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Checkout Shortcut to Size on bodybuilding.com You will gain mass and lose fat if you do the full program, including HIT cardio at least twice a week and eat like a machine.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:30 AM
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Fuck no. Their dream is to Netflix and chill, then roll into school/work smelling like sex and text you all day. They get pissed about the booty calls only once you "Have the talk" and are "exclusive/LTR." Do what /u/stickfiguresk says and you'll be alright. Supplement with Tinder as needed.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:16 PM
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I can't disagree more. I can barely spin 2 but I decided to go for a third becuse while she's only a 7 she's way more fun to talk to. While it's kind of maximum effort I expect them to not fuck around my back, period. The IDGAF/Dread game is all it takes. My game is shit, my looks are average, and my SMV is passable...but every other option is shit for them. Three just texted me Today, "BTW thanks for the hickey, now no other guys will date me." I was going to write some snarky thing back when I…
/r/askTRP07/09/16 10:01 PM
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My advice is to use dating apps - errr, fucking apps - to practice interacting with girls in a virtual setting, implementing some red pill principles, and fucking casually and frequently if you have enough game to capitalize. This is the best advice. Once I realized this you can turn almost any match that results in a meet into movie->sex ad nausea on an infinite loop with as many women as you care to handle. My in person game is weak not gonna lie, but once you convert a match into an in-person…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 01:32 AM
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..."As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium." yet "...On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable." In other words women do not see men as very attractive online, but are willing to message fairly equally based on your perceived attractiveness, while men rate women more fairly but ten…
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:14 AM
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Homie you are totally missing the point. Women will love you, until they love someone else. You can have the former (doting, food, sex) so long as you remember the later (shit-tests and abandonment). Welcome to stage 2, stage 3-5 await along with serious happiness.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 01:10 AM
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That's exactly my point. Perception is reality in m/f relationships, no matter what you see on that phone you will think she's still cheating for all the reasons you just stated.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:43 AM
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No, not only is it stupid and breaking frame it may be illegal depending on "how" you check her phone and where. Don't test her either, that's her game she'll see right through it. You'll know how she feels by how she acts, that's all that matters. If your gut says she's cheating, she's cheating and next. Simple, done, case closed.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:28 AM
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High Value isn't necessarily current value. For women it's like a stock and when they see a sure thing they'll try to lock it down. You have ambition, looks, and sounds like a bit of swag. Basically everything to become a leader in your career.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 11:03 AM
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You can try a restart text in a week or so. Usually something you talked about. This worked for me 2 weeks after I was ghosted and thirsty as fuck; "911! I need a sandwich right now it's life or deal here!" which was an inside joke. Savvy? But honestly you got a response so it's probably not even worth the try and will look clingy and desperate.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 12:00 AM
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So lame humble brag but my buddy and I are like you two, we get approached quite a lot by all types in public. This is encouraging as I'm not looking to up my quantity so much as quality.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:20 AM
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Hmm, maybe mix it up a bit with normal shots.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 01:18 AM
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Bro, this is the least of my issues.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:33 AM
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Sort of where I'm at. I've also told my friends the same thing, 'you never score because you don't follow through'. Most my tinder dates who say shit like "no hookups" will bone, half will never see me again, and those who do I ended up clingy and attached way to easy. I'm tall-ish and somewhat attractive so approaching has never been an issue IRL either but I'm just freaking busy as hell nowadays. New RP me wants to turn the others into plates, not LTRs which BP me always tried and failed. But …
/r/askTRP25/08/16 12:21 AM
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They tell the truth as much as any guy, but they speak differently than most guys, i.e through emotions and what the don't say rather than what they do say. So most of us don't understand. So for example a "Ouch, I'm busy that day" can mean either "I don't want to see you ever" or "Damn you're cool as fuck but I can't ditch this thing" depending on the context (or rather what she does after she says it). "Let's just be friends" could mean I never want to see you again you creep, or "I want you a…
/r/askTRP24/08/16 01:49 PM
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Sidebar, google it???
