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| 33 | [FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great. | CzechBook | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 01:25 AM | |
| 21 | Brofessor Dom takes on the "Dad Bod" and (intentionally? unintentionally?) speaks some real RP truths. | CzechBook | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/15 07:41 PM |
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| 78 | OBGYN bait n switch...1) Amnio test is invasive, carries a not insignificant risk of miscarriage, and is totally unnecessary for a 33 year old unless there's other factors/evidence already leading to concern. Her reasoning may annoy you, but her doctor is correct. 2) Get a blood test. It will reveal if all sorts of mutations are present, plus will tell you the gender of the baby. It's just a pin prick on the mother's skin to do it. It's 3-5 hundred bucks depending on your insurance. If the test raises red flags, THEN… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/15 11:13 PM |
| 2 | New to RP; Wife wants to postpone having kidsHoly hell that's a plot twist. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/15 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Confused and Frustrated: Advice SoughtMy two cents: You clearly set and established your boundaries. Good. If what she did was supposed to get under your skin, who cares? She did something that you explicitly gave her permission to do. She is going to be passive aggressive, hamstery, etc. because AWALT. And anyway, maybe she didn't intend it... but what are you doing? You've thought about it all day. All goddamn pathetic day. That means she has pulled you into her frame. Step back into your frame. She had fun without you? Good. It's… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/07/15 01:22 AM |
| 6 | Sex with wife has become non existent and I feel trapped!But what if we have to work hard to achieve our goals?!! That would be hard. /s | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/07/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Dread while still being a good father?I interpreted it as "Dread Level 4: Begin conditioning your availability to your wife with her treatment of you." I agree that it appears butthurt to leave, but the advice is handed out here frequently, which is why OP made his shitpost to begin with. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/15 11:39 AM |
| 4 | Dread while still being a good father?Then don't use a nuke for your level 1 dread That's a nuke? "Leave and go to the gym" seems to be the first piece of advice offered on this sub. Edit: Seems to be dread level 4 according to the BPP 12 levels. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/15 02:32 AM |
| 9 | Dread while still being a good father?Eh. I think I get what he's asking. We've got an infant in the house. If my wife misbehaves at 5pm, I'm not simply going to walk out until midnight and therefore not see my kid the whole day other than right at breakfast. There's lots of advice saying "Just leave" or "go to the gym from 8pm to 12am" but lots of shit needs to be done with there's children involved. And I actually really enjoy spending time with my kid. In a few years, I can take said kid OUT for ice cream in the evening or whatev… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/07/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Lifting HelpHow many days per week can you lift? I'm currently lifting three times per week on SL5x5, but I plan to switch to four times per week on PHUL once I start to plateau and am lifting "intermediate" weight. It's a highly recommended program both for continuing to build your strength but also working on aesthetics. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/15 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Adding Game to my RP knowledge-- Ross Jeffries is the masterPlanning. Strategy. Steps to take. I think this is why I've pretty much stopped instigating entirely lately. I feel myself slipping back into the same old "maybe if I sacrifice a goat and then dance around throwing voodoo dust in the air sex will happen." Except now it's mixed with, "But I'm outcome independent. I don't give a shit about the goat." I've realized that after almost 20 years of failing to seduce my wife, I really don't feel like seducing her any more, even if I'm using a different … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/07/15 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Wow not even one week in and i see changes alreadyThis isn't a comfort test. And dressing nice is incredibly light dread. You can't "overplay" dressing nice for work. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/07/15 12:31 PM |
| 6 | Wife's ultimatum: BJJ or meOne piece of advice re: ballroom dancing: The man should try to take a few extra lessons ahead of time. Ballroom is very RP, since the man must lead. But if the man is just as clueless as the woman, then there will be a struggle over leading while dancing (yes, really) and the woman will begin to shit test in various ways during the dance since it's clear that the man "can't lead." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/07/15 01:45 PM |
| 9 | Wife's ultimatum: BJJ or meYour argument There's no argument. There's no need to come up with a list of justifications. Why the fuck should he spend time groveling and showing her videos on the internet trying to win her over to a hobby that he enjoys? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/07/15 01:43 PM |
