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Yes, I have. I started wearing hats. I think they are very feminine and give me a look of mystery. The other day a child stopped and said: "Look, she is wearing a hat." Also, I notice quite a few children smiling at me which makes me happy as I assume I have a friendly face.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/21 06:51 PM
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I want to be treated as I have treated others. This is what I want.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 08:38 PM
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Yes, this could be it... It is really bad if it is true.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 05:59 PM
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I. Feel. So. Angry. I don't want to hear I wasn't good enough for him. I put my 100% in that meeting. I am young, charismatic, slim, beautiful, smart, everything. I had no relationships in the past. I was fresh. It is not just me who says this, it's everybody around me. People look at me with admiration, they respect me, they all say I am special for the things I do, for how I treat people, for how much I love people. I feel hurt for how I was treated and I don't believe I deserve this rubbish.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 05:00 PM
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Thank you. This is so helpful. He did mention problems with his mother and his ex wife. He did say he was hurt and broken and needed to be shown patience and given time. I am neither hurt nor broken - not from the past anyway - so I have a totally different rhythm. I can move to the next level quite quickly, but I understand he cannot. I respect all this. I don't intrude into his life with loads of questions... I just let him be. It is difficult for me, so very difficult. I know one day I will g…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 09:59 AM
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He said he didn't want to invest in the online again. He said we should meet again, but didn't know when as we are both in different countries at the moment. I said I am afraid of waiting in case I get hurt. That's how it was left at.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 09:07 AM
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I didn't. I just told him what I have been doing in my life up until now - which is working very hard to support myself and that I didn't have any opportunity to meet or date men and that I am inexperienced in this matter. I don't know anymore... I messed up probably although I can't really pinpoint what I have done wrong. I wasn't all that into him from the start. He actually had to initiate contact for quite a while.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 08:48 AM
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I am happy for you that you feel pretty that way.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 08:13 AM
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I am the same. BMI around 18 got me the most attention in the UK.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/20 08:11 AM
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I can totally relate to your experience.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 11:39 PM
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That has never been my case, although I wish it were.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 10:02 PM
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Yeah, I look my best at 18.5 too. How tall are you? I am 5'7. I am actually pretty skinny at 18.5
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/20 05:42 PM
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I have been told I look like Angelina Jolie and that my natural beauty is dangerous. I still struggle to fully believe this. It is like I am ashamed of believing it and it hurts so much. It's because when I was in high school, I was fat and I was rejected by guys I liked and/or made fun of. I remember walking past a bunch of guys once. One told me "hey, beautiful, how are you doing?" Then he immediately said "I was kidding when i said you were beautiful" These sort of things stuck with me until …
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/20 10:21 PM
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It is a bit contradictory. On the one hand, you are saying you are OK with it, thus I don't see the problem, but on the other hand you are concerned it doesn't look normal and posted about it in this sub. Really don't know what to say.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 06:56 PM
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So happy you found a high-quality woman. Keep it up!
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 06:42 PM
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A threesome has nothing to do with a traditional marriage. Bringing a third person for sex into a marriage is never a good idea and won't end well. I'd tell him that if I am not enough as a person for him, then we will go our separate ways. He is allowed to do whatever he pleases, but not with me. You are feeling pressurised and don't even want this. I was once in a similar situation and ditched the guy and do not feel bad at all about it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 06:34 PM
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I think we don't have to be 100% upfront about it. This doesn't mean we are hiding anything. It means we have things we want to keep only for our own intimacy. And that's OK. I think it can be harmful if you expose yourself too much, especially on things you aren't sure you should be mentioning. He wasn't there and can interpret your words according to his own judgement which might not reflect your experience accurately.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/20 07:55 AM
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You are making it seem like it is more than it actually is. It's not. Direct your energy onto something else.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/20 07:13 PM
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I think you need to break up with both men. Substituting one for the other is never a good solution and will only lead to more confusion. You need time on your own to process all these contradictory emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 10:08 PM
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He is very confused. It won't work out.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 01:12 PM
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I tend to have insane mood swings too just before my period. It usually happens if I didn't pay attention to my diet - if I didn't eat enough.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/20 07:39 AM
