Meeting up with someone for the first time soon after chatting quite a bit. I’m expecting an evening of drinks and a little making out and a bit of biting. (He knows this: mans is fine playing chew toy.)

I don’t know though if I should reel it back a bit if I’m intending not to go home with him on the night. My friends tell me that the way I flirt and so on would likely drive them up the wall a little bit and I give off rather provocative vibes when I prefer to get to know someone a bit better. I thought I was just teasing a bit but I have heard otherwise and I think it is a bit frustrating for the man. I like playfulness but I don’t actually want to be annoying people.

Should I just try and lean back from it? Play more cutesy vibes I suppose? If a girl was wanting to make out and touch a little and bite you a bit would that be a bit too much for a casual evening? I don’t know. I want to play but play fair.