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online on my end
/r/ExRedPill11/08/23 12:46 AM
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And don't compare yourself to normie standards. I mean, being judgemental and having an under active imagination don't sound too great in the big scheme of things.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:36 AM
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First, masking as if my life depended on it. Second, as I got older (and masking wax becoming tiresome) I began to teach myself how to read body language, facial gestures, and voice pitches/tones. Third: caffeine, tobacco, and prescription meds (Adderall, Effexor, MMJ). Last but not least: learning to be comfortable with rejection but never giving up in the process.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:34 AM
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I like having Aspergers because it tremendously helps with not giving any fthen. The older I've gotten the more I like this built-in function of not giving Fu***. I'm too old now, so a lot of sensorial issues I had either learned to deal with them or ignore them.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 03:18 AM
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I don't get the :( I enjoy having Aspergers.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/23 02:58 AM
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Ten years?! Duuuuuuude!!! Go out and meet people!!!
/r/ExRedPill04/08/23 06:41 PM
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Judging by the hundreds of posts from men my age and older posted on r/dating_advice r/datingadviceformen and the insane number of subilmissions I've posted on r/niceguys (again, most, if not all) by dudes my age. So no. Age ALONE won't make a man more attractive. If he didn't invest time in skin/hair care, exercise, and becoming financially stable, he's worse off than a fat woman of any age.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 04:45 AM
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Endorphins, yes. Then again, part of my point still stands. If lifting weights ALSO helps with their self-image, self-esteem, and self-confidence, then again, it is a net positive. Personally, I'm almost purely mesomorphic. So I have to lift (body or weights) to stay fit. People who are also mesomorphic will feel better with lifting than with just swimming or cycling.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 01:42 AM
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Actually, I feel these reasons you listed are still very legit reasons to hit the gym. For a lot of people with depression, working out is a good medicine. And if working out makes them more confident with themselves and thus, makes them more attractive to women... I see that as a positive.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/23 09:06 PM
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Because I didn't skimmed through it: I read it.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/23 12:07 PM
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Did you read the whole thing?
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 01:27 PM
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Body count does not truly matter. ​ More on why.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 11:42 PM
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No. It does not.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 11:41 PM
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Leave the pair bonding BS talking point behind. The same think tank that came up with the less likely to pair bond, eventually found out that a high body count is not correlated (nor is the cause) of increased divorce. Newer IFS data.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 11:40 PM
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retail store manager Male audacity truly knows NO limitations. If my husband began treating like he's treating you over getting ascended to retail store manager I'd become even nastier with him.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 11:20 PM
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I mean, isn't women will end up alone already the default?! The same men who cry about men are more likely to commit suicide and about how men are the largest % of work-related deaths. Yet the likes of y'all tend to ALSO be upset about women outliving men (AKA: ending up alone). ​ Which one is it then?!
/r/ExRedPill25/07/23 10:54 PM
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I really enjoy stoicism. It's what kept me accompanied during my teenage years as I lost faith in monotheism. Seneca the Younger's On the Brevity of Life was the best thing to have ever crossed my hands.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/23 07:07 PM
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r/therapyabuse
/r/ExRedPill22/07/23 05:13 AM
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What bothers me with the SMV hypothesis is that those who parrot it, forget about the market forces truly work. If women are the product to be acquired in said market place, it makes sense for the seller of the product (the women) to advertise themselves in the markets where they'll do best. But when one presents this market force to those parroting SMV hypothesis, those proponents get the Shocked Pikachu Face.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/23 12:20 AM
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But they will talk crap behind your back and judge you more harshly because of their jealousy. I hope this comment doesn't come across as NLOG-type, but spreading rumors like that is such a neuro-typical thing to do. I'm too socially awkward to even notice most societal faux-passes that exist.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 01:29 AM
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Not sure if I agree even with that. Conventionally attractive women tend to be treated by lots of men individuals like commodity, not people. FTFY.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 11:58 PM
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can become the target of jealous womens aggression as well. Keep telling yourself that. I used to tell myself that too when I was around 19. As I got older, I had noticed the overall treatment towards me have not changed too much. It is solely affected by weight fluctuations (2017-2020), but never due to age. Thus, when this generation of young ladies complain women my age hate them for their looks (trust me, I do not hate any woman on the sole basis of their outward appearance), they're just wa…
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 11:44 PM
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Do you?
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 11:44 PM
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Yes. It is easy mode. Let me explain: when those pretty women get equal treatment (usually from other women) in lieu of preferential treatment, they're quick to attribute it to misogyny, and not due to being seen as an equal.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 08:49 PM
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Somewhat true for the neuro-typical conventionally attractive women. While I'm conventionally attractive, I am neuro-spicy. So there's that. Not really easy mode.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 08:37 PM
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M e n. G e t t i n g T r i g g e r e d O v e r W o m e n
/r/ExRedPill09/07/23 05:33 AM
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The funnier part is that for like every incel/simp/TRP/BP bait videos she has, she also has about three or four videos that are not ragebait.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 02:39 AM
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I read Dr. NerdLove on Medium. He tends to be both tactful and blunt when he needs to be.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 02:35 AM
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I think Courtney Ryan has the heart in the right place, and she is rather genuine. My only issue with her is that, at times, some of the words/phrases she uses on her videos seem more like pandering. But in the big scheme of internet dating and life advice, Courtney Ryan is one of the better ones.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/23 02:34 AM
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Indigenous/Pre-Columbine MATRIARCHAL civilizations want a talk with whoever voted men built it all...
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 12:36 AM
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I appreciate how wholesome Courtney Ryan tends to be in regards men, unlike other female content creators. She says a lot of what Megha and Roma Army say, but in a non-aggressive, non-abrassive tone. I'm a huge believer on the how something is said much more than the what (barring bigotry and passive-aggressiveness).
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 06:40 PM
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But when men get into K-12 education, they're somehow seen as predators. Which does not help this cause. I'd love to see many more male teachers, especially in elementary education.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:16 PM
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Nah. Evo Psych is pseudo-science mumbo jumbo at best, and fringe discredited racialist and sexual absolutism at worst. And I'm saying as someone who works in the public policy non-profit sector. So I have a somewhat educated opinion on the fallacies of EvoPsych.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:14 PM
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Anyone who parrots phony divorce and custody statistics without evidence is a grifter. The reality is that men are the ones that in the long term end up better off after a divorce. She also posts a lot about military issues. And as a veteran myself, I got to see first hand that military men are way worse than any civilian spouse.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:11 PM
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They tend to be misandrists at times.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:58 PM
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I'd like to eventually become a much more wholesome version of Roma/Chloe. I love whole promoting men's mental health, but I abhor Roma/Chloe mild misogyny. Wanting better rights for one group does not mean taking rights from another group.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:57 PM
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⚠️(Exercise caution IF NEED TO watch)⚠️ Jordan Peterson Joe Rogan I am a huge JRE fan. Jordan Peterson has several broken clock moments. __________ I'd probably add Courtney Ryan to a lime green tier. ___________ ✅ (Great to watch for leaving the redpill)✅ HealthyGamerGG The only one worth a damn on this list. All the other ones are way too political. Not being red-pilled doesn't mean being a freaking tankie. Yes, I loathe socialism.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:53 PM
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You're 25. You're immediately disqualified for being too young for me.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 05:49 PM
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I can't quantify that. If they're naked in front of me, it is likely that I had found them attractive. That's such a weird thing to ask.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 04:20 PM
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I am a pansexual woman. Which means, I am attracted to men, women, androgynous, Trans, etc alike. Let me tell you how attraction works on my end: I am very visual. So, for example, an individual working out shirtless gets me going. My attraction towards someone tends to be rather instantaneous: if I find someone attractive, I know immediately. I am also the kind that gets infatuated with a person's physique before I get to know then. That being said, I find many kinds of bodies attractive.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/23 04:08 PM
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I never chase men. EVER!!
/r/ExRedPill03/06/23 09:33 PM
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The point STILL stands: he is rather well-off, and those women he has date are all 1% women.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/23 09:51 PM
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Easy: not a model =|= ugly.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 11:02 PM
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They likely have a very key ingredient: personality.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 11:01 PM
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That all the TRP mumbo jumbo are lies. Also check Patti Stanger's The Millionaire Matchmaker. If men with jets, several Lotus cars, etc csn still struggle finding women why does this nouveau rich baby boy thinks is easy?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 11:00 PM
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Also true. But the point stands: Pete has a personality. This OOP likely doesn't.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 08:13 PM
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And someone that rich can easily afford a personal trainer and/or invest in cosmetic surgery. But therapy to become more likable is cheaper.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:39 PM
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The thing is that tons of 1% women are both good looking and accomplished. I said in a previous post that someone like Mellody Hobson or Lauren Sánchez (but closer in age) would be a great match.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:38 PM
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I think a wealthy professional would suit him better. Say, a younger version of Mellody Hobson (a big time C-suite executive) or Lauren Sánchez (journalist and filmmaker). They are both with men of similar status: Mellody is married to George Lucas, while Lauren is Jeff Bezos's multiple years partner.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:37 PM
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Exactly. Say he manages to find some EmRata look a like. A woman THAT HOT could find an equally rich dude WITH A PERSONALITY!!! There is a reason real life EmRata dated Pete Davidson. Not only he has money and fame, but has A REAL PERSONALITY.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:34 PM
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Nah fam. It goes into the TRP mindset.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:32 PM
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But it still relates to TRP mindset. So many TRPers are all just make $$$$$$ and women will come automatically. I never said anything about who he can/cannot date.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:32 PM
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No lies detected.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:30 PM
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Probably
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:30 PM
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Didn't seem to help this dude.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/23 05:07 AM
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Then why are you mad about people who don't even know you exist?
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 07:19 PM
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Then go be a SW?!
/r/ExRedPill13/05/23 05:07 PM
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His takes are very much the kind that are he's right, BUT wrong as to how/why he's right.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 07:56 PM
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Lol. The lengths you go to justify TRP bs.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 08:05 PM
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Lol, no. That's why people take (either) basic psychology, sociology, or economics in college, on top of a basic human communication class. To understand how/why humans act in X or Y ways.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/23 06:59 PM
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NYP 2015 article.
/r/ExRedPill25/03/23 08:11 PM
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Not him on a personal way, despite he invites red pillers to his show.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 10:49 PM
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Joe Rogan is actually a super kind person. I'd say he'd be the better option.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 08:47 PM
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I’m 35 (f) and I feel like has been getting better and cooler for me.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/23 06:29 PM
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r/tradfemsnark We mock RPW.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 10:10 PM
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Pedro, el Escamoso is the other show my non-Hispanic husband has been using to learn Spanish. The other being Los Simpsons. Porque... no vives de ensalada.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 01:39 AM
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Evo psych, IMO, is pseudoscience at best and fringe mumbo-jumbo at worst.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 12:24 AM
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A Colombian dramedy (available on Netflix) called Pedro, el Escamoso. Seneca the Younger’s The Brevity (or Shortness) of Life.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/23 12:13 AM
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To me, it is.
/r/ExRedPill11/02/23 02:38 AM
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I am the type to prefer a shorter but better-looking man, over a taller lesser looking man. Whenever I've encountered liking more than one dude, the tie-breaker was usually who had the larger junk. Being taller was not a guarantee. The largest dude I've ever seen below the waist was like 5'11" tops.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 06:07 AM
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Tall women should also consider shorter men. Boys, almost always, grow taller than their mothers even if the dad is shorter; for example, my late maternal grandpa was around 5'4" to my grandmother's 5'7". My two uncles grew to be over 6'.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/23 06:02 AM
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Sounds like a HE problem.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 05:38 AM
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Yea. Doesn’t mean the other person wants HIM in return. You can tell Musk is HORRID when he’s dumped… FOR A (trans) WOMAN!!!!!
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 05:00 AM
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I think it's funny how TRP men claim that as long as a man is financially well off, all women will be chasing them non-stop. No!!! ___________ I mean, why is, say, Elon Musk STILL single?! It isn't because he's hard to look (he's rather average-ish), but because he's insufferable!! OTOH, you have Jeff Bezos. He had an amicable divorce and has been dating (since 2019) the same woman (an age-appropriate fellow single parent, like he is). So money doesn't mean Shit!! A man who's an overall LVM, wil…
/r/ExRedPill03/02/23 12:47 AM
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Or even those who are filthy rich, like Jeff Bezos or Donald (Trump) Jr. Junior is also engaged to an older woman as well, and Jeff is dating someone who's age appropriate. Both Kimberly Guifoille and Lauren Sánchez are insanely beautiful women.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 08:00 PM
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Most have a few millions. Maybe the likes of Tom Brady may have in the hundreds of millions, and even then, his hot supermodel ex had more than he has. She's a billionaire, and one of the very few who are entirely self-made. She could TOTALLY get a young hottie if she so desires.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/23 07:57 PM
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Men willing to marry me? Imma be 35 in two weeks and I’ve been married for over ten years. Then again, I married rather young (23) but unwanted attention has not stopped at all. I mean, most of my friends and relatives who are over 30 and had been dating with a purpose have managed to marry/remarry just fine. My own mother remarried my stepdad at 34: they met when she was 31. My dad’s bride, when he remarried at 40, was 33.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 09:13 PM
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Lauren Sánchez might be 53 and on top of it, a single mother (she has two teenaged kids), but SHE IS GORGEOUS!!!
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 12:47 AM
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YOU don't have to say it nor believe it. However, it is the general concensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:34 AM
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He’s also 6’5”. 😁😁😁😁😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:28 AM
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With more bodies comes with more potential baggage, and sex loses its sacredness; Sex is just sex. There’s nothing sacred about it. I know you got lucky and got wifed up I am hardly an exception. but I know for a fact that most men don't like promiscuous women I had a total of four engagements; two became marriages. You may want to stop with your dumb assumptions. it's generally seen as repulsive, but they'll never say it to your face, especially if he's benefiting from it. Prove it… So if you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 10:46 AM
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For example, if you were to tell your husband that you slept around before getting together with him, do you think he'd have a positive reaction to it? He could NOT care less. The obvious answer is no, men don't like women who are promiscuous for long term relationships. He met me during said phase. He opted to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:04 AM
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DR is the largest Central American economy. So I’ll use my neighborinos as a good comparison tool. Yes, chapiadora is also used where I’m from. Gracias.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:59 AM
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I’m PANSEXUAL!!!! Basically the opposite of Asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:58 AM
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Why isn’t the 2nd a good reason? Men do the same without impunity. Why is it okay for a man to do it, but not me?! EXPLAIN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:57 AM
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This is my current dude. He ain’t no 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:56 AM
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Became better at sex. Learned to dissect the men I like/liked AS PEOPLE versus the ones that are for funsies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:57 PM
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De una de las islas del Caribe Hispaano. Creeme, las únicas nenitas que se meten con viejos son las chapiadoras. Quienes tienen opciones están con gente de edades cercanas.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:45 PM
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Honestly, it isn't like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:13 PM
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Prove it... women also often causes conflicts between men and lobby the government to get more benefits from it without contributing as much. As they should. Let me introduce you to THE PINK TAX!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:08 PM
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If they can kill their own unborn children just for breaking up with the boyfriend, they are able to be evil in far more things. Oh, shut up!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:06 PM
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About the same. My four engagements had been with men I deemed very attractive: they all have/had very good-looking faces. I wouldn't have considered anything long-term with them if I didn't feel they were look-matches with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:02 PM
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According to whom? ___________ Both sexes can display these traits. ___________ I'm very analytical and get a massive high out of competitiveness, but my husband is very compassionate and is the (waaaaaaay) better nurturing parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:58 PM
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Explain...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:52 PM
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As someone who's a tall lady and had dated across the height spectrum, some of my greatest hits whenever I had dated tall but insecure men: He was shorter, but not where it matters. I could see him eye to eye, which was very sexy whenever I wanted to kiss him. I love it when men climb on top of me like I was a tree! Basically: all men of all heights are JUST AS SEXY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:55 AM
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I personally, had a small-ish hoe phase after my 1st ex and I split. Having said phase did wonders whenever I was dating for real. It also eventually led to my other three engagements (and subsequent marriage). But honestly? Some dudes weren't good (sex-wise) at all!!! So, 7/10: I would somewhat recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:18 AM
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I personally, had a small-ish hoe phase after my 1st ex and I split. Having said phase did wonders whenever I was dating for real. It also eventually led to my other three engaments (and subsequent marriage). But honestly? Some dudes weren't good (sex-wise) at all!!! So, 7/10: I would somewhat recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:18 AM
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Well, that has never happened with me because I had only dated men I intend to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:13 AM
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I mean, if that was all true then why are immigration attorneys LITERALLY telling people how to get away with immigration fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:06 AM
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The bigger issue I somewhat have is dudes who think that by just flashing money, ladies will be swooping over them yet have no concern nor knowledge of how things work elsewhere. I'm much more concerned with the exploitation of local women by those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:45 AM
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I mean, Argentina>>>>>>the English/Germanic speaking world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:31 AM
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All facts in your last paragraph. And thanks for the Faroe Island mention: now I know where to go if I become a widow!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:30 AM
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You might get (truly) lucky in Ireland. Seems it’ll become a taco fest soon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:28 AM
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Reminds me of 90 Day Fiancé’s second season. Some out of luck Mormon fell for a Russian party girl he met in Prague. And yes, it ended just as you’d imagine, lol!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:27 AM
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Because a lot of those MEN DO SEEK to exploit the local ladies!!!!! This dude tried that, yet he FAFOed in his dumb attempt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:25 AM
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Russia IS A TACO FEST even without the war happening!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:24 AM
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This is good thinking. And good for you for not ending like this dumb schmo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:22 AM
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It seems common enough that a goddamn immigration attorney is LITERALLY TELLING PEOPLE HOW TO GET AWAY WITH immigration fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:07 AM
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West Indies is the more common English name for the Antilles archipelago in the Caribbean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:04 AM
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young foreign wives If they’re non-northerners, they’re likely age appropriate. Asians tend to age super good. One of my best friends (man) is half PR (dad) and half Filipino (mother, from Cebú: she speaks Cebuano and Chavacano moreso than Tagalog). His mom is middle aged, but doesn’t look much older than I do (I’ll be 35 next month). So that cute Filipina next to some retired, say, Gunny might be about the same age or less than a decade younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 01:02 AM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The fact that a goddamn IMMIGRATION LAWYER HAS TO DO A VIDEO ON THIS goes to show IS common!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:20 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:13 PM
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I wouldn’t count these two gents as passport bros. If they found a lady from their own culture albeit they’re (the gents) living in western countries, it isn’t quite the same as Gringos who purposely move abroad JUST to find ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:13 PM
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A good chunk do relocate, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:10 PM
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It doesn’t really count when military people do it. They’re effectively living in those countries. Thus, meeting locals happens more naturally. And, very importantly, most of those relationships don’t tend to be predatory in nature: the ladies tend to be age appropriate in comparison to the gent in question. Second, it isn’t unusual for them to had have some sort of formal education and/or job training beforehand. Third: many military retirees and/or disabled veterans relocate to those countries…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:10 PM
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And then off with you, dumb Gringo!! once they get a Green Card!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:56 PM
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Babe. I’m not Asian, but West Indian. Tall men are NOT rare AT ALL at all where I’m from!! The shortest dude in my family, is barely 5’11. Let that be a hint. I’m 5’9” myself, albeit drastic sexual diphormism is way more evident where I’m from: women only average about 5’3” while men average at least 5’10”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:49 PM
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I wasn’t even looking it like that (since I’m a bit of a feminist too). Then again, I’m from Latin-America: I’ve seen cases of dudes from worse-off countries running from their newly created families where I’m from. One of my dad’s (female) cousins ventured with a Dominican years ago (long before DR became the largest Central American economy) and had a baby with him. He ran off back to DR, albeit they managed to co-parent my 2nd cousin (she’s about to be 29 this year) back and forth: she’d stay…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:46 PM
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OP doesn’t seem to have issues.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:46 PM
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That’s a bad take. Why should u/081890 downgrade to his level?! Plus, women who talk trash about other women for no reason are the worst kind of misogynists.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:43 PM
6

