Just a friendly Saturday reminder to all you beautiful ladies: you can apply every strategy here and you still may not find a HVM that is willing to commit to you. The best strategy you can follow is one where you are comfortable with being single indefinitely if you can’t find someone who meets your standards. Men know that many women will settle because of our “biological clock” so they can be low value until they reach the age where women will start throwing themselves at them because they want to get married and start having children. I know so many LVM who were shunned by women throughout their twenties, but once they hit 30 the women who wouldn’t give them the time of day (rightfully so) began chasing them like they were the best thing since sliced bread.

To truly reach the point where you won’t ever settle for such men, you need to be okay with the possibility of never getting married and never having children of your own. Once I accepted this my threshold for cutting off bullshit men fell several notches. Let’s change the narrative that a woman’s worth is determined by her attachment to someone who happened to be born with XY chromosomes.