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Those, "low-effort and repetitive dates" are exactly what guys should be doing to get laid. Low effort is a good thing. Don't need to waste time and energy getting the lay (which is what the whole point is). Also Food, Drinks, and Movies are cheap. Example - bottle of wine/case of beer at your apartment with a Kodi box. Repetitive is also good. Find a simple (and inexpensive) dating formula and stick with it. This whole dating thing doesn't need to be complicated. K.I.S.S. = keep it simple stupi…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 09:51 PM
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The response I use for, "You're gay" is: "The only cock I like is mine." Seems to get a laugh each time. Plays it off as no big deal.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:41 PM
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tourdepook, I'm very happy to be seeing people spreading the good word of pook. Also I went to your user profile here and read your comments. Wonderful stuff. And the compilation on the neocities web page is a great share.
/r/askTRP27/03/15 03:42 AM
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Mr_Again is correct. It is not agree&amplify.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 04:28 PM
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I didn't realize it at the time but those are examples of agree&amplify. EDIT - Mr_Again is correct. It is not agree&amplify.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:20 AM
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Yes I agree. The 'shoulder to hip' thing was silly. It was a step in a sequence that omitted the 'hand' part. When I first wrote it I never thought I would be sharing it. actually this is really good guide Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:36 PM
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Hey tombreack2. I shared that on the post as well. It's very good.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 07:20 PM
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That's a great idea. However I'm still learning things. I think something like that should be written by someone with much better Game and a better (from real life experience) Red Pill perspective.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:36 PM
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Hi An_All-Beef_Engineer. That Kino part was my attempt at an example of escalating using your hand of course. It's a rough outline.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:28 PM
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Hey leftajar. I believe that is were a lot of that stuff came from. And I also think that's why there's hate for this post. It's has pua mindsets in it. People don't like pua's anymore.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:26 PM
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Hi king_of_red_alphas. If you take a look at the original post Game Cheat Sheet it was written on a phone 3 years ago. I was in to pua stuff before I ever heard of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:22 PM
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I agree with that. Again, that was a post I wrote awhile ago. I had no idea on AB/BB. However I think it has value for people who have a hard time talking with others.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:20 PM
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That was my attempt at a brief step-by-by-step escalating guide. It was written on a phone so that's why it looks odd and doesn't seem to flow very well. I should have put... -hand to arm -hand to shoulder -hand to hip -hand to leg -mouth to mouth It was from awhile ago. For people who aren't naturally good with woman It can seem cold and calculated. Now that I feel comfortable around women (relative to how I'm feeling about myself at the time) I rarely ever think of 'kino'. I just look for wind…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:18 PM
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Upon reading the comments further I realize there are some legit criticisms. That being said, that post of mine was written awhile ago and I've learned a lot since then. Perhaps some of it is superficial or soaked in old pua lingo. People are talking about it and its getting a discussion going so that what's important.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:16 PM
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Original not written by a teenager. I'm very surprised at how many people are hating on this. Are we not supposed to be helping each other out? Some things don't 'come naturally' to people.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 05:02 PM
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Hi there Cinnamon_King. That was my first post ever. Here is a link to it on my blog Cheet Sheet Thanks for the love! -dcl
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 04:55 PM
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This is brilliant. Saved for sure.
