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THEORYDehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 06:58 PM
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THEORYDehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 06:42 PM
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ADVICEDehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 03:55 AM
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THEORYDehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen22/07/23 02:11 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTDehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 02:09 AM
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FIELD REPORTDehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 03:19 PM
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Dehydrated_Jellyfish/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 04:49 AM
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Well, except for fitness modeling. I find the modeling example as a very poor example. It’s the one female dominated job that sucks. I’m learning a lot about this movement. I make a thoughtful comment below that’s totally ignored and I only get comments on a triggering subject. Seems like a rage bit community that doesn’t value thoughtful input, it values whining about inequality.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 11:31 AM
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Did you not see the comment above referencing male models? I’m replying to someone else’s comment. Also explaining models because the ‘but female models get paid more’ argument is often presented by people who don’t know the 5 types of models: editorial, runway, commercial, fit and fitness. Fit models get paid the same between genders. Fitness men earn more and the other three are dominated by women.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:31 AM
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Do you have a question?
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:22 AM
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Progressives *** are in charge of Reddit. They affirmative action hire to the point of breaking the law.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:17 AM
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Nah progressives are bullies. The type who assume your opinions and then degrade you for opinions they think you have. I got called a bad person yesterday because I mentioned I helped cops transition out of the force (they misread and thought I did staffing for the police force). Then repeatedly told how horrible and scummy I was. I also was called an idiot loser for saying a red flag I missed on my ex was that he smoked weed at work, then a wave of random counts calling me a Karen, conservative…
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:11 AM
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Progressive = regressive. Progressives are bullies with mono thought and performative diversity.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 04:09 AM
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You gotta learn how to communicate without so many ( ) ad ins
/r/MensRights29/08/24 03:59 AM
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It’s 2024 boo boo. A lot of educational institutions are relying on digital exams and proctoring.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 03:58 AM
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Well, because women buy more than men so there it’s more product to push to women than men. Furthermore, the runway male body doesn’t sell as well to men. Men gravitate towards the muscular look whereas runway male models look like sticks. That’s because it’s more likely women buying men’s clothing for men > men watching runway and buying the clothing. There are many types of models. Male fitness models tend to make more money than female fitness models. But, the demand of male fitness model’s i…
/r/MensRights29/08/24 03:53 AM
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Feel like I’m in forbidden territory in this sub but, men and women have different scales of intelligence. Women, on average, sit in the middle of smart and dumb. There aren’t as many really dumb or really smart women. Men, are the opposite. There aren’t as many in the middle but many really dumb or really smart men. There is less support for underperforming men, like there is less support for women. But, men need it more since men are more likely to be really dumb. FWIW I don’t believe in the p…
/r/MensRights29/08/24 03:49 AM
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He doesn’t love you. He’s obligated to you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 07:16 AM
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I remember being 18 and thinking I was wide, like you. I hear me in your post. You need to take your value out of your looks and truly learn how to put your self value into your looks.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 07:02 AM
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With your condition, you need to wait 3-6 months for sex to maintain your mental health.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 06:59 AM
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Not giving a child a father by choice is a bad thing.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/24 06:51 AM
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The drinking is a bigger problem than it looks like to you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/24 05:35 PM
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He got triggered because he values work, as many men do, more and sees it as a defining part of his life. So he may feel like you would diminish this huge, valuable part of himself. But, that's not the case! It's just not as defining for you and you are happy it's defining for him! It's a hard place for you to be in right now. Both triggered. You need to establish who is responsible for reaching out next, as others have suggested. Waiting it out will be worth it. Maybe, while you wait, learn mor…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 10:27 AM
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You sound very self-centered and egotistical in this post. 'I'm doing so great and others slow me down' but no one is enslaving you. You are not guilty if you say no to these favors. You are not recognizing the transitory nature of adult friendships. Friends come and go like the wind. If one is too negative or needy, then create distance. Instead, you make a problem and blame others for something you can fix. You helped to create this problem. You are not a victim. No one is unjustly taking from…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 10:01 AM
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Please, please don't pimp yourself out to a 10+ year older man for provision.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/24 09:54 AM
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Church will give the community that will give accountability
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 11:52 PM
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Never. Might even follow her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 11:49 PM
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Yah, I’ve done a lot of personal growth. I know I’m not perfect and learned some lessons but it’s not me who is holding up the boat here. There is a gap in personal growth between us and I’m simply at a different place in life than him. I’m part of a pattern of his where he pretends a relationship waiting for love to happen but doesn’t commit. Never had a girlfriend. Closest one dumped him after 8 months and she got engaged 3 months later. I can see why she dated multiple people with him. He wan…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 06:57 PM
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Oh wow I feel stupid. Tnx!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 06:44 PM
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What cities in Indianapolis and Minneapolis?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 06:13 PM
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The deal breaker is: I want a man willing to do personal work if it means the relationship would improve. For example, if he is dealing with a lay off, I need someone willing to find resources to make it through together and not me providing with no action. There of always time for healing and mourning. I’m leaving out a lot of details. This guy specifically is not willing to do the personal work of addressing his past trauma that is keeping him from committing to me in a significant way. I’m ge…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 05:56 PM
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I'm active in the church. Women married in the church looking for a husband who will wait are on the upper end of probability. Finding men in the church isn't what it used to be. OP should get involved in multiple small groups for singles and divorcees and change groups occasionally. Also, join Upward
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 07:09 PM
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There is a pattern of woman leaving relationships, becoming Christian and wanting to save sex for marriage. Some of those women are successful and some are rejected for their past by Christian. I highly suggest you only consider medium to highly Christian men you meet at Christian singles group or Bible study. I’ve seen a weird pattern in 30+ single Christian men where either they have unrealistic standards keeping them single. Beware! There are great Christian guys who are single because they h…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 12:30 PM
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By far the best dating book I've read - How to get a date worth keeping by Henry Cloud
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 07:23 PM
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Religious men will tolerate. It may be hard to find a non-religious man who will wait for sex until marriage for a non-virgin divorcee. If there was a religious or cultural aspect, that could help your chances. What is your reason for waiting?
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/23 07:20 PM
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I’ve read a lot of different books on this so I can’t spout the KJV mistranslation source of the top of my head. But the book I’m reading now that I like a lot for the linguistical context is Demons by Michael Heiser. In it he describes how Satan /suh-than/ is just a type of spirit and not the name for the evil one. He gives many sources which makes the book rather heavy but very interesting nonetheless. This book wrecks havoc on a lot of mainstream Christian ideas, so good for a weird one.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 06:49 PM
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As a note, nowhere in the bible does it say 'marriage' is required for sex. 'Thou shalt not commit adultery' is the only passage that is used to support this idea. Adultery and premarital sex are not the same thing. Adultery is about the violation of a relationship. Jesus called out a woman 'living' with a man which indicates they were not in a relationship but a situation. 'Flee from sexual immorality' means control ones sexual urges. Paul writes letters to the Corinthians who greatly struggled…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/23 05:25 PM
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Not at all. Realizations like the ones you are having are often the predecessors to a glow up.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 10:54 PM
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Consider this the start of your glow up!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 10:52 PM
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Won’t share any information about yourself yet worried about you trusting the guy? Contradiction. Can he trust you?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 07:23 PM
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He will never know where his career is going to take him lol he’s not mentally ready and blaming it on something else. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 06:49 PM
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I've gone years without sex. It gets better with time. It's also important to avoid things that remind one of sex. Sexy dancing makes celibacy hard. Watching sexy movies or media makes celibacy hard. Having close friends that give hugs or maybe sit close to you in an uber helps. Having a community of people who show love helps. OP, I also suggest considering masturbation. I would avoid toys but, that helped me. Might not be a popular suggestion with the RP folks. I would also say that after my 2…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/23 04:52 AM
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You are not ready for a Christian, biblical marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 09:24 PM
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Are you considering a relationship with a man who has autism? What's the story?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 08:20 PM
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Avoid anxiety inducing foods and activities like rage posts on reddit or caffeine.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 10:16 PM
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Men love to help their women find ways to turn other guys down.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 03:34 AM
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Guy is trying to get in your pants. I would hard deny. You can just keep saying you’re really busy and he will get the hint, ESPECIALLY if you say you’re busy to him but talk about all your free time at work.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 03:33 AM
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Building non sexual relationships with men in a community setting will help with this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 10:25 PM
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Even us with traditionally feminine moms aren’t all taught the ropes. I would take less blame from your mother and put more on the shift in society and family dynamics.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 09:08 PM
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This post itself is evidence of the issues caused by porn.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 07:27 PM
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First step would be to genuinely assess your attractiveness. Second would to look for non surgery ways to improve. Third would be fillers or injections after you have gotten into great shape at the gym. Last option is surgery. Btw a doctor saying you don’t have enough degrees sounds like a long time single guy because standards are too high but he doesn’t offer enough to the women who reach his standards.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 07:40 PM
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I was at a Halloween party with my boo and invited a neighbor. She’s a bit cynical and anti man. She knew about my boo, had never seen him, but wasn’t a fan. Said he was ‘too boring for someone exciting’ like me. At the party everyone is exchanging names. When she heard his name, she asked me if this was the guy I’m dating. I say, yes. Then she says, so you actually came? I quickly said, don’t say that to him! And everyone let it go quickly. But I was feeling nervous that he would be upset by he…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 08:23 PM
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Oh! This is good to know 😈
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 06:13 PM
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Can you give examples of this idolization? Another word other than idol would be nice because, you know, religion.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 05:58 PM
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The Christian dating market is tricky. There are a lot of Christian men choosing to stay single because of their too high standards. There are also some who are very picky on beliefs and want to see a woman have real faith. Then there are the soft Christian guys who will sleep with you but maybe not date if you don’t seem good girl enough. Or some will expect you to stay celibate until married. I’ve met several 40 something virgin Christian men. I gave up on Christian exclusive dating and decide…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 12:11 AM
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Someone once told me NYC is where ovaries go to die 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 12:06 AM
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Such a good story!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 12:03 AM
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🤣
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 12:03 AM
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Girl, you’re 31. Chill. You have enough time for another breakup, then find the husband and still have kids.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 05:36 PM
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While not every therapist is not the right therapist for you, they have years of clinical training on how to handle these exact issues. It is wise counsel to only take advice from qualified people. You wouldn't ask a chronically single person about marriage. You shouldn't rely on people who don't have specific experience helpful for your issue and themselves are mentally sound. You could ask people in your community if they know a specialist as marriage therapy is very common with traditional/co…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 07:28 PM
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This is something better suited for a therapist.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 05:42 PM
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What other methods of solution have you tried? Therapy, sex therapy, sex toys, or tantric sex? Don't lie about orgasms. It's not wise to say, I've been lying the entire time. I would pretend it suddenly ended and treat it like a new issue instead of a 1.5 year issue. That's not good advice but it's not good to lie either.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 05:32 PM
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Have you compared his level of hurt to your level of hurt or are you just holding your hurt up looking for consolation? I do think you are over thinking his reason for offering to meet up with you. Men don't offer to meet a woman at the mall for only 1 hour, no chance for sex, or no reward in general unless they have feelings for that woman. He showed concern for you but not in the wording you wanted. Don't forget, his feelings are still hurt but he reached over his feelings to give you his time…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 04:46 PM
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The patient feeling is something I struggle with also. Having 1-2 good friends who know that life is vital. To find those friends, go to places they would be. Support groups, hobby groups, online groups where you ask for local friends. I can see why you don’t have success with just anyone but having those few ppl who understand will make other friendships easier. Also, don’t tell everyone your trauma. Gloss over details, make it a joke or ignore the topic. That is for your safety. If you see sig…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/23 03:49 AM
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Are you religious? You have 10xs better shot on dating apps that narrow down the population to those with your values. If you are non-religious and just modest (very rare), then you will spend a lot of time rejecting and getting rejected on apps. That can take a toll on the mental. Don't go for Bumble. Try a more specific app that is closer to your value. 80-90% chance you won't meet someone randomly in person who will wait till marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/23 04:56 AM
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the idea of a potential relationship / family, versus the safety of an actualized career and childhood family. Us women, well, we are hardwired for security. DING DING DING!! It's potential vs reality and reality will always look safer.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 03:19 AM
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My sister has a specialized job. There are 1-2 of her at any institution she works at and 1-2 institution in most major cities. Most people stay in their position for life. There are 3-4 jobs a year where she can apply nationally. She's married to a guy who moves a lot for his job. They compromised. He has taken remote jobs. They moved 3x and at one point, she was working retail to bridge the gap between jobs/stay busy. Yah, she relied on him to provide for a period because that was the compromi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 03:08 AM
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Relationships are risky and you can't avoid that. If you think husbands are uncertain, despite making a vow of certainty, then your cognitive functioning here is not optimal. You also seem so certain of some things that are not certain (i.e. you can only get a job where you are, inability to be open to the unknown). Therapy or counseling on this will help you much more than Reddit ever could. Edit - Girl, I didn't see the username! You might just be having a moment but if you don't want a provid…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 02:47 AM
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Get yourself in r/30PlusSkinCare !
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 09:36 PM
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No.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 09:27 PM
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Congrats on making the first step and good luck with that journey!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:18 PM
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Sounds like you have an alcohol addiction. Addressing that will clear up a lot of other problems.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 08:02 PM
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6 beers a day, every day?
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:56 PM
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Good luck! Be sure to calm your mind, eat, and sleep well before the event so any nervousness is easier!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:51 PM
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This doesn't help with you post problem but might address your 'oily skin' problem. It's not a good idea to scrub your face and put on tret after. It will make your skin inflamed, oil and dry at the same time. Vitamin C can also inflame your skin, hence why the skin will get more flushed after application. If you are using hyaluronic acid + tret + vitamin C + a scrub then you WILL have oily skin. That is because you are irritating your skin twice a day and the only way it can survive is to over …
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:38 PM
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Your husband needs to find better ways to manage his anxiety. Doing nothing to sooth anxiety is not a good way to manage anxiety.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:28 PM
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This is what I keep saying! He wants to hear everything in the house but doesn't want to hear her? That's a him problem. Either he hears everything or doesn't, but he can't pick and choose!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:26 PM
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Girl , you need to get on a skincare addict sub. It's not uncommon to hear people using tret get oily because they aren't putting moisturizer on after the tret. That inflames the skin and results in more oil production.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:23 PM
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'Hair training' is a social media myth! It can cause hair loss because of buildup from not washing.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:21 PM
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Go to a hair care sub reddit and ask for a solution! Bumble and bumble Bb.Pret-A-Powder isn't a spray so you can better contain the mess.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 07:20 PM
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Dermablend leg and body makeup - problem solved. But he hasn't mentioned the tattoos so there is a chance he doesn't think the family will care about it. They would care about you looking super sexy at a family event.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 06:30 PM
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I see a giant flashing light in your post that says YOU ARE MEETING HIS FAMILY SO IT'S NOT THE TIME TO LOOK SEXY
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 06:29 PM
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!! I just ruled out soy and eggs but waiting on the rest. It’s hard to get past the elimination diet so, good job!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 02:21 PM
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Congrats!! 🎉 Good job
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 02:20 PM
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❤️
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/23 02:20 PM
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That's why we have Jordan Peterson. I listened to F&F when it was 8 guys on a live stream. They know their market and their market is not intellectualism.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 09:45 PM
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Fresh and Fit isn't that intellectual. You give them too much credit. RP women shouldn't consume that content.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 08:59 PM
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That guy is not worth your time. Decide he’s a loser and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 02:50 PM
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Andrew Tate affect
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 02:39 PM
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It’s a top 3 sex tourism country so it’s probably that
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 02:36 PM
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Can we outline sugar baby results for the audience?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 01:35 PM
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I didn’t catch that until I saw the comments. Guy is literally setting up the pre honeymoon suite!! Paying to lose her virginity smh
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 01:25 PM
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Take this advice OP! Money can make someone seem like they have more good qualities than truly have.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 01:10 AM
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Neville Goddard’s night time affirmations and sleep music helped me get through a break up. But the same thing but Goddard is faith based ideals. He bastardizes the Christian faith BUT a lot of the content can still be really useful.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/23 04:26 AM
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Raya is just hinge but curated and exclusive feeling. It’s popular with people in creative industries who are sometimes famous and rich but it’s not an app specifically to find high earning provider men. It’s an app to meet a b list celeb or marketing manager.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 05:44 AM
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Life rule: don’t plan a sleepover at a man’s house unless you are prepared for sex.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 05:24 PM
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I’m shocked he did it but, some men are wasting women’s time, emotions, financial stability with no compensation while crying that all women are gold diggers.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 04:06 PM
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Yah OP's story is a bit of hopium for young women heading to the bay. Lost of well paid men in the bay happy to waste your time. Lots of tech bros who will ghost. Be careful ladies! There are 1,000 women for every one like OP.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 10:17 PM
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A girl who goes out of her way to please men is a threat because she makes us all step up our game. FACTS!
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 05:35 PM
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Over time, you will learn the power women have and accept that this kind of power doesn't control.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:29 PM
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Can someone explain to me why women wanting a BF (aka a pick-me) is such a bad thing? This mentality creates a world where women are afraid to say they want marriage but will break up a relationship over marriage. It's not bad to be wanted. It's not bad for men to see things they like in you, even if you don't like them. So what? You want to be wanted? Everyone does. I can't count the number of women who pay 5 figures for therapy, a retreat, or weekend away so they can learn how to be soft. If y…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:27 PM
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It's not just you. Most women get restless being at home without kids to tend so most find an outlet. It's a very common human pattern.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 04:13 PM
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Valid. I'm 35 and had a lot of dates to pick from this past summer. Yes, I'm described as nice, and attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 03:05 AM
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I remember this chick! Husbands last marriage ended because he cheated but he promised he wouldn’t with her, right? And they have a weird money dynamic? I wonder what would be her breaking point. Maybe she’s waiting to get a house in the divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 05:05 PM
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Your friend is a loser who has too much free time to watch Donovan Sharpe and Tate. His logic is clearly not grounded in reality as he thinks paternity tests couldn’t sort out who the father is. There is no counter argument. He’s in fantasy land. The best counter you can give him is blocking his number and finding more classy friends so he can see that he’s a loser and not some guy entitled to cheating on his wife because he has the ‘holy penis.’
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 04:59 PM
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Go back to the men’s sub, sir
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 02:24 PM
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Yah it screamed man in every sentence 🤭
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 01:18 PM
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And this is the reason a lot of western men are getting tired of young American women.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 11:06 AM
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I have never once not planned my birthday and in my opinion, it's the job of the birthday person to make sure their birthday is enjoyable. Any other effort is extra. Yes, I pay for my own birthday party, and I paid for the BBQ this year. I'm 35 and I always have, even when I turned 18. It's a much better plan that will give you more happy birthdays (TRUST ME). Yes, his ex made him plan a birthday thing to make her happy. But they weren't happy. He's happy with you and you don't want the birthday…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/23 01:38 PM
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You got it right! He wants the best of both worlds. So either he will get the virgin and feel like she doesn't have enough life experience or he will get the outgoing woman and realize that she needs change to be the partner he wants. Dating experience helps a lot. I'm not talking about experiencing kissing or flirting. Talking to all these different kinds of men can help you see what is out there and what is worth keeping around. I learned that a guy who picks up my call quickly or responds whe…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 04:53 PM
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He's a bit emotionally careless. I feel confident guessing that he's had many small flings that he broke up because he has some standard that is hard to reach. 9/10 who get into mid 30s single usually are single because of their issues in some way. Some guy's issues are not feeling reciprocation and some guys issues are that they don't know how to pick a mate properly so never can find one. I find his reason of you being 'too shy' as BS and he just wants a more outgoing, lively woman. I am more …
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 02:22 PM
8

