12/24 03:27 AM
3

Sure I can help you but I'm not sure on your question. Why don't you DM me if you prefer, or just rephrase your question here. If I'm not misunderstanding, you'd like to know how to string men along yourself, correct? Assuming that is the question, I'll just go ahead and answer/ give my opinion here. Stringing along a man as a woman is either very easy or very hard. Very easy because a lot of men are either naive or willfully ignorant and allow themselves to be strung along. They are basic anima…
/r/seduction20/12/24 01:53 AM
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Yeah that's known as a warm approach and it's how I prefer to go about things. Id recommend for you to slowly work the seduction ladder, aka first go for rapport (what you're doing) then go for isolation, then for close. I think in such a friendly setting there's nothing wrong with taking a bit longer either. Id probably look at this as a 1 month process assuming you have a minimum of 1-2 classes a week with them Anyways, once you get that familiarity you identify common interests (isolate) and …
/r/seduction20/12/24 01:42 AM
1

Yeah I've never really been a fan. I've found success in other ways. I want to do some cold approaches here soon for fun though, but it'd be at a normal place like a bar or social setting
/r/seduction19/12/24 10:35 PM
1

Lol ok
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:12 PM
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Idc that what I say bothers you
/r/seduction19/12/24 05:49 PM
6

Great post, I've been working on my text game because it is a useful tool, and I thought so as much even when it was 10 years ago and PUAs were saying to avoid it. I've noticed my approach on text has gotten less interest than it used to, so it's nice to practice things as times evolve. I plan to do a write up analyzing my own style vs new techniques, so this will be useful
/r/seduction19/12/24 04:25 PM
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Lol, what results do you want? The dating game has changed in 7 years and depending on where you live, getting into a relationship after dating can be a difficult process compared to the past, You seem to be doing fine though, many men are doing worse than you so I wouldn't worry about it
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:16 PM
2

I agree. OP may think they're a supermodel but I doubt I'd agree. Too much pedestalization.
/r/seduction19/12/24 01:15 PM
2

I've explored this pretty thoroughly, while in a big city. Majority of accounts on reddit are bots and scammers. Easily identifiable script, even some repeat posts under new accounts. However, I do see people I actually know in real life making posts as well. So really, to have success you have to be pretty investigative with peoples profiles, and it's simply not worth the risk when you can download 5 dating apps and press like on 200 women in the same amount of time.
/r/seduction19/12/24 09:47 AM
3

Great list. I'd agree these are all valuable things to learn. I'm happy to say that I'm aware of the majority of them. But not a master at all of them. 16 years
/r/seduction19/12/24 09:45 AM
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In my experience it's been pretty easy to string women along, typically because women tend to initiate relationship talk first. Honestly, that's how it should be. And you are weaker in the relationship if you bring it up first. So really, what's the problem? She brings it up, you blow it off. She'll probably get turned on a little. Life continues.
/r/seduction19/12/24 09:40 AM
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Its very feminine to worry about such small unimportant shit
/r/seduction19/12/24 08:16 AM
9

You can approach a woman anywhere, but you shouldn't approach them when they're somewhere they have to be. They need to have a way to leave the situation. So, at work. At a bus stop. In a waiting room (50/50), In an uber, on a bus. The reason for that is it's either fake or creepy. Fake, because they have to entertain you, like a waitress. Creepy, because if they have a negative opinion of you there's no way for them to eject. The lack of security in that situation is already working against you…
/r/seduction19/12/24 06:09 AM
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No they don't because they refuse to do anything. And lucky for them they rarely have to do much.
/r/seduction15/12/24 07:15 AM
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You ideally want to cook together in a fun way, physically escalate during that and kiss her sometime during a good moment while doing all of that. If you have to do it after, that's fine too. But you have to go for it one way or the other.
/r/seduction15/12/24 06:00 AM
1

The underlying frame got crushed underneath my frame, and now the underlying frame is shes a bratty little girl who thinks she can dominate me, and she just saw it failed, and now i'm more of a man in her eyes. the underlying frame fell against my frame and died. and of course it will again, as she continues to test until she gives up and believes it (shit tests)
/r/seduction12/12/24 01:29 AM
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First of all no woman has ever, and I doubt, would ever, approach an encounter with such an overt frame control intention. Most women don't think about this, don't care, don't have to, and do it passively or not at all. If you have a woman trying to do this stuff to men it's best to avoid them But anyways, I thought about what I would say if I was in that situation, and my first response was 'Probably none. I'm awful'. And I'd laugh, and forget about it. Because being confident and in control, y…
/r/seduction12/12/24 01:23 AM
3

Ask her out, and flirt with her, over and over until she agrees to go out, or rejects you. Some women are like bots, its a sad fact. They will go along with whatever you want, you just have to take the lead. Maybe she really is just boring.
/r/seduction11/12/24 08:07 PM
4

The best thing seduction does is wake you up from the brainwashing society does to you regarding women
/r/seduction10/12/24 04:13 AM
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There is only one frame. The frame you are choosing to set at that moment. Either externally or internally. If a boss frame comes up to me, that doesn't matter to me. It's his frame, and he has to maintain it. The difficulty of that depends on my frame, and how willing I am to maintain or adapt it. The same is true with women. They have their frame, typically seduction and value. Or other things. And you have your frame. Whatever that is. There is only two frames here. The underlying you are tal…
/r/seduction09/12/24 03:49 AM
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It's better to have a solid frame on a personal level, that cannot be broken and is as genuine as possible. You then maintain that frame throughout life, and the woman will fall into it if she fails to break you. If you do this you will always frame things in the moment appropriately, because you will just be living it. If you try to curate a frame during an encounter, every encounter, you will be found out as a fraud because you will not be able to consistently maintain the frame for months+.
/r/seduction09/12/24 12:18 AM
1

Well give some examples that you said
/r/seduction30/11/24 03:20 PM
1

Not for me I have no hair style, face is average and I haven't bought clothes in over 10 yrs
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:00 PM
2

Golf clap
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:59 AM
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I'm not super attractive and I've laid over a hundred women. We just have two different attitudes in life and that's why we'll have two different results The world needs people like you though because there wouldn't be a 'best' if there was nothing to compare it to.
/r/seduction29/11/24 04:15 AM
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Saying stuff like that makes you sound like you're a mad ugly incel type guy, that instead of working on the other 2 things fully blames his situation on. 1 minor thing
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:58 AM
8

Maybe depends on the style but my experience has been different Depends on the type of person the woman is as well
/r/seduction29/11/24 03:05 AM
2

You could try just grabbing her hand and saying 'Follow me, let's go somewhere else' and lead her. Its worked for me if theyre already down.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:49 AM
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money, confidence, intelligence, masculinity So, wealth attitude physique. I'd say the other 10% would be kindness. 10% kindness is about right for maintaining a healthy relationship.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:46 AM
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No I'm serious.
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:29 AM
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30%
/r/seduction29/11/24 02:27 AM
2

Women that do this may be clued in to the seduction community. Unfortunately most of the techniques taught are for attracting women specifically, and maybe some don't understand that.
/r/seduction28/11/24 07:44 PM
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She's a huge game player..this isn't the worst thing but I prefer my women not to do this for every little thing. Its a bad sign.
/r/seduction28/11/24 07:43 PM
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You need to play the game. Game is not just about hooking up. It's about how to satisfy and excite women. It's about how to be a man and display that attractively to a partner. If you decide to forego the rules and just lay it out that is not attractive. You will not get many results that way. It goes against everything that turns a woman on. Unless you are meeting the type of woman who wants the exact same thing, and with you specifically, t's not gonna happen. You need to seduce a girl you fin…
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:12 AM
2

If you want a guide how to talk it out lmk I'll write it up
/r/seduction26/11/24 01:16 AM
2

