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I spent a lot of my early childhood, teenage years, and early and mid 20's in many a therapist's office. And have gone through the doozy of being almost dying from complications directly caused by psychiatric prescriptions. On multiple occasions. I outright refuse to go at this point. Every therapist i have ever had the displeasure of being coerced to do business with has offered me some new drug and referred me to a psychiatrist for a prescription. I attended group therapy, under duress once. I…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/24 10:29 AM
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The passages read like "I did 7 kind things, I'm sure I can trade that in for at least a blowjob, right?" Although I view heterosexual relationships in as just a big ole transactional rigamarole, I know that there has to be at least an attraction on a primal level for both parties. In order for the sex to happen. I feel those urges and desires for certain women and men. I just don't acknowledge or act on it. Because I view behaviors like, perving, Simping, gooning, swooning, oggling, or fawning …
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 12:35 PM
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Sorry man ... I'm still drunk... But yeah.. don't get me wrong, I have "love" for my kids... Them time and energy I spend with them... Is more so for them... The love they have for me, I don't know how to receive... I never had it. I've never had, actual familial love in my life .. Or at least .. I've never really felt it... I just... View family life as just a lot of obligations and responsibilities, a lot of emotions... I'm pretty responsible.. but if the universe was to add emotions or obliga…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 04:35 AM
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Life beamed me in the fukkin eye. Lol
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:33 AM
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I didn't fight that hard for my kids. I knew there was gonna be a fight. So I just let her have whatever she wanted, until she overstepped some boundaries, and I had to make her lawyer look stupid for two afternoons. Well... She lied to her lawyer. Said I never paid child support, said I never spent time with our kids. Pictures, videos, and paystubs don't lie. A previous court order and case documents don't lie either. I had to take her to court to establish time sharing, and claim one of our tw…
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:07 AM
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You'll have to call me or pm me... IDK.. it's easier to verbally steal the story than type it.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 12:56 AM
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My kids mom was gonna divorce rape me. So I just never married her. Heh. At least child support ends, alimony can be for life
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 12:55 AM
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I'm not saying it was wrong, it was unheard of to me. Prior to that happening I always thought the courts were just biased to favor moms. Edit: mind you her first husband is the exact loser type that the red pill paints women to be. 1- manipulative 2 vindictive 3 lazy 4 doesn't want to hold a job and lives off of everyone else's bill.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 12:53 AM
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My kids mom's first husband put her on child support. It was a series of events that shifted my worldview.
/r/ExRedPill13/02/24 07:29 PM
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I just figured "the wall" was just the point of a woman's life where her appearance isn't gonna gain her favorable treatment. Which really doesn't count for much. Free drinks at bars Getting out of traffic violations "Cutie hires" - behing hired to jobs for being attractive. But in the inverse, an acquaintance of mine who is a real estate agent, has a hard time closing on houses and getting new clients, with older married couples because she's "too attractive". The wife urges the husband to find…
/r/ExRedPill10/02/24 07:35 AM
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...actually.. like thinking about it, I mean. It sounds corny but my daughter is my best friend.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 11:23 PM
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Thanks for understanding. I'm a survivor of child molestation, and have Ben sexually assaulted by both genders. I try to inform people that I've been through it. But imagine being too strong, or too capable of violence. Imagine being charged with felony assault and battery because you decided enough. Was enough. Imagine being extremely capable of throwing them off of you, and getting the hell out of there. . Yeah you could kick their ass, but they can sue yours. And press charges on you. But if …
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 12:33 AM
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I mean... Ultimately... I'm a messed up person. I personally don't hang with people who aren't at least a little screwed up.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 09:40 PM
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I'm a large bald black man in Florida. I'll probably get shot if I walk into a women's bathroom with my babies.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 05:53 PM
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At this point I'm pretty sure I attract messed up people. I'm a beacon for them, it seems.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 03:28 PM
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I'm a guy who sits on many benches. I'm in no shortage of getting laid. I just think this way because of the high number of people, both men and women, that are in relationships and marriages, but still hit me up to go to their house and bang them out for a few hours while the kids are in school and their spouse is at work.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 03:19 PM
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Idk.. part of me wants to start a campaign inviting men and boys to poop in urinals in protest to them. But honestly, it'll be a moot point because that would ony result in pissed off janitors and resteraunt staff. I don't think one more stall would be too much to ask. ... honestly, I think it should mandatory for any business that isn't a "mom and pop" or a "hole in the wall."
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 02:35 PM
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Oh yeah, when we broke up, I continued to pay the rent & utilities in her residence She didn't have a cellphone bill her service was bundled with mine. I transferred the title to my car, into her name. I couch surfed and eventually, wound up homeless, but was still keeping to responsibilities and obligations as a provider and stopped by (with advanced notice, of course) And despite all of that, she still put me on child support... Well.. not really.. on that front she wasn't being vindictive or …
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:27 PM
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It's a hard thing to shake, because my kids mom was only with me because she thought I'd be wealthy, I overheard her and her friends conversation. During a birthday party thrown for our second. Child's friend from the park. (I became friends with the dad too, single dad. He needed more parent friends. Wife died. Cancer) I wasn't eaves dropping, or spying, just timing, she had the "Go bag" and our son peed his pants. We were on our way to the bathroom at Chucky cheese, and his friend ran up and t…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:04 PM
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These are my actual thoughts... Working on them, as far as trying to . Find evidence to the contrary to these intrusive misogynistic notions..but hey... If you're asking, I'm sharing. -There's no point in showing romantic interest in a woman. She's going to attempt to monetize my interest. -Women don't even like men in general. They just find us occasionally useful. But generally disposable after their requests are fulfilled. -I don't approach women, because they believe all men are rapists. I'd…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 01:33 PM
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No one is inherently anything. Prejudices in general typically stem from indoctrination, traumatizing experiences, lack of information, or propaganda/misinformation.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:10 AM
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He has money and it's a high probability that he's going to die before her.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 12:00 PM
