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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 112 | FDS Strategies are Timeless - Woman meets man through 80s version of OLD, goes on LV first date, he later tries to have a hit man murder her in their home."I'm doing a life sentence for picking a bad husband," Actual quote from the victim Susan 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 02:51 PM |
| 39 | My friend’s reflection one month after kicking a compulsively lying LVM to the curb 👑you are right we do love it 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:47 PM |
| 25 | No more free labour for menLmao I feel this to my core! I’ve had old high school dudes hit me up and try to chat me up. They always come in with the disguise of “friendship” when in reality they just are desperate for female attention. I groan when men try to do this, you’re wasting my energy and time. I won’t entertain you because I really don’t give a shit about you dude. Literally the other day this happened to me, he messaged me on FB, sent multiple messages when I didn’t respond, then went through my profile liking a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 33 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020My current update. I got dumped by a guy who I seriously vetted. His reason? He couldn’t rise to meet my standards. I mean fair enough for him to call it quits, little upset I wasn’t the one who kicked him to the curb. The thought crossed my mind multiple times while we were dating. The biggest one that should’ve been a “drop him” was his refusal to go down on me. I told him multiple times that’s how I get off, that’s how I prefer to be pleased. He ignored that request and once during sex I stop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 17 | You can’t even use LinkedIn anymore without being targeted by old scrotes.I’ve had guys that I ended up blocking and ghosting from all forms of socials that only later to find me through my LinkedIn. Like I’ve got emails from scrotes trying to reach out to me because they found it through my account. There really needs to be something done to prevent this kind of shit from happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:17 PM |
| 45 | Why are men?They’re a failed gene mutation, that’s why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?Back in high school, I was at my lightest. I am a curvy woman and at that point in time is when I was just first starting to get my hips. I went from a size 00 to a size 5, this guy I started seeing mentioned how he liked thicker girls anyway. Since that day I always think back about it and remember when I was at my thinnest I still was too fucking fat for this fuck boi. No we didn’t last, and he’s become a bum since then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 5 | How it’s starting to feel around FDS in light of recent bansPinkpillfeminism is almost the breaking point for me, I’ve been on reddit so long, it absolutely breaks my heart, and fills me with discontent for this site. FDS is literally the only thing that keeps me around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:27 PM |
| 19 | Thank u, next 💅It seems like that now, especially if your break up was recent. You are allowed to mourn and hurt, those feelings are completely valid. But in time you will see that building up your broken self will be your best life because you’re doing it for yourself 💕 stay strong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 70 | The day before our first date! He’s been asking me out for weeks and now he reveals himself!!Oh my gawdddd quit judging him!! He’s just trying to make sure he isn’t getting played by an OgRE /s. Do him one better and leave him feeling judged forever, block him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 19 | What to do when you want to block a man that you see in your regular every day life?Keep it civil, don’t be out rightly cold or rude. Just keep any sort of conversation you have with them short and to the point. If you gotta be around him everyday then it’s best to avoid getting yourself into situations alone with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:16 PM |
| 22 | This reeks of NVMOh wow look he’s also 34 and she’s only 21. They started dating when she was 19. He’s a disgusting predator. I hope he mails her pouch back to her and leaves her alone forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 12:03 PM |
| 161 | “We’re not rewarding minimal effort.” Tik Tok is pleasantly surprise meI’ve seen a lot of FDS related videos on TikTok. It really does give me hope that more women are waking up and holding on to their standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 18 | I honestly don’t know how to handle thisI made an anonymous report. I did my part and I can only hope this girl seeks help to get out of that situation. I just couldn’t believe the audacity this man had, to scream at her and hit her in broad daylight. I know I wasn’t the only one to have heard. Men are literal trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:04 PM |
| 6 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!I love you so much u/TheOGJammies! You literally are one of my favorite posters here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!Oh I feel you, I only go to the dating apps for either pure entertainment or material for this sub. The idea of trying to continue contact with a stranger for long periods of time seems pretty fucking dumb to me. I’d rather play my animal crossing and hang with my cats and wine. Seriously fuck the whole stigma of single crazy cat lady, it’s more interesting than living a life of labor to a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:28 PM |
