Curt_doggy_dog Archive

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1	I hate being a man. Also being a POC adds more fuel to the fire. You're supposed to be the life of a party and extremely social while working all the time, having a god like fitness routine to be in shape, and a high paying career just to get a decent date. I have felt as you do, though I am not a visible minority. Strict gender roles hurt everyone in some way. You feel all of this pressure as a man to be stoic, dominant and take the world by the balls. If you don't measure up to these standards you are made to feel like a nobody.	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/22 08:29 PM
1	I wish I could make amends to those I harmed while being brainwashed. Developing cognitive empathy for others (perspective-taking) and learning to take your own inventory often negates the need to go through these "theories" and try to differentiate between the good and the bad. Guys who get into this would be better off going to therapy or getting some kind of social-skills training. The "good" PUA advice is mostly common sense as it relates to their target audience (i.e. improving your fitness, self-confidence and social skills). PUAs know that a big percentage …	/r/ExRedPill	21/09/22 09:24 PM
1	Misconceptions the Redpill ignore Many terpers believe that, in relationships, power cannot be shared and that you are either the dominant one or the submissive one. They engage in very black and white thinking. They think if you show weaknesses to women, they will try to weaponize those weaknesses take your power. You are not a partner to them, you are an adversary in a zero-sum game. This paranoid, power-struggle mentality leaves no room for "love, connection and bond." When they pick their partners, they seek to maximize the …	/r/ExRedPill	02/06/22 08:24 PM
8	Is a beta orbiter a real thing? That type of guy does exist and they are basically next-level nice guys. They are fake "friends" with ulterior motives who only stay in a girl's orbit and remain "friends" in hope that one day they will be more than that. Some of them have obsessional traits and turn into stalkers, others get bored and move onto a new target. I have a female relative who is surrounded by these types and doesn't seem aware of it. However, most of the time when TRPers and MGTOWs call other men "beta orbiters" it i…	/r/ExRedPill	01/06/22 09:33 PM
3	How can you tell if a channel is RP or Men's improvement? Right. RP content often goes hand-in-hand with "conservative enlightenment" or incorporates some New Agey elements. The "Law of Attraction" also tells people that when something bad happens to them, they are a co-creator of that event and that they are at least partly to blame. If anyone is telling you these things, even if they aren't explicitly RP, it's best stay away. Personal responsibility is a good thing, but shaming/victim-blaming isn't.	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/22 10:44 PM
3	I just watched Rocky, are Adrians out there? Sure there are. Not everyone has the same "type" and not all women are only attracted to "normal" guys. There is nothing wrong with being "goofy" or "odd," what matters is that you are comfortable in your own skin and take good care of yourself. Nobody wants a partner who is insecure, neurotic, doesn't like themselves, etc. Start by changing things that are within your power to change. I know it's cliche AF, but start forming some fitness goals and hit the gym. Don't use movies as a template.	/r/ExRedPill	27/05/22 10:00 PM
2	Correlation between narcissism and red pill men? I think many grandiose narcissists naturally fit the RP suit, even if they don't consider themselves RP'ers. Additionally, many of the traits RP'ers seek to emulate are consistent with overt/grandiose narcissism. Even if narcissists don't make up the majority of RP'ers, they are probably still significantly more common in RP circles than in the general public. There are also probably allot of closet/covert narcissists into TRP who aspire to be more like the grandiose narcissists. TRP definitely …	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/21 08:56 AM
3	Do you thin there is a correlation between low intelligence and BP/RP? Or is it just lack of social skills and depression? Clearly this doesn't excuse what she did, but I think she wanted to get back at him for something he said/did. He still might not even know what that was exactly. He has no filter and occasionally says hurtful things to people on accident. If she was a toxic person, he could have easily missed the red flags and found himself in over his head (he doesn't read people well). I think it scarred him pretty deeply.	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/21 05:08 AM
1	Do you thin there is a correlation between low intelligence and BP/RP? Or is it just lack of social skills and depression? I hope so too. I understand why he has these problems, I just wish he could see that his experiences don't generalize to all women.	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/21 03:11 AM
4	Do you thin there is a correlation between low intelligence and BP/RP? Or is it just lack of social skills and depression? One of my friends who is into TRP has mild Aspergers and an extensive trauma history involving women. His dad is a deadbeat POS who wasn't in his life and his mom was both neglectful and abusive (she used to smoke meth when we were younger). I think he may have been molested by some of the people his mom brought around. I also think he was the product of an unplanned pregnancy which is why his mother treated him as a burden, so he has some unresolved "mommy issues." While he seems to be of norma…	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/21 02:25 AM