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LVM LOGICDaphnetiq/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:33 AM
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I honestly think that we cannot follow these women as an example because, when you have that kind of money, it’s a different perspective and world. Were I in Kyle’s shoes I wouldn’t want to marry that but just keep a man by my side however I wanted, and focus on my family and career. The amount on money and influence these people have is just ridiculous imo. That being said, the whole “baby mama” culture does get more exposure because of them, so they’re partly at fault. Comes with the package o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:18 AM
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Thanks a lot for the reminder. I don’t have an alt because it’s FDS that made me get a Reddit account anyways, and other subs I’m in are mostly harmless. I avoid cesspit subs because I don’t have the time, energy or willingness. That being said, do Upvotes or Downvotes in other subs affect the banning bot in any way? I don’t think so but just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/21 11:44 PM
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Don’t really care about her insta but I did a Google search on her hair and found out she apparently uses foam rollers. So that’s all I need to know lol Sorry for going off topic, but I’m also trying to level up my hair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:52 AM
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I don’t know who Sommer Ray is but I want her hair waves! And seriously, I’m glad she was vetting and just taking her time to get to know him. Seems the right thing to do, and she’d probably be feeling a lot worse otherwise. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 01:57 AM
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Rather than blaming the opposite sex for their unhappiness, as some of their male counterparts do, femcels tend to believe their own “ugliness” is the root cause of their loneliness. This line breaks my heart. Shows pretty well how women and men are conditioned differently by society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 04:54 AM
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I think they’re just media stunts to get publicity. They are actors and as such, are acting. So I wouldn’t really judge their personality based on this. Is more like a sign to producers and Hollywood people with big projects to let them know they’re still there. And also wink to their fanbase and that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 01:10 PM
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Cif is a household cleaner and ATM is for getting cash. Please let me live in my ignorance. Jokes aside, you are right. The wide diffusion of porn online is making weird fetishes and practices mainstream now. No child should grow up thinking that’s how people truly have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:24 AM
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Thanks for the link! Done and shared!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:21 AM
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Welcome back and thank you for the ruthless reminder to all users. I do love it. As a European living in Asia oftentimes I found the US political discussions and disrespect that comes with them really tedious. I’m here to have fun and get tips on how to improve my standards when dating, not to be lectured about politics or buried in memes. I am however guilty of not contributing as much as I’d like, out of being judged and so-called-canceled for having my own voice (which comes from my different…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 10:12 AM
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I guess he thought that if you put up with that then he’d have free way to do anything else he would have liked to you. Such a lack of self awareness and respect. You’re amazing for standing up for yourself. I sure hope you are proud of what you did today, even if it was infuriating to say the least. I hope you enjoyed the food back home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:39 AM
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I like that at least he realized that it was him who was the problem. I do hope it inspires some of the other men who complain in that sub, and instead of whining, they get proactive in caring about their wives/girlfriends, and improve their relationships. Having a higher standard and concept of your partner does give plenty of benefits to both.I hope he keeps it up! ​ Edit: After reading more posts about his update… gosh, she is probably quite disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 11:45 AM
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I think you might love how he made you feel, not the real him that is showing right now, after the “lovey dovey” phase is gone. You miss that idea and memories of him. He is exhausted because that is not who he really is, so it took him effort to put on that façade. Now that he thinks he’s got you, he is pulling this stunt to see how much he can push your boundaries and get away with it. If you tolerate it, he will continue and you might end up really depressed. Protect yourself, and take care o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:28 PM
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Hi! may I suggest you check with women who live there about their experiences? Maybe you have a friend or there’s any sort of online community for your university so that you can check. And then plan accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:25 PM
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I want to believe the original post is just trolling, I really do. And yet 👀 Why would anyone who doesn’t know how to bake offer to make a cake anyways?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:04 AM
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This does not represent the actual hierarchy of needs that Maslow made. Sad to see it like this, as I actually think his theory is quite interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:57 AM
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”Of course. There is no excuse for an adult not to know how to cook.” is a great way to answer this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:57 AM
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Imagine trying OLD only to find some random dude throwing his issues at you and THEN expecting a date 👀 Dating means putting yourself out there, so if you have a mental issue like depression it’s best to deal with that first, and rely on specialists and people who know you and care about you already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 01:36 PM
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This is quite an interesting question. I think that the widespread of the internet has brought us the access to many more people than ever before, with a much lower effort. If a man can have a cheap, low effort and easy date, chances are they’d go for that with an online stranger. This also explains why women tend to get so many more matches on OLD, since low value men will just message pretty much any profile they come across. This is why vetoing and being selective during first dates with men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 11:58 AM
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Yes! Can someone please pin this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:13 AM
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I’m gonna go a bit against the current and say this might be a bit of leveling up for men and I can appreciate the effort HOWEVER it should not only be as a means for getting women, but a part of a set of skills and a new attitude to grow as a person. There’s nothing bad with wanting to look nice per se. It‘s the deception game I loathe. I read the link to the article about the internet guy as well and, while I don’t agree with that much spending and other points, I liked how he said: ”It sucks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:31 AM