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I've yet to observe a heterosexual relationship that isn't transactional. Honestly I think people shack up to remedy the fact that rent and mortgage is much higher than the wages that a human can earn working 1 job.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 11:55 AM
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That's sad bro. Like... At least in the USA we have fake outrage. Where everyone acts like they care about these things for a few days, and then magically forgets it happened.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 05:57 PM
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Ay dios mio man that's brutal.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 05:31 PM
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That happened in my hometown. Buffalo, New York. Trust me this softcore compared to most of the crazy horrible shit people do to each other over there. I'm honestly surprised the street gangs or block clubs didn't handle it and blow his brains out in front of everybody, back when I was a kid that's how it would've been handled, and even though everyone saw what happened, they'd just report the body. And not say anything more about why the bad man got killed. It kind of used to police itself in t…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:36 PM
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Yes man! Do more stuff! Try new experiences! Eat new foods! Pick up more skills!
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:27 PM
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https://themessenger.com/news/new-york-man-charged-with-allegedly-holding-women-captive-after-one-escapes-by-jumping-from-second-floor-window-flagging-down-passerby My aunt told me about this case on the phone yesterday. Jail doesn't fix it. I think if a anyone is convicted of a rape, sexual assault, or molestation beyond a reasonable doubt should be put down permanently by the victim or someone representing the victim. Then the victim or a chosen party representing the victim should have the ri…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:24 PM
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maybe im not the most privilage feller . You've got much to learn, young grasshopper. Much indeed. But it seems we're making some progress. Privilege... Is just idk.. subjective in a way... and this is coming from a big black guy, I got hella rights to be mad as hell at "The system" lol. But I'm not over here blaming whitey for the results of my personal decision making or lack of ambition. I'm using my own personal perspective as a reference as far as "privilege". But opportunities and circumst…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:08 PM
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I was totally gonna be like "I'd totally be down to be a woman for a while." But I'm not a heterosexual man. I'm here because, I want to want to be with.a woman. I don't want to be with a woman, but I want to be straight. I want to be "normal" or ya know .. not condemned to eternal damnation. Or viewed by a diety as a disgusting abomination. I also really never understood why more women don't carry guns by now. With how rampant rape and domestic abuse is, I'd think that women would be encouraged…
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 11:34 AM
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Everyone has difficulties in life regardless of their gender or sexual identity or whatever. I would recommend just living your life and playing the hand that you were dealt instead of... Commenting about everyone else's cards at the table. If you want to be a woman, be trans, go for it. Be the best woman you can be. If you don't want to be a woman, then don't. Idk, all these gender debates and battles of the sexes that have been circulating about for the last 15 years ago are honestly a stupid …
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 08:34 AM
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Eh...women🤷🤷‍♂️ Nothing I can really do about it now. What's done is done. Life moves on. I should've listened to my uncle when he said "if it's got tires or titties it's gonna give you problems eventually." Boy was he right.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 12:44 PM
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... It was never really the vids or anything like that for me... It was a series of events that turned me off, and I'm still pretty not "into" the idea of being with a woman romantically or sexually. About 8-10 years ago I caught wind that my ex of whom I have two children with,was due to be wed back then.. anyways she was planning on marrying me for the sole reason of divorcing me for the sole purpose of securing alimony after I "reached my potential". It was also revealed to me that she was ch…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 02:08 PM
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And you choose to follow me around on a subreddit. But claim you're happy in your marriage. Also if you didn't read my comment as me being sarcastic, you just be a very special kind of stupid. Actually, you already proven yourself to be that.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 04:58 PM
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Yeah.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/23 12:59 PM
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Psychology is a pseudoscience.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:15 AM
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Psychology isn't a hard science either. And yet many people in this sub shove therapy in people's faces left and right.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 07:13 AM
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Roughly a little less than half of a lot of kink communities would disagree with you.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 02:58 AM
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I'm hit so I'm hollering. Dawg. Lol. I get a feeling of, I guess, vindication. From watching some of those conversations and debates. But honestly, it's because a lot of women in my local vicinity is "like that" By "like that" I mean, the type of women that society kinda gives a pass for being shitty people. Other women know that these women that are "like that" are shit tier human beings. I'm talking about the types that you have to bring your own condom with you, and take the condom with you a…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 02:41 AM
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Idk. The guy is too irrelevant to what I got going on for me to actually have an opinion of anything he does.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 02:25 AM
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Because men are disposable in modern society. We are the great patriarchal evil that plagues the existence of women, children, and dogs... I'm being sarcastic. ... But fr... I still scratch my head at the fact that women's health coverages in the USA,as far as what is considered "necessary", is largely decided by a room full of elderly men. That to me is fucking wild. And should have been changed eons ago.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 02:21 AM
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Practice. Practice. Practice. Charisma can be built just like any other human attribute. Some people are naturally talented at various things. Others have to build exp. Into their lower roll at the start of the game.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 02:17 AM
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Thanks for getting what I'm tryna say.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/23 02:09 AM
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Next time you feeling a shorty, I probably would advise that you channel the thirst. Contain and control the thirst strategically. Casually toss out an invitation to an activity at a later date within 9-36 hours after getting her phone number or socials. If you legit need advise that has tested the sands of time. Here's a hypothetical timeline. Say you met a Qt3.14 at a party at around 10:43 pm you chatted her up and got her number by like 11:02-midnight ish. Parties over, you part ways, or you …
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 02:50 PM
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I have the same attachment style as the woman, Or that's at least what the quizzes online tell me. From what I've read about attachment styles... I'm glad I'm avoidant dismissive. I'll take that over the anxious or fearful style any day of the week. When haven't relationships not been coercive? If marriage and pair bonding isn't a hustle then why is alimony a thing? Or to a lesser extreme why is gift exchanging a love language for some people? And honestly, relationships aren't emotionally fulfi…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 11:56 AM