| 1 | July 2 Weekly Newb Posts! Ask your question here!I see regular encouragement for married guys to practice day game and PUA techniques in order to keep their skills sharp and to develop abundance mentality. It seems like most of the stuff that I'm finding online is aimed at 20-something guys looking to "find plates." Any good resources for men in our circumstances? Discussion of giving soccer moms, secretaries, etc., the tingles but not necessarily bringing them back home. Otherwise I'll just keep reading and translating to my own situation. ED… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Lift=Confidence=SexyYeah, unfortunate that your post got derailed. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Lift=Confidence=SexyExcept the supporting info was unconvincing bullshit when it came to talking about the purpose of SS/SL. I guess a blog post that throws in "lol" adds extra credibility for big_bones_yall. I assume you're on /r/fitness and reading the wiki there. If not, do so. Glad you're seeing gains. Sounds like you're on the right track. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/07/15 01:56 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Covert Contracts and Unrequested ExpectationsHe may even cry Or furiously stay up late masturbating alone with some online porn as a form of revenge that she'll never know about. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/15 12:07 PM |
| 2 | A small, but important changeI had an interesting realization about this. I used to think that, regarding a lot of choices, I didn't care so I might as well ask my wife. But then I realized I was lying to myself. I almost always have a slight preference or opinion. Yet somehow it would seem "selfish" to me if I opted for the choice that I slightly preferred. "What if she prefers choice B more than I prefer choice A? Wouldn't that be unfair and terrible of me then?!!! OH NO." I am working on always stating my preference now.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/06/15 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Snippy, disrespectful comment. How did I handle it?I'll leave the advice for the red-letter flair posters. Just chiming in to say: Fucking hell man that's a shitty hand you've been dealt. Complaining doesn't fix it and obviously you can't victim puke to her. Are there any support groups where you can find some guys in similar situations and maybe even find a role model who is further down this road? You're going to be one of the biggest oaks in town if you can turn this around for your family. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/06/15 11:48 AM |
| 3 | NMMNG Revealing Self to a Safe GroupWe're all going to make it, man. Keep lifting, keep improving, and keep making choices that make you happy. It's trite to say, but we really only get one shot at life. Being miserable because others expect you to be or because you feel locked into past choices is a waste of that one shot that you get. Sounds like you're really on the right track. You've got an adventurous hero inside of you beneath that outer layer of chump. Your children will welcome and admire that hero as you emerge. Keep lif… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/15 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Wife of MRPer posting in deadbedrooms.I found out yesterday he has been going on craigslist to get random hookups with men. I don't really care how other people get sexual satisfaction. More power to him if that's what he needs. But if the above is true, I wonder how useful this story is for MRP beyond yet an another example of AWALT. Random gay craigslist hookups is ... not the type of Alpha behavior I'm aiming for. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/15 12:19 PM |
| 7 | Disrespect at Grandma's house? Oh hell no.Nice little story. Well done. We'll be staying with my wife's family in a few weeks. That entire side of the family is filled with strong, manipulative women and really thoughtful, kind, nice-guy husbands. My FIL is both dearly loved but constantly disrespected. I'm looking forward to backing the poor guy up on a few shit tests. He still has a spine and stands up for himself sometimes, but the cumulative effect of a pack of good-looking harpies has worn him down over the years. I'm also steeling… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/06/15 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Nursing mom - zero libidoWith. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/06/15 12:43 PM |
| 5 | trying to fix DBWe have a poor sex life and this is all on her. Bzzzzzzzzzt. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/06/15 11:27 PM |
| 13 | [BP Example] Why a Mother Doesn't Want to Be TouchedI shouldn't have read the comments at the site. First one showing is a woman berating the man for being so selfish. Yikes, yikes, yikes. The thing about unplugging is that I read the sidebar and think I get the concepts but then when I see actual soul-crushing emasculation in progress it suddenly shocks me because I'm better able to recognize precisely what's happening. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/15 01:40 AM |
| 2 | LTR basically cheated... next steps?Wait ... I thought one of the big points of t/mrp was that you can't trust any woman. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/15 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Backup planEveryone, I think we all need to be sensitive toward RPAlternate42's conditions. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/15 12:11 PM |