Sounds like a conversation you need to have. This is the way to work on having a healthy relationship. You need to work on yourself just as much as you need to learn how to have a healthy relationship which requires communication when things like this come up. So communicate and if things don't work out you will at least have more experience to show for it.
/r/seduction26/11/24 01:14 AM
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You sound bored, or you have trauma and you are distancing. You didn't describe why you wanted to leave. It sounds like your setting yourself up to enjoy a multi year pity party full of regret. You don't sound like somebody ready for a relationship. You want better? Different? More? While being self deprecating and insecure. The dating world is harder than ever now. Id think about this.
/r/seduction25/11/24 11:54 PM
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That's cool. But it's just funny how women refuse to approach. It isn't easy, that's why it's so annoying women never want to attempt it.
/r/seduction25/11/24 11:41 PM
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It's sad you won't approach. Super lazy and unattractive. Keep waiting for something to happen instead of making it happen.
/r/seduction25/11/24 08:04 PM
2

Just don't ever do that again
/r/seduction25/11/24 03:42 PM
1

If you ever wonder if a woman is being nice or likes you, escalate and find out
/r/seduction25/11/24 03:13 PM
1

A better way to do it would be to open with an exit. Hey just getting ready to head to the batting cage with a friend. What are you up to? Then you talk as long as you want and when the moment is good Sounds great. Well I just arrived at the cage. Talk to you later. Or you could set up a real meeting at that point. By inviting them out instead.
/r/seduction23/11/24 07:47 PM
1

If you'd like to chat and see if I can tell something about you that maybe someone wouldn't like, and provide honest feedback, I could do that. I could also give you a honest rating from my perspective appearance wise. I offer all of this because sometimes I have similar thoughts, and it's hard to get an honest opinion. I always tell people to be honest to me but they almost never are. I see honesty as a gift. How else do you improve if people lie and say everything is all good? Anyways, without…
/r/seduction23/11/24 06:43 PM
1

Id say 2 out of 10 men. Not that many, but some do. You have to commit a lot of time to it.
/r/seduction23/11/24 03:19 AM
2

Mirroring is some bullshit. You should be leading, in every way.
/r/seduction22/11/24 08:59 PM
1

What a dumb fucking thread what does this have to do with emotions go to AskReddit
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:04 AM
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Uh yeah I'd just like to add to that, that you should re-approach and start a normal conversation, not another one of your amazing openers. Because that is just kinda fuckin weird and sad if you open with some dumb cheese for a second time. You're gonna look like some sort of horny NPC bothering people every time you appear, and they will start to avoid you. But if you just go up and say what's up long time no see.. that's entirely different
/r/seduction17/11/24 04:30 PM
1

I've had great success in OLD until probably the Tinder age when it went from conversation to looks based results. I have never cared much for it so my profile is bare minimum. I swipe on pretty. Much everyone, spending about 3 minutes a day if I remember. I get 1-3 matches a week. In real life all of my girlfriends have been 8+. I get called handsome fairly often and women are generally attracted to me. I've never had a real issue, and I believe I am slightly above average in looks. So, really,…
/r/seduction16/11/24 10:41 PM
1

What 22 year old says single and ready to mingle?
/r/seduction14/11/24 03:25 PM
1

California is shit
/r/seduction10/11/24 03:40 AM
0

Did a woman tell you to do this? Sounds like it.
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:48 AM
1

So what do you do for fun? I like to snowboard. Snowboarding? That's great. The first time I ever went snowboarding I did a kickflip off the back of a brown bear coming down the slope. What do you like about snowboarding? A bad joke to some maybe, just an example
/r/seduction31/10/24 02:58 PM
9

Well what's the eye opener, how do you use it, and how do you recognize desire
/r/seduction02/10/24 02:20 PM
5

You can attract women however the logistics of dating and the cost itself could be difficult in the current economy and social norms.
/r/seduction27/09/24 08:35 PM
1

That's just the norm for a lot of places, especially cities. Traditional dates arent always necessary. If you want this to happen to you, focus on seduction in social settings as opposed to cold approaches or OLD. If your at a party or a friends house or a bar this type of stuff is naturally the go to conclusion
/r/seduction27/09/24 01:21 AM
2

The only bad places to pick up women are in hospice and the maternity ward
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:50 AM
0

People tell me I'm attractive, I think I'm about average or slightly above average for my age. I don't really care either way. It all goes in one ear and out the other. I'm happy with myself, and I'm happy I'm as lucky as I am ending up with what I've got. All of my successes have been majority real life encounters, where it matters. 90% of the women I've wanted, I've gotten. So what does it matter? You'll never be attractive to everybody. And you'll be attractive to somebody. People's preferenc…
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:49 AM
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People tell me I'm attractive, I think I'm about average or slightly above average for my age. I don't really care either way. It all goes in one ear and out the other. I'm happy with myself, and I'm happy I'm as lucky as I am ending up with what I've got. All of my successes have been majority real life encounters, where it matters. 90% of the women I've wanted, I've gotten. So what does it matter? You'll never be attractive to everybody. And you'll be attractive to somebody. People's preferenc…
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:49 AM
5

I'm at work so I didn't read this. However, masculine men will never be out in fashion for women because it appeals to their genetic biology
/r/seduction22/09/24 11:18 PM
3

Also consider a YouTube channel and studying comedy
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:05 PM
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In this society, assuming you are in the US which is the only place I have knowledge of, the odds are against you. If start with opening a dating profile on every app and website being honest, and cast a wide net. Then I'd pick a religion and get into church. Religion may give you comfort in your solitude, and will open you up to people who claim to be more compassionate. Potentially. This is up to you. Id look into websites for people with disabilities to find someone who can empathize better w…
/r/seduction22/09/24 07:04 PM
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He's just saying it's good you have this breakthrough but this is common knowledge. Still helpful to share. What you've done is use tonality, cocky funny and double meaning pretty much which is how most people here recommend becoming interesting and funny. Still, congrats on your breakthrough. Every little bit adds up to complete the puzzle.
/r/seduction22/09/24 06:54 PM
2

This is full of red flags. How dumb do you have to be to pursue this? Whatever the outcome is, the only good thing that happens will be maybe sex. Everything else will be bad. You'll get jumped You'll get fired You'll get cheated on next You'll get turned into a simp or her emotional tampon You'll get a bad reputation if your community is small You'll get an STD And possibly more
/r/seduction22/09/24 03:03 PM
1

You approach them like they aren't interested because that interest could disappear any moment. It's not complicated.
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:30 AM
0

Be funny and or interesting to get people to like you
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:14 AM
0

They don't that's why you have to be interesting or entertaining
/r/seduction22/09/24 03:32 AM
1

Well, yes pretty much. There wasn't really a chance to be physical. We were too busy having fun. As a small note it's easier to get physical in private especially in the beginning as it helps avoid the woman getting in her head / feeling slutty potentially. I of course did escalate later in the night and after the date when the green light couldn't be brighter. But yes, I attracted her simply by providing her emotions through charisma, leadership and excitement. And she showed it by initiating p…
/r/seduction21/09/24 01:06 AM
2

So I'm on break let me expand a bit more. I made it exciting by breaking the rules a bit. Not enough to get in trouble, but enough to make it memorable. I made it exciting for her by picking an activity that aligned with her interests, and when we got there I was charismatic and by doing so, created fun, excitement and connection. I was then daring again, and created a memory that she still remembered fondly after several months. And the whole time I was confident, assertive and in control. That…
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:16 PM
2