/r/askTRP22/01/15 04:47 AM
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The urge to want to help people may have overshadowed my commitment to quality. I'll do my best so that doesn't happen again. The current stickied post says better quality stuff in 2015. I gotta remember that.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:32 AM
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Ive taken some time to read and digest the comments and have come to the conclusion that i should work harder on producing better content.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:20 AM
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I will admit its not as good as some other posts but i would say there is value in it. Others seemed to think so. Thanks for commenting though.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 02:13 AM
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Dumb communication equals more ambiguous? If you said 'less' communication I would agree. I'm not sure I follow but I'm still interested.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:11 PM
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Language is fundamental to our experience of reality and the way we use it is as critical to how others' view us as it is to how we view ourselves. That should of been my thesis. Thanks rivoltocontra for great comment.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:05 PM
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This is golden! I think this is less important than you emphasise. You can be a confident (sexy) leader, and be polite. 'Thanks you' and 'Please' are not even that important as you can be grateful with a smile or smirk. I wish I was able to articulate myself like you have done. I should of said this post was for new guys to TRP. I think a bigger issue that is being indecisive. Knowing what you want is something leaders always have and something to strive for. Dump that "I don't know" and replace…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 10:02 PM
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Hi Killabot. I often seem to forget that there are men from all over the planet here and that one observation over here doesn't mean it's the same across the board. Good call.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:59 PM
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There's no need to flex your TRP muscles in every fucking interaction you ever participate in Hi SwagYoloJesus. This post was an observation about how people can become lazy in the ways they communicate to each other. I was writing this from the perspective of 'during my unplugging'. I'm not fully RP. I was a needy and submissive person. Observations like these can help guys that are extremely needy become more direct. It's practice for a new guy to TRP. I never suggested you should flex muscles…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:54 PM
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The words 'Alpha' and 'Beta' were never used in the post. Please read again and comment with constructive criticism.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:48 PM
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Ah. So, why not just say "disgusting"? You're so right. I made up a word because I thought it sounded cool. But there ya go! That's a good example of someone (me) who misrepresented themselves. I wrote a post about how "disgusting" certain parts of language were and I mucked up the language! Cool observation and good call.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:44 PM
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dumber communication leads 2 more poon In text message, I would agree with you. But when your face to face with someone? How does 'dumber communication' lead to poon? Genuinely interested.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:40 PM
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Hey getomc. That's my little cultural pet peeve. Another great observation. This post was for guys like you. Who don't get butthurt about thinking about these kinds of topics. Some people don't need to or don't want to take the time to observe their surroundings. This whole 'unplugging' makes you aware of so much stuff. The lazy way in which people communicate is one of them.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:37 PM
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The process of 'unplugging' can open your eyes to a lot of things around you. One thing can be how people communicate to each other. This post was an observation about how lazy some people are with how they talk to each other. People shouldn't go out of their ways to misrepresent themselves. An example of that is saying things like "No problem". It's LAZY. Conduct. It's all about conduct and how you express yourself so others don't think you're an idiot. Some people don't need this kind of intro…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:33 PM
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Hi IdiDadaAmin. This post is an observation about how people communicate, sometimes, in a lazy way. Some people don't need this kind of introspection, like yourself, but some people so. If people were to 'just say things' without considering how they come off to others than they might be misrepresenting themselves. If you're honest with yourself you can be honest with others.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:28 PM
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Hey The Waysian. You have some great examples of 'things people just say'. Since making these changes to my speech, I've been much more honest with myself in other areas of my life. "When I say I want to workout more, do I REALLY want to workout more, or am I just psyching myself out into feeling better about myself" "Do my friends truly understand that I love them and wish to see them succeed and prosper?" Etc. You got it my man. I guess I'm not that good at articulating myself but THAT'S what …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:24 PM
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"It's okay" because the latter makes the person feel like the behavior is okay to repeat. This is the type of commentary I was hoping for. Being aware of how people communicate and then questioning that. Cool observation.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:13 PM
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...no probs! ;) Ha that was great. Seems you're taking this a bit too seriously. I don't think so. It was an observation about how people communicate and I believe I've 'struck a nerve' with some people because they in fact talk like that. Thanks for commenting!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:12 PM
