Lately I somehow have been of the belief that in order to have a successful at daygame set, I have to deal with shit from girls and just power through it. You hear people on this forum say things like "if she says she has a bf its a shittest, stay in there!", or "just power through it bro!". However, I'm starting to realize that's not really the case. Although some women throw shit-tests at you, clearly not ALL women do that, even the hot ones. So in order to psychologically defend myself against the negative vibes that are thrown my way from certain girls, I need to maintain an extreme willingness to walkaway from the interaction if the vibe is not right. I do understand that there is some nuance to this, but if I get a bad vibe or a sniff of rudeness I am peacing the fuck out.
Today I went into interactions with the purpose of keeping the interaction short (I also believe I've been influenced by some to believe that longer interactions are better, and pushing for an instadate is the correct move. However, I believe this is rarely the case during daygame. Short/Sweet interactions seem to be the best.), and showing an extreme willingness to walk away from the interaction if she shows that she needs to be somewhere, or if she is not interested in talking. From an outsiders perspective my shoulders are probably a little less squared up when talking to the girl, and I am slightly leaning back as if to subtly communicate that "If you're a weirdo I'm walking the fuck away." This resulted in me number closing all three of my approaches today, after going nearly 2 for 50 on my last few approaches. On the last number close she showed some trepidation and wasn't necessarily enthusiastic, but she wasn't rude or overly standoffish either.
Showing an extreme willingness to walkaway is indicative of extreme non-neediness, which is attractive and puts them at ease knowing there isn't a lot of pressure on them in the interaction.
What are you're guys' thoughts on this? I've heard women from certain cultures like Russia can have very standoffish vibes. However, I've approached two Russian women where I live, and have found them to be among the most pleasant girls I have approached. Perhaps it is a self-selective group because they are expats and therefore by default more friendly, but I am curious to hear your experiences.
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