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| -1 | Is "trauma bonding" real or is it just another term for oneitis?Poor you and your misplaced social interactions. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Is "trauma bonding" real or is it just another term for oneitis?Google is your friend. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Is "trauma bonding" real or is it just another term for oneitis?Man, i'm 33 years old, I moved back to a city to reclaim the life I had given up only to be placed under Lockdown the day after I arrive (march 2020) with the lockdown, came a loss of work. Couldn't pay rent, ended up after 2 months with 1 EUR a day. Couldn't eat properly. This went on for 4 months, I saw no one but myself and the BPD chick I met. Then I finally managed to get work as things opened a bit. Winter came, back into hard lockdown, still in hard lockdown for 6 months now. I saw the sa… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 06:01 AM |
| 5 | Is "trauma bonding" real or is it just another term for oneitis?It’s very real. I just got out of a BPD relationship. I wanted out anyway, I was planning, getting things ready. By the end, she really started to push me to a level I had not been in a long time. But as soon as the discard came, it was a different story. I would go back, not because ONEitis because I really don’t believe in the concept of the one but because I am bonded to this woman not only through her abusive cycles but also the shared trauma of experiencing COVID and lockdowns together from… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 9 | Has the anger phase been the game changer for anyone else here?This is the most real thing I think I have ever read on this sub. Fucking touché man, fucking touché. Saving this!!!! | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Has the anger phase been the game changer for anyone else here?I got super angry after my last breakup, angry with myself, angry with her. Mostly with her because I thought that she was the cause of me being a pussy. Time passed, the anger toward her faded and it became evidently clear that I was at fault. I was a complete Fanny about everything and it made her lose attraction to me. I bought the books, sidebar, YouTube videos, got my shit together, promised myself “never again” and six months later find myself in exactly the same situation, but this time r… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/21 06:08 AM |
| 1 | BipolarProper needed to read this today... | /r/askMRP | 03/04/21 07:16 PM |
| -1 | So there is this chick...Wait a minute, are you even able to read or do you just create different realities in your mind and spew it out when you write? Firstly, unless you’re a complete idiot and have zero ability to read people when they are lying then it is almost impossible to think that what she said was a joke. I know when a woman is lying through her teeth. It shows what a cuck I am? How so? The fact she “joked” about that and the fact I asked her to leave demonstrated quite the opposite! If I had fucked her afte… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 10:43 AM |
| -1 | So there is this chick...She lied to my face, it’s not the first time she has done it, first two times I put it down to a shit test and responded appropriately but come on, three times saying the same shit is beyond a test. She lied to my face. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 10:09 AM |
| 0 | So there is this chick...She wasn’t joking, this is the not the first time she has made this kind of comment. How do I know she wasn’t joking? Her initial comment was said with such truth to it that it was piercing, then when she saw my reaction she tried to justify it by saying “but we were at a gathering with 10 people the other day and we aren’t technically together so it’s ok” then when my reaction still didn’t change, she claimed it was a joke anyway... That is a blatant lie and then a very poor attempt to cover it… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 09:59 AM |
| -2 | So there is this chick...The post actually has nothing to really do with the header, I’ve read the sidebar many many times as well as different books but I can’t see anything for COVID-19 | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 08:34 AM |
| 3 | My MONK (Update)Exactly this! For me it’s being being outside amongst the sheep when I feel lonely. | /r/MGTOW | 08/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | How to create a weekly RedPill Meetup in my city?Sounds gay! | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 06:43 PM |
| 66 | Girlfriend broke up with me for New YearsBasically, it seems like she had a quick ride on the cc knowing you aren’t in the same country and instead of hurting you by cheating on you more, it’s just easier for her to end it and then go off to ride all the cock in the world. You’re young, best off just walking away. | /r/MGTOW | 01/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 2 | My opinion about mgtowWell written and mostly agree. | /r/MGTOW | 31/12/19 04:28 PM |
| 3 | What Age Should A Man Have His Life Together?This hasn’t been upvoted enough! | /r/MGTOW | 31/12/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Can someone guide me?This!!! | /r/MGTOW | 31/12/19 12:30 PM |
| 4 | Working on my transformation goals and need some input and an accountability system/partnerYour age is nothing to worry about, you are 33, you haven’t even hit your peak yet and come on the fibro is nothing. You got this man. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 08:41 AM |