Because Reddit is a cesspool of incels with frail egos.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:42 PM
1

I got married to my ex and current husband over their physiques and penis sizes first and foremost. Then again, my current husband is also a more emotionally mature man and a great dad.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:39 PM
1

Lol, Christian morality and Islamic morality are almost (if not) the same kind of BS purity culture trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:05 PM
1

Easy: they want that Mandingo🍆.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:03 PM
1

I knew a Norwegian lady whose EX husband was Senegalese. He dumped her and ran off back to Senegal. So it is happening too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:01 PM
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The only instance I know of this irl is a super hot Ecuatorian co-worker my mom has. Her USian husband is some ugly neckbeard An-Cap type. She can land a much, much hotter dude. But she's with some ugly neckbeard because he has money, and that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:59 PM
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The USian men with Brazilian wives tend to be even look-matches for the most part. I haven't seen a crusty ugly dude with a hot Brazilian lady: they're always about as good-looking as them Brazilian ladies. Then again, I've seen my fair share of other Latinas with ugly dudes. Those tend to be from the much more poorer countries. My mother has an insanely hot co-worker around my age who's from Ecuador, yet her husband is very neckbeard-ish: one of those terrorist sympathizers An-caps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:54 PM
1

Right here!!! Irish mail-order husbands ARE 💯 a thing!!! Irish newspaper advertises Irish men as desirable: comparing them with famous Irish male celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:49 PM
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Because in most countries outside the Anglo/Germanic spheres, this is the mentality (quoting a movie): Men are the head. BUT women ARE THE NECK: the neck makes the turn around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:45 PM
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Nah fam, they're right. I'm from a place KNOWN for sex tourism, yet here are the faces of Gringos when they come where I'm from to find out things aren't as easy...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:43 PM
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The Iberian and Italic Peninsulas are western countries with TONS of non-overweight women. Iberian and Italian ladies are borderline perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:41 PM
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I don't know why women here freak over this. YOU got freaked out over MY comment first!!! I am PANSEXUAL: get that in your head. Swearing up and down how you never date or even think of any older man is more of your insecurity talking. Lol how you assume is mere insecurity. Babe, it is more a cautionary tale to the younger ladies WHO GET USED AND ABUSED BY older men. Ah, I bet you already knew I'm taken right?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:38 PM
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The Dominican Republic is still a western country. It is the largest economy in Central America. Don't conflate the Anglo/Germanic America global north with the Latin-American global south.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:46 AM
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Are YOU married to your barely legal bangmaid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:07 AM
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I'm from LatAm as well. Being a lady who never cared nor followed a lot of societal nuances (mainly due to my undiagnosed autism and ADHD) was no walk in the park. It is worse when elderly relatives show blatant favoritism to male relative peers, despite being better as a whole. Still, I vastly like LatAm in the bigger scheme of things for this reason: most places in LatAm had managed to find an okay-ish blend between individualism and collectivism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:38 AM
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Made-up BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:33 PM
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My 18-year-old self didn't care for ANY DUDE past age 25, barring mi papá and mis abuelitos, no matter how much money he had. Yes. I'm a thick legged Latina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:55 PM
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My running theory is that we autists can’t just be completely unmasked and expect normal people not to (usually) find that off-putting. I agree with this. Then again, I don’t live life thinking about what would the NTs say… I’m the kind that tends to be rather take it or leave it in the general scheme of things. Thoughts? Like maybe some (most?) placements on the spectrum just can’t be completely unmasked if they expect to fit in? Fitting in? I’ve tried to fit in, and eventually gave up about fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:05 PM
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I am autistic with very had ADHD. I am also very uninhibited. Then again, I'm deemed rather attractive by most. I'm also a lady. Thus, a lot of my stimming behaviors had been mistaken for flirting.🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:10 AM
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Agree. And even tho I'm a lady, being very uninhibited has largely been my key to dating success. I'm not afraid of making/looking like a fool by default (what in my culture we call hacer el ridículo ).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:07 AM
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To me he’s average-looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:29 PM
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It’s so dumb when men think women, no matter how undesirable they think they are, STILL have certain standards. I personally could NOT care less how much money a man has or how great his body is if his face is UGLY and is unable to please me sexually!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:11 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:21 AM
8

I'd go more with weird standards. The BMI puts me at around a bit over 27. BUT my BODY FAT is at 24.6%. I have tons of stretch marks, many of them since MY TEENS. I don't have a whole of cellulite, however. But that's more genetics than anything else. And to the gym, I wear pajamas!!! I buy those cutesy ones at Walmart with cartoons and the like. And I wear a very long and loose-fitting t-shirt. Underneath, I wear two sports bras (34F naturals) and athletic booty shorts. Dudes like OP and his fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:03 PM
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I have a very attractive friend, 6’3, he’s an athlete competing on international level, he’s funny and good looking and has a successful fitness business. He’s cool as hell also How's his FACE ? Is he good in the sack? ….yet the women he sees or has dates with are either overweight, bland, old or just plain old unremarkable. You said he runs a successful fitness business. Okay, have you considered he set that business up as a way to get easy kitty from women both you and him DEEM undesirable ? A…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:49 PM
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Mine can. Why is this even being asked?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:40 PM
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Well, there you go!! I’m from the Americas. In this part of the world, there’s way less benevolent sexism (even in LatAm) than in South Asia. Hence most are disagreeing with you: in these countries, women do work stressful, soul sucking jobs as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:37 PM
1

Yes: both REAL friendzone and f-buddy zoned. If given the choice, id take the latter over the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:32 AM
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Here's a more average-looking dude, who's TOTALLY slaying it with ladies. Why? Easy! Even Chris Rock back in the 90's predicted the appeal of dudes like PD: after a certain age, all women care for in a man is that he has a dick and a job... And PD has both: a dick and a job. Even back in 2010, as long as a dude didn't look like Quasimodo, had a working dick, and had stable employment... That was it, that was the entry ticket!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:15 AM
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I can be with a person who's kinda bad as a person. Why? I'm not that great of a person myself, for starters. Second, I rather have a partner who's crappy as a person AS LONG AS THEY PROVIDE ME WITH REGULAR, QUALITY SEX.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:34 AM
1

One simple answer: HE PROBABLY HAS A MAGIC PENIS!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:32 AM
5

I've never gotten the whole point of most TRP advice being so centered around club life. As someone who is more of a concert-goer and spends more time browsing books and comic book stores, none of the TRP scenarios had ever made true sense to me. Plus, is way too neuro-typical as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:25 PM
1

Right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:27 PM
1

A high number of clandestine abortions DO result in death.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:27 PM
1

Are you like a (much) younger version of Imran Khan or something? Also: ditch online dating!!
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 04:51 PM
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💯Agreement!!!
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 07:47 PM
2

Imagine being THIS offended over a horrible person… All your comments on this thread, have the same energy as ⬜️supremacists who defend any insult thrown at, say, Hitler or Mussolini.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/22 07:44 PM
0

Died... as in THE ONES HAVING DIY abortions!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:38 AM
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Honestly, as a black man Latina ( FROM LatAm ) I see the same thing in regards to race. It's not a man thing it's a male redditor thing. In my fourteen years on this platform... SO. MANY. MEN. JUST NEED TO TREAT AND TALK TO WOMEN AS REGULAR PEOPLE. THAT ALONE WILL SOLVE MOST OF THEIR HANG-UPS!!! The type to claim they're totally for equality and inclusion but secretly report you to HR for whatever bullshit infraction they can think of. AKA: what on this side of the pond are akin to suburban prog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:27 AM
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I somewhat like the analogy. As an amateurish economist, I LOOOOOOVE breaking down the SMV theory to TRP followers who fail to see the larger picture of said analogy. Here’s a deeper breakdown: _________ I am a seller, in the SMP (sexual marketplace). As a/the seller, I can choose/decide which sector within the SMP I want to advertise my service.. The service, being myself. Given my innate and acquired traits, I can survey either the local, national and/or international SMP. If I was divorced, I…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/22 12:34 AM
2

So, how can he be great at keeping women… if he always had to be the one ending things?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:18 AM
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Those, sure. I give that to you. I don’t feel terribly sorry for Stacy, the preacher’s daughter who messed around with Chet, Chase, Chucho, Chang, and Chaz. And then doesn’t know who’s going to be the baby daddy. I’m also NOT terribly sorry over the left losing this cultural war. Why? Because they FAFOed FOR WAY TOO LONG over gender identity issues AND ALLOWED SAID ISSUES to run amok!!! I feel sorry, however, for those who lost access AND don’t have means to go elsewhere. Either because it’ll be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:15 AM
1

Being featured on the many iterations of Facebook's: I'm a Nice Guy, you freaking bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:06 PM
0

Source, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:35 PM
2

You aren’t very versed in overall public policy, aren’t you? You seem to be too easily swayed by whatever talking points and buzzwords you hear from pundits rather than doing your own independent fact-checking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:32 PM
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Not irrelevant AT ALL!!!!! Those that claim to be THE most vocally pro-life tend to be very pro-abortion… BUT for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:30 PM
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Most of his ad-hominem had been removed. Don’t read, or read at your own risk. But the cringiest thing is him saying: I don’t have issues attracting and/or keeping women. My ONLY issue is that I **ALWAYS BREAK-UP with them. Sounds like a he problem if he always HAS TO BE BREAKING UP…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:29 PM
0

AND MOST HAD DIED!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:13 PM
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Not a large majority. Texas is the 2nd most populated state (heck, more people in Texas than Australia, just putting in perspective how MANY PEOPLE ARE AFFECTED ). _______________ You are so misinformed!!! ______________ In Red States, lots of women are pro-life anyways… Again, you don’t know crap!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:03 PM
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Also a lot of those can just go to the next state... Not as easy for many. Either: Their home states are criminalizing crossing Statelines to get air, or mere money/time constrains. Just because rich Staceys and Fatimas can fly overseas to get air, the norm/more affected by the overturn (poorer Beckys, Naomis, Marias, etc) may have to carry to term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:19 PM
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You mean that procedure that's now SUPER ILLEGAL in about 1/2 of the world's 3rd most populated country?!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:31 PM
1

ONLY when men make incredibly, outlandish assumptions about myself and/or women in my life. While this isn’t super common, it isn’t super rare either. It’s a bit more common in women who work/have worked in several male-dominated jobs/careers (eg. STEM, LEO, military, skilled trades, etc). Examples on how detect these men: Men who won’t shut up about phony accusations, yet ignore real accusations among their peers. Or worse, deny/downplay the existence of male victims. Claim there’s no wage gap,…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 05:12 AM
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So why would you think that getting a mail-order bride from overseas would somehow make a difference? I was in the military, and saw way too many of my male co-workers having this same line of thought... then getting divorced years later (with like five kids alongside as well) all because they got used by SEA women with "wholesome family values."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 11:01 PM
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I guess he's cooking himself...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:57 PM
3

I appreciate a great roast: both a great comedic roast (even at me) and a dish. 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:56 PM
3

Cook? Yes, I enjoy cooking for my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:00 PM
3

And you can’t find locals?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:59 PM
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A man can still have a kid and family into their later ages. Doesn’t mean he should. Doing it in your 30's or 40's. Good luck. It is possible, but a lot of risk. An older man who goes around looking for young tail, is unnecessarily putting said younger woman at unnecessary risk HAD HE DONE IT SOONER!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:57 PM
1

Why not? I did time in service.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:55 PM
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Yes, Sweden, the country in which military service is mandatory for men and women collectively voted to keep it that way, while exempting themselves from it. I somewhat agree with CO-ED mandatory conscription. Aside Sweden, Norway, Morocco, and Israel also have co-ed mandatory conscription (AFAIK). I say somewhat because I'm not in full-fledged support of overall mandatory conscription. But if the USA and/or their closest allies (UK, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Netherlands, Mexico, France an…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:54 PM
3

Some people don't understand as you get older and older it is much harder to find the right person. This sub LOVES to parrot this line to women. Why don't men take their own advice too?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:35 PM
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Yes, but NOT for the reasons you think. As a Latina from the West Indies, I've been warning my Latina sisters of r/thepassportbros Why? When Global North dusties think WE are easier and more feminine, my sisters need to be warned of these predators. And it's working!!! If I can save a fellow lady from these dusties, I feel very satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:33 PM
3

And then end up divorced after said SEA lady pops a few kids?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:30 PM
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Seems like you've hit the male equivalent of the wall... Which is this: spending ALL their youth making money (and nothing BUT money ) then complaining that 304's don't want me, despite I have money!!! I thought ALL women ONLY cared about money!!!! This is yet ANOTHER example of a dude who discovered nobody wants him due to his crap attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:29 PM
2

Tons of men are tall l, yet are perpetually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:24 PM
3

however the typical sTaCy going traveling after school to FiNd HeRsElF is just a funny stereotype. And they're usually dumb monolinguals to boot!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:23 PM
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Not really. You just need to widen your social circle beyond dumb, vapid people. Watching foreign TV/films and listening to non-English music is super effective in learning more languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:20 PM
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Leaving the USA, even for a few days and even by car, is such a life changing experience!!! You realize both sides of the mass media are lying!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:18 PM
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I literally watch the equivalent of trash-tv from other countries TO learn OTHER LANGUAGES!!!!! As in, I spent an ungodly amount of time watching Brazilian, Turkish, and East Asian shows to learn said languages!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:17 AM
3

Donald Trump’s presidency? There were changes in how alimony is taxed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:07 AM
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Typical example of we can date around ‘cause we are men. But you women, better sit for us and “wait”. Their audacity…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:00 AM
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Daaaang, you sure ARE special. You criticize traveling and watching TV for promoting consumerism. But guess what?! I’ve learned several skills thanks to to traveling and watching TV!!! If it wasn’t thanks to TV, I wouldn’t be a polyglot. If it wasn’t for traveling, I would had never improved my soft skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:56 AM
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all women are not conventionally attractive I'm pansexual, and my range of what I find physically attractive is very varied. So yes, what is conventionally attractive? Who and by what parameters is said conventional attraction measured? Fashion? Cultural trends? Mass media?This isn't as simple as you'd think...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:15 AM
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LOOKS ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT ASPECT WHEN INTERACTING WITH WOMEN. ____________ I... know. Whenever I say that a man's physique (specifically a man's FACE and his downstairs ) matters a lot TO ME, I get a lot of backlash. From men and women alike, Red Pill alike, Blue Pill alike, FDS women alike, MRA men alike... everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:30 AM
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Women are generally not consciously aware of why they take particular actions, that’s not really a new idea. I had the decency to backup my statements. You haven't. Please, back up ALL you had said about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:25 AM
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Did you just... MANSPLAINED ME?!! my OWN SEXUAL DESIRES AND NEEDS?!!! Second, y'all Aussie Gringos are as dumb as Ameri-gringos. What a NOT surprise!!! Yes, just like in the USA, STD rates had been going up "down under" as well!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:01 AM
1

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:55 AM
0

Is this you? In other words, you're saying that money can't buy happiness?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:52 AM
1

I do use social media, but as a business and networking tool. Not as an attention seeking or validation tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:51 AM
2

I agree. I had great times and experiences with some of my short term FWB/f-buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:48 AM
1

