I used to hate certain types of people. Now I hate everyone equally is this progress?

Justwannaread3 · 2023-11-04T14:28:38+00:00

It is not normal to hate every different “type” of person, no.

Individual people can be good or bad or just mostly neutral. All of us have flaws and qualities that we could improve. Hating groups rather than individuals (and hate is a very strong emotion to feel about most individuals too) is unhealthy for you.

Abject-Interview4784 · 2023-11-04T16:07:19+00:00

You should go to a rave and do some ecstasy..life is too short man..everyone is just muddling along. Find some hobbies that you love or go to some comedy shows. Maybe ask for an ssri prescription. Wishing you all the best.

Anarcho-Appalachia · 2023-11-04T14:39:54+00:00

It's progress away from prejudice but it is regress away from you finding peace and healing.

You should work to understand why you hate those people, and why they are like that, and then learn to compare that to why others would want to hate you.

Have you been homophobi? Misogynistic? Do you want that hate? Do you really want that hate? try not to give that hate to others.

FreeDaMilfs · 2023-11-04T15:36:52+00:00

I think sometimes people are justified in their hate, but as long as they don’t let it run their lives. Some of the things listed are justified in receiving your resentment, others not so much. Regardless of who you hate people are people at the end of the day. Personally tho I think giving your energy to things you hate is a waste of time. Life’s too short for that. I don’t think you’re a ‘big black pansexual scumbag’ but maybe someone who has been hurt or has a lot of anger. Anyway I’d say you got somethings to work on, but you’re trying and that’s good.

Allusionator · 2023-11-04T15:45:44+00:00

You give too much credit to the type, real people you know aren’t types they’re just as complex and multi-faceted as you. Other people are people, not age/color/sexuality/gender expression types.

xvszero · 2023-11-04T18:08:52+00:00

I would not call this progress, no.

Brave-Introduction37 · 2023-11-04T16:28:11+00:00

I'd like to ask you a question:

Does the way people are affiliated (directly or indirectly) to a group determines their own existense and who they are as an individual ?

sensibl3chuckle · 2023-11-05T16:45:43+00:00

From what I've read, you have a disdain for people who don't keep it real. You sound like a normal person to me.

Soft_Organization_61 · 2023-11-04T16:36:39+00:00

It sounds like you just need therapy.

Lemmy-user · 2023-11-05T07:48:04+00:00

Congratulations, you became French! Bienvenue!

Revolutionary_Law793 · 2023-11-05T08:17:11+00:00

yes :)) congratulation for becoming nihilist instead of a bigot

thrownawaytodaysr · 2023-11-09T17:43:15+00:00

I read a chunk of your comments, so I just wanted to say I'm sorry for your upbringing and the apparent consequences thereof. Sexual harassment at work is inappropriate but hopefully you can get past having problems with the group they come from and instead take issue with the individuals who harass you.

Not sure of your age, but that could also be a factor here as you wind your way through life. Either way, hopefully you can purge the hate or disdain you feel so you can just focus on you and your needs until you get to a space where you can be right with someone else or happy on your own.

Best of luck.

DangerStarfish · 2023-11-04T14:22:03+00:00

... On the flip.. I don't hate trans people. I legit think they're hella cool.

GirlGazing · 2023-11-10T01:13:09+00:00

No. It’s not progress. Progress would be detachment & letting it all go.

Heart_Is_Valuable · 2023-11-06T13:29:35+00:00

There are emotional origins of the feelings you feel towards people.

This isn't a matter of opinion or intellectual deliberation honestly. I think there's something you need to do which you aren't doing. I would guess it would be something like talking to yourself, completely honestly, about what's bothering you.

Where is this hate coming from, and what do you feel exactly. Meditate on that for sometime. And subscribe to HealthyGamerGG on YouTube and watch their videos.

Queasy-Librarian3477 · 2023-11-08T06:05:28+00:00

Sounds like you hate yourself

MilkchocolateHero · 2023-11-11T08:28:30+00:00

It is a form of progress. You are progressing in a direction. I don't know if it's the kind of progress you want.

What are you trying to accomplish?

sturgeo123 · 2023-11-12T07:20:02+00:00

Nah this is not progress ur just going further into cynicism

Title	I used to hate certain types of people. Now I hate everyone equally is this progress?
Author	DangerStarfish
Upvotes	18
Comments	116
Date	November 4, 2023 2:14 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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