Doing meditation in two months with a non cooperative STBX. Living in an empty apartment because no recovery of possessions entertained. No response to Discovery phase of divorce. How should I proceed to negotiate with that? 50/50 custody for now and paying child support. No communication in four months other than her offered terms.

Should I try to negotiate custody/property or just try to see what she willing to work with. Since she basically said take the debts, she takes the kid. Honestly think I am the more reasonable for negotiating and wanting both of us in his life.