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Dude, I get you man. But all I'm saying is this. Let's say because of some fluke experience in 7th grade you grew up believing that you are bad with girls. And you reinforced that reality for the next 10 years. Do you honestly, really, believe that the belief that "I suck with girls" will serve you better than believing "I'm great with girls!" It's not at all about changing your values/morals. It's just about illuminating limiting beliefs, shitty beliefs, and especially beliefs that you may have…
/r/seduction11/02/18 03:51 PM
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Thanks! I will add these to my read list as well.
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:45 PM
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Good luck man. This is all so simple but man, I have to say from experience, it can really affect your quality of life..
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:44 PM
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In regards to your first part, I agree. You don't believe "just because". That's why I say, pick a belief (girls love me) then go out and get massive reference experience. Ignore all the "rejections" and amp the fuck out of all the good experiences that honest to go, in reality, show you that girls really like you. I can't help you with the arrogant part. I will sound conceited saying this, but arrogance is not a problem for me. I have literally 78 other problems that I continually work on and I…
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:38 PM
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Well two things. The first is that I immediately cut out all the bullshit. If I ever caught myself saying "you suck with girls" or "girls don't like you" I immediately stopped that thought loop and didn't give it any more fuel, so to speak. In terms of new beliefs, they're ridiculously simple. They're simple by design, because when I'm at the club and a million things are happening, I don't want to have to think too much and try to remember some convoluted affirmation. So up to this point they'v…
/r/seduction10/02/18 01:48 AM
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Well a focus in the community is obviously getting the cute girl and I was trying to point out that it's not a solution to all problems and can cause its own problems as well. It's like I think most guys would love it if a model approached them and asked them to be their boyfriend. But if you don't feel entitled to her you may end up feeling resentful, jealous or insecure even if she's amazing and loves you. That's the point I wanted to make, I guess I wasn't that effective in doing so.
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:48 PM
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You may have a valid point.
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:45 PM
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Bad picture, she's cuter than that. Also, she was cute by my own standards. I like super skinny chicks.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:42 AM
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Assuming it wasn't happy in the first place is wrong though. I was thrilled when we started dating, it was only after a month or two that I started to feel anxious. What have I failed to appreciate about relationships?
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:41 AM
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What was awful though? Was the article itself awful because it failed to convey a point? Or do you mean the mindset was awful?
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:40 AM
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What about this makes it seem delusional? Is it my writing style?
/r/seduction10/07/17 12:30 AM
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It's not really a technique though, it's more of a way of being. And a vast majority of girls like it. Your comment reminds me of the people who say "pickup only works on weak-minded insecure girls". Well no, it works on all girls because it's not a trick or gimmick, it's a way of being. Just as breaking rapport is a signal to the girl of who you are.
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:50 PM
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It's 100% serious. Of course you need emotional intelligence to do it. Presumably that's who this community tailors to, guys with emotional intelligence?
/r/seduction14/05/17 04:48 PM
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Told a Swedish girl to go back to her own fucking country and that she's taking our jobs by being here. Love it :D
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:09 PM
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I would start by just finding the one venue that you really, really like. That place where you naturally enjoy yourself. Go there and don't think about girls, just have a good time. And as you're feeling good you'll see a cute girl and because you're feeling good you'll just naturally want to talk to her. Also, lower your criteria for what you "need" to have fun. As in: "Oh man, this venue has air in it! That's so cool, haha I love it" or whatever lol. I actually wrote an article about this, may…
/r/seduction06/05/17 04:44 PM
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Yeah the idea of reference experience not result is massive. As soon as you "try" to get laid, things go to hell in my experience.. Approach anxiety, not sure what there really is to say. Go out as much as possible, approach as much as possible even if you're scared shitless, and eventually it becomes manageable. Not really much to it.