| 16 | LTR basically cheated... next steps?Then figured out that the dude was saved in her phone under a girl's name. This right here erases any doubt of what was going on. It takes her behavior from enjoying some sexual frisson - just as we would enjoy flirting with a soccer mom at some school event, etc. - and moves into a completely different level of purposeful, planned deception. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/06/15 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Got into argument with wife, not sure where to go from hereBe sure to add that you're lucky to have found her and that you'd never be able to get anyone else if she left you. That'll really give her the tingles. /s | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/15 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill ProfessorBullshit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pill ProfessorThis I will upvote. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/06/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | The Omega ResetThis week I made a list of activities/hobbies that I want to pursue. I split them between physical, creative, and intellectual (as I saw done on a post here a while back). The last few days, whenever I find myself starting to "distract" myself with games/internet/social media, I ask myself whether I could make any progress - even the most tiny amount - on those pursuits. Invariably, I can and do. I can easily piss away 15 minutes on Candy Crush or similar mind rot, so it's an enjoyable battle wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/05/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How to find/schedule time for hobbies?Eastern Plaguelands, here I come. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/05/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | How Hard to PushEven that is a needy question in my opinion. If she's wearing sexy panties for you she'll tell you or surprise you. Or you can tell her what panties to wear. Asking about her panties is just fishing hopefully. It's trying to manipulate her into thinking about sex rather than telling her to expect it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/15 03:27 PM |
| 2 | DAD BODMuch like I might accidentally become a world-class violin player after taking some lessons for a few weeks. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/15 01:24 AM |
| 3 | DAD BODI recently started lifting. I could tell that my wife was very intrigued and somewhat mystified. Her first comment/shit test about it? "I hope you don't bulk up too big. That's gross." I told her to let me know if I became too fit for her taste and then I laughed and laughed. I also pointed out that getting huge doesn't happen over night by accident but requires years of incredibly hard and careful work. She ended up laughing along sheepishly as if realizing how ridiculous her "concern" was. The… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/05/15 05:29 PM |
| 6 | DAD BODhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQlIPOTbuH8 (NSFW language) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/05/15 12:58 PM |
| 3 | [FR] - Destroying Covert ContractsI hope you wear a whistle when you do this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/05/15 02:09 AM |
| 8 | My Story So Far...| (Mrs. Mantana says it hurts due to our baby ruining her vagina, which I can’t really argue with) If you have health insurance, she needs to see a physical therapist who specializes in pelvic floor, "women's health", etc. This did wonders for my wife who had many issues including pain during sex, incontinence, and injured muscles due to what happened during birth. After months of doing the appropriate exercises and treatments, the problems are gone. Therapist commented to my wife that most wome… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/05/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I've added a 'Novice' user flair. I'd encourage that it be used.I prefer a Keanu Reeves-esque "Whoa" as my flair. But "In the learning process" or "Novice" are fine. The former is a bit long though. "Beginner", "greenhorn", "newcomer", "rookie" ... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/15 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Brofessor Dom takes on the "Dad Bod" and (intentionally? unintentionally?) speaks some real RP truths."Don't fuck the Tucan." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/05/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | My wife has made wrong decisions, is living the results of these decisions, refuses to take responsibility for them, and attacks me for telling her the facts.Ding ding ding | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/15 02:33 PM |
| 5 | My wife has made wrong decisions, is living the results of these decisions, refuses to take responsibility for them, and attacks me for telling her the facts.I'm surprised that I had to scroll down this far to find your first point. Why the hell is OP buying a new car? That's more foolish and more expensive than a vacation, given that they already have two cars. This whole post strikes me as hamstering to justify this purchase. Everything else is window dressing for this issue, imo. Of course, the larger issue is that both members of this couple lack fiscal discipline. There are subreddits for that. OP needs to approach finances responsibly or he's n… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/05/15 02:31 PM |
