More and more women I'm getting to know, I realise how sexually inexperienced I am, even though I'm in my 30s compared to girls in their early 20s. What I consider advanced level in sex like threesomes, BDSM etc are common among girls in their 20s even if they're just average. In the past I was feeling depressed and embarrassed to know girls are so sexually experienced compared to me. But if I think of it on a positive way, I was always afraid to be sexually open with girls thinking of it as creepy. But now when I believe that girls are equally/more sexual creatures than men, it makes it easier to approach them, talk to them and escalate knowing that it's normal and girls actually like it. This mindset gives power and it shows up as confidence when talking to them. Wanted to share it so that this mindset doesn't stay only with me