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| 2 | Need a diagnosis: Is this Oneitis or am I falling for this woman?That's all it basically was. A great trip, and I think I know for me, this will more than likely be the last one. She's off to med school, and I'm off to grad school. I'll be enjoying our time now, but I think for me, it'll probably have to be cut short at some point. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Need a diagnosis: Is this Oneitis or am I falling for this woman?Definitely... one of the bigger parts to this story is what's happening is temporary. She's off to med school and I'm off to grad school in a couple of months. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Need a diagnosis: Is this Oneitis or am I falling for this woman?Yup, I gotta get back to keeping my abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 04:58 PM |
| 3 | A woman [26/F] I am [28/M] currently "dating" doesn't want a relationship, but doesn't want us to see other peopleDamn, that's deep. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Does helping women position you as a provider?I'd next her. She sounds like she is using you to get ahead in whatever field of work she is currently in. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How were you guys able to get girls prior to PUA/Red PillIn high school, I demonstrated high SMV by playing on the football team, and joining the track and field team. Once I graduated high school, I went straight to community college, and my value plummeted because I had nothing interesting to offer. I got into a LTR, and my SMV kept declining until I decided to pick up hobbies and do activities which involved the opposite sex. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Success in straight-up telling a girl you just want to fuck?It’s called me too movement | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 10:00 PM |
| 2 | I am currently suffering from Oneitis from a woman who isn't even my girlfriend after I made a grave mistakeBasically... I caved since the pussy blinded. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I am currently suffering from Oneitis from a woman who isn't even my girlfriend after I made a grave mistakeAgreed... I really gotta get my shit together. All the other stuff is cool, but bombarding me with IG messages and calling me a liar is reaching. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | The Frame BattleI killed the thread. There’s a fine line between offering feedback and or suggestions and trolling. I do plan on cutting back some to focus more on myself to ensure I don’t fall back on BP conditioning. If you look at my previous threads, dancing salsa and bachata has helped sustain abundance mentality. It’s something I have to do every week to keep me leveled. And I’m doing my best to apply RP theory when it comes to interacting with women. This girl is acting like I’m her boyfriend and I gotta… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/18 06:06 PM |
| -4 | The Frame BattleAnd my dick game is working ... | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/18 09:09 PM |
| -8 | The Frame BattleYou make no sense. We've already fucked a bunch, and we're still in contact with each other as I type this. Like I said, she wants me to win, and I am dicking her down, and she's giving me pussy, so it is a win-win. If it doesn't workout, it doesn't workout.... doesn't matter bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/18 09:08 PM |
| 5 | The Frame BattleCould be overthinking it here. We've fucked a bunch, and I like the girl. She wants me to win, and she wants to have fun. There really isnt anything else to analyze here. Just need to stick to my guns and remind myself of keeping an abundance mentality. I fell into oneitis before, and shit can't happen again. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | When should I [28/M] tell a new woman [26/F] that my ex [28/F] lives very close to my apartmentI'll read it, but this is why ASKTRP exist, so we get clarification on questions like this. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | When should I [28/M] tell a new woman [26/F] that my ex [28/F] lives very close to my apartmentPretty much. I rarely delve into my history with her, and there is zero reason to. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 08:39 PM |
| 2 | When should I [28/M] tell a new woman [26/F] that my ex [28/F] lives very close to my apartmentWise words. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 08:38 PM |
| 4 | When should I [28/M] tell a new woman [26/F] that my ex [28/F] lives very close to my apartmentFuck them butches is right | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Never Complain; Never ExplainI agree with this entire list. I do my best to adhere by this, because woman shit test you almost everyday. The hardest part is being consistent, and I routinely check myself during conversations with women. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Relaxation is Key for everythingI literally said this to a woman last night. I told her I no longer stress and bitch about things 2-3 months down the road. I live in the moment, and I told her "we need to be present," and she eventually was bent over 5-6 minutes later. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/18 01:30 AM |
| 3 | "Never Explain Yourself" - How far do you go with it? [Discussion]A woman the other day asked why we shouldn't be friends on FB, and I declined to explaining myself to her to keep frame. I told her to send the request, and I joked around about it. I do my best to never get into explaining myself, because why do I need to? You have to earn that right, and even still, I don't even explain myself to my parents | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 03:39 PM |
