Game had a huge impact on my life, made me a better person, and really got me into self-development. For Valentine's Day my website 30 Days To X will be running an article on game and getting better with women. In the article I plan to referencing some pick up books.

Unfortunately, I'm having trouble finding good "beginner" material. The Game and Mystery Method are, in my opinion, outdated. Also, a lot of newer pick up stuff seems to be too negative. Any suggestions for good material that doesn't advocate fuzzy hates or turning into a woman hater?

P.S. I've read almost every major game guide, book on relationships, and self-help book. So it's not like I'm just finding out what's popular and throwing it on my site.