/r/askTRP23/08/16 10:52 PM
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If you still want revenge, you're not at stage 5. In fact, you're still back between stage 2 and 3. Focus on yourself, and when you're really fully RP you won't give a shit what she thinks, or anyone else.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:28 PM
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That's the point Homie. This is RP 101 (SIDEBAR ------->) It works either way because A) You get what you want from her or B) You don't waste your time... and get what you want from someone else.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 08:32 PM
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Soft next, see what she does.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 06:44 PM
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I mean why leave her? Does she live with you? If you tell her this shit and she keeps coming back seems fine by me just don't knock her up (you never mentioned age so...)
/r/askTRP22/08/16 04:31 PM
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I'm still bad at this fwiw so it may be easy or it may not. This is pretty much my only major problem, beating back 30 years of society built character flaws.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 08:36 PM
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You reward with some 'beta' traits but remain 'alpha' and it will work out, see sidebar. Go full Beta and boom she'll branch swing in a heart beat. Right now she's telling her friends the cocky asshole has a sweet side only she can tame, and an amazing dick (women do kiss and tell). But don't overdo it. Good for you I guess.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 08:19 PM
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RemindMe! One Year
/r/askTRP21/08/16 08:17 PM
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Really? Yes you can use both I switch them around. You lift more with barbells, dumbbells let you fix imbalances and really target specific muscles. Chest, legs, arms, shoulders...
/r/askTRP21/08/16 04:51 PM
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And get DOXed sometime in the future... sounds like a great idea lol.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:29 PM
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You underestimate her ability to stalk. She's a friend of a friend. A solid "Sorry, not interested I have a lot going on right now" is all that's required here.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:28 PM
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You will get such a BS answer from that source, but it's a good insight into their mind lol.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 09:21 PM
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I just showed this at the gym and we took out the stencils and white paint. Back to my prayers at the alter of bumper weights.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 08:39 PM
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MGTOW doesn't cure oneitus. other women cure it. And Unfollowing isn't blocking. MGTOW is just quitting to me.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 02:15 AM
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OkCupid did a study on it. Personally I love those things because I'm somewhat successful, but if you are like my one buddy who just isn't photogenic it's brutal (still a good looking dude, but that's the game I guess). But while rules 1 and 2 get you the date (you can say anything at that point) if you are a clingy BP fuck you will never plate a woman off Tinder let alone LTR her, less she's a desperate single mother. At work people would take my phone and play LMFAO's 'Shots' memeing "Match, M…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 01:19 AM
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WTF dude, you don't live with her!? Just tell her bye, or ghost her. It doesn't matter but if you write that letter it will fucking haunt you in the future somehow. That's just creepy as fuck.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:12 AM
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I'd probably say "Cool, can I keep the wool for socks?" But honestly if she's into you it doesn't matter. If she's not, she's just happy you gave her a bit of validation and will fade.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:10 AM
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Eat this much app. amazing! Maybe something better out there, but for $10/mo it gives me easy <30 minute plans that hit my macros with left overs for lunch at work, a grocery list, and when I do eat out/cheat it can adjust the meals to make up for it based on what's in your pantry. But once you are doing it you won't be going out at lunch for fatty Mexican every day like before... you won't want to. I'm the same as you man, work->gym->school repeat with an occasion date here and there. Around 3/…
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:05 AM
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Could be anything; branch swing, validation check, shit-test to see if he responds after you report back to him. Check out the Uber driver Field Report on TRP for much better insight than anything I could offer. It's always what they do, never what they say.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:48 PM
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Your plan sounds good, at least since I did something similar so I like it. You're right to hang with people who already see you for who you are not who you'll become. In a year meet new people when you're 30lbs lighter and ripped. Then slowly bring in your old crew one-by-one so they can adjust to your new status. Viola, you are now "Alpha" and tbh you won't even give a shit at that point. P.S, eating well is actually cheaper. $10/day is almost gourmet home cooking for me with a 70/30/20 macro …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:24 PM
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So I'm in my 30s and been there, done that. Honestly nobody really cares beyond it being a nice talking point when you first meet. Ultimately what matters is your success; and that can come from anyplace. It's a lot of fucking hours and it kills your social life building a business from scratch, but yes selling a company is a great feeling and the confidence boost is killer down the road. It's also cool to be in some magazines people might see you in, not gonna' lie that's great for the ego. In …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:15 PM
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Dread! Even worked as a Beta. Watch as she suddenly starts buying 'healthy alternatives' at the grocery store and goes to to the gym if she thinks you'll dump her and she doesn't have any prospects. If either is false she'll cheat on you or dump you. When I was in my late 20s an ex did this, and when I was pissed and stayed away from home she even gave up her gluten free BS because of it. (I should add, she cheated on me once she realized I never would have dumped her so always make sure that's …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:03 PM
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Yes that's one part of SMV. Some dude wrote a FR awhile back on a short, average-built guy with tons of women. Obviously the negatives did not outweigh his positives. Intelligence = value AND value = money But that's just one piece of the puzzle. You being the best you is all that matters, fuck everyone else.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 10:01 PM
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I've used "How do you know I don't have something else planned for later?" with some success. YMMV.