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I know they are going to make it hard for me, but I choose to stay true to myself. Even if that means staying single for all my life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 04:32 PM
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Stop masturbating. Instant gratification harms us long-term speaking. I know this sounds like a cliche, but I live by it - you have to learn to love your self first. There is no guarantee in this world that one gets a boyfriend. The only person you live with day by day is your self. Please start healing from within, cook healthily, stay in shape, watch a good movie, read a good book, study something etc. These all make you gain confidence in your self. I know this is true. It's not just words to…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/20 08:16 AM
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Thank you. Speaking about this and letting it out of my mind has made me think about how much of my life is lived via virtual reality. I put all these emotions in it, create all sorts of scenarios and explanations that in the end have no meaning. I actually do not want someone who just watches me out of delight and nothing more. I will stop this chain of thoughts and live more in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 08:43 PM
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Best of luck. Also, I HATE dating apps. For me, it's like you, as a person, don't exist. You only exist as a profile. I know some people have found their husbands/wives via these apps, but I am a bit more old-fashioned and skeptical about them. I think they are great if you are looking for casual sex (which most men are), but if you want a serious relationship, it's really tough. Real life is so much better, although things don't happen at that speed. It is just my opinion and experience.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 03:58 PM
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Well, some people just do it out of courtesy. But actions speak more than words. The first move a guy makes when interested in a woman, especially online, is ask for her number. He wants to get her out of there. That way the conversation becomes a bit more intimate and personal than on the dating app. Also, I feel that a guy who is very interested in a woman does not leave a gap of silence lasting several days. He will reach out to her. There is a chance I am not right. Like he is super super bu…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 03:30 PM
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The fact that he didn't ask for your number is a bit suspicious to me. That is the first move - asking for your number. Sorry, I'd say he is not that interested.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 03:22 PM
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I'm wondering if he doesn't make the move because I am in a different country right now and he might think it is pointless to approach me in a romantic way given the distance. But then I should probably stop making scenarios.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 02:56 PM
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I suppose that might be the case. However, I only look if I am super interested in the person. It made me wonder about him...he can't be bored all the time and be among the first to view it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 01:29 PM
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Ohhh, I feel so stupid. My imagination works at its fullest in the virtual world. Time to wake up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 01:14 PM
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Yeah, that's what I thought. It's been a year and it's probably him thinking I am nice to look at. Guess it's time to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 09:31 AM
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Some of us have (pathetic) problems and no one to talk to about them in real life. If I can receive advice on my own (pathetic) problem on this sub I appreciate and identify with, then I will resort to it and you can fuck right off.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 06:52 AM
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I think I gave him a hint by liking one of his stories. He also has hundreds of friends on Facebook (due to his career), it's hard for me to think he watches all stories. Buy, yeah, maybe I am just over reacting to it and should let it go. No point in keep wondering.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/20 06:41 AM
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I am thankful I am beautiful and have inherited very good genes. Also, that I made good money until now, 26 years old, renovated two houses, looked after my mom, grandmother and brother. Thankful that during this pandemic I did not lose my job. Thankful I believe in God and that He helps me a lot. And last but not least, thankful I stay true to myself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/20 05:42 PM
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If you look at it from a religious approach, specifically Christianity, then yes, every man has a woman who is created from his very flesh. God created Adam, the man who is to rule and reign on Earth, but seeing that it wasn't good for man to be on his own, he created Eve from his very flesh to be his support throughout life. I personally do believe we have that one person who be 100% connect with. I mean look around, is it that easy to find someone who can truly understand you? I don't think so…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 10:46 AM
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Yes, I think sometimes it does physically and mentally hurt, but I find ways to fight back. I have my sports that I enjoy, books, immediate family, money, all this to keep me going. If I still were single past 30, I'd probably just give up entirely and focus 100% on everything else. Like studying intensely for a change in career, travelling, caring for others, reading all the books I have never read, watching all the films I have never seen up until now, dedicating myself even more to people. It…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/20 07:49 AM
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Oh, thank you so much. You are so kind. I am spiritual and do pray to God to show me my husband. It may be a matter of time. If it is, I'll use this time to improve myself further.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 09:15 PM
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Oh, I really do hope so.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 07:18 PM