Unfortunately, 9/10s will swipe on every chick 5/6 or above. Yes, he's probably swiping as a chore. I do this too, but women pay more attention at the swipe where men pay more attention later.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 02:16 PM
2

This guy doesn't remember you as much as you remember him because you had a reason the interaction was more significant than he did. It's understandable you felt more there. Sounds like he's gone on a ton of dates and is on dating apps somewhat as a chore to get to his end goal. He may have forgotten about you after the first time he unmatched quickly, spesh if you have changed anything about your profile. Everyone else is bland for now because he was a first and because you aren't getting enoug…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/23 02:15 PM
1

Yah but, you will get older. You are thinking about your costs NOW but you and him will get older. You will need a car payment or need a to rely on your income due to an economic event. In the future you will need more and more healthcare. You will have more and more unexpected costs. Things will always keep getting more and more expensive. If it works right now, that means you should focus on future solutions rather than focusing on how you could make future circumstances (living with man) work…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 08:54 PM
2

I highly suggest looking for single Christian groups on your area. Find one, go until you decide if you like any of the men. Keep in touch with the ladies you like and try another Christian group or Christian singles group. It's a great way to socialize. Also vocalize to Christian women older than you that you are single and ready to mingle in case they know of something. That has gotten me a few dates.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 08:52 PM
2

Then maybe chubbyness isn't the issue but specifically the sexiness or overt sexuality. Some Christian mean might see that as a red flag. The apps vs IRL is the theme, so the source is the difference between paper and IRL. Maybe you are using a language that's unattractive, or your voice tone is funny. I don't know for sure, but you need humbly and soberly look for the differences between your 'on paper' self and IRL self. A few Christian women I know like to pretend the men at church don't want…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 08:50 PM
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'according to his words, since he is considered a high-value male' This is starting out on the wrong foot already like ofc a guy like him says all this lul
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:22 AM
1

Such as?
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 05:37 PM
2

WOW I did NOT catch that 'they’d never let a guy have input about their work' part. Wow. They aren't even using logic. You want career advice from people who have a better career that pays more with more recognition than you currently have. Your husband fits the criteria. Do your friends? But they think they would have better career advice for you than him! LOL I'm guessing but I sure as heck know top 10% earning women only talk like that for 2 reasons: issues with men or her career is gender sp…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 05:04 PM
3

Girl, we are in a global recession. Let it go. You succeeded. Selling a company is the end goal for many fortune 500 companies. I professionally hire people. There is a lot of forgiveness for resume gaps during a global recession. I recently hired a software engineer who was unemployed for 2 years while he ran a small 2-person business with his wife. The recession came and business didn't turn enough profit to support them both, so he got a $120k job at my company with a several years resume gap…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 04:51 PM
6

Yah, huge red flag she doesn't have a cell phone number. There would be no reason unless he wants to control the means of contact so he can cut it when he wants.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 04:38 PM
3

Usually, women like OP and I who come out with that mindset need to hear the opposite truth. Your reality is valid and true. That's the reality I grew up around so I thought it would happen to me. Some people need to hear your truth, and some don't. I don't think OP is one of them. Wait, I called myself a bitch? When? And I don't take pride. I'm just stating a reality. I don't think it's fair for you to attach me just because you have a different life experience. We can both feel validated witho…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 04:33 PM
4

Girl. As a bay area bitch ... LOL @ thinking a part time wife is enough extra money. I know men making $300k with wives making $150k talking about how they can't afford their mortgage. I know men making $450k who say they can't afford a salary cut. You need a big reality check. You are asking for too much. Yah, rich people grow up in rich families and marry their rich family friends so you will see people having what you want. If you don't come from money, then be realistic. The only way you cou…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 07:55 PM
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mmm yah so I think you aren't getting attention at church because you present that you want to go from 0 to 100 in the relationship. 'Seems too needy for a provider/husband.' The benefit of meeting men at church is that you know they are compelled towards marriage and against hook ups. You don't need to vet church men for marriage as much. That's great! That means you can start things off more carefree at first. But sounds like you start off with 'I want you to financially support me 100% and if…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 07:50 PM
4

I've been asked out by every single guy at my church either IRL or over apps. If you are getting ignored, then I think there is something you can fix. The women at my church who get ignored are 1) chubby 2) dress/look boyish 3) dress too sexy 4) seem too needy for a provider or husband 5) too bossy. Do you fit into any of these? If not, I can ask more questions to find the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 07:47 PM
3

You should give more tips on how to spot men like you. You are a rare kind.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 07:45 PM
4

As someone who thought the same way as you and it failed horribly for me, I highly suggest you still dedicate effort to gaining skills that can always earn you money. It looks more attractive, and it allows you the money to take care of yourself while waiting for the guy. I thought a guy would be my 'financial plan' too. That's 1960s thinking our elders taught us because they didn't know the world would change. You cannot wait for the man to have your part-time side hustle. That's a bad plan I k…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 07:42 PM
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Very incredibly easy to find a single guy in that age range who will offer a hot 20-year-old an 'internship' so he can take her on dates. I do not believe one bit that there is an internship involved. It's not as easy to use looks for your career as it was 5, 10 and 15 years ago. If a man alludes to career growth but takes you on a date, he's exploiting your career aspirations for his chance to get 20-year-old sex. I promise you; I've had to tell many 40 something men that exploiting young women…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/23 07:22 PM
1

Get a Date Worth Keeping by Henry Cloud - Best one I've read. Only bummer is that it's online dating advice is outdated but it's red pill content wrapped in fuzzy warm uncle talk.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 09:26 PM
1

Girl smh he means it if he brought it up. Men don't' bring it up unless they have decided they are ready. CHILL. Trust him that he knows when he's ready and feel the feels. He will probably have to grow up to be a husband, but you will have to grow up too so grow up together. He's not perfect. You aren't perfect. Leave the fear in the past. Find married women around you and ask if he's husband material. If they say yes, chill.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 07:46 PM
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I will say I've never had a good experience directly asking men out, and I think it's bad advice to tell women to make the first move, but I've alluded to wanting to go out with a guy successfully many times. He mentions a place he likes, 'you'll have to take me sometime.' Or you talk about a movie, 'we will have to watch it together sometime.' You aren't asking out, but you are saying that you might say yes if he did because you've already imagined it. Maybe he will imagine it, too. It's the 'd…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/23 07:44 PM
2

I have also seen that! I knew a millionaire who would complain he can't bag younger, more attractive women but the most he would 'spend on a sugar baby' is $500/month aka 'market rate.' Tons of money. Dropped $20k on 6 months of skincare treatments to get the young women he's too cheap to pay for on sugar sites. Tried to pick up younger women by offering them business advice then trying to make the exchange sexual once she became reliant on him (totally cheepy and below his status). Never got hi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/23 06:25 PM
2

mmm yah a guy can like you a lot but if you seem too needy, they will dash
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 09:26 PM
7

What were the 2 other divorces about?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 11:28 PM
9

Do you know why he would want custody? Is he trying to avoid future child support? Does he have kids now?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 11:27 PM
4

No, but a woman who has no friends is a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/23 10:02 PM
5

Is he applying these ideas?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 07:21 PM
3

I sent you a messaged you! Check your requests!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 09:10 PM
8

Why is he on the app?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 03:44 PM
1

👏👏👏
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 08:54 PM
0

I mean, that’s not what I heard when I listened to her talk show. I don’t really listen to much red pill anymore. I found it to be negative overall, not just Bila. Maybe not Dixie and fascinating womanhood but that’s not red pill specific content. I like Candace Owens.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 02:11 AM
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Lul she worked on the view so what can you expect? I mean it’s that, women like pearl, the one off reformed ‘femininity’ guru or stay at home moms making mom content 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/23 12:01 AM
6

Jedidah bila is the best red pill for a feminist to digest. New Yorker woman with significant career success.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 07:12 PM
5

Jpt is full of it and has no success to support her statements
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 07:11 PM
2

You sound like the guys I dump lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 12:33 PM
1

Gf should pay someone to do that for her aka couples therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 04:39 PM
5

Yah. Her only option is to learn to focus on the goal and counseling or therapy will help. OP, only speak with a friend who has proven success in relationships you want.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 04:17 PM
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Women have multiple types of orgasms. You are not getting off on 1 kind. That doesn't mean you can't find sexual satisfaction with other things. Clitoris G-spot Vaginal Anal Nipple Exercise orgasm Multiple/squirting Sleep orgasm I would suggest exploring the other types and finding one that drives you wild so he can have a source of getting you off. Are you able to get yourself off by rubbing your clitoris? If not, maybe clitoris masturbation together could be an entry point.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/23 06:28 PM
4

I dumped the guy who said the same thing and now that we are broken up, he is open to marriage with other ppl. Good for me that he’s being dumped! But, it’s amazing how fears of legality change with time. If you truly cannot imagine not even a spiritual ceremony, don’t consider. I realized that marriage was a respect thing I couldn’t go without and even though I broke up at 34, I’m glad I did. A real man isn’t afraid of legal risk. His reasons make sense but at EOD legal risks don’t stop teenage…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/23 05:14 AM
2

Statistics don’t lie. You are just willfully ignoring the majority. Either look outside your echo chamber without your pride or just … stop talking to yourself in catty comments. https://youtu.be/iDPFu9-SqFk?si=vDarkk_RP_xV7c8u
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 07:12 PM
1

You should watch this video: https://youtu.be/iDPFu9-SqFk?si=vDarkk_RP_xV7c8u Clinical professional talks about how American women have to convince their husbands to stay at home with their children because it’s expected now that women become providers.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 07:11 PM
2

My friends? Ma’am or mister, you are making massive assumptions to prove a point you think I don’t understand. Yah, you are not seeing the rest of the world. I see people who have it all and I hear them complain about not having it all! lol you remind me of a 70 something guy from suburban Christian Colorado that didn’t believe me when I told him housing prices were unaffordable in 2022 because his late 20s son was about to buy a house with his wife. There are millions of women out there crying …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:47 PM
1

I feel like you are ignoring my words entirely and talking to yourself. I have exposure to the middle to upper class in America and spent time in Asia. There is a drastically different view of feminism. In Asia, women are taught how to be wives as kids so they can go be career women and successfully transition into wife. It’s socially easier for them to do that as it’s acceptable for a woman to not work if she’s married. That’s the utopian feminism we had in the 1970s in America. But things are …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:40 PM
1

The idea that women can carry on a career, family, and relationship successfully is delusional and causing a lot of emotional struggle for women trying to achieve that impossible standard. That’s the real western lie even you are buying into. Bring back eastern traditionalism and expect women to thrive at 2/3 maximum. 1/3 standard. Women cannot do it all.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:28 PM
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Guy needs to go back to mgtow
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:26 PM
1

Why is thunder penis in the ladies sub yelling at the sky? 😭
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:26 PM
1

Well I’ve seen a lot of Bay Area career women unable to translate career success into parental success + have talked to their children. I feel like you just explained something to me I already live IRL 🤷‍♀️ I’ve seen a pattern enough times to talk like this.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 03:24 PM
2

How can you expect a woman with aspiration for a career to magically translate the same aspiration to a family? Those are different like categories. Too often this dynamic just creates problems like covertly abusive mothers. These are the mothers who have kids so they can say they did it all, not because they have the yearning to foster life. It also sounds a bit backwards you want a woman with career aspiration that will let a man provide for her because that’s the gender role. A career driven …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/23 11:37 AM
2

As an artistic thoughtful one, I’ve learned not every kind of man can appreciate that.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 10:24 PM
1

NCBI has a study that indicates the pandemic increased relationship dissatisfaction but as of early 2022, most reports have showed things are similar to pre-pandemic. https://www.prb.org/resources/cohabiting-couple-staying-together-longer/ Too lazy to find this study but here’s the news: https://liberalarts.du.edu/news-events/all-articles/new-du-study-highlights-risks-living-together-engagement
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 10:23 PM
4

There is reasonable data that shows couples who live together before marriage are more likely to never get married than couples who don't. There is a correlation to divorce as well.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 07:51 PM
2

I'd agree to that too.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 07:49 PM
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Well, men do save ~2x of what women do so there is a gender difference. There are reports indicating single women in major cities pay 3% more on rent than single men. The rent for sex epidemic is mostly a women’s problem.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 03:36 PM
3

I think the future of dating for blue pill looks like this so it bleeds over to purple pill. Elitism is a traditional concept!
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 03:28 PM
0

Easy to do when you only see that
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 10:17 PM
0

I think it’s fomo too
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 08:55 PM
0

Well, research shows you can learn how to be turned on. https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/707731 more accurately, that our sexuality changes consistently over time and is influenced by our environment. Again, not everything our partners will do will look sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 10:54 AM
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Not everything your man will do will be sexy. Learn how to not let it be a turn off. Our minds are jello.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/23 08:53 PM
6

Join the thirty plus skincare on Reddit. Learn Korean style skincare brands and adapt natural habits like qua sha, derma and body planes. Work up to tretinoin in the future. Don’t rush into needles until you’ve learn how to keep your skin nice. I recommend doing 15 incline in the treadmill at 2.8-3.0 speed for 15-30 minutes after a workout. This is proven to be as effective asa jog in weight maintenance. I do Pilates and then weights with the treadmill after but you don’t need the Pilates. I’m m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 01:12 PM
11

I relate to you so bad. You and I are horny. That’s all. We have high sex drives and we like sex. The Christian faiths views of sex isn’t for women who really like sex. The original text does not say we need to be married to a man for sex but in an exclusive relationship. I think modern Christians have created a situation hard for those with sex drives. I deeply disagree with Christians who shun maturation for the horny. That is the only way I didn’t lose my virginity to a stranger like you are …
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 12:38 PM
5