/r/seduction06/05/17 04:38 PM
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Once or twice a month I'll do a cold read using something like this method and it's so spot on that the girl actually gets a bit freaked out and gets on her guard. Fun stuff :D
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:53 PM
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Haha the word smitten is what makes it so funny.. Having fun in the club is the best way to go! For me it's fun to see how sultry I can make my voice and how many ridiculous things I can say without offending her.
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:11 PM
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A girl I met two weeks ago suggested that for our date we get ice cream then go watch the sunset by the water. That sounded pretty cool to me! Definitely way more interesting than going to a movie or meeting up at a bar. I ended up flaking on her :D but I'm definitely stealing this idea for future use.
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:08 PM
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For me, getting over AA simply came down to approaching about 2,000 women. It's not like it ever just suddenly stopped either, it just got easier and easier. I mean in the end it really doesn't make sense to have fear of approaching a girl. The worst that's ever happened is she tells me to leave. Rationally speaking I should be more worried about walking through rush hour traffic in NYC than talking to a woman at the bar.
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:07 PM
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I liked the 48 Laws but I haven't read Seduction yet, I definitely should though..
/r/seduction14/04/17 06:18 AM
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Especially if you let her out of your sight. She goes to the bathroom, on her way back some guy will grab her. Obviously if she likes you than you can go in and usually blow him out, but it takes vigilance.
/r/seduction14/04/17 06:17 AM
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Man I respectfully couldn't disagree more. In a club there's crazy shit happening, people everywhere, girls pulling friends away, you can't hear shit, people are drunk and multiple guys may be trying to hit on your girl. I'm not saying daytime is a walk in the park but I think you don't have to deal with as much.
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:29 PM
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If I had to choose only one of these it would be Relentless, because I think a big issue for many guys is just getting to the club and doing approaches week in and week out without faltering. Game can only be learned in the club and in the end it's pretty damn simple: the more time you put into the more results you get.
/r/seduction13/04/17 08:06 PM
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Go out and say anything to any girl. It doesn't matter what but you have to start somewhere. And hell, at this point your going to make big improvements fast. Do you lift? Its like going to the gym, it doesn't matter what you do as in the beginning as long as you go. Once you start to lift more, you'll figure out what works and you use and build on it to get stronger. Its the same thing with girls. You talk to one, you use that experience to meet another and it snowballs into momentum. You could…
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:22 PM
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Hell no its not gonna be easy. But you could trainwreck and still make it fun!
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:16 PM
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Oh man I had a shit night two nights ago too. I talked to two girls, and then stood around for two hours. Felt so low value I sucked but its whatever because it gets better.
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:16 PM
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I usually say shes the fourth girl. That number never really changes and I don't think about it much
/r/seduction03/06/13 02:01 PM
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People have told me I'm monotone. I still get laid. Maybe it makes it harder. I don't know. Or really care. I feel like its one of those things if you can own it, who cares
/r/seduction03/06/13 02:00 PM
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I would recommend The Physical Game by Ozzie. I mean, the title says it all.
/r/seduction01/05/13 05:34 AM
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Be fun and interesting. The more girls I talk to, the more attracted I become to girls with cool personalities that jive well with me versus just looks. Obviously the ideal is a beautiful girl with a great personality, but if you can't have both you can ABSOLUTELY get a better guy by being fun, attentive, and just unique a little bit. I instantly get intrigued when I start talking to a girl that seems different from most.