| 3 | The #MeToo movement targets my dance instructorYeah, maybe you're right about the #MeToo portion of it. Its tricky in dance, because I've been at it for a year and a half and I have had ladies who I had ZERO interest in, straddle my leg like no tomorrow. So I wouldn't be surprised if some of the ladies did exactly the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/18 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The #MeToo movement targets my dance instructorAlso considering this person is from Washington state, has no profile picture, no last name, and has ONE review. Come on bruh. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/18 04:51 PM |
| 3 | STD Plate SituationA plate over the weekend says "condoms irritate me," and that's why "I didnt cum." The following day, she points to a pill that looked like it was 50mg and says "this is for herpes..." | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | STD Plate SituationI fucked a woman raw months back, and she gave me something. I don't know what it was, but based on her saying "condoms irritate me," it was pretty obvious she may have had chlaymydia. I stopped talking to her, and made a rule for myself her on out. If I do decide to fuck a girl raw, I have to be 1,000 percent sure (which I still won't be) that this woman isn't fucking anyone else. Guys like you exist who fuck different girls raw are unaware of their status and sometimes barely get tested. T… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Bad case of oneitisI second this. Once I ended my 7 year LTR, I focused more on photography, salsa/bachata, and toastmasters, and women are curious and want to know more. Saying I do "X" for work, or "I go to the gym" isn't as interesting as someone who has creative hobbies and feels like he might have a purpose. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I’m currently checking myself after having blue-pill thoughts after hooking up with this woman 5 times in less than 24 hours, help meJesus fucking Christ is right dude | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Holding frame [and protection]She was SUPER casual. She wouldn't have said anything if I hadn't of brought up on our way back to DC the following day. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 04:55 PM |
| 5 | The Seasonal Rhythm of Relationships/Being randomly contacted by a girl after parting waysEx GF literally wanted me to go to a pumpkin patch with her two weeks ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Attempting to revive a relationship from the graveShe doesn't, and you're right about her getting no attention from other men. She's clinging onto me and has made an attempt to emotionally manipulate me. I blocked her, because she didn't take the breakup well, AT ALL... | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Attempting to revive a relationship from the graveI blocked her after she told me she was having "dark thoughts," feels "insecure," and needs to see a therapist. It was obviously a last attempt to try to win me over by me feeling bad. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/18 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Adding value to your lifeThere is an agenda each club has, and it is typically 2-3 speeches, improvised speaking, and feedback. Great way to get better at spontaneous conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Adding value to your lifeI pay $99 a month for unlimited lessons. Monday through Saturday they offer group classes, and its a great way to network and meet people. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Attempting to revive a relationship from the graveMarriage, babies, buying a house, knowing my parents, you name it and she wants it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/18 05:32 AM |
| 7 | Adding value to your lifeOnce you start filling your life up with different hobbies, and creating an actual network, you'll find bringing up video games in conversation adds zero substance. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/18 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Adding value to your lifeFrom Salsa, I ended making a network of at least 10-12 people who would do anything to hang out. This is men and women. You can't necessarily get that from the gym, because there is no medium outside of your standard LA fitness. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/18 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Adding value to your lifeMy thoughts exactly. In some ways, salsa dancing can be very cutthroat. In spite of not being top tier (been doing it for 5 months), I still find a way to exert confidence by showing tremendous body language and exuding happiness. This definitely helps supersede sometimes shitty technique. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Adding value to your lifeI can't imagine how many hours I totaled up while trying to rank up in Halo 3. I simply cut into my priorities, and I found myself willing to do nothing an entire day to game. Scary place to be in, and I'm glad I cut back. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 05:05 PM |
| 10 | Adding value to your lifeI didn’t necessarily stop, I just cut back. I was going 4-5 days a week for 10 years until I had a injury. I still go, it’s mostly 2-3 days now, because there is only but so much you can around a standard work day. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies/interest that lower your SMV?You’re getting it. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:58 AM |
| 29 | Has TRP made you more conservative?Not necessarily. Being a liberal taught me how to be more staunch and supportive of equal rights. But on another note, it made me believe women today were drowning in oppression and sorrow. I have zero associations with conservatives, and trump is businessman first before a politician. Obama was a neoliberal, and bush was a dunce on OJT. Red pill awareness helped me value myself more in a feminist dominated society. Everyone wants to believe women, but no one wants to understand the danger they … | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 04:07 AM |