/r/askTRP14/08/16 05:13 PM
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You should expect her to return excited about having fun with her orbiter and desperate to screw you because of it.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 04:57 PM
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I'm with on this. I've said stuff like this in the past with good success; "Well I'm here to get help buying a gift for me niece, why else would I have an account?" and "I'm just looking for aquarium advice."
/r/askTRP31/07/16 03:59 PM
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yes
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:24 PM
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Ask her for favors. Use her, that's the selfish act and one she'll actually want to do. Trust me. My former oneitus began doing me favors when I asked, at first small things like picking out birthday gifts for my nieces or dropping me off to pick up a car from the shop. Then she started doing bigger things like buying me tickets to concerts she "didn't have anyone to go with" and buying me equipment for new hobbies. We haven't hooked up since my BP days, but it works. So ask her to join you at t…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:44 PM
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So you are a bit younger than me. Wish we had our epiphany earlier right? Realize this, a selfish you is not just best for you, but best for society as a whole. When you do what's best for yourself, you get shit done. People who get shit done make things better. Just a fact. 1) Climb that corporate ladder through good work and "selfish deeds"; your employer grows as a result, better product/services enter the market, blah blah blah. 2) You get strong, look good, and feel good when you are concer…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 05:33 PM
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There was a FR not to long ago about how Muslim women ignore everything they are taught for true alphas. Like the dude ate pork, listened to western music, didn't go to the mosque and got plenty of pre-marital sex. Of course, I think they can lop off your head for that so maybe not worth it?
/r/askTRP29/07/16 02:44 PM
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YES! Tomorrow is to late, I was just about to write this but you beat me to it. I'm now going on the downhill side of my 30s. My life is good, but I skated through it. That means instead of bouncing dozens of women in college I was only ever with a few. Professionally I climbed the ladder slower than I could have. Socially I was an acceptable alternative to sheer-boredom. I can't turn back the clock, but the last 8 months have been amazing, possible the best in my life. It's nobody's fault but m…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:21 PM
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I have a Tinder IG with 4 sets of 3x3 pictures to fit in the 3x3 IG decks which show me doing shit, kind of like how moments used to be. And FB for finding things to do, not for posting lame political rants. That's it as far as I'm concerned.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 11:11 PM
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All shit tests man. How old is she, what's your SMV, blah blah blah sidebar. She asked the dude out to mind fuck you, because she wanted to fuck, or because she was just bored. She's flirting with you to mind fuck you, because she wants to fuck, or because she's just bored. Listen to her actions, not her words. You can escalate and see if she responds in kind. If she doesn't just remove her from your thoughts.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 11:05 PM
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FWIW my doctor friend takes it, says the kidney damage is bunk, says it's one of the most heavily studied supplements around, and says paper after paper show it doesn't matter when you take it as the results are statistically insignificant before, during, or after a workout. My own results are pretty damn good, went from skinny fat to strong and now close to being cut in about 7 months. Yes at first you pack on weight from water retention, but then you just shed pounds and lose muscle. Maybe it'…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:02 AM
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Don't lie! Don't try to relate to the problems of the people she works with. She doesn't want to have sex with those people, even though she wants to help them.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 07:20 PM
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You don't give her a reason, even I know this. She'll hamster anything you say into you being the bad guy. The only way to prove she's crazy is just break it off, and say nothing. Don't talk shit about her, just be yourself and when she loses it for the Nth+1 time people will just start ignoring her.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 01:19 AM
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Yes and no. Yes it's social, and no because perfectly fit clothes change your posture, and those types of clothes tend to be 'dressy' since we spend on them. Good posture is an attractive feature, a sign of strength and confidence.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:17 AM