My dating life was dreadful in my 20s too but it’s GREAT in my 30s. I didn’t have hope that I would find another guy after my $700k/year 6’4” ex from a good family. But, I’m still bagging guys like him. And I learned ex wasn’t that great and not high value despite having money. Stay hot. Do skincare. Learn to stop protecting your fear of aging onto men.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/23 11:27 AM
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Man works full time and owns a business so he can provide for your retirement, your present and his child’s future. For him to reduce work, you are asking him to reduce provision he’s giving to you. That sounds weird to men. He mentions the SAHM because that’s a luxury he’s providing you. If you want him to work less then you gotta join his work effort with the small business. He’s not going to pull back.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 12:07 PM
1

Did you just stalk me online because you are bitter? Tf??? Great example of a Christian making Christ look bad lol
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 06:28 PM
1

You clearly know I’m dating. Why does my marriage status impact my ability to have these experiences? It doesn’t. You just want to discount me for some weird reason??
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 08:36 PM
1

Do you think men find out my age and suddenly go 'OH, NO NO NO, NO THANKS MAM I'M NOT INTERESTED' ??? That's what RP men say but not what I see. It usually does not phase them. Men who want a woman to birth their 5-kid family are asking other questions that disqualify me. Not even 1 guy has said a thing about my age and I've never been rejected for my age. Yet.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 06:52 PM
6

I know a chick whose boyfriend said this exact thing and she broke up with him so he could have his fun while in college. He eventually came back when the fun was over but she was already in a relationship with a new guy she ended up marrying. She was 22-24 age when the break up happened.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 06:23 PM
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My apologies for the short and not crazy helpful comment but I gotta say, as a 35 year old women often mistaken for 25 … the wall make RP talks about is a concept and not a real wall . They can barely tell who is 20 something much less could identify a woman ‘past the wall.’ I’ve had ‘I won’t date someone over 25’ men ask me out in my 30s. Men are just as clueless on how ‘the wallI’ looks as much as they can’t tell what’s natural makeup or makeup free. It’s easy! Stay under 30 bmi, don’t acquire…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/23 12:50 PM
2

If he’s not a broke loser, then this is a you problem :(
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 02:09 PM
25

You can't lose 40 lbs. in 60 days. At best, you lose 1-2 lbs. a week. You can lose 40 lbs. between now and Jan 21st with small changes. I know you like to walk outside, but sometimes we do things we don't like to get results. The easiest way for you to lose weight is 10k steps a day (.75-1.5 hours) every single day + diet changes. I highly suggest you 'learn to like it' and use that time to make calls, watch TV or do other things. Life isn't supposed to be easy. Our body isn't designed to relax …
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 05:14 AM
3

So sounds like you aren’t going to take feedback and keep running mental circles until you realize you can’t solve your own problem because you refuse to take feedback. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 02:03 PM
3

Yah I’m pretty sure @kroshkamoya s attitude is way more unattractive than her job but she needs a few more hours or days of yelling at people she’s right and just can’t fix her problem until she seeks out help for the attitude issue.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 02:00 PM
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Are you going to accept the feedback that men are turned off by your career or are you going to run mental circles looking for logical deduction that you are right but you just can’t seem to fix your problem? Can’t pick both honey
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 01:57 PM
2

Most young men will have an issue with a woman earning more. The older they get, the less they care. I’m also seeing a rise in men who want a provider woman, like you. First, what do you want more? You clearly have put much more time, effort and money into your education and career. Have you done the same amount of work to find a man? Probably not. So you see your outcome. You have a great career that is now negatively impacting the other want. So, which do you want more? This is the big questio…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 01:49 PM
2

Yah, it is! You are in one of the hardest situations to be in. You are outperforming men your age and older so to get what you want, someone who can provide for a six figure income earner (not many), you will lose the qualities the providers you want are attracted to as you keep conquering your career. I can attribute some of my dating success at 35 to the fact that I don’t outperform men so I’m never their competition. You need to be hanging out with the joneses at this point. You will need to …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/23 01:24 PM
3

My mom was a pick me raised to be a hot woman bagging whatever man upped her economic status the most after a drug dealer broke her heart. She grew up in southern poverty with a mentality ill mother, found Jesus and my dad. In every way, I was the Barbie she used to live out the life she never had. She did this my negating any aspect of me that wasn’t like her. It took a long time to find out who I am beyond her. She even did body checks on me (criticized pubic hair), suggested plastic surgery, …
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 06:00 PM
2

I suspect that cost of living will keep increasing and the youth will be born into second world conditions in some parts of America.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 02:49 PM
2

that he very specifically likes That's war moves but you don't need to do a thing.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 10:58 PM
1

Benefit in their career from associating with you?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 10:53 PM
5

As a woman who was a late bloomer, I agree. I also have had many men and all my exes boomerang back. It's an insult that isn't worthwhile. I usually ignore, or flat-out reject. I gave 1 person 1 chance and that was the last time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 10:52 PM
2

It is true for some religious men! It's not hard to find a religious man looking for 'fun.' Are you going to leave any tips on how to put yourself outside of the fun category?
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 04:08 PM
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LOL wait until they are late 30s and see if you still think that way lol If you want to dress very modestly, find religious men who value dressing very modestly. Men will pretend they want modest women, but they want women who cover something and still show their features.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/23 03:08 PM
5

You are right that you are not seeing what male podcasts say. There is a bit of confusion on your part. There are very few men that hunt for a wife. Most pick the best fit that comes along or the one that won't let them go. Men who hunt for wives do want someone who is a virtuous woman but, few men are like that and it make look like no men are hunting for a wife. Women who become wives don't get as much male attention. Kinda sucks. Less dates that look even less when most male attention you may…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/23 01:01 PM
2

It's about what their values are. A more conservative guy will likely pay, even if you invited him out. A conservative man could be off put by asking out, or it could be more casual like 'I'm getting food here if you want to join.' A liberal man would expect you to pay since you asked out.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 03:06 PM
1

'How to get a date worth keeping' is Christian and the best dating book I've read.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/23 01:50 AM
2

I have a mentally ill mother and a similar background as yours. #1 you need a counselor, mentor or therapist. It will take time to find that so start sooner than later. Don't make excuses. My mom loved pink so I hated it all my life but now I can love pink again because I fixed what she did to me. Part of learning how to look your best is accepting that there will be times you try to look your best and don't. You can't expect yourself to do something really well the first time.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 09:29 PM
1

I agree! OP, you are a hidden diamond who just needs polishing.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 09:29 PM
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If it were a permanent change, that's different. But this is a temporary experience for you and is a forever moment for her.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 05:16 PM
2

Wow, his family is edging close to cult-like conservativism. I'm 35 dating a 29-year-old and I can still look up to him and he can still lead me. Masculine energy is not correlated with age, although it can grow and improve with age. It is correlated with gender. He's a guy. He's going to lead even if he's younger. At 21, I wouldn't expect overwhelming leadership. I would expect a growing man who is learning wisdom and maturity. You will grow together. He's not the leader you want now but the ag…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/23 05:02 PM
6

Mission accomplished!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/23 02:58 AM
1

I want to meet you IRL one day! My best friend in town has lyme also.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 09:57 PM
7

No advice, just excited for you!
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 07:31 PM
5

I feel like I’m peaking at 35. I got diagnosed with an autoimmune condition at 33 and have been regular people healthy for only 1 full year of my adult life. The rest I was slowly dying with my body and mind getting weaker with age. Since last year, I changed my style to be soft/feminine, I’ve been in therapy for so long that I almost have nothing to talk about anymore and dropped any baggage making me fun, carefree and lively. My tits are slightly lower and further apart because I’m a B cup and…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/23 07:20 PM
2

I’m either or on kids but I’m not going to have kids without a father. I’m kinda at the point that I’ll either spend my last child having years looking for the one or spending on someone I hope will be the one so I’m 🤷‍♀️ at this point. God is in control. I’ll take the encouragement!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 10:11 PM
3

Yah, I’m often mistaken for much younger!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 10:08 PM
1