| 225 | Quality LVM- good news, he’s single now ladies!I just read this😭😂 I mean if he’s gonna break up because of this then good riddance. The trash took itself out 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 58 | Blackmailed as a 13 year old.Hold up, you’re telling me it wasn’t even your abuser that was threatening you with leaking these photos? You’re telling me a grown ass man showed your butt pic to other GROWN ASS MEN? And instead of them immediately shaming their friend for manipulating a 13 yr old girl, they decide to HARASS you and BLAME you? Ooh my god I would’ve reported all of them to the police for possession of child pornography. You are not at fault, you sent it when you were a child, well before having any sort of know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 34 | Joseph Gordon-Levitt shares his views on porn!Honestly yeah it hurts that they take his word almost immediately vs us who bring it up and get down voted to oblivion. But this is a good step, we need more men like JGL to help bring awareness to the ramifications of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 12:25 AM |
| 4 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfhttps://www.theguardian.com/science/2003/aug/28/genetics.genderissues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 17 | Dating Over Thirty, the shitshowYou absolutely nailed it. They’re so delusional, no understanding what so ever to what women actually find important and worth spending their time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:16 AM |
| 8 | My stepdad is truly thoughtful,I love that my mom married him. I had a small cosmetic surgery today,to prevent disfiguration. My stepdad is out of town for business,he called up his admin to have her go buy me my “creature comforts” to drop them off at the hospital.Man I don’t know about you but I’m a woman underling and I wouldn’t mind whatsoever because it would allow me to go do something nice for someone while getting paid. And I think it’s considerate of OPs step dad to think about her and make some sort of an effort, though he had a woman’s help, to comfort her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | You’re not doing an interview, remember this is a conversation!Really good point! Definitely the standard questions all in row is boring. If they really are wanting to get to know the real you, I would expect a better conversing than just the basics. The flow of a conversation is so very important! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 11:18 PM |
| 4 | Why won’t he give up his good looking, flirty female friends ??Wow I’m so sorry your ex took it much further than mine. Never once did he propose anything sexual happening with these other girls. That’s just a whole other level of depravity. You know there’s no way in hell another woman would’ve brought up the subject of a threesome, good god I hope you’re doing okay and got rid of that trash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:22 PM |
| 8 | Could not help myself, these LVM are so entertaining 😩😂Dammit Bobby | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 45 | Why won’t he give up his good looking, flirty female friends ??This is what ended my last serious relationship. My ex had 2 best friends who were girls. One of them he never had a sexual past with and the other girl was his best friend in high school whom he had a huge crush on and coincidentally had some sexual history in between one of our break ups (I know I’m stupid for going back to him but that’s in the past). Both of these girls did not like me, maybe because I took away their source of attention. And the worst god damn part is whenever there was a p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 03:43 PM |
| 14 | Avoiding male content has done wonders for my life.No it breaks my heart you felt that way about the leftovers 😭 I thought they did a perfect job explaining what happened to everyone. It was a refreshing take on human loss and grief. I don’t think you’re supposed to get a literal explanation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Gate keeping on this page and bullyingYeah I read the thread you two were in. And you were definitely not attacking her or making light of her situation. It seems u/tortoise_glasses is new to the subreddit and reddit in general and still has a lot deep rooted internalized misogyny. I see where she’s coming from on therapy being offered to everyone but that’s not why we’re here sis. Regardless if you think men will benefit from it were here to talk about woman related problems. And as soon as you start defending men in this subreddit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Guy I broke up with sent me a nicely worded email saying I have BPD and he is concerned lol. Do I ignore it or take the bait and email back?^ this so much. I used to frequent the BPD subreddit and posted there a lot while I was going through my tremulous break up with my ex of 6 years. At the same time I was involved with another LVM and the 2 of them combined completely drained my ability to think clearly. I was lost and confused and hurt. For so long I thought it was something broken about myself, I’m now almost 2 years out being single and I show 0 signs of BPD. Internalized misogyny is a helluva drug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 15 | Man laments online dating reality as he divorces ex-wife. Reaches out to her & apologizes for being a dick. She chews him out and isn't interested. He complains about being ghosted, misses companionship, and is lonely. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!I was just going to comment about this too. Man is mad that they opened their relationship and shocker the woman did better at finding a better partner than her husband. I love the irony and karma he so rightfully deserves. If you want the comfort of having a reliable partner then you need to invest into them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 03:53 PM |
| 5 | What are your dating dealbreakers?My dealbreakers are: -No car -No full time job -No college education -Lives with parents -Has children (I want kids someday but I want it to be an intimate first I share with a partner) -Has a criminal record -No Republicans -No ability to hold a conversation -Doesn’t make time for anyone but himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:25 PM |
| 16 | The audacity, so many requirements to be his “friend”It is very much not a joke just another entitled man thinking he’s owed a young hot FWB | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:41 PM |