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Ok, then there you have it. You are plan B, trust me. I thought "Ok, this is the one... I'm finally going to settle down," but the truth was even though people teased me for being a player I was beta. Just enough SMV to pull women, but not enough alpha to keep them. I'm guessing you're somewhat the same. You gotta next her, trust me. In a few months she'll just be a distant memory, or you can mope around for the rest of your life and maybe die by her side like that dude from the Notebook. It's r…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:41 PM
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You're almost where I was 6 months ago, except I already slept with the girl. Quasi-Beta able to get by on good looks and a good job, but just never with 'the right girl'. In my case she texted me too, would even ask me out for which I'd cancel plans and then she'd fail to show up, or show up and be boring. It's not worth it, take my Internet word on that. She's no unicorn, not the one I had the 'itus' for or yours.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:07 PM
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Sure she instigates because you respond as her emotional support blanket. Cut ties; delete from social media and block on phone... or test yourself by just not responding at all to her texts except for trite replies when you feel like it and avoiding her shit on social media. Keep your plates and do your thing. You can be friends with women, but not when you want to screw them. I'd just strait up tell her you're not going hiking with her, don't give her a reason. She may crawl to you for a test …
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:29 PM
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Here we go again. My former oneitus, and impetus for my RP journey, is dating an Indian doctor with a huge fucking scar across his face. She's a few years past 30, so yea post wall, but still a blonde bombshell since that's your thing. There, my first field report. Go slay 'em Tiger.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:22 AM
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Being attractive and being alpha aren't one-in-the-same. You can be both, either, or none.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:18 AM
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Are you that thirsty? Just from personal experience someone who can't accommodate you within 6 fucking tries is not worth it. I actually just ghosted a someone for just this reason, remember rule #1 is all you've got is time. Use it or lose it.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 12:16 AM
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You are starting to catch oneitus. Been there, done that. She wants validation, wants to screw, wants emotional support, or wants to keep you on the back burner as plan B... or some combination of above. Read sidebar it's all there.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 03:04 PM
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Nah post wall girls are up for sex no more or less than when in their 20s. At that point they will be trying to pull a husband, or face eternity with cats, but they'll still be riding the CC on Tinder if given half-a-chance. It comes down to personality as to how often and how much.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 02:45 AM
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LTR = rebound. It might be 1-3 dates but she'll sleep with you given half a chance, then move on to the next guy as she'll be looking to ride the CC for awhile. She'll probably go semi-silent to keep to you as a plan B though, but don't fall for it.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 10:39 PM
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Only do it if it benefits you.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 11:01 PM
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In addition use the MeetMe app. What have you always wanted to do? Rock climbing? Sailing? Volleyball? Download and do it. Don't wait until you're 26 like I was then bounce from LTR to LTR as a Beta loser into your 30s.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 12:29 AM
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Do you need this job? Sometimes you just got to swallow hard, knowing it's short term but telling everyone else you're in it for the long haul.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 07:49 PM
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Women approach you.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 06:47 PM
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I know the feeling man. 10 years older than you and it hasn't changed much for women. A) It gives her validation, "This guy still texts me even though I'm in a relationship te-he-he I'm so cute." B) It's her backup plan "This guy could make a decent provider if things don't work out with Beta Bob, better keep him on the hook." She is interested in your well being in the fact that it meets her needs for A and B, that's it. If you said you had cancer and your dog died she'd be gone. You could play…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 04:11 PM
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Doesn't sound like it. You made it sound like there isn't a lot of sex in this relationship so why bother?