| 8 | To anyone here that doesn't have a family for xmas, you're family to me. Happy Holidays men, cheers!I can 100% relate to this! Well not the car part but the rest of it. | /r/MGTOW2 | 24/12/19 06:07 PM |
| 16 | Why do some MGTOW call themselves Alpha?Exactly this! I turned to MGTOW originally because I thought that this philosophy could ultimately get back what I lost but as I continue to find my path, I realized that I don’t want back what I want. I want back who I was, the person that got lost in two long term relationships. It’s a guiding philosophy, it’s a philosophy that is ever changing, adaptable without having to play the PUA red pill game. I don’t hate women, nor do I want a life without them but right now, I am more than content be… | /r/MGTOW | 16/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Going MONKYes, in retrospect, it’s irrelevant. It doesn’t change who I am as a man and in terms of economically, socially, the environment, it blows most countries out of the water. As I have said before, I am not anti-women, I don’t hate them or want a life without them. I want to settle with someone, just on my own terms. And I mean come on, mountains, forests and lakes like that, can’t complain. | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Going MONKI met a girl tonight, I was there for an hour and got her number... I have a couple of female friends already but I would prefer someone without BPD | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Going MONKNot at all, I meet people during my social time that I can interact with sexually. I’m not closed to the idea of a FWB and a prostitute is an unnecessary expense.. | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 09:29 PM |
| -4 | Going MONKNot at all, MONK is about dedicating focus to a greater goal and each individual monk mode is based on the person. I know people in relationships that have done it. | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 09:01 PM |
| -1 | Going MONKSome totally abstain, I however will bang chicks, I’ll just avoid them emotionally. | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Going MONKEconomically, socially, it’s just one of the better countries to live in. Also I don’t hate women or wish for a life without them, I just desire to understand how the game is played. | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, Monkey Branching....it’s no joke!Dude, just take your time, you just went through something difficult and it has taken its toll on your body. I’m slowly gaining the weight but it’s a very slow gain. My PT told me to eat 3000 cals a day but considering I’m still on an emotional rollercoaster, the idea of stuffing 3000 cals down my throat everyday is just not possible. Keep up the gym, eat as and when you can and don’t worry if it’s slow, the main thing is you’re getting there. | /r/MGTOW | 10/12/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | A cure for ONEitisThank you buddy!! | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | A cure for ONEitisSwitching cities isn’t an option as the rest of France I don’t like. Only the south and the entire region is littered with sour lemons. My contract on my place is up in a year, so I will use that year to go Monk, work, plan, save. | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 3 | A cure for ONEitisThe US and Canada are at the top of my list, Canada for me has always been a dream. | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | A cure for ONEitisI agree to a point but my self improvement isn’t about her, it’s about me so I have nothing to show her. The problem is, this is her home, I gave up my life in Germany to be with her here and this city is littered with memories. Not to mention, I need a bigger goal and I feel moving would give me something huge to focus on instead of waiting for her to walk through the door (even though she has no clue where I live) | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | New face to MGTOW!You are not wrong my friend, this is a classic pattern and to some extent was the same pattern I experienced, just not this celibacy bs. My ex wanted an excuse to go off and ride the cc. You should definitely cut her off, things seem to be on the downward path and you aren’t going to be able to change that by being with her. As the old saying goes, she was never yours, it was just your turn. Best thing to do would be to walk and never look back. Focus on yourself and eventually give the better v… | /r/MGTOW | 01/12/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Top Ten Signs that she is a slutBoth of these I have heard only recently | /r/MGTOW | 24/11/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys find TRP?My ex went on a hyperactive ride on the cc days after we broke up. I found TRP shortly before that but it was already too late. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 11:06 AM |
| 0 | How do you fuck a psychologistyou* | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How do you fuck a psychologistI’d learn to punctuate your sentences before trying to fuck a PhD psych. Absolute word salad. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 08:01 PM |
| 6 | My answer to "My Wife/Girlfriend isnt the same, shes loyal"When my ex got a new job, she first started off by saying “I’m going to do my job, come home to you, not interested in making any friends” To Everyone at the office is so nice, the director is a really kind guy Tom is the office photographer and I added him to send him cool photos of the Yacht Show Everyone is going to the company dinner so I’ll be back tomorrow The Director invites me to the London office so I think I’ll go. Shortly after we break up, Tom and the director find themselves balls … | /r/MGTOW | 12/11/19 04:25 PM |