I wouldn't consider myself rare. Just not too concerned over the opinion of people who aren't part of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:46 AM
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I have Asperger and ADHD. I could NOT care less about what other broads care about my life with a dude who's giving me MASSIVE O's on the daily!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:38 AM
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While I'm the type that prefers the Jeremy (pretty face and 7" junk), there are women who aren't as picky about face and/or aren't as picky about junk size (eg. they may prefer oral or hands anyways). Likewise, I'm 1.75m/5'9". Despite I'm in decent shape (size eight), I HAD LOST COUNT over the times being the height I am has been a deterrent when dating. Despite a man being shorter isn't an issue to me, since I've met my fair share of short Jeremy's.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:33 AM
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Too bad this golden piece of advice may either get buried for being new, or down voted by braincels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:24 AM
2

I would if he ALSO has a third leg.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:22 AM
2

So you make over $400K on a given year? Cool. And what about the rest of you? Physique wise? Are you well-read? Hobbies/pastimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:21 AM
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Women truly ENJOY Sex but they don’t VALUE sex the same as men do. False. I'm a woman, and I both enjoy AND value sex. And why would they... Easy. I LIKE and ENJOY sex. They become very picky and discerning Maybe is because, unlike men, women carry the burden of PREGNANCY?! No birth control in existence is 100% effective (since even the fallopians or the Vas Deferens can regrow). Personally, since I got my hormones tested in late 2010, I began treating ANY SEXUAL encounter as a possible, implici…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:07 AM
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They literally use him to prop their own careers, NOT because they actually LIKE him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:46 AM
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1% of what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:44 AM
2

Instead they select for height. No, face attractiveness and overall sex appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:43 AM
2

But who gets to define what IS deemed conventionally attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:39 AM
2

I'm a pansexual lady. They are all sexually attractive... TO ME!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:38 AM
1

Idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:47 PM
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I went to Mexico about two weeks ago. I was amazed with the amount of good-looking men down there. Y'all really need to turn off gringo mass media!!! It's rotting y'all's braincells.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:13 PM
1

This dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 09:19 PM
1

BECAUSE WE WANT TO, THAT'S WHY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:39 PM
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Most women don’t get anything out of it physically Excuse me?! I GOT LOTS OF EXPERIENCE!!!! Thanks to hookup culture, I mastered: ______________ How to give BJ's to full completion. How to ride in several ways (facing forward, facing backwards, with legs extended, with legs in the lotus position, etc) without getting tired. How to become flexible with men of different body shapes and sizes. Say whatever you want, but if I've been happily married to a man who's my TRUE EQUAL, it was thanks to hoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:38 PM
1

Most girls are bad at blow jobs, hand jobs, intercourse Glad I'm not most girls, then!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:33 PM
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PERSONALLY, I choose partners based on how well they perform sexually/can satisfy ME sexually. __________________ Likewise, I am capable of doing the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 09:30 PM
1

Oh really? Please, tell me more...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:47 PM
1

It isn't deflection. How the hell you dare to come here and say parents are the happiest, yet you neglect to mention THE KEY COMPONENT AMONG PARENTS: THE GODDAMN KIDS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:46 PM
2

I like both!! I smoke a bowl before my son comes from school. After he's done with homework, I watch Family Guy with him (thanks to said bowl ), then we do chores together. He helps with dishes and dinner. I enjoy being a mother and my 4:20 🍀🍀🍀!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:38 PM
1

Proud middle age millennial who just entered perimenopause!!! Like the first study said: The good news: the data show that most people emerge from this low ebb in their 50s. And, "by the time you are 70, if you are still physically fit, then on average you are as happy and mentally healthy as a 20-year old," Oswald said. "Perhaps realizing that such feelings are completely normal in midlife might even help individuals survive this phase better." Because I'm taking care of my physical self, havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:34 PM
1

Y'ALL WISH!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:31 PM
1

How cute! So parents were the happiest during COVID-19... AT THE COST OF THEIR CHILDREN'S WELL BEING!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:30 PM
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Hi! Child of divorce here! ______________ Tons of decent men, like my now step-dad date single mothers!!! My parents divorced in 1997. Neither had much issue dating after they felt ready. They remained friendly and managed to co-parent because their parents and myself (since they were basically more like older siblings than parents to me) kept them to the heel. My mother met my step-dad (who's my 2nd dad) when I was 13. My dad dated around for a bit, but he had a LTR with a lady who was a mutual…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:52 PM
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Oh honey, I wouldn't count so much on IFS data without looking at how did them kids fared during COVID-19. I mean... >! Childhood abuse SKYROCKETED!!!! !<
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:39 PM
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What is PERImenopause? Yes, I am experiencing Perimenopause. It began around spring of this year. ____________ And I'm actually rather happy to be experiencing a 2nd adolescence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:30 PM
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East Asia and Anglo-Saxon North America =!The whole world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 06:25 PM
4

