| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 60 | Just found out she’s cheating | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/24 11:07 PM | |
| 43 | Update: Cheating wife - attorney consultation today | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 04:46 AM | |
| 13 | Miserable marriage. Need help getting out | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 04:36 AM | |
| 11 | TRO against STBXW. Need talking points for telling my kids. | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/24 06:22 AM | |
| 7 | Update: TRO against her denied. Where to go from here? | Dealing with the Ex / STBX | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/24 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Experiences with HelloDivorce | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 07:31 PM | |
| 3 | Looking for a Good Attorney that serves Riverside county California. | Daaad3x | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 04:55 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Financially, how difficult is/was it?I’m in that boat as we speak. “Soul crushing” is accurate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Did it feel like your S.O. "flipped a switch"?My exact experience as well. The more I gave in to what she wanted (relationship, engagement, marriage, kids, house), the worse she treated me. All you can do is learn from it so it doesn’t happen again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Update: TRO against her denied. Where to go from here?I could see her making false accusations. Especially if she finds out I filed this. I do have some cameras but I’m working on adding more to the common areas in the house as a way to discredit any fake dv accusations she makes. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/24 09:49 PM |
| 13 | What is something you always wanted to do but couldn't before divorce and now you're doing?2 chicks at the same time | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/24 06:41 PM |
| 9 | I have the deepest empathy for all divorced men.100% my experience with my STBX as well | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/24 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Moving OutJust so many unknowns though. Honestly the anxiety is killing me. Hoping to have a success story similar to yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Moving Outu/Reflog1791 I’m currently where you started. STBX is cheating, I retained an attorney, and he’s also recommending filing and for me to move out just before I serve her. Due to her aggressive nature and BPD behavior there’s a high probability that she will try to file a false DV claim. My goal would be to buy her out for her portion of the equity and eventually move back into my house. But who knows how long that will take. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/24 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Checking in with my fav communityI’m currently in the thick of it and this sub has definitely been a blessing! Keep your heads up kings! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 02:12 AM |
| 2 | When did you realize itYeah seriously! Sounds like my life as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/24 09:27 PM |
| 9 | Would you take her back?She’s f’ing with your head brother! Don’t fall for her manipulation tactics. Protect your health, your kids (if you have any), and your finances. But for the love of God don’t get back with her! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Update: Cheating wife - attorney consultation todayu/Additional_Support91 how did that play out for you? I’m worried about that scenario as well where she prolongs the case, but much more worried about a false DV claim which would be catastrophic. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 05:13 AM |
| 8 | Update: Cheating wife - attorney consultation todayHave some outdoor ones all over the perimeter of the house. I don’t have any indoor ones other then 2 baby/kid monitors in 2 of the kid’s rooms. I could try installing a hidden one but I feel like it could bite me in the a$$ if it gets discovered | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Update: Cheating wife - attorney consultation todayu/reflog1791 I just read a bunch of your posts and they’re super inspiring. I’m in a dark place right now but looking forward to getting to where you and some of the others are. In your case did you move out and file at the same time. How did it all play out after moving out? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Just found out she’s cheating11, 5, and 3 :( | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Just found out she’s cheatingShe went out to brunch with this MF today and tells me she’s with her “mom friends”. I’m fuming but trying to play it off. Tried to setup an earlier consultation with the lawyer but he’s not available till Weds. I just want out of this nightmare. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/24 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Just found out she’s cheatingKills me inside | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Just found out she’s cheatingI have pics and videos of them making out at the bar, etc | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/24 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Just found out she’s cheatingAll of your replies are worth their weight in gold. I truly appreciate all the thoughtful responses. I just wish I could fast forward and take the pain away. I’ve been struggling to sleep and can’t shake the anxious feelings. Trying to make self care a priority. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/24 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a Good Attorney that serves Riverside county California.Bump | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/24 09:54 AM |
| 9 | Why do you guys even bother getting married?Well said | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/23 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Miserable marriage. Need help getting outVery well thought out and informative. Thank you!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Too broke to divorce?Twins? Make that triplets! I thought I was reading my own life story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 04:55 AM |
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