| 13 | It happened!!! See other post for details..It is indeed | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/19 01:53 PM |
| 25 | LTR might move to Hawaii - Should I go?My ex took me on vacation to the south of France, I fell in love with the place and her and decided we should move here together....one year later we break up she’s banging other dudes and I am having to move into a studio. Ghost her! Do not move to another country/state for that girl! | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | HELP: My mate is falling for an e-girl, what advice should I give him?I fell for a girl on a website she was also a cam girl. Tell him to read my old posts. Enough to scare any man. | /r/MGTOW | 05/11/19 10:43 PM |
| 3 | After a break up... how men cope, how women copeShe did go to their place, she just came home bragging about it each time after. | /r/MGTOW | 04/11/19 09:25 PM |
| 5 | After a break up... how men cope, how women copeWe do | /r/MGTOW | 04/11/19 09:14 PM |
| 6 | After a break up... how men cope, how women copeMaybe, but I’ve witnessed first hand her rack up the rest since we broke up. The stuff that drives a man to insanity. | /r/MGTOW | 04/11/19 06:07 PM |
| 18 | After a break up... how men cope, how women copeMy now ex always told me that if her and I ended she would spend time on herself, working on her issues (issues which are apparently now non-existent) That period of introspection lasted for two days and then she was very quick to jump on the cc. We started our relationship and she had been with 5 guys in total, me being the fifth. She has since (6 weeks since BU) racked up a further 11... Women generally don’t go through periods of introspection, they are protectionists, it ends because it’s al… | /r/MGTOW | 04/11/19 05:18 PM |
| 5 | My dog and I went our own way, to another country. On a long sabbatical from the western women...god is great.How did you get him registered as an ESA? | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | GYOW, and live simply, change your life for the better now ! (last summer's hike in the alps)Beautiful! Following this breakup and my traumatic Christmas, I have decided that I will hike from Nice to Gorges du Verdon over Christmas. Leave Christmas Eve and return 5 days later. | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/19 02:23 PM |
| 3 | GYOW, and live simply, change your life for the better now ! (last summer's hike in the alps)Where is this? Looks beautiful. | /r/MGTOW | 01/11/19 12:10 PM |
| 2 | How can I word this the best way?/AskTRP would be the best place for this question. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/11/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | This is it, I have officially passed the red pill rage phase.I agree fully, anger can be counterproductive, however it can also be productive. It’s only when we learn to control and master that emotion do we become truly intelligent of our environment. I have been reading The Book of Five Rings and it has helped me to understand how to channel that anger and in time I will be able to master it. Well worth a read a few times. | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/11/19 12:03 PM |
| 5 | Monk Mode NovemberSocializing through tech only is interesting! I’m also going to go monk in a few days. My plan is to consume 3000 cals a day to make up for the weight I lost no porn/masturbation and limit sex to a minimum (I still love it) restructure my daily routine lift like crazy learn to cook new meals write my book meditate limit social interactions to twice a week max emerge in 4 months and start the company my ex and I were supposed to start together. Winner | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 16 | Giant fat ass GF demanded 40% of biz profits, then settled on 25%This is literally the conversation I had with my ex last night. When we were together we came up with a business idea together. Something that will benefit society and an idea that if done correctly will be massively profitable. I wrote the business plan, I came up with the name, I came up with the designs. All she literally did was plant the seed in my mind and when it came to doing her share of the work she always complained “I’m too tired from work” even after she promised to work on it on he… | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/19 01:14 PM |
| 3 | What are your light-switch stories?!We live and learn my friend, my now ex and I came up with a business idea that would truly benefit society moving forward. When it came to her doing her side of the plan she always claimed she was too tired from her work at a Super Yacht company to do it. Now when I move out in 11 days, one of my first missions is to start this company as the plan is there. When she discovered I was going to do so, she got angry, told me I’m not smart enough to come up with my own ideas and is now demanding (“if… | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/19 08:47 AM |
| 1 | What are your light-switch stories?!Mine was moving country to be with a girl I thought was NAWALT, she was funny, creative, smart only to discover that as soon as she got a job in Monaco how quick she was to jump on the cc “If your wallet doesn’t contain at least 200k, I’m not riding it oh and by the way, everything is your fault” I don’t hate women, I actually want to find someone and settle one day but now on my terms and not those dictated to me by a cc riding tramp. | /r/MGTOW | 31/10/19 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Game Show Idea“The game of married life” | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/19 07:39 PM |
