DapperDandy22 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
198	Just Made my Second Day Approach	Field Report	DapperDandy22	/r/seduction	14/01/21 06:09 AM
16	Just Made My First Day Approach	Field Report	DapperDandy22	/r/seduction	13/01/21 06:55 AM
7	Getting in Touch With my Sexuality	Inner Game	DapperDandy22	/r/seduction	29/10/20 01:04 AM
4	Extreme Willingness to Walk Away	Field Report	DapperDandy22	/r/seduction	10/04/21 04:19 AM
2	Complete Nervous Wreck Before Dates	Inner Game	DapperDandy22	/r/seduction	21/12/20 04:30 AM
1	Sunday Daygame and Solo VS Wing	Field Report	DapperDandy22	/r/seduction	04/05/21 05:14 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Nature spawns more males than it should so that we are always at war. And its intentional. Why can't we downvote dumb shit in this sub anymore?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/23 10:28 PM
6	Cold approach is one of the worst methods of getting women. It seems to me cold approach is way more "human" than OLD.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 04:26 AM
1	Men want what they would never allow to women Ok, enjoy your Zumba	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/23 12:38 AM
1	Women do want to be apprached. Highly doubt you can get 1 in 10 to go on a date unless your are indeed a Chad. I've seen guys approach dozens.of girls and maybe get a date out of it. They were decent looking guys too. IRL is just as hard as online imo.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 06:52 PM
1	Men want what they would never allow to women Most women want a "toned" physique, which weight lifting is optimal for providing. It's exceptionally rare for a woman to put on an "excessive" amount of muscle. Even for a man, with 30x the testosterone it's very difficult to put on/maintain muscle mass. Neither Zumba or weightlifting are an effective means to reduce fat. One must eat at a calorie deficit to reduce fat. If you enjoy doing Zumba that's fine. I would say just do it in conjunction with weightlifting / good diet, not in place of ei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 06:43 PM
2	Men want what they would never allow to women Most women want a "toned" physique, which weight lifting is optimal for providing. It's exceptionally rare for a woman to put on an "excessive" amount of muscle. Even for a man, with 30x the testosterone it's very difficult to put on/maintain muscle mass. Neither Zumba or weightlifting are an effective means to reduce fat. One must eat at a calorie deficit to reduce fat. Everything you said is exactly the type of misinformation given to women preventing them from having desirable outcomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 06:38 PM
-3	Men want what they would never allow to women It's not an efficient/effective form of exercise. Weights would produce the fitness results better and more efficiently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 04:22 PM
6	Men want what they would never allow to women Getting jacked is very hereditary. Some people can work out til they're going blue in the face and you still can't tell if they lift. Whereas others can look at a dumbbell and get jacked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 03:09 PM
-4	Men want what they would never allow to women This is just proof that men and women prefer to do shit separately. Women would probably stop doing their dumb/useless Zumba classes if more women and less men were in the weight room.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/23 03:08 PM
13	If dating is so broken, why don't women seemingly complain about it? This. Almost every girl has some sort of support system (e.g., friends), unlike so many guys who are just lone wolves, go to work, pursue pussy, and don't do much else outside of that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 03:37 PM
2	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" The comment was tongue in cheek, but I think you knew that. Congratulations on getting snarky comment in. In any case, when the time and my finances are right are right I may very well give overseas a shot. And best believe if I could help guys see the light I will report back. Fwiw, the best women I've dated in the states are foreign women fresh off a plane or who know few locals. Just my experience though and it.could be other factors.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/23 12:12 AM
6	"You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse" So even shitty losers get treated well in foreign countries? Just imagine how a guy like me whos not that would do. I'm booking my ticket rn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/23 11:30 PM
2	To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not? How would anyone "take advantage" of anyone if there is a relationship of love and mutual respect? If the guy is doing unscrupulous things with the girl then yeah, fair argument. But when you see someone like Leo showers these young's girls with love and life changing experiences, then how can you say it's "predatory"? I don't buy it. Also, how's is 18-19 still a child? If a guy can go to war at that age then a girl can get into a consensual relationship with an older man at that age as well. Al…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/23 05:01 AM
2	Sunday Daygame and Solo VS Wing Not sure you're separator technique would work during the day, but definitely could see it working for night game. As far as techniques inside stores, I usually do what I normally do outside and just go direct with a "hey, I saw you, thought you looked cute/attractive and thought I'd come up and say hi" and follow with an observation/assumption. If its an employee I try to be quick and get the number fast, because she doesn't want co-workers to know she's being hit on. Commit the phone number to…	/r/seduction	04/05/21 04:09 PM