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I support the No Contact method. Delete him from media and avoid him as much as you can. Play dumb if he confront you about it (unlikely). It’s just the ideal of a relationship that you’d like, not the real person himself. Work on yourself and your reality. We have plenty of time to improve these days so you can spend it wisely :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:21 AM
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If he has money and pays for everything, ask for babysitting expenses. Say it is not only for your education, but also for your daughter’s sake and for his convenience (or whatever you think he needs to hear to help you with the expenses). Start slowly saving up a little bit of your own income each month and upgrade once you’re done studying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:54 AM
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I’m sad that this is so true. Manipulation is not cool at all. I think than in this era we are all used to having things right away so even breadcrumbs from men might feel the beginning of something with more meaning to our unconscious brain, and we get hooked by the reward system within ourselves. Recognizing this is the first step because luckily it works both ways: men also get a high when their breadcrumbing works. Which brings me to my delicious conclusion: ignore low effort men and their b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:48 AM
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I think you’re describing a stereotype for Japanese men (not all Asian men). Stereotypes are there for a reason, as a sort of “rough intro guide” to something/someone. But then there is the individual themselves, of course. Generally speaking, I’d say your description is correct for older generations of Japanese men, but there are so many exceptions with younger Japanese guys, and also with Japanese born/living abroad. I find younger guys a lot more open to say what they think, while still somew…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 12:09 AM
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I’m glad you’re going! I’m sure that, even as a leader, you’ll have a blast in there. So go with your head high and do your thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:11 AM
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Do you have a friend who can sign up as a leader and go with you for support? Have other people you know and like who will also attend? Are looking forward to meeting new people and having a great learning experience? After all, that dude is not the reason you want to go, just an inconvenience. So maybe try to focus on how you can make a positive experience of the dance workshops that you so dearly dreamed for! I do have a bit of a similar experience with an ambiguous relationship with a work co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 03:50 AM
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I’ve seen a lot of answers here that I love. I just wanted to add, please take your cat with you when you go help your parents fix their house!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:05 AM
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My advice is to keep working and focusing on yourself. I’ve read your comments and it seems you’re also going to therapy and making progress; don’t let him destroy it. Who cares what he wants, this is about your happiness and what you need to feel better and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 02:02 AM
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Treat Me Like A Woman by Lisa Stansfield, I love this song. I Belong To Me by Lisa Simpson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:22 PM
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Do you think he’s HVM? Why is he still on Tinder if he seemed so nice? Read him for clues to see what he’d like, without showing your cards. You took your time to heal and improve, so take your time in finding a good partner while still respecting and upgrading yourself. He doesn’t have to be “the one” just because he showed interest. Attention is cheap but commitment is not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:19 AM
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When he says “ask” you can just “ask him for a proper date” if that’s what you’d like, and see how he reacts. Or just block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:05 AM
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u/dateparty ​ Why did you agree to it if it makes you uncomfortable? Do you think they wouldn’t have respected your decision otherwise? Also, does this mean you can get a date for yourself on Valentine’s too? Just some random thoughts. As for my opinion... I would stop dating him and move on. His dismissive tone saying you’re insecure and jealous is not the way you should be treated. You’re worth more than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:17 AM
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Who the heck tries to flirt in a laundromat anyway? Can we not get a break? I really like how you handled the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:16 AM
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I’m saving this post ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:07 AM
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This sounds like a lovely idea! I’m interested in hearing “the other side” without having to deal with all the trolling. Massive props to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 07:01 AM
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Ok you made me laugh XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:42 AM
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Your post is beautiful. Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:33 AM
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I think it’s great you cut him out, good for you! He’s probably talking like that online because that’s the only way he can get your attention. As long as it does not affect your offline life, I’d say you’re doing great in ignoring him. You have more important and healthy matters to focus on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 01:23 AM
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Did you tell him this? You should tell him if you think this is the major issue you have. After, see if he respects your boundaries and if not, you know it’s best to get out of there. Don’t let him try to bring down your self worth. Also, if he’s watching porn, that might be part of the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:19 PM
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IMO, if you call out a guy on his hot and cold behavior, he may take it as you have an interest in him, and therefore you lose the upper hand. I would stop any text or contact. If you meet him because of friends, act cordial and play dumb if he tries to bring drama. At this point, it is attention that he wants, so don’t give it to him. You no longer care so it should be fine. You might want to read the post “The Dumb Fox Credo“ in here. It could give you some pointers or inspiration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:15 PM
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I don’t know for how long you’ve been putting up with the frustration he’s been causing you, but I do think you’re on the right track just by being here! FDS can work as an initial support circle, and also the few friends that you have. Maybe being tied to someone like your boyfriend is what is stopping you from meeting new people and working on yourself so you can live your best life! My advice would be: - Take back your power and respect yourself, AKA dump that pornsick boy! - Read the sidebar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:55 PM
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Congratulations! I have finally decided to get my first Reddit account mainly because of this sub, and this seems a great post to start. I hope more great news come this way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:18 AM
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