| 7 | We both want to thank everyone on this Sub. Without all you guys I can imagine life would have been even more hellish than it is. We can’t move until the 11th but it’s amazing to know you’re all there! Peace brothers.Ah man, I can relate. She hates the dog so much, even made him sleep outside because “he’s smelly” Imagine, making a French bulldog sleep outside, they are naturally cuddly and loving dogs. Since the breakup, he has not left my side, he sees I’m suffering and the poor guy does anything he can to try and help. I’m sorry to hear about your little buddy passing but I’m so glad you both managed to find peace after the divorce. I can’t wait until it’s just me and him. | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/19 05:46 PM |
| 3 | We both want to thank everyone on this Sub. Without all you guys I can imagine life would have been even more hellish than it is. We can’t move until the 11th but it’s amazing to know you’re all there! Peace brothers.What did you do when you moved? What did you change? How is your progress? | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Share your stories where your ex did reverse monkey Branch and you guys fucked her and then went your own way.Hasn’t yet and wouldn’t even if she came back. She’s nasty! | /r/MGTOW | 30/10/19 03:50 PM |
| 5 | UpdateI’m going to finish the letter, take it with me and then one day when I feel good about all of it, I’ll have a ceremony and burn it. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 10:12 PM |
| 4 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeFucking lighthouse. Nah it’s the key to the shutters, they’re pretty old. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 09:57 PM |
| 7 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeDefinitely a girl with her head screwed on, I’m here trying to get my shit together, depressed with a chest infection and she’s off riding the cc. The odds were always stacked against me. Told her tonight then when I get back up, she will have a hard time coping with her choices. Monk for 6 months, re-emerge a wolf | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 09:56 PM |
| 7 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeCheers nigga Phil ;) | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeEvery other day at least, when we got together, I was her 5th. She has since racked up a further 12 (in 5 weeks) She’s gone tonight even though she has flu and cystitis... | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeNow watching her go off to fuck another guy, this time I’m smiling. I’m smiling because I know I don’t have to see it for much longer. First thing I’m doing when I move in, pizza, beer some standup and the dog on the bed. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 08:09 PM |
| 22 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeHahah I’m down, I reckon I can hold about 10 people comfortably... | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 25 | Update: keys to our new home. The ex thinks I’m having a real hard time trying to find somewhere!! Phase 1 completeIt was a weird feeling to sit alone in there, but then I come home and she doesn’t hesitate to remind me how poisonous she is. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What music do you guys have in your playlists?Ah man, amazing album, great to see them back on form. I know a lot of people are against their “rebirth” but give a shit what Tim did, they make sick music. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Krishnamurti was definitely MGTOW..Brilliant book, helps at a time when needed. Once I’m free of my situation, I’ll read again. | /r/MGTOW | 29/10/19 10:32 AM |
| 5 | Krishnamurti was definitely MGTOW..I’m reading total freedom right this second, whipped out my highlighter. “First of all, everyone is caught up in suffering and conflict m, but most people are unconscious of that conflict, they are merely seeking substitutions, solutions and escapes, whereas if they cease seeking escapes and begin to question the environment which causes that conflict, then mind becomes intelligent. In that intensity mind becomes intelligence and, therefore, sees the full worth and significance of the environmen… | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | A bonus to a breakupI’m a 2 sheet guy, she goes through a roll like she owns the Amazon! | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 08:51 PM |
| 12 | Women have no hobbiesMine likes Netflix “I’ve been to india twice” yet still has no grasp on the human condition. Doesn’t like dogs but enjoys riding the cc | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 08:13 PM |
| 12 | Starting from scratchBuy furniture dude, create your own space. I’m also about to start from scratch and one of the things I’m most looking forward to is not buy fucking overly expensive imported furniture from India “because it has character” Live below your means but it is important to make your space your own space, a place to feel secure, comfortable and happy. Good luck brother, it’s going to be great, I promise you. | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 07:54 PM |
| 4 | MGTOW Meals...eat what you want and like a king!Love this! Looks great too, I’m about to start living alone and up until now my ex has been a great cook, so much so that I had almost forgotten how good I am. I can’t wait to try out some new recipes. Especially the shit she didn’t like! | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 06:15 PM |
| 8 | Classy lady. . .... When you see itAh Jesus they look to be some big ass uncooked burgers! | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 04:34 PM |
