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Outer Game Deeppua/r/seduction09/04/20 03:43 AM
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Deeppua/r/seduction17/10/19 11:13 PM
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I may be down voted for this comment. But let me tell you, reading Models from Mark Manson fucked up my game big time. I see a lot of flaws in that book and vulnerability is one of them. Most of us who are here are by default weak guys who were already vulnerable enough to be friend-zoned or the ones who were failing to create attraction. Vulnerability makes a relationship stronger "after" you've fucked the girl. What we need to get laid is creating attraction which is being cocky, funny and eas…
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:15 AM
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If you read my previous question, when I had asked that question my friend and I had a chat about it. But I had totally forgotten about asking that here. I asked this one from an experience I had with a girl yesterday
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:55 AM
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I carry my phone with me all the time. In fact even in the gym I have it with me and I do end up replying to people sometimes. Maybe I'm addicted to my phone but that's a different topic altogether. My point still remains the same. I literally have my phone with me wherever I go. I don't know how can one be so busy all the time
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:53 AM
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Lol. You know me better than myself. I actually had to go back and see if I did and it was in a different context but still it was close. So, you win ;)
/r/seduction18/02/21 08:48 AM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:23 PM
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I don't agree with everyone here. There are girls who open up after she's intrigued and it's your responsibility to do it. How? Make statements instead of asking questions. Cold read about her.. you don't have to make very interesting statements about her... If she's even slightly interested, she'll contribute if your statements evoke emotions. Eg. About the girl sitting in the park from OP's post: you look nice, I think it's cos you look so relaxed sitting in the park as if you're having a picn…
/r/seduction24/07/20 02:38 PM
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If you're here....Aka mannequin_vxxn lol
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:57 AM
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If the girl rejects, only I'll know but in your case, your friends will know as well
/r/seduction04/07/20 08:59 AM
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It's funny how I feel so uncomfortable approaching when with friends or someone. I'm at my best when I'm approaching alone. It feels like nobody is watching and I have all freedom in the world to do whatever I want
/r/seduction04/07/20 04:11 AM
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Looks like Covid has created fear/discomfort in girls causing them to disengage in a conversation with a stranger even if there are no cases in NZ and it's safe.
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:45 AM
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Wow, you sound so fucking negative. Why don't you go out today, try cold approaching 5 girls and go at least on an instant date and update us?
/r/seduction16/06/20 12:30 AM
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He's talking about parents who puts down their kids without supporting or guiding I guess
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:49 AM
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How many cold approaches have you done yourself? If none, your comment is void
/r/seduction14/06/20 09:31 PM
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I bet you haven't cold approached even one girl. Feel free to correct me
/r/seduction14/06/20 08:59 AM
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Definitely. I live in NZ and everything is back to normal now. However, when I went out a couple of days ago I felt crippled to approach girls and have conversations. I believe social skills are an ongoing learning
/r/seduction22/05/20 03:44 AM
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How can I make her touch me?
/r/seduction13/05/20 09:09 PM
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Am I the only one who feels this sub actually depresses people than it motivates. I'm in my mid 30s and I've heard people say I look like I'm in my mid to late 20s. Some of the comments here make one feel that life is over after mid 30s. So depressing. I wonder if it's cos most people here are teens or in their early 20s and imagine people in their mid to late 30s as very old with sagging skin, grey hair etc. I'd like to know what people in their mid 30s and above feel about such posts
/r/seduction07/05/20 09:24 PM
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OP, just ignore all those bashing you. You've done the right thing. They don't know or haven't seen guys who are all successful in every part of their life except dating because they didn't have a good game. Those guys came across as needy when they professed true love They believe life is a perfect platform when you have everything in life, girls will jump into bed automatically They think bettering oneself doesn't involve emotional control. One of the things that you learn from push-pull is, w…
/r/seduction04/05/20 11:42 PM
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Apologies if I'm being too pedantic. But do you imagine doing it for 10 mins the steps explained in the video?
/r/seduction03/05/20 11:14 AM
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Thanks. How long do you practise this?
/r/seduction03/05/20 09:55 AM
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What kind of meditation do you do?