/r/seduction01/05/13 05:33 AM
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All you want is a girl to show interest? You have to want more than that. You have to want something above girls. I know man, its hard. Trust me I know but its how it goes. The harder you cling to this idea that a girl is all that is going to make you happy, the less likely you are to attain it. Its so overstated imo but try to find something else to motivate you like some hobbies or get some cool friends and just socialize. At work the other night I had way more fun bantering with my three good…
/r/seduction01/05/13 05:30 AM
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Keep it chill and just be fun. So incredibly vauge I know but even if someone on here gives you the most perfect message you won't be able to continue the smooth flow. Say what you want to say. That way if you screwed up, YOU screwed up and learned for next time. Just my thoughts
/r/seduction03/04/13 03:36 AM
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I dicked around blowing it halfheartedly with girls for about two years. After that I did a 45 day challenge, went out almost every night and talked to some 400 girls over the summer. Came back to campus and got laid with a girl who I found very attractive. It didn't work out with her so I hooked up with her coworker. Since then, no girls in my life. For about four months that is. Not stressed though, this summer I'm going to hit it hard and make progress. Fuck man, the by far the hardest part w…
/r/seduction03/04/13 03:33 AM
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I don't. I fucking wallow in that shit until the emotional pain sucks so bad that I just say fuck it and forget about it. Problemo, solved.
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:20 AM
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I say bollocks to the hugs. Just say hey, and be chill. Physicality aint jack shit if you pull it off creepy (eg needy). If your asking this question then you got some stuff to learn. YOU WILL learn it, but itll just take a bit. I would focus way more on just saying hey, GOOD EYE CONTACT, laid back manner, fun vibe. All of that and THEN worry about physicality eg hugs and what not
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:56 AM
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Well, RSDnation. I mean yeah, you nailed it. For whatever reason I get emails from Brad something or other but I mostly ignore them. I check out /r/rsd and Rsdnation when i need my fix. Tyler and Julien, those crazy fucks always bring a smile to my face
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:54 AM
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I've gotten laid, and I can do it again
/r/seduction27/03/13 04:06 AM
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I would say that I am more or less an Alpha male. I do my own shit, I have a pretty decent social circle and I'm almost always in a great state of mind. That being said, I think this article is great. Its cool to show another side to girls. Its ok to be human. Girls are human to and they don't expect a robotic attraction machine from guys. Well, maybe supermodels do but I don't think most people on Seddit are actually in serious contention for hooking up with real dime pieces on a regular basis.…
/r/seduction15/03/13 11:48 PM
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The Game is more or less the Bible of game, but its important to realize its outdated. When I read it four years ago, I was dismayed because of the saturation of Neil's tricks and magic and girls recognizing what he was up to. I pondered in dismay, is this the end of game? Quite an alarming thought for an aspiring pua. Thankfully, stuff has come quite a way from there. I don't necessarily agree with OP in saying that the "key" to body language is appearing disinterested at first. Yes, that can b…
/r/seduction15/03/13 11:38 PM
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Texting is a fun art. I think a three text limit is pretty solid before the call. I like to text more, which is probably not the best thing but it works too. On /r/rsd there is a post about texting from Brad that I found pretty interesting. Not sure if it would help you out but I liked it. Props for calling, its not something I really do yet
/r/seduction03/03/13 08:07 PM
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Pretty much gold. In My Big TOE Campbell says something along the lines of start going in any direction and whatever that direction is, your right. If you start taking action you will start to see where you can do better and how to improve and all that. Its the people who sit at home all day looking for the best way to start doing something that never get anywhere. I know that /r/rsd posts lots of semi amusing pictures and quotes about taking action and not regretting stuff and stuff of that vei…
/r/seduction03/03/13 08:00 PM
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Kensington Market! Thats it, not Kings park
/r/seduction21/02/13 07:04 PM
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Hmm whats the one crazy hippie spot? Kings Park or something like that I think. Its pretty much downtown. That would be a cool spot to check out. Yes, its overpopulated with hippies but youll also probably meet younger people who are into interesting shit (and pot) but youll also probably meet people who have more going for them then being able to roll a Hollywood joint. I would say also joining clubs. Toronto, I'm sure, has tons of things going on. Find a topic that interests you and find a gro…
/r/seduction21/02/13 07:02 PM
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Fuck man, I know that GOTTA GET LAID mindset. It sucks. Its like, I want to offer value to girls and be attractive and all these great things but I still just want to get some fucking pussy. You gotta man up and push your comfort zone to fix your issues. Whats comfortable for you might be uncomfortable for me and vice versa. Like at this point, I am pretty much comfortable approaching girls anywhere. It doesnt phase me that terribly much. Asking on a date, still ok. Staying in interactions for m…
/r/seduction21/02/13 05:29 AM
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Subjective. To me, mania is more I have energy and feel on top of the world. You done drugs? Mania is molly. I can do anything. I will do anything. State is more chilled out. Its like ice. I can feel it coursing through my veins. Everything I do is for a reason and that reason is a good one. State is like coke. Yes you feel good, but whats almost more important is that you don't have any inklings of feeling bad. Every decision is the right one. Fuck second guessing. I am a man. Not advising you …
/r/seduction21/02/13 05:23 AM
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Just be yourself. Well, my old me was quite and introverted. The new me is more outgoing. Which is the real me? I shape what I want my real self to be which is by no means easy some of the times. Your definitely on the right track with ditching all canned crap though. I would say check out /r/rsd they are all about the natural, building confidence idea.