| 3 | UpdateExactly that, I want things to be square, closed off, I guess maybe my BP self is in search of a means of closure when I know deep down there is no such thing. | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 04:06 PM |
| 5 | UpdateI blocked her on everything a month ago. Read my old posts. | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Need adviceMy now ex was similar to that girl you speak of, however I was not in your position, I didn’t see the transparency. As time passed, it became increasingly clear that she was in it with me because she believed I would provide for her. I always got the feeling from the start that for me she wasn’t a 100% “fuck yes” and I should have listened to that instinct as if I did, I would not be in this position now. She wanted a dominant man at first, that’s what she got but towards then end the role ended… | /r/MGTOW | 28/10/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | A bonus to a breakupAh jesus, fuck that noise, if she likes Nickleback she’s never worth the time. My ex hates metal, almost as much as she hates the dog so it’s refreshing to be able to walk around the house, ghosting her and listening to it all day. | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Interesting experience I’ve been havingHard next her, she is not long term material. Get her gone, lad. | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | A bonus to a breakupBack in my cool kid days I was in a band and we played a few shows with them, great bunch of guys! Wish I could upvote this a thousand times. | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Heartwarming!My reddit journey after my breakup started with /Breakups, quickly on to /ExNoContact and then I soon found /AskTRP & /MGTOW, I left the first two subs as it became increasingly clear that they were holding me back. Far too many people on those groups that spend years never getting over a breakup or ghost with the intention of getting her back, ultimately holding back recovery. | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | A bonus to a breakupAye saw it on Kingdom leaks, will check it out, thanks dude. | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:17 PM |
| 4 | What music do you guys have in your playlists?As I lay dying - Shaped by fire (Especially this album given what’s happened with the band) Fit For an Autopsy Norma Jean | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:00 PM |
| 2 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.You’re right, I got 7 pages in but now I can’t be bothered! I will just walk and not say a word, will change my number, have her emails forwarded directly to trash and ghost ghost ghost. GMOW, fall off the face of the planet so to speak, go Monk for a while and emerge from this a stronger person and when I emerge, I’ll be sure she knows about it. | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Boys, it just fucking happened my whore if an ex girlfriend called me back. Crying ahahaLiterally why would you even consider taking her back?! She left you to ride other dick and in your old posts you’re talking about catching her when she jumps off the cc? If you’re ok with the fact that she left you to ride other cock then by all means, hop back on the plantation, catch her, buy her the biggest ring ever and go about your life with her as if nothing ever happened. If however you are a man, walk the fuck away. I love my ex, but no way in hell would I take her back after knowing w… | /r/MGTOW | 27/10/19 08:57 AM |
| 2 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.Read old posts | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 08:04 PM |
| 4 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.Read my old posts, will tell you everything. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 07:52 PM |
| 8 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.Ex gf | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 07:23 PM |
| 47 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.Ah yea, the relationship ended 5 weeks ago. Check my old posts for context. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 06:57 PM |
| 48 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.No, she’s really open about what she’s doing. Probably too open, shares too much detail. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 06:51 PM |
| 116 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.Ah man, I would love to see it. But then how do I get the camera out? Tonight she is off to meet another dude! So I drained all the hot water out the tank, her hair smells like cooked chicken, she can have fun washing her hair in cold water 😂 | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 05:46 PM |
| 24 | I love her but I hateMy father committed suicide when I was 8 years old, he did it because my mother was having multiple affairs and he caught her in bed with the man she is now married to. (Guessing he had other reasons but my mum buried them) He did it Christmas Day! Be thankful you still have both parents. My father is gone and my mother is an unrecognizable drunk. Christmas is just another day, find something else to do on Christmas, make a new memory, create a new Christmas tradition for yourself. Again, be tha… | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | My 10 Mantras along read but worth it. Breakdown below.Love this! Great piece. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 04:22 PM |