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As Men we should always mean what we say and not go out of our way to misrepresent ourselves. Within the spectrum of self improvement it is wise for a young man to be conscious what comes out of his mouth. I'm of the opinion that "No problem" is a stupid and lazy way of communicating. Conduct. It's about conduct.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:09 PM
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I'm a little confused as to what you mean by "disgusti-fied". I meant things I don't like other people saying. Good question.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:05 PM
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Great analysis of the post! No. One. Gives. A. Shit. Perhaps. But at least we're talking about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:03 PM
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Glad people are engaging. This was something I was pondering and am happy to see the discussion.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:44 PM
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This is great. Loving the feedback. Giving me some things to ponder. Keep 'er coming.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:39 PM
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That's another great example of ‘disgusti-fied language’. Keep 'em coming guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:29 PM
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you don't need to avoid questions to be assertive That's true. This post was more for people who seem needy and not direct at all. Not saying "Can I get a...?" can help with that. For practice on becoming direct. I'm actually glad there are some people (like yourself) on here that are helpful when it comes to dissecting posts or ideas.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:26 PM
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Anyway, I think what this is missing is that people like to help others, but need a reason. I think maybe I could of used a different example other then the coffee shop. It was more for practicing not saying "Can I get a...?" then it was about someone asking you for something. I'm all for helping people and I'm not sure where speakertable saw that I was suggesting being rude. Restaurant servers tend not to like "Can I get...". I worked in the restaurant business for a while and have heard simila…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 03:12 PM
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Good call bsutansalt. I've been slowly making my way through his entire catalog. And it seems that whenever I'm pondering over something related to the sexes I find my answer, or at least something to think about, in one of his essays. I also enjoy commenting over at his blog as well. Some of the feedback is quite useful.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 10:41 PM
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People, all people, desire validation because it feels good. The truth is that the validation that feels best comes from within. You're right. I've got to start cultivating my own validation, giving myself credit and understanding my own self worth. Yea, sure. Love is an emotion you can feel. It isn't rational, though. You will have to truly accept their flaws for what they are. Maybe I haven't truly accepted their flaws due to a lack of (red pill) experience in a relationship. This unplugging i…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 06:15 AM
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Hey trway14. I made one as well. This was a great idea of yours. That was quite the trip to go through those and read them all. Check it out -> A Collection Of Red Pill Comments by DCLdit and it is also a post in the sub titled "Another collection of TRP gold from the Comments". Credit goes to you of course. If any other guys have comments to share give'r a shot, it was super easy.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:44 PM
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Hey JackGetsIt. I don't think I've ever met another guy that doesn't have some variation on this happening to them. That's exactly why I saved it. Good call. It's definitely one of the better ones.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 10:41 PM
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This is fantastic trway14. The last few months I have been saving comments as well. There is some great stuff hidden amongst the posts. Cool share.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 07:30 AM
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Becoming selfish is the trick! And, selfishly, I want my cock to be inside of them. Not yours. It's not that guys have to become an obnoxious prick, it's just that for most of the 'assholes' and 'jerks' they simply don't care about what other people think. That's attractive.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 05:27 PM
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From The Nice Guy – Jerk Spectrum It’s exactly this mindset, this beta male default to the ‘nice’ end of the spectrum that 85% of guys subscribe to, that makes the guy who leans into the ‘jerk’ end of the spectrum attractive. Jerks are attractive because there aren't a lot of them. But... The real extreme Jerk is as rare as the real extreme Nice Guy. I think for a lot of guys, myself included, this was a hard thing to come to terms with. These are two extreme ends of the spectrum and when consid…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 05:07 PM
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"Voice. Going. Down." Pretty cool observation. I'm usually aware of when my statements start sounding like questions because the inflection of my voice would go up at the end. It's interesting to watch yourself and observe how you actually are communicating.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:49 AM
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"The trick is not letting her back in very quickly." You're so right. Forgiveness is hard for some people. And being able to forgive a woman for her past mistakes with you takes a strong man. Forgive or forget? I'd say which ever one is in your best interest.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 02:31 AM
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Well said. Also, I wanted to mention that guys shouldn't wait around for that 'Hey' text. I never expected to talk to her again (after the first 'break up') so I think that's why it was powerful the first time. It's been almost a year since I've talk to her, which is fine, but I wanted to say that I believe there could be an expiration date on the N/C Game working or not. Basically I think it only works once. Not too sure.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:24 AM