/r/seduction19/02/13 04:12 PM
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Shit man It was just an example of like how if the conversation ends. No need to go all hellapalooza on it
/r/seduction16/02/13 07:18 PM
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take me with you. ill ride in your suitcase
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:52 PM
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Personally, Fountainhead is my favorite but Shrugged is a hell of novel as well. I can only wonder when Rand gets dissed so much in popular media whether people actually read her books and are judging them from a knowledgeable position or more likely they heard there exboyfriends crackwhore mom say that Rand will be the end of the world and they took that as gold
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:11 PM
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Yes. In my personal, subjective experience, the more I text a girl the bigger the chance I have to screw something up. Keep it short and simple. Confirm date and if at all possible you be the one who does not text her back. I mean, sometimes its whatever like if you say OK and its obviously the end of the conversation but in general I try to leave my texts with her texting me last so she is thinking about me and how I am one of the rare guys who doesnt text her till she finally decides to just s…
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:08 PM
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Cold approach can really suck balls at first like you said. The chode brain dying is a hell of an experience. After time though it deffinitely does get quite a bit easier. I'm about where your at. After several years of college I am getting the type of girls I like. Not stunners but not fat ugos either. And almost important to me is that I am CHOOSING my friends. I am not at the whim of whoever I end up meeting somewhere or whatever. I choose cool people who stimulate and challenge me and chill …
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:50 AM
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I'm in class so I had to watch it on mute but I laughed anyways Cool
/r/seduction15/02/13 12:46 AM
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I think this is an awfully cool idea. I wish I could transport you to my place and hang out for a week to see this in practice. That not being the case, I'll keep your ideas in mind.
/r/seduction14/02/13 10:30 PM
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In the future, paragraphs are very nice. The reason you probably did not get any responses is because nobody wants to read one big block of text its very annoying.
/r/seduction14/02/13 10:29 PM
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Sounds like you have a pretty cool situation. All I could really add is leave on a high note. Like start flirting with her, get in kind of close where she thinks stuff might happen then just turn around and walk away. Todd at rsd basically runs this as his entire game. He pulls away from kisses and does take away's on high points and gets the girl to chase him.
