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Honestly mine was out of spite and love for my child. Do everything you can to show that you’re stronger than you think you are. Challenge yourself in some way healthy. I will get up, I will take a shower, eat breakfast something. One step and one day at a time. There will always be some shit in life, find small things to enjoy or take pride in
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 11:41 PM
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Just turned 4 and he is a hoot. Just discovering the potty options.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/24 05:25 PM
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Yup I try damn hard to be a good dad. Ex tries to poke and jab and damn she knows the right buttons.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 05:14 PM
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Drop the divorce on her and play hard
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 08:53 PM
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Don’t tell them and get reversal later is what my older female friend said.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 12:05 PM
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When you go and doc like are you sure… I am like b please do you want to start over just to get crushed again
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 01:49 AM
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Got kid with her, but I think her mom is gonna buy her shit since she said she can replace everything
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 06:34 PM
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It’s sad when you compare look in the mirror and see that you can barely be what you were. But have to still be a good dad after all the bullshit. When it just be easier to take everything because fuck her that’s why. Had a slick line that I would use on her of did you give a fuck last time time we had sex… be like nah you were lazy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 02:14 AM
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Have you tried FAP it did a number on me but if you can get her for Abuse emotional or physical you can bar her from the home. Also since it’s medical almost no records
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 02:03 AM
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All her lied about what was wrong, blindside divorce plays. Cheated but never admitted to it. Honestly I pray for the day she feels the meaning of pain and empty home and broken spirit.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 01:55 AM
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Yes and she read the list too. I thought about taking it then sending a message of Xyz pawn shop or fb marketplace post. The best part was listening to her beg for me to not take the tv she meant to want. After a month or so of homeless sofa surfing. Not seeing my son for a month. I feel like she should suffer and learn the meaning of pain of having nothing after 9 months of having nothing but what could fit in my car. Especially since it was a pre Christmas kickout
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 01:50 AM
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She was very hostile false flag DV claims bs to no responses so it’s hard think about playing nice
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 01:49 AM
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Leave mine only liked my deployment time like yours or similar
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 06:57 PM
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File and kick her to comply
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 02:43 PM
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Any state or county crossings? Court orders or any binding agreement.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 01:47 PM
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I asked mine was all the stupid shit needed. Told her I don’t care if you did it because you felt bad. She asked to be friends and start over. What she did I don’t think you can ever start over. The week if Christmas kicked out and kept my son away or a month.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 12:29 AM
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You fight for yourself because you have to. Never quit, they can see you cry. Let them break you, but when you respond they haven’t killed you and it’s the time to bite back. After two deployments, lots of tears and fights. The only thing you can do is be strong for your children and yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 05:47 PM
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That’s my plan. I fought back for my son and spent more than my fair share of tear to try and see him. She kept him away for a month. Filed abuse claims when I told her no. Attempted to hold my things for ransom. Doesn’t realize I will never stop fighting for fair custody.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 10:27 PM
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Been trying been a roller coaster… did all my discovery shit nothing from her back.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 06:08 PM
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So 50/50 on temp she not interested in negotiating for long term other than the weekend only option. She holding all my things for ransom. She threw the basic I don’t like no child abuse claims. But I kinda threw them back at her but here are still getting looked at.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 05:57 PM
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Facts I got kicked out days after sex on allegations. All while talking about what I needed to buy for Christmas dinner. Don’t trust shit. Beating back is harder than trying to stay strong. It’s a plot to keep you on the hook always if they unhappy and out. It’s just to buy them time
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 09:41 AM
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In GA it sure does a lot…. It can void divorce proceedings
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 01:25 AM
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Facts it’s always a trick, the blind switch rule. Everything could be bugged, a setup or even just a attempt to get power
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 01:24 AM
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Take her to court and Child services
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 01:50 PM
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That’s how mine decided to go from get go.. she didn’t tell the full truth kicked me out blindside week before Christmas.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 09:41 PM
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I be here for you bro
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 10:44 PM
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Honestly I think as much as a money pit as they are… probably one of the few things other than my son that made me happy. Also really helped when I got back from deployments especially that almost WW3 in 22.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 08:46 PM
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I think my 30 or my 75 are my favorites… STBX has all my tanks for the last 6 months and literally killed everything. So I got my son a FLEX as a temp bedroom tank
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 09:16 AM
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Start an fish tank 50/75 gallons…. Start doing the pants or African cichlids. You can make a thunder dome, or peaceful tank
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 07:42 PM
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I only care about my son, she really only offered money and got mad when I told her no. She does not want 50/50 which I don’t get why because honestly it’s best for the child
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 03:09 PM
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Yes in GA for child custody contested divorce
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 03:07 PM
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I knew her plan a little bit… throw the default DV/abuse Claims when you don’t get the results you want. Hide behind no contact orders, keep the other in dark. Thank goodness for leadership that listens to you and allows you the chance to explain things in my wonderful Unit.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:31 AM
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Should have do it
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 12:04 AM
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Habit
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 10:12 PM
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If moveout isn’t required don’t. If someone wants to leave let her….
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 10:43 PM
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It is in military at least for US
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/23 07:22 PM
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Same
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 11:20 PM
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It’s all about long game what can I take advantage of
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 08:25 PM
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That you can’t start draining retirement accounts. Most assets get locked for divorce stuff. So you can’t transfer/dump assets or try to move things around to hide/misrepresenting them I straight up turned my contributions off. Since I am dumping them in other places for custody/separation life.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 02:08 PM
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In GA at least she get flagged for draining a retirement account.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 01:54 PM
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Nah it’s my name and loan only. I can sell the my other car but I need to get stuff to make 3rd car run new battery. Living in a apartment now with barely more than what I had from my barracks days… just my son stuff and an air mattress is the difference
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 10:09 AM
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Both got an attorney she hasn’t tried to bring things to civilian side. Three months no police for abuse stuff on her. Saw CPS but I beat that one back on her allegations and called her out for stuff and they went away in a week
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/23 08:19 PM
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Yup got a lawyer they talk on Tuesday. I am hoping that she just realizes that we can’t afford to split with how she likes to live. She doing a lot of different abuse techniques to control the situation. Emotionally and physically separation and isolation.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 02:29 PM
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