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You're weird because you over hear crying over a missed connection and are being all "woe is me" over a person that you ain't even really get to know. You came off real Quagmirish, like on some "nice she's too young to know better" type shit. As far as the age gap. And you being all, "I'm finna cry" that shit is gross bruh. Rub some dirt in it boy. Chissakes. There's much worse pain in store for you in life. If you took some bad advice, trying not to look "thirsty" or "desperate" ended up with y…
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 06:15 AM
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Get out your feelings bruh. You over here finna cry over a nightclub vibe? You ain't even actually vibed with her for real. and you already got some sort of emotional investment over getting a phone number? Say it ain't so. Why are you being tender dicked over a woman that you ain't even get an actual date with? A damn 19 year old no less. You sound weird as hell homie. On Steezus Christ you sound real peculiar.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 05:32 AM
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I don't see a problem at all here, with her. He didn't really say anything about her specifically. The guy who made this list, sounds like he is bad at sex and has some kind of weird purity hangup for someone his age.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 05:22 AM
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I'm not depressed, I'm high as a kite.
/r/ExRedPill15/12/23 05:02 PM
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Love in the best forms, comes when you aren't looking for it. I'll let it find me. When I'm ready. I don't fear love. I just don't want it right now. But hey... If you want to monkey branch from relationship to relationship, carrying the trauma from the last one into the next one without doing internal work, self improvement, or taking the time to heal, That's your business. Me? I'm gonna make myself happy. Make myself proud. Eventually someone that I actually like might want to add more happine…
/r/ExRedPill25/11/23 04:37 PM
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https://youtu.be/u-puz4zoHms?si=SAHQqvrPq4JIUelE ... Aba N Preach had a good analogy of Red Pill channels
/r/ExRedPill23/11/23 12:25 PM
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I've been where she is...Escaped two abusive relationships...Both escapes, I crashed at a bros house long term.. But I'm a man... There's not much of a lifeline that I know of.. So... No judgement from me.. M enraged about it mostly cause... When my former best friend pulled the same kind of crap the cop is pulling with his wife...probably a little worse... I put my estranged little brother in the hospita over this kind of thing late last year. Fractured his eye socket, cranium on the top right,…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/23 11:36 AM
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Neither one of these entities were a big deal to me personally. But I think it's good that these two got demonetized... I tried to check them out.. but.. they aren't making art. They aren't directors, or musicians... Or cooks... ... Based on their content.... Consuming it just felt like eating ramen noodles... Empty carbs. Much like their podcasts... Empty drivel... I've yet to find any actual contributions that they actually make.. they aren't seeing too entertain, and they aren't seeking to ac…
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 09:41 PM
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I'll sick to the concept of self love, self discipline, self reliance, and avoid depending on others.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 02:00 PM
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Why do I have to be in a romantic relationship in order to "have the freedom of being myself"? Wouldn't being single afford me more freedom of autonomy due to not having any expectations to fulfill? I'm not really asking you... For my sake... Just trying to figure out how codependent you are.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 01:09 PM
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I don't fear rejection. My last relationship ended in death. Erica had an inoperable brain tumor that rendered her blind, our last date before a brain aneurysm took her out, was to lunch. I held her hand to keep her from bumping into shit. And read the menu to her. She died from an aneurysm while I was at work. That's what love gets me. That's what opening up gets me. 4years of awesome. And outta nowhere I get to bury them. "Get back on the bike again Danger." Yeah. Okay. What the fuck ever.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/23 12:51 PM
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I just watched this fable on YouTube, as I have never heard it before. Thank you so much for sharing this tale with me.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/23 06:46 PM
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Ahh, I see... And due to me spending so much time in a region dominated by homophobic ideals.... I thought.. most of the straights are homophobic.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 05:56 PM
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... Heterosexual men do this bullshit as well... ... Why tf are heterosexuals shitty towards gay men?
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 05:48 PM
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@thevenusproject The comment was removed for threats of violence. Not bigotry. Try again babe.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 05:43 PM
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That would be fuckin awesome... An event for dudes to just be dudes without anybody trying to add some weird quasi hierarchy or pecking order to the social gathering... ... No cock waving or dick measuring... Just a bunch of guys.. doing stuff.. ..but also.. kind of have a safe space for some lighthearted cock waving and dick measuring.... .. Arm wrestling... Maybe an annual pushup or pull up competition...... Fuckin tug of war... .... Maybe a group crafting... And woodworking...class... Or some…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 05:38 PM
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Man... I'd like for that to be my reality. Black women treat me like a big brother... Or they try to sissify me.. but then again so do the white women... Hispanics. It's a mixed bag of not giving a fuck what I do .. or trying to convince me to go to church with them..
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 05:29 PM
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That makes a lot of sense in a way.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 05:26 PM
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I'Because Gay men do not accept me in traditionally gay spaces... And cause I hate stereotypical things that are assigned to what gay men "are supposed to like"... But I totally crush on the femboys and teanswomen.....but can't really be in those places... I'm hella thankful for Grindr and Jack'd... Even tho.. most everyone on the apps just wanna fuck... And that is both very convenient and very kinda at the same time. I'm most comfortable in spaces occupied by heterosexuals, until my sexuality …
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 04:03 PM
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It's a little of both... Sometimes they even make jokes... Not all of them... But it's happened enough times... For me to not even come out... Being out pretty much means coming out over and over and over... Especially when people assume I'm straight by default.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:18 PM
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I'm really sorry about that.... I've beaten the shit out of a lot of straight men who have tried to beat the shit out of me... ... Jumping is for lames.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:14 PM
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Cause the men usually shut the fuck up and respect who I am after they gain the understanding.. that I can fight good. And my willingness to sign a waiver and pop a mouth guard in and show them, exactly the kind of man I am is usually enough to get them to back off. I can't have that kind of approach towards heterosexual women of Florida, who happen to be weird down here.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 11:32 AM