Yup!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 09:00 PM
-2

It really is a bad social look for a well to do man to go for much younger (10+) in their 30s. Why? Well, that’s an easy target. It’s not hard for rich men to get young women to date them or marry. It’s harder to keep the same woman since they were broke or harder to get a woman who comes from a respectable family.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 04:46 AM
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So tell me how this is going because I’m 35 dating a 29 yo guy. First time dating younger and, way younger.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/23 04:41 AM
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Don’t give up! It’s a hard wait.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/23 12:58 AM
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🥹 Ty
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 07:42 PM
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What? I’m a well paid, highly educated single childless woman successful in business (hence why I talk about economy) and respected in my community for self awareness and community building (as per feedback). I even have a way to protect/pass on wealth! I’m honestly not that far off from qualifying to vote in my own opinion. Maybe cool off from being triggered and try to process how someone like me could have these ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 06:37 PM
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I don’t get why that’s your conclusion. Giving everyone a choice means choices are based on popularity whereas qualifying voters means choices would be based on knowledge from experience. It happens to be that men would get that knowledge more and faster but that doesn’t mean I want women to be second class citizens as f detailed in my statement describing women I think would qualify. It’s just gonna nature that more women than men don’t want to do what it would take to qualify. That’s not an op…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 06:30 PM
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Please explain how being decisive and making good decisions are so vastly different that it invalidates my statement? I would say that good decision making and decisiveness are both traits that can be learned but generally speaking, women are not decisive despite having a generally equal presence in the workforce (I.e. not learning how to be decisive) and the average western women (as indicated by research) has poor decision making skills due to the consequences of having casual sex at a young a…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 02:50 PM
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Yes! I’m more referring to voting demographics. My age range, location, family status, relationship status and education track inline with the feminist voter. I don’t vote so there is no reason I should be getting political emails. I never sign up! It would only be if I fit into a demographic of some database of contacts a company bought from another company.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 09:16 AM
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I think probably less than 5% of women are actually mentally and economically qualified In coastal mega cities, it's much higher at 30-40% since these women are often best of the best in their industry, skill or education and have acquired more typically male skills. I've been shocked to find out how many full-time, well-educated employed moms/wives are nearly helpless without their husband now that I'm not in a coastal mega city. I know several PhD women who are well paid and emotionally depend…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 09:05 AM
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Don't hate me but I think we should increase the requirements to vote and if that means a SAHM doesn't vote because she doesn't have as much responsibility weight on her shoulders, thus making her decision making ability skills less sharpened, then I'm ok with it. If I had to lose my right to vote so I wouldn't be drafted, I would give up that right. I don't think I deserve the right to vote and probably wouldn't until I owned a business, cared for my family (kids or parents), and created a way …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 07:27 AM
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At every age I ask this question. Men will not stop being attracted to you for many years to come. Men will not stop wanting you to be their gf for a long time. Men marry women at 40 more often than you see. You have a lot longer than you think. But, your relationships and marriages will look diff. You can’t afford to wait for the perfect match. But you have time to find a very good match. Don’t let temporary things like interests get on the way when what matters is the relationship and it’s pur…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/23 09:19 PM
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Ikr honestly 7 year Ltr at mid twenties is a green flag imo. Wish it was only 4 but whatever, not a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 12:13 PM
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Although understandable, it is delusional to think you are used up after a 7 year relationship at 26. I suggest therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/23 11:11 AM
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Yah Houston is a city of the world and left!
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 10:05 PM
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Welcome to conservative America. I would consider Houston moderate. I wouldn’t call Texas very conservative, just conservative. You aren’t used to dating men who have had the same goals for most of their lives. Like women, non conservative men tend to make kids and marriage a goal after a certain age, or after other goals. There is a maturity in having the same goals vs growing up as an already adult and refining goals.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/23 05:34 PM
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!!!! Wow, that would be ... mmm I mean, that would teach her something. He's a total catch! Today, I found out she broke his heart!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 06:24 PM
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The news is lying about the job market to keep a global economy from going into a depression. It’s very hard to get white collar jobs right now and not so hard to get minimum wage jobs. I can go into detail as to why UI numbers are fishy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 05:54 PM
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She would fall for the right Christian cult leader type! Currently debating if I should direct her to a therapist or just create a boundary on the dating subject.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 02:47 PM
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That’s another issue to unravel lol I would be shocked but also her beliefs indicate someone who would repress those kinda feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 02:25 PM
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You know what’s funny. She stopped going to Zumba class because she felt it was too sexual and not glorifying God. I think it was the tit shaking that got to her. She’s very aware of what ‘tempts’ her physically and actively avoids as this isn’t the only place she stopped doing something because it seems sexual.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 02:19 PM
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So this man she bailed on … she’s still very close with his family and she still sees him often. He isn’t dating and told her he’s not sure if he will ever get married. I would suspect she does him convert harm as she goes to his family events including birthdays. I would suspect she is still hurting him. But I’ve never met or seen him.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 02:17 PM
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I like that you high lighted the hypocrisy as you are correct, even a pastor wouldn’t live up to the standards. She has asked over and over for advice. She has expressed she is actively looking for a husband. She would say she’s open to change and she is in very small doses. I might set a boundary. As I read this, I remember her bad relationship with her bad. It’s starting to sound like a bigger issue and I’m only seeing the corner.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 02:14 PM
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I gotta figure out what comfortable means. I do think she’s operating in more how he makes her feel when he talks about the faith! I didn’t realize that but it is a ‘the feels’ situation.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 05:23 AM
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Wow, This is overall a really great comment! Thank you. 🙇🏼‍♀️ I did not catch the avoidant attachment at all. I’m on chapter 5 of that book right now. Her childhood, that I know, would likely create an avoidant adult. I don’t know how far to go with her. She had never has had single friends over 30 who might keep her more accountable for her avoidance. I notice her married friends do not. We almost got to the ‘don’t go there’ threshold, but still other woman and I were both able to express ourse…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 05:16 AM
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Because 65-75% of our conversations are about how she wants a guy, how she wants to date more, being single, dating ... as a trio of 3 single women actively dating talking about the same things. She actively asks feedback aka actively invites this 'to occupy headspace.'
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/23 04:23 AM
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I had this problem. I used to date only men 5’8”-5’10”. I then dated someone 6’4” and he intimidated me with the height only. You probably aren’t that short so you are used to not being super short. That’s all. Go to Southeast Asia and you won’t be used to being super tall and you’d feel self conscious. It goes away with time. There is no special method that will make it go away. Practice not letting the height thing get confused with other emotions. He’s bigger than you but you are both still e…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 06:41 PM
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I mean, I didn’t like how Ken wanted revenge on Barbie, didn’t like the closeted gay Allan, didn’t like the Birkenstocks at the ending, didn’t like how Barbie kept rejecting Ken, how there was only 1 super blonde Ken and Barbie but … I really really like the visuals and it was really nice to see women go to the theater together and bond over a movie that was made directly for the female gaze in terms of visuals.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/23 07:05 AM
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Congrats girlie!!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 09:13 PM
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Yes, there are few people who are totally wrong and she has some value in her words. But there isn’t a mainstream narrative encouraging young marriages. Hailey Bieber, Bobbie Millie brown and Sophia Richie have all been publicly ridiculed for their young marriages. The mainstream narrative, given by this woman, is to explore and then settle down. A small minority of people advocate for 18 year old marriages, even when it’s child actresses like Millie who have lived more life at 18 than most 18 y…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 08:54 PM
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More context would help and in sure there are issues behind the scenes we don’t see. But yah, I don’t buy the find yourself either. Everyone I know who did this are currently panicking with inflation.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:37 PM
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Is there anyone telling women to not carefully pick a mate? Has there ever been a successful marriage based solely on early love without other factors like social standing?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:32 PM
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I didn’t see him! I hope not but I’ve many times heard women like this talk like this in front of their kids and husband! It’s double disrespectful to both not appreciate his provision and to say it came with consequences as a warning.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:15 PM
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Great comment! True statements! The line is fine.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:11 PM
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Well, thanks! There is a book called ‘choices we make’ which foreshadows dynamics today with statistical information from the late 1990s. Essentially the book explains why women don’t ‘go in the right order,’ how race and economic background impact a woman’s choice in reproduction and marriage. You might find it interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:06 PM
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I agree that there is no right age. I agree that there is no right order. As someone in that demographic who cohabitated; yes, cohabitation before marriage a majority of the time doesn't help a relationship. You keep calling me worried when I'm clearly someone who has taken boomer advice and was confused with the outcome. I'm now very happy with my life and that's partially because I figured things out, like boomers giving bad advice. Yes, I want other women like me to be happy! Since my peers a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 03:26 PM
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Curious to hear why you assume I think this sub is a trad sub?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 03:00 PM
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If I say colleges are too expensive and exploit those looking for a better life, is that unfair? Does that mean all colleges exploit and are expensive? No. It doesn't make all colleges bad, it just means some exploit and are expensive. Generational generalizations are not bad and often leads to good things. It's bad when there are real life actions like destroying property based on owner age. But showing younger generations where the older generation is misleading, or fear mongering is inherentl…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 02:49 PM
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I found her annoying from the first but when it got to the part about not investing and getting a house while you are young. I don't know if she is intentionally giving poor advice or just stupid. This is bad advice! I know several 30+ women who didn't invest in their twenties and kept non career jobs so they could travel and find themselves. I know one specifically who just realized that she can't survive on $40k in HCOL her entire life. The 'finding yourself' thing can have a good context but …
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 02:44 PM
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They can do what they want but the issue is that they try to guide women to play by rules that don’t exist anymore, and millions of people lament that boomer dating rules didn’t work. I even set up my post as an explanation lay out explaining why boomer dating rules don't work. I care about the women in the gap of advice since they have no voice. You just shut down that voice by trying to claim I’m worried about other ppls business!!! That's a feminist tactic! Can we have more support for the gi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 02:18 PM
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I recently watched a discussion that explained how generational discourse is human nature and there hasn’t been a time in human history without. The discussion explained how this is good as it pushes the young to learn from the old, the old to prioritize the young over themselves, and provides opportunity for new ideas to pop up without being smushed by authority. North Korea was mentioned as a country where generational discourse isn’t allowed and the country didn’t advance far. This is not neg…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 02:10 PM
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I really don’t understand the down votes but not enough dialogue to figure it out. I could only imagine it’s from people taking things personally.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 02:07 PM
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Yah, there is a big difference in those ages. Those are very different people. Realistically, few women live in a 2,000 person town and a majority of America lives near or in urban areas. People in urban areas have more exposure to large scale economics, social structures/norms, ‘street smarts’ and often start employment young. Some of these women I referred to in my post got married in their 30s! One had her first kid at 38 in 1982! There is a big gap between a 75 year old who got married after…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 07:53 AM
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I don’t understand this ‘develop yourself’ then get married thing. People are always changing and growing. The young at heart are always developing themselves as persons. Every marriage sees personal changes after so many years. I can understand someone who knows so little of the world needing to open their eyes first. But that doesn’t apply to everyone. The ‘develop yourself’ concept in feminism is often translated into ‘build a career and travel’, like the lady said, while back burnering marri…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 06:31 AM
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Glad to hear a happier story here, where a woman stood for what she wanted and is finding better!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/23 12:43 AM
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Pack a good lunch that looks like a woman packed it with fancy cut veggies, napkins and dessert.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 09:44 PM
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Ooooo now I’m curious what your old username was!!! Push back is always good. I have also noticed it’s black women talking the most about passport bros. When white women stepped back for black women to lead feminism, at the request of society and black women, it pushed black women further into feminism than white women. It’s more of a crime to not be a feminist as a black woman than a white a woman. There really isn’t much to do expect work on narrative that black women don’t have to be feminist…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 09:09 PM
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You got me confused as I don’t know if you are a man trying to push white as being the only attractive race or a RP women trying to make a point I can’t see. Historically, black women’s outcomes become all women’s outcomes. Read the book ‘the choices we make’ which explains why certain races and types of women never marry. For example, the rise of single mothers, the rise of highly educated women, the rise of never married blank women are predicate the same patterns in the general western popula…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:38 PM
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Are you in South Asia? No one thinks dark skin pussy looks dirty but South Asians. If you looked at the most recent comment I made, then you should take the same advice and go to QOVES studio to find out more about the science of beauty. Bleaching the vulva can cause long term loss of sensation, scars, and long lasting pain. Many governments won’t approve vaginal rejuvenation with bleach because the risk is too great. If you want a pretty pussy, why risk scars? Is anyone seeing you naked or are …
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:27 PM
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Please don't put whitening cream on your genitals. You are obsessing. Chill out. You are doing enough. You are enough. Consider therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:10 PM
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You should check out https://www.reddit.com/r/QOVESStudio/ It's a subreddit and youtube channel about the science of beauty. They recently did a poll on the most attractive skin tone and it was overwhelmingly tan skin. You are implying that fair skin is biologically more attractive but that differs from public opinion. You can have your wants but you cannot accurately say all of society wants light skin. No laws need to be enforced as fair skin people aren't the highest population people on eart…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 07:06 PM
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Good! I think black women represent the near future for all Western women and therefore, all RP and conservative women should be concerned with the black women living better romantic outcomes.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 05:58 PM
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As an Asian woman, how would you know if white women are competing against Asian women or not? Are you living on the West Coast per chance? Have you heard of passport bros? I mean, that subject does come into this conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 11:42 PM
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Yah this is also a feminism and globalization thing. OP gets to experience what black women have been experiencing for decades. Even white women are competing against Asian women for their same race men.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/23 07:50 PM
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#1 Asian men are more traditional #2 The highest income earners in America are Indian men
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/23 08:47 PM
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Girl, wrong sub!!!! Skincare sub plz!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 12:43 PM
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I went from 0 ft elevation to 12,000 ft elevation. This is what I learned: I wear (affordable) Uniqlo heat tech under summer items. These items are very thin and warm making it easy to layer heat tech under a sweater without feeling bulky. I have fleece tights that are just as thick as pants. I have good winter coats and 2 cashmere long sweaters. I wear pull over sweaters on top of dresses. I have tall boots. I have wool dresses. I buy dresses that still look good with winter layers. I have slip…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 11:46 AM
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This sounds like a racist man explaining women to women. This is not your sub buddy, go back to RP men.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/23 10:44 AM
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A son was valuable for income earning. Feminism removed that problem.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 07:43 PM
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Everyone saying ‘I’m not tradcon but RP works for gender dynamics’ is the same vibe as ‘I’m not conservatives but i want a guy to pay for a date.’ RP does not = tradcon
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/23 06:12 PM
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I’ve never lived in a city that didn’t have speed dating! It’s a National organization that ran mine and it started in New York in the 90s. After me too and Covid, people don’t really meet at bars or clubs as much unless it’s an already mutual friend thing. Everyone I know who is dating relies on apps for a majority of the work and the rest is social circles and events. I’d say I know women 25-45 dating and men 30-45 dating. Lots of downsides to apps but in person just isn’t like it was. It’s di…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 10:38 PM
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Honestly, that’s what I’m seeing too. After a certain age, if they are still never married it’s a red flag. Divorced men know women beyond the pick up.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 10:33 PM
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He could think it’s a flex. He seems like the type to struggle less to get female attention so that he needs something more unique to get his attention.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 08:19 PM
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The event was paid at a decent bar in a hip part of town. There was actually a therapist with his own private practice. He wasn’t unattractive. Regular dude with no kids or ex. Yah I can tell you aren’t knowledgeable on the current market / landscape. That’s the great weakness of some RP theologians is that it’s not up to date thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 08:15 PM
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Are you single and dating? I think you are under estimating how many high earning men struggle to meet women, namely when they refuse sugar babies. Speed dating is efficient at that would appeal more than an app that gives women the power. I never met a truly high paid man on an app, only at after work events kinda like this.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 07:46 PM
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Yah so a guy 5 years younger than me, who is very attractive and charming, is Gaga for me. I kinda don’t get it. I’m above average attractiveness, but not his level. We get along very well and have similar wants.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 06:19 PM
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Baggage such as an ex wife, kids or disability. Yes, 2 were effeminate in mannerisms and interests. One, who worked for a weed company and was model level attractive, seemed sporadically minded, unable to maintain a convo and emotional on a coin flip.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 06:15 PM
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You don’t know who really likes you or just want you around for decoration
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 03:42 AM
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Sounds like sugar addiction to me
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 02:09 PM
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Ooosshh I have your body type. Learn to love that you can’t lose the curve and learn to show off the curve more!! It was when I felt comfortable wearing fitted clothing when I felt fat was when I started dressing more attractive without insecurity. Lots of women are jealous how we look sexy no matter how skinny while we are jealous of them that they don’t look instantly chubby after gaining 5-10 lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 05:30 AM
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By curvy do we mean large breasts and wide hips with a small waist or do we mean overweight but not obese? Yes, I have made small changes to attract what I want. I started wearing dresses and romantic style clothing. I started moving more danty. I stopped over thinking dating and just had fun. I stopped talking so much. I learned how to let men come to me. Learned to stop seeing cringe in good guys who had no game. I got better at being cutesy and giving the gaga eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 05:00 AM
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‘Stopping eating’ Is binge and eating disorder language. You will not reach and maintain your goal if you have an eating disorder, like you’ve learned. You need clinical support. 10k steps a day every day helped me lose my bloat but I didn’t lose a stubborn 5 pounds until I did 15 incline, 2.8 speed for 30 minutes on a treadmill. You have disordered thoughts. You will not lose all the weight until you fix your relationship with food. This is not a mental health issue than lack of motivation to w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/23 03:45 PM
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So he’s still going out to events and places where he could pick people up and just not doing it?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:54 PM
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Focus less on the penis in vagina number and how many people they have had intimate connections with. Yes, oral counts towards his ability to have a good relationship. Men lose their pair bonding ability after long term relationships where they have sex with 1 person whereas women lose it with higher numbers of partners. So if a guy has had 2-3 long term partners, he probably can’t pair bond well. If I’ve of those was just the same person giving head, it might count.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:53 PM
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What exactly has he done to ‘leave that lifestyle’?
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 06:04 AM
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Yes!!!! I have friends who have met her IRL several times and she has the game of Lucifer. I’m gonna take that tip about the gushing and positive words building up.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 12:59 AM
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I've offered to pay once because I could tell the guy was looking for casual dating and I wasn't interested. In all other situations, I don't offer. Maybe 1 or 2 times a guy has delayed in grabbing the check but most of the time they call for the check or hand over their card swiftly. I just sit there. I always thank them and mention my favorite part between check and paying or right after payment. It's a great way to distract if you are standing at a register together. I stop expecting a guy to…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 09:31 PM
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34 year old men are set in their ways unless they actively try to be teachable and changeable. Sick people aren’t very changeable in mindset so that path will be long. If he’s not money motivated now, he might not ever be. This is a great example of age gap relationships not leading to financial security. If you didn’t want the possibility of being breadwinner, that should of been a discussion years ago. Most money or provider status focused men find that motivation in their 20s and at the lates…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 08:37 PM
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You’d be shocked how many men I’ve met whose ex girlfriend used to physically assault them in some way involving the butt. Either extreme slapping, pinching, and non consensual anal penetration (yes, more than 1 guy has confessed this). It’s just not a god look and some might see it as you expressing physical trauma you had in the past.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 07:31 PM
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I also do Les Mills at times! Les Mills Body pump is great for toning.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 07:08 PM
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Sounds like it really start pre Covid. When I say post Covid dating, it means finding each other post Covid, everything after March 2020 including first glance, not ‘On radar but not an item.’
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 06:37 PM
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Yah it’s in California, Colorado, Oregon, Washington, Maryland, urban Texas, New York, New Jersey, Arizona, and New Mexico. I first hand know about those other states but all trends reach the middle American in 5-10 from the start. I assume it’s in New England too as they marry older. Women on this sub married before Covid lived in a time that was different and have no reason to know how different it is. Sometimes they don’t give accurate 2023 advise, despite being given sub recognition. I’d agr…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 06:30 PM
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I did barre recently. It can be a workout! I'm a loyal Pilates gal but barre is great for women who want to learn how to move more gracefully. Congrats on the life level-up!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 09:57 AM
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Such a good point about needing a woman who can treat SAHM life as a job. The helpless women is being more correlated to money and earning due to the global recession, inflation, housing costs, Americans highest rates of debt in history, etc. I think maybe before COVID it was more ‘can you solve problems or do I have to save you?’ It’s getting a little mixed as more and more couples cohabitate to evade housing costs, based on what I’m seeing today as someone dating with friends dating. I notice …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 09:17 AM
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Mmm some. I was never asked about my money before COVID. The income question goes - so how are you financially? Or about that. It’s not really salary. It’s debt, budgeting, financial self control, lack of financial delusion they are looking for. I’ve always had men ask if I have student debt, even when I was just a high school grad. All of Musks baby moms and ex wives have degrees and some level of career accomplishment. It’s Ronaldo, came from nothing, choosing the retail worker 9 years younger…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 08:56 AM
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Did this happen since COVID or 2-3 years before COVID? Things are changing a lot as women become higher earners. Your statement sounds more true for earlier 2010s or 2000s era. I mean, I know someone who was a retail worker who married a 6-figure guy too ... in 2015. I've met several guys who dumped a girl making minimum wage (in their words, they don't want to be full caretakers of an adult) but I'll admit these guys are 6-figure men in coastal cities. I don't know how 6-figure men act in Ohio.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 07:21 AM
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No HVM cares about your career. Only losers care about a woman's career because they can leech off of it. Caveat - HVM do not care how successful of a career that you have, but they do care that you are making income vs being provided for by another non-family member. It's been shocking to me how many 6 figure men comment on how they like me because I can take care of myself, but I'm not career focused.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/23 03:23 AM
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This is really accurate! Most men look for women their age. Those who look for the age gap are a minority, not majority. OP, you might be able to see all the single guys who would date you but there are a lot! Worry when you are 37
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/23 09:41 PM
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I could agree that she could find someone who makes more than her with more net worth that will do more of the working if she does the self-improvement. I don't think she will find someone to make her a stay-at-home wife. Not without a lot of luck. I've seen Columbians run up costs by asking for new cars, new nails, new clothes often while being stay-at-home. Georgina Rodriquez vibes before she had kids. That kind of lifestyle might be gone. It's telling that he went to an engineer. In most plac…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 11:37 PM
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That’s something to talk about with a therapist. I have a recommendation if you need!
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 06:34 PM
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Are you asking if therapy will help your dating life? Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 06:26 PM
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So, if it were to happen, he would leave in the last year of your 3 years left residency? He hasn't even started so his clock hasn't started but you know it's 3 more years for you. Math is saying the amount of time he will be gone is a few months. You have in-laws nearby to help with the toddler for a few months. Could you move to him after the residency? If so, is a few months really such a big problem? You live a good life now, but that baby will only get more expensive with age, and he needs …
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 03:35 PM
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Yah. I had an ex get a new GF 3 days after we broke up. She was his neighbor I knew had a crush on him, but I didn't think stood a chance against me. I was wrong! They are still together many years later! I wonder if they mention me in their love story ~~
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 03:20 PM
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Oh, you left because you thought he was cheating but didn't have proof. This is a sign of your self-esteem and self-security levels. You let your insecurity have more precedence over logic and now you have the result. I'm sorry. He will not come back. The accusation for him was enough to push him to the point of no return. There were probably other issues he or you didn't mention. It's worth noting he went to a well-paid engineer after his housewife. That means maybe he didn't value your domesti…
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 03:14 PM
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Why did you leave?
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 03:10 PM
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Not so nice to lol and someone heartbroken. This isn't an RP men sub. We are nicer here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/23 03:09 PM
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!!!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 07:17 PM
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Well, that is happening in the larger population coastal cities. 🤷‍♀️ ++ feminism is dual sided. Both ‘I’m my own man’ but ‘I take from a man so he can’t take from me.’ That is expressed in the divorce court, but also in the sex industry like onlyfans. We can’t see only one side of feminism. It’s not just ‘I buy my own house and boat’ but also ‘I don’t give my body, I make money from my body.’ The body part only works culturally if every body is affirmed so that every woman and participate.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 05:35 PM
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If you’re so red pill then why not copy the red pill pattern of learning from those who know better with more experience? RP men buy books from those who know better but you are trying to teach those who know better. Do you see fresh n fit arguing with noob RP men? No. We aren’t bothering with you. We are trying to redirect up as someone with more knowledge and experience would. That’s pure RP.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 05:24 PM
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Kinda cringe post because you are at level 2 acting like a teacher with experience when level 10 are telling you to chill.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 05:15 PM
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Well, our culture is feminist so it doesn’t matter who was in the house of you watched tv, when to public schools, listened to modern music, or interacted with anyone who did.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 07:26 PM
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https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1910524743/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1910524743&linkCode=as2&tag=atavisionar0d-20&linkId=da92f335e675f2295dc606e5f9c8f5c2 ^^ ?? free?? Print copy??
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 07:01 PM
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You are hyper fixating. Beautiful doesn't = potential to be famous. There are lots of beautiful women not on social media. People who have high self-esteem and good mental health tend to care for their looks. People with high self-esteem get more in life. Therefore, unattractive people are more likely to have low self-esteem, mental health and as a consequence see less in life. Which started first? The looks or confidence? Most smart men get tired of dumb pretty women. Tiktok models have an enti…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 06:58 PM
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👏👏 a lot of men are frustrated they aren’t getting the outcomes they were promised and a lot of young women failing to successfully trade in their looks for the problem riches that RP promises.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 04:36 PM
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Really bonkers how many 25 year olds are saying they are aged out of the market when I just approved a marriage bonus for a couple with 1983 and 1985 birthdays on the marriage certificate. Even that, they are a conservative couple! Donovan Sharpe, Tate, and Tomassi go 🙀🙀🙀
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 02:18 PM
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Y’all gotta stop listening to male RP content
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 11:13 PM
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Are you in therapy? High chances you are crying Les because you aren’t being abused ++ a lot of people are mentally unhealthy and crying over comics.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 03:54 AM
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A couples therapist would be best for this.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 01:52 AM
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Yes! Cannot have it all and someone who can provide SAHM lifestyle should rank above the looks. The attraction factor is important because a couple needs to have sex but clearly that wasn't the attraction problem. It might be something that can be resolved.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/23 12:29 AM
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They are in your league. Let’s work on that self confidence before the date!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/23 02:13 PM
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Real asexual is hard to miss. Awkward questions come up early. With all respect, 20 is only a few years of sexuality that will last decades. If you consider the likeliness and clinical signs of asexuality, the likeliness is so low whereas the likeliness a young woman might be afraid of male sexuality or disassociated from femininity is so so much higher. I could be assuming you haven’t been clinically diagnosed but if you were you would acknowledge the low chance. Sexuality is layered and deep. …
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 07:25 PM
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I’ve been approached on public by men I would be interested in, but that’s 2-3% of the time. It’s not you. It’s culture. Me too killed a lot of your chances for being approached. You have to ‘open the door’ for men to approach you now. If I were you, I would drop my expectations to being blind approached by a man under 35 to zero. Do your part and drop the handkerchief.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 02:05 PM
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Came here to see what a 24 year old is doing talking about the wall, something a 24 year old has no experience to talk on and lol I found the girl who dated my ex. Yes, a 34 year old man dating a 23 year old was a sign. It’s easier for him to move on if he never saw long term with you and you know, a 35 year old man has more experience with break ups than you. Stop listening to male RP and thinking these single guys are good quality just because they are older than you. Stop worrying about the w…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:38 PM
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Check out fascinating womanhood. Dixie talks about disagreements with men about how to make it playful and silly. She’s really great with body language and communication. Don’t forget that submission to a man is to be saved for a husband and not a bf. BF stage is where you find out if he’s worth submitting to but submitting at BF, especially under a year in, any a good gamble. You don’t know if he’s good enough to lead you but you get caught up in it anyway by submitting early. The line might st…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 07:52 PM
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I’m not seeing you in person so I can’t tell you. You might have to figure it out yourself. I could nit pick and say a crop top is too short/cheap vibe, but that’s all I could say. I can’t see a thing. Be a woman of elegance, grace and dignity. Grace is complicated and being graceful is a lot more than moving a certain way. Grace can be used when expressing boundaries!! Some men will see ‘classy’ or ‘proper’ women above cat calling. Some men think some women are above sex on the first few dates …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 07:45 PM
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Btw her saying she flat out told her partner no sex 11 years ago worked 11 years ago. That probably won’t work for you today. You need to be in the lifestyle of physical boundaries for awhile so that your subconscious behavior displays the boundaries too. Men see in you a this and that. You say this, do that. So we gotta lose that behavior. I have been hurt in the past when a guy I liked wouldn’t keep dating me unless I put out. It sucks. But if it’s in the first few meets then he’s not looking …
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:37 PM
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Your will get less overall male attention when you stop putting out so quickly but it will be better quality. I can’t give an example of the ratio difference. Yes, all men want sex but it’s not that hard to get it anymore. There are men out there who would delay sex just to keep vetting you as a partner. But you only have access to those men when you are around them and behave correctly. Learn how to behave correctly and learn what wholesome, single adults do in their free time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:32 PM
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In guy speak, when you say that statement you are saying ‘I’ve been hurt in the past from sexual trauma so I’ll say one thing but will eventually give into you sexually.’ I don’t get it either but when you say it like directly to their face ‘I don’t want to have sex unless relationship’ they assume you will eventually give into them sexually. It’s wacko man thinking. If you want the boundary, you display it not say it. Keep his hands appropriately places. Dress appropriately for dates. Don’t all…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:29 PM
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All things are conditional but generally speaking you go from the wider bucket of general potential romantic candidate to sex buddy friend instantly. My ex tried to initiate sex on the first date. We waited a long time to have sex and he admitted we would have never been a couple if I had sex the first night.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:25 PM
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Boundaries are feminine and having boundaries is feminine. It’s how you express boundaries that could be seen as masculine. It’s also feminine to ‘give in’ but the boundaries prevent us from doing that too soon. As for other guy, he’s listening to Donovan Sharpe and the like but what did he earn from you to deserve all that? Probably nothing. So let him go off and convince someone else he’s worth more effort than he gives. That’s the 35+ man red pill that needs a manual for execution. A man need…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/23 04:23 PM
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Exactly. Peter Pan is socially unacceptable but still fits into standard laws and non-criminal behavior. For example, no kids in 40s, no stable career in 40s, etc. A teacher making a student fall in love with them is criminal behavior since it's legally defined as an inappropriate relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 02:39 PM
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Predator. You might be able to still tell the school. The less people know about this predator, the more people have PTSD from his behavior. The thinking he is a God is a mental disorder. Do not give a grown man who is responsible for teaching his children how to make good choices off the hook for bad choices because he doesn't want to address his mental health disorder. You are on the fast track to a mental disorder, too. You are not to blame for the actions of another, but you hold the consequ…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/23 02:28 PM
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Exactly! The fear of men's sexuality is natural. That part of humanity will never go away, and the solution isn't to erase what makes women appealing to men's sexuality.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 07:42 PM
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I thought I had no sex drive before I had sex too. There are a few biological factors your are not considering. Women sexual drive peaks in their 30s. Sexual drive can seem dormant during chastity. Women sexuality is more like waves whereas men’s is a cliff. Women can have multiple types or orgasms. You don’t know your orgasm style and drive until you are sexually active, and even then it takes 1 consistent partner. That’s when a lot of people suddenly find their sex drive. Sexuality changes ove…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/23 04:56 PM
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Love this!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 01:18 PM
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Due to your ages, you get to watch him become a real man. That’s gonna take growing pains. You can’t prevent that. You can just stay in your lane and watch him go.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 10:30 AM
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I was believing the crypto story until Bahamas
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/23 10:29 AM
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Wtf no!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 11:18 PM
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You got a lot right. There are lots of conservatives men who lean into spirituality but not the LA high vibe consciousness type. Maybe I’m talking from too much experience but I can’t imagine someone saying the new age movement is conservative but I was unhealthy deep in new age. I can see some overlap and some strong contention on things like abortion.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 04:04 AM
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Bread crumbing is emotional abuse. When you accept bread crumbing, you start creating toxic patterns like holding onto someone who is rejecting you. Remove him, remove the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 09:52 PM
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Girl, do I know what you’re talking about. Pretty much, most people who say they are moderate fall into your category. Moderate in LA is conservatives. Just go to any non coastal mega city and you will find what you’re looking for or any artsy Midwestern city. It’s but hard to find, you just can’t see that from LA. I thought I would have to find specific cities like you but then I just moved and realized that LA is the specific city super non traditional people want and being outlier in LA makes…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 08:33 PM
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Show up a few minutes early to touch up Give them your ETA of arrival before you leave Review their profile and convo before you meet Review you! Just take a few seconds to think about your life, interests, what you want in love The meeting will be awkward. They may hug. Embrace the awkwardness Let him decide what happens next If the convo gets quite, let him decide what happens next. Just occupy yourself by looking around the environment. If that happens more than 2-3 times, look around you and…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 01:13 PM
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Emotional management is a feminine trait and will make it easier to think before you act. IMO emotional outbursts or reactions in women is symptomatic of masculine energy. Seek peace, not ego boosts. It’s feminine to prioritize inner health. After all, the cliche is women in bubble baths doing spa days and relaxing by the pool, not men. The root of this is the feminine trait of care, pampering, nurturing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 06:15 PM
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Midi shirts and skirts with shorts under. I know they don’t feel as functional but skirts are pixie dust on men in a way I never knew until I did it. You can get cheap wrap dresses that are so easy to style that pants will eventually look like more work because you have to pick out a top. You can add thermals under a cheap wrap dress for winter. PLUS skirts and dresses are more forgiving with height as inseams don’t matter and a maxi can be a midi or even a dress in different heights. You just h…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/23 06:05 PM
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You sound like me. I used to think it was my looks. It wasn't my looks. It was my personality. I relied too much on my looks and put more effort towards my looks than I did my personality. I don't have the looks insecurity that you have but the same mindset. I wish someone told me at your age that looks are a smaller part of the recipe than I thought. I wish someone told me that if you are cute enough, a 5/10, and not getting a guy, it's not because of looks. I also fall into the category of lik…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 06:32 AM
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Good note taking!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 06:21 AM
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A traditional wife in the 1990s wouldn’t go to work. A traditional wife in the 2020s goes to work but doesn’t have a career. Rich women don’t work, not specifically traditional.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/23 04:59 PM
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It’s just what I’m exposed to. I hire engineers for a living and I’m going to school for engineering. That’s the story. I’ve not met any lawyers. I know a doctor in training. I know dozens of engineers. I don’t like this habit lol I find engineers recognize they are lonely but don’t strive to create a value offer for women. Often the offer is forever forgive to someone who talks about themselves too much.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 07:17 AM
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Well it sounds like you have money fears or money trauma that is pushing you to have a mentality where you want your partner to tell you he will support you no matter what. The only time I’ve heard men say this is when they have a child or the actual wedding. If he’s vague about his finances, there are 2 reasons: he makes more than it seems and he has trauma around being used for money OR he has no money, gets a parental allowance and doesn’t want you to know. You should know by now and since yo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 12:03 PM
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Church friends will be the most likely to have similar values. My entire social group is church friends. Walkin, ask what the chicks in your peer group do to fellowship. If you need more ladies at the bachelorette party, let us know!!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/23 11:21 PM
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I had the same thought as you. I worked with a super feminist woman and would asterisk some it the things she said in my mind. I found almost no therapist caters to these ideas except maybe a rare therapist with 1st hand experience in modern dating and choosing a certain path. So I went with someone who had a specialty in other things I needed to address. I had an older rational man therapist once but he was so out of touch with modern dating, I dropped him. I found the feminist was better, I ju…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/23 02:42 AM
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Ahh that’s a very good point! Thank you for getting new to explain!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 03:28 PM
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As someone who exclusively dates engineers, you gotta say something after a few hints. Always sit next to him. Only ask him for help. Get help from him outside of class. Suddenly know what you’re doing better in the out of class meet up and make it a date. He will go home wondering if it’s a date and you can say, sorry the studying wasn’t necessary but I had a fun day date with you!
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 03:07 PM
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This is exactly how I have a date tonight
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 03:05 PM
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There is a lot of research that indicates regular sauna use is good for cell regeneration, blood flow to restricted areas and reduces muscle soreness, bloating and muscle cramps. Specially infrared saunas cause dead skin cells to turn over faster. I do the sauna for the gym to warm up my muscles and after the gym to pump the blood through the muscles so they aren’t sore. I’ll do my infrared at home when I’m bloated, stiff , feeling sick and it always helps. Yes, a sauna can be dangerous without …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 02:54 PM
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I feel like I spoils write a post in this. Top tips I learned: Weekly saunas Intermittent fasting Feeding windows Seasonal digestion cleanses with bone broth Always be working out Hard day at gym = sauna, 20-30 minutes, 20 on arm workouts/machines and 10-20 up hill walking Bloating turns into weight gain without faster movement Learn to love healthy fats Tell the people close to you what you do and don’t eat Find at least 1 friend who eats and workout like you You probably have a sugar addiction…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 03:29 AM
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That’s a great solution! I work for a company in LA and my $100k manager hires a cleaner with her ~$200k dual income.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 08:06 PM
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California eats people alive economically. If each person doesn’t make $50k is a better guess for the state but making $80k or less in the bay is hell. I’d be mad too if my over a decade husband couldn’t afford to provide for us both BUT when you put it in the context of CA, I’d be less mad. Yah a lot of CA people make six figures before 30 but CA is the best of the best and most cut throat state. Just because you are from CA doesn’t mean you will be the best of the best and get those salaries. …
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 05:40 PM
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Fnf totally misleads young women into thinking the world is at their finger tips. That’s not real life. The world of closest proximity is at their finger tips. They also show themselves as top choices for women but their lifestyle is counter to that of a top choice single man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:28 PM
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ikr even a huge difference between 40 to 70 lbs weight loss ... OP is giving away that they don't know how to lose weight
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 01:05 AM
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"get a tummy tuck, BBL, forehead reduction, maybe breast aug and get my jaw shaved depending on what the surgeon says" Hard pass. All those have consequences with age. It's not about just being pretty but keeping looks with age. Plastic surgery rarely ages well, unless it comes with more plastic surgery.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 01:04 AM
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The concept of humans seeing certain people as left overs or used related down to virginity and is a core RPM concept. I think this idea a true. Women struggle to date below their last guy. If they had a millionaire, it’s going to be really hard to date a regular guy and have respect for that guy since the millionaires made it look so easy. If the jump in economic status is huge, the more likely a woman will be alpha widowed where no man can have her respect. This is why it’s a risk to try a HVM…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/23 04:18 AM
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Absolutely no qualification or experience lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 11:20 PM
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Yah TBH most women who go for top HVM end up alone. It's a big bet! Chances are higher that you don't get the top HVM and if he's HVM enough, a lot of people know you are his leftovers. RP Anger Phase doesn't talk about how much a losing bet it is to go after the top of the top.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 05:02 PM
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It is!
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 04:57 PM
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Women in these fields get played by men. You will need to learn how to master the dating game quick because you will be in the group of women rich men pick from for casual sex. Learn from women who got married while being models like Miranda Kerr, Gal Gadot, and Sophia Richie but not Gigi Hadid. Only 1 of these 4 women use their social media for personal posts. I wish I knew when I was your age that really pretty women deal with the most dating games. Pretty women have more work to vet men and m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 04:49 PM
3