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"Hey" Glad to hear a confirmation. Even in text messaging woman are good at sub-communication. I picture these girls, while they hit 'send', having kind of like that sad-puppy-dog-eye-look, head tilted forward slightly. You know the one. Sort of saying, "I'm sorry will you forgive me?" But of course not ever actually saying that. And of course, I bite.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:19 AM
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HA! Good timing for the post I guess. That is great NeopolitanAfterglow. "Saturday I'm possibly starting a new hobby ($2500 electronic drumkit)" I'm a drummer as well. My kit is disassembled and in a closet though. I live in an apartment and would love a set of those electronic kits. Right-on man.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:12 AM
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"Silence is only awkward if you try to fill it." Thank you for that quote. As someone who is trying not to talk so goddamn much that is a cool piece of advice.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:10 AM
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"really do it for yourself, and not to do it to prove a point" Only after digesting TRP for awhile did I realize that I did just that. Even though I 'walked away' I felt so, vulnerable I guess. And I'm not a big fan of that. Having women become the main focus of your life is disastrous. It takes precious resources away from yourself. Now I know better.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:05 AM
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Good job Temptationn. That's basically how it's going to be. The chatter will eventually stop though. And as time goes on (most likely rather quickly) the other men in her life will fill that void that you have left. Me not going on the two dates was probably the dumbest decision. If I went on them it may have sped up the process. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 06:56 AM
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"-before an act or action we need oxygen as fuel" "-draw air into the bottom portion of your lungs before the chest muscles expand and draw further air into the upper portion" Then talk with your chest. (from my Cheat Sheet post http://redditlog.com/snapshots/1361853) beerthroway, as a vocal coach, can you confirm that any of that is good advice? Just want to make sure.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 03:32 AM
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Hey confuseacatlmtd. "Any mental tricks or stories that involve excepting things you cant change would be helpful." I'm short as well. 5'6. But I've never really beat myself up about it. It's hard to 'mold the concrete once it has been poured' so I just use what I was born with. Also, putting yourself in someone else's shoes is a good practice to accepting things you can't control. I think of it this way, ask yourself: Do you remember a time when someone found you attractive but you didn't feel …
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:08 PM
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Hi tits_out_forTheBoys. I believe in 'doing your part'. This place should be a brotherhood (only for those who want help). It's an interesting perspective you suggest with "Women aren't the problem. Men are." I've got a fairly open mind so this has given me some things to ponder. Personally, I think the Anger Stage is the one we have to help guys through the most. It's a necessary one. Although we can never hold their hands through the unplugging or simply just tell them the truth, we can show t…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 07:23 AM
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Hi NightwingTRP. Your 'steering the wheel in a boat in red pill/blue pill waters' analogy is interesting. I quite like it. I agree with you that there are times of stagnation that can happen as a result of burnout during a process of self improvement. It can be "difficult for some". Myself included. That, plus unrealistic expectations to finish your goals in a certain time, can be stressful to someone who is new to getting their shit together (like me). Also, I think that if a guy is actually ma…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/14 06:54 AM
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Hey QueefMcSharterson. He was one of my first intros to the manosphere. I'm glad to see people sharing LaidNYC's work. I think his work and old school blogs of guys like, bonecrackr, Zen Priest, Pook, Dannyfrom405, Donlak etc. should be shared more. It's cool to see different perspectives on Game and TRP from throughout the manosphere. Thanks for the share.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 03:34 AM
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Hey Varrian. Thanks for the kind words bro.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 06:19 AM
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Hey Intrcept. I don't think it is. It seems made up. Cool name though.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 04:00 AM
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Hey betarex. It's not auto correct. The Moral Looking Time is just the socially accepted time someone is to look or stare at another person. All this stuff is is just to practice until you feel comfortable enough not to have to use any of it. You can look wherever you want. I believe in not making excuses for where your eyes wander, but, you should still be able to realize when you are starring and creeping someone out. Don't do that. Be aware of the Moral Looking Time.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/14 04:38 PM
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Again, thanks for the re-post bsutansalt.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:06 PM
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Thank you for pointing that out. I don't know what I was thinking. I'll do better next time.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:05 PM
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I was wondering why all of a sudden the traffic for my personal blog blew up! Thanks for the re-post bsutansalt.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:03 PM
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Some people are not as good looking as you. They need help.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 11:01 PM
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Hey oldredder. "No benefit to me." I agree with you. The women would have a hard time bonding as yeahweewee put it. I also believe that mate guarding is biological.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/14 08:17 PM
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yeahweewee the pair bonding theme you brought up is great. You got me thinking that women are probably not going to bond very well if they are in an open relationship. And that being in one could give a woman more of a reason to 'openly' practice her hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:11 AM