I took a girl on a date to a paint and sip, where you drink wine and paint in a class. Before that, we pre gamed and took public transportation. On the way there, she was friendly but not overly so. We knew each other from before, and this was our second date. We took some of the alcohol and snuck it into the class. She was worried we'd get in trouble, I told her there's no rules which added a bit of a bad girl emotion to the date. For her. We get there and by luck it's just us two and the teach…
/r/seduction20/09/24 05:24 PM
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Continue they rapport building but focus it in person so you can use the emotions to build connection and physically escalate. See how little you can text them to get them in person with you. When you do it over text, you are cheating yourself by not so allowing them to feel the emotions from building that connection. And because you already did it over text, you cannot repeat the same things in person. Good luck brother
/r/seduction20/09/24 04:47 PM
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Well, you are a fraud if you aren't living that frame 24/7 naturally. That's fine though, that's how you get experience and make it a reality. There's a lot to being masculine and holding it as a frame. Start by being that way with everyone, all the time, until it becomes who you really are. Study more on it, and incorporate those traits into your life. If you fall off after the number and during the text, text less. Be more dominant, and save the talking for the hangout. 'I enjoyed our conversa…
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:59 PM
1

If you'd like a real life date example I can provide one but it'd be rather long.
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:28 PM
1

It takes as long or short as it takes. It depends on the connection you share. The fact that you can't recognize this shows you lack skill in this area. Do your best to improve on this until you get it a bit. Pay attention in your next interaction to the vibe. What energy are you putting out? Can you make her laugh, can you make her excited. Figure out how to do it. And then maintain that energy through as much of the date as possible. Then, when you get advanced, you give her many emotions. The…
/r/seduction20/09/24 02:18 PM
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Asking usually leads to rejection. This is for many 'woman think' reasons. Instead, make a move naturally when the emotions are high. They will be more receptive and the escalation will seem more natural. The only woman you can ask or direct physical affection from is one you've already slept with.
/r/seduction20/09/24 06:18 AM
0

It's best to make them fall in love with you and then string them along at a distance if that's your thing
/r/seduction20/09/24 01:57 AM
1

You really shouldn't invest too much emotion into such trivial matters. You won't be able to read her mind so this is pointless to worry about. Either forget about it or ask her directly. Id recommend you don't even ask her because that makes you look weak being so upset by a small thing. Either she likes you or she doesn't, and these mind games won't answer your question so you need to be more direct and either get rejected or a date.
/r/seduction19/09/24 12:13 AM
1

I just broke up with a girl that compared me to her exes. It was really annoying. She lived in the past constantly, and would use her past experiences as justifications for being a bitch or judging me. Honestly I'd be careful. Id be a man and put her in her place, and see how that works out. For example. Speak to her respectfully but firmly that you don't appreciate being compared to her past relationships and her controlling actions are not acceptable. This may end it right there though, if she…
/r/seduction18/09/24 03:50 AM
2

There's no requirement to do it every day. Just do it when you feel like it. If you feel like working on yourself do that. You'll have better results if it's not forced. Improving in seduction is a life long process. I've been at it for roughly 14 years and still improving. Another thing is to enjoy the freedom you have to do it while you can. I couldn't go out every day even if I wanted to at this point in my life. The game is not worth enough to make yourself unhappy learning it..
/r/seduction18/09/24 03:47 AM
1

This subreddit has 15+ years of questions available to you. Think of a problem you have and search for it
/r/seduction18/09/24 01:09 AM
1

Yeah I just broke up with my hot gf yesterday. She was great but too emotionally unstable. I need somebody on my level with my ambitions, but also feminine. Hard to find these days, and I'm getting older. As the problems progressed, I think I knew it wouldnt work and started becoming unsatisfied. But I learned more lessons. Hopefully if all my criteria are met I won't feel that way. We will see, maybe.
/r/seduction16/09/24 07:01 PM
2

Give solid eye, contact, a smile, a beckon hold your hand out etc. if they seem receptive and you haven't held your hand out, go for an approach. Introduce yourself and go from there. You want clarity to prevent confusion, and a chance to identify drama queens if that makes sense Make your intentions clear and read the response is what I meant
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:57 PM
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As a decade long club goer id just be careful about being too aggressive. A lot of womenngo to clubs with a big group including men. Being too aggressive could get you in a very bad situation. Clubs can be dangerous. Id recommend being inviting, but not over do it like those guys you see. You don't know the full story with them. Maybe they know each other or it's a date. unlikely I know, but better to err on the side of caution. When I went to clubs shit was too packed for pretty much any of thi…
/r/seduction16/09/24 02:45 PM
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Yes, in the end I found game to be unfulfilling except for the chasez and connection. After the chase, if there's no connection there's no depth and I ended up feeling unfulfilled. Now I'm just focusing on myself and furthering my goals, helping others both in seduction and in other realm life ways, and I'm looking for somebody worthy of a LTR. I find relationships more fulfilling, however I've noticed I'm still tempted to chase women even when I'm in one. I'm trying to figure out why that is. I…
/r/seduction16/09/24 02:38 PM
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No karma, new account, attractive photo, offers to send pictures of body. This is the new generation of scams, targeting this sub. And it's pathetic how many of you are falling for it. Good luck in her dms, just don't send her any money.
/r/seduction16/09/24 03:32 AM
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Imagine being so insecure in your masculinity that your sexuality is defined by what color nails you have lol. You sound kinda curious bro
/r/seduction16/09/24 01:20 AM
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Some responses Life is a game Youve gotta earn it I'm looking for someone special I'm not an easy girl (said very jokingly obviously) You have to wine and dine me first Basically, use the opportunity to force her to validate herself or display higher value. Or indifference, which would be the first one. These responses will likely result in her qualifying you and you can then turn it into a joke or have higher value
/r/seduction15/09/24 04:49 AM
4

Well, I'm not here to break your confidence
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:11 PM
2

You're short. You need to work harder than someone who isn't. You don't approach so how do you plan to meet women? It sounds like you don't do anything but exist and expect them to come to you. This will rarely ever happen. Start doing stuff and you'll likely have more success.
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:04 PM
1

Works fine for me
/r/seduction14/09/24 01:11 PM
1

Instead of looking at getting the girl to like you as the mission, just set your goal to approach her and accept the outcome. Then when you do it you'll feel better success or failure. I'm often nervous, to put it mildly to approach. But when I do I often find out that the outcome wasn't bad, doesn't bother me, and I'm prouder of myself from doing it. Being a pussy about it feels much worse and sticks in my mind longer.
/r/seduction14/09/24 02:57 AM
1

Sorry but I choose to speak and define things the way I want. there's an example
/r/seduction13/09/24 01:03 PM
0

Lol what a sad mindset. No wonder you can't get women, with your feminine energy. I'm a very average guy, even below average in society and I get women. The reason you don't is because you believe stuff like this. Literally no human would be attracted to this mindset outside of abusers.
/r/seduction13/09/24 05:35 AM
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I've had maybe 2 or 3 women enter my life due to luck. The majority of them were strangers that I seduced. Stop with the incel mindset, it's unattractive. Take accountability for your failure and improve. Looking at it this way is just a self limiting excuse
/r/seduction13/09/24 05:33 AM
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You should man up and ask her out because the others guys are probably right. Since she's in your friend group this could be risky though. Id probably do something like, hey Sarah, is it just me or have you been flirting with me lately? Said confidently and jokingly. And then interpret her response and reaction. This would allow you to know without making things awkward, as you can easily dismiss it and it's not as official. Some guys here would say that's pussy or something but if you think you…
/r/seduction12/09/24 03:24 AM
1

You can't apply anything to every person. For the majority yes. But some exceptions are there.
/r/seduction12/09/24 01:31 AM
1

The worst thing you can encounter is a verbal boundary being set. If she says 'no' or 'dont touch me' or something of the sort it's over for me. Because anything past that can be categorized as rape or sexual assault. Women tend to know this and won't say such things if they have any sort of interest at all. I have personally never had this happen but I would instantly eject. The next worst thing is if she is resistant consistently for a long period of time. Like you're on a date, and she reject…
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:42 PM
3

How would a cologne or style help attract all women when women have different preferences? Do you think the same combo would work as well in Alaska as NYC? Jersey? No. You need to find what works for you and do that instead of trying to attract other people with it. If you are confident as a result of what you're wearing that will attract more people.
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:30 PM
1