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.. I'm gay .. I'm black... I'm a biological non-custodial father..who has visitation rights established. So yeah..I am forced to deal with and tolerate. Bigotry in a lot of situations.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 11:21 AM
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I'm in Florida and I'm too broke to move. Not cushy metropolitan Florida like Miami, Tampa, Orlando, or The Keys I'm in the land of Lifted Trucks, football player factory high schools and colleges, woods everywhere, and lots and lots of GOD, Family, LiveLaughLove, Horse Farms, Moonshine, Scientology, Freemasons, and dreadlocks, or Wick hairstyle, Gold Grills on the teeth (or permanent teeth jewelry).
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 11:18 AM
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There you go you fuckers... You wanted vulnerability.... You got it. Go ahead and laugh at the deadbeat faggot cuck who couldn't get over being hurt by one woman. Yuck it up.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 11:01 AM
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The mother of my children and her racist ass parents did a whole lot of fucked up shit towards me while we were together. And after we broke up. The first year I was constantly accused of cheating. I always had proof that I wasn't... She waited roughly two and a years to tell me she was married to someone else, because I proposed to her. Hiding her first child from me as well.... Hid her pregnancy with my first born child from me only spilling the beans to keep me from leaving her for all the ly…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 11:00 AM
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... Is there a difference between self control, and emotional suppression?
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 09:46 AM
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Is self control not valuable?
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 09:45 AM
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Abba and Preach > Fresh and Fit Any day of the week. Fresh and Fit is GARBAGE.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 09:41 AM
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Nah just a trauma response from a lot of bad experiences and a confirmation bias stemmed from said experiences.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 07:57 AM
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/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 07:08 AM
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Don't listen to any of those jackwagons. It's not "messed up" if you want to date younger or older. As long as it's not under the legal age of consent,. there's no problem. Don't let what other people do dictate what you do. Or affect you. Cause then you're not living on your terms. Fuck living on other people's terms. Carve your path in this crazy life shit. Fuck the rules.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 07:02 AM
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What the hell is 80/20? ... Also... I understand wanting to get laid. But trust me, you don't want to be drowning in pussy. There comes a point where women in the community will talk badly about you. And you'll be viewed as "community dick". They'll know that you're good at getting them off... But no one's gonna wanna date you because everyone thinks you're a player. Source: Experience..... Pussy drowned me. I got so much of it...from so many different women, That I don't even like it anymore. M…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:54 AM
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....Dangerstarfish is a hoe fo sho.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:18 AM
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Humanity's Oldest Enterprise
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:17 AM
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....it's cause it's fake bro. I'm.a dude and I hate fake smilers. Shit feels like someone's trying to sell me something. Idk bruh... Stop being fake nice, stop fake smiling. Just Be you bro. And the people who actually like you are gonna like you. If you put in a "mask", you're gonna eventually hate yourself. Because you think the "mask" should be the real you. .... So be real nice.... And fuck smiling. Unless you're actually in the zone or are feeling good. ..... Learn to psyche yourself out in…
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:14 AM
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... Recommended watching Kung Fury, It's better than the Manosphere shit... And who knows? You might find a laugh.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 06:08 AM
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I mean seriously, if college educated women think this type of shit is stupid and "nope" out of a relationship. Then why should I not side with them and try to save as many people from that kind of headache as possible?
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:48 AM
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I did a quick Google search, 70% of divorces are initiated by women Of college educated couples 90% of divorced are initiated by women. So there's a 70-90% chance she's leaving eventually. But y'all want this man to "open up".
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:46 AM
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Yeah... No thanks... People die, at random. People do fucked up shit at random. If the basis of trust is equivalent to handing some weapon, and hoping that they one day won't use it against me. Then I'd rather be alone.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:37 AM
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Time has this funny way of changing people. Versions of people die all the time. Morals change, situations change, people choose different paths in their thinking and actions all the time. It's not women that I blame. I don't trust anybody. At all. Friends, Family, Men, Women. There is no telling who's going to stay solid, and who's going to switch up.
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:19 AM
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So what I'm gathering is, you like it when the person your dating is in a position where you possibly could do them harm. You want to be "trusted" to not do harm. But have the capability to do so, am I correct in my understanding or nah?
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:07 AM
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Regardless of gender. The definition of vulnerability is literally "the quality or state of being exposed to the possibility of being attacked or harmed, either physically or emotionally."
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 03:03 AM
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People often love vulnerability. When they can exploit it. Hackers, Scammers, Lawyers, Police, Physiatrists, Drug Dealers, Con artists, Managers, Supervisors, Military Personnel.... ..... ...makes it easy to "win" when your mark doesn't have their defenses up doesn't it?
/r/ExRedPill14/11/23 02:59 AM
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The statistic that women initiate divorce more than men.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/23 07:51 PM
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I'm surprised she stayed. You must be loaded.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 11:04 PM
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Nah... My worst enemy is my father.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 11:03 PM
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Was it before or after the wedding?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 06:22 PM
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How long were you with her prior to the first time you cried in front of her?
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 06:21 PM
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... I guess money buys love in that case...
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 12:22 PM
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... It started... Cause he couldn't get his dick hard, due to his addiction to uppers. ... But hey... He's got access to absurd wealth... Owns multiple apartment complexes, restaurants franchises, and a brewery. ... I'm just a line cook... Who does odd jobs on the side to make ends meet.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 12:21 PM
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He didn't beat her cause he found out about me. He was high on cocaine for weeks on end, and deluded himself into thinking she was the cause of his bank account shrinking.... ... Just... Fuck man... Life is strange.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 12:13 PM
0