I am 34. I am facing PERImenopause already.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:45 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:44 PM
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They’re still experiencing perimenopause: whether they procreated or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 12:43 PM
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It is okay for a woman to approach men. As in, to strike a conversation and ask him for his # first. People (regardless of sexual identity/preference) must not be shamed for their lack of sexual experience or their promiscuity. Looking at Pete Davidson, it shows (without fail) that the way a man treats his mother SAYS A LOT ABOUT THE WAY A MAN WILL TREAT HIS FUTURE PARTNERS!! So I always check how a man treats his mother, and I ensure to earn his mother's love and approval, which I always tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 08:22 PM
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I'm pansexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:45 AM
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Who's the one with the bigger junk?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:11 AM
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I much more rather be with an average height, but very good looking and decently sized below the waist man than some average looking schmo just because he is tall. _______ I've shared and reiterated this feeling on this subreddit several times. So do not try to convince me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:09 AM
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Height obsession for men and women having to be hyper skinny (outside showbiz) are largely US standards. In most of the world, people tend to look at the overall package, and aren't so overly obsessed if a person is just X cm/inches tall or X kg/lbs heavy if the rest of them looks good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 12:07 AM
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Plus use common sense: you know western men are going over there because their basic attributes (money, citizenship, whiteness ) has more value there. Did you REALLY say this?! Men are going over there because it's easy, and that by itself is fine. Easy... until they start getting tired of said women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:04 AM
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Not everyone could do what I’ve done nor have they survived it How cute!! Go tell your grievances to your anger management counselor at the VA, okay? Veterans who go all bUt cIvIeS JuSt dOnT gEt iT are CRINGE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 12:25 AM
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I do. I ask them: then start dating men for a chance! After all, many of them get off to butt seggs. They might as well try men!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:06 PM
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Lol you don’t care until you try to call a guy an incel/virgin who hasn’t had experiences with women…then suddenly that matters 😂 I tend to avoid shaming people for their lack of sexual experiences. If I were going to mock for something, it'd be for wanting me to care about you being a veteran. Like, that's just, y'know doing your job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 01:00 AM
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Nah. That's cringe, and I feel weird about JUST DOING MY GODDAMN JOB!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:58 AM
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I just brought a goddamn human. That's nowhere near close to what I'd expect to me my life's MO. Still, my point was about pain: comparing a damn toothache to labor?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 12:57 AM
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I had, several times. Had all four wisdom teeth removed, or face ADMIN separation from military service because my teeth were becoming a problem to readiness. BUT NEVER, EVER COMPARED TO PUSHING A HUMAN BABY OUT OF MY VAGINA. SECOND, STITCHES IN MY GUMS WERE NOWHERE NEAR AS PAINFUL NOR LENGTHY AS STITCHES IN MY VAGINA!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:43 AM
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Did you compare a mere toothache to HAVING YOUR GODDAMN PELVIS SPREAD OUT FOR HOURS IN ORDER TO BRING ANOTHER HUMAN BEING INTO THIS FREAKING WORLD?! On top of that, all the things that can go wrong prior, during and after labor: to either the mother, the fetus/child, and/or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:42 PM
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Hence my comment about Helen of Troy. She was Helen of Sparta originally!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 11:02 PM
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Let's not forget that Helen of Troy was originally Helen of Sparta.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:30 PM
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And by mandatory conscription, too. Also, by women being on equal standing to men!!! ETA: Unlike the democratic Athenians, the Aristocratic Spartans treated the women better. I mean, I read (as part of my degree) the history of the Peloponnesian War. So I have a rather educated view on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:26 PM
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The reverse is true in more liberal/less traditional areas. You have people say how they're this and that in order to fit in. But, in reality, are actually more traditional and conservative. You could say this about me, for example. On the outside I still look and dress very much like my young adult self. But on the inside, I'm more conservative-ish. And it has to do with being a wife and a mother, but I'm not uptight either.
/r/ExRedPill20/11/22 01:51 AM
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Can I demand emotional support? I risk her leaving me at my weakest. I’ve had that happen to me. How's your libido, tho? I can listen, without saying a word. Just make sure you've attained some "post hut clarity" first. Yknow, so you don't get the wrong idea about me. Can I demand from her to be more traditional? I’m sexist. I was raised tradicional. You better be traditional, too. But rural traditional, not urban/suburban. That's a whole different kind!!!😁😁😁😁😁 Can I demand her submission? Makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:00 AM
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Existence is pain so can’t disagree Yes. We all know this. I’ve slept with several women and I have a daughter and I’m a vet I’ve experienced more real world by 25 than you ever will (hopefully) NOBODY CARES!!!! Why do men THINK these things are flexes?! Mentioning things the rest of the world do not care for AT LARGE makes you sound insecure. And like a complete loser (what y'all TRP call Betas. ).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:25 PM
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Please, message me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:14 AM
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I am somewhat modest: especially when I’m out by myself or just with my son. When I’m out with my husband, and ** we are at the beach (or other water related activities), or other outside physical activities during the summer (I live in the hot US South)… modesty goes out of the window. I wear the tiniest, tightest, and most revelation (yet flattering) outfits **for him. I am not religious myself, btw. The reason I am somewhat modest is more out of social survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 12:02 AM
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Yes, the older Hadid sister: Gigi.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:27 PM
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Leo's current girlfriend is 27 and she's both a single mother (with a huge family, of course) and a (cultural) Muslim. But as y'all can see, she's also a world class DDG supermodel.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:26 PM
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I can sort of tell how long a junk actually is because I did exotic dancing and the heels I used like these ones, 7" clear lucite heels, are sold by heel size. I encountered a few surprises along the way of dudes, some of them my long term partners, who were as long, or longer (and much, much, MUCH fatter than those heels). ^<sup>As</sup> ^<sup>in,</sup> ^<sup>my</sup> ^<sup>two</sup> ^<sup>spouses,</sup> ^<sup>ex</sup> ^<sup>and</sup> ^<sup>current,</sup> ^<sup>who'd</sup> ^<sup>give</sup> ^<su…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:17 PM
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It is, but GIRTH matters WAAAAAAAY MORE!!!!!!! A dude with about 14cm in length BUT a REALLY CHUBBY junk will be riden non-stop than some pencil dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:10 PM
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NO!!
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 11:32 PM
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u/estoniblue17 Here's what a professional sex therapist and LICENSED family psychologist has to say about your issue.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 12:17 AM
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Yes! Men have been acting like a bunch of nasties online.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:08 AM
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I mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 11:22 PM
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Just fot most of us. SUUUUUURE...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:15 PM
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Not really, especially if they're co-parenting with their already pre-existing baby daddy. For example, when my mother was dating after my parents divorced all she wanted was A BOYFRIEND!!! Not a stand-in for our dad, since we still had our dad around. And quite often we had him around. SO this isn't true either. ___________________ At least she kept her dates to herself: when we had our weeks with dad. Not like dad: who'd get calls from dozens of chicks, and at first it was awkward to explain t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:31 PM
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Because wanting a man who's financially stable IN NO WAY EQUATES WITH RICH!!! To me, financial stability goes beyond the number of zeroes in a man's bank account. It's about how far he can stretch what he has. __________________ I much rather be with a man who makes about the same or a bit less than what I make, but is a functional adult. I have no use for a rich, wealthy man who's a workaholic who won't have time for me or a family. That's not way to live. Plus, tons of wealthy men just blow up…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/22 02:28 PM
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It's that 30 y/o women have changing incentives, aka baby rabies. If they ALREADY procreated, they tend to NOT have those baby rabies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:11 AM
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So long as you are physically fit and don’t have children... THEN WHY THE HELL SO MANY SCHMUCKS HAVE THE AUDACITY TO HIT ON WOMEN IN THE PRESENCE OF THEIR OWN CHILDREN?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:10 AM
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I, the OP, am a lady. I skimmed throughout that other book a long time ago… AND IT WAS THE DUMBEST BOOK EVER!!!! Both in terms of content and level of difficulty. Felt like it was written by some middle schooler who just had his first peek-a-boo at the girl’s locker room.
/r/ExRedPill07/11/22 01:53 AM
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Exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 12:26 AM
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I'm FORMERLY morbidly obese. Granted, I was only of such size for a very short period of time (about a year or so, and about another year and a half getting there). ______________________ Guess what? While I became entirely invisible to most middle class (and upwards) to men of the white, Latino, AA, and Asian ethnicities of around my age and those who were middle age, the same wasn't true for those who were lower class/rural around my age, and of course, to most elderly men. ___________________…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:11 PM
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And?! Some husky men are still attractive. I didn't think John Goodman looked bad in the early 90's when he did Roseanne. His excess weight was rather proportional. To me, a person (regardless of gender, since I'm pansexual) being overweight (in proportion to their height and body shape ) doesn't make them less attractive if their extra weight is evenly distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 11:03 PM
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This right here. Someone being fat MERELY EXISTING IS NOT OFFENSIVE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:58 PM
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I’m 5’9” myself, so I can be 6’1” with relative ease with any pair of heels. That’s also the average height of most males in my family. So that’s not a special height to me. What I’m trying to tell you is that height is not a special trait to me, so focus on being in shape FOR YOU and YOUR HEALTH. I’m also an amateur comedienne with a small, but loyal following, so I know comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:45 PM
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Yes. To me, unless a person is extremely scrawny or morbidly obese, being skinny or overweight doesn't make someone less attractive (whether one is a man or woman). I'm more concerned how their overall body shape and weight is distributed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:48 AM
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Easy. Your Dollar General version of The Weeknd co-worker has something you don't: CHARISMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:45 AM
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Male cognitive dissonance has not taken over this sub YES. ______________ It has!! You're a prime example. Conflict #1 - Men here tell women to "choose better", yet get offended when women are shown to be more picky on dating apps. Does "choosing better" only apply, when she's choosing YOU? Choosing better means not choosing men based off of shallow things like looks and height and income and being more selective about things like how well they treat u. __________________ COUNTERPOINT!!! Choosin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 01:33 AM
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And I showed you countries where both men and women are equally conscripted. Yet you didn't seem too happy with my answer. NEWSFLASH: THE USA IS NOT THE ENTIRE WORLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:12 AM
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How it isn't? Me mentioning that co-ed conscription exist in other parts of the world is relevant to this discussion. Don't try to backtrack on the discussion now because I presented you a new set of facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 12:10 AM
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Tough titty. When you mentioned women and the draft, you left the can of worms open for rebuttals to said comment. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:59 PM
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Has male cognitive dissonance towards women, completely taken over this sub? YES!! It seems that most men on this sub had never spoken to their own MOTHERS!! Conflict #1 - Men here tell women to "choose better", yet get offended when women are shown to be more picky on dating apps. Does "choosing better" only apply, when she's choosing YOU? Yet at the same time, THEY refuse to put in the work to BECOME BETTER. Conflict #2 - The men here seem to alternate, between being resentful when they feel w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:45 PM
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It's not fair women can't be doctors, oh women also aren't being drafted? ____________________ You DO know co-ed mandatory conscription IS A THING in other parts of the world, right? Israel, Norway, Morocco (to name a few) have co-ed mandatory conscription. I personally don't have much of an issue if the USA and other western countries also were to enact co-ed mandatory conscription. ^^<sup>I</sup> ^^<sup>did</sup> ^^<sup>my</sup> ^^<sup>time.</sup> ^^<sup>More</sup> ^^<sup>lasses</sup> ^^<sup>s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:32 PM
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I'm solidly RPW (due to the culture I grew up), but FAAAAAAR from being a pick-me. What makes me RPW: I refuse to chase a man after I display my initial interest in him. I assume a wholly feminine role within the sentimental portion of the relationship. The above being said, I've been in relationships in which I've been the main breadwinner or taken a more home-maker role. Either or role hasn't made a difference in the overall traditional functionality of the relationship: just because at times …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:46 PM
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I just loooooove how BADLY YOU MISSED THE FREAKING POINT!!!!! THIS IS AN ACTUAL evopsych PAPER!!!! I knew about the phony studies from your link YEARS AGO!!! I am training to become a theoretical policy analyst: I INTEND TO WORK AS A SOCIAL SCIENTIST FOR A LIVING!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 05:22 PM
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Should more college educated women ''date down'' in terms of status? ___________________ To me, dating down means: being with a lesser looking man. being with a dumb man, regardless of level of education. being with a man-baby. A man who makes less money and/or has a lower level of education, but is well read and is a functional adult is a much more attractive prospect than some lazy trust fund baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:12 PM
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EvoPsych is pseudo-science at best, and fringe quackery at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:45 PM
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Idk. According to what a lot of people describe as masculine vs feminine, I must be a man who's capable of giving birth... despite the rest of my outward appearance matches what is typically associated with feminine. So I couldn't care less about what's masculine vs feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 03:39 PM
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I think a man should be allowed to skirt responsibility up to the same point in time a woman is allowed to abort. _____________ Say, if a jurisdiction allows abortion up to 16 weeks in normal circumstances (barring incest, SA, and life saving events) then said man should have those same 16 weeks to avoid responsibility as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:14 AM
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I prefer the pragmatic feminism of the 20th century that's devoid of the trash today. Me too, especially since one of the most prominent figures of the era is from my home city. Also, modern feminists love to claim to support women but then they'll turn around and bash Republican women, SAHM's, pro-life women, and women who love men. You mustn't been paying enough attention, haven't you? The bashing towards these groups is more reactionary in nature. To give you a small TL;DR: this is why normal…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:58 AM
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Disagree. If I were to be actively dating once more, I want men to be upfront with me: if they want casual or marriage, I want to know right away so I won't waste time and energy with how much investment I shall have with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:29 AM
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I'd say BODY SHAPE moreso than just weight. __________ While yes, WEIGHT can change/fluctuate, a woman's body shape is mostly static. __________ A man's preferred body shapes on women are either hourglass (the one I have) or pear. Why? These two shapes favor women's fat distribution away from the tummy, and either distribute it evenly (hourglass) or across their lower body (pear). This gives the impression of less weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:08 PM
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So basically Gen X and Gen Z women are having the same exact complaints albeit a similar sized dating pool. Btw, those are the same complaints I get from my younger female relatives as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:35 AM
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It may had looked/sounded to you like I misspoke when I wrote this: _______________ You, saving yourself for marriage doesn't mean anything in present day. A man doesn't truly care if you are a Virgin or a former escort. Those who do, however, aren't the ones you DO NOT WANT around you in any shape or form. _______________ However, aside religion (let's ignore this component for one second), what other value does virginity holds FOR YOU, and ONLY YOU?!
/r/ExRedPill23/10/22 01:55 AM
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Are you sure? Don't spread lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:26 PM
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I ALWAYS DEMANDED RUBBERS!!!! ________________ In fact, FOR EXTRA SAFETY, I'd bring a few with me. __________________ And in 2022, LASSES MUST DEMAND THEM MORE THAN EVER!!!! HIGHEST RATES OF SIPHYLLIS SINCE 1948: PROTECT Y'ALLSELVES, DAMN IT!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:18 PM
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ITT: People who are willing to IGNORE THIS IS HAPPENING: HIGHEST RATE OF SIPHYLLIS SINCE TRUMAN WAS IN OFFICE!!!! _______________ WEAR A GODDAMN CONDOM, FFS!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:31 PM
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Not really. I guess due to being autistic and pansexual, I can see sex as a purely physical need (no different than eating) but also as an emotional need.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 03:50 PM
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As an agnostic deist who deeply agrees in moral relativism, I do not judge your views on a micro, individual level. Then again, as a long term married woman to a man who shares my moral relativism, what I can tell you is the following: You, saving yourself for marriage doesn't mean anything in present day. A man doesn't truly care if you are a Virgin or a former escort. Those who do, however, aren't the ones you DO NOT WANT around you in any shape or form. Being pure all the way through marriage…
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 03:49 PM
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Courtney Ryan ACTUALLY talked about this.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 03:36 PM
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You haven’t answered me. As a 34 year old lady (who’s going to be 35 in four months), how’s The Wall should be looking for me? Tell me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 05:22 PM
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Didn't you read the very first message I posted on this parent thread?! Re-Read it again!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:39 PM
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I met the guy at my mom's b-day party: oh boy... I can't believe how such a lovely, smart woman would be with such a goddamn bloke!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:30 AM
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I’m 34. Please, tell me how’s this wall supposed to look like for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:13 AM
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Agree. WOMEN IN THEIR PRIME HAVE TO BE PICKIER AND MUCH MORE SELECTIVE!!! I AM FED UP OF SEEING SOME OF MY PEERS (many who are childless/never married) PAIRED UP WITH THE UGLIEST DUDES EVER!!!!! My mother has this co-worker, from Ecuador, who’s DROP DEAD GORGEOUS… whose married to the ugliest, fattest, para-military AN-CAP LARPer schmo you can ever imagine!!!! WHY?! Is not like she needs him. SHE HAS HER OWN MONEY!! Yet, the “undesirable, leftover” single mothers that TRP deem post wall… are the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:07 AM
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Are you sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:24 PM
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No. We are both agnostic deists.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:23 PM
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And even funnier: where I’m from, there’s lots of men named Ivan more than Juan. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:58 PM
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I LOVE SEEING THOSE THREADS!!!!! Men parrot at first: we don’t care about women’s careers, degrees, etc as long as they’re hot, can cook, suck our dicks and leave us alone the rest of the time. Then, men parrot a few years later: why did that broad take me to the cleaners during the divorce?! I gave her all: she never said anything until the day prior filing for divorce. I didn’t see it coming! Why she never got a job?! They lack so much self-awareness, it’s comical!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:52 PM
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I know, right? That’s why I’ve been married for such a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:39 PM
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Northerner men magically expect women to somehow reproduce asexually. Something that doesn’t happen with apes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:39 PM
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So we women reproduce ourselves asexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:37 PM
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Same in Latin-America. It’s incredible how similar are man/woman relationship dynamics in Latin-American and Slavic countries. The way you describe how a man and/or a woman must conduct him/herself on a date is exactly how I (a Latina woman) would describe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:36 PM
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If men are using women as free flashlights, it’s only fair to use men as free meals.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:32 PM
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This is why despite I’m not Muslim, my husband and I had adopted the Islamic point of view in our marriage of MEN ARE THE PROTECTORS AND PROVIDERS OF WOMEN.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:31 PM
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I never EVER pay for any dates. Nor I do the little dance of reaching for my wallet to offer or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:29 PM
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The man must pay. From a divorce attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 06:25 PM
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The fuck?!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:15 PM
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moms in their thirties and forties do not struggle for dates contrary to popular belief. Plenty of men (of all ages) LITERALLY HIT ON ME, regardless if I have my freaking kid with me in public or not. Why is that so many men are deluded into thinking once a woman is past 30, she must turn deformed or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:13 PM
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Post kid: be stable and meek, so that I can extract what I can for the sake of my kid. The hell?! I have MY OWN STUFF!! Why, even as a mother, would I need to extract what I can from a stranger?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 12:06 PM
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This is what I'm attracted to the most! The dudes that's attached to, they can afford to be about 20-35ish extra pounds and I'm still good with them: their faces are still attractive as well. I want to ride those POGO STICK!!! I like sex!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:23 AM
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Not complicated at all!!! Any of these dudes, even with another 20-35 extra pounds, do the trick!!! I can jump those pogo sticks ALL NIGHT LONG!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:19 AM
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OH YES!!!! BROAD BACK, MUSCULAR ARMS!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:18 AM
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Many of these outfits are rather normalized at gyms. These are men!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:17 AM
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You aren't a woman! So why you're giving an opinion!!! no male equivalent to boobs and ass. Yes, there are!!! To me, these are PRIME men meat materia!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:16 AM
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I'm super visual and have spontaneous desire. I'm 99% sure most (if not all other) women are as visual too. It's just that due to social conditioning BS of the past 300 years (the time when society began parroting women don't have sexual desires), these claims had been parroted around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:01 AM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:39 PM
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ITT: MEN SUCKING OTHER MEN'S Johnsons...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:13 AM
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This right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:12 AM
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A man being 6-6-6 doesn't mean he's a HVM for me!! AT ALL. What does a man having a six pack, six figures, and being six+ feet tall going to do for me? NOT A DAMN THING!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:11 AM
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Because it does! High value in the context of a relationship isn't about money! Elon Musk, for example, might be the richest schmo in the world, but he's a total NVM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:09 AM
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The market?! FOH!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:07 AM
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Nah fam, that was TRP through and through.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:46 AM
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Not quite. They can look like Chads, but usually act like total Chuds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:08 AM
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Doesn't mean the choices available are even good quality choices. They hardly are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:45 AM
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Of course there never was! It was just the byproduct of dating apps being 80% dudes and only 20% lasses. That gave the impression of the Pareto principle, despite that was not the real picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:08 AM
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So all cities need to create these kinds of parks for all the lonely men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:38 PM
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And humans are also apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:35 PM
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This is how MGTOWs usually act: ____________ MGTOW: y’all nasty broads, we are GTOW! Women: okay, that’s cool. MGTOW: I SAID, WE ARE GOING AWAY!!! Women: don’t care, bye. MGTOW: y’all bitches and hoes!!!! Women: 🦗🦗🦗🦗🦗
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 05:29 PM
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M en. G etting. T riggered. O ver. W omen.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 05:26 PM
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Not at all. I am adding further details.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 09:15 PM
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Making a man FALL IN LOVE with a woman is super easy!!!!! More on the subject, by yours truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:10 PM
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Mother did the lion share of the parenting from nurturing to disciplining (even punishing). Latino families (Hispanic, Lusitanians and West Indians) are just like this!!! We, the women, are the true leaders. Meanwhile, the men are mere wallets or work horses for the most part. While the movie My Big Fat Greek Wedding dealt with Mediterranean dynamics, it perfectly described how Latino families function (the man might be the HEAD, but the woman is the NECK, and the neck makes the head turn around…
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 08:53 PM
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If men think it's unfair, instead of complaining then they should level up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:33 PM
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Nope! The world has over EIGHT BILLION PEOPLE!!!!! We no longer live in the times where we are just limited by those within our nearby towns: now, the whole world is our dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:37 PM
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Let me flip the script for a second: While classical economics has traditionally espoused a scarcity mindset, in present time (with greater knowledge of statistics and other hard and soft sciences; both calculus and sociology) not many economists subscribe to Ricardian and Malthusian economical schools of thoughts. As an aspiring economist, who much closely follows the Chicago boys but also has a much more pragmatic socio-political approach, I wholly discard the scarcity mindset in certain conte…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:00 PM
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Yes, my husband MEETS ALL OF THE ABOVE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:52 PM
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Not dating because I’ve been married for over a decade Defined, strong facial features. That is a must! Pretty eyes; any color is fine. Proportional, defined body shape. Not picky about weight, as long as it is proportional. Just nothing super extreme: not too scrawny, not morbidly obese, or not massively jacked. Not picky about height; a bit shorter is cool with me. Well read, intellectual, highly curious, artsy and/or science/tech oriented. Functionality, self-sufficiency, being an adult. High…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:49 PM
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It is not, tho.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 05:31 PM
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Here is an American multi-ethnic study. From 2015, however. Still somewhat recent. This study DID show rather similar results to the ZA study for the most part. 2015 USian paper from the American Journal of Community Psychology However, here is how it differs: ”Column 3 of Table 3 provides regression results for the main effects of father absence and the interaction between natural mentor presence and father absence for AA youth. Contrary to our hypotheses, neither the main effect of father abse…
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 05:28 PM
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South Africa is a former UK colony, so they have a lot of Westernized customs. Also, why is that Western countries have to be seen as the norm?
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 02:50 PM
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You're forgetting a much more important key element in research: qualitative sampling VS quantitative sampling. While the sampling population in this study IS indeed a small sample, it is a rather representative sampling of the population the researchers are studying. If you can find a RECENT study that has a replicated result, but has a larger sample population or has a control population (eg. homes with fathers), please, show it to me. And make sure it is RECENT.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 02:45 PM
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The point of this post is that a lot of TRP discourse focuses on MARRIAGE and FATHERS at HOME rather than if said fathers ARE ACTUALLY GOOD, DECENT fathers. For DECADES I’ve known that is about QUALITY and NOT quantity.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:55 AM
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According to the last thread I created on this subrrddit, none of y'all can come to a consensus as to what traits are inherently masculine and/or feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:54 PM
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Men deep down want a cheerleader, a supporter that is there for them during the good and the bad, that can receive our attention with grace and gratitude, and can give us small tokens of appreciation and love. Like a “starter wife”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:21 PM
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I'm also from Latin America, but from the North American part of LatAm (Caribbean). I am super ambivalent about light eyes. Same with height; specially since tallness is rather common in my neck of the woods. I am a face, body shape (broad shoulders and proportional body), and below the waist person first and foremost. After those three physical traits, high intellect/high literacy are on par with physically attractiveness. Those are the MUST HAVE for me in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:10 AM
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that tends to get cheated on...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:01 AM
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Tell me about it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:39 PM
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I can't believe so many of y'all are so incredibly IGNORANT!!!!!! These threads are so painful to read!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:32 PM
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Could the mods ban these sort of dumb thread
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 10:19 PM
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Cute little study you found. Here's what I found while reading pg. 20. | DISCUSSION This meta‐analysis found sex differences in the preferences for male‐ and female‐typed toys among boys and girls aged between 1 and 8 years in the predicted directions; boys played with male‐typed toys more than girls did, and girls played with female‐typed toys more than boys did. The effect sizes of these differences were large (Cohen's d = 1.03 and d = −0.91, respectively). This finding, from 16 observational …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:01 PM
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I won’t watch football with the guys but I’ll sip on my cosmo with my legs crossed. Believe it or not, while working outside country lasses may seem rough around the edges, (think Ellie Mae, from The Beverly Hillbillies) at times. Also, more often than not, we can be SUPER classy as well. (eg. think USian Southern-belles). Lots of rural lasses, when out of the farm/ranch/home, live by the first dead than basic rule of thumb (in LatAm, we say: primero muerta, que sencilla. ). Why? Because since i…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:15 PM
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Is there a paper on this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:09 PM
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This thread implicitly deconstructed the notion of gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:51 PM
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I sort of had: to demonstrate the ridiculousity of the movement. And also: to show the social construct of gender roles around the globe and across different subcultures within the same culture. 🎤
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:50 PM
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Healthcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:47 PM
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Yoga? Feminine?! You’ve never been in a yoga class, haven’t you?! They tend to be rather 50/50. Also fashion: Oscar de la Renta, Tommy Hilfiger, Calvin Klein, Ralph Lauren…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:45 PM
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My favorite topic because I am a city girl that moved to the country.. Country women carry a much more masculine demeanor than city girls.. Perhaps? City guys are more metrosexual than country guys… Oh yeah!!! My first husband (also ‘Rican) was such a fashion victim!!! He was also UMC: never held a job, super sheltered, had everything handed to him… But my current one? Also rurally raised, like myself. It was funny (yet endearing) how we’d bonded over our best ways to fix electronics AND harvest…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:44 PM
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Again, this active birth thing, again… I mainly engaged in coitus and walking until I was actively about to have my baby and all: my actual labor was very short. It was less than seven hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:28 PM
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I grew up in the Puerto Rican countryside… with undiagnosed Asperger’s and ADHD. My mother has ADHD: she knew she had it since her 20’s, but never told me about it until July. I VASTLY suspect my dad has Asperger’s too: we are way too alike in tastes and personalities (cigarettes and all). See meme: My youngest brother ALSO has ADHD. That’s why he had to redo high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 07:19 PM
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Southern US? Rural small town as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:15 PM
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That was a military hospital. Btw: my husband was already out of service, while I still had over a year left and had made rank earlier that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:14 PM
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Which sort of culture was this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:13 PM
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I also grew up in a rural area. There is no "sex based" reason why people can't participate in a hobby. Exactly. The main reason my dad and uncles (both sides) made sure all of us knew everything: from knowing how to slaughter livestock to how make cars work. Growing up in the sticks means that they're few people and if a job needs to get done, whoever is capable of doing that job, needs to to that job. This right here. I'm specifically from Puerto Rico. I got to experience hurricane Georges in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:11 PM
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My mom's oldest brother (who my grandma thinks might be autistic) loves interior design. He, single handily has decorated all the homes he has owned. He's also a well off chemical engineer with four children, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 06:00 PM
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Attending active birthing So my husband, his BFF and the two male doctors (the intern doing the grunt work and the MD supervising him) present when I was having a baby aren't manly based on your logic? 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 05:58 PM
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I prefer to do that to a man. Seeing a man do that himself (something I've witnessed a few times irl ) is rather creepy.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 12:31 AM
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And those weren't taken from porn? The podcast I sent you is from an actual therapist that works with IRL HUMANS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:29 AM
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Yes. Dudes tend to become insanely possessive and borderline stalker-ish. Like, their wyd texts become where you at?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:28 AM
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These are the few circumstances in which I'm open to just booty calls: As a free/hall pass within monogamy. After ending a LTR and I just need a temporal warm body. When I'm in between dates, AND NO OTHER PARTIES AND MYSELF HAD DISCUSSED EXCLUSIVITY.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:23 AM
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I know, right?! I learned about this school of thought… in basic Intro to Hispanic Literature BACK IN PUERTO RICO…in 2007!!!!! For example, we mainly discussed the theatrical school of the absurdism (in regards to said school of thought). So we discussed a theatrical version of Kafka’s Metamorphosis choreographed by Barishnykov. We also read one about Afro-Pagan folklore that was about some ladies stranded in the middle of the sea and were being negged by two of the main female Lukumi orishas (O…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:59 PM
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I abandoned redpill philosophy a few years ago. In academia it has been difficult for me to watch men who I deemed of lesser intelligence have such success with females. Damn it, are you some Ferengi?! I wondered what they had that I didn't. Is this you? I’m sure this is you. I am highly intelligent and currently working on a PhD in philosophy and yet no females I talk to seem to care one bit about about my academic success. What else do you bring to the table? I have never had a drop of alcohol…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:38 PM
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First, please stop calling women “females”. THIS!!!! When you have conversations with women, how do they usually play out? Good question… Most women don’t care for extreme intelligence unless they themselves are extremely intelligent. I do not consider myself extremely intelligent, just well read. But a man who’s highly intelligent IS very sensual TO ME!!!!! I literally masturbate to Neil de Grasse Tyson’s audiobooks. Why? Both his voice AND his intellect are sensual. And he as a MAN is also han…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:31 PM
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MGTOW should be called: M... /en G... /etting T... /riggered O... /over W... /omen ________ If those gents TRULY claim they're going their own way, why they spend so much time nagging over women?! They're worse than atheists that complain over religion every other second!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 04:10 PM
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Also, you ALMOST approached r/selfawarewolves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:09 AM
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or having an abnormal or poor relationship with a father who was physically present. And being a massive hypocrite as a father isn't... JUST THAT?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 05:07 AM
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You seem to watch way too much porn. Here's a REAL LIFE COUPLES PSYCHOLOGIST debunking your cute little fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:43 AM
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Per this couple's EXPERT (therapist)... it is NOT. Podcast.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:40 AM
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Exactly. Here's a couple's therapist (podcast) explaining this in detail: why a LL, low N lass is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:38 AM
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Madonna/Whore dichotomy... still alive and kicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:36 AM
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So you'd shelter your (hypothetical) daughters but your (hypothetical) sons can be promiscuous as all hell?! This is the quickest way for daughters to develop Daddy Issues: double standards among opposite sex kids. You've been warned!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 02:31 AM
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I am middle class and American... but I'm Hispanic (Puerto Rican). I am also tall (1.75m/5'9").
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:16 PM
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Mostly true. Face attractiveness matters a lot!!! BUT if said Desi gent ALSO has a great face... Imma go Acha-Cha on him!!!!! ^<sup>Source:</sup> ^<sup>I</sup> ^<sup>had</sup> ^<sup>a</sup> ^<sup>client</sup> ^<sup>from</sup> ^<sup>the</sup> ^<sup>Indian</sup> ^<sup>part</sup> ^<sup>of</sup> ^<sup>Punjab</sup> ^<sup>who</sup> ^<sup>was</sup> ^<sup>JUSt</sup> ^<sup>like</sup> ^<sup>that.</sup> ^<sup>HOT</sup> ^<sup>wouldn't</sup> ^<sup>be</sup> ^<sup>enough</sup> ^<sup>to</sup> ^<sup>describe</su…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:00 PM
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I'm the kind that PREFERS a very good looking shorter/average height man over a lesser-looking/homely-looking tall man. Height on a man is something I'm very ambivalent about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:56 PM
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But they do! What about all the men with eternal girlfriends they aren't too crazy about they're just can't dump UNTIL A BETTER ONE SHOWS UP ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:53 PM
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Or... one already spent long enough with a man and don't want another one?! EVER THOUGHT ABOUT THAT?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:15 PM
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This sounds... NOT BAD AT ALL!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:57 PM
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Idk? Maybe an insecure one?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 08:15 AM
2