How interested are you guys? Outside of wanting to have sex with them and being attracted to their body, how interested are you in them as people? The way you guys talk and act i doubt it's very much. So who cares if she is engaged or not? Some of the hottest women I've banged, 9/10s were dry. Because they were boring shells of a person. It's ok, I wanted to bang them. Not marry them. However engaged she is doesn't matter it's just a factor in making YOU feel good, successful and entertained. Th…
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:27 PM
1

I meet women through being social. Social groups, being a leader, being outgoing and charismatic. Activities, events, online dating, ect. I do 'cold approach' if I see indicators of interest from a woman. I just don't go around bothering women that don't show any unless I really like them. This has worked for me as I've never been single for more than a year my whole life. Or rather, without female company. If you are good at being social, you will naturally be in situations that allow you to ta…
/r/seduction11/09/24 02:22 PM
2

Who cares. What a waste of energy. She will either hook up or not, she can say anything she wants. If you don't want to talk about something give short answers. It's none of her business anyways. Women tend to do this. For many reasons not worth going into because like I said it doesn't matter. Unless you want a relationship. Reward good behavior with engagement and attention, and punish bad behavior with a lack of it. She will submit or leave. Worrying over small details like this is feminine b…
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:19 AM
2

It's pathetic to have this incel based mindset. I don't have the things people would see as high value and I get plenty of women. Hypergamy is a fact but it's not an absolute. Get off the Internet.
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:16 AM
3

Talk to them, get to know them, get. Friendly, then invite them out. When you're doing something, physically escalate. Like any other scenario.
/r/seduction09/09/24 02:10 AM
1

Well, the best thing I ever did was stop talking to my mother 8 years ago. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk about our experiences in that regard, as mine is quite lengthy. However, pertaining to seduction ... When I was younger I was very insecure. Mostly from that. So I set out to prove to myself I wasn't ugly or creepy or whatever I was told. So back then OLD was fresh, and I had a system that worked well. So I started pulling women as much as possible. And I was successful. I stopped co…
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:45 AM
2

Pretty pointless to have involved yourself. She was probably drunk. Who cares?
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:28 AM
2

Plan everything out but be adaptable if something goes wrong. Be a leader, and let her have fun relax and enjoy. Women like a man who is in control, without being obsessive. When the emotions are high on a positive note, make physical advances. Touch her when your both laughing after a joke. Try to good her hand when the moment seems right. Greet her with a hug when you first meet. Break the physical touch barrier. If she doesn't seem comfortable give it a rest and try again later when the emoti…
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:30 AM
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The epitome of an awakened man, for lack of a better term, would be a man who has risen above such basic desires that society teaches you is important such as seducing a large amount of women. This by itself will be seen as confidence by many, and make the process easier if your mechanics are good. Take this lack of passion as an opportunity to pursue more substantial activities such as improving yourself by learning new skills, enhancing your social circle, or working out. Anything that makes y…
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:25 AM
3

I'm average. Average height, build, face. Handsome to some, probably not so handsome to others. I only go after 7+ and I attract women that make other men jealous. This is verified by then directly telling me, and obvious signs. My current gf is at least an 8, probably higher based on all the stares she gets when I take her out. Id say I attract these women by being consistent. Consistently confident masculine and steady in emotion and confident in the face of rejection during my pursuit. I make…
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:21 AM
4

Id say a big killer is losing control of your masculine frame in relation to your woman. As soon as you lose your masculinity in your woman's view, it's all downhill. She will lose respect for you and that quickly becomes unsustainable. This can happen in many ways, as well. And some of it depends on the woman's viewpoints. Usually the easiest way to cause this is to be overly emotional or reactive. That is a very feminine quality. A masculine man should be a point of stability, or a 'rock' as i…
/r/seduction08/09/24 04:18 AM
2

When I was 14 I googled how to attract women. This led me on the path of learning about the mystery method which was big at the time, and I didn't like it. So I looked at alternatives and found the don Juan forums now known as sosuave. I posted there and looked up questions I had, and went out and practiced them either by cold approaches or in my interactions with women. After a while of that and working on myself, confidence wise mostly, and gaining experience I was knowledgeable enough to succ…
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:31 AM
1

Cold approach is difficult for Asians, id say. They are the most stereotyped race out of all I think in casual social settings. And im mixed race black. I live in the Bay too, and it just sucks here for cold approach. That is not the social custom here. I could get into why, but. Id say almost anywhere else is better. And when I've been elsewhere, it has been better. Overall.
/r/seduction08/09/24 12:12 AM
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I had an abusive mother and was scared of talking to and being physical with women. Not sexually but kino mostly. I was also deathly afraid to approach. With the skills I've learned I've never not gotten a woman I've REALLY wanted. I've achieved all my female goals. Some only hook ups, some into relationships but I'm always able to get my target, so far. By learning the mechanics of seduction, I have been able to form my own style that is natural to me and effective. Instead of forcing myself to…
/r/seduction08/09/24 12:08 AM
1

Yes. And I have studied these techniques to the point Irs natural to read and react to them, too. So it's a very natural interaction. Being natural is very important because that implies confidence and high status. That's why most people start succeeding after many attempts. They stop being nervous and get desensitized
/r/seduction06/09/24 12:57 AM
0

For me, it is mostly being genuine/natural and reading her body language and responses, then I respond to those either physically or verbally
/r/seduction05/09/24 12:32 AM
8

Because sex creates lives, which is not a small matter. It's not just for pleasure. It comes with the risk of great responsibility burden and risk. Why do I even have to explain that to you people
/r/seduction04/09/24 02:53 PM
1

Didn't read your post, but what worked for me is to obtain a higher value mindset and integrate it into your personality. A lot of seduction revolves around this, so it helps in other areas too. Don't just demonstrate higher value, but believe you are as well. When you see yourself as the prize, the validation isn't really something you need anymore, because they are supposed to be seeking it from you. A good judge of power dynamics in a relationship is who seeks validation from who. I like to d…
/r/seduction31/08/24 02:45 PM
2

Instead of approaching looking to date you should approach and practice conversation because if you have to ask this you are not a very interesting person
/r/seduction30/08/24 08:14 PM
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Wouldn't matter. I've done a date like this before. The guy was just a beta printer, though some would call it 'restpectfully keeping a distance'. I was not much of a problem.
/r/seduction28/08/24 06:19 AM
1

This is clearly written by a man.
/r/seduction27/08/24 03:34 AM
3

Don't ask her out unless she shows signs of interest now. You've played your hand, and made it apparent you like her. That was kind of a mistake but that's ok because this situation is about as entry level as it gets. Now that she knows, she will engage with you again if she's interested. Let her make the next move. Her next move will show her intentions. If she keeps it professional, she's not interested. If she acts flirty or conversational, she's interested. Or looking for tips. Next time, if…
/r/seduction25/08/24 04:49 PM
7

Online I think I'm considered ugly. In real life I get compliments often, roughly 1 a week. About my looks. And that has been my experience IRL as well. The standard is set unrealistically high for online dating these days. About 10 years ago I killed it in OLD. multiple dates a week. Sometimes multiple girls a day. However it has since devolved into a cesspool that is useful more as a passive way to supplement your overall game, which should be mainly focused on IRL
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:32 AM
3

The last time I made a long post these losers said it was too long. They'll always complain about something
/r/seduction20/08/24 06:22 PM
6

Stuff like that happens occasionally, moreso the more attractive you are. The important thing is recognizing the signs and acting on them, testing the waters. You played it well so keep that in mind in the future Personally I enjoy these encounters the most, I appreciate women that make things flow easily.
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:58 PM
7

Lol well you're not him. Hard to understand maybe, but this is his post and experience and that doesn't mean it didn't happen because he didn't execute up to your standards
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:05 PM
26