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I agree. You cannot make your life dependent on a man. My mom had a successful career in Economics, she worked in high-top banks and made loads of money. However, one day she got ill and has been suffering since then from this illness I won't name. My father abandoned her and eventually past away. If it hadn't been for her successful career, we (me and my brother) would have been destroyed. She was able to continue to work thanks to her awesome skills and experience. This was a tragic case, but …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 06:44 PM
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Thank you for your lengthy post. You are right. How am I supposed to settle if I am always on the go. But at least I somehow tried to open myself up a bit to life itself. I mean the alternative would've been just keep the same routine. I feel so full of life and wanted to do all this stuff... I cannot at the moment settle. I have to work like a maniac to put money to the side, to secure my future...all this shit. My house was almost falling apart, my brother had no one to support him in school, …
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 05:31 PM
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Sorry, I profoundly disagree. As soon as I find out someone is in a relationship, I lose interest. This is to protect myself from unnecessary drama and suffering and also out of courtesy for the other woman. I wouldn't want women hanging around to my potential husband/partner just to test the waters, so I don't do it either.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 05:12 PM
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Well done. Stories like yours are inspiring. These past two years I have done loads of stuff that made me happpy. Picked up new hobbies like skiing, met new people, wine tasting, travelled SO much, stood on my two feet, felt very happy. I am capable of making myself hapoy. But I cannot refrain from thinking time has come to share this happiness with another person. My mind is in a conflictual state right now that I cannot ignore.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 04:16 PM
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Thank you so much. I am actually a competitve and ambitious person. I either do something 100% and turn it into a success or not do it at all. It's like once I am onto something, I naturally just fight and do it the best I can. Whatever that is, be it running on the treadmill or looking after a house. I suppose I have to find the middle way.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/20 03:57 PM
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Yes, you are right. Switching between them is key. I don't actually think you can be 100% an introvert or an extrovert. There are definitely shades in between. I, for one, have days in which I just want to be by myself in a remote area and that is how I recharge myself. Other times I find that I crave lots of people around me. Like today, at the mall, I felt so good with crowds all around me. So it's definitely not one or the either.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 08:58 PM
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Good for you! I've noticed I feel and behave more feminine when wearing skirts or dresses. Also when caring for others in need and refraining from judging other people.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 08:56 PM
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I have noticed that women attract men based firstly on their looks. Specifically, a hot body. You can be an introvert or an extrovert, doesn't really matter. Men are visual. They like to see a fit body and a nice face.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 07:40 PM
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I don't see any problem with being reserved & quiet. I actually see that as highly feminine - a bit on the mysterious & intriguing side. I know guys who appreciate this type. I don't think there is any set in stone answer for this. You can ask 100 people and they'll all give you their preferences. The only advice I believe in is to be genuine and yourself. If reserved and quiet is what you are, own it!
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/20 06:32 PM
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Think deeply about him during the day, focus on sending him good thoughts and pray that he has a not so stressful day. This will connect you to him. I think this is also a case when that cliche "You have to like your own company" comes into play. So try and think what you can do to look better for him at the end of the day, perhaps go out for a run, cook something etc.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/20 08:01 AM
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Yes, I lost a lot of weight to the point my periods stopped altogether for like 5 months. I used to think there was no point men started being super interested in me since I didn't ovulate and couldn't childbear. The only way to reverse it was to eat more, but that meant weight gain and I absolutely didn't want that either. Very tough.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/20 07:31 AM
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Yes. And I also think the perfect partner for you is a gift. Life's gift you just have to also work to attract in your life. That is how I explain that electric wave you feel, that sparkle and that feeling you absolutely know he is the one. When I actively search for one, as in online dating or social media in general or whatever else, it just feels forced and I don't get that divine energy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:58 PM
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I am sorry you feel this way. Your feelings are valid though. I think you should approach this situation very tactfully and slowly. Day by day just try and change the routine a little bit so that you have some control. Also, I really think having children changes your relationship for the better. Sounds like you have it all, a successful husband and you looking after the house (even though minimal at this point), so children could be welcomed. I am sorry if this was too personal to touch and I w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/20 08:02 AM
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Yes, it is OK to leave him. Another woman might think he is amazing and have that chemistry with him. You totally need passion. You need that spark. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 05:40 PM
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I personally like to see my veins, particularly arm veins. Makes me feel lean.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 08:52 PM