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TRPtophan your comment from the post you shared has some great actionable advice for having guidelines in a relationship. I don't think I could do an open relationship. That's not something I'm interested in. Being in a lrt or spinning plates sounds more appealing. I agree that jealously is a beta behavior. It has never worked out for me. And if a woman wants you to get into a fight over her, she is exactly the type of woman that you should be screening for and not wanting to have any kind of a …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 06:07 AM
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Also found this from my twitter feed.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VgoUTtfzgSY A guy named 'Yad' from daygame.com gives some texting tips. One tip that I thought was great was actually not really a tip. It was more something he pointed out that I knew, but, often forget to remember: getting a girl to meet up through text message is so much easier if the face-to-face went well and she likes you. And if she does like you it shouldn't take more than a few back and forth text exchanges to set so…
/r/trpGAME08/11/14 07:06 AM
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After reading this I went to Primewire.ag ( http://www.primewire.ag/watch-13837-The-Tao-of-Steve ) and downloaded it. I quite enjoyed it. I have GERD as well so I had a chuckle to myself when he was in the doctors office after his 'heart attack'. Great share IceColdTang.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 05:32 AM
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"Keep your posts a moderate length. Keep your paragraphs short. Avoid unnecessary details. Don't suck your own dick too much. " I'm new to blogging. My writing needs a lot of work. Maybe you new guys have an idea you want to write about but aren't sure how. Here is the rough structure, I have open on my computer, when I write a post for my blog. What am I trying to communicate? What impact do I want to have on my reader? How will this benefit my reader? How was I drawn into it? How did it change…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 03:16 AM
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Hi marukodess. I haven't found any other articles. I found this though... http://thepiratebay.se/torrent/9564388/Magnetic_Messaging It's called 'Magnetic Messaging' by Bobby Rio and Rob Judge. There's some great stuff in there. The most beneficial thing I found in there was their "key-lock sequence", while texting. If a girl already likes you this works real well. "...it’s like putting a key into a lock, turning it, and then pushing the door open." (Page 48). It goes... Key: Spark an Emotion Tur…
/r/trpGAME08/11/14 02:38 AM
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"3 to 6PM Monday through Friday PST" - thanks kenshin79. If any of you are interested I just found a pirated copy of his 2001 documentary, "Blow Me Up Tom: Class Is In Session" Description: "This is THE video to have if you are a fan of the Tom Leykis Show and Leykis 101, which is an on-air adult education course that teaches men how to get more tail for less money. More importantly, it teaches women how men really think. This documentary follows Tom Leykis and his entourage, including Producer …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:20 PM
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Good call hermit_purple. I didn't know you could listen for free every day. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:16 PM
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Hey thepeaguy. This is great. I've never heard of Tom Leykis. Thanks for the share. Now, I'm off to search the interweb to see if I can find some pirated copies of his podcasts. -d
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 05:08 PM
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This is a cool read. A lot of interesting topics. Thanks for this pdf Lt_Muffintoes.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 01:20 AM
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"A guy is just the conduit to reach the emotions she craves." About a year ago that would of made me mad and upset. I would of hated women for thinking such a way. But now, statements like that one are enlightening to me. Women are the way they are. Use it to your advantage to make yourself happy and create the relationships that you really want. This is great. Thanks for this RedPillDad.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 05:27 AM
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I think it was Rollo who said something to the extent - men love romantically and women love opportunistically. That won't ever change. They are our sexual strategies. Which means that they are our life strategies. For one's strategy to thrive the other's must not. But I believe all hope is not lost. When we act as real men and real women, we will compliment each other and then create the relationships that we really want. "those old romantic delusions" start to make sense when you realize men j…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:11 PM
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I am so glad this is happening. My question: Is mate guarding attractive to females? Are Men supposed to mate guard? Or is it behavior, recovering Betas like myself, should avoid altogether? Thanks Rollo, McQueen and Quest for doing this. -d
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 02:12 PM
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I still have this list in my (new) phone. It is as much for me as it is for you guys. Anytime I feel myself slipping into habits that I do not want again, I bring this list up to refresh my mind and body. Thanks for the kind words aaronsharif. -d
/r/trpGAME24/09/14 04:18 AM
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Thanks for sharing that Tuthmosis post kempff. It was like reading my unplugging as it happened. I have SO far to go. I needed to read that. -d
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 07:30 PM
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I was reading the redpill sup today and it shared some great snapshots of reddit posts, check this one out for actionable steps (copy this in the search bar), "Focus on you first. And second. And third. And...blah blah...Worry about women seventh." -d
/r/askTRP09/09/14 04:28 PM
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Hey shiversliver. RaymondCarversDog and theozoph made wonderful points. With the limited info about you, other than you not being able to read that fast, try this....instead of ten hours of reading, start becoming a bit selfish. Assuming you have basic people skills and can carry on a convo with anyone, man or woman, being a bit selfish can help jump start your mind into making you your number one priority. Then, when you are the number one priority in your life, people will see that. How do you…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:43 PM