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:23 AM
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Same reason girls pose in the same fucking position for every picture. Social Media has trained them, and the pose that gets the most likes is repeated over and over ad nauseum. It's fun to call it out and watch the wheel spin spin spin. It's hilarious when they do it in a group and line up in formation without even thinking. A boyfriend is just an accessory, which is why plates never take pictures with you until they're sure you're not going to drop them.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 02:06 PM
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Basically you've got 3 things going for you - you're attractive enough to pass rules #1 and #2 to land the match, and you're not a creepy texter which warrants a face-to-face. That's pretty much all you need to land a date, so good for you! The rest is timing - e.g how many other matches is she juggling at the moment, which you have no fucking control over, and other BS messing with her head. Once you meet less think, more do. When you tickled her and she winced, you could have laughed and playf…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:58 PM
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This is the trick with online dating. Your text game was good enough, or great, for her to sort of fill in the rest of her "dream boat" dude. In person you didn't meet expectations. Next time kiss her, kino, and all that. Treat her as just one experience out of hundreds and online dating will be amazing.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 12:19 PM
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"I asked if you wanted another drink at XYZ, not who you were dating. Don't make this complicated." Or something...
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:31 AM
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Yes I read it. Why would your friends want to chill with you at all the moment you fall to pieces because some chick who knows how big your dick is happens to be is in the same room as you? If she means nothing why deny your buddies sloppy seconds? If she means nothing why do you give a shit if she ignores you, throws a tantrum, or shit tests you? If you really didn't care, you wouldn't even know she blocked you on social media.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:27 AM
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Kind of sounds like you're the child here. Why do you care... at all? Keep doing your own thing and stop thinking about this so much or you will catch oneitus.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 01:11 AM
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Are you really being yourself? The "bad boy" image "girls go for" is really just guys who are being themselves and not trying to be a Hollywood movie. SMV is a complicated equation depending on age. Post wall women weigh the job more while pre wall women don't give a shit about the job so much.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 07:30 PM
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If you never hooked up, you never will. Even if you did there is a 0.0001% you will again and it's not worth the effort. Do both of you a solid and Next. Believe me I get it, I'm now 5 months from journey away from oneitus and it was hard... at first.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 07:26 PM
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This is true about societal norms, but nobody really believes it deep down. You want to guarantee you'll never have the promotion you want or lead the life you desire? Get married, get debt, have kids... you can never quit your job or live your life without truly becoming a "loser" instead of a "sad unmarried player" which every actually wants to be around. (Even if you aren't)
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:18 AM
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This, plus there are other offerings than just sex. I was tricked by a Bumble chick's Myspace Selfies, she was easily 20-30lbs overweight, but she was witty and shot me pictures of food every day right when I was finishing at the gym. She knew exactly what the fuck she was doing and even admitted "Guys like you just go for the bubbly blondes but I have so much more to offer." We had a few months of casual fun until she finally found her BB doctor. Good for her I say, a fool and his money... or s…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:52 AM
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I'd screenshot every digital interaction with her so at a worst case you have some evidence showing your relationship was consensual.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:45 AM
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Bro, "You must think I'm a whore..." it's just a shit test. Deal with accordingly.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 12:56 AM
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Only comment that matters. Case in point, I'm at a party last night with a bunch of women. One of them pulls out a photo of a basketball players dick on her phone. They show me and joke "DeepRelay is not impressed." I said "I mean what can I say, I can't lie since at least one of you knows where I stand... assuming you all don't by now." The girls laugh and the chick who invited me brushed it off like she didn't know what I was talking about, as if sucking my dick doesn't count as sex to her sin…
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:06 PM
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Absolutely. I'm treating this like a scrimmage, just there to have fun and if I win great. Tinder has been good, but this is my first chance to test myself in a difficult situation for someone like me. I'm thinking about riding my bike to dinner, it's a short, slow ride and yes I do feel cocky as shit on that thing, and in a worst case of foot-in-mouth I can nope out and lol all the way to the pool hall.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 08:16 PM
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