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Wow. Congratulations! All the best.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 04:56 PM
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Oh, I got this one wrong then. Can you please explain how it actually works? Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 03:38 PM
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Men tell me I'm insanely attractive and yet very few approach me. And the ones that do, I do not like. The ones I very much like I find out later are in relationships already because I suppose good quality men are already taken. So I'm depressed. I mean I get men jump into random conversations with me like at the supermarket or whatever, but nothing comes out of it. Some days I just wanna hide away forever, cause I don't kbkw what's wrong with me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 03:06 PM
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Thank you very much.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 10:12 AM
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I think some people are emotionally damaged if they seek out a bond with someone who is already taken. It's like they like to suffer, they like to be the victim. Or they like a bit of fun on the side without the hard work of a LTR and try their luck. I just cannot comprehend why someone would express their interest on people who are already taken. The minute I find out someone I like is taken, that's it, I'm 100% out and any emotions whatsoever instantly die off. In terms of your perceived value…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/20 08:01 AM
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Ha ha, that's OK. You actually got me thinking now. This nickname might not work in my own benefit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 10:57 PM
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Well, if he turns out to be an ideal husband too after paying me 1 milion dollars for sleeping with him, then what a jackpot!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 10:56 PM
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It's Davidoff! One word - a brand of cigarettes.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 08:24 PM
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Haha, good one! Everybody has their price? If I were married with my ideal husband, I wouldn't sleep with anybody for all the money in the world. If someone pays me 1 milion dollars now to sleep with them (as I am single and no responsabilities), well...
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 06:25 PM
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I think many women have asked the same questions you have asked yourself. I will be completely honest here and say I too have thought about it because apparently it has loads of advantages. But only apparently. So I am a really attractive female (according to what people tell me) with little luck in the dating world. So a few years ago (when I was 23) I thought to myself, hey, why wouldn't you become a prostitute and get paid for sex? If I am not getting anywhere in the dating world, might as we…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 06:08 PM
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I love this sub. Congrats to everyone for their accomplishments! I am proud of what I have achieved in the last 5 years or so (26 now). Completely renovated two houses, looked after my mum, younger brother and grandmother, helped my brother with anything he needed during highschool, travelled quite a bit, got a degree, lost my so-called baby weight and have been in the best physical shape ever, put some money to the side, found out exactly who I am, kept sticking to my traditional values.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 08:19 AM
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It does matter. After all, I will be intimate with that man, I have to feel attracted to him. However, it is not only physical traits per se that make him attractive in my case. Sometimes I found that I started looking at a man with different eyes once I discovered his sense of humour or intelligence.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 08:15 AM
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Extremely disrespectful, a major turnoff and a killer of love. Would dump his ass 100% and not put up with it. One of the things I admire in a man is his control of his basic instincts. It's hard I know, especially for men as they are more visual. I understand the urge to look, I myself sometimes look at other hot women, but IN FRONT OF ME??? No way.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 08:12 AM
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It seems like you are living on two different levels in this relationship. On one hand, you want it to progress into marriage, on the other hand, he doesn't. I think that this discrepancy will lead in time to frustration and possibly arguements. You have to take some time to analyse your thoughts and make a decision, because it seems that at this moment in time, you are not on the same page and are not working together to reach the same goal. This can make the relationship very shaky. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 08:06 AM
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I don't shave my facial hair. The only hairs I remove from my face are those from my eyebrows and my upper lip hair. The latter grows so fast!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/20 07:07 AM
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I am sorry you went through this. I am sending you my best thoughts. Please protect yourself in the future from anybody who mistreats you. The way to do it is to ask yourself what you clearly and firmly won't accept from men and stick to those rules. Under no circumstances bend those rules and accept him back - that is just asking for further disrespect. The way you treat yourself is the way others will treat you. I know there is this fearful thought us women have that if we don't please a guy, …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 02:33 PM
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I try to respect every single person no matter what, be it a man, a woman or anything else. I wouldn't insult anyone. However, I cannot find attractive a man who earns less than me, isn't smarter than me (not necessarily book smart, but street smart I'd say), is shorter than me and who cannot control their basic instincts. By the latter I mean, for example, a man who stares (not just subtlety looks, but stares) at other women when with me.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/20 08:45 AM