| 3 | When is it appropriate to give a woman credit?This is why AskTrp exist. Thank you. I’ve held back a lot because I know it could cause a ripple effect. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/18 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Witnessing Hypergamy in Latin Dance: Salsa and Sensual BachataIt’s a story with a firsthand experience | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/18 12:05 PM |
| 6 | Witnessing Hypergamy in Latin Dance: Salsa and Sensual BachataYou speak truth... one thing I refuse to do is announce this instructors by their name around these women. Once I start becoming a cuckhold, then it's over. I've lost frame, and lowered myself to some fanboy obsessing over some random guy who is probably stuck at a desk job like me. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Witnessing Hypergamy in Latin Dance: Salsa and Sensual BachataCan definitely confirm. Had to clean mine up within the last month or two, and had some recent success since I put more energy in Salsa and Bachata. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What I’ve learn from approaching over 100 womenCan personally attest to #6 and #10. I am currently taking salsa and bachata lessons daily, and women have a tendency to sniff out the guys who are most unsure of themselves. Even if you are a shitty dancer, confidence tends to supersede this for the 2-3 minutes. And for #10, there was a 20 year old I hooked up with who thought she was the best thing since sliced bread, and on multiple occasions claims to have 2-3 guys as her best friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Women Are Like Children, With ExamplesTo add, I had been going to the gym with the LTR for nearly 8 years. She never led any workout. It didn't matter how many times I taught her and trained her 3-4 days out of the week, she was never able to digest working out on her own. Again, would I expect a 5 year old to destroy a lower body workout? Probably not. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I balance neediness with showing interest?Never feel obligated. Dating is a numbers game, and through trial and error, you will eventually figure out who is worthy of your time and who isn't. Then the neediness should go away, but its in theory. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What age did you lose your virginity and under what circumstances? 21 year old virgin here and wondering.Focus on yourself really. You can't expect some hot chick to save you from your crippling depression. Find ways to enjoy life and let people who bring out the best of you in your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 04:46 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] 6 year marriage endedWell, now I know how this plays out. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | "This guy hit on me" shit-test“Okay...” and go about my business. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 06:33 PM |
| 3 | "This guy hit on me" shit-testSpot on dude... I needed this. I keep looking online and getting this distorted view of how I am interacting with this one woman right now... its not that deep bro. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 05:43 PM |
| 4 | The Curse of ManDefinitely needed this. I've been going back to the ex-GF and hooking up with her because the self-doubter in me believes I can't find anyone else for that matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Field report update [4th date]Smashing her not this weekend, but the following. She booked an Airbnb, and I'll be meeting her that Friday. I doubt she'll bang someone in Miami, but who gives a fuck if she does? I'll get my pipe cleaned this weekend hopefully. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 06:15 PM |
| -1 | Field report update [4th date]Im going... and I'm not getting attached. Got out of a 7 year LTR | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 28 | When she is interested YOU'LL KNOW.Damn... he straight deleted his account 😂😂 | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/18 01:39 AM |
| 19 | Field report update [4th date]Well! Time to get my helmet cleaned | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | The New Culture Movement (sex cult)I think this was my point. One of the girls he showed me WAS fat, chubby, big boobs, and hardly had any teeth. So yea, there really aren't any short points. I didn't know how to word it properly. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | The New Culture Movement (sex cult)Google the title, and go from there. You might end up like Tom cruise though | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/18 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls in relationships on social media looks like they’re single?Why does it matter? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I (28/M) go to NYC with a woman (26/F) I have for less than a month?Not really. I booked a room with a different guy, because I know shit’ll be sketch if I decide to sleep in the same room with the 3rd girl. Haven’t paid for anything. I’ll be driving, but that’s basically it bruh. She has her own money, and she knows I got shit going on. I couldn’t care less about her holiday plans. She’s applying for residency so why get attached? We got 1049293 other options out here. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I (28/M) go to NYC with a woman (26/F) I have for less than a month?I will ; D | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to stop feeling inadequate and desperate for female attention?I just was fuming with anxiety because I didn’t get any sleep and drank coffee. I made out with her tonight, so it’s progress. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Getting back together with an exAgreed... my GF had threatened to break up with me for months, and when I finally called it quits, she was shocked. And now she wants to make amends, but I have a hard time trusting her. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/18 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Getting back together with an exI am in a very similar situation. We broke up, made amends, argued daily, but things seem to be progressing in a positive direction. One thing you need to do, as bad as this sounds is, give him an ultimatum. You have every right to let him know you don't feel like wasting time. Some men get caught up in the 'idea' of having a long-term girlfriend to then wife, but it never works out that way. Take a chance if you really like this guy, but make sure it isn't forced. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/18 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Where to find a good man??Don't go looking for it. I think one of the rules of RP is to increase your own status by doing certain activities to make yourself more valuable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/18 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so damn hard to redpill other men?Don't even bother. I made an attempt, and it made a buddy of mine feel VERY uncomfortable when I told him he needed to stop trying to 'befriend' every women he came in contact with. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Attended my first Salsa congress, and I am interested in this one lady I metYeah, I can definitely attest to this. Over lunch, a girl who’s been dancing for 3 months says “oh my god, that instructor is sooooo good...” and it really felt redundant because it was all I heard for a good 2-3 minutes from this lady but it felt like 30. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 05:48 AM |
| 13 | College girls on campus as older student"Hi, what's your Facebook?" | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Reputation of being liar/playerTo keep frame, you would be better off going off into the wind for a couple of weeks... | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 07:44 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffOne of the biggest slip-ups I make daily is studying. For whatever reason, I can't summon enough energy and drive to start studying and consider graduate school as a serious opportunity. I love talking to people, going out, but when it comes to sacrifice, its another subject. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/18 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Recently found out that men don't really care about a woman's accomplishments or careers for attraction, mind is blown.Working in a clinic, most residents either are on the extreme spectrum and make time for themselves, or others do nothing and study all day. There are definitely levels to this, but I would venture to say most men do care, and what to know the trajectory of your career. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/18 05:25 PM |
| 5 | On finally fucking a girl after 18 years of celibacyThe last thing you want to do is have sex just to have sex. Whatever is going on inside if it has to do with self esteem or whatever, that’s definitely priority. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/18 03:03 AM |
| 7 | Why Tinder is a waste of time for most guysIts a waste of time, and its taught me nothing other than I have to invest more time in my phone in order to get dates. I would rather go out and aim for something in public, and work on my IRL game. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:46 PM |
| -1 | I am a depressed 21 year old male. How do I get my life together?Somehow this feels like a troll. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being "the funny guy" [19m, USA]?The only suggestion I can give you is to do something that involves a lot of women. Consider yoga, or do salsa class in college. This puts you outside your comfort zone with lots of beautiful women, and maybe you won't consider escalating so quickly. It takes time and its a process. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 08:11 PM |
| 0 | How do you guys handle STDs?First night she invited me to come inside, but I declined because I didn't have a condom. The second night, I planned on NOT having sex, but the chemistry between us was hard to turn down. I still didn't have a condom... | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 04:23 PM |
| 3 | I (32m) have just dealt a terrible blow to my relationship with my brother (29m) and I don’t know how to fix this... any advice?NEVER discuss it... its an endless stream of opinions. Opinions are like assholes, and everyone has one. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 03:35 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys handle STDs?Fucked a girl who had an ass like a camel raw dog a few weeks back. Needless to say, I did experience symptoms after and got tested but nothing came up. Mistake on my part was the girl wanted to fuck, but I wasn't prepared... I definitely suggest NOT letting a random chick go down on you or vice versa. Herpes can still be transmitted if the person has visible lesions. So its a no for me unless you have a conversation about it. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 03:33 PM |
| 3 | As a man, what is something other men do that bothers you?Comment section is filled with vitriol and one woman said “men are perverts” on one of her answers days back https://www.quora.com/As-a-man-what-is-something-that-other-men-do-that-bothers-you/answer/David-Payne-22?share=2edb7a11&srid=QVE2 | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 05:09 PM |
| 6 | My first field report, roast me.Went to a Tinder dates house, and her ex-husband actually owned the place she was staying in. Not to mention, he also would physically abuse her... never again. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about/deal with your body hair?I definitely trim my shit but I also don't want to look like a lady. Just keep it maintained, and you won't turn any heads. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 06:16 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who actually have a job. What do you guys do with your weekends to make life more fulfilling?I attribute this to being forced to learn basically... out of the dozens of women that come in and out of the studio, I've pretty much danced with them all during instruction. You get used to the anxiety, and if you fuck up, you fuck up. You just keep it moving, and it definitely gives you a reason to approach someone and can use it as an opener. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Considering a Friends with BenefitsGotta take a chance.... Colombus did. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 03:38 PM |
