Hello, so I wouldn’t consider myself ‘ex red pill’, but I was somewhat impressionable and sucked into some of it as a female, this comes from my traditional values, as I believe in marriage and children, I.e starting a family very young. However I also believe, your partner should build you up and you build him up, love, connection and bond is so important with the person you’re with. But I’ve noticed a lot of ‘redpill’, ‘manosphere’ men want to take advantage of virgin women, (I’m also a virgin) that are my age 18-19, instead of actually truly love them, but it seems they want to grab young vulnerable girls in other countries, who’re in it for the greencard, as they have terrible circumstances. Which these men believe isn’t true, they also spout that even when they’re in their mid 30s-40s, they can still get a young girl, my age, who is a virgin. Personally as a 19 year old, I wouldn’t date them. But when I bring this up, a lot of redpill weirdos get offended and talk about the wall, and quickly try to jump ship, when I tell them, you blame adult women for chasing young guys, yet you’re doing the same thing basically… It seems a lot of redpill men, they attract low quality women, such as themselves, with this ‘pump and dump’ business. No woman of high caliber and self respect, would settle for an F boy.. I know this as a fact. I also don’t like how they, promote pump and dump, but don’t acknowledge their own pairbonding ability, can be damaged as a man. They also demonize most women by a few TikToks they watch, a lot of these tiktoks are just women that are looking for validation and they seem to believe most women are like this, I argue it’s the women they choose and attract. If you attract a damaged individual, you’re most likely damaged yourself and need to work on this trauma. I believe a lot of redpill ideology is flawed and is the opposite of feminism. These men that think with such disdain and pain, I don’t think they can truly love or bond, they claim they can.. but I know they’d take advantage of a young vulnerable foreign girl, who sees money and greencard, but it’s every western woman is evil…