Bad listeners, abusive, overbearing, cheated on her first. Hell... I put one of the husbands in the hospital for beating his wife... She went back to him after he went to jail for domestic abuse.. Stockholm Syndrome makes for a difficult situation.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 11:52 AM
1

I also know they're better women .. because they love their husbands... Their husbands are bad.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 11:47 AM
-8

Unicorns don't exist. Crying in front of the women you're romantically involved in is going to lose her. She's going to see you as weak, focus on that weakness and use it to her advantage at your expense.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 11:45 AM
-10

I'd say I could.... Or cop out and say all the better women are happily married. ... I Fucked too many married women to believe that bullshit tho.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 11:29 AM
-14

Good. Don't do this. She's just going to use it as ammunition the next time she has an issue or disagreement with you. Source: personal experience.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 09:54 AM
1

... I'd rather be cynical, than gullible. I used to be naive, gullible. Cynicism is saving my life.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 09:47 AM
1

Cynicism is a good thing.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/23 09:39 AM
1

This tread. Is old .. so... Me today . Doesn't even really know... Self acceptance... And the ability to receive affectuon... IRL without wanting to punch these people in the mouth... ... I want to.. learn how to deal with the urge to beat the shit out of strangers... I want to learn how to not be disgusted with the fact that I'm no longer ugly. Basically... Women approach me now... And that used to be rare... I don't know how to not be grossed out by them..... I gotta learn how to not hate myse…
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 12:26 PM
1

.... It means if this really stupid notion..becomes an obsession eventually it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 12:26 AM
3

I'm just fucking around. My bad.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/23 12:11 AM
7

Facts.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 07:50 PM
0

....I changed my mind... I want to fuck your girlfriend now... Not because I want her. But because I want to make you have a sad day. 😂🤣😂🤣😂
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 05:41 PM
1

...laws are subjective to people who get caught breaking them. The average citizen of any country breaks about ten laws a day... (Take with that what you will.) If you get caught, Danger didn't tell you shit! 😂😎
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 03:44 PM
1

... Go to casinos, while well dressed... Don't gamble, but just be there... Eat at the resteraunt in there... drink close to where the hustle and bustle is.. but act like you're supposed to be there. She'll come to you 😂.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 03:43 PM
1

In the meantime, develop side hustles.. Or pick up a second gig... Take on a shit tier second job that isn't too annoying... If you're off at night, try to become a bartender... If you're off in the daylight, try to start a private car wash or get a food handling license and vendor's license.... Sell bbq ribs on the weekends... Idk... Flip busted computers on the internet. ...
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 03:40 PM
1

Are you terminally ill/have 1 year left to live? If not, then stop procrastinating and go do the thing bruh.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 03:34 PM
-3

I refuse to make it a complex.. then again, I don't date or entertain romance or relationships.. I be fuckin' tho. My strength is making people cum. My weakness is, emotional attachment, codependency, tolerating feelings and emotional appeals. It's not out of insecurity that I'm like this. It's out of, avoiding the liability, drama, agitation, expectation, and various other annoyances that come with "romance".
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 03:10 PM
3

There's always better options in general... Everyone is better than everyone at everything. 😎
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 03:02 PM
2

You have to become a whore. To get YOUR whore. Lol.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 02:58 PM
2

Figure out what better paying job you want.. invest in taking courses to get certifications associated with that job. Apply for the job... Get an interview for that job... Get that job. Getting a better job is just prostitution with extra steps.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 02:57 PM
2

"Fuck bitches get money." Focus on getting paid. And go places guys with a lot of money would typically be at. A hoe is going to solicit you eventually. Pay the fee, get a nut, go about your life. Romance and marriage is basically prostitution anyways.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 01:38 PM
1

The choice is yours.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 01:29 PM
5

😂
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 01:27 PM
1

Stupidity causes men to compete for the affection of women. IDK.. if I gotta compete for someone's "affection" then I don't want it. Cause when I get it I gotta compete to keep it.. Fuck that noise.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 01:16 PM
34