If your friend is a real friend, he'd be happy for you. These obsessive incels in here can't begin to comprehend that not only is it that easy to get a girl if you recognize signs and make moves, but they call it a betrayal. Like you work for your friend or something lol Most of my friends get girlfriends and you don't see them again until they fuck it up Good job op sometimes it's that easy
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:01 PM
5

It's sad that nothing like this has happened to you. Maybe it's due to your negative attitude.
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:59 PM
0

Please show me a mumble rap song about holding down a job and raising your kids. Oh wait.
/r/seduction19/08/24 04:18 PM
2

Sure, if you think a drug addicted ghetto wannabe rapper who's going to prison inevitably is equal to somebody who is responsible, intelligent and well rounded then that is itself it's own problem
/r/seduction19/08/24 02:51 PM
3

Seductions forums outside of reddit. I recommend sosuave
/r/seduction16/08/24 03:37 PM
6

As far as seduction communities go this sub is one of the worst. There are definitely insecure people that attack others here unprovoked. It's whatever. There are also some knowledgeable people and those are the posts I enjoy
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:33 AM
3

I've had many of the same concerns and over the years have devised a system that works for me. If you want me to detail it, id be happy to go deep into it. But basically, it can be summed up. I flirt verbally and gauge reaction. I escalate physically with something basic, like an affectionate touch, hug or hand hold. Then if I don't get a solid signal, I will actually ask permission. I think it's better to ask and be denied, than to not try at all and look weak. The trick is just to be confident…
/r/seduction16/08/24 12:28 AM
7

It really is that easy. However every woman is a different challenge and subreddits like this are meant to be a wealth of information for you to study to prepare you for what may happen. Most women won't require you to be perfect or use all the tools here, but some will do certain things that will require certain responses and instead of gambling by being yourself, you can hedge your bet by being knowledgeable from places like this, and if you do it perfectly as recommended by someone with exper…
/r/seduction16/08/24 12:20 AM
3

He's probably right OP, this is probably what causes mine. Interesting perspective. Mine is from abuse from my mother.
/r/seduction07/08/24 06:01 PM
39

I'm often scared to make moves too, despite sleeping with over 100 women. It's just the same type of fear a UFC fighter feels before stepping in the cage. One thing I've noticed is I've always felt better after doing it, regardless of the outcome. It's not the outcome I fear, but personal failure. When you see something you want just go for it. The girl you want wants a guy that has enough balls at least to simply talk to her. So step up when necessary. Fortune favors the bold
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:50 PM
8

Whatever happens naturally. It's more attractive if they're non judgemental and willing to experiment. But if that's not gonna happen, then just have genuine reactions.
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:47 PM
3

That was me a few months ago. Then a woman came into my life, I liked her, gamed her for months and now we're together. I did all of this without going out at all (too much work). So just keep working on yourself and looking for opportunities, and when you see one don't let it pass by, but instead use the skills you've accumulated to good effect.
/r/seduction07/08/24 02:46 PM
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Whenever you feel like doing something, do it genuinely and don't worry about her reaction. Like last night there was drama, I yelled at her, she apologized, we talked about how to handle it better and had sex and went to bed. Women love that shit
/r/seduction06/08/24 04:24 PM
30

You have no chance, your post sounds like it was written by somebody with mental issues.
/r/seduction06/08/24 01:36 PM
35

Well that's a good sign
/r/seduction05/08/24 08:49 PM
1

A confident thank you has always worked for me. Anything but being embarrassed or bashful at the compliment. That seems weak, even when I observe it in others.
/r/seduction05/08/24 03:19 PM
7

My performance isn't dictated by my lust because I'm in charge of myself and my game is run the same regardless of my lust. However, long term masturbation is a good tool to stay focused and centered through bullshit. Maybe this is something more important to someone with ED or low T. Because masturbation does not affect me like it seems to others.
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:39 PM
1

I turned a girl that just broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years from a hard no to a submissive very sexual woman in 3 months with the game I've learned over many years, and I was confident it would work 100% of that time. I was also emotionally stable during it, due to my knowledge and experience. So I'm sorry it doesn't work for you, but it definitely can work.
/r/seduction31/07/24 10:37 PM
3

Maidenless lol
/r/seduction23/07/24 04:28 PM
0

You should not even be thinking of attractiveness when it comes to women. Attractiveness is a female resource used to generate attraction. Men use mainly everything else. You are brainwashed by society and it has formed your opinion on what women wants and has formed a self limiting belief. Attractiveness for a man is the least important quality due to how women work. There are very few men on this earth that are attractive enough to easily attract a majority of women, and they even rather have …
/r/seduction13/07/24 09:11 PM
1

Pathetic attitude, you sound like an incel. Get over it. You look how you look, stop thinking about how other men hook up.
/r/seduction13/07/24 07:27 PM
1

If you don't have the confidence to just ask, then use those clever lines the other guy posted.
/r/seduction12/07/24 02:41 AM
1

Most girls dont like you when they first meet you, and that's why you learn and use game related things to seduce her. That's why we're in the seduction subreddit. To learn how to do that.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:58 AM
1

? I'm a mixed race man. And I got both ltr and hookups. Anyways. Basing success solely on location has the potential to become a self limiting belief. I lived all over Utah from Ogden to St George and I was able to find women wherever. I also faced a lot of rejections too, especially on looks. But there's so many humans around us that it's easy to find compatible women if you're anywhere near a large population area.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:57 AM
0

I hooked up a ton in Utah, IDK wym
/r/seduction30/06/24 03:47 AM
0

Yeah because that's what they teach in seduction, right? 'just make sure she likes you bro'
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:40 PM
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I have one, practice on developing mental fortitude. That's exactly what the post is about and it's completely going over your head.
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:51 PM
10

You could improve yourself. Most women are incredibly boring themselves though. They're probably on average at least twice as boring as you. So who cares?
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:50 PM
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You are too inexperienced to handle this and I advise you to put this on a back burner, ball in her court and work on your skills elsewhere while becoming friendlier to her. And not hitting on her, but also not getting friend zoned. That might be beyond you too though so honestly just go approach other women. You're gonna end up getting fired, I've been there before, make sure you can handle that. The economy isn't so good globally right now. Can you get another job? Two people I know lost their…
/r/seduction28/06/24 05:22 PM
1

There's plenty in US
/r/seduction28/06/24 04:29 AM
1

Don't ask her out formally but casually, to get drinks or something on your days off. Make it sound very carefree and no expectations or commitments. If she's interested she will be willing. If she isn't, she won't.
/r/seduction28/06/24 04:28 AM
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Out of the 150+ women I've been involved with romantically I can honestly say that none of them were very different. I don't imagine what one could do to make me feel differently. If I ever meet a woman that believes she has to improve herself inside and out to make a relationship work and attract a quality man, that'd be a marlin. Or, ever better. An actual unicorn. But I doubt that'd happen
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:45 PM
3

A marlin. Lol. It's just a sea of different sized bass.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:30 PM
1

You can dm me your pictures and I'll give you a 100% honest judgement if you're too ugly for conventional game. However, being ugly doesn't mean you can't find a woman, I'll be honest. Lol.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:27 PM
1

How desperate are you that you can't control yourself?
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:52 PM
4

I'm not, I'm average id say. Never really been an issue for me, but I'm sure being fit would help. Id be interested to try it, and I might
/r/seduction19/06/24 06:35 AM
1

If you're in the club past 30 and aren't getting paid for it in some way, you come off as creepy and weird and it gets worse the older you get.
/r/seduction17/06/24 05:25 PM
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Club life ends at 30s, try to do more adult things to meet women at your age. Wine tastings, vacations, tours, group hikes, group classes, concerts, while walking around, swinger/sex parties Being older gives you a negative connection in the club (been clubbing 8+yrs) but it gives you a lot of leeway with being perceived as less predatory when you go to cold open women of all, but mostly younger, age. A lot of girls in their 20s are into daddy dynamics, so maybe you'd find that in the club event…
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:56 PM
0