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Do not do anything you do not want to do. Have preferences to create your identity. If not drinking is part of your identity, so be it. Anyone who does not like it, can fuck off. -d
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:06 PM
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Hi alpha_i. Like jamieoneal82 said, girls this day and age are on their phones constantly. What I believe was happening there was she was trying to establish an early frame arrangement with you. By telling you that she is not much of a texter, she was trying to make you be the one who initiates texts with her, which means you would always be the one chasing. Not a good idea. Next time, instead of explicitly telling a girl you are busy, implicitly allude to it (and actually have things to do, whi…
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 04:41 PM
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Hi polecatr. I assume that you are talking about the Girlschase articles. I remember when that "10 articles a month limit" would bother the shit out of me. To counter act that try clearing all your browser history and cache. Close the browser, then reopen it and try to access the articles. If you still cannot view more than the ten articles, try downloading and installing a simple browser extension called "proxmate" for Firefox (I do not think it works for chrome anymore). Let me know if this wo…
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 04:25 PM
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nice bsutansalt : )
/r/trpGAME20/07/14 04:33 PM
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You are very welcome redpill0r! : D
/r/trpGAME26/06/14 04:36 AM
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Thanks herecomesnessie. When I was younger I had certain priorities and thought other things were more important at the time. Maybe should of stayed with it. It is one of those sports I would love to be a part of again. Anyways, thanks again. -d
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:08 PM
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Hey herecomesnessie. Great post. Thanks for this. Fellow wrestler. 5'6. Perhaps you might like this post I shared not too long ago called, "What I Learned From Amateur Wrestling" -d
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:42 AM
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Hi binglebongledingle. I tend not to give too much advice about game for a few reasons: I am no pua or game master and I found out about red pill not that long ago. As I have mentioned before I have had some success with women. But the blog and all the links are for me as much as they are for everyone else. I felt like I needed to organize this knowledge and also share it. So what I am getting at here is if you collect too many guides and how to's you could risk ending up not going outside and t…
/r/TRPOffTopic23/06/14 08:21 AM
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You know, I thought maybe this post would be too short to share. Glad it wasn't. Thanks 30303030303030. -dcl
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 09:28 PM
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Hi Geocan001, Glad you like it. -dcl
/r/trpGAME10/06/14 01:52 AM
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Hi Ridoon. ''this is my summer'' - love it, thanks man. Need ways to get pumped up about Game this summer? I would recommend these resources...(you get a first taste of future stuff I will be linking to from RPU - links to awesome articles from men throughout the manosphere) Girls Chase Game Openers That'll Get You Girls How to Approach a Girl Wherever You Are (Easily) 7 Approach Invitations You’ll Get from Girls Josh Sway 6 Ways to Approach Women Don’t Compliment Her Looks 7 Reasons She Is Not …
/r/TRPOffTopic04/06/14 06:49 PM
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Hey IllimitableMan. I will see how long I can do it for and see if there is an interest. I believe that recovering betas, like myself, owe it to the men around the world to show them that this shit works, Game, Red Pill and Self Improvement. Only the ones that want to though. I also think that the transition from beta to alpha, or in other words, the transition from the person you are now to the best version of yourself should be as simple as possible. Simple does not mean easy. It will be diffi…
/r/TRPOffTopic04/06/14 06:26 PM
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Hi binglebongledingle. My blog is an attempt to chronicle my digestion of the red pill. My older brother gave me his copy of The Game three years ago and it snowballed from there. The Red pill, not too long. Basically, I found the red pill like a lot of men did. I had just got out of a relationship (if you can call it that) six months ago. It happened again and again. And I could not figure out why this kept happening to me. I had already had moderate success with women throughout the spectrum o…
/r/TRPOffTopic04/06/14 06:17 PM
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Ignore her and move on to the next young lady.
/r/trpGAME23/05/14 03:07 AM
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I have tats as well. They are good for pre-opening girls. When I saw your post I thought of this....6 Types Of Stupid Tattoos That Girls Get from ROK. When I was nineteen (ten years ago) I was at the beach with a friend of mine and a girlfriend. We were drinking and getting high and thought it was a good idea to get some tats. Long story short, I did not really want one and was heavily pressured into getting one by my gf at the time. That was straight-up beta. However now, after three more tatto…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 09:40 AM
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Thanks guys. This is what it's all about. Making it easier for men to get into Game and trp. Cheers. -dcl
/r/trpGAME22/05/14 09:32 AM
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Hi IllimitableMan. "Almost as if by not closing the time before she had felt rejected." - That's interesting. I have noticed behaviour like that before as well. Thank you very much for the blog-navigation tip. I will giv'er a shot next time I am on it. Also, I wanted to mention IllimitableMan, I came across your blog around the beginning of March this year. A wonderful addition to my resource pool of red pill knowledge. These two posts I saved in Evernote (if you do not mind me linking): How To …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 08:18 PM
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This is all epic. Very detailed. Thanks for this. I really enjoy pre-opening. Getting a girl to look at you first sets up a good chase dynamic.