1	Sunday Daygame and Solo VS Wing It may be easier with a wing, but you're going to have to open solo anyway, because if you open as a pair it can be a little intimidating to them. Once you hook your wing can jump in. However, I definitely think its doable while out alone, you just have to open them as a pair, and you have to engage this non-target girl, while subtly communicating your interest in your target. Its a different dynamic for sure, and I haven't quite figured it out yet, but here's a video by tom torrero that you may…	/r/seduction	04/05/21 04:05 PM
2	Extreme Willingness to Walk Away Well, they're more adventurous and willing to visit a western country, so its not necessarily representative of how they really are in Russia is what I mean	/r/seduction	10/04/21 07:09 PM
2	Extreme Willingness to Walk Away So true.	/r/seduction	10/04/21 04:44 AM
2	What book would you personally say has helped you the most and why? 60 years of challenge is a book purely on dating/approach tactics and its really spot on.	/r/seduction	05/04/21 03:51 PM
1	What book would you personally say has helped you the most and why? 60 years of challenge and book of Pook. You can find a free PDF pretty easily on the web for both.	/r/seduction	05/04/21 04:59 AM
1	I DID IT! First cold approach success I just made my first cold-approach in a day-time recently too! Since then I've made several more and have gotten a number and a date! It seems to just get easier from here, brah!	/r/seduction	17/01/21 05:42 PM
1	Just Made my Second Day Approach Fair point. I was dressed like a homeless person, as I just came from the gym. My area has a LOT of crackhead homeless people walking the streets. Her defenses were probably somewhat up, given the setting.	/r/seduction	15/01/21 12:36 AM
2	Just Made my Second Day Approach I was stuttering and acting a bit nervous too, but I think it can be something you get over fairly quickly.	/r/seduction	14/01/21 06:14 PM
2	Just Made my Second Day Approach Just outside of my apartment. Every now and again there is a cutie that will pass by. I literally will just walk around my neighborhood, both enjoying the fresh air and scanning for cuties lol.	/r/seduction	14/01/21 06:13 PM
1	Just Made my Second Day Approach True. That would have definitely made her feel special and as if I really appreciated her presence. I feel as though if I were to have said something like that before asking for the number she would have felt appreciated, and she would have been much more keen on giving me her number, despite me not making my intentions clear from the get-go. I'll keep that in mind for next time.	/r/seduction	14/01/21 06:08 PM
6	Just Made My First Day Approach Alright guys, so I just made my second approach. This time it was with a cute 22 year old . She was MUCH more friendly and talkative than the previous girl who I attempted to converse with. She was actually a normal non-awkward person. This threw me off because I was expecting a similar awkward conversation as the last approach, but this was not the case. However, I made the mistake of not making my intentions clear and saying "hey I thought you were cute." or something like that. Instead, I was…	/r/seduction	13/01/21 10:39 PM
1	Just Made My First Day Approach The mask is one thing, but the social distancing another thing. I've kind of developed an unconscious tendency to keep that 6ft from people. Also, quite honestly I don't know if she lives with an older, vulnerable population person, so I feel it would be somewhat inconsiderate of me to breach that 6ft distance without knowing her stance on it. I was outdoors during that approach though, so maybe its not that big of a deal. But proximity is absolutely crucial for any type of seductive communicati…	/r/seduction	13/01/21 09:32 PM
3	Just Made My First Day Approach Because she will see a guy with a hard on next to her and he will talk to her asking about the weather and she will feel weird because she can see he is talking to her because he’s thirsty for her but he is incongruent in his speech. Being vulnerable in this way will also put her guard down and help her be more genuine as well. I’ve literally told a girl after approaching “look I don’t really know what to talk about I just walked up to you cause you had great legs, no disrespect” and she just la…	/r/seduction	13/01/21 09:28 PM
1	Is there a simple way to not view women as better than you? I can't help it no matter how hard I try. I think you're overly sensitive to beauty because its scarce in your world. Do you go out regularly where there are a lot of beautiful women? I've heard in countries like Ukraine and Russia where there are a plethora of beautiful women the men are not as paralyzed by their beauty as we are in the west because beautiful women are abundant in those countries. What I've been doing is going out on a regular basis, and putting myself in proximity of many beautiful women. I believe this can potentiall…	/r/seduction	21/12/20 05:44 AM
2	Getting in Touch With my Sexuality Yes, its something that I've just started to learn.	/r/seduction	30/10/20 02:10 AM
1	A Simple, but effective Test Good stuff. We really overcomplicate things with all the theory. Own the fact that your a man who desires women, make yourself as physically attractive as possible, be able to communicate clearly and effectively and therefore communicate your desire... Boom. That's enough to flip her attraction switches for you, if she is looking to have her attraction switches flipped.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 06:24 PM
2	Getting in Touch With my Sexuality I'm not "faking" it. Its genuine and coming from my personality. That's the whole point of my topic. I'm finally becoming congruent with my true sexual nature, rather than denying it, which is what I think a lot of men deal with. I was curious to hear other people's experience with dealing with this, as it appears the floodgates have been opened and its difficult for me to reign it in, as I've held back this energy for so long.	/r/seduction	29/10/20 05:33 PM