I’m strong, independent and bad ass. I’ve got my shit together, on lock. And I think I’m a pretty interesting person. There’s a lot to offer on my end. And the amount of low value guys I attract is insane. They feed off of me. My wit, my energy, my humor, and my personality. All of these guys are just so unmotivated, immature, and plain boring. I can’t seem to muster the energy anymore to even be remotely interested in a guy. Maybe it’s dating burn out or maybe where I live is just saturated with low value men. I feel like I’m literally stuck in this cycle of entertaining a guy, realizing he’s trash, and ghosting him. Over and over again.

I don’t want to be your rebound, I don’t want to be your temporary fix, I don’t want to be your escape from your parents basement. I want someone who’s at the same point as me. I want someone to meet me halfway and actually plan a date that doesn’t involve sitting in your room getting high. Majority of the guys I match with come from a college town about a half hour away. All of them expect me to drive my ass up there, I’m not desperate enough to do that. I’d rather date myself at this point because god damn it’s just so redundant. And the best thing too is guys don’t realize this. You’re simply nice for the sake of being nice and they think you’re enamored with them. I work in customer service dude it’s engrained into me to be sweet and charismatic. Does not mean I’m legitimately interested. You’re just another guy in a line of guys with nothing to offer. Glad I’m so interesting to you, but boy you’re so boring.