I've been seeing a plate for over a year now. About 2 weeks ago she came over to say she went and got tested and has Clamydia. In the moment, I assumed she got it from me since I've fucked 6 girls since I got back to college (some raw) so I pretended like nothing happened. I had been fucking her raw since she heavily alluded to the fact that she wasn't seeing other guys (I know stupid). I went and got tested and everything came back negative. A couple days later I confronted her and one trickle truth later, she banged Chad raw while she was drunk on two separate occasions.
I don't give a fuck that she bangs other guys, it's none of my business, but at the same time she fucked another dude raw while we weren't using condoms and after she banged him she didn't tell me to start wearing condoms. During the confrontation I said "we're done" since she doesn't care about my health and she started crying and begging me to reconsider etc. I kick her out and then she sends me a paragraph asking me to take her back and that she cares about me so much (lol). I haven't responded for the last week.
What's the call here fellas? She is JUST a plate but at the same time it's really convenient since we live 30 sec away on campus and I can fuck her whenever I want. Do I take her back and just use condoms/not eat her out? Or do I continue the ghost and just find a new plate? Other than this situation, she's never fucked up.
EDIT: I ended up taking her back and giving her two primal fucks before sending her home. My plan is to slowly let this fade out so we can end on good terms. I have no interest in alpha-widowing her or being an asshole to her since, as people commented, I was doing the same exact thing to her. I am going to limit the amount of time I invest in her (no more getting food or hanging out after sex) and she is now my third choice plate (she used to be 1st). Inb4 you took her back so you're a beta. Yeah, that's the point, it will end faster.
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