| 4 | A guide to having fun & hooking up at music festivalsI can attest to this... I do latin music, and whenever I feel shitty, I typically end up dancing shitty. Being happy, and moving your body is hard, and it takes practice to become normalized. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Been hitting bars & clubs for more than a year with close to no success. I’m now changing things.I am considering the same pathway. I have been going out clubbing like crazy for the last 2 weeks, and its been nothing but $50 drink tabs, Lyft rides, and me going home to my cat. Its great if its done in moderation, but its a low-value activity because you really aren't getting anything out of it. I will focus more on learning salsa, going to the gym, and doing toastmasters. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis after ncHaving other women to focus on is not always a good thing. All you are doing is replacing one woman with another. Focus on yourself, and do other shit to keep your ass busy. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:41 PM |
| 4 | For those of you who actually have a job. What do you guys do with your weekends to make life more fulfilling?As someone who works a terrible office job, I typically do Salsa/Bachata after work, and mostly on the weekends. Ever since I signed up, its like my approach anxiety and fear of being rejected has been cut in half. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Girl says she's scared to look dumb, don't know what to reply?Bro..... I trained with my ex for 7 years and she still doesn't know how to work out. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:00 PM |
| 8 | Young Newbies: Stop Trying to Pick Up Women In Bars/ClubsThe last week I have gone out 3 nights. After last night, I am basically like fuck it.... it gets too expensive, and buying a beer and overpriced cocktails seems like a fuckin waste of time if I am not getting my helmet cleaned. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Young Newbies: Stop Trying to Pick Up Women In Bars/ClubsSalsa/bachata clubs are wondrous. I do this now, but you have to figure out which spots are the best for dancing. Sometimes ladies just go out with the sole purpose of drinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Walked away from a 7 year relationship, then found out about TRP weeks later7 years of not proposing probably did it... who knows. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Stop researching, Start livingOneitis sufferer here.... I went out this past Sunday and danced with about a dozen women to latin music. Didnt bang anyone in the bathroom, but am slowly overcoming my anxiety and building my confidence. Hopefully this leads to me bringing some thotty Mexican to my apartment. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Say whatever the F you wantShit man... how long did it take for you to feel indifferent? I’ve gotten phone numbers and stuff too, but I haven’t met anyone who has been up to par just yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Curious, what are your thoughts on sister type relationships with attractive girls that you are not interested in plating, dating, etc.?Based on what you’ve wrote, it sounds like you are unsure what type of relationship you are aiming for. Professional, friend, sexual, etc. Moving forward, I would definitely not lean on her for advice unless it’s about you advancing your career. The last thing you should want is to end up like one of her girlfriends. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Curious, what are your thoughts on sister type relationships with attractive girls that you are not interested in plating, dating, etc.?I typically avoid because you are now in her frame, and she dictates the relationship. Anything else, any other type of motive, you end up being reminded of your “friendship” or LJBF... | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Beta friend believes having more female friends will increase his chances in finding a hookupYou make a good point; I went out a few nights back and almost ended up being another girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Getting shit tests by LJBFed oneitus. Don't know what to make of it.I laughed slightly, but there is tons of accuracy in this post. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | FR. Back to basics: frame, abundance mentality / outcome independence, being busy, and being myself led to first "date" fuck.Great post man.... To your point about going out and expecting to fail is key. I've been doing Salsa dancing and it forces me to be confident, if not, it turns into an awkward slump, very quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Don't Tell Her Shit - The Fallacy of DisclosureHad a woman who saw the dozens of post on my Instagram about my ex (still talking) and I never brought it up. I think by my own omission by NEVER bringing her up in the picture, this resulted in her wanting to fuck me more. It was the mysticism, and we did fuck, but I went right back to my old AFC ways immediately following. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 01:32 PM |
| 11 | Say whatever the F you wantThank you for this! Tearing up a bit, because so much of your story is relatable to mine. Except, I was in a relationship for 7 years, and I still don't know how to bounce back from the heartache, pain, and a bunch of other BS she put me through. I already hooked up with someone else, but I went right back to my old AFC oneitis ways sadly. But there is hope... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/18 01:21 PM |
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