/r/seduction14/02/13 10:27 PM
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Solid write up. Wish I had known about it before. Rsdnation can be a troll convention sometimes but other times there is really good shit going on
/r/seduction14/02/13 09:50 PM
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Yeah for sure. Its my favorite book of all time. The beggining "Howard Roark Laughed" Sets the tone for the entire novel
/r/seduction14/02/13 08:58 PM
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Shit. I've been going out and talking to girls and doing things that make me feel nervous but good afterwards. I have been making steady progress and am very happy where I am at and yet can see the huge ladders I still have yet to climb. Fuck all that. r/malefashionadvice is going to be my salvation. Perhaps they will tell me to get jeans without a hole in the back pocket. Throw away my three year old t-shirts. Buy Timberlands that don't look like a dwarf wore them into battle. Buy Tennis shoes …
/r/seduction14/02/13 03:13 AM
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I would reccomend starting to really push your comfort zone. That means hitting up girls in situations you find uncomfortable. You grow by killing your old self. On bootcamp I did some sets that really just about fried my brain but afterwards it was like, oh yeah ok. And I grew alot. My comfort zone is totally ok with chatting up random people. So for me to push it I need to go even farther. Its pretty subjective. Basically, if you get nervous thinking about it, do it
/r/seduction12/02/13 08:13 PM
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What everybody is saying Fountainhead The way of the superior man The physical game Conversationally Speaking Power of now theres a list somewhere on /r/rsd but I think I got most of them anyways. I've read every book there and can vouch for them all as being outstanding
/r/seduction12/02/13 08:10 PM
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Nah man thats totally chill. As long as your ok with creating a good conversation do it up. You can totally lead from there to hey lets sit in this grass here, kiss her and start making out and rolling around in the grass. Girls care way more about how fun you are then what you actually do.
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:33 AM
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Ite yeah so your pretty lucky. Its fifteen fucking degrees where I'm at
/r/seduction11/02/13 06:02 AM
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Its all the same stuff. You dont change as a person, you can convey value no matter where you open her. reddit.com/r/rsd just posted something about opening up anywhere. I only watched a second of it but it seemed cool. For yoga or something I would almost say thats not a good place to open because maybe she does not want to talk. I do chi kung which is in the same ball park as yoga and i don't want to talk to anyone while I am doing it.
/r/seduction11/02/13 05:53 AM
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This is somewhat general but I LOVE stuff where you can move. Like mini golf for example. When you can move around you can lead and its way easier to get physical. If you take her to dinner you can't really get physical or lead if things are going sour. Or maybe get some food on the street and walk around, Idk if you live somewhere where its usually warm or not. But yeah basically I try to set stuff up where its easier to get a bit physical
/r/seduction11/02/13 05:52 AM
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Good shit man. It feels soooooo good to push through this and move on. Fuck AA its so stupid and unnecessary. Life is short. I want to get the most out of it as fucking possible before I die. Fuck the comfort zone.
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:29 PM
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For me, just another girl is a very solid concept. Everyone is just fucking human, just because she has some special genetics does not mean she is some sort of amazing queen of awesome. I think Tyler talked about how when guys talk to hot girls then tend to get styfled and unemotional just when they need to get more open and projective.
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:27 PM
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This is a pretty good
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:12 PM
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Because he annoyed me. Thats all
/r/seduction10/02/13 06:45 AM
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It really does. Theres a couple of posts about that on reddit.com/r/rsd and also a video where ozzie talks about losing the porn. I know when I stop jacking off everything in my life tends to get better. Even motivation to do stuff goes up. Sometimes jacking off can almost be like smoking a bowl. At least for, Idk if other people feel the same or not
/r/seduction10/02/13 01:08 AM
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Thats the guy! Gawd I wanted to smack his face... IDkk man he might be a lost cause lol
/r/seduction09/02/13 06:05 PM
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Just worked it out and got over it. There's not other way to put it. I found myself observing social situations and analyzing the fuck outa them thinking I was cool instead of taking part in them. It was so incredibly lame I think back on it and want to puke a bit but Its all in the past.