Take on the house responsibilities if you live with her. Just do it without being asked... Do the dishes, take the trash out, clean the bathroom, do the laundry, do the stereotypical "women's work" without any kind of prompt at random. Do these things without expecting sex. If you keep this pattern of behavior up, you're gonna be getting so much pussy, you might start having to put it in a to go box for tomorrow's lunch. I'm talking bout that "boxed lunch pussy" That... "Oh shit we was fucking s…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 01:07 PM
6

The main reason I don't want your woman is the age old saying, "If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you." And I've personally seen and had that reality play out all too often in my personal life.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 12:52 PM
64

As a black man.... I don't want your woman bro. .. if you're insecure about your penis, or your sexual performance... ... I would invite you to focus on fingering, eating her out.. foreplay, toys, sensual massages... Just... Get her off bruh. Make her cum a lot of times.. and get your nut at the apex point of her orgasm... There's something really awesome... Idk if it's a "connection" thing, but it's pretty cool...Cumming at the same time...
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 12:48 PM
1

I don't experience joy. That shit is gay.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 12:25 PM
1

That sounds like dissociation...... Isn't that what victims do?
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 11:22 AM
1

Monkeybranching is a thing for both genders. Just keep yourself aware of the cost of living, make a separate savings account and don't tell your S/O, and always keep enough money for a 1 bedroom apartment. Just in case they monkey branch out of your life.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 12:37 AM
1

I mean yeah.... But self hatred is kinda normal...I guess... I mean, like .. it is to me... Self love is ... "Gay as fuck"... Sorry .. I don't have a better phrase for it.. I'm not talking.. homosexual gay... I'm talking .. "Strawberry Fields by the Beatles" gay.... Or Idk.. .. how "Barbie" is gay...
/r/ExRedPill10/11/23 12:30 AM
1

I'm not telling you to lie. I'm telling you to not expect sex acts for your "attention".
/r/ExRedPill07/11/23 09:19 PM
1

I gotta find a way to manage the anxiety that comes with everyday regular life stuff.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 09:04 PM
1

I drank one beer draft to calm my nerves and left immediately. ... Clock stars over to zero.... Currently fighting the urge to drink another.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 08:31 PM
1

I'm in this funk because I got fired two weeks ago... For my "demeanor"....
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 07:23 PM
1

Today is my second day sober. Went on a short 3 day "micro binge" on alcohol. Recently... 3 steel reserves on day 1, 1 steel reserve day two, 1 4loko on day 3.... Yesterday and today I'm dry. Might grab a drink after a job interview...
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 07:22 PM
1

Tired of being laughed at, ridiculed, and rejected.. Tired of making male friends, and being treated differently when the topic of my sexuality and my general discomfort with it comes up in social situations.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 02:08 PM
1

I guess it comes from being a social outcast. And not "getting" why I'm such a fucking weirdo. I'm too black for the white people, too white for the black people. Too straight for the gays, too gay for the straights.... Too hip hop for the rockers, too punk for the rappers. I'm not okay with my sexuality hate the fact that I'm not into women sexually... I I'm supposed to be. But I'm not.... I don't want to go to hell when I die. I've been trying really hard to rid myself of these homosexual urge…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/23 02:03 PM
3

Thanks that means a lot.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:14 PM
2

I've worked in an eatery called "Cheddar's" a while back. They had a dish called a Monte Cristo... And was born in the United States.. people here are sex obsessed and pretentious.... Me, I'm just pretentious. 😂 B learn a dirty phrase and act all proud like they know a whole language.... Me ... I'll at least have the..... Humility? I guess that's the word for it... ... To erm.... say that I don't know a language but have heard a phrase. Thank you for the correction. And I did learn something tod…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:25 PM
1

If show that I care, "they" will use it against me. They'll try to threaten whatever or whomever I care for... Or they'll bring up something or someone I "care about" in a disgusting way.. to get an emotional reaction. People are just... "Like that" doing things to people, saying stupid shit to try to piss others off, because they know in today's society that there's a consequence for whomever chooses to teach them about respect and humility via pain compliance. Or.. the person I care for or abo…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:10 PM
1

I have a hard time socializing, to get to know people. I either give off a very scary vibe... Or I overshare and they are like, "damn bro you have had a very fucked up life".
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:04 PM
1

Yeah ... I get that a lot. I gotta fix being poor so I can find another shrink.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:01 PM
2

... The only French sayings I know off the top of my head are Manaj e trois Le petit muerte And I think .. monte Cristo is a French dish but I could be very wrong.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 07:00 PM
1

Thank you... For my next trick... Gonna try to go from being a pessimistic nihilist... To an optimistic nihilist. Life is good because we're all gonna die wooo!
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 06:58 PM
2

Pretty much. I don't like to be around people who put a mask on for the day. Because they expect me to put one on too.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 06:55 PM
3

I definitely have to work on learning how to tell people how to fuck off professionally. And learn to be comfortable reporting unfair treatment to HR or management at a future job. Just feels dirty, to do the latter. On two levels in my psyche. "Snitching" is just wrong for some reason. A "real man" handled his own problems. Only ask for help after you've failed. Actually... Don't ask for help. You will look weak and incompetent for even making a request for assistance.... And here I am.. feelin…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 06:51 PM
1

...I dunno... I guess... It's cause of my lack of familial bonds coming up... I tend to... Put emphasis on the opinions strangers have towards me. And... In workplace settings, what the strangers think of me is what will make or break my chances of maintaining employment.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 11:03 AM
0