She might just be commenting so other people see her shit? Some girls are really just dumb/boring though. I've been with some girls that were basically living dolls. Beautiful but empty. Like a trophy. Maybe she's one of those? Id say ask her out to hang or something or attend an event with you, and figure out what receives a 'no'. You said she doesn't seem interested, so make sure of that.
/r/seduction15/06/24 04:52 PM
0

Well yeah if it's a combo but if you send 4 or 5 texts setting up a meeting back to back that wouldn't matter. But yeah pretty basic stuff
/r/seduction15/06/24 02:26 AM
1

There are many ways to escalate, and sexual jokes are often the least appreciated method by women. It's better to hint and flirt with the idea of sex than to discuss or joke about it.
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:35 PM
1

100% agree
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:35 PM
2

There's really no reason to ever discuss that, unless asked. If they're asking you, and get bothered by it, then it was quickly becoming very not casual
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:30 PM
1

Lmao
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:29 PM
1

Some girls like it slow some don't. Maybe it's about something completely different. Id suggest just doing it a completely different way and study the results first if you can't figure out what's going on with your vibe or whatever. For example, I like to turn women on slowly. I've found that they enjoy sex when you go slow at first, and get turned on better when you go slow at first with foreplay so why not everything else too. Lmao. Anyways. If I'm trying to seduce a woman, I'll usually be cud…
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:27 PM
1

They never really get like that unless you're fondling them, unless they're really sensitive/like kissing. I haven't met more than a couple girls like that, out of a big sample. Pull their hair and grab their ass though and that does it if they're already turned on usually. In my experience breastplay is the natural next move during a makeout.
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:22 PM
3

Nice story. Sounds like you did great most of the time. Some really great experiences. Keep it up, that was a lot better than some of the stuff I've done, haha.
/r/seduction14/06/24 11:19 PM
1

I too prefer to be smooth and not bother people. There are ways to go about it. A lot of it is reading body language, and paying attention to what they say for queues on how they want the interaction to go. Or, just smoothly insert yourself into a conversation and don't worry about them from that point on, haha. That can work out too if you can warm them up. But, an example of a smooth opener would be to just use the environment or a personal experience to start the conversation. Like, sitting n…
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:44 PM
1

Don't say anything. She's already interested. Anything you do now will lower it. You're thinking in days, you need to start thinking weeks with women. If your game was good enough, theoretically, every women would be days. But she sounds older, and gave you a valid excuse. So are you just gonna ignore that? She literally told you what to do. Anything you do now sends a BAD MESSAGE. if she can't meet you because she's busy what's gonna be the result? A nice text convo about nothing? More dreaming…
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:20 PM
1

Step 1. Type your questions into YouTube, and then Google with seduction added after it so you don't go to some dumb site like quora Step 2. Implement what you've learned in real life and probably fail, remember everything you can about the interactions Step 3. Post here about what happen Ok gl
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:16 PM
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There's no preference for either. They don't give a shit how fast or slow the reply is. The important part is if the content is exciting or boring. The reason they include it in a profile is to identify simps who want to work hard to please a woman they have never even met
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:12 PM
10

Yeah same. My whole game revolves around frame control really. But mastering myself was difficult as well. Part of masculine energy I feel like is controlled possessiveness. Sounds weird, but. One thing I've used recently you might find interesting is the phrase 'I think therefore I suffer'. I learned that from the YouTube audiobook 'Dont Believe Everything You Think'. I used to worry about things, now I realize I cause my own suffering and clear my mind. Maybe you'll find it interesting.
/r/seduction14/06/24 10:07 PM
8

I think you're right that it's to see if we care. I think shit tests as people call them are also partly these little dramas, as they usually end up in a sort of conflict with weaker men. But also, I think there's another form of this where it's not necessarily always about validation, but about having their emotional needs taken care of, for example the need to vent their anger or frustration, or sadness. Just thinking of possible emotions that could start a fight. Like a trauma dump, but emoti…
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:59 PM
5

Go on meetup and attend random stuff. Go to events in your town or city. Use online dating as much as possible on all platforms so you can get any match possible.
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:17 PM
3

Actually some of us are very experienced. But you can believe what you want. I believe what you're doing is referred to as projection in psychology.
/r/seduction14/06/24 09:11 PM
6

Women think they know what they like, but they don't because what they end up liking is commonly more of a result of a biological response then any sort of logical process.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:22 PM
25

Never listen to women for advice on picking up women
/r/seduction14/06/24 02:08 PM
15

As I've gotten older I've gained the confidence to ask for consent. Before, I felt that it was risky and might cause a rejection. But my experience with women has taught me that they either appreciate the sentiment or actually find it attractive. I don't act like a simp and I don't get upset if rejected. I'll usually act in a more casual way, such as 'Do you mind if I kiss you?' confidently and directly while looking at them in the eyes or lips. Seems to work fine haven't had a rejection yet, be…
/r/seduction01/06/24 02:02 PM
6

It usually is but having a female friend can be beneficial in a few ways, with very little investment besides social interaction
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:14 PM
6

Lol fr. Next message is asking for tribute
/r/seduction25/05/24 05:13 PM
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Boring. Next guy
/r/seduction25/05/24 05:12 PM
1

It's almost like not everything is recorded in Internet history. Especially when it's low level real life events. Shocking
/r/seduction25/05/24 02:09 PM
1

I can't seem to add youm there's like 50k Justin Morgan's. Add me at blackishkinda and we can go out a bit.
/r/seduction13/05/24 09:18 AM
1

Lol ok. Who cares what you prefer? Look at your little attitude. It's no wonder women don't want to sleep with you to the point you think 150 is exceptional. Lmao. Go find your little queen to settle down with boy. Lmao
/r/seduction13/05/24 08:53 AM
1

Your friend sounds like she has control issues. It's one thing to want the best for your friend, but to feel personally attacked because your living your life the way you want is immature and has more to do with her than it does with you. What you do is really none of her business and she can advise you and you can follow that advice or not. She can either respect that like a good friend, or you two need to step back from each other and find people who will be more compatible morality wise. Or, …
/r/seduction12/05/24 07:27 PM
7

Nice work
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:29 PM
11

It's all a mentality dude. What are you talking about. Numbers mean nothing.
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:31 AM
39

Who cares? If he's bullshitting, then maybe someone who isn't willing read it. It doesn't matter to my life if he's genuine or not. I don't even think about stuff like that on here. But I do think he's legit because I went through the same thing after sleeping with 150+ women and dating 3-5 a week for a long time.
/r/seduction12/05/24 05:17 AM
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So much jealousy in here. It really summarizes this subreddit. Congrats OP, you beat the game. Changes your life, doesn't it? It's freeing. But freedom can have a price, eh? Now you have the eyes that can see how many guys on here DONT actually practice what they preach. Because you have the mindset of someone that does, it's obvious when they start mouthing off that they aren't about it. Anyways, there's really no fix for such a thing. But what id recommend is making a list with all the pros yo…
/r/seduction12/05/24 03:39 AM
2

Perhaps you are unattractive. Or maybe just unattractive to them.
/r/seduction12/05/24 02:13 AM
5

Look at all the posts everybody posts every day asking if a girl likes them or not, and look for the opposite of that. Just kidding but, do you really need me to explain this? Lol. If you do, I will. Because maybe you've never had this - but just think of the easiest, most natural relationship you've ever had. They'd act like that. Basically, if a girl likes you scheduling, flirting, texting(usually), physical escalation should not be difficult.
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:52 AM
5

Because if you did that to everyone in the bar you gain what is called social proof. Look up social proof in a seduction context and learn about it. A guy who does that is a guy more interesting than one who does what you did. Everyone does what you did. That's why it wasnt interesting. It doesn't matter if they pull you back or not. But by doing this there's a chance, but your way had zero chance after rejection. Doing it this way also opens up avenues of taking to one of them again more natura…
/r/seduction12/05/24 01:18 AM
8