But you might be?
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 08:14 AM
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You can't be saying thus with a straight face...
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 08:13 AM
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I disagree, I think a women who has had many sexual partners, statistically is unlikely to maintain a happy, long term marriage. Please, show me at least THREE studies confirming this point. One randomized study. One non-randomnized study. One longitude/long-term or replication of the first two.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 07:59 AM
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have more confidence in unique anecdotal evidence over studies? We are humans living life, not actuaries calculating risk/benefits for insurance benefits. While is good to keep an open mind about possible failures in relationships, people can't live life under the guise of: X study said "this correlation," but Y studies showed "those causations" contradict the first study... We are social animals living in reality, not test subjects living in controlled environments.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 07:55 AM
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High Value Men like those phony TRP-ers like to proclaim they are aren’t going to be concerned over a few broken dishes. I mean, they’re high-value, right? They can replace a few broken utensils, right?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 11:50 PM
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That’s one of the main FDS bibles. It’ll be perfect to out red pill the TRP kind of red pillers.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 11:47 PM
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TL;DR: You'd notice if a man is trying to RP you if he tries to neg you too much and tries to push your boundaries way too much. __________ I'm from a naturally red-pill culture: where catering to men was HEAVILY stressed. BUT it also came with a MASSIVE caveat: if I am catering to a man, said man HAS TO BE CATERING TO ME IN EQUAL AND/OR GREATER AMOUNT. Which means... In the past, when I was actively dating, I'd ALWAYS FLIP EVERY 💩 test and neg BACK AT THEM!!! Say, a man would ask me for the usu…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 12:54 AM
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I rather chew and swallow on nails, glass, and then jump off the Kilimanjaro… THE DAY I HAVE TO START CHASING MEN!!! But that’s just me.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 09:29 PM
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That’s the price of being a man, too bad dude. The most I’ve done (and will ever do) is approaching a dude to exchange a few words (from I think that’s a cool shirt to that was a funny comedy bit, etc), and if we click I’ll give him my phone #. Unless HE asks first… which tends to happens first. After that, he will have to do the rest. Humans, at the end of the day, are mere animals: Homo Sapiens, the most abundant worldwide of the five greater apes. I’ll chase a man romantically… the day gazell…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/22 09:24 PM
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Men like this dude are 100% THE reason why I couldn't care less about waiting and/or putting out if I find a dude good-looking, I'm horny, AND the time is right. If at the end of the venue it'll be a 50/50 toss-up if the dude will like me or not REGARDLESS IF I WAIT OR NOT... I just go with it sooner than later, and avoid further emotional harm by doing it in the earlier dates. _________________ I mean, as of today, 28th September 2022, my husband became wholly exclusive with me exactly years ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:49 AM
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I'll quote Childish Gambino in here: You know why don't hear about crazy ex-boyfriends? Because them bitches are all dead!!! Basically, he's confirming an older Margaret Atwood Quote: Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them. So, many of the men are just seeing the mean words, while being wholly ignorant of all the times they've violently reacted towards women being mean to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 03:17 AM
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I said this A LOOOOOOOONG TIME AGO... But so many of y'all called me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 12:31 AM
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They have hang-ups about sex. Here's a therapist (podcast) touching on the idiocy in regards of said logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 05:30 PM
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Glad to know I'm a slut... despite I've been with the same man for 12 years!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:44 PM
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Not even as a barely legal teen I preferred/wanted rich men.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 04:29 PM
1