I have always wanted to do the "Blue Skidoo" into a cartoon, comic book, or martial arts film, And never come back. Sadly, that is not possible. And is a very unrealistic goal and endeavor. FUCK literally everything because of that. Blue's Clues was all a big fat stinking lie. Fuck Steve and Fuck Blue and whatever arthouse that edited that shit. 😭😰🤬
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:54 AM
0

.. what football is to men. Is what pumpkin spice and cinnamon scented candles is to women Basic as hell.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:44 AM
1

I don't care about them. I hate the people that ignore them. I'll try to help out, just to spite the people that treat them poorly. Ignoring that kind of thing is being complicit in the system. Fuck society. Fuck the 3 financial -Isms that dominate world politics. Fuck Capitalism, Fuck Communism, and Fuck Socialism.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:38 AM
-1

Oh football guys are the fucking worst. Nothing is more bitch-made and cuck-ish than buying a copy of another man's jersey, slapping his name on your own back...and cheering him on while he plays a game that you used to play. that's like cheering on your ex wife's new husband. 🤮Gross. I straight up don't trust Football and basketball fans. Well.. sports fans as a whole..... Highlight reels of sports..are cool I guess.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:22 AM
3

I've been "vomiting red" for the last 9 years or so. Trying to get a lot of poisonous ideals and judgements out of me. My choice in subscribing to Red pill destroyed my career and my marriage... Which kind of was for the better in a way.. I wasn't into her... I just didn't want to be gay, and the homies thought she was attractive....I definitely was the asshole...flawed in judgement and thinking. The Red pill didn't apply to her... But her friends... At the time... "Fit the description"...her fr…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 10:05 AM
1

Isn't misogyny the disdain and hatred towards women in general? There's some women I do not hate. They're just not on no Kardashian clone, reality tv obsessed, lazy vapid bullshit
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 11:32 PM
1

Millions of people were killed. But loving other human beings? Nah. Can't do it. Theres too many snakes in the forest if you catch my drift.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 08:14 PM
2

My hatred of the current way things are in a cut throat capitalistic society is my motivation to feed homeless people when I can afford it. It's not that I love the homeless person. It's that I hate the system that placed that individual in that position.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 08:11 PM
1

I've seen a lot of people do very stupid things over love. I've seen love get people killed. Seen people kill themselves over wanting it and not getting it. Seen people lose everything in divorces because they loved someone who didn't love them back. Martin Luther King Jr. got killed for offering love to people who hate my race. And those same hate filled people try to use MLK's pacifism in modern times as an excuse to take advantage of people who are of the same ethnic background as my own. Exp…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 07:18 PM
1

“where are you from? What do you like to do on the weekends? What part of the field do you like?”.... .... Toss in "how are you?"...... Some of us don't play the game at work and are just there to do the job, and go home. Some of us lack the skill to be fake nice to strangers. Some of us are not fine or okay, and do not want to lie and say "I'm fine" or "I'm okay".... Some of us have very fucked up lives outside of work, and "how are you" makes us think about the fucked up situations going on at…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 07:02 PM
5

Cheers from southeastern USA. Yeah.... Stereotypes are bullshit. I just wished "normal people" would put more effort into going against the proverbial grain.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 06:42 PM
1

Damn.... ... So... What do I do now at this point? I don't do love. But like... How do I learn to "like" strangers?
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 06:38 PM
0

I do not like extremely feminine heterosexual women either.... If that counts for anything.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 06:32 PM
4

Yeah ...I see what you're saying... I've reached a level of low tolerance for elderly white people calling the police on me for just... Existing. Or middle aged couples thinking I'm going to go home with them in a bar setting. Thinking I'm going to engage in their cuck fantasy. Or random gay guys wanting my dick, specifically because it's a black one... Not because they want to get to know me or anything like that. And... Ghetto white girls that conflate "blackness" with the trashy behavior that…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 05:25 PM
-1

I'm cool with all of that. I'm not cool with new coworkers assuming I like basketball, hip hop, criminal activity, "soul food", rims, donks, football, Nike, etc...simply because they never challenged the stereotypes that have been applied to them. I'm not cool with random women and gay men I work with trying to figure out if I'm compatible with them. I just want to clock in, do the thing I'm paid to do. Clock out. I'm Sick and fuckin' tired of people from work trying to get me to fuck them. And …
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 05:06 PM
2

Honestly it depends on how much the individual commits to fit into said group. I just can't stand ,"cookie cutter people" who make it their priority to live up to stupid stereotypes. So much so... That they try to apply stereotypes to me when they address me.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:49 PM
1

Not a single fiber in my being is homophobic or misogynistic. I personally don't see a difference between men and women at face value. We all can do the same jobs. Sports is a different conversation depending on the sport. In n that regard, I'd love to see a gender blind league for team sports like Basketball, Baseball, Soccer, volleyball ball. As well as the individual extreme sports like skateboarding, Snowboarding, BMX, motocross, rally, and drifting... Hell in some cases certain martial arts…
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:40 PM
7

I ❤️ raves. plur homie.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 04:30 PM
5

Hate is a pretty strong word... I guess.. I'm annoyed by or have general disdain towards people who fit inside the stereotypical bubbles that society arbitrarily creates in various forms of art.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 02:41 PM
1

... On the flip.. I don't hate trans people. I legit think they're hella cool.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 02:22 PM
3

Nobody owes you a blowjob, my guy. You wild for dat. 😂 Pro tip: you're more likely to get laid if you don't expect to get laid. Especially with hetero sexual relations.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 01:45 PM
1