/r/seduction03/05/20 06:38 AM
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You're contradicting your own statement. You say flirting is different from intent. Flirting is holding eye contact etc and in your second answer you say intent is to hold eye contact..I agree with your second answer not the first one. Just don't confuse yourself.. Lol
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:26 PM
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I died laughing at your sarcasm. OP, I think this will help: https://youtu.be/UQGBDNdlU3I
/r/seduction25/04/20 11:08 PM
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This is wrong. Intent will give you power away
/r/seduction25/04/20 10:50 PM
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Not necessarily. Not being needy is very generalised and his post broke it down to details. Appreciate the effort someone puts into writing if you can
/r/seduction17/04/20 03:45 AM
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I think my question needed more details. I'll edit the question. What if the girl is a "yes" or a "maybe" girl who is attracted to me? Is it still fair to expect her to sleep with me given the details in my question?
/r/seduction13/04/20 09:57 PM
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Do you mean physically attractive? Cos confidence is also a characteristic for attractiveness
/r/seduction13/04/20 06:06 AM
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She may say “I don’t like going to the park”. Still end of discussion
/r/seduction10/04/20 10:24 PM
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Did anyone who has commented so far notice that op mentioned that all those new girls don't know that he has a GF and all of you are commenting preselection and social proof. WTH
/r/seduction05/04/20 06:12 AM
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It depends. If your friend was a girl and wasn't attracted to the guy who remembered her name, she would've found him "creepy"
/r/seduction29/03/20 08:25 AM
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Girlfriend?
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:38 AM
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It's very rare that a couple will hangout with a single guy. Even if they did, they won't wing me for a hookup or ONS and I'm not looking for a GF as of now
/r/seduction25/03/20 01:49 AM
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I do this with cold approach but in social circle I don't have any attractive women as friends and won't this show low value when attractive girls meet me in a pub/bar/social setting when I hangout with my friends?
/r/seduction25/03/20 01:34 AM
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Like I said preselection and social proof
/r/seduction25/03/20 01:25 AM
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When did this sub become a platform for bragging?
/r/seduction23/03/20 01:17 PM
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Another definition of "creepy"
/r/seduction08/02/20 09:38 PM
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Wording is all that matters when it comes to dating. Specially when you're texting. You need to choose your words wisely when texting since there is no body language there and seduction is all about making that girl like you who didn't like you that much to begin with. Of course you can't do anything with girls who didn't like you even a bit to begin with. Seduction is a game played on "maybe" girls. "Yes" girls don't need to be seduced and "No"girls are a waste of time.
/r/seduction31/01/20 08:53 PM
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Thanks for going over each point and elaborating. I have a couple of things to point: 1. A direct approach would work on HB 8 and above. But if you're going upto a girl who is average but if she dresses up well, can go upto 7 or a girl who has a great body(ass/tits) but has average face and is not dressed well/out from the gym/running/sweating and say "you look really nice". It could come across as weird or not socially calibrated or it can come across as demeaning. I haven't thought of an alter…
/r/seduction18/01/20 06:28 AM
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What's your success rate? Just out of curiosity
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:43 PM
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“Waiting a few days will show persistence” - thanks! “show u have standards too honestly” - how? Example?
/r/seduction04/01/20 12:14 AM
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In the past I’ve done it and later regretted it. When someone here suggests me an alternative, I’m like: Wow! That is smooth - that is seduction. Then when I’ve gone back and used their suggestion, I was successful. That’s how I learn.
/r/seduction03/01/20 11:48 PM
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I think you should be asking this to a girl who does that and she'll tell you exactly what's going on inside her
/r/seduction03/01/20 07:41 PM
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I don't get it! What improves? What improves by learning game->approaching->learning game->seducing->learning game->getting laid once in 6 months after putting in so much effort? While I see guys going to nightclubs, drinking a few beers->kissing->getting laid! Being an AFC in your social group and just "appear" nice-> get laid Confidence that you gain in cold-approach is not permanent. Stop doing it for 1 week and tell me. I'm not sure if it's worth the effort!