| 150 | 2 weeks until we go our own way! Apartment confirmed today and she hasn’t a clue.I won’t know her reactions I don’t think. I’m going to make the move when she is working. I got her a custom made book for her birthday, it’s a book of all the things we wanted to do together. There are blank pages at the end so I am going to write the biggest character assassination letter for her and just leave it for her to find when she comes home and discovers me gone. | /r/MGTOW | 26/10/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | “You’re making my life hell”Dude, I have written her a letter, in that letter I distinctly told her that I feel like I’m not human to her. Glad someone else notices it. Will give her the letter when I leave. Glad I’m leaving too, she’s toxic. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 09:00 PM |
| 3 | “You’re making my life hell”I’m the lunatic, I’m up and I’m down. One second I’m nice but then when she shits on my face I’m angry and aggressive. I’m not myself anymore, I’m a shell of the person I once was. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | “You’re making my life hell”Ex gf | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 04:49 PM |
| 5 | “You’re making my life hell”My boat | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 12 | “You’re making my life hell”Yes please do!! | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 03:53 PM |
| 14 | “You’re making my life hell”I know man, just almost impossible to see right now, I have my face pressed up against the wall. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 03:52 PM |
| 13 | “You’re making my life hell”I know, at the time I didn’t even know there were such things as red flags and I sure didn’t see hers. Only after the breakup did I read a list of red flags and green flags and she is literally waving all of the red flags and none of the greens. It was doomed from the start but yes I still love her. Love is blind. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 02:05 PM |
| 13 | “You’re making my life hell”Fuck! Sent shivers down me | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 02:03 PM |
| 9 | “You’re making my life hell”We met on a fetish website, she had just moved to Berlin with her boyfriend. We got talking and then within a month we were in an affair. She ended up leaving him for me but the process dragged out for 4 months. Only when he finally moved out did she suggest we move to France together. So we did just that, then when my work took a hit she took a job at a super yacht company in Monaco. Then my work took another hit and she ended it with me. I know no one here, I have no friends, until I sign the … | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 11:08 AM |
| 9 | “You’re making my life hell”I do have other issues, issues that stem from childhood and leaving home when I was 15, one could say the past 15 years have been a roller coaster but I have found therapy in writing these experiences in a novel. The other dude is right, a therapist will tell me how this relationship ending was my fault. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 11:06 AM |
| 17 | “You’re making my life hell”Thanks buddy | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 11:03 AM |
| 8 | “You’re making my life hell”We’re not together, she broke up with me because I lost a big client and became insecure. Then within 3 days she started banging other dudes. I moved country to be with her, we live in her uncles house (he lives next door) so I am desperately trying to move out. Found a studio yesterday and waiting now to sign the contracts. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 11:03 AM |
| 72 | “You’re making my life hell”I know, I already have a studio lined up, I just have to wait 2 more weeks. Then I’m gone. | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 09:48 AM |
| 12 | She will send you straight to hellThis! | /r/MGTOW | 25/10/19 09:32 AM |
| 2 | I don't know how to feel.It’s her house, I’m running around like a mad man trying to find a place for me and the dog, not so easy. | /r/MGTOW | 24/10/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I don't know how to feel.You’re not alone man! I moved country to be with my now ex, we spent a year happy together, we had a lovely home together and she also gave me the motivation to make my business work. Then she runs off and gets a job in Monaco, at a super yacht company and it all changed. She became superficial, pretentious and complained non stop about how I wasn’t making enough money to “buy her nice things” she literally said the words “I want a man who will buy me a 100k car” I worked my ass off for this rel… | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/19 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Impossible to enjoy most mediaIce just stopped watching TV altogether, movies too. I stick now to podcasts and 90’s standup...you know the times when people could actually say what’s on their minds. | /r/MGTOW | 23/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you think about the unicorn?I gave up my life thinking she was a unicorn, only to discover a year later she was actually a chameleon. By that point it was too late. I wasn’t making enough, had become needy and then the inevitable end came about. I will learn from this. | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/10/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you think about the unicorn?“Chameleoning” love this term! I also though I found a unicorn, turned out to be a chameleon! My eyes doth deceive | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/10/19 11:05 AM |