At five months into my current relationship (AKA: marriage of 12 years), we were living together!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 04:27 PM
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FIVE MONTHS?!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:43 AM
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Imagine you and your man are 30 years old. Kinda late for that: I'm 34. You have been dating for 3 months and the topic of sex comes up. Babe, at the three months mark, we should be discussing commitment... not sex. That's for... like the initial week or so. He tells you in the past, he used to do one night stands, FWB and fuck buddies... but he grew to hate those relationships and decided to change course. Now, he wants to wait until marriage to have sex, and he won't have sex with you until ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 10:38 AM
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Second, explain why so many coomers on Reddit simp so hard over goddamn Alexandra Daddario... who's THIRTY-SIX!!!! Most RP-ers would consider her age post-wall. Yet she's the most sought-after woman of the coomers on this dumb site/app. And she's hardly an outlier among her age cohort. Literally, I have a super recent issue of Women's Health with her on her cover. And in show business, social media, and even around town there are thousands of mid-30's women who are as pretty as her.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/22 12:26 AM
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Have you gone out much of your poor rural area? Because I had. I now live in one of the largest metro areas in the USA. So I get to see on the regular very good looking middle aged women... but I also get to see plenty of homely young female adults. Both are rather common in my city (Austin). It's a city of close to a million people.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 10:45 PM
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Especially when the "subconscious” drive notion has been largely discredited, and instead, it's largely due to sociological and utilitarian/man-made factors. Nothing to do with "biology".
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 10:35 PM
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I live in a poor rural area, so that's probably why. And that's it. Most women in poor rural areas, since I came from one myself, have kids as early as... NINETEEN!!!! Just say you want a freshly high school graduate, and call it a day.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 10:24 PM
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Yes. The bullshit we hear today that women don't have sexual drives is a relatively recent social construct. See? This is why taking world history AT THE COLLEGE LEVEL is so important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 09:45 PM
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to choose an older car as opposed to a newer car ...and on today's episode of What Object Are Women Being Compared To Today... CARS!!!! Women are being compared to goddamn cars.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 09:43 PM
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Younger women are usually better looking than older women. As a PANsexual, this is not an universal truth. Youth=beauty is largely a social construct from when humans had shorter lifespans and largely outside lives. In present day, with the advents in Healthcare, skincare, and fitness, most average Joes/Janes can look good past their 60's with relatively minor to moderate efforts. Sunscreen, regular exercise, and proper diet being the big three. If they want children, they'll probably gravitate …
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 09:41 PM
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It's mainly a social construct and a way to flex her among others.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 09:30 PM
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It’s so much cringe!!!
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 12:22 AM
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I SOMEWHAT agree with it, but with some caveats. Hear me out: It must occur during the same timeline a jurisdiction gives a woman to have an actual abortion. Say, if a jurisdiction gives up to 15 weeks in normal circumstances, said man SHALL HAVE those same 15 weeks to come to said decision. Upon making their decision (yay/nay), it must be in writing to the future mother. The reason? So said future mother could plan ahead if she/they intends to keep the pregnancy sans financial support from the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:07 PM
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Because PPD folks say the dumbest shit.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 04:14 PM
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Idk about this...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:14 PM
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It's so much cringe... you'll be put off of all TRP.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 03:00 PM
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Also spend time on the purple pill subreddit. Trust me: you'll turn no pill.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 05:41 AM
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Spend time on the purple pill subreddit. Trust me: you'll turn no pill.
/r/ExRedPill25/09/22 05:40 AM
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...she had zero sexual game or energy. She'd talk to everyone like someone would talk to the mailman, some grandmother, a cashier or some random passerby. She was very polite to guys but chronically single... Good/bad for her, I guess? Women do expect the man to put in the effort to court her properly with some sexual /romantic tension if the intention is to date and get to know each other more for a sexual romantic relationship... Here is the key aspect: they do, if they feel attracted to the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 05:23 AM
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How’s holding a door for like five second going out of your way for someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:34 AM
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Treat her indifferently. Hold doors. The latter is a standard of good ol’ southern hospitality. Everybody holds doors for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:11 AM
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Is that freaking hard to just being a decent human being regardless of the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:08 AM
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Haven’t you noticed by now that emotional manipulation just doesn’t work with ACTUAL HUMAN BEINGS?! Just… Treat all humans with basic decency: whether they’re man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 04:08 AM
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Unless most men of PPD treat the men in their life with disdain and utter indifference, why is this being asked? The rule of thumb is this: Men and women must treat each other all the same: with plain, simple human decency. As simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:48 AM
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Also, most men don’t marry children… like you. They don’t marry girls in high school (16 year olds) when they’re 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 01:45 AM
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I’ve been with my looksmatch for over a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:05 PM
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He is. He married his wife WHEN SHE WAS 16 AND HE WAS 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 05:53 PM
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Date their looksmatch. Dating my looksmatch means dating a man with high cheekbones, a chiseled jaw and a ”V” shaped body. Why? Because my face has such level of definition, and I have an hourglass body. Then again, I’m not super picky about height nor I care if a man has more to love.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:42 PM
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I do not agree with LOWERING THEIR STANDARDS. However, I do think that people ( REGARDLESS OF SEX ) should look deep into one self and examine themselves and have REALISTIC STANDARDS THAT THEY THEMSELVES ARE ABLE TO MEET WITHIN A SIMILAR STANDING.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:37 PM
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And don't say SHIT about the so-called wall. If even my goddamn septuagenarian grandmother can get hit on left and right at her geriatric daycare or one of her (recently decreased) cousins was able to remarry several times past her 80's... that goes to show THAT THERE IS NO GODDAMN WALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:45 PM
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Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:36 PM
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Tall Asian guy?! Where was such a hottie on August 27th, 2010 (day before I met my husband)?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:21 AM
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The REALITY version. Me: "What are you looking for? Sex or Relationship" Non-Crappy Guy: "Well.. I'd like both... I mean sex is a part of a relationship, right?" Me: "Okay. What are your thoughts with becoming a house-husband in the future?" Me: "What are you looking for? Sex or Relationship" Player : "Not sure... Let's just see where things go/ Lets wait until we meet to decide/ Lets just do what feels right /You're the one I'm looking for/ Im looking to take you out baby ☺️" Me: Proceed to gho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 12:04 AM
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Not necessarily abusive, but functional alcoholics more than anything else. That's why I'm not huge about dance clubs. And the rare instances I go to clubs is because I'm the designated driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:19 PM
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I find frequent clubbing largely boring. The only instances I may not find clubbing boring is when they play salsa and/or merengue. Every once in a blue moon I go clubbing with friends BUT AS THE DESIGNATED DRIVER (since I very rarely drink due to several health reasons). However, I do enjoy concerts, music gigs, and comedy shows. I was a musician as a teen (I used to play pop-punk and a bit of emo), did theater musical design in college (back when I lived in Puerto Rico), and I do amateur comed…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:17 PM
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I am ambivalent about Star Wars, but I adore Star Trek. In fact, I'm always making jokes with my husband about TNG, X-Men, and LOTR constantly (eg. Why is Picard in a wheelchair arguing with Saruman?). But we also love concerts, since we wet at a concert when we were in the Navy. Curiously enough, I met him (my husband) as I finished greeting my former barracks LPO.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 09:11 PM
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He's boring. Boring, to me, is someone who's too quiet AND CANNOT KEEP AN INTERESTING CONSERVATION. Being TOO QUIET is A DEALBREAKER to me. He probably talks a lot about Star Wars and his boring accounting job. I'm more of a Star TREK person, for starters. And Accounting is boring AF. It was my original college major... and that's why I switched to Mass Communications and Politics. Now, an ECONOMIST? Talk supply and demand to me... He doesn't do much outside of the home and probably doesn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:57 PM
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Nothing, really. The fact that there's a whole ass r/exredpill subreddit goes to show that in the long run, the modern TRP mentality doesn't bring actual results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 08:05 PM
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This has to be the dumbest thread I've ever read today...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:51 PM
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people also meet relationships at college too I met my husband while in the military. Given how most colleges are MASSIVE taco fests, I wouldn't had met my kind of man at college.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 12:02 AM
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NOPE!!!! A man who's well read and knows about a variety of subjects, despite lacking a college degree, will be more interesting than some degree holder with not much critical thinking.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 12:01 AM
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I'm now 34. The reason I found another husband was because the first dude dumped me!!!!
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 12:00 AM
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Babe, I'm autistic too. And what's worse? Growing up without knowing it IN A CULTURE THAT IS SUPER RELIANT ON FACIAL GESTURES AND BODY LANGUAGE!!!! I had my very first boyfriend at age 18... and it was because I broke my own culture's biggest social cardinal sin: take the first step.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 11:59 PM
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Latin-American cultures: both Hispanic and Lusitan Latin America are hella red-pilled before said concept even existed. Still wholly dominated by the Iberian machismo brought by the Spanish and Portuguese.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 11:54 PM
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You are welcome! I guess that’s the blessing of being too literal.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 10:32 PM
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I'm from a culture that's naturally red pilled. However, the whole push/pull games just drive me to completely push men permanently away when I start noticing the patterns. It's bad when neuro-typical men try these dumb games on autistic women who see patterns on EVERYTHING!!! The last man who did this dumb shit regretted it BADLY!!!! How and why? So, he did the usual push/pull of I'm not ready for a relationship, hoping I'll beg him to change his mind. BUT, my (then unbeknownst to me) overly li…
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 08:32 PM
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5'5"/1.65m was the height of one of my favorite long term FWB. He was fun!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:35 PM
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You came 12 years too late. But keep reading what I post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 05:29 PM
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It is to me. Height doesn't mean much to me (or any at all) if the rest of a man isn't overall attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 01:01 AM
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As long as the parties aren't predatory with each other, sure. Common wisdom says men are predatory towards barely legal teens. But the opposite can be true, too. Some younger women are known for getting with old men to rob their pensions (eg. after my late FIL died, he had a live-in girlfriend who robbed him of his SS checks, for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:17 AM
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Why should be? I don't care about that. Height, to me, is a tertiary physical attractiveness trait. ----- Let's do a similar exercise, but with ladies: Say, if you were a boob guy and I was gonna compare two women I personally find equally attractive but with vastly different breast sizes (let's take Kat Dennings and Aubrey Plaza), but just show close-ups like I did. Which one you'd find better looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:03 AM
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Did I say something along the lines of, say, all lesser endowed men must be sent to some labor camp? How's this different from, say, men who prefer women with naturally large boobs, blue eyes, or gingers? EXPLAIN!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:45 PM
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I couldn't care less if men want or don't want overweight women. My only issue, however, is how some MEN voice said preference. One thing is when some men voice said preference in a polite way (eg. when they say I lead an active style, so I'd prefer someone who's as active as I am ) versus who LITERALLY DEHUMANIZE overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:39 PM
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I have regular sex. I do pity, however, those who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:36 PM
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To slut shame men and women who sleep around and have casual sex If you're married, why would you bother doing this?! Leave people have whatever sex they want AS LONG AS IT IS WITHIN CONSENSUAL ADULTS!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:35 PM
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To see all the dumbasses who keep FAFOing, rinsing, repeating, FAFOing AGAIN, and then going to OTHER SOCIAL MEDIAS (eg. YouTube, TikTok, FB), to complain of the INSANITY!!! y'all keep committing. _________ NOTE: part of my job as a policy analyst consists in spending more time than the average person on social media than I want (and even like) seeing how mass media shapes social discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:34 PM
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A man being short doesn't mean he's not attractive. Here I have two men (Omar Chaparro and Jason Segel). I find Omar super attractive, despite he's about 5'6"/1.67m. However, Jason is very average/plan looking to me despite he's about 6'4"/1.93m. Omar Chaparro and Jason Segel.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:12 PM
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The fuck is this shit?! My ex husband was a bit shorter than I am, and I thought he was attractive as all hell!!!! After all, he was tall where it truly matters: DOWNSTAIRS!!! I dumped him for reasons 100% UNrelated to him being slightly shorter than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:06 PM
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I'll be able to tell because I'm 5'9". ----- So if a man who claimed to be 6' (same height my youngest brother was in high school, before attaining his max of 6'1"), were to show up, but doesn't look on par to how my (now 29) baby brother was when he was 14... I will immediately know he lied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 11:04 PM
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I am married, have a son, and it's asinine the people who think they know better just because they can score, but can't KEEP a partner... REGARDLESS OF THEIR GENDER OR HOW MUCH MONEY THEY HAVE!!!!! And even I don't think I'm an expert. Why? Human relationships aren't my Forte. My area is policy, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:45 PM
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I have a whole cloud of unreplicated evo-psych studies that I've used in my indirect phase of my policy research (since I've been crafting my first original research in the past weeks), and oh boy!! It is all so contradictory, so much lack of quantitative sampling populations, and talking about sampling populations... almost all studies are wholly western! A few here are there are from China or from Africa, but those (on top of being far and between) DO NOT GIVE REPLICATED RESULTS!!!! Especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 07:04 PM
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I'm a professional theoretical policy analyst for a non-profit. In my profession, I see evo-psych as a pseudo-science at best, and as a fringe mumbo jumbo BS at worst. Why, tho? None of the studies in this discipline had been fully replicated, while studies in my disciples (socio-economics and public policy) had been fully replicated multiple times throughout history. -‐----- As simple as that. Replication is the golden standard in all branches of science: whether is the hard sciences or social/…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 05:50 PM
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What if for health reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:33 AM
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I swore I saw this post before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:59 AM
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Is this you?!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:58 AM
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I'd say being a sex worker could be a yellow flag if they don't file taxes. If your logic is profitting off male loneliness, then I bet you'd use the same logic for the following non-sex oriented professions: barmaid. waitress at a breastaurant. entry-level office workers. print models. basically any woman holding any image-related job where most of her superiors are single men. Basically, where you'll draw the line of profiting off men's loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:49 AM
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I'd say this could be a yellow flag depending on the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 01:43 AM
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I've thought about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 06:46 AM
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Hi! Fellow lady with ADHD who stumbled with this thread by pure accident. Did you go on another date with this lovely lass?
/r/seduction17/09/22 03:08 AM
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I'm average... for where I'm from. But for North American eyes...
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:38 AM
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Bebé, average where I’m from its borderline supermodel in North America. IJS… Four engagements, and two marriages. Trust me, I get whoever the hell I want…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:25 AM
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I sometimes dabble on that forum, since I’m African-adjacent (West Indian, albeit I’m 4x multiracial: yes, I have a hint of African DNA, despite it makes less than 7% of my DNA it still part of my body and culture). LSA at times makes valid points in regards to pop culture relations and how said relationships shape black relationships discourse. I personally feel that the USian African culture focuses WAY TOO MUCH on celebrity culture in shaping their relationship world view, and this has create…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 09:34 PM
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I’m just surprised that an average looking man with a good career is increasingly passed over for the good looking guy with nothing else going for him. Excuse me?! If he's good looking he's going to give me better looking kids, so STFU!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:25 PM
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Idk. I'm rather average, yet I had four engagements. Out of those four engagements I married two of those men. I'm still married to one of them (after over a decade). So I'd say I did get my pick of men, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:36 PM
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I'm an very average Juana. A man's overall professional ethic is much more important than his net worth. Basically, a case or quality vs quantity. Idk why dudes think they can just flash money at women, and that's it. Then again, I'm much more pickier with looks and intellectual compatibility. This being said, again, quality over quantity: I'm very into facial attractiveness, and overall proportional body shape. A man's weight is secondary and his height is tertiary. Sexually wise, I'm very sexu…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 02:56 AM
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Those three women have MONEY!! And very critical on Amy's and Susan's cases, they're both ND women: that tends to add a lot to their default personalities. At least I know Amy's husband is also ND like her: Amy's ND is Trichotillomania (AKA: TTM, a severe subset of OCD where one can't stop pulling their hair). And as for Susan, her autism has gifted her with an array of musical intelligence. She also writes and produces for other singers.
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 02:42 AM
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This. This should be it. Heck, when I’m around in public, I make my dardnest to be as agreeable and polite to young men JUST so they’ll get used to be out of their element when they least expect it. And the more awkward and nerdier said gent looks, the better. Why? Because this will ease their fear of women, and will make them comfortable around them in general. ——— Granted, I am 34. However, this is a good example and how it tends to have a good impact: Me at Walmart, browsing the graphic shirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:15 AM
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Yes… the ones who don’t call themselves MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 12:07 AM
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34 year old girl You mean WOMAN?!
/r/ExRedPill11/09/22 10:20 PM
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There’s a reason women magically become attracted to men after they go MGTOW. Are you sure about this?! Because this is my usual reaction to men who proclaim they've gone MGTOW: Typical MGTOW: I'm going my own way. Me: okay, good for you. tMGTOW: I said I'm going MY OWN WAY!!! m: I heard you the first time. Bye! tMGTOW: FINE!! I'M ON MY OWN!!! m: not giving a crap, living life, and enjoying my 12+ marriage in peace. It should be called: M en G etting T riggered O ver W omen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 02:39 AM
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Unless the person in question looked like Sasquatch, I don’t think they’d felt insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:06 AM
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Lying is one thing. However, one can still be polite while conveying the same message. u/stoic4343 could had simply said it like this: I’m flattered by your advances, but I prefer not to date a lady with children. Rather than being a complete jerk about it. Like, did he really had to be all: you had kids with degenerates ? Really, was that necessary?! Like I’ve said over and over: KINDNESS IS FREE!! NO WONDER THAT ER NURSE FLIPPED OUT!!! She didn’t flip out over just being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:44 PM
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Then don’t talk like one. It’s very easy to end up like one with those words.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:37 PM
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As a parent, I do think it’s fine to be rejected over this. Then again, it is totally out of line to be a complete jerk about it. A polite, yet firm: I’m flattered by your advances, but I prefer not to date a parent is very kind yet it’s a firm, up to the point rejection. That’s it!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:36 PM
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This is what incels say. And then they wonder why they can’t get laid…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 10:32 PM
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Exactly. Kindness is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:28 PM
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I don't want to raise your kids by some degenerate. Even tho I’m married, but if I were to end up widowed and/or divorced, it’s definitely a jerk move to be this much of a jerk in return. Remember, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. You should know this with an username containing the word stoic. Granted, this specific lady did not take it well. But attacking her kids is low. Sure, don’t date ladies with children. That’s fine. Just don’t be a jerk about it. Imagine if she starts talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:25 PM
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I’m pretty good at handling romantic rejection. I learned to not take it personal many years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 08:18 PM
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Thanks for the study!! I led a promiscuous lifestyle at one point in time, and like the study says, the following ring true for me. The study would put me in the 1st percentile of promiscuity. The following apply to me: Had completed tertiary education. Secular values. Urban dweller (but grew up rural). High verbal IQ (measured on a test last year). But what doesn’t ring true? Stable, long marriage. Level of happiness would be rated at pretty happy. I’m actually politically moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:28 AM
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I have a very N-count, yet my current marriage (2nd) has been going for over a decade. I met this man after sleeping around. My first husband? I only had ONE previous partner prior to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 02:12 AM
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Men get wrong that women can and DO get REJECTED. Rejection isn’t a male-only thing. Second, they also fail to realize that women have as much control in the SMP (as the sellers, they have the choice of what markets they can advertise), and have the same choice when it comes to marriage as well. Not only the whole men choose their wives notion is vastly overblown, but just because a man proposes, a woman has the option of saying NO to proposals as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 10:48 PM
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I'm your age as well (34). And when I was within that age range (18-25), nope! Why would I had been into, say, my stepdad (13 year my senior) when my ex (five years my senior) was more than fine for me?!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 09:28 PM
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TO ME, looks matter more than any money and/or status a dude can possess. I am with my husband because I DESIRE HIM. Not because I NEED him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 07:31 PM
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I’m an amateur comedienne. I tend to do a lot of jokes similar to those Chris Rock did in the 90’s (the ones he did about the friendzone) but from the female POV. One of my favorite bits is saying that women’s ego is too inflated to admit they’ve been friendzoned, and that’s why they’ve come up with things like breadcrumbing and emotionally unavailable. Why? Because they (chicks) can’t communicate for shit!!! I kill it every time!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:27 PM
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I'm 34. If the so-called wall is real... it hasn't come. I guess it sort of came for a few months (when I was morbidly obese), but immediately disappeared once I got in shape. It's kinda like being 19 all over again in terms of attention. Of course, I say no to all: I am taken. Then again, the age wall has not even come for my older female relatives. Not even for my 77 year old grandmother. She's a hit at her geriatric daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:12 PM
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I heard he has a massive junk. If that's true, I'd be willing to ride that junk at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:05 PM
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I couldn't care less about status. A man's social position isn't going to make me have an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:04 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 06:02 PM
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He reminds me of this schmo from “90 Day Fiancé”. ANOTHER Muslim dude who’s doing it all wrong!! Bilal and Shadeeah. When I saw how this dude was being with his new bride, Shadeeah, from Trinidad and Tobago(he’s a divorcée with two teenagers), I was all: there’s no way this is happening…
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 10:36 PM
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Or using someone of his own ethnicity, Idris Elba is very much a solid nine (at minimum).
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 10:25 PM
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Very good.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 10:17 PM
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Okay… this is a weird comment. OP was still respectful in the way he described this lady. He didn’t describe her as, say, some drunk 304. Would had that been better?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 10:16 PM
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Y'all are WRONG!!!!!!! Exhibit A: Pete Davidson. He's a good, caring dude, yet ladies clamor over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:25 PM
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IMPORTANT While talking, does any lady randomly begins giggling and/or laughing in a somewhat effortless manner? if so... Do/did you give them any compliments in the midst of the conversation?
/r/ExRedPill28/08/22 07:13 AM
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My BD also thinks that it's okay to have relations with his female family members as long as they are thin. Like, sexual relations?! Please, tell me he isn't talking about sex... He thinks any cellulite or fat or loose skin or skin imperfections in women are ugly He DOES KNOW that EVEN thin/skinny women HAVE cellulite/loose skin, right?! He is a cheater liar and manipulator. Is that a surprise?! He spent 24 years in prison for a sex crime. They should've thrown the key!!!!
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 10:13 PM
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Please, provide me with a valid counterargument you can backup, especially if you've THROUGHOUTLY read, analyzed and cross-examined the available political philosophy of the enlightenment period. I had, and can back my argument.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 10:07 PM
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Another rapist sympathizer I see….
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 01:26 PM
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They’re soooooo fake, he and his brother had their home raided by Romanian authorities. Look how much I care!!!! I don’t: more and more facts keep coming out.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/22 01:25 PM
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What specific area in anthropology? I love biological anthropology, and made sure to download as many papers to my cloud on the subject. Those who claim to know evolutionary psychology somehow always miss that this legit branch of social sciences (that also combines one of the hard sciences) happens to exist whenever they make their weird claims about men/women like/don’t like this/that.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:52 PM
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Evo psych, to me, sounds like pseudoscience at best and fringe BS at worst.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:49 PM
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Hey! I did both Political Science AND Mass Communications. Tell me more about the sort of research coming out of Sweden.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:48 PM
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Don't you think a lot of the problem stems from modern society encouraging boys to be more feminine and pushing the false narrative that inherently masculine things are toxic and should be avoided even though women like masculine men. NOT AT ALL!!!! I’m from a culture that’s by DEFAULT WHOLLY MASCULINE. And while at times leftist FRINGE academics bemoan our machismo (which exist in both the Hispanic and Lusitanian subcultures of the greater Latino cultures in Latin America), machismo is not the …
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 10:44 PM
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Just messaged you about this. A LOT of the western enlightenment social contract theory is indirectly culprit for incels, if you think about it. The notion that there's such thing as a single pursuit of happiness and said pursuit of happiness must look the same for every living human being is just asinine.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 05:40 PM
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Political science and mass communications. Funnily enough, both Psychology AND Sociology are included in here… but not Politics. Which is rather weird. Why?! A LOT that gets discussed within political discourse heavily overlaps with both of these other fields (Psychology and Sociology). Also, at my college, the three majors occupy the same building: psychology 2nd floor, Government 3rd floor, and Sociology 4th floor.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 04:16 PM
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But I lost all respect I had for her. I did had plenty of respect for her as a fellow disabled veteran (first and foremost). But I can't stand when ANOTHER WOMAN goes and does the following.... Defending and supporting a KNOWN RAPIST!!!!! 6:42
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 11:21 PM
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BUT WHEN SHE HOLDS WOMEN AS THE SOLE CULPRITS... Go to 1:22 Then Houston, we have a problem!!!!
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 11:18 PM
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Go watch her other videos. This was the first one I ever saw: Right here.
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 11:14 PM
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I heard the chicks from FDS say unironically a variation of the above: Men need to save for hair transplants as early as possible in life.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 06:20 AM
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JP mentioned that study, I never dug for it, but he had never lied about such stuff... You mean Jordan Patron Saint of Incels, who said "we must enforce monogamy" Peterson? That JP?!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:21 PM
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self made billionaire Yes, self made... whose dad owns EMERALD MINES!!!!!! MoFo with ASPERGER'S!! Edit: to add the Asperger's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:16 PM
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I'm 5'9"!!!!!!!! He's 6'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:35 PM
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As a lady who's highly visually aroused, at times I wonder if I'm just a man who was born with the wrong genitalia.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:33 PM
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a woman gaining 25lbs vs a guy gaining 25lbs not the same Of course it isn't!!! Those 25 extra pounds ON ME will be mainly BIGGER BOOBS. But those 25 extra on MY HUSBAND? Tummy and face. Source: Had to buy bralettes and bandeaus the other day. All my old 34FF no longer fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:20 PM
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It's only because of his fortune.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:14 PM
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Jeff Bezos might be an exception. The lady he's dating right now (journalist and filmmaker Lauren Sánchez) is someone NOT in her 20's (but in her early 50's: she's old enough to be my own mother, btw), a single mother (the horror... NOT ), and is the TRP's definition of a woman they'd described as simultaneously HVW but also post-wall (despite looking better than most 20 somethings), and damaged goods (whatever that BS is).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 08:12 PM
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Every woman dreams about marrying a millionaire with a six pack and nice jaw line. Wow, just because men with six packs are nice to look at, doesn't mean that's what I'd PERSONALLY WANT for the LONG TERM. I pride myself in my mean culinary game: a man who's so overzealous about his body is not compatible in the long run for me. I DO NOT LIKE MEN ABOVE MY TAX BRACKET. EVER!!! However, the DEFINED JAW LINE DOES MATTER A LOT because I have an equally defined face. So yes, a very well defined face i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 07:48 PM
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I am well aware. Look at A-list beauties like Aubrey Plaza, Meagan Good, Nadine Velásquez, Zoé Saldaña (who’s the 2nd all-time highest grossing movie star ever). Or pundits like AOC or Kimberly Guifoille: both beauties who are also making their names known, albeit they’re vastly different from each other ideologically wise. But you know, racists! Can’t do much about a dude who thought he landed some Slavic chick, until he finds out: oh babe, I’m from the tropics, not the Balkans.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:15 PM
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I ALSO include penis size. However: penis size and face >>>> body shape>heightweight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:48 AM
1

I forgot to mention: An ex cheated on me with a much more petite lady (the one he considered his TRUE dream girl ). NOW THAT REALLY TOOK A TOLL ON MY BODY IMAGE FOR A WHILE!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:13 AM
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Easy: I've avoided all of these by avoiding immature men AND ESPECIALLY avoiding NEURO-TYPICAL MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:01 AM
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I’ve been told STRAIGHT AWAY similar reasons. Some of the greatest hits I’ve been told: You’re too TALL!!!!! Been rejected much more frequently for being tall than for being overweight. I thought you were X ethnicity. I’m ethnically ambiguous. Yes, I’ve been rejected because dudes thought they landed a lady from X exotic sounding country… just to find out I’m actually just a generic American (Puerto Rican specifically).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:50 AM
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In some cases you can be rejected even though they consider you attractive (cultural differences, their family doesn’t support race mixing, etc.) This. Has happened with me. Mainly the cultural differences part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:32 PM
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A bit OT: I’ve seen a good share of marriages across doctors and nurses (I have a lot of immediate family who work in healthcare). However, most of these physician/nurses unions are between advance practice nurses and specialists (so they rather equal-ish in terms of earnings and power). I’ve never seen a low end nurse and a high end doctor together, unless they met very young and advanced their careers together. Also, it isn’t uncommon for the doctor to be the lady and the nurse to be the gent …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 09:30 PM
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I have a relatively high number (very, very high). I accumulated said number after divorcing my first husband. However, I went back and remarried. Been married for over a decade. I had NEVER cheated on him and been nothing but the perfect little wife to him the whole time. This man, while not having a similar number, is a much more sexually adventurous man than the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:10 PM
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To me, this is almost the equivalent to men who say: A woman just need to be: skinny, childfree, under 40, and that's it!!! Note: Less developed countries tend to be 25-30.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/22 03:22 AM
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I must say, I vastly prefer the Quran over the Bible when it comes to Abrahamic liturgy. But I also can’t stand organized religion in most forms either. I do find God’s portrayal much more likable (for lack of a better term) in the Quran vs the Bible. To me, being raised as both a Catholic (through my mother) and an evangelical Pentecostal (father) God in the Bible sounded mean and aggressive compared to the Quran (where they’re always all forgiving, all loving ). Currently an agnostic/deist (ma…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 09:22 PM
2