/r/seduction29/12/19 01:11 PM
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Thanks. How do you flirt? Do you use cocky-funny humour? From the tone of your message, looks like you talk deep and I'm surprised girls get attracted.
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:03 PM
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How do you communicate this during the date? Doesn't it bring down her attraction to you? How do you escalate with this frame? Elaborate please!
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:10 PM
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Being Desperate is "subjective". What you think is desperate may not be desperation for the girl or vice-versa
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:45 PM
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Isn't telling about yourself building comfort?
/r/seduction17/12/19 11:09 AM
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I like your hair/purse/shoes/dress/smile or I like the way you're enjoying this place, you look so happy and energetic
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:06 AM
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I agree with you but to" be engaging, go places, do things, laugh, and then escalate." She should also be up for it and only not here for the date cos she had some free time or she wanted free entertainment or free drinks/food
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:46 AM
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If the goal of your date is only to entertain her with free drink/food, then it's not an issue..
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:30 AM
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My question literally gives every detail to answer it
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:25 AM
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Great report! Loved your writing style!
/r/seduction29/11/19 01:14 AM
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When a girl hits you playfully, do you get offended or embarrassed? That's exactly the mindset you need to have when a girl refuses to respond. I myself struggle to be in that mindset although I know that's how one should be but hey I'll get there soon!
/r/seduction28/11/19 12:05 AM
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Cool.. and how can I do that?
/r/seduction25/11/19 07:09 AM
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“Then start running really basic canned routines" - like?
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:27 AM
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What is "tasteful persistence"? Btw., I asked this girl out for a drink tomorrow evening and she explained me why she is busy tomorrow and day after. I didn't want to ask her out on Friday or weekend and didn't want to appear like I have nothing else going on. So just responded with: "Fair enough.. I understand" What can I do next?
/r/seduction19/11/19 02:45 AM
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Just sex. I don't believe in love :D anymore
/r/seduction19/11/19 02:38 AM
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How to attach pics to posts?
/r/seduction11/11/19 02:28 AM
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White Knight spotted
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:22 PM
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Yes, sometimes I talk around 30 mins. I think you are right but I don't what is that I do wrong during the date cos they give a lot of IOIs but after the date, they go cold. Any ideas of self diagnosis?
/r/seduction10/11/19 04:14 AM
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Girls that I meet have led lights embedded in their eyes and when they are turned on, those lights glow 😉
/r/seduction10/11/19 02:38 AM
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Just out of curiosity, what are you doing in /seduction forum here? If you don't know what is seduction
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:11 AM
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I mentioned it in my other post that girls go on an instant date and give me their number but don't connect later on. There could be a lot of reasons but one of them could be that they have a boyfriend or a husband. In this case, I'll have wasted at least 30 mins to 2 hrs depending on going on an instant date or not.
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:42 PM
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Waste of time
/r/seduction09/11/19 11:10 PM
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Is it a defect in women then to give IOIs or they just mislead men?
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:47 PM
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Why do they give IOIs then?
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:46 PM
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Some girls come on instant dates but never connect later some girls give their numbers but never respond. In either case, I'd have lost 30 mins to 1 hr
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:39 PM
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Next It was disrespectful for stringing you along.
/r/seduction09/11/19 10:49 AM
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Friends try to pull my leg for not having girlfriend and calling Playboy and they do it in front of girls in the group and it affects how they see me or it'll make them feel slutty to hangout with me isolated
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:03 AM
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How does it matter?
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:47 AM
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I don't know if anybody shares my view but my goal is my journey. On the way I'll know what I want out of this as and when I realise what is important and what is not important
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:05 AM
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Btw., Approach even average looking girls but don't escalate if you don't feel like, that'll help you with your confidence
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:10 AM
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Yes. I just approach. One way I've gotten over with approach anxiety is by 'approaching'
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:57 AM
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That's not a lot. Even if you approach 2 girls everyday, it's 60 girls in a month
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:49 AM
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Lot of approaches or instant dates?
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:47 AM
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I was away from cold approaching from the beginning of the year. Around 50 approaches in the last month or so. 5-6 instant dates. 1 kiss close and 1 missed lay due to bad logistics
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:46 AM
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70% eye contact and looking away 30%...