Group 1. You should've initiated and then exited. A brief introduction, small talk, and leave. With a joke preferably. Do you understand You acted like a simp. But me a drink. Ok, I agree to buy you both drinks if you two agree to kiss each other. No wtf we're straight. Ok well we've gotta figure out some sort of trade here. What can you barter. Boom you're in and having a fun joking convo. Not hitting on another group of girls right after they watched you hit on the previous group of girls as t…
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:54 AM
15

You'll know because when you go to escalate or get her number, she will reject you
/r/seduction12/05/24 12:12 AM
13

I've felt a lot of the same, and observed a lot of the same things myself, being 30. I think men don't have such a strict timeline because we can marry a 18 year old at 40 and get away with it If she really worries you maybe freeze your sperm. That way if it takes you until 40 to find a mare you can still impregnate them with less chance of developmental issues in the baby. Besides that there's really no rush. New girls turn 18 every day. I'm not saying to go that young but when you're 40 maybe …
/r/seduction11/05/24 11:00 PM
13

The fact that this is emotionally upsetting you so much shows that you are not emotionally healthy enough to date Edit: right now. You can change that
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:46 PM
1

See? I know what I'm talking about. Ok bro how'd u find out, u wanna follow up on this?
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:53 PM
25

I've heard of the legendary bouncer with one eye that decides if you get in or not depending on your looks alone. And vibe. He's famous. I also heard a dubious story about an interesting gay sex party involving the huffing of bags filled with... Booty. I also heard it's something like five floors tall and very sexual. I heard that parties there go for days at a time sometime. Dunno how much is true. Heard it mostly from some people I met at the club who were from Germany.
/r/seduction11/05/24 05:30 AM
11

Yeah I've heard of berghain lol. I've heard a lot
/r/seduction11/05/24 04:46 AM
1

No not really. But maybe for you at your level right now, yeah. If I was there I could read it. Because a woman that is interested in you will show that she is. This is what you described to me: I've known this girl for months. And every time I try to escalate she ices me out. Does she like me or no?' See how simple it is when your feelings aren't involved? If course I'm just going off what you wrote. But if it really is that simple then so is the answer. What is REALLY recommend is staying in c…
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:57 AM
151

Women who are interested will show it
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:51 AM
8

She's not into you. If you don't believe me you should just directly ask her. You'll either prove me wrong or save yourself some time.
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:50 AM
97

Depends on the club but in a major city like I am, there's no way. For tons of reasons. I'm 8 years never seen it happen. If you wanna fuck in a club a more likely way would be in a VIP section.
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:48 AM
30

You shouldn't be that vulnerable with a woman until she says she loves you at the very least. They'll deny it but weakness is a turn off. Honestly your drama shouldn't be coming up if you can see that it hurts your chances. Tell your prospective wife these things, not girls that aren't even locked in
/r/seduction11/05/24 12:09 AM
0

Lol what is wrong with you people? Some guys on here are actually successful with women. Y'all weird
/r/seduction10/05/24 10:44 PM
1

Well yeah it's not my truth.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:21 PM
1

Id agree, you should try some therapy. Getting into a relationship or involved with women at this point in your life would likely be more detrimental than anything
/r/seduction10/05/24 06:37 PM
11

Sir this is a Wendy's
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:21 PM
5

He wants one of us to get him off.
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:21 PM
1

A lot of assumptions SaaS. Why so hostile towards fellow members of the community? You don't know what I do online and in real life. This is a subreddit based around the discussion of these things, and this is a conversation. How did you learn pickup, and why are you here if you want to belittle people using it for it's purpose? If your inner self is really this emotional I doubt you get many results yourself
/r/seduction10/05/24 03:08 PM
1

Answers my question ty
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:37 PM
0

Personally I already know what to do, and I do basically all of what was recommended here already. I just wanted to make sure that I wasn't losing out on any experiences by being willing to ghost them in these scenarios, or if there were any tools or knowledge I might be missing that you guys usually employ. Personally I feel like ghosting a woman from online dating (OLD) is the easier move but potentially a wasted move. I think you need to read the room a bit and consider your interactions up t…
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:07 PM
1

That's a good insight. Do you use this as a baseline personally? If you keep it short, have you noticed it happening less? What's your stance on text game? Good/bad? Just curious to hear more of your knowledge if you don't mind, thank you.
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:01 PM
1

Doing too much how?
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:32 PM
1

Studies show that when orgasm occurs certain hormones are released in the brain that cause humans to pair bond and studies show that the ideal time to solidify attraction in a female is right after orgasm. Believe that if you want, it's worth a shot I'd say. So basically, make her cum and then talk to her about romance and your relationship, not fun dumb stuff if possible. But use that to lead into it I'd recommend at least 30 minutes of giving oral combined with g-spot fingering until you get a…
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:21 AM
3

I have similar experience. You say you don't think she's experienced. Why? I know a girl like this rn. She's very nice and innocent. Very kind to everyone. Flirty and even gives kino. Initiates interaction and isolation. Shows IOIs. She's had like 20+ boyfriends. Doesn't intend to date anybody. Plays dumb about it. When girls act like this, what I do is drop hints. When you were out you should've said 'weve known each other for a while it's nice for us to finally manage to meet up for a date' sa…
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:14 AM
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If your penis is weird or under 6 inches that might be the problem You're likely bad at sex to be honest. Women do hookup on the first date, now more than ever. And they tell you they won't too, all the time. It's just so they don't come off as a slut. To themselves, mostly. Don't think about it too much. As long as she doesn't say 'no' or other distress signals when you're escalating, she's willing. But it sounds like you know that part, just don't want you to question it because if you really …
/r/seduction10/05/24 05:03 AM
2

Well, I've been dealing with this myself recently. Currently, more accurately. She talks a lot about her past, her ex, repeats things, and recaps recent events repeatedly. You should give more concrete examples cuz it's kinda hard to figure out intentions without context But I've come to my conclusions from my experiences that either - they want to manipulate you into a certain emotion, or are attempting to provoke a reaction from you if some sort Or they may just be the type of person that proc…
/r/seduction10/05/24 04:47 AM
27

You want to make plans and escalate when the vibe is at a high positive point
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:41 AM
0

Probably bro
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:36 AM
2

LOL Thanks for your input sir
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:27 AM
0