They’d HATE the part about how Islam DEMANDS from MEN equal accountability (in the same way it demands from women). A lot of precepts in regards to female modesty are cultural and not religious: hence the wearing of headscarves, abayas, burkas, etc varies so much from country to country and from denominations. The Quranic version of Adam and Eve, for example, pits the blame on BOTH, and not solely on the woman. Sure, there is the whole bit on 5:34 about (paraphrased) men are the PROTECTORS of wo…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 09:08 PM
3

I work in the fields of theoretical and public policy. I find hilariously all these TRP dudes clamoring for The 50's. Even more hilariously asinine?! All the dudes who claim Islam is right about women. As someone with a considerable knowledge of Shariah, Islam might be right on some things... just not in the ways TRP hopes to be.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/22 06:19 PM
6

He assumes AWALT.
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 01:05 AM
4

I know!! Like, does he REALLY thinks he’s making himself seem more attractive replying with any of these?!
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 12:29 AM
14

Pick me (pearlythings, Melanie King, Roma Army) try to be the girl who understands to build a huge following. Usually is a part of the group they criticize( single mother, alone and over 35, etc). Usually peddle to RP simps who will compliment their looks, call them goddesses etc. Usually peddle the same shitty advice they do not follow. I CANNOT STAND Just Pearly Things!!!! Such a freaking, massively hypocrite!!!!!! I saw an episode of her show, out of sheer curiosity, and she was talking about…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 04:57 PM
1

I agree with you. Many women just deny the truth: physique matters to women just as much it matters to men.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 01:14 PM
0

And that's you. I'm highly visual and very sexually driven in relationships. A good personality isn't going to make me orgasm.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 01:13 PM
0

I'd pick the 5'7" with the pretty face over the lesser looking millionaire. For me, personally ALONE is never enough to make-up for a lackluster face.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 01:16 AM
1

NEVER!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:31 AM
5

NEITHER. I cannot be with someone I do not find physically AND intellectually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:21 AM
6

STOP SAYING females, YOU ARE NOT SOME FERENGI!!!
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 11:27 PM
2

You haven't heard much Jordan Peterson, haven't you? Jordan Peterson condoning "enforced monogamy".
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 10:41 PM
1

TO ME, nothing. No physical attraction, it's just friendship.
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 10:01 PM
1

Yet those bimbos want to coddle us and infantilize us.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 06:48 AM
-3

But when WOC want to support fiscal conservatism, they shriek at us for going against our interests. Can't believe their whiteaudacity. No Susan, black women are the most educated PER CAPITA and us Latinas are #\1 in small business creation. We want money, capitalism, and social mobility, too. We can live under capitalism too.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 11:42 PM
-3

As a WOC I’m tired of white feminists talking FIFY.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 11:35 PM
9

This is why I don't do men's laundry.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 01:52 PM
5

You know what else?! ORGANIZED RELIGION!!!!
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 01:47 PM
2

The hell?! Autists?! That's like saying the R word. Are you neuro-typical?! It is either autistic or individual/person/people with autism.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 01:09 AM
5

If your original self was working just fine, why did you fix what was not broken in the first place?!
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 12:57 AM
3

YOU DON’T CARE!! I do want a man with a somewhat sizeable equipment. OTOH, I'm not concerned over a man's height nor a man's bank account. After all, I am with my husband because I WANT HIM, not because I need him.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 05:34 AM
2

Very easy solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:39 AM
6

because she need a rich nice guy to be the step father of Chads kids I am my own rich guy 😁. I can go from Chad to Chad because I fund my own lifestyle. and This beta male should raise a smile when she is having fun with Chads, Scenario is fake for me. Is Chad or bust maybe cook a meal for them or serve champagne for them. If it's them, it better be a threesome with Eiffel Towel. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:38 AM
4

More on that.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/22 03:35 PM
8

Chris Rock said this like 30 years ago. Just drop it. WE F-ING KNOW!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:52 AM
7

Please, show me hard, scientific evidence. BS TRP blogs don’t count.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:50 AM
2

More baggage than younger women. I don’t think that’s necessarily true. Some 32 year old lawyer who went the KJD route, didn’t cultivate much interpersonal relationships, lived a relatively sheltered life centered around school, work, and a few extracurriculars will NOT have the baggage some 22 year old RN BSN who had to do it all in life. And no, these are NOT outliers. If you think they are, you need to meet more people outside the internet.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:50 AM
15

Since when a natural adaptation due to extra melanin signifies masculinity ?!
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:45 AM
6

The fuck?!
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:44 AM
4

What’s this racist hogwash?!
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 02:44 AM
1

Nah fam. The über woke crowd might not want people physically dead, the woke crowd is committing LITERAL CULTURAL GENOCIDE!!!! But sure, the alt-right are the only bad ones.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/22 01:09 AM
1

With that said, I couldn't read that article due to the paywall but i see a picture of Joe Rogan. If Joe Rogan is alt-right according to the Daily Wire, I can't absolutely take them seriously. Joe Rogan is way more progressive than the average man: he supports abortion, BLM, gay marriage, weed, immigration. Was written by Ben Shitpiro. So I took it with a grain of sand. And no, Ben Shitpiro isn't TRP either (in terms of relationships). He's deeeeeeeep down in the royal blue pill, even tho he's a…
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 11:49 AM
4

And somehow they think using TRP with this new meaning makes them sound cool (and not like a bunch of loons) somehow?! I mean, not like the über woke crowd is any better either. But come on! This is not the hot take they think it is.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 10:15 PM
1

When you tried to attribute hypersexual behavior to biology, rather than environmental or sociological factors, I HAD to use (you guessed it) ACTUAL biology to discredit your claim. Glad I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:26 AM
1

Oh boy, you still don’t get it… Hyper-sexuality is a clinical thing, and doesn’t discriminate on the basis on gender. Hyper-sexuality is what used to be called nymphomany (for women) and satyriasis (for men). What is hyper-sexuality? ICD-10 entry on hyper-sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:44 PM
1

Oh, my dear child... If you truly cares about biology... Women just so happen to be severely UNDERDIAGNOSED with ADHD, that's why. But they have it as much as men, too. But also, you aren't ENTIRELY wrong about the lower digit ratio between those with ADHD and those without. And across world cultures, this has been replicated: both boys and girls across the world who have ADHD and/or display similar behaviors tend to have lower digit ratios. But that's more common in Caucasians: whether Western,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:41 PM
1

Men marry who they want and women marry who they can. That's the biggest bullshit I've ever heard!!!! I need a red-piller to disprove this for me.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 08:02 PM
1

r/redpillwives is rather good but very inactive. r/redpillwomen USED to be amazing... UNTIL it got taken by TRP schmos.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 07:55 PM
1

Yes, they're so dumb with their shit test, for example. Like, here's some YouTuber deconstructing (but partly agreeing) with Rich Cooper's shit tests. Video And my thoughts on the pre-nup shit test (AKA: the Uno reverse card): FINE BY ME!! He'd (or any man like him) better be prepared to hear: Of course baby, I'll be more than happy to sign a pre-nup! However, let me arrange a meeting with a civil attorney to go over it. Making sure is within the law, y'know. This is Texas, and Texas throws pre-…
/r/ExRedPill10/07/22 07:52 PM
1

No babe, nothing about biology but everything to do about sampling biases in American cohort studies vs the rest of the world cohort studies. Here's a study showing how ADHD increases the chances of hypersexual behavior. US studies only studied men, while French and Spanish studies studied both men and women. All studies had the same results, however. Thus showing that it is people's neuro-diversity, and not their gender what makes them prone to hypersexuality. _________ Yes, I do have a PAPER d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:45 PM
1

I find that what people consider masculine and feminine to be rather subjective at times. So what if I am sexually aggressive? I am hyper-sexual and very to the point regarding sex. However, due to my physical factory settings, no matter how many masculine behaviors I may display… I will always be feminine at the end of the day. My waist to hip ratio is naturally harmonious, and so is my face. Even dressing and acting like a man (and learning to do so to the degree I did) didn’t help: I did my b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:08 PM
1

The rest of me (especially face and body) is VERY FEMININE. I did theater years ago and learned method acting (yes, THE METHOD ACTING CRAFT ). We were putting small performances around the quad. For one of mine, I played a (made-up) male character. And so... with the help of My Sigmund Freud Complete Works. Sociology textbook chapters on Males. Mimicking my grandpa, my dad, and most 35+ men around me. Trading rooms with younger brother. Doing male grooming rituals. From shaving my face to... you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:36 AM
2

rebellious women, a good personality is usually being an aggressive, hyper-masculine. I am capable of displaying an aggressive sense of femininity >! due to my hyper-sexuality.!< Those men match said sexual energy. For intelligent/educated women, a good personality is usually being cerebral and knowledgeable on different subjects. But what keeps me around is a man’s capacity to spend hours nerding out with me. it ultimately is determined by the type of girl you're interacting with. Yup!! Your pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 07:21 AM
1

And how’s this TRP’s fault again…
/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 07:02 PM
1

Taco fest is my favorite one when it's a majority or an all-girls event. For example: I went to see The Backstreet Boys last month, and it was a massive taco fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:15 AM
1

Not really. In fact, given how I have so few female friends (compared to male friends) I’d love such party for once. If I want a sausage fest, I’d be at a metal show/concert. Metal shows/concerts are massive sausage fests. Men wanting to find ladies should go to, say, a Backstreet Boys concert or a Harry Styles concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:28 PM
3

Someone recommended me The Surrendered Wife because I was having marital difficulties. IT DID NOT HELP IN ANY WAY. ​ Why? The book was assuming I was a nag and my husband was a yes-man and a pushover. That was not the case with us at all. Me becoming more submissive and more demure ended up angering my husband even more. Why? On top of him finding my new persona phony and inauthentic, he hated having a wife who would not give him any feedback of any sort.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 06:31 PM
2

Start with this self-assesment. This website has resources to find professional tests as well. ​ AQ test.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 06:18 PM
1

I’d say Courtney Ryan is one of the most benign YouTubers in regards to relationship advice. Basically, all I espouse is what she says. She’s basically a neuro-typical version of me in terms of advice.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:59 PM
3

Me!! I am a female with Asperger and ADHD. I got my formal Dx last year. I am willing to help anyone who needs how to become better adept with social interactions and better with their physical self. Also, my own husband and son are Aspies themselves.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/22 03:56 PM
2

And yes BPD is not a secure attachment I've read quite a bit about attachment theory. I was a mix of ambivalent and anxious. But after therapy and, of course, all those adversities (on top of my marriage) I slowly developed a more secure style.
/r/ExRedPill05/07/22 03:29 AM
5

I have BPD. Most of it stems from my childhood. BPD also gets better with age. My BPD has certainly improved as I've gotten older: my 22 year old self was very emotionally unstable compared to my current 34 year old self. Granted, I also faced many adversities that shaped my growth as well. I've faced several bouts of homelessness and I was even incarcerated once. My BPD (along my, then, undiagnosed neuro-divergencies) forced me to grow.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 03:25 PM
6

Change women for men and boobs for height. See how freaking dumb you sound?!
/r/ExRedPill01/07/22 05:39 AM
3

Bullshit.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:34 PM
5

Women are fucking virtuosos when it comes to social situations and you will never beat them at their own game. Suuuuuure. Because ALL women are social butterflies who are socially aware, conniving creatures who just want to baby-trap men for child support. /s Like OP, I'm also autistic. And if it wasn't because my dad, during my teenage years, introduced me to stoicism (especially Seneca the Younger and his essay On The Shortness of Life ) and Machiavelli's The Prince, I wouldn't been able to so…
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 06:33 PM
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Yes. I personally feel like having becoming a mother has shaped my body and made it look even more feminine than before. Looking at my pre-baby vs post baby silhouette, my current silhouette looks more hourglassy than before. Last, but not least: my husband says that my nipples are way more sensual now. He can't get enough of them after they were used for their intended purpose. Before they were used for their intended purpose, he was ambivalent to them.
/r/ExRedPill30/06/22 03:47 PM
1

This is happened to me growing up: Girls socially isolated me throughout all of elementary school for being taller than all of them and because I had ugly teeth (huge over bite). So the boys took me in. Thus, I began to socialize with them. However, by the time I was in 5th and 6th grade... I was beginning puberty. This isolated me from everyone. Then, by the time I returned for 7th grade... I no longer had braces and began shaving. Boys saw me looking a bit better (albeit not a whole lot better…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 10:31 PM
1

Begin to see girls and women as PEOPLE.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/22 09:20 PM
2

She sounds way more FDS than RPW.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 05:41 PM
3

I can't stand this woman. She claims to be red pilled, but she seems more FDS despite she probably bashes them. However, I've seen a few of her videos and she sounds just like the FDS ladies TO A T!!!
/r/ExRedPill28/06/22 05:40 PM
13

Not everyone does them, but so-called shit-tests are ways both men and women (whether heteros or LGBT, regardless of culture or ethnicity) gauge each other's boundaries. Some can be subconscious, but the reason they're called shit-tests is because these boundary pushing situations are set deliberately. Some common shit-tests done by men: Going overboard with commenting about other women in public. As in, NSFW level overboard. Lying about his job. Some common shit-tests done by women: Down/overpl…
/r/ExRedPill26/06/22 04:53 AM
5

They're usually prostitutes.
/r/ExRedPill25/06/22 02:59 AM
5

You're making it sounds as if I ask him permission and/or he bosses me around. Just... stop it.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 02:00 AM
7

So you're upset that our finances are split, yet it works for us. We've been married for way over a decade, and we married before both being 25. So we are doing something right, despite trying to prove me wrong. Not everything in life is this or that (AKA: dichotomies). Taking turns in who wears the pants or wearing the pants at the same time has given us good results.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/22 01:49 AM
10

There's no alphas, nor betas... none of those exist.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 11:33 PM
1

Lost her when I continued to play hot shot too long into the relationship and left her feeling abandoned. This sounds like a YOU problem. And you expect anyone to feel bad for you ? Within 15 minutes of me posting, she (my ex) has seen my story somehow and messages “I’m done with your games” and blocks me. Not from everything, just Instagram. I would had blocked you from EVERYTHING and forget you even exist. What the fuck. Was I really just supposed to put up with being on standby? This has set …
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 01:10 PM
5

Wome do like confidence. Then again, most women want to be approached.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 01:04 PM
1

Is good that u/xvszero mentioned this. Hence I have to reiterate the starter wife issue.
/r/ExRedPill20/06/22 01:03 PM
4

Actually, men are more likely to "upgrade" once THEY become successful. Hence the term "starter wife" is a thing. Part 1 of 2 of how a "starter wife" is "created". Part 2 of 2: bye "starter wife".
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 12:31 AM
1

It's perfectly possible to have a happy relationship with average looks and not making a lot of money, Of course it is!! However, OP is demonstrating a big problem regarding their insecurities. If they don't feel on par regarding the kind of person they feel they deserve, they first need to work on themselves. A relationship with an insecure person is the worst.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/22 12:09 AM
3

If you can't fathom being dumped over the fact of someone else being better than you, shouldn't that be a sign that it's YOU (and not the other party) who MUST be working on Self-improvement before even considering getting into a healthy relationship?!
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 09:45 PM
2

Only if they're neuro-typical.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 10:14 PM
1

But because it also focuses on modesty, and virginity, western red pillers drank that Kool-Aid. But of course, because western mass media tends to focus the extremely oppressive side, they fell for it. But had they bothered to read the Quran first, they would know that. Better not tell them about how Tanzania's late president died for being a COVIDIOT!!! ...and then being replaced by his (vice-president) wife... who's PRO-VAXX!!!!
/r/ExRedPill16/06/22 08:14 PM
3

Exactly! Tons of Arabs are Christians (met plenty of them), and tons of non-Arabs who are Muslims (all my irl friends who are Muslims are NOT Arabs).
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 04:12 PM
3

I know!!!! Most Muslims are actually located in... SOUTHEAST ASIA!!!! I mean, Singapore's president is a Muslim woman: Halimah Yacob. She's Southeast Asian.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:31 PM
2

Looooooove seeing when red pillers parrot Islam is right about women. I mean, they're sooort of right. But suuuuuuper wrong as to how and why they're sort of right. For example, here's the Islamic POV of the Adam and Eve "fall of Humanity" (Surah 7, "The Heights"). Spoiler: it was NOT Eve's fault!
/r/ExRedPill14/06/22 01:15 PM
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Actually, it is neither. Women’s preference for good genes may produce another mate preference mismatch. The evolved preference for indicators of good genes is an adaptation that likely predates adaptations for pair bonding. Because not all men possess all the qualities that women desire, women often make tradeoffs, opting for one set of features over others. When women emphasize indicators of good genes, they may find that they are dissatisfied with their partner’s provisioning. Indeed, men who…
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 08:04 AM
1

Treatment can cost a ton of money depending on where you are so that puts the lower income bracket, a bracket that I was in for most of my life, at a severe disadvantage. I've gotten some therapy but other than resolving some speech issues it was pretty useless. Go to the neuro-divergent subreddits and follow Facebook groups about neuro-divergency for free and low cost solutions. Sure, but since I'm not natural at it my responses are delayed, formulaic, and robotic. The same for millions of non …
/r/ExRedPill10/06/22 02:40 AM
1

Willingness to get and stick to the proper treatment. Learn body language and facial cues. This can take years, however. Turn one or more of your specific interests into a hustle. This one is the harder part: be willing to get out of your comfort zone in order to meet human beings. Be open to people you'd never considered. In other words, don't hyperfocus on a type of person. You'll never know who'll end up tickling your fancy.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:37 PM
1