Update: I've thought about it. And, I'm realizing that I should not be alone with anybody. Because a man could make the same kind of accusation.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 01:22 PM
1

Update: after really thinking about the exchanges in this thread, I'm realizing that it is sexist to assume that a man wouldn't falsely accuse me either. So... I'm not hanging out with anybody one on one regardless of gender. It's either a group function or I'm just simply not going.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/23 01:16 PM
0

Where do random made up sexual charges come.from? Enlighten me.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 02:39 PM
1

"Health insurance reimbursements are higher and easier to obtain for drug treatment than therapy, which has contributed to the increase in psychotropic drug sales and a shifting of psychiatry toward psychopharmacology, says Daniel Carlat, MD, associate clinical professor of psychiatry at Tufts University and author of the 2010 book "Unhinged: The Trouble with Psychiatry." "There is a huge financial incentive for psychiatrists to prescribe instead of doing psychotherapy," he says. "You can make t…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 02:20 PM
1

If only I could find a therapist that isn't in cahoots with a psychiatrist who is financially motivated to prescribe meds, by getting a kick back from the companies that manufacture the meds.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:40 PM
1

I went to a drinking party with my bro and twerking is exactly what they tried to dare me to do. I ain't with all that. I didn't spazz about it. It was the notion that there was something wrong with me for not twerking, that caused me to disconnect with that friend group.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:28 PM
1

I've been actually raped... I've also been falsely accused of a lot of things, theft, burglary, vandalism,....So I'm extremely cautious to make it an impossible notion. I make it a point to eliminate it on every front.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:25 PM
1

I've been date raped as an adult... And sexually molested as a child.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:11 PM
3

Honestly I joined trying to dispel my negative views on all things feminine. Trying to figure out why I have a hard time being friends with women.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:10 PM
1

I've tried therapy. Many times it typically doesn't work out for me because I know the hustle... Therapy, diagnosis, then psychiatry, then drugs that don't work. Or have very shitty side effects, or I get forced into being escorted to a mental hospital by a police officer for days on end.... The mental hospitals that are local to me, run more like softcore jails then anything actually meant to rehabilitate or actually help anyone. And it just leaves me stuck with a hefty medical bill .. and I'm …
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 01:00 PM
-3

I've been accused of: Breaking into my mother's house as a latch key kid at the age of 10. I've been accused of stealing my own car like 8 times. Guns in my face every time.... I didn't even drive nice ones... 2004 Christler 300, 2012 Kia Forte,, 1996 Ford Ranger, 1988 Toyota Celica, 2008 Kia Rio, every vehicle except the ranger I've been detained under a car theft accusation for the vehicle I either owned, leasing, or financing. I've been followed around in clothing stores, hell A staff once ac…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 12:23 PM
1

It's because I want to do that to people... But if I beat the shit out of random people indiscriminately, I'M TOTALLY going to jail if I do that. But mannequins... I guess it is a better target. ... TBH, I'm so annoyed and angry at humanity as a whole, That I really want to strike most people I come across in public ...Mosh Pits aren't hardcore enough... Because everyone in the pit is in on it.. Moshing for some reason doesn't give me that "oh my God! this is it! I'm fighting strangers" kind of …
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 11:39 AM
1

In my fantasy of mannequin assault... I'm not picking the mannequins up or back together. I want to leave them there. Broken. I want to leave them FUBARR.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 11:19 AM
0

I'm dead serious. The activity of knocking over a bunch of mannequins in a store has been on my bucket list since I was a small child. I always knew better than to do that .. but It doesn't stop me from wanting to do it ... one day, I'm gonna throw caution to the wind, and straight run through a got damn mannequin, American Football style. And just beat the ever living shit out of it. I'm not sure how I'm going to feel after... But this has been a deep desire for me for a very long time.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 11:16 AM
1

A mannequin is just a mannequin. The only thoughts I have towards them is "I really want to punch or kick this thing.... But I shouldn't because I could be charged with a crime for doing so." It doesn't matter the gender or style of dress....I have always wanted to beat the shit out of a fully dressed mannequin.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 10:27 AM
-8

To clarify, Yes, Any space that has zero cameras and there's no way for me to prove that I did not commit a horrid crime of any sort. Towards or around the woman.... I find situations like this absolutely horrifying. I'm not going to give society the opportunity to "Emmit Till" or "Kobe Bryant" me... I refuse to be placed in a situation where I'm in court and I have to prove I didn't do something. Courts never believe black men. Effeminate men, can stay far the fuck away from me as well... ... B…
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 10:21 AM
-7

I'm not friends with women because I'm afraid of being alone with a woman. I'm afraid of being alone with a woman because I am afraid of being falsely accused of sexual assault or rape. I'm also afraid of being blackmailed or manipulated. I'm afraid of adopting effeminate habits...
/r/ExRedPill02/11/23 09:31 AM
2

Yeah man, just take it a moment at a time and remember to bask in. the glory of the small victories.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 10:05 PM
2

It might sound dumb but, focus on completing small tasks,start with making your bed before your day starts, , do 10 pushups, 15 situps, go for a walk or a bike ride. washing dishes before the day ends whatever you do, avoid doing nothing. get your blood pumping, just do literally anything but sit still. I'm 32 years old, male, black, living in the American Deep south... times get hard, I make my body move, it makes me feel good... then the result is, I start to look good, and eventually... ... I…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 07:54 PM
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