That lack of drive!! Any characteristics to that lack of drive up look for?
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 10:40 PM
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Fnf is very clearly in the anger phase
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 08:27 PM
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Are your parents overweight? Is your mom overweight? My sister can’t keep her weight and I can. We have the same dna and I’m 2” shorter. She says our obese mom rubbed off bad eating habits on her and she emotionally eats. I also emotionally eat so I focus more on a low stress low anxiety life. She works in an emergency room with way more stress. I still emotionally eat but I just don’t get stressed often. Last time I did, I ate 2 packs of chocolate rice cakes, box of cookies and a bag of chocola…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 08:11 PM
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Girl I have a slow metabolism and I keep my weight so if you want tips, holler
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 06:59 PM
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But it’s not your responsibility to keep the comment section in a certain topic. The divorce rate for first marriage is like 1/4 off all marriages. So it’s not that big of a risk. You are right that $10k isn’t much. Edit: 1/4 of first marriages 25 and over fail
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 04:54 PM
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Are you policing comments? I'd rather get feedback from someone who has proven to me they can give good advice than an open forum of random people on a sub moderated by men.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 03:45 PM
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I have a question for you. I work remote in a MCOL for a company in a HCOL city so my salary is 30% higher than it would be if I worked locally. I still don’t really compete with men in careers. Maybe I’ll earn equal to them. But I’m also in school for engineering and will be at breadwinner salaries. I want to meet someone who out earns me now and could in the future or earn future me. But, I met an guy who is a good personality match for me who currently makes $10k less than me. I don’t want to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 02:32 PM
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iChing is divination. Divination = seeking knowledge of the future or the unknown. That unknown can just be something you don't know but others might. I don't mean to put down but I've known many iChing users and I've never met someone using iChing who wasn't misled. It's so easy to misinterpret iChing (lots of open ended-ness) and since it's so old, hard to apply to our issues today. It's the same with tarot but people seem more aware of the consequences of tarot. I can see how it could be used…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 03:03 PM
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Oh god not iching! That’s divination, not therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 07:57 AM
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So true! People are too busy calling HR stupid to realize how cushy it can be!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 04:18 PM
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Wow did I save myself. A lot of people in America are comfortable earning unlivable salaries. The number for 'barely making it' will keep rising. Don't let yourself think that $50k is enough. It's not. Some jobs, like healthcare, require more work and effort than others. I barely have work to do and I make as much as a nurse in my area. After a certain paygrade, most companies are flex about coming, leaving, time off, etc. Get yourself to the pay grade where you have that flexibility. Easier to …
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 03:00 PM
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I've been hiring 6 figure employees for years and every time I see self-employed, I assume it's freelance. Considering your relationship goals, you are in a position where it's better to be specific about what you do vs generic. I know a lot of graphic designer wives.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 02:49 PM
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The implication of freelance and self-employed for anyone who isn't clearly making six figures+ is the same. 'I offer graphic design consultancy service for small businesses.'
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/23 03:28 AM
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Is there a question here?
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 09:56 PM
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You must be a woman. It's strange how many stories I hear of women sticking their fingers up mens assholes without consent as a weird punishment. You might only hear a few crazy stories in PR as they focus on other things like Boss Babes, or high body counts. But it's not hard to find a man who survived physical abuse from their female partner.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 09:43 PM
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There are two kinds of high value men, those that marry young and those that play the Carousel game forever. Facts!!! The later one may get someone pregnant that they never marry and tolerate the relationship until the child is 18. They will never truly stop the game.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 09:43 PM
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I dd CC for 2 years, transferred out and paid off my $8k loan for the other 2 years. A lot of guys comment how rare it is that I'm debt free. Avoid credit cards and car loans! I've gotten my last 4 cars from craigslist, and no one would guess.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/23 03:46 PM
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Do Pilates, watch K-pop star interviews, watch Kate Middleton, practice moving slowly, watch elegance videos online, work on a better posture.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 04:58 AM
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Who hasn't heard this by now?
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 07:49 PM
4