/r/trpGAME21/05/14 09:25 AM
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Totally agree. I started with learning Game. Sometimes I could not figure out why some of it would work and some of it did not. Discovering the red pill helped me understand Game. Then I started to take fitness and eating healthy seriously. This is all under the spectrum of self improvement. Anyways, thanks for sharing this. -dcl
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 06:27 AM
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Hey chewymidget (cool name ha). That is a part of it yes. I was referring to when you are just about to get your finger or dick wet. And then a girl says, “I don`t know if we should do this.” or “I am having second thoughts” - or something like that. A lot of men, including myself, still get that jolt of adrenaline in their chest or cool feeling in their stomach when they see an attractive girl they want to go up to and chat with. I first remember learning this, about four years ago, from a conf…
/r/trpGAME21/05/14 01:27 AM
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Very interesting, disarm or display dominance. Thanks for sharing that. -dcl
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 06:27 PM
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I have always wondered about that. Good call This_Is_Cat_Country. Thanks.
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 05:09 PM
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burningtimber, I have tried to do the same thing ha.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 11:39 AM
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Your welcome shooter212 : D
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 06:38 AM
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Could not agree more Walktillyoucrawl. Add two more letters and you got your answer.....ex + n + t = NEXT!
/r/askTRP20/05/14 05:35 AM
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Hi PenguinSkateboarding. A good place for text suggestions is The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) at rooshvforum... http://www.rooshvforum.com/showthread.php?mode=linear&tid=28919&pid=552445#pid552445
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 05:08 AM
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Agreed. And some great points already. "Hi" and "Hey what's up" are really all you need. OR, try these... http://www.returnofkings.com/34979/how-to-get-rid-of-approach-anxiety https://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/top-11-mistakes-men-make-when-approaching-women https://www.neilstrauss.com/neil/how-not-to-approach http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/02/25/reviving-girls/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/03/13/a-crib-sheet-of-game/ https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/6-ways-to-approach-women http…
/r/trpGAME20/05/14 03:26 AM
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My first experience with being contacted by a girl I used to have hard-oneitis for was October of last year - pre-red pill. Over the span of that month I kept getting texts from her like, "Hey" - "Hey what's up tonight?" - "Shmee?" Anyways, a few months ago I heard she got prego. Did I just dodge a bullet? I think fucking so. Thanks for sharing. -dcl
/r/TheRedPill18/05/14 09:23 PM
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Hi Alexandermag89. As a recovering beta, new to the red pill (six months), I have asked my self those same questions (http://dcllive(dot)wordpress(dot)com/2014/05/11/know-your-role/). I have accumulated a lot of articles on the red pill and Game. (side note - instead of just bookmarking all of the posts and articles you find throughout the manosphere and saving them in your browser, which can slow it down, I recommend using Evernote + Evernote Web Clipper - you can save webpages and articles ver…
/r/askTRP18/05/14 07:57 PM
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Hello idontknowla54. The confusion is normal. Cold Approaching women is not really natural. Perhaps some of this will help... http://www.rooshv.com/approaching-vs-social-circle http://www.girlschase.com/content/social-circle-vs-cold-approach http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-deal-with-approach-anxiety Cheers.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:49 AM
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Check this out... http://www.girlschase.com/content/eye-contact-flirting Cheers.
/r/seduction13/03/14 08:42 AM
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This is great. Written very well. It reminds me of a book I pick up from time to time, "The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire" by David Deida. In section 21 it says, "Stay with her intensity - to a point. When a woman gets emotionally intense, a mediocre man wants to calm her down and discuss it, or leave and come back later when she is "sane." A superior man penetrates her mood with imperturbable love and unwavering consciou…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:50 AM
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Exoaria, I have been noticing the same thing. As the RP starts to digest, slowly, I have been listening to music differently. Some artists that I was enjoying listening to last year, I now find almost repulsive. Unless the songs are unbelievably catchy, I have given up on artists like that all together. Not sure if this is normal for a new RP'r, like myself, perhaps it is. Cool post. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:15 AM
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Some great suggestions already. But it is no contest, 'Dick In A Box' by Lonely Island.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:22 PM
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Hello dray121212. Insightful and thanks for sharing. -setting up a new relationship-frame halfway through a ltr can be difficult. -to me it sounds like you ARE putting effort and work, into YOURself. -if you keep spending time and energy on yourself (personal-growth/self-development), as you have been doing (RedPill), she should still follow you, as long as you keep with your 'new' frame. -she is still with you, do not forget that, perhaps this is a drawn out shit test to see if you are still th…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 07:17 PM
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I agree with customhuman. Also I think the old adage is appropriate for this thread....."If she smokes, she pokes."