/r/seduction09/02/13 06:04 PM
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Nah I don't think its all that newbish it just is what it is. Pretty damn cool your into all this at 17. I would say this though, actually practicing all this and beeing social is paramount. NLP and whatnot is like the frosting on the cake, its not the cake. Yeah NLP is cool but your never going to be able to just straight NLP yourself into a cool ass dude around girls and fun guys. You have to get out and be social and then throw some NLP on top just as a bonus
/r/seduction09/02/13 03:44 PM
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Your just going to have to find a way to approach. That is paramount. Booze free is totally the way to go. Drinking alcohol to get with girls is a short term mating strategy if there ever was one. Glad you quit, its a good move. Yeah, like I said approach, approach, approach and everything will sort itself out. There is pretty much no other way
/r/seduction09/02/13 03:42 PM
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It is totally worth it. What else are you going to do with your time? The first time I watched the Blueprint it was a real eye opener. You know that part where Tyler talks about how some part of it can fuck you up more than help you? Yeah well that happened to me. I spent a year in this really weird, social phase where I thought I was super cool because I knew all this stuff but I was really a fucking idiot. I was a super newbie when that happened though so If your a bit more advanced I would no…
/r/seduction09/02/13 03:39 PM
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Perfect. Pick out a bar close to wherever this place is and your gold
/r/seduction08/02/13 04:29 PM
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I took one with RSD with Brad. You can check his out his blog here http://www.rsdnation.com/brad/blog Basically its going out with him Friday night, Saturday night and then meeting Sunday to go over stuff and a bit of daygame. You'll be forced into all sorts of over the top situations that seem hellish at the time but oh so rewarding after you do them. Most memorable example, sitting down at a table with four seated girls who were talking and introducing myself. Mah god I thought I was going to …
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:14 PM
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Yes. Its totally fucking normal. Take what you want out of life. She ALWAYS has the power to say no and tell you to leave so why worry about it
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:11 PM
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Nooo to apologizing. I would wager that "I thought we were going to watch Netflix" was a shittest and that if you could have plowed through that you could have gotten laid. If I had been in that situation, I'm not saying I could have gotten through it but I would have said something like. We will in a minute and kissed her or completely ignored her, or changed the subject. Don't take anything she says too seriously.
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:10 PM
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Take a bootcamp. Seriously though. I think in your situation it would be well worth it. Your going to be forced into approaching situations where you are deathly afraid and then after you actually do it, youll realize its not that bad at all. After I took a bootcamp, talking to one harmless girl in class is pretty easy.
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:07 PM
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Chicks dig them because it makes them look really tan. A solid investment
/r/seduction08/02/13 02:09 PM
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Mmmm this is something I am just starting to get. Like I was always piss poor with body language so I read some book by an x-fbi agent literally like four years ago about body language. It helped me to start pick up on obvious stuff but its only been in the last month that I have really started to develop the spider vision. Like head tilts and the difference six inches can make and slight brushes and just crazy cool shit like that. You know what actually helps quite a bit is what she is saying. …
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:50 AM
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For me, the right way was to incorporate it fully and also to let it have its place. Like pickup is not my life. My life is going to school and making music. BUT at the same time I also am always practicing "pickup" and making decisions that will help me with it. Idk how you still live with your parents man. I would have literally gone insane and lived on the street. Freedom to me is so fucking paramount. I mean looket, you could find some shit shack to live in for like five hundred a month righ…
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:46 AM
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Why yes, you sure can. Way of the Superior Man and then The Enlightened Sex Manual, both by David Deida. Can attest that both of them are excellent books. Now you could just get the Sex Manual but Way of the Superior man has some stuff in it that relates to sex that is not in the manual. Either way, awesome stuff. Just starting to experiment with full body orgasms. Spoiler, they are real. Kinda blew my mind the first time I really realized that. reddit.com/r/rsd also has a book list with some go…
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:42 AM
