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This came up in my doomscroll session and it made me think of this group.

DangerStarfish

February 10, 2024
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Title This came up in my doomscroll session and it made me think of this group.
Author

DangerStarfish

Upvotes 8
Comments 8
Date February 10, 2024 7:17 AM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/ExRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/1anap2b/this_came_up_in_my_doomscroll_session_and_it_made/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/ExRedPill/this-came-up-in-my-doomscroll-session-and-it-made.1245030
https://theredarchive.com/post/1245030
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[–]bluemagex2517 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Basically correct, except half the guy who say shit like, "no woman genuinely likes me" don't "talk to women like that" because they don't talk to women at all.

Some are hitting on women like they're some PUA douche, but others just avoid most interactions at all and just assume no one likes them.

Then they peek their head out of it's hidey hole for a single attempt at talking to  young woman they think is cute, get shot down, and declare that women have hugely high standards and none will like them because they're not "chads" or 6'2 with square jaws, or whatever.

Of courseytheygoet rejected. they have zero social skills, hateythrmelfves, and rake exactly one chance. The likelihood that they were going to appeal to this random one off woman was super low.

I swear, what these guys want is to be so physically attractive that women will throw themselves at them regardless of their social skills or behavior. Anything short of that is "unfair." How dare they be forced to be genuinely kind and not completely socially awkward.

It's not that every red piller is that way, but the more I interact with the guys in the community, the more often that exact stance comes out. They're jealous of horrible men that still get laid. That's their dream: be as shitty as they want to be and be a total recluse, but be desired by hot chicks.

Pointing out that they wouldn't want another guy to do this to their mother won't help. They'll still want to be that guy, they just want to also protect their mothers from guys like them. If you already want to be shitty, pointing out how shitty that behavior is isn't a deterrent.

[–]PutsWomenOnPedestal 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

That all makes sense, except for this line

How dare they be forced to be genuinely kind and not completely socially awkward.

Why are you equating kindness with social skill? One can be kind and socially awkward or a socially skilled bully or both or neither

[–]featherblackjack 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It's not an equivalence, it's an additional requirement. Genuine kindness plus able to talk to someone without bringing up weird internet opinions. Don't open a conversation with how you want to touch her boobies. In fact never say that to anyone. That kind of thing. Being self aware and also aware that you're talking to another person who has a whole life.

[–]PutsWomenOnPedestal 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok, that makes sense. I misinterpreted the sentence structure

[–]bluemagex2517 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

They are asked to be both. I'm not equating them. That's why I sad "and" it's a conditional where they have to meet both requirements separately.

[–]PutsWomenOnPedestal 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Got it, that makes sense. I misinterpreted the sentence structure. I mistook the logical “and” for equivalence

[–]ROBYoutube 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate YouTube shorts so much. You know what this society needs? Less nuance and context. 

This however, is the chat a lot of men need to have with a man who has been a man a bit longer and seen a few more things. 

God I would pay money to switch places with that man. Well, their both men. I guess. The adult. Switch places with the adult. Slap their phone down and just give them a tiny piece of reality.

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