| 4 | AWALTJust waiting on an apartment and all being well in 2 weeks I’m gone. | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 2 | AWALTHappened tonight | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 7 | AWALTAlways does, still doesn’t change her way of being though. | /r/MGTOW | 22/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on use of AI in the legal system?A potential client of mine has started developing a tool that can make judgements on cases based on past cases. Initially he says the tool will be available to attorneys so they can accurately predict the result of a case in order to help build the best defense/prosecution but he says eventually this could be applied to the judicial system itself in helping make judgements. I’m not too sure how I feel about it, from the perspective of the attorney, I can see how this would be a great tool, it wo… | /r/MGTOW | 21/10/19 12:25 PM |
| 14 | Married with one kid. How do i not get royally F'ed in a divorce? [USA]Make big purchases using cash, use only your card for things like McDonalds and small buys. Reduce your income to less than hers. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 07:32 PM |
| 21 | It takes some time . We got your back . Let’s do it .Needed this | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Went to the mallI’m not in the place to do anything other than observe right now. I’m trying to unlearn years of social conditioning. The best way to do so is by observation | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Went to the mallI observe, not in the mall but everywhere, I observe the way couples behave with each other. One you swallow the pill, everything becomes so blatant. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Kicking the ex out .Wish I could see the light too. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Kicking the ex out .I feel you man! I’m going through something similar myself right now. Things will get better. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | TryingI want to get my scuba diving license, I always said to her we should do it together and she always said no. I guess there is no better time now. I destroyed all our reminders, I put the 5000 photos of our time together in a folder, buried them in a maze of files on my HD, password protected the file with a password impossible to remember, set up an email account, the logins impossible to remember and set myself a timed email for 5 years from now with the password. I should start writing again, … | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 02:35 PM |
| 2 | TryingFirstly, this story is not fake, you can read all my old posts for context. As much as I would love this all to be just not true, it unfortunately is a nightmare I’m living every single day. | /r/MGTOW | 20/10/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Plating a 106”1 | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 07:40 PM |
| 24 | What was your 'screw this I'm going my own way ' moment?My recent breakup, when I lost my big client, she ditched me 2 days after and three days after that she started fucking rich guys. I’m still hurting but I’m on the right path. | /r/MGTOW | 19/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Plating a 10Dude, I’m a dog guy. I love dogs. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Plating a 10Looks wise she is a 10, haven’t got a clue what she is like as a person, so in that sense have I really put her on a pedestal? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Downloaded tinder todayI always used to open with “Anal?” If she’s not into anal, I’m not into her. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Woman are violent by nature, after used you, will throw you in TRASH!That is the way I am now going down. | /r/MGTOW | 19/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 14 | Woman are violent by nature, after used you, will throw you in TRASH!Full on agree. I’m still living with my ex, she told me she loved me oh so much but as soon as I lost my big client she broke up with me and went out fucking rich guys. It’s unfortunately in their nature. As Rollo Tomassi says - Women will never love men the way we want them to. They are resource driven. | /r/MGTOW | 19/10/19 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Do you have experience with a depressed partner?100% men have more of a caregiving nature than women do. We are providers and that in turn is a form of care. Women have become superficial, pretentious and through the media and social conditioning have changed the way they interact with the world and men. Plan your divorce. Someone said to me on another post to read “How to fire my wife” I would definitely recommend. Good luck, brother. | /r/MGTOW | 18/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Do you have experience with a depressed partner?I am depressed, through circumstance more than anything and I always expected her to solve my problems. Truth is, only I can solve my problems and the same goes for her. GYOW, let her deal with her shit. | /r/MGTOW | 18/10/19 09:22 PM |
| 15 | The only friend I need right nowThank fuck no. I found him on the street in Berlin. My ex hates him 😂 | /r/MGTOW | 16/10/19 11:12 AM |
| 11 | I feel everything it’s pointlessI’m in the same boat man. I’m just trying to hold it together before I hang myself. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 11:22 PM |