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Yeah you pretty much nailed it. Girls love sex. So yeah, if your making out, you lead to the bedroom, pull her down on your bed, make out more, rub her clit over pants, kiss down her neck, take shirt off, kiss around boobs, take bra off all while rubbing clit, kiss titties for a while, kiss down farther, take pants off, take underwear off, finger for a while, take out dick, condom on and then bammmmmmm f sex. Thats pretty much about as cut and dry as you can make sex. There are tons of variables…
/r/seduction08/02/13 07:39 AM
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lol no it would be pretty damn funny imo
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:50 AM
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Doesnt matter if you had 20 classes hit it up and report back
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:24 AM
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Idk man I still say no go but you have everything to gain and nothing to lose so do it up. I blew it with a girl where I have to see her three times a week in a class of 8 people its great. The awkwardness gives me about 1/4 anxiety and 3/4 fuck yeah this is funny as all hell
/r/seduction08/02/13 03:15 AM
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Son you didn't fail at all. Don't even say that. You need to see this as one big success because that's the internal reward system that will keep you approaching and approaching until your a beast who girls cheat on their boyfriends to be with. The real losers are people who don't even try
/r/seduction08/02/13 02:57 AM
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Hmmm she initiated conversation in my experience is not actually a good thing. That usually means she does not view you as a person to be sexually attracted too. She might want to be your friend but I'm pretty sure thats not what your looking for. Part of what's attractive to a women is when you talk to her first and take the chance. Its usually the girls who won't talk to you first where you stand a chance of getting laid. It sounds like this girl is a cool one and no surprise she talked to you…
/r/seduction08/02/13 02:55 AM
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Sometimes my dad says "Don't sweat the small stuff. Its all small stuff" Enjoy the hell out of life while you can, you only get one chance. Or you might come back as a duck. Either way, fun for the win
/r/seduction07/02/13 11:56 PM
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Cool, never heard of it. Heading over right now
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:39 PM
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Never stop approaching, never stop trying new things. Good post. If a person keeps going out the possibilities are endless.
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:35 PM
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I think its fine. A girl said I needed plastic surgery, I said fuck yeah will you pay for it? She laughed, shittest passed. Its whatever works best for you
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:30 PM
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It will get easier with time. I know exactly what your talking about with the awkward thing. At some point you will realize that you can just power through these things and keep them totally cool. The learning curve can be steep for this kind of thing. Like you might do all this for a while and not see much results but then suddenly stuff starts to change very rapidly. A good idea is to hang out with other cool kids and study them and see how they handle situations. This can be a great to make r…
/r/seduction07/02/13 10:27 PM
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Hmm this is interesting I can relate. Dating seems so last century doesn't it? Not saying its a bad thing by any means it just seems like random hookups are whats in right now. I would be slightly confounded in this situation too. Usually my dates either end in us hooking up or not well enough to see her again. I think the other comments are solid though
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:49 PM
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Never would have found out about meditation if Tyler had not talked about it. Also, some really good books that have changed my perceptions have come from the rsd forums. Namely My Big TOE, Millionaire Fastlane and Conversationally Speaking. Also I guess Tolle a bit too. All of this stuff has added so much to the quality of my life its insane. What about you, what have you learned?
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:39 PM
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For god sakes man don't give up!
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:34 AM
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Don't let them die :D Thats what I would say. Something a bit breaking rapport and unexpected. Think outside the box. Use everything she is expecting you to say as a perfect template for what not to say. Put these on Instagram and your dead :)
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:33 AM
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Yeah its already been said. You asked if her to kiss? Noooo she said she has a boyfriend because you did that. She was pissed you just didn't kiss her, that's what she would have found attractive.
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:30 AM
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Yeah you really can. It doesn't have to be complicated. Hey, whats up. Talk to them about the wait in line at the food court or whatever. Their just girls.