/r/seduction05/11/19 04:42 AM
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From time to time we need to step back and see where we are going wrong I think. In the past month I approached a lot of girls and it's not going anywhere. So I'm analysing each step to see what is that I'm doing wrong. I thought it'll help you too
/r/seduction05/11/19 02:48 AM
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Let's say I met her at a mall or street cold approaching
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:27 PM
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Let me know if you find any solution.. Haha
/r/seduction04/11/19 04:04 AM
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Can you point me to examples of polarising in the right way? Cos sometimes I try to do it and Everytime I do it, I end up pissing off the girl. Btw., I posted another question about how my texting is: texting
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:08 AM
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I walk slow, talk slow and try to have deep eye contact with 70-30 when listening and 90-10 when talking. I normally have a smiling face but your comment about "vibe" could be it cos I feel tired sometimes walking around. I sometimes walk around 10 KMS which obviously makes me tired
/r/seduction04/11/19 03:04 AM
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Me: hey "name" or "some funny name that I chose during our conversation", it was nice meeting you. Are you normally so warm with new people? Some of them **** no response ***** Some of them, Her: hey, nice meeting too.. haha, yes I'm friendly Me: *starts flirting* For example: from how you were looking so serious, I thought you weren't friendly, you'd kill someone.. Haha Her: **** no response ****
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:40 AM
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I'm not muscular but I look fit and I do Latin dancing, yoga, hiking and have a lot of friends who I party with most of the time
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:28 AM
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This is my typical routine: 1. Opener: That's a nice dress, it gives a good contrast to your bag Or that's a nice bag, it gives a vintage look Or I like your hair, you look like "someone" in the movies Or I like the way you are walking Or I like the way you are relaxing in the park 2. Flirting: you look like you were dreaming in wonderland from the way I saw you lying here etc 3. I continue guessing: you must be French from how you are looking so artsy or elegant or whatever that comes to my min…
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:21 AM
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This is my typical routine: 1. Opener: That's a nice dress, it gives a good contrast to your bag Or that's a nice bag, it gives a vintage look Or I like your hair, you look like "someone" in the movies Or I like the way you are walking Or I like the way you are relaxing in the park 2. Flirting: you look like you were dreaming in wonderland from the way I saw you lying here etc 3. I continue guessing: you must be from French from how you are looking so artsy or elegant or whatever that comes to m…
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:20 AM
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I get numbers but they don't respond and although they talk to me for sometime, they'd refuse to go on instant dates. What am I doing wrong? See the other comment about what I do
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:04 AM
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Interested
/r/seduction04/11/19 01:24 AM
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What do you count as an approach? Going up to a girl and delivering your opener whether or not she responds to it?
/r/seduction30/10/19 07:53 PM
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I didn’t mean I’m alpha, anyway I’ve edited the post. Peace! I’m here to discuss something else
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:54 AM
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Point taken. How’s your inner game supposed to be about being single?
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:48 AM
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Read my post again! I nowhere said I’m alpha, I’m asking in general how do people remain alpha in a social group in the situation I’ve mentioned
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:39 AM
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Our conversation was going well until I sent a date request which I retrospectively think sounded "needy". I realised it right after hitting the send button
/r/seduction29/10/19 02:34 AM
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Doesn't saying just ok sound butt hurt?
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:49 AM
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Isn't it a way of agreeing and amplifying her non-verbal response by responding this to bust her balls?
/r/seduction17/10/19 11:49 PM
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I used only one with the sentence to not sound serious about calling her "trouble"
/r/seduction16/10/19 11:12 PM
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Not necessarily. For instance, someone may have followed his guidelines and may have had success. Doesn't matter if he is fake or not. It's similar to just reading a book about personality development. Author of the book may or may not have experienced everything that he has suggested in the book.
/r/seduction15/10/19 09:06 PM
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Yes but the question is not about whether he is genuine or not but have you adopted his structure and guidelines and has it worked for you
/r/seduction15/10/19 08:55 PM
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