How would you go about it?
/r/seduction10/05/24 02:24 AM
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Best post so far, imo
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:44 AM
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That's not a wingman lol
/r/seduction10/05/24 01:17 AM
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Back in the day the rule was not to hit them up right away, a few days at least. Better if they hit you up first. Something to try in the future maybe. It doesn't sound like you did that here. Not saying every move is always the best move but maybe it would get different results Well, with that but if context I'd just wait like a week and invite her to bang. That'll answer her question. What do you think about that? But if you invite her to hangout like you want to that sets the opposite tone. Y…
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:44 AM
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The last few sentences of your first paragraph are why I think she saw you as needy and where I think you messed up. That's what I thought was needy. Why didn't you talk to her after sex? That is one of the most important times to talk to a woman if you want to have them stick around
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:33 AM
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Well she doesn't need to be your gf to respect you and this mind game she's playing on you isn't exactly that
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:31 AM
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Ok bud. Calm down. You are too invested in a person who is ultimately just wanting to bang. She probably senses the stuff you think you are concealing, and didn't like it. This whole reversal thing may even be a trick to get you to show the truth. And honestly you're kind of pathetic. And I don't mean that to be rude even if it is, I'm just being honest. I bet she sees it that way, but think about what you look like. You have absolutely no standards. No self respect, no idea of what you want and…
/r/seduction10/05/24 12:12 AM
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Your question frustrates me. Beauty is subjective. So those 8s are 4s to them. But not to you. So their comment is fucking useless isn't it? Stop listening to all the crap people tell you
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:27 PM
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Dating sucked till women turned 25, before that they're really immature. Just my experience. However, the plus side of youth is that they're easier to escalate with.
/r/seduction09/05/24 05:20 AM
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I would break contact with her for 1-2 weeks and reinitiate after that for a meetup. If she declined, forget about her. Meanwhile try to speak to other girls.
/r/seduction08/05/24 09:00 PM
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I envy you.
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:26 PM
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?? You have to buy their only fans at the WhatsApp stage
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:01 PM
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What kind of video? It's probably an only fans advert.
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:01 PM
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Two weeks is definitely long enough. She may just be an emotional or anxious or shy person. You said it's the cultural norm though. It sounds like you have the right idea for moving forward. Id agree don't bother posting a story with another girl. She might be too emotionally fragile to handle it if she does have the aforementioned emotional problems. Stuff like that works best on confident women, I feel like (may be wrong) because they have more confidence in themselves to compete But that last…
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:49 AM
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It's cool bro we all do it or have done it, that's why you gotta practice what I said. Either practice it focused, or when the opportunity arises (harder) Focused: Go and approach 20 random women and have a conversation. Don't even have to number close. Can you do that? If not you should... Otherwise, next time you THINK you see a signal at the gym, plan to approach. Think about it every day. Every time you go to the gym. Think about how your just gonna do it. No matter what. Go over it in your …
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:43 AM
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Well IDK why you framed it as 'work related'. I know you wanna gauge things but IDK. Either you know or you don't. And if you don't you should've waited cuz she's a coworker lmao Now you kind of double fucked yourself. Do you see it that way? She is now meeting you for something that was framed as non sexual. Now if you escalate, it will be unexpected and maybe weird. If you don't, she won't think you have Attraction for her. Now, she may not even flirt. Because it's still associated with work!!…
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:20 AM
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That woman does not deserve to be taken out by you. You sound like you would be getting used, if she's acting so dismissive
/r/seduction08/05/24 05:09 AM
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Good job. You did it and that's the hardest part. Her reaction doesn't really matter. The best thing about this is that you overcame your fear and approached. Now, next time, don't hesitate. I bet you being a nervous little... For however long it was, turned her off. Combined with your 'nervous' approach, she could read the insecurity all over you. Mixed with the aforementioned mistake, and that's a wrap. So, next time. Recognize IOI. APPROACH. APPROACH. DONT EVEN THINK. Say hi. I noticed you ke…
/r/seduction08/05/24 04:26 AM
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She's just a woman. Treat her normally.
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:50 AM
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If I feel a vibration normally, does that mean my voice is deep? Does that not happen for everybody?
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:13 AM
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People who think this is predatory, are dumb. Nice post, I'll be attempting some of this as I have difficulties being sexual in that way
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:53 AM
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Ignore ROB. He doesn't actually seduce women. He just goes on every post here and complains about the tech, while never relating any information himself. So basically, he's just an average dude trolling here
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:52 AM
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You guys are really wanting to try to figure out how to text women but the bottom line is, it's just something that hurts you more than it helps. Every progress you make and escalation flirt ect you do in a text is one emotion you won't be able to give her in real life. You can't just out-clever biology
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:55 AM
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You say 'No. I don't really like to do dinner. Let's do XYZ instead.' and because they're women and feminine energy likes confident masculine energy, they'll probably agree. Or not, then you just don't go. Pretty easy stuff
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:25 AM
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Well, the times that happened it was because of THEIR interest. That's what I'm telling you. They'll move mountains IF attracted enough.. it's true. For these cases, they approached me and I closed. It was easy and didn't take much work. I just saw the opportunities and played them properly. They had friends there too. The whole time. Lmao. Anyways. Uhh, whole time at the club. Not later. Hehe Yeah the next day that usually happens man, club life is fickle. You meet a lot of great people but onl…
/r/seduction08/05/24 12:01 AM
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You're right that's a little complicated but you'd be surprised what a turned on woman is willing to do. Especially certain ones... I've taken women 2hrs or so away to fk before. But they wanted it bad enough it wasn't a problem. I can't really advise you too much then my man I don't know nothing bout the Netherlands, surprised y'all have Uber :p A number is a good minimum to get. But if you're out at a club, and you have a girl interested in you, I feel like that is the setting not to JUST get …
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:41 PM
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Hmm. Yeah. Can you Uber or something? Dunno what city you're in. But honestly man just try to avoid using crutches like that. You don't need it and you'll feel better when you can do what you want when you want, and not putting the credit on a substance for your success. Girls are really down for car play though usually. Some prefer it cuz they feel safer not being locked in ur house. Gl
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:29 PM
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Yep. Maybe go for a car hookup
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:14 PM
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What he means here is, that she should be hitting you up sometime throughout the month if she's interested. If not, then she isn't.
/r/seduction07/05/24 11:13 PM
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Whatever inspires you
/r/seduction07/05/24 06:27 PM
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At least you've got an exit plan. I'll just tell ya man, I got with my coworker who was hired as assistant manager and it went south and she ended up conspiring to get me fired, and did, successfully, but I hated the job so I didn't care. Just consider if it'll affect your career is all
/r/seduction30/04/24 03:12 PM
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Well that's the most low effort you could possibly do. Here's a better method Introduction - flirting/small talk - interests - form a connection - isolate(date, hang, number) How you do this is up to you. Back in the day I mainly used this process for online dating. Id pull 3-5 diff women a week and none of them would flake from online game. It's the same in real life but due to your environment might be easier or harder to do. During the small talk and flirting phase, get to know them like a fr…
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:35 PM
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Nah. Google it. This was from over 10yrs ago.
/r/seduction28/04/24 05:30 PM
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Back in the day it was taught to me that if a woman flakes, it's likely obviously due to low interest, and that low interest likely is due to a weak rapport building. What steps do you take to form a connection with these women? Or do you not bother to do so? Because if you didn't take the time to create interest, why would you expect them to maintain it longer than the interaction. Serious question though, if you post your method I can analyze and refine it
/r/seduction28/04/24 03:35 AM
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It'll be more awkward if you seduce her and have a falling out so why even do it? Go for it if your job is shit, don't do it if you like your job. If you want to show interest in her, see if she wants to go out for drinks. Drinks is the traditional date activity. It would set the tone. Then when you meet up, see how she looks. If she dressed up. That'd be a safe way to do it. But yeah you could also be direct like that other guy said.
/r/seduction27/04/24 11:19 PM
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You could try, like, talking to her. That'll get to the bottom of it pretty quick. Women play games with 'signals' and 'hints'. Man up
/r/seduction27/04/24 03:54 PM
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The only reason she was a ten is because you didn't talk to her past one sentence
/r/seduction14/04/24 04:56 AM
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Oh and ask any female friends you might have that'd be useful because they know you but don't want to date you
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:55 PM
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This can be true but doesn't apply completely to your post. A woman at the gym has no idea of your levels of success. If you really want to get to the bottom of it, start approaching women and when you get the reaction you describe, ask them if what you are sensing is correct and what vibe they got off you when you approached them. Do that for about 10 women and compare the feedback. This should be easy for you, as the only way to fail is to not gather an answer. Explain that it's part of a self…
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:54 PM
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Pretty good. Take her out for some wine or something and you'll probably end up sleeping with her
/r/seduction11/04/24 01:39 AM
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You need to put her on the back burner and go do something that she'll notice that'll draw her in. A fun event, a date with another girl, ect. She needs an emotional pull to draw her back in, nothing you do yourself directly will cause that in her.
/r/seduction06/04/24 04:03 PM
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Yeah that's the more interesting part for me.
/r/seduction29/03/24 05:37 PM
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Pick one or the other
/r/seduction27/03/24 11:44 PM
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What subreddit do you think you're in? Not sure why you're here when you have nothing to contribute and are unwilling to learn
/r/seduction27/03/24 10:26 PM
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