/r/seduction07/02/13 04:29 AM
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lol I hooked up with two girls at the pizza place rightt the fuck next door to where I work and it didn't really end well with either one of them now whenever I want to get food I stand outside the door to see if they are working before going in. Fucking sex has caused me to starve on the occasion god dammit
/r/seduction02/02/13 03:55 PM
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My god son you are over thinking everything. Get the fuck outside and start hitting up girls and forget about phases or anything like that. Check out Rsdnation.com too, its content is wayyyyy more about being natural than phases or any shit like that
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:52 PM
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Eye contact is a good sign. I'm a good looking guy and catch girls doing this kind of shizz to me sometimes and it sort of creeps me out lol. It must be kray being a hot girl and dealing with that kind of stuff all day er day
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:49 PM
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Oh shit I love the Russian Girls! These things happen man, you can really only correct it with time. Imagine the tenth time that you go through this exact same scenario, your not going to give a fuck like you did this time
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:48 PM
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Oh shit man French is easy as hell. Buy a book on how to speak French you can have it down in no time. I used to bitch about learning French and now after a semester of Russian I will never take Francais for granted again. Also, learn to be physical. You can pull without speaking the language. I was reading some FR a while back about a guy who pulled three times in Hong Kong in three days without knowing a lick of Chinese. He was using google translate on his phone for bare logistics and that wa…
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:45 PM
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Son chill if it works for you thats cool. Its not like I don't believe this its just more that I have internalized it at this point and its just like a fact. Not good or bad just true
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:42 PM
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Thats a tough one which is why I think you have not gotten any responses yet. Are the girls you go on dates with actually attractive? Not trying to bring you down just thinking that in general girls who turn to online dating are not the most attractive but wtf do I know
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:41 PM
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I love your attitudes. Fuck everything, do what you want. I too am on a huge campus and love daygame. I usually feel pretty boss when I'm walking around campus so it makes it easy as hell to talk to girls. You definitely stand out as well. As opposed to the fucking bar, eighteen drunk guys have already said hi to a girl, she feels like she has all the options in the world and for me personally its bleh. At some point, I will have to overcome it thats a given but for now Im with you Daygame ftw
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:38 PM
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"No I'm going nothing at all" I would say pretty damn likely she would have liked you to ask her out. Think about if your around some cool dudes who you would enjoy chilling with, thats exactly what you would say as opposed to some weirdos you would come up with some bullshit mighty fast. Congrats on numero uno. Remember, the first 2,000 don't count :)
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:36 PM
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Wow, that was thorough. I agree with what you have to say about sharing those nonverbal moments with people. Pretty awesome shit when that happens.
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:33 PM
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Sort of. Its a good thing to realize but I don't know how it helps all that much. For me, what helps more is the mindset of we are all human. Guys are guys. Girls are girls. We have more in common than we have differences. I suppose it helps me to keep from putting girls on a pedestal.
/r/seduction30/01/13 10:32 PM
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Based on what you said, what you do not need is more studying. Material is not worth jack shit if you don't take it out and apply it. Like I have read a bunch of shit about riding a motorcycle but I sure as hell am not going to be able to ride one with great ease just because of that. I have to actually do it and apply all the knowledge. Same thing here. At some point you more material might benefit you but right now you need to go out and talk to some girls! Also, don't think of it so much as p…
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:20 AM
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This is an interesting situation because while you can offer value with the concert hookups, if you do it in a not so smooth fashion it can come off as weird. Instead of having the mindset of I am going to go up to this girl and hook her up with XXX, try this instead. Walk up to cute girl thinking, first, I am going to find out if she is cool. THEN, if she is cool I will talk to her about how I can make her life more interesting. In this situation YOU are the one with value which is huge right o…
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:14 AM
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Wow that was no advice at all lol... Shit. I don't mean to sound negative just realistic. It sounds like you got the fun vibe going with her, keep it up! Don't try to force sex, it will happen all on its own or it won't. Trying to force it though just doesnt work that well
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:11 AM
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Oh fuck man I can relate. I hated being a virgin it sucked. No matter how good I did in other areas of my life there was always that lingering sense of fuck, I still have not been with a girl. The BEST possible advice I could give you is that you will probably blow it with this girl. If you have never even kissed a girl, the odds of you hooking up with this one are long. Now, I am pretty damn sure I took WAY longer than is required but before I got laid I had probably gotten anywhere from twenty…
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:09 AM
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Oh man the VOCAB part is huge! Saying Rad or Sterling or First class instead of boring Good can be the difference between nothing and some laughs. When I think about funny guys I know, they say interesting words at interesting times and its an easy thing to start doing! Thesaurus.com
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:51 AM
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