| 6 | Financial QuestionDon’t take business, you can’t learn business through education. You learn business by setting one up, failing, learning and experiencing. Learn to code, learn to develop products, learn a science, engineering, something that contains a creative output. Learning business will do nothing but put you in a debt hole with a degree. Fuck that noise. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Shitting all over my tableAye, I guess you’re right, I do need the job right now and since the breakup she is the first chick that has shown me the slightest bit of attention. I’ll keep looking elsewhere and practicing refining my game. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Shitting all over my tableHow is it common sense though? Surely if one is confident enough in his abilities, has no desire to pursue another case of ONEitis then surely it’s not the worst thing in the world, right? Don’t be an ignorant tool, dude. And yes, I have PTSD! Thanks for your fucking input. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Shitting all over my tableBang on | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 09:27 PM |
| -4 | Should I call the cops on my own dad?Blackmail him “You give me 500k or I call the cops” | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?Just went back to the gym for the first time since, was so fucking full of anger but it felt great. Looking forward to getting home and eating some chicken!! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?Man, he’s a French bulldog, not many people going to accept me and a pig!! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?With the dog as well?! | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?That ship sailed a long time ago when I burned them out to feed my drug addiction (no longer a waster stoner, 6 months) | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Stepping my shit up?I know man, it’s easier said than done though, I confess I have a severe case of ONEitis for this bitch and the idea of the couch makes me grim. You’re right though, I need some self respect. First time back at the gym tonight since this situation developed. Lost like 8kgs in 3 weeks so far. Gym, Chicken and couch. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?Because, I lost my big client 2 days before we broke up, 3 days after I took a bar job and I don’t get paid until the 7th of November, I’m not in my own country, have no friends here and a dog which makes finding a room hard. So I must be patient, calm and resolved for another 30 days. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?I am, I don’t have the money to get into a hostel until I get paid from this bar job on the 7th. The company is going to give me a room in shared accommodation. Man if she brings a guy back here, I’ll not be held responsible for my actions. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?No way, it’s her place and for the next 30 days I have to be “nice” or I’m out. I did think about the day I leave and have her come home from work while I’m nailing this Canadian chick, maybe it’s too far though. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Stepping my shit up?Nah I wanna stay here, I moved from the UK to Germany and now the south of France. I have a chance at building a good life here but I just cannot get past this breakup, it’s killing me. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Stepping my shit up?Exactly that, man. I moved country for her, still live together, still sleep in the same bed and I’m stuck in this situation for another 30 days. I have read the sidebar but my ONEitis always leads me back to her (obviously) I have no friends because I was with her 24/7 since moving here, only now since taking this job am I getting a couple of friends. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:37 PM |
| 13 | Advice on smashing HB9 Fashion ModelDon’t call her! You made the date, the day before send her a message setting up meeting point and time etc but let her come to you. Let her chase you. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | LosingThat’s exactly it, I’m angry and frustrated, so frustrated to the point where I am expressing that frustration to her and each time I do, I can see her face getting worse and worse. I’m not being abusive, I don’t shout at her or make threats but it is definitely coming off as a pathetic tantrum. “You’re not here for me boo boo” acting like a pussy. It’s a hard thing to accept that I have become this person, I used to be so confident and independent and now I’m just stuck, so stuck on her. I know… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | LosingYou hit the nail on the head there. I have noticed her attraction slipping, and in turn I have become more demanding and needy which is in turn pushing her away. It is so hard to break this obsessive cycle, I wake up thinking of her and I go to sleep thinking of her. I spend hours a day worrying about her losing interest in me and it is in itself a vicious cycle. I k ow what needs to be fixed, myself but it is an uphill battle, a battle that I’m terrified of. Thank you, you made so much sense he… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 09:11 AM |
| 1 | LosingAye, fair points. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 02:58 PM |
| 0 | LosingI think if I apply some dread right now she will see through it and pull away even more. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | LosingNah, I been such a paranoid freak that I know she's been with her work friends (girls) she hasn't cheated (yet) but given our past, I wouldn't put it past her soon enough. Really gotta turn this around. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 02:29 PM |
| 0 | LosingUntil recently I didn't know there was a Red Pill lifestyle, I'm asking for advice because I want to change my ways. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 01:47 PM |
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