| 41 | The audacity, so many requirements to be his “friend”Oh it’s real, he’s got multiple mirror pics, shitty tattoos, and a beer belly 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:30 PM |
| 23 | How would y’all respond to this? I’ve only met him once before.Textbook Gaslighting. He’s ignoring the central reason as to why you’re defensive and manipulating it to seem like hE WaS JuST bEiNG nIcE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 05:43 AM |
| 14 | Some random man just messaged me asking me to be his sugar baby....😂 I legitimately laughed out loud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Requesting songs for the Female Dating Strategy playlist.Crush Culture by Conan Gray Go to Town by Doja Cat Don’t Want You Back by Bakermat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 01:45 AM |
| 35 | Another proof that most men only think of sexJust look at the thread, so many other women started posting their overly sexual introductions. It’s so common and it’s so sad. Ugh why are we attracted to men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Man rejects woman who then finds another boyfriend. He suddenly wants her after she’s in a new relationship and asks Reddit how to get over his feelings. Daily reminder to take zero shit from these men!I’m curious the age of the woman he’s regretting not giving a chance to. My bet is she is at least 10 years younger than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 06:26 PM |
| 60 | Husband and FIL are convinced she will die in childbirth, stressing her out and making it an incredibly hostile environment to bring a little one into.I came across this post as well. I find it uncomfortable she is alone majority of this pregnancy with an insanely grief stricken FIL and husband. Where is the support for the mother? Something about the post and her comments just screams like they’re expecting for her to die. And that if she does live it could be taken wrongly with them. Honestly any husband who does not stand by their wife 100% is never worth having a baby with. Overall I’m just worried about her future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | First line in his description was trying to find my soulmate 🙄It seems to be a common complaint you have about this subreddit. I don’t think these kind of posts are boring. It’s a good reminder of what we are faced with and how some of us deal with it. Sure I could’ve blocked him from the very first sentence he sent, but this time I just felt compelled to call him out on his hypocrisy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:02 PM |
| 32 | First line in his description was trying to find my soulmate 🙄He was promptly blocked after this. Gaslighting straight off the bat is not a good look my dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 7 | A traumatic “relationship” has made me lose any hope for future love.No those sites lead to some toxic thinking. I mean its definitely not anything anyone would ever want. But the best part about it is its normal and manageable. Nothing about you changes from it, just remember that ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:50 PM |
| 14 | A traumatic “relationship” has made me lose any hope for future love.First and foremost, you gotta be kinder to yourself. We all make mistakes and you’re learning and overcoming a lot of past trauma. There is no need to make yourself feel guilty especially when the large majority of your self resentment is stemming from this assholes treatment towards you. You’re on you way to becoming a strong, powerful woman. The fact he gave you a lifetime disease is disheartening and upsetting. He is scum and at least in this case the trash threw himself out. Herpes is so ver… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 10:28 PM |
| 26 | New Year's Resolution : Drop your pickmeisha friends.So many times did I go to my friends just crying my eyes out over my LTR with my ex. I would tell them time and time again that sure he seems like a great guy on the outside but he could be straight mean and uncaring when it was just us two. None of my friends ever gave me more than just “well he loves you, I’m sure everything will be fine”. Turns out things were not fine and I eventually hit my breaking point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 05:08 PM |
| 7 | Being nagged by women is a LVM problemOh god this is bringing flashbacks to my LTR with my ex. 6 years of nagging/begging him to get off the computer for 5 mins and feed our cats or to change the laundry over or do the dishes or pick up his shit or etc. Seriously this subreddit reminds me that I was stuck in a mommy role with my ex. It took such a toll on my mental health and happiness. I don’t regret leaving him. He even had the audacity to tell me I wouldn’t be able to handle living alone because since it sucked for him surely it … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/19 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Men who double downYeah I had one guy who would not relent. He was a boring texter/came off douchey and from our first day of chatting I could tell I wasn’t interested. I of course told him that but he insisted it would be better in person. Blocked him from my snap, and he still messaged me on FB. I did agree to meet with him for the benefit of the doubt but yeah same deal. He was even worse in person. So I yet again told him yeah no I’m not interested. He didn’t take the rejection well so I blocked him on all soc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 5 | Why do men constantly talk about their exes?Oh you know he was probably vetting for a new live in mommy before he kicks out the other one! He told me his “roommate” hated that he drank every night and that she’s gained weight and doesn’t find her attractive anymore. The amount of red flags 🚩was amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 06:51 PM |