/r/TheRedPill08/03/14 06:16 PM
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Stealth Seduction by Gambler. Deep Inner Game by David Delangelo. Cheers.
/r/seduction03/07/13 03:15 PM
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Stealth Attraction by Gambler, Deep Inner Game by David DeAngelo. Cheers.
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:45 AM
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Thanks for the share! Great stuff. Cheers.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:34 AM
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Hello callywag. Some great advice already mentioned. As a young man you should start developing a set of values (ex. you could say to yourself, "I value honesty, intelligence, authenticity, etc."). These preferences (along with hobbies, interests, beliefs, etc.) will help create your identity and also narrow down the women to the ones you would actually like. Set personal boundaries, if you do not like something do not do it, despite what people think. Take the risk of not being accepted by othe…
/r/seduction22/05/13 07:44 PM
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Currently reading Models....think we're going to like it ; D Also look up Mating Intelligence Unleashed http://www.artofmanliness.com/2013/05/02/art-of-manliness-podcast-45-mating-intelligence-with-drs-glen-geher-and-scott-barry-kaufman/
/r/seduction18/05/13 06:36 AM
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Hi meimnot999. The inner game and confidence that you are experiencing is yours. If you put in the work to become the man you want to be the relationships in your life will start to reflect those positive changes you have made. Do not think of it as getting or making or coaxing your coworkers, friends, family into thinking differently about you. If they are truly your friends they will support you no matter what (especially if you believe it!) It does take time, however, there are things you can…
/r/seduction17/05/13 10:21 AM
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Hello baconessisgodlyness. Some great points already mentioned. If you sense there is real insecurity it is not your job to fix it, eject. I must mention that not every woman, who has not been in a relationship or is not used to dating, is insecure. Among other reasons (no time, religious beliefs, etc. ) some woman just have not found any man worthy of a relationship with her. That being said, my suggestion, not unlike the others, is that you become the man. Guide her on an evening of wonder and…
/r/seduction17/05/13 09:52 AM
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Nothing to add here! Well said
/r/seduction17/05/13 09:25 AM
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Hi jthrowawayb. Do not think of it as a conversation turned sexual. Learned lines, deep-level conversation threading and sexual innuendo can steer an exchange sexually but being able to emit sexual energy before you open your mouth is a mental/physical state in which you should be striving for. Cheers
/r/seduction17/05/13 09:13 AM
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Hello there benjamin-the-great. I will try to be as uncomplicated and brief as possible so that there is more content/info rather than personal opinion and concepts you may not be familiar with. From approaches and pick up to alpha male and inner game, body language and touching, to being physical and having sex, there is a social norm you must understand, use to your advantage and eventually break from if you truly wish to be the person you want: Women are told how to, when to and what to do wh…
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:57 AM
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Also great advice ; D
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:16 AM
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Said it wonderfully.
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:14 AM
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You are right ; D
/r/seduction17/05/13 08:12 AM
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Good luck! Cheers.
/r/seduction16/05/13 11:50 PM
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Confidence is the reward for being courageous. No persons time, attention or companionship is more valuable than your own. You cannot allow your Ego to become too attached to receiving specific reactions and responses from people. Your none verbal communication tells the world all about you, be mindful of your body and your eyes to the point were you don't have to. Have preferences to create your true identity. *Remember like bonobos and chimps we are the randy descendants of hyper-sexual ancest…
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:58 PM
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'V. Adhere to the golden ratio' I have never came across this method of value and affection arrangement. What an interesting idea. Any more info on this type of behavior would be MUCH appreciated. Thanks for the link, Cheers.
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:00 PM
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Thanks for being honest. That is more important than you may think. You know what you want and your honest with yourself which is a good thing, however to be in a completely fulfilled relationship you want your 'dream girl' to think more or less the same thing as you do, to be her 'dream boy'. Become her 'challenge'. I would recommend doing as much research on inner game as you can. Become the man you want and you'll get the girls you want. Good Luck.
/r/seduction13/05/13 03:32 AM
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one-itis move on ; )
/r/seduction12/05/13 06:27 PM
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I agree totally. Just do not be creepy about it. Should feel like it happens naturally. Winking works great for getting a positive reaction, and its fun.
/r/seduction02/11/12 05:15 AM
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