| 2 | /u/archwinger talks about Real Alphas in TRPThis was my immediate thought. I know many on TRP think Kay sold out, but I still see MMSLP (in our own side bar, for instance) recommended. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/15 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Just Starting Out - Mistake Last Night?If that's spanking the monkey right in front of her, do it. Don't apologize. Shit, I'd make it a regular thing just to demonstrate that if she's not fucking you, Pamela Handerson or someone else will. Really? I don't see how it demonstrates that "someone else will." I also don't see how masturbating in front of someone who doesn't want to see it raises SMV or produces dread. Without SMV it's just a fat guy furiously going at it after getting rejected. Hardly hot or intimidating. Sounds pathetic.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/15 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Just Starting Out - Mistake Last Night?I like most of the advice that I'm seeing here. Cut out drinking and raise your SMV. As a relatively new father let me also say that the first year sucks ass in certain most ways. Yes that's no excuse for her to treat your poorly and ignore your needs. But you're both making a big adjustment, her hormones are doing things, your sleep schedule is screwed up, blah blah blah. Big changes are going to generate big explosions right now. Are you owning your shit and being an oak? I'm not sure if I'm b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/04/15 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Organizational StrategiesGood post with some great tips. If anyone is interested in a book on this topic, I highly recommend Allen's Getting Things Done. He walks you through developing a system for making lists, prioritizing, etc. Can't say enough good things about it. Of course, it requires self discipline to stick to it ... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/15 03:01 PM |
| 8 | Why is Marriedredpill not on the Redpill sidebar?A link somewhere from TRP might not be bad, but I wouldn't want it to be prominent. That place has some good content but is just too immature. I barely do more than skim the place since finding MRP. I can only take so much "wisdom" from kids who have barely been alive longer than I've been married. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/15 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Welcome 3,000+ and our new ModeratorSo glad to have found this place and joined. Also glad to see whinemoreplease as a mod. Keep up the great work everyone. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/04/15 01:52 AM |
| 3 | My wife " gets mad at me" several times a day.....who fucking cares?Great way of putting it. Thanks. I'm going to file that away. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/15 03:10 AM |
| 4 | My wife " gets mad at me" several times a day.....who fucking cares?I've been amazed by this lesson. And not even on shit tests. My wife will be all sulky about something (from work, the store, whatever) and then complain about it. Before I would rush to her though it has nothing to do with me and say "I'm sorry, awwww, well blah blah blah blah" and I would try to make her feeeeeeeeel better. Now I just say "Sounds like that really sucks. I know you'll be able to handle it though." And she grumbles. And ten seconds later she's cheered up. Where before I would ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great.I agree on all points. As I said in the title, "baby steps." MMSLP is next on my agenda. Along with lifting. Thanks for all the good advice. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 07:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great.Yes, MMSLP is next. Though I may reread NMMNG and WISNIFG just to better internalize them first. As for being a family-focused alpha, you're correct. But then, I would bet that very few guys arrive here happy with their sex lives but unhappy because they're not alpha enough at work or similar. We all start here due to our wives, but then realize that it's all about ourselves. At least that's my sense. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 07:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great.I was blown away by it, since it was so transparent to me now. Knowing what shit tests are, it was almost laughably cute that she tried one last attempt at control. I thoroughly enjoyed batting it aside. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great.Correct. It will take some time to fully internalize after being beta for a few decades. Your wording is better. That said, my wording was more meant to convey that she didn't starfish. I picked the position(s), but she wriggled her hips and/or bounced appropriately. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 07:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First baby steps. Tiny results. I feel great.Thanks. I've made changes to my eating (big carb reduction). I've acquired some weights that I can use privately in my office. Actual real lifting will have to wait a few more weeks until I can juggle my schedule around but it's #1 on my agenda. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Passive Aggressiveness and Hints"Evil Veal Log" is by far my favorite. Though "Evil Vag Hoe" is a good one. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/15 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Passive Aggressiveness and HintsFirst thing that leaps to my mind (may not be a good idea): "Huh. Must have been the cats. Always thinking about other pussies." | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/03/15 12:28 AM |
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