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REALLY not attracted to sounds like hell! I mean remaining a spinster sounds like hell to me as well, but spending my life with a man whom I am REALLY not attracted to...no way.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 09:34 PM
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I think it is a subconscious mechanism of self-defense in order to protect myself from getting hurt again. I had some pretty intense but painful experiences in the past, so now I am overly protective of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 02:25 PM
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Thank you for encouraging me. You are right, I have to expose myself. I have problems with this at the moment. For some reason, I always had this self-protective aura about me and never let anyone too close. I am aware of it working against my interests and I hope to be able to minimise it.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 01:51 PM
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I will never approach a man. In terms of appearance, men consider me very attractive. I put an effort into staying fit, looking clean, nice and stylish. I am friendly, appreciate a good sense of humour and like small talk, as well as deeper conversations. I don't know what else I am supposed to do.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 11:37 AM
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I don't approach guys. I only had one guy offer me a marriage deal when I was 21 and still in Uni. He said he wanted children from me. I was surprised, I said I didn't yet have an income. He said I didn't have to worry about that, as he was willing to provide. I rejected his marriage offer, because I don't know what happened to him all of a sudden he said I should accept him having casual affairs every now and then and other stuff. I thought raising a child in those circumstances wasn't healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 11:01 AM
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I don't mind about college degrees too much or even physical appearance (as long as he isn't shorter than me), but he does have to be a Christian. The foundation of my entire life is Christian, the way I live my life is based on Christian values and teachings, I am a practitioner of my faith so I really don't see how I would be compatible long-term with someone who isn't. I feel they won't understand me and we'd have major conflicting opinions in time.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 08:43 AM
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I don't think I would say that upfront, I have some manners. But I would make ot clear that I have strong traditional values and want to live according to my traditional gender role. I don't know who my ideal husband is. You are right, he could be anywhere. I am keeping an open mind, but I do also have a certain pattern by now in my head. I mean I do know what I am looking for. While I do think life offers us unpredictable things, I do also want him to be a Christian, for example. Otherwise, I d…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 08:19 AM
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Personally, I think all those traits are masculine and I would prefer him to be like that in the outside world. I don't want him to be aggressive with me, of course not, but I expect him to be competitive in the outside world. I suppose I meant fragile as in pshysically fragile compared to his force. Personally I find it a turn on to feel that a man is pshysically stronger than I am and to feel that force. I think a woman's indisputable force is patience. A man lacks patience. I cannot tell you …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 07:49 AM
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I think you reached some very important points in your text, such as what if the man becomes ill or the red flag thing. I do have an academic background and the brains to further develop it in case something goes wrong with the man. It's not that I am a lazy person waiting for someone to provide for me. In fact, up until now (26), I have been working very hard to provide for my immediate family (mum, younger brother and grandmother) for 5 years now. I renovated two houses and put some money asid…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 07:13 AM
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Thank you. You are right. I am living a very withdrawn life from society and I don't think I can find someone in these circumstances. I guess I need to open up a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/20 07:06 AM
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Thank you! All the best for you too.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 08:41 PM
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I'm originally from an Eastern European country where these traditional values are more encouraged than in the UK - the country in which I have been living for the past 5 years. I feel I have no chance getting married here and living the life I want to, as my value seems to solely rely on how much money I am making or what I do for a living. I don't like this. I will move nack to my original country hopefully next year and dream about finding my future husband. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 08:32 PM
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I have noticed men value a nice body rather than what a face looks like. I mean, if you are pretty but fat, they won't really be interested. But if you are fit and have an uninteresting face, they would 100% be interested. While our face type and bone structure is not in our control, our bodies totally are. You can change your body and look fit and slim and I am sure you'll get treated with more respect. Add some feminine clothes to that body and I see no problems at all.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:57 PM
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I wish you the best. I think you made the right decision. Your post made me smile.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 07:22 PM
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To be honest, I think most women look better without makeup. The only ones that look good with makeup are the ones who use natural colours that blend in so well with their skin and complexion that you don't really notice the makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 08:18 PM
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I would love to have 4 children
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 08:12 PM
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Maybe you are trying to subconsciously protect yourself from predators.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/20 08:11 PM
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