Many HCOL people leave HCOL for MCOL and visit family. It's hard to raise kids without family nearby, but it's almost certain in a HCOL you would pay more for childcare. You need to have a million-dollar year salary to afford a SAHM in HCOL. Maybe you could get a millionaire, but it's likely in HCOL you will work. Your brothers do raise your standards. Are your brothers married with kids? If you want someone like them, get into their social circles and pick one out! That's how millionaires pick …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/23 07:47 PM
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I went through this. I had a depressing a year of feeling like a waste of life because of what TRP says about women. What a wasted year! You are not thinking rationally if you think 23 is the wall. There is a chance a lot of what's in your head isn't rational. A lot of the men in TRP are not the men you want i.e. jaded divorcees, single fathers, middle aged playboys. A lot of the men you want don't know TRP concepts. A lot of men are more red pill than women but they really don't know the theolo…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 12:25 PM
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Sleep nude. Do chores nude. Watch TV nude.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 05:58 PM
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I'm messy. I became clean. How? I lived with other people who complained about my messiness, I saw other ppls clean house and I realized a clean space = less stress and anxiety. It's a choice. There is no magic solution. Try to give yourself 10-20 minutes a day to clean. You don't have to finish cleaning. Just do it every day.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 10:30 PM
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Well, there is no such thing as a therapist without a degree similar to how there is no such thing as a RN without a degree. It's even hard to find a counselor without a degree. That's why I say it's not an option.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 09:51 PM
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Can you show me a job post for a therapist that doesn't require a degree?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 06:46 PM
2

OP just an FYI I make $90k in HR with a degree preferred but not required.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 02:21 PM
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Psychology isn't a self taught field. If that were the case, it would be a more crazy world out there.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 02:20 PM
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You need credentials to make a lot of money. Even major youtubers have hundreds or thousands of videos with consistent improvement across several years as credentials.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 02:19 PM
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Yah this! Plus the entry level psyc jobs are total trash and lots of people run to private practice or leave the field due to the first job experience.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 02:19 PM
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You will get better responses if you post this on a career advice sub rather than this. If you want financial independence, you need credentials. In times of economic collapse, short cuts are often offered because everyone wants more money. But that doesn't mean the short cuts will be valuable long term.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 01:22 AM
3

This plays into the old trope where the big-time lawyer marries the secretary, not the lady lawyer on staff. Try older guys, men out of medicine, and manage your stress so you come off more feminine. I just listed to a podcast on women's health from leaving Standford professors. They touched a lot on women and energy, hormones and emotional levels. Dr. Sara Gottfriend and Andrew Huberman : How to optimize female hormone health for vitality.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 10:20 PM
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If you are married, or have more dates than you can handle, you can ignore the below. But if things could be better, I highly suggest something like Match. There are lots of crazy people everywhere. ~98% of Americans have cell phones and a large majority smart phones. The internet is just like real life. A lot of crazy people out there. I don't have social media and I do meet people on apps without SM. Traditionalism isn't bound by advances in technology. In the past, did single women go where s…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 10:14 PM
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Yah I'm coming from California and now in Albuquerque and it's a much better dating market. I'm practicing being more open and warming!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 10:09 PM
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DH pays all bills. I have no clue about our finances unless I ask. love that!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 03:19 PM
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I love that!
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 03:18 PM
2

Wow! What is the story?? I'm at coffee shops all the time studying for school and never once met someone. I did get asked out at whole foods once.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/23 03:17 PM
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Sounds like he's trying to set up a friends with benefits situation. Keep getting close to you with the definition that it's only friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 11:22 PM
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Gotta re-frame your mind. You are not downhill. You have a great shape. You are better looking than a lot of mid 30s women. You have a lot more going for you than you think. You never got a chance in your 20s so now could be your time! Are you ready for that? Take time away from theory. You aren't out of the game yet.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:48 PM
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That's interesting! I feel you on having an illness negatively affecting dating.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:14 PM
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That's the best you got at proving our society follows natural path? Your second sentence is a fragmented statement. Genetically degenerate isn't the correct use of English and not accurate. It's very hard to prove where issues like poorly developed prefrontal cortex's or mental health come from and I can't find any proof that lower quality DNA is the cause for mass shootings. If we were on natural paths, RP wouldn't be a thing. RP is a natural path but since RP is not mainstream culture; we do …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 07:22 PM
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A lot of over 30 women are getting dates and getting married. I just approved a marriage stipend at work (HR) with 1981 and 1986 birthdates. You have a doomer mind right now. You are beating yourself up for not knowing things you had to learn to know. A lot of women have a story like you. Got no attention when they were younger. Were never career oriented and maybe was shaping their life for a man who hasn't come. It happens. Just accept where you are. Not everyone will want you. You say you hav…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 05:41 PM
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"I feel like they dont understand nature has to weed out certain people." We don't live in a society where the strongest survives. We don't like in a society where the smartest are the richest. We do not have a free market. A lot of 'inferior' people are millionaires because they know the right people. The 'nature' part of 'weeding out' is not as relevant of an aspect as you think. We have not been acting in line with 'nature' for a long time. The dynamics of a culture are much different than th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 04:39 PM
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Message me! I'm a former fashion designer!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 04:29 PM
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What is the reason? Over the past 3 years, I only know 1 newly engaged couple who didn't meet online. All but 1 met on apps. The outliers met on social media or met in their small 1,000 person town.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 01:28 PM
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I'm good at this and I wouldn't mind giving you tips based on you but in the meantime, I'll tell you what I've done. I can give feedback on your colors and type of clothing for you. But I would need to see a 360 picture of you. I'm 5'6.5" at 130 lbs with a slight pear figure. I have b cups, long legs and a decent bum. I buy new clothes based on rules. First rule is color. I know I look good in spring shades so I only wear pastel or rich blue and pink. I have black, beige, white and some red in t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 01:20 PM
4

Who tf is asking those questions? Virgins
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 12:59 AM
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I was asked once by a 38 year old virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 12:58 AM
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Pregnant Cardiac resident Living with in-laws You sound stressed and it sounds like you have a complex with cooking. You would need to treat cooking like an art therapy thing. Try simple, easy dishes and allow yourself to mess up. Truly, be ok if you mess up. Tell your husband you are trying so if he eats a too salty dish, he will know to not give harsh feedback. Maybe find a social media cooking influencer to copy dishes. Focus on making bites or side dishes before you level up. Sounds like the…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 02:51 PM
1

That's a hard one. Do we know for sure if he's single? You might have to use your next chance seeing him as your opportunity to say something like - I haven't seen you in a while. I miss our chats! See what he says to that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 12:24 PM
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In the business world, everything in email is hard facts. Everything over messenger is informal discussion. Does your work have a messenger? If so, message him! Drop the handkerchief!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 12:10 PM
1

But what about serial monogamy? That makes more sense in a society with strong social networks. In a way, the practice of widows or widowers being remarried is serial monogamy. We life in a very isolated society with weak family connections and social networks. Serial monogamy has moved from that to repeating 2-3 year relationships. It seems more harmful now that we rotate our closest relationship when the average westerner has no other, or very few, close relationships. "What studies? Peer revi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 10:40 PM
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Girl, a lot of men are peter pan, or 50/50 types. Others pretend to be relationship focused but push quickly for sex. That being said, you are making judgements on the dating pool based on only men who come to you. Getting approached in public is great! But it can be disheartening if it's a broke guy at the laundry matt. Cold approaches make up a very small amount of the men I've gone on dates with. The dating pool will look better if you get on apps, go to dating events, and meet more people. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 03:14 PM
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Maybe I should make posts on how to stay thin. I have one of the conditions obese people blame their weight on, but I've never been over 150 lbs at 5'6". A lot of the stuff said here is very BASICS and nothing new but ok I'll concede that maybe I'm well informed.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/23 01:31 PM
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... what does this have to do with red pill? I mean, I could connect some dots but the post doesn't talk about RP stuff or ask for RP advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 10:17 PM
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There is substantial evidence that indicates humans are monogamous lovers in our sexual behavior. Close interpersonal relationships have been proven as good for the human psyche. Even without the need to transfer wealth, humans still paired up. There has been research that shows as women become single mothers or generally unmarried, society starts to collapse. The bible meant it when it said that it would make the wives wants different than the mans wants but they need to work together. These th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/23 02:24 AM
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Wow, I did a really long and thought-out reply that just disappeared? I do love talking about this stuff so I'm giving it another go. The logical fallacy of red pill is between theory and application. Red pill theory says the best suitors for women are 30 something men with money and no kids. But in reality, there are a lot of those men who are not single by choice. The reality is that suitable people don't stay single long. Sure, a few years of being busy but suitable men naturally attract suit…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/23 04:33 PM
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Red pill is a loosely used term and I find there are stages to red pill. I got into red pill and struggled a lot with those feelings but as more time has passed and I've found some flaws in mainstream red pill logic; I've found truth that doesn't make me feel like a useless meat sack waiting for death. The dynamics are messed up and there are lots of happy mediums, but it takes a certain level of character to find the happy places. I find those who are truly red pill vs those who learned traditi…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 09:10 PM
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Most RP men make me feel like a useless meat sack with no life meaning waiting for death.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 08:38 PM
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People who are currently in traditional relationships typically have traditional cultures or environment because they seek out that lifestyle. He's seeking nothing but a victimhood status. He's pretending it's hopeless so he can get away with bad behavior, like cheating. He is not traditional and that is why he doesn't have access to the traditional relationship he wants.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/23 08:20 PM
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Don’t put us in you box !
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 06:56 PM
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Make sure you can’t get free college
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/23 12:53 AM
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Yaaassss
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 07:31 PM
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That’s great! Yah, if you are in the west it’s a new set of rules. Once you spend more time around people at your aspirational level, you will have a better perspective. Consider young professional or networking events. You meet great men at those events, just don’t get sucked into the boss babe narrative. Please let me know if you have any questions!
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 08:39 PM
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Wow do I relate to you. 22 BMI is skinny. I'm 5'6.5" with 36/26/38 from a similar background. I was sexualized too young which made me dress too modest and just resulted in no dates. There is a weird think that happens with skinnycurvy women who are homebodies where showing ones body = stares from creeps. This is because you don't get out much so all you really see is the creeps. But if you had a more active social life surrounded by people who live the life you want or currently have, then you …
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 08:03 PM
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Talking less as a feminine trait doesn't mean you have no opinion. It means you put your opinions into action.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 07:12 PM
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If the average salary for a doctor is $208k, that means over 40% are under $208k. I wouldn't call that a definite minority. The reason people aren't expecting a stay-at-home mom to a developer is because tech was founded post-1980s power suit, working woman era. Tech was created in an environment where most women work and where more moms have some sort of income. Doctors have been around for ages and the idea of a doctor's wife we think of is from the 1950/60s. There is also a gender impact. Tec…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 04:48 PM
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I only found out from a relationship with a $300k engineer. I needed my own work trips so I wouldn’t be jealous of his. My mom still holds bitterness (stay at home mom) at my dad for not getting to travel for work like he did. Also, a lot of high earning men have a fear of being used for money but if she has money, that fear goes away.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 03:43 PM
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There are a lot of doctors making under $200k, like pediatricians. There are traveling nurses making more than doctors. Maybe because I lived in Silicon Valley for years but it’s not hard to find out how much software engineers make. Starting is usually $80k but I’ve also hired people with no experience at $120k. I’ve met over a dozen engineers making $400k+ base salary. I’m useless rambling here but people who don’t think tech has prestige simply aren’t paying attention. It’s not as common to f…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 03:41 PM
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The Mrs degree is real, but times are changing. A lot of high earners focus in college more than dating in college.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 03:17 PM
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I meet a lot of tech workers couples. People in tech can earn as much as or more than doctors. I’ve met a lot of $300+ couples. I am a tech recruiter so that is a factor. But someone that busy needs a partner who has their own thing going on they can spend their time on rather than focusing solely on the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/23 03:16 PM
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He’s shooting bombs at you when you are weak. I thought I was stupid too when I was in a toxic relationship and my hormones were messed up. But then I got out, got therapy, and got healthy. I then took in IQ test putting me in the top 30% IQ. Your environment can affect how your brain functions. You sound like you need therapy. He sounds like he might have a personality disorder.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/23 09:11 PM
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I can’t think of any human I call more than text.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 04:34 PM
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This is that guy? lol OP needs to stop with him
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 10:08 PM
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The west could solve the population crisis is they did arrange massages
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/23 04:02 AM
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That’s an aspect of psychology. We tend to forgive people who do behavior we have done in the past. Certain personalities will exploit that. Keep your standards at your present self. At 34, I wouldn’t consider him a high value man for that behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 07:29 PM
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He seems like he has avoidant attachment. Taking charge and making plans isn't being in your feminine energy. If you go into your feminine energy and he keeps popping in and out, then it's not worth your time. I struggled with mental health in the past and I took accountability, found mitigation and management techniques. He can too, but he's not. I would not suggest dating people who do take ownership of their mental health. You can inspire him by not tolerating his yes/no behavior and walking …
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 06:38 PM
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I think RP rage is a systematic response to some of the content. I noticed some people instantly go black pill or red pill rage when getting the content. Some gain the sanity / a deeper understanding of the concepts that brings them into balance.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 05:42 AM
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Why did RP subjects came up? I can tell if a guy is red pill by asking certain questions or getting certain responses. I don’t think it’s a good idea to bring these subjects up outside of the relationship itself. Skip this guy.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 05:38 AM
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Yes, he created his own problem. Be in your warming, caring, female energy. He doesn’t want sympathy, he wants someone to have concern for him. Men look for solutions so they don’t ask women to bring them solutions. They want to be heard and get attention. Drop by in a cute outfit with vitamins, food, emergen-c.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 09:55 PM
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Um good for you? You’re toxic af
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 06:40 PM
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Instead of spouting the highest percentage of divorce on a sliding scale of 35-50%, consider the regional aspect of divorce. The divorce rate for first marriages in New York is 7.28% whereas Maine is 11.84%. The average divorce rate in 2019 by respondents was 14.9 out of 1000. A 2022 study showed 16.9 out of 1000. The numbers get messed up when you combine 2nd and 3rd marriages with 3rd marriages at a 73% divorce rate. Running around the internet saying 50% is spreading false information and imo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:58 PM
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You bring up a divorcee and a never married playboy as good examples of ideal men. But you aren’t a woman so how would you know what we find ideal? George Clooney himself married a 30+ woman. You need better examples if you want to prove a point.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:51 PM
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You clearly don’t live in the center of the country. Women exchange their youth on a bet that their man will become a higher earner. The short cut is to bag a high earner when he already is one but the best path is to get him committed before he’s ‘the man.’ Most men after a certain age become less desirable. Do you think Leonardo DiCaprio would be an ideal husband? lol no obviously not. He doesn’t have the habits or lifestyle. He can’t bond. Men can lose their parabonding abilities with success…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:50 PM
2