Although maybe it's just because I hate science and think it's boring. I was not going to employ TRP tactics of using statistics. However, using rationality about self-improvement and data from neuroscientists explaining how neuro-divergence affects human behavior differently from neuro-typical people.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:32 PM
1

Autism and boring have easy fixes. Ugly? That's rather subjective, and may need a more invasive fix: either a change of haircut, facial hair, and wardrobe, or more exercise. Short? How short? Under 1.65m/5'5" short?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 03:29 PM
3

I'm planning to create a dating and relationships YouTube channel and/or podcast with a (female) friend of mine centered on neuro-divergent POC/WOC. She's black and I'm West Indian, and we are both (late in life diagnosed) autistic. While it'll be female centric, it'll have a lot of male info as well. Unlike existing TRP channels, we hope to create a positive, science based one. Nothing on Evo Psych, since Evo Psych isn't an actual empirical science, however.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:33 PM
1

Even in countries with legal prostitution incels still exist.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:29 PM
3

Not all incels are autistic, nor all incels are autistic. It turned out that my husband of 10+ years is ALSO autistic, yet he's most definitely not an incel.
/r/ExRedPill09/06/22 12:29 PM
1

Doesn't mean they are having happy, fulfilling relationships. Don't fall for "any relationship is better than no relationship".
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 04:48 PM
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As someone who has seen what men can do when they're the ones who control all finances, I want someone who's on my same economical standing. Financial STABILITY is what I want in a partner. I rather have a partner who can stretch $30K a year than one who don't know what to do with $300K a year. I am solidly middle class, so I want the same and found the same.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 08:52 PM
1

You haven't been watching 90 Day Fiancé haven't you?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 05:38 PM
2

You've never heard of the so-called second-shift, haven't you? Here is a paper on the subject: Some additional stats.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 05:30 PM
1

But when they DO get approached in public or online, they tend to reject most or all men who aren't African-American (some go as far as rejecting other blacks, if they aren't American) of black love BS... while black men keep dating out of their race left and right. Source: some of my closest friends are black women. Most refuse to date outside AA men for odd political reasons.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:45 AM
1

This Facebook post I saw about good-looking dads would summarize how I feel regarding men in general: From that cute Asian dad in the bike with his puppy, that choco bearded grandpa in the sports Honda that I see picking up the mail, that blond jogging shirtless around my neighborhood, or that Desi with big biceps with a scrub dropping his kids at the same school my son attends… my neighborhood has DILFs of all colors!!!
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:40 AM
2

To me, the only two things that are almost objective are the following: Harmonious facial symmetry with strong angular features. Waist to hip ratio. Broad shoulders on men, pear or hourglass shape for women. Outside of that, I find nearly all sorts of humans attractive.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:36 AM
1

I love how you're just telling communal dicks they have to meet the same standard they want in a woman.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:33 AM
2

Just bought it!!!!
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:31 AM
0

Looks-match trap? What do you mean? I think most people end up with someone of similar attractiveness.
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 12:20 AM
3

100% disagree. Being respectful and courteous IS THE ULTRA BARE MINIMUM. The bar for men's behavior is so incredibly low, that seeing men taking their kids to/from school in the mornings and afternoons is seen as they're fathers of the year rather than just doing their freaking job.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 05:15 PM
1

The fact that Johnny Depp was willing to leave the mother of his kids on a whim for Amber Heard... and then make a public tantrum about it (when it turned out Amber was not a nice person) shows this tweet is true. Any man crying women don't like nice guys should look himself in the mirror and realize he probably doesn't care for nice, stable girls either.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/22 05:04 PM
2

Why would an older, successful man with options settle with an older woman when he can get a harem of 20-something babes? Yeah, exactly. Here are the average weekly salaries for both men and women (in 2021 $USD). How truly common age gap relationships. Drop it with the mythical older, successful man with options. The real life salary data doesn't support that said man is as common as TRP makes him to be.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 03:19 PM
2

I am Hispanic and with autism.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 11:01 AM
1

And you can’t demand ANY man you want. No one can. If you couldn't tell it was an exaggeration in order to make a point, then I guess you should learn more English when it comes to figurative language. Objectively speaking, I know that. Then again, I know which places to look for the kind of men Iike if I were to find myself divorced tomorrow.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 10:59 AM
1

the 80/20 rule possibly is being applied You mean the inflated statistics that claim 80% of women want 20% of men... because male dating app users account for about 80% of its users.) Yes, in 2015 swiping WAS already the dominant format. Tinder came in 2012. And yes, the results were replicated in 2018!!! GSS data provided by the WaPo. I guess TRP is eating y'all's critical thinking skills. You couldn't be bother to find replication studies, like I just did.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/22 10:51 AM
1

They also want to face the possibility that it's really their fault, or that their loneliness is mostly bad luck and coincidence. Don't you mean don't ? On top of this world having over eight billion people, thanks to technology I don't see an excuse in this and age for inceldom to be a thing. If unemployed basement dwellers or chubby single mothers who live with their parents can find super model looking chicks and gents from Latin America, the West Indies, Asia, and the MENA, there's no excuse…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 11:03 PM
4

Incels are mostly introverts. That sounds like a personal problem. Being introvert isn't the same as being shy, as it is commonly believed.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 07:54 PM
1

However, think tanks and colleges ARE real research. I provided the real science from both sides of the aisle (the right wing side and the left wing side). And they both discredited TRP at 100%.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 06:17 PM
1

Basically, I just destroyed the entire TRP with those two posts: one study from the (very conservative) Institute for Family Studies think tank, and a study from the (very progressive) Kinsey Institute (based on Indiana University).
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 06:15 PM
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So what’s feminine to you? Beings who are AFAB Beings who demonstrate a dominant preference for behaviors of what their prescribed cultural backgrounds consider feminine (remember: different cultures have different views and concepts of this). People really aren’t considering the fact sexual preferences are patriarchal How are they patriarchal? If any, I'd say They should be considered matriarchal. AFAB women are the ones who carry humans.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 05:26 AM
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But sure, this MoFo thinks he knows how to be the perfect broad and thinks femininity is an universal ideal. But of course, let's hear how to be the perfect little broad from some bloke.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 05:13 AM
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But what’s crazy is people constantly tell me I’m sexist for these preferences that are LITERALLY OUT OF MY CONTROL. It’s annoying. Here's the main difference between you and me: I do not view a man as more or less masculine by his physique. I don't hold such shallow views about masculinity and femininity.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 04:37 AM
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I guess you're conflating my ambivalence for a man's height for having a preference. A man can be 5'5" or 6'5", but if his face, body shape, and Johnson don't sexually stimulate me... I don't want him.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 03:29 AM
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Paul Rudd is about 5'9", btw, so the same logic with Omar applies. With my real life spouse, the thing that got me about him were his face and smile. Where have I contradicted myself? You not knowing how to read isn't my fault.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:53 AM
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Not who's taller, but who has the bigger Johnson out of the two? The taller man doesn't have to be the owner of said Johnson.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:47 AM
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His face and smile. That's it. I'm of the mentality that I much rather be with a man who's overall good looking, whether he's a tad shorter, than a very tall average looking bloke. Mexican actor/TV host Omar Chaparro (who's about 5'7") is way better looking to me than Jason Segel (who's about 6'4"). I'd still happily date and marry a younger version of Paul Rudd if he was a regular middle class dude for the same reason as well.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:40 AM
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However, it’s clear you’re inflating your attractiveness greatly. Whatever makes you feel happy at night. I mean, I've sharing a bed with a man every night for the last 12 years. I felt like I should had mentioned thar sooner, but it would had made for a very boring conversation. I am a semi-regular on this subreddit. I didn't feel the need to share something that I've stated over and over again.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:31 AM
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who’s accepting her biological role. If you were more familiar with Jewish family dynamics, you won't be saying that. Jewish women are some tough as nails broads that'll chew you out alive. Just because they tend to be petite but not super dainty (Alex Borstein and Susie Essman are two actresses irl who exemply the Jewish woman phenotype, but are also feisty as well) don't meant they aren't feminine. Judaism has a wholly different idea from femininity than western Protrstant Christianity.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:21 AM
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You aren't an outlier.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:13 AM
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No wonder they say men's audacity is stored in their balls!!! how about learning to unlock your true feminine nature so that men won’t reject you next time? If you think you know how to be the PERFECT CHICK... Then, how about YOU BE THAT PERFECT CHICK?! I was born tall and I've been my current height since I was twelve. Body wise, I have the right factory settings (harmonious waist to hip ratio and evenly symmetrical face). I can hide or enhance them as I please, exercise, eat more/less to reduc…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 02:11 AM
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Moreover, daintiness, cuteness, vulnerability, intuitiveness, affection, empathy are feminine, primarily associated with women. They are not. Not even history nor science are on your side. This is all your opinion as viewed by a highly Protestant and European lens. Now there are outliers, and we should always respect everyone equally and love them equally (platonically), but it is what it is._ Those outliers are called the rest of the world: AKA, those who aren't European and/or Protestant. And,…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 01:48 AM
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Still, feminine women masculine men are subjective terms because Reddit is used by people from all around the world. Femininity and masculinity are neither objective nor universal concepts.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/22 12:02 AM
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I’m not bashing taller women or anything, but it’s really weird dynamic for me is all I’m saying. They just seem a bit more masculine, I know it sounds shallow… I don’t mean to offend you or anyone ​ So much freaking bullshit!! Adriana Lima is sooooo masculine, even tho she's 5'10. And the late Jack Lallane (the father of body building) was soooo effeminate because he was only 5'6". F off!!!!
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 11:56 PM
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feel like I’m dating a man, if that makes any sense I'm all for people having their preferences and all that, but the highlighted part is what I can't get past. As a lady who's a bit taller than average and had explicitly gotten rejected for my height ALONE, yet there are people out there who claim that doesn't happen (getting rejected for being taller), having someone (you) confirm to me what has happened (and idk, if you're over 35 you might even be someone who has actually rejected me irl) is…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 10:44 PM
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TRP just need to research and read further. Contrary to popular belief, their career-maxxing isn't making women go after them like they claim. And no. Even later in life (late middle age, advanced age) when people had gotten divorced or widowed, women do not face a "wall". AT ALL. They Still have as much options as when they were young, and that's because they stay more SOCIALLY active than men and their (women's) refusal to remarry.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 09:54 PM
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I am not Asexual. However, I am acquainted with several aces and I've known of what is asexuality long before it became mainstream. For what I've always understood, asexuality merely means: lack of sexual attraction. This is why whenever I hear preferences like demisexual or sapiosexual, I roll my eyes. I still don't think demisexuality or sapiosexuality are part of being Asexual. If at any point one is capable of having sexual attraction, then one should not be considered Asexual. Granted, ther…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:44 AM
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In North America. I grew up in Latin America. Most men in Latin America are closer or at the 6" mark.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 06:02 PM
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This is not common, but it does happen since I am the type that will do this. Granted, I will do this relatively early in a relationship. This is why I rather have sex sooner than later and why I place such a massive importance to sex. Men complain sex decreases once a relationship becomes stable. A man will never complain about that with me. Flipping the script: physically wise, I have good enough womanly assets to demand nearly any man I feel like it. I wear single clothing, I have a thigh gap…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/22 05:53 PM
1

Chris Rock on "the friendzone" and "platonic friends". What is even worse? that the friendzone is gender-neutral: I had been a woman who has been on the receiving end (AKA: been the platonic female friend). I am an amateur comedienne and I literally re-wrote this stand-up from a female POV, and it still fits. ​ Excerpt of Eddie Murphy's 1986's "RAW". While Eddie Murphy himself has come forward apologizing about most of the content from this stand-up special (which is a fantastic thing he did, gi…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 09:26 PM
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TRP originated with Men of Color. Richard Pryor, Eddie Murphy and Chris Rock are **THE OG** Red Pillers. Their take on the Red Pill philosophy are takes I accept and even understand.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/22 02:34 PM
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Maybe autism? I'm weird too, and that's what led me to get a diagnosis. Check these self-assessments (take as many as you can). If you have positive scores, look into further pro testing.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 02:01 AM
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You are not doing anything technically wrong, but here are some hacks to work smarter!! I would recommend that you work on developing better work skills (learning new languages, programming/coding, bookkeeping, taking extension classes, etc) to land a higher (single) paying job. Then, just stick to fewer sex workers at a time. Have a roster of regular providers that you cycle around according to what they provide.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 07:19 PM
1

What would need to be explained? The neolibs are/were the laissez-faire psychos, while the classical libs aren't/weren't that extreme?
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 07:14 PM
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She isn't neoliberal. Neoliberals were the late Maggie Thatcher or Saint Ronnie Ray-Gun. Hillary is classically liberal.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 06:56 PM
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I do like slightly bigger than average, so...
/r/ExRedPill09/05/22 05:31 AM
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Hillary Clinto isn't leftist. She's a solidly classical liberal (center-right) through and through with neoconservative foreign policy, and very devoted Methodist. Her neoconservatism is what promptly to support co-ed conscription.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 09:37 PM
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I support co-ed conscription, like Israel's IDF, tho. Thanks!
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 09:34 PM
1

Most men's standard of attractiveness tend to be: Do not be grotesquely obese. From that point on, things like hair color, eye color, ethnicity, height, and body shape should be secondary, and the focus must shift to the long-term compatibility stuff: values, children (yes/no), intellect, etc.
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 03:10 AM
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He ignored me a lot, didn't respond to my texts until after a day or so, but expected me to text back ASAP. For starters, sorry about your dad. I "dated" a bunch like those, who would act massively offended when I'd reply back with: You aren't my husband, not even my fiancé to be so demanding of my time and attention. Simmer down. Commonly, after sending that text it was an indirect, mutual ghosting.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 02:00 AM
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I once mentioned years ago the importance of financial solvency on the RPW subreddit. I specifically mentioned that SAHM's must use their best talents and turn them into what you mentioned and/or open Etsy/Ebay stores. I WAS CRUCIFIED... by the male lurkers. The women on the subreddit were actually in agreement: some say they had Etsy shops where they sell their knitting projects or did cakes, etc.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 01:53 AM
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r/sugarlifestyleforum exists. But it isn't super common.
/r/ExRedPill06/05/22 01:44 AM
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Last year, I stumbled him on the app Medium (paid app for blogging). My name is hidden (for obvious reason). It went EXACTLY as you'd expect. Screenshots right here!
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 02:38 AM
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Afro-Latino man. ​ From the Caribbean or from the continent?
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 01:54 AM
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The Pareto principle seems real when using dating apps for a very simple reason: DATING APPS ARE LITERALLY 8 OR 9 MEN FOR EVERY ONE OR TWO WOMEN!!!!!! ​ I won't keep repeating myself about this. Go creep out my comments. I had posted tons of sources about this before.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 12:57 AM
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Living with parents is only repulsive IF they are also funding the rest of your entire existence and doing everything for him. If my pre-teen son is already doing his own laundry and can cook basic meals, it is unacceptable for a full-grown man to not be able to do the same. I do not have an issue with a man living with his parents if: He is working and paying for all his living expenses. Basically, he uses his parents' house as a dorm and that's it. He helps around his parents' home. Chores, la…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 12:30 AM
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It's laughable how you use gringo sitcoms as your justification for this. You're so freaking wrong about this. I do not dismiss a man's looks, nor I ever will. Maybe stop watching so many gringo sitcoms and watch shows from, say Turkey or Brazil: in those shows the women are paired up with equally hot men.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 01:21 AM
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women don't fixate on looks as much as men Lies!!! I deeply care about looks. This being said, I do not seek perfection nor do I seek some Idris Elba look-a-like either. Facial attractiveness is what I pay the most attention.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 01:10 AM
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On the other hand, there is no point in being with someone who's so so in looks if they don't turn me on. I hold sex in very high regard. I am old enough to come to the realization that sex is extremely important to me. I can tolerate okay (not mistreatment, of course) treatment by a very good-looking person that is always making me wet than a so so looking person who's all sunshine and rainbows. I am not the greatest person in the world either, so there is that as well.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 01:07 AM
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I'm not this sort of hypocrite. I am fully, fully 100% aware that a man's facial attractiveness is of paramount importance to me. A man with a great facial bone structure and harmonious symmetry is very important to me. Bodywise? As long as a man is not super scrawny or super obese, I'm happy with the majority of body types as long as his weight is evenly distributed and he has a good waist to hip ratio (broad, wide shoulders). HOWEVER, I MUCH RATHER HAVE A SLIGHTLY SHORTER MAN WITH A VERY HANDS…
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 01:02 AM
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It is a number's game... just not in 80/20 way. ​ The Pareto principle is wrong: the reason why it seems it is not wrong is a simple one. When there are only one or two women per every eight or nine men on dating apps... it will seem as if women only wanted the top men. In reality, there are only very few women. ​ These are ways in how dating IS a number's game, and how almost anyone can do something about it: ​ Where one lives. This one is the easiest of them all. A man who lives in China or In…
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 11:17 PM
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It will happen one day, or: God has a person picked for you. There is one soulmate out there for you, or there was ... and he/she/they just died in a car crash. Love will show up when you will least expect it. Finding a relationship is all a matter of luck and chance. You don't find love; love finds YOU. All of that... #IT IS BULLSHIT!! YOU, AND YOU ALONE... #ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN LIFE. If you want to find a partner... find ways to improve your health, improve your hygiene, try to heal the …
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 05:56 PM
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Try to focus on women who also work night shifts (eg. nurses, cops, etc.).
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 05:45 PM
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I'm in my 30's, so I'm at the point where I say: I could date you or I could date your dad (even tho I'm currently in a very long term relationship). So whoever treats me better, but isn't as old as my dad either.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 05:44 PM
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