| 5 | Why do men constantly talk about their exes?No doubt about that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 24 | Why do men constantly talk about their exes?I had a date with a guy from my hometown. Seemed like a cool dude, was the lead singer of the local band, had his own house/job/hobbies, definitely seemed the have all the boxes checked until I saw on his Facebook page he was in a relationship. I called him out on it and he informed me that they broke up 2 weeks ago and insisted it was a long time coming. Great, I still met him for drinks/dinner and hmm about 10 mins in he mentioned his ex still lives with him (gross), constantly referred to her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/19 01:39 PM |
| 29 | Older men want to live with women; women saying no.I’m also in my mid 20s and have lived with an ex previously. Everything you described would happen did happen. It was a huge reason as to why I left that that relationship. He would never pick up any of his trash around his computer, if he came home in bad mood then he felt was completely entitled to avoiding any house work, he also would gripe that I never dressed up when I was home and was always in sweats. Don’t even get me started on the sex thing either. I’m so very glad I broke my dependen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 11 | If you’re looking for hookups, you should at least look fuckable (and not be a POS cheater)How you describe the burn out is on point. Guys do this I swear to god all the time. We continue to chat inconsistently over time with absolutely no plans to meet. And they’re surprised when we just fade away. Like what do you expect? You’re literally just a screen currently to me, if you wanted more attention you should’ve provided me more from the get go 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 16 | Over itDon’t even explain yourself. Block em and forget em. Keep working on yourself and in time someone will come along. Be vigilant on your boundaries and remember you’ve got all of us here as support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | What are the benefits of having a single phase/taking a break from OLD?Love it, take all the time you need girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 10:05 PM |
| 11 | He wont textThis is the biggest example as to why you need to ghost and keep it moving. You’ve already have expressed your expectations of how to be treated. He has already failed at that multiple times. And you’ve put yourself in the position of convenience by responding back to him in a timely manner. He just sees you as a filler option not a relationship option. He sends you those lengthy texts as a way to bread crumb you and keep you on the sidelines. Quit getting your hopes over this guy, he’s not wort… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/19 10:03 PM |
| 7 | How to meet people?Online dating apps are normally where most of us start. I would avoid tinder because most of the men on there really only want hook ups. I normally recommend hinge or bumble for more of relationship based apps. The downside to bumble is you do have to message the guys first which goes against our rules but it’s a lot less thirstier than tinder. Obviously the way we would all like to meet our future partner would be out irl. But of course we are all so busy and burnt out that it can be hard to do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 21 | Thank you for your wisdom. I am sorry.Thank you for understanding and respecting the values of this subreddit. I hope you do well on your personal growth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/19 06:44 PM |
| 8 | What the hell is up with the cognitive dissonance of men?You’re the crazy one who can’t fucking read the rules and still come here to harass women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 16 | What the hell is up with the cognitive dissonance of men?“BUT NOT ALL MEN” y’all mfs are soo fucking groomed to be blind to what women actually deal with. You are all the same regardless if a few of them are more rotten than you. This sub feeds on butt hurt men like you. So thank you for giving us more ammo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:59 PM |
| 12 | What the hell is up with the cognitive dissonance of men?What part of no fucking men allowed don’t you get? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 2 | This sub sucks most of you should be ashamed of this way of thinking. A lot of this is scam tactics and toxic thinking.He also has some toxic thinking towards furry porn too 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 2 | I hope this sub gets bannedYou’re a 14 year old kid that throws the n word around on reddit. Grow up and get off our sub ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?You’re right. If enough time has passed then hes deserving the benefit of the doubt. Just be very cautious. You’re dealing with an older man that has done the exact things we warn women about in this sub. If he’s not willing to give you a definite answer about your status as a couple then I’d say move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 08:04 PM |
| 9 | Am I conditioned for shitty men?Run. Edit: He’s cheated on his wife. A woman that gave him everything (children/home/family/love). Think of all the time she spent investing in that relationship only for him to go and do the typical thing most men his age do. He destroyed his family and is trying to trade in for a newer model. I’d avoid this man like the plague and go find someone with less baggage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 07:53 PM |
| 6 | 5 Common ways men gaslight youThis moid posts on MGTOW. Gtfo of our subreddit dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Some PMs just in the last 24 hours because I posted on FDS about deleting my OLD profiles. Male lurkers, THIS is the shit we put up with.^ this!!! They can’t even parrot your question back to you. That’s always when I stop talking to them. As soon as I’ve asked them 3 different questions in a row without them asking me anything I just ghost them. Dude I’m not going to interview you, try be some what interested when you’re talking to a girl jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Saw the post about dating green flags, so I wrote down some red ones that we‘ve mentioned on this subMaybe if we just stay still it will go away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Songs that remind you to not take shit from guys?Go to Town - Doja Cat Soulmate - Lizzo Don’t Want You Back - Kiesza The Weekend - SZA Django Jane - Janelle Monae I like That - Janelle Monae Pynk - Janelle Monae Shoutout to my Ex - Rayla Hot Girl Bummer - Blackbear (okay I know it’s a dude I tried to stick with female singers but damn it’s a jam) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Lmao y'all be over here giving bad dating adviceWe’re not after free food from guys. We’re not looking for a partner to fund our lives. We are independent women who rely on ourselves that are searching for the same in a partner. The free food thing is more of an allegory for finding a partner that values your worth as a person and potential love interest. The main goal of this subreddit is to communicate our frustrations with modern dating and the poor expectations guys put on us due to our misogynistic society. If you’re really just gonna ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬WOW you’re spot on! I’m also a succubus that will drain the soul and money out of men. Go on be butthurt over this subreddit. Just adds fuel to our fire 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Don't abuse people.I’m so sorry you had to go through that and especially when you’re so young. Your teenage years are gonna be chaos enough as it is you don’t need to add to that by giving you energy to toxic people. You keep your friend close and those boundaries up. Edit: I’m sorry OP I know you’re looking for someone to listen, but you are a dude and this is against our subreddit rules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/19 02:07 AM |
| 23 | The hypocrisy of redditCool go tell that to a sub that allows men ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts.Yes we’re all femcels here. We just want your money and hot bod. Not like an equal partner or anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 10:42 PM |
| 5 | A Man who Wants a woman Makes an effort. Texting is the lowest of efforts. A Man Not texting You is making LESS than the LOWEST of efforts.Aww don’t fit our standards moid? I’m sure you’ll fit in perfectly over at all the other women bashing subs. GTFO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Totally turned off by menSame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/19 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬Lmaooo then tell him to move to one of those countries! Oh wait he can’t because hes broke living on mom and dads dime. 🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬We’re in the same boat! I know I’m to blame as well because I put myself in those situations. But now that I’m avoiding it too it’s just so draining. There’s no worries at all to take a break and come back at it stronger with more confidence and energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 8 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬I totally get what you’re saying! I love to smoke weed and if the guy is right and I feel that attraction I wouldn’t find a date like that bad either. It’s just making sure he is capable of maintaining and nurturing relationship. I’m still staying hopeful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬You made a post about your girlfriend. Don’t lie dude | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:42 PM |
| 15 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬Yes! This is where I start ignoring them! Like you asked me on a date but yet still want me to fucking plan it too? Like fuck off and go find some other girl that’s willing to do your mental load and emotional labor for you 🤬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:30 PM |
| 3 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬This is a female only sub. You’re not welcome here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:28 PM |
| 11 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬That’s the problem! I’m trying to get strong and deflect all the guys who don’t initiate or set up the date! And when they do and they meet me they become enamored by me just being me. It makes it really hard to detach myself from them when I realize they don’t have much to offer! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬Right? I’m in a small town. Most of the men here don’t fit my standards or interests. They’re all misogynistic red necks who want a girl to drink beer with them and breed their kids. I’m not looking for that. So I try to extend my search to the neighboring college town which happens to be very liberal leaning and big city besides the college. I still get guys who put in no effort whatsoever or expect me to drive up there to sit on their couch all night! I’m done dating like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 07:02 PM |
| 20 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬You’re kind of forgetting the point of this subreddit. We’re not here to appease men. Why should I waste my time giving a low value man any more second of my time? I don’t really care what they think they already think badly of us because we were born the wrong gender 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬I’ve got my age range set to 23-33. So I’ve got a wide window. Maybe I should consider raising it to 25? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬Isn’t it like in the rules to ghost him and keep it moving? The amount of times I’ve been ghosted is on par with how many times I’ve done the ghosting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 06:08 PM |
| 22 | Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬Im 25! I don’t generally match with them when I know they’re a college fuck boi lol I try to stick closer to my area but sometimes one of them slips through the cracks. Online dating has been proving to be a bust. I really like your idea of meeting men outside of OLD. Maybe I’ll give that a go, now I just need to find the opportunity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/19 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Today's Savage of the day: his ex. Left him after he kept treating her like shit and moved on quicklyI LOVE THIS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/19 10:36 PM |
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