Alpha only is BAD
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:44 PM
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Why are you on a women’s sub?
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:42 PM
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You are in the red pill rage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:41 PM
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Yes exactly. Young women think they are nabbing up the best men but to be 40 and never married usually means there is a reason.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:40 PM
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Yaaassss
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:39 PM
1

Yah real world, most men date around their age. I’ve heard countless stories of 30 something men dating early twenties women and it being a disaster.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:36 PM
1

That’s nice to hear
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:33 PM
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Drop knowledge truths over time. EX men don’t want to compete with a partner. Don’t call it red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 07:51 AM
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You may struggle with aging in the future if you’re getting scared at 24.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/23 05:16 AM
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I'm not against age gaps but I keep seeing stories with this age dynamic (aka early 20s to early 30s) and problems. I think younger women need to realize that men in their 30s who are single have some sort of 'problem' with them. Huge ego that causes problems, poor money management, chronic depression, disregard for health, etc. There are a few who don't but that's a very, very small portion. + why is a 32 yo man driving to visit you instead of being an adult and taking a flight? Just because he…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/23 10:39 PM
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The lack of bullet points is mildly infuriating
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/23 07:06 PM
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Ingredients POTATOES - CHOOSE: 1.4 lb small potatoes (12 - 14) or 2 - 2.4lb medium potatoes (6 - 8) 1 tbsp salt (for boiling) 30g / 2 tbsp unsalted butter , melted 1 tbsp olive oil 3/4 tsp salt (for sprinkling) 1/4 tsp black pepper Finely chopped parsley , optional garnish Instructions Cook potatoes: Bring a pot of water to the boil, add 1 tbsp salt. Cook potatoes until soft - small ones should take around 20 to 25 minutes, medium ones might take 30 minutes. It's ok if the skin splits. Alternati…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 09:38 PM
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Are you saying RP men know women value emotional experiences over physical ones and use that to their advantage when “spinning plates” or wtvr it’s called? Yes. Women can wear a small dress to get attention and men can give emotional experiences for attention. Men aren't the emotional gender so giving emotional experiences requires either a deep connection, or a lack of emotional connection. Either they are saying romantic things on a hilltop or they are saying manipulative things in stressful s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 11:30 PM
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I'm trying to keep the slow burn in mind. I will take a few new pictures and get back at it soon. I was successfully doing quantum dating for awhile. I like Adrienne Everhart!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 10:54 PM
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That's great advice. I give away my time too easily and have been working to improve that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 09:09 PM
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Well, if you were actually resigned to getting your finances in order to die alone, you wouldn't be posting this, so I'm going to disregard that. 😂 well I'm a full time CS student working full time. It's just that my job isn't full speed right now. Yah I'm going out with tech guy because he deserves more consideration. My weakness is in thinking I can read people quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 08:08 PM
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I've seen you on the sub and I like your feedback! I accept a good dad bod and not ideal looks. I might be falling into the 'connection' trap. I've been out with a guy 3 times and when we talked, I didn't have a good cadence of dialogue with him. At times, he would be just smiling at something I said. I'm overthinking that. Maybe I was too picky. I might also be jaded from living in mega cities. I make $80k and it's not hard for me to find $80k+ guys where I am but am I being too picky there? I'…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 07:33 PM
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Can you see a video of another man doing something really special for a woman and think, I wish my man would do that or wouldn't it be nice if he did that? Women aren't oriented to looks as much as emotions. Most women will see an emotional thing and wish they had it. That doesn't mean they are going to divorce their man hoping some other man will fulfill an emotional experience. This is why some RP men are saying to be toxic. It gives emotional experiences, something women value. Painful, but i…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 06:57 PM
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You know it's a biological truth, but it doesn't make you feel special. Your feelings are very relatable and understandable. But the feelings do not reflect reality. How could he have empathy for you being hurt from words he didn't say to you? He can have empathy if he knows you heard them, but you need to accept the reality that men will not instantly see all women as unattractive, even in marriage. He thinks you are enough to get this far. He got this far even with having easy that can see att…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 06:55 PM
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I have a skill of getting over breakups fast. Your life is going to change, so embrace a life change. This is your level up season. First steps would be to hide all social media posts from ex and family. You need to decide the interactive level with your ex on his family. You can say final goodbyes or keep in touch at lower and lower communication intervals until it fades away. You need to establish communication with ex. Only on x platform. He can only talk to you about x subjects. Consider est…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/23 05:23 PM
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Yah the idea that men and women can’t relate with big age gaps is a huge point of contention with age gap advocates. The women needs to come in more like a child and the man more like a father. This guy is certainly not about to take that role. There is a level of compromise to withstand having s child or a second father. It can work if people both know what they are getting into. Men who can handle that generally don’t have lots of women friends.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 05:39 PM
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Although I’ve had male friends, there needs to be a context to the friendship. I’ve told male friends I wouldn’t date them and aspects why that wouldn’t change. I’ve had a guy turn me down and kept the friendship. If there is no context, he’s just a playboy keeping lots of women around. I’ve found that man that age will say they want a family now that they can afford it but that doesn’t mean they are husband material. Husband material knows to keep when at a distance or in a contextual relations…
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 05:36 PM
2

Can we have a no Andrew Tate posts rule in this sub? It gives us a bad look.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/23 03:18 PM
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You don’t get what’s wrong with dropping possibly the best guy you could get for an older dude? It’s a story as old as time. It’s very hard to find a guy that age that serious and despite the benefits of age gap relationships, age gaps size is correlated to divorce possibility. It’s usually 23 yo women who don’t see what they have and think they can get better. Stop letting media control your future with possibility. Need to get clear communication on faith but yes, kids with him will have an Is…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/23 01:02 PM
2

Does he have any health issues?
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/23 04:43 AM
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That’s a form of forced gender equality. I don’t know anything else about the relationship. You giving what he gives there means you have to do that everywhere to be justified and eventually you will start being unattracted because you are acting more masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 05:01 PM
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Women joining the workforce doubled our work not only with working mothers but also being feminine. You have to look good at work and on your days off. You have to be a subordinate employee and submissive partner. You have to learn how to talk to coworkers and a partner. To keep up the relationship, you need to make him feel like you are trying to keep him. That means dressing up even for a home hangout. Doing little chores no one else would do for him (for free). Giving him a peaceful environme…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 03:51 AM
1

This is pretty accurate from what I've seen.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 05:05 PM
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Grown men without friends usually have a reason they don’t have friends. It’s not because they are shy. They can’t keep friends. Sure, some are actually sheltered but even they have long standing friends or some sign they don’t drive people away.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 04:34 PM
2

I love this! A lot of women jump to the conclusion that if 20-25% of married men cheat, then even more unmarried men cheat. Great to see a study that proves that fear wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 02:40 PM
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There are several studies to use as proof. This isn’t a 1 study statement. It’s also worth noting this kind of data is hard to use for an accurate picture because the data points aren’t ALL men but married men. There is no conclusive proof. This is science.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 05:06 AM
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You don't need to be single to address your mental health. But not trusting your partner is a serious long-term issue. Most men don't cheat. If you have no reason to think he would cheat, then you are extending your mental health problems onto him. That will causes long term issues. Get into therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 06:28 PM
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This does not sound like the foundation for a long-lasting couple. You are projecting your past trauma on someone who didn't cause that trauma. You made up a justifiable reason for having the tracker that has a covert reason to address your insecurities. But neither he nor the tracker will alleviate those insecurities. You need to heal yourself first before you can lay the healthy foundation needed for a long-term relationship. Most men don't cheat. Find ways to heal the insecurities, then get r…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 06:13 PM
1

I love this!
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 03:44 AM
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Lol do you. She’s the only highly educated woman in the space with a real career and commercial success. She researches everything she talks about. A lot of women in the space are just repeating male rp and making a career on YouTube. Jed can offer perspectives from midtown New York mixed with rp.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 10:12 PM
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Jillz Guerin. It’s really easy to learn what men find attractive in appearance. Long hair worn down, 20-28 bmi, feminine clothing that men can’t wear like frills and dresses, delicate moves, hygienic but not too long nails, and toned down makeup. The body language is harder to teach because our culture puts down feminine behavior and some people protest when they see it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 09:58 PM
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Part of having roommates is living more collected. That means wearing headphones, keeping your mess in your room, and splitting utilities. I will almost always wear headphones with certain content, and I don't even listen to certain content in my car if the windows are down. I personally have lost family members over some ideologies, so I've learned how risky it is to let just anyone know your beliefs or things you are exploring. Stop letting them know what you are listening to, and they will st…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 08:50 PM
2

What kind of advice? Maybe you're the fascinating womanhood type?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 08:39 PM
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Have you watched any youtube she's made in the past 6 months?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 08:38 PM
1

👏 there is a reason successful men look for women who have accomplished something, even if it didn’t resolve in wealth. Successful men can’t function around women who don’t help him stay at a high level.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 07:35 PM
0

Jedidiah Bila
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 07:34 PM
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That guy will turn 30 and realize he still feels 26 and keep delaying.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 04:22 PM
1

I messed up here not asking his dating goals from the first meet. That will help determine sex relationship timeline. I struggle will bring so up front because I do struggle to speak my wants with new people.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 05:00 AM
1

Yah it can’t be rated someone trying to bag you. Nothing could get me and my ex together. You can tell if commenters are men and you could message them and ask. They have no reason to lie and are red or purple pill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 04:11 AM
1

For men, yah
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 04:08 AM
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I asked my ex to rate me and then asked how I could improve. I’ve noticed before knowing SMV, I would date much less attractive men who would bend over backwards to be what they thought I wanted or to resolve compatibility issues that can’t be fixed. Once I stopped dipping down, I had less issues in relationships that stemmed from their insecurity. I also learned when to not bother with guy who had higher SMV. Ask for brutal honestly from red pill audiences and how to improve. Or maybe you are b…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 03:24 AM
1

Um I strongly disagree. Men who know you personally may be too nice, but strangers won’t. If you are usually the girl that men flirt with in a group, SMV is 6 or above.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 03:04 AM
1

Pretty sure status and network are RVM factors. SMV is how fuckable you are. Network has nothing to do with it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 03:02 AM
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You ask men to honestly rate you
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 03:01 AM
2

I would never openly tell people my investing numbers unless they were close. IMO it’s tacky/a red flag to ask that question. You basically told him you know more about crypto than him and you want to see if he has made judgement skills. I’ve worked for crypto companies. I’ve dated crypto investors. I know multiple crypto millionaires. I’ve won more than I’ve lost with crypto. It seems small minded to think crypto is a red flag, especially as Bitcoin is going up in price faster than stocks or ho…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 11:42 PM
4

say: since we are exclusive, can I call you my boyfriend?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 11:07 PM
4

I’m such an introvert!!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 08:37 PM
3

Uh yah. Guy and one who asked me out work in the same team! Ask out was even a mentor to the guy!
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 06:56 PM
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Yah I never go to the men’s group. Way too toxic
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 04:02 PM
6

This sub gives the best dating advice to women on Reddit but the name is triggering. I’m banned from r/dating because of this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 03:21 PM
3

Kids would be nice but I’m kinda running out of time with that. So I could settle with being a step mom.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/23 05:31 AM
1

Oops. How to get a date worth keeping by Henry cloud. Hands down the best dating book I’ve ever read which will help you navigate apps. It’s a bit outdated as there is an entire section on using apps for those who don’t want to but he gives great strategy and mindsets for dating. Edit: it’s not explicitly red pill but is Christian and gives red pill feedback. Someone on this sub suggested it to me!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 09:50 PM
1

Please read ‘how to get a date you can keep’
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 09:29 PM
3

I’ve dated people at work and in social groups. It has never not been annoying later. They didn’t work and it made things awkward. If you guys would really be spilt up work wise later on, maybe. He will make more money in the future, but you are dipping down to a divorced dad. Why did they get divorced? You could find someone without kids, but are you looking? Are you dating? You might be really busy with work and this might be your best platform for meeting someone. Move carefully and go slowly…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 07:33 PM
2

Me, 35 dating a 38 yo single dad with 3 kids. At least he makes 3x of this guy and is one of the most kind and thoughtful guys I’ve met.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 07:29 PM
1

Commit as in marriage? I love sex too much to do w after the first lol
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 06:47 PM
1

How did that work? Long distance where I only saw him when he came on work trips.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/23 05:58 AM
1

Yah I heard about that story. Fwiw I got dumped for not having sex after date 2. I told him I wasn’t going to have sex outside of a relationship. I never said I wanted a man to wait indefinitely. I give in about the time they start acting like a real boyfriend. For one that was 3 months and another a year. Hard right now to not have negative emotions towards men who both shame women sleeping around and reject when women don’t sleep around. That’s why my reply was snappy. Seems like men’s wants a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 11:57 PM
9

These are all things you can fix.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:12 PM
3

Probably. You could check how he's doing but be prepared to find out he doesn't want to talk to you, that he has moved on or that he's not single. Find some picture, link, whatever that reminds you of him to start the conversation. Or you could protect your heart and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:11 PM
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Chances are a bit slim. It wasn’t an official relationship and it’s been a long time. It’s hard to rebound from ‘I didn’t like you’ to ‘now that we are broken up, I like you.’ Best I can advise is get in contact to chat and see how he is doing. Could try to build up a friendship that might be a foundation for a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:08 PM
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This sounds a lot like a TRP guy posting on here to play out all the RP stereotypes. You can improve SMV. Need more information about the relationship. How long were you together? How long have you been broken up? What was the breakup reason you gave him? Did you sleep around when you were dating multiple people? Does your ex know how much you dated around?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 10:00 PM
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Update: He said without 'bonding' aka sex, it's just friendship. You were right, it's a red flag. It's only been 2 real dates and no commitment but now downgraded from dating to friendship because I don't want to sleep with a date.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 08:37 PM
2

Care about his needs before he’s cared about mine? Why? Care about his needs and hopes he cares about mine? Why? Your words are very male perspective only. It’s not that hard to learn how to be better at sex. I don’t date women but I don’t know a lot of women who play the - I made you wait so know I’ll use it to hurt you - game.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 08:25 PM
1

I highly recommend Move with Nicole on youtube for pilates. I find pilates great for women because it focuses on core strength, balance and posture. It helps with moving gracefully while pulling in the tummy that combats bloating days. Research shows that cardio causes weight maintenace NOT because of blood flow but because of the increased speed air goes through the longs. So you can walk uphill to get heavy breathing going and it will be at a similar effectiveness as running but without the ru…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 08:17 PM
2

I'm 34. That's why I feel I might be too old to have these standards. Everyone in my family for generations dated a year before engagement. In an ideal world, I would follow this timeline. Yah, I can't trust him. There would need to be big changes for me to trust him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 07:05 PM
1

When did you have sex with your husband and how much longer did you wish you waited? I'm starting to think I wouldn't want to until real engagement discussions were happening.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 06:29 PM
2

Like a lot of churches, they talk to married people mostly and tell singles to ‘keep waiting.’
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 06:16 PM
1

Any specific areas you struggle? Weight, fitness, skincare, dressing, attitude, etc?
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 06:04 PM
2

So hard to find them
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 03:29 PM
2

Yah this is the part of red pill I hate. Not everyone has a hope phase.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 03:29 PM
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lol @ outlaw biker and escaped mental patient. Not me. Every single bf has complained to me about waiting.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 02:56 PM
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She claimed to be a believer before marriage but when his dad brought up the subject after marriage, she denied. He says that she later admitted to looking for marriage to become a mom. One could conclude she said whatever was needed to get marriage. But I would guess that he moves quickly as he's already holding hands after only seeing each other 2 times (lots of texting). I'll make note of the warning flag. I'm tempted to bring up the contradiction to him to see what he says. The guy does bibl…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 05:30 AM
2

Have you talked to him about it? I don't know how to bring up this subject. Yah, I have a feeling I'm walking into a scenario that if I don't offer a lot of extras, there is no point. I've done the clean, cook stuff in the past. I wish someone told me when I was younger that at a certain age, all men will expect sex in a BF/GF situation.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 05:20 AM
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I may be idolizing. I met him through a church friend and he's very active in the church. I am functioning on the mindset that all men want sex instead of functioning on the mindset that good Christian men have other priorities. Why did he leave his marriage? She lied about believe in Christ. She told him she planned on leaving him once their child was born (miscarriage). She was unwilling to address mental health problems. He also broke up with his last girlfriend because she didn't believe in …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 05:18 AM
1

He's probably 5'7"
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/23 05:10 AM
3

Glad you removed. It was mean.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 11:18 PM
3

he's a man's man He is. I hear you. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 09:56 PM
3

Low stakes ... hmmm ... we are going to my church for good friday service and then food after.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 08:43 PM
1

Only a month.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 08:08 PM
5

Tall girl problems.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/23 08:07 PM
1

I know over a dozen couples who did this. Men lie. People change. Some men will spend a decade trying to decide if they want kids. It’s not that easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 03:59 PM
1

Unquestionably, women are struggling more financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:45 AM
1

So you think morality is conditional on personal parameters? Why do we have laws on murder then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:44 AM
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You aren’t factoring in emotions. It’s a story as old as time so if it were as simple as women figuring it out, that would have happened hundreds of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:42 AM
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I agree. Lots of women want with few options of men who want to be fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:40 AM
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lol @ that statement. I know countless number of couples who thought they had that discussion but years later, the man suddenly didn’t want kids and says the woman didn’t understand what he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:39 AM
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I love you
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 07:13 PM
1

I’ve heard that about BFF bumble. I’ve lived in San Francisco so I know what you mean by no homemaking classes. But I know SF had baking classes, knitting groups, and ‘hot girl walks.’ Have you explored different small groups at different churches? I’m sure there is a church that has a women’s group nearby. When I moved to where I am, I signed up for 15 different small groups and got into 3. I’m introverted too and it’s painful to push myself out there. But God made us to be social and sometimes…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 07:10 PM
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I’ve moved a lot and learned how to make friend circles everywhere I go. Making friends takes work. If you want friends, you will have to put in the work. If you don’t want to do the work, then accept having no friends. Making friends means you might have friends that don’t just like you. That’s good! If they say something you disagree with, change the subject. It’s like dating. You meet lots of people and pick the people you like to keep inviting out. Sometimes people don’t want to be friends w…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 06:12 PM
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You are being really unfair to yourself. If you have confessed to god and a believer, he will forgive you. Then you have to forgive yourself. You are a virgin. Sending pictures doesn’t change that. The things you did are very tame. You are still a good girl. Eventually you will be married and will do very sexual things with your husband. If you give yourself trauma over this, you may sexually struggle later in a marriage when your husband wants to be sexually flirtatious. Please don’t try to blo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 05:00 PM
5

These guys never change. He won’t get ambition unless he’s at a destitute level. Seeing as he has a house, that probably won’t happen to him. He orders take out daily? I make $40 in a low cost of living area and I feel like I’m being bad with money by buying $5 coffees.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 04:28 PM
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Girl I’m 34 with plenty of dates. Chill. Men in offices like women in offices and they want someone with an education. They don’t put that much weight on how caring their job is vs how caring they are IRL.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 07:38 PM
1

My dating life only got better in my 30s because I had less guys trying to sleep with me and more guys trying to seriously date me. I looked significantly younger and fitter than most women my age at the time. That’s your secret. Be hot. Become hot. Act feminine. Wear dresses. You got this!
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 04:49 PM
1

A lot of women keep themselves single because they aren’t mentally ill. That’s not enough of the conversation as much as it’s present in data.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 04:45 PM
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Whenever you feel you’ve found a husband. Mid twenties is ideal but sometimes it doesn’t work like that and putting an age target can be mentally toxic if things don’t go to plan. Age of marriage should be determined by want for kids so at the latest, 35. Learn to cook many kinds of foods and get familiar with spices. Learn to eyeball a tablespoon. Learn how to stay in shape without pre workout or additives. Get therapy if needed for trauma. Learn how to control your emotional reactions. Learn h…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 04:13 PM
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He’s insecure, but you gave partial info that heightened his insecurity. It’s a crazy world out there where guys assume women divided their partner count by 1/3. I went on a few dates with a 39 year old virgin and he was only man who asked me. He didn’t ask blow jobs. He didn’t ask kisses. That’s a maturity difference. It’s best to never answer this question with numbers but behavior. Like, I’ve always delayed sex, rejected sexual advances from men I didn’t know well and I’ve been with very few …
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 03:44 PM
1

Someone asked me how often I visit my parents and I told them how often I used to visit them lol
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/23 03:22 PM
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Is he from a culture where parents live with children? Did he live with his grandparents? If no, then you are making that an excuse. Most cultures slowly become western and when they go back to traditionalism, there is an end goal. If no, his end goal is to please his mother which means she will often get her way. He will provide for her first and likely above himself or his wants. Has he ever said no to any of her major requests? If no, then MIL will get her way and he will keep delaying the ki…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 04:51 AM
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I struggle with this too. I don't bring it up early or offer the information freely. I praise my mom for the good things she has done and brought to my life. I give a few examples as to the reasons why I keep her at distance. I emphasize how this decision has made my life better. I also have a surrogate set of parents in town that are active in my life. I share this information. In this method, I honor my parent while also explaining why I keep her at a distance. I've gotten responses like 'she …
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 10:00 PM
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Added it to the main post!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 08:59 PM
2

Love this!!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 07:56 PM
1

Likely will be in the 70s in a dry climate
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 12:28 AM
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I love this!
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/23 12:26 AM
2

Love it
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 08:47 PM
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Good point. I was planning on being screened up well.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 08:44 PM
1

Hi friend! I do have a pretty dress I could wear with sneakers
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 08:41 PM
2

Examples of feminine manner during a hike?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 08:16 PM
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He makes it sound confusing, but reality is that he's decided that marriage could happen someday in the future but right now it's not really a possibility. Men who want marriage don't confuse the women they know. Men who want relationships don't confuse women on their wants. If you feel confused, the answer is probably the one you don't want to be the answer.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 07:07 PM
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A similar thing happened to me at this age. If a man you are not in a relationship with is pressuring you for sex, he's not taking you seriously. A man taking you seriously will move physically slow. Don't tell a man your views on monogamy, wait for him to tell you his views. Those who don't see you as a lifelong mate will always lie and play the part if you offer the information first. Do your best to keep your body count 5 and under at least until 30-35.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 07:05 PM
2

Cropped shirts**
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/23 07:01 PM
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Most men have that fear. But do you know what it looks like when a woman uses a man for money? I’d bet not. They do not offer to meet halfway. They leave their wallet at home. They pick the most expensive restaurants. They ask a man his income on the first date. They make men pay for their friends. They put them in situations where they can’t say no to a bill. They ask for shopping sprees. Women cannot cure the male fear of being used for money just as men cannot cure the female fear of being us…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 07:07 PM
4

I like this. Covert contracts are unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 05:48 PM
2

That question could be a great lead into you expressing what you would like.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 05:47 PM
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You’d be surprised how many men will pay for a ride if you ask. You do feel worthy if you also feel resentful it doesn’t happen. You may just struggle with communicating your wants. When you ask, you can say ‘could you send me a taxi to pick me up? It would make me feel special to you and protected 🥰.’
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/23 05:46 PM
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The reason is for participating in ‘red pill, purple pill, incel or generally toxic content.’ Yah I’d say it’s less toxic here than there but 🤷‍♀️
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 04:12 PM
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My first thought at getting banned was, this is how extremists are made.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 02:20 PM
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Well it conveniently happened right after I made a post. Good to know that info
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 03:04 AM
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Yah, she’s in the sex category with him. OP, you may have to compromise with the housewife thing. You have a better shot at getting a stable guy who wants you to have something going on for yourself. If you will only accept a housewife role, you will be waiting for awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 12:11 AM
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You need insta for your work. Seems like he’s grabbing at something he thinks is similar but isn’t. You could ask him for another thing to compromise on as it’s very common for DJs to get booked from insta and is a money making method for you. I would never suggest a DJ get rid of insta unless they can afford to make less money.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 10:08 PM
8

Blair white = amazing, gold, refreshing
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 12:40 AM
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This is the kind of thing you should talk to about with someone clinically qualified, not Reddit. Using Reddit for therapy is a great way to be misled.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 12:28 AM
2

Please go away troll
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 03:27 AM
2

Why are you stalking me online? I’m not an outlet for your negativity.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 03:24 AM
1

Hinge
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 02:52 AM
2

A good reality check!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 08:52 PM
1

I have read that and am applying the ‘consider people you wouldn’t before.’ I suppose I’m only 1 month after reading this book. I could be less picky on height and as I’ve considered 5’7-8” guys, they are all shorter than me. Maybe I’m being too picky about not wanting shorter.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 05:35 PM
1

I need someone who can be gentle in their assertion. I need someone who knows when to prioritize a relationship vs work and not afraid to let me know I’m not priority for a few moments. I need someone who is handy and smart.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 05:33 PM
1

Nice. I just bought it! I am taking the path of dating a lot to get to know myself!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 05:30 PM
4

Therapy will help with the binge eating. Therapy will fix a lot of the dating problems you are mentioning. I wish I had started that earlier.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 04:54 PM
1

I get out pretty actively and made the first move with guys IRL twice. One rejected and the other I rejected because he wouldn’t make a good partner (insecure, controlling, breaks boundaries, wants what he can’t have) But, it’s hard to meet men irl who aren’t just looking for hookups whereas I am seeing it’s easier to find that on apps. Tinder is obviously for hookups but not all apps. Have you been single since after Covid? Things have changed a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 04:50 PM
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RPM also tells high earning men in their 30s that it will be easy for them to date but I know a lot of single men in that group who struggle a lot in dating. You will be less ideal for some but not all. A lot of single mothers get their stuff together at a younger age which makes them more appealing to men. Get your stuff together. Hey a good job or educational. Stay in at night. Then think about dating.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 04:13 PM
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Does the book talk about how to meet men? Church and Christian events are surprisingly poor options for meeting singles.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 02:15 PM
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I’d love to hear more how waiting is spiritual death as I’m watching many Christians of both genders wait and from here it looks like willful singleness.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 02:11 PM
2

Ruth!!!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 05:07 AM
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Wow, yah I agree with this! That 37 lady is very attractive but also won’t put herself out there at all. Feels like hamster food.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/23 12:51 AM
1

Well, I’m not yet at twenty so I’ll keep going and try to forget about this guy. Yah I probably didn’t do that much wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 05:23 PM
1

I am looking for a smart guy who knows how to speak gently when needed, can joke work me and has a masculine mindset that can give direct but not mean feedback. I like a guy who likes art and is outdoorsy. Sometimes a homebody type. I’m really liking computer engineers as a tech industry person myself. I don’t have any weird sexuality and I don’t what a guy who does. I don’t want someone who is super controlling but I can tolerate some. I hear you, but I could use to improve your dressing and ma…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 02:13 PM
1

Well, I asked my ex boyfriend why I’m still single yesterday. That was the year down. It wasn’t terrible and not a lot I could disagree with. It’s true! I could wear more dresses and makeup. But it has made me wish I could redo the last meet with this guy. I’m on apps and getting tons of matches. It’s been really hard to decide who to move forward and if I even like a guy. Too many choices just stresses me out. Hence why anxiety is pulling through on one I don’t need to question if I like. The j…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/23 01:19 PM
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Hvm would be more willing to accept a crappy apartment with room mates than a van. There would be questions about hygiene, safety, and if you are traveling town to town hooking up with random guys. It also doesn’t give your impression that you are committal. If it were a non moving tiny house, there would be more room to consider.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 10:06 PM
1

Yes! This is what I'm looking for :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 06:06 PM
2

That’s my problem too. I’m not sarcastic but I am in friend mode until I really like them which is usually when they get bored.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/23 03:56 PM
1

Good tooth = good career prospects
/r/RedPillWives10/02/23 04:33 AM
-1

Well it’s illegal to marry before 18 in America
/r/RedPillWives10/02/23 02:44 AM
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Yah they don't think this part through. They think enough money and power will cause any low body count or virgin woman to give it up but women like that are usually looking for marriage, something they don't offer.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 04:11 AM
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Yah, true. I do notice high earning men fall into the category of having the dating options change towards more of the escort that might turn into a wife, thing. That's what my ex is facing now aka not enough time to build/maintain a relationship and those who will put up with that sell their sex. Those women who want to carry the heavy relationship work are harder to find. I was willing but I needed a reason, aka road to marriage, to keep doing it. I would agree you may revert to the same datin…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:56 PM
1

I would call women like this bad dating choices. She would be more in love with herself than a partner. She would not be able to sacrifice as needed in all relationships. She would not be able to identify characteristics needed in a partner to maintain a relationship long term. Women who are more focused on building a relationship, rather than focused on not being single, are good dating choices. Men calling women superficial when they wouldn't date an obese, shaved head women are hypocritical. …
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:43 PM
1

Lots of high paid educated women date jobless guys. The number one reason for divorce is finances. I know a woman who is the breadwinner divorcing her jobless husband right now. Insecure women will date broke guys. These guys are often physically attractive or just seem to offer physical protection to suffice the provision attraction women have. Often, high earning women can’t bag men at their salary so they drop down. They will still care about the man’s income but often create stories about ho…
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 05:48 PM
1

I don’t think you realize how many men aren’t educated or don’t have a real job
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 04:49 PM
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As someone that dated men at your income level, I’ve never met a woman who wasn’t cornered about a man’s job or financial standing. That’s what I’m saying. Yah you guys have limited free time to date, true.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 06:27 AM
1

Redpill has good feedback on exercise and finances but not dating. Pick and choose the content.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 09:00 PM
1

Men have to be 6 foot or above to date: Women prefer tall men. However, many women marry shorter men. They key is that most women will not date someone shorter than them but women who realize they can't have it all will compromise. You have to be rich to date women: Women prefer rich men who can financially provide. Some women would prefer successful men, even if they are not rich. Some women want men who make just a little more. Some women will date and marry men who make less if there are othe…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 08:54 PM
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He is the king of RP. Basically training men to be abusive.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:21 PM
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Donovan Sharpe. Anyone who says Kevin Samuels or PearlyThings haven't heard Sharpe.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:20 PM
0

Easy, boy scouts. Now they allow girls. It's also criticized for spreading misogyny.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 09:56 PM
2

Making new friends isn’t a male improvement space. There would be an exclusion of women in spaces focused on male improvement.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 08:11 PM
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It's not that rp needs to be followed but simply because there aren't many spaces for male improvement. Most male improvement spaces are criticized by society at large. Society has help to create the problem of rp yet acts like it's a group of neck beards going off instead of realizing the greater dynamic.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 05:26 PM
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Andrew Tate is a 4x kickboxing world champion with a record of 76 wins, 9 losses.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 05:20 PM
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There are a lot of people in here who aren't ex-redpill but rather just don't like the redpill so they won't be able to explain how they switched sides.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 05:19 PM
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All relationships involve strategy, but good relationships will have both people strategizing together, rather than separately as the mentioned points above. All the points above are self strategy but a good relationship will strategize when it goes from dating to a relationship or go from causal relationship to serious or go from relationship to engaged. That's all done as a team.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 07:29 PM
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Well, some of us come out as fairly attractive and have to learn the hard way that people are shallow. I had to find out my friends invited me to parties because I was cute even when they didn't care for my personality. I had to learn men showed interest in me because I was fit, not because they were attracted to my intellect. This is an aspect why some attractive women stay single. They struggle to find men who are not shallow. I struggled for a long time feeling like no man would ever want me …
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 06:25 PM
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Redpill is a stagnant term. For example, if I say I'm outgoing. How outgoing? Just a little, or a lot? It's a sliding scale. There is a sliding scale with redpill that isn't acknowledged. Most view it as black and white. But some redpill advocates simple truths whereas others advocate situational truths only. For example, redpill says that women bond quickly in sex whereas men need to have lots of sex with 1 woman to bond. That is proven by research. But redpill says a woman can have sex once wi…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 05:56 PM
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<3
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 05:32 PM
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Yah it’s sad. I hope it works out
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 02:10 AM
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Husband made the mistake of not caring about that before marriage. He can't go back now unless it's divorce.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 01:27 AM
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Well that just simply justifies the assumption you have a higher number of past partners.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 01:10 AM
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It does suck. If you have a relatively low number of partners, it could be in your favor to disclose that information. I don’t condone lying but marriages are hard to keep and not worth breaking so easily over a number. The more you reject and put down these ideas, the more you affirm his idea on divorce. Even if you don’t value them, your rejection only affirms the ideals. Red pill says the only women who don’t like those who care about body count are those with high body count. I feel like tha…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 07:46 PM
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I’ve never met a man who talks about that stuff who doesn’t believe it’s relevant. Clearly he does since he got butt hurt by the insults. Or just don’t believe me and keep arguing.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 07:35 PM
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ngl I've known a lot of couples who never talked about their sexual history before marriage, then one finds out and they get divorced.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:45 PM
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He probably speaks in generalities about his political views, but you have been able to understand that he's speaking about his beliefs. You didn't apply this same logic to this conversation hence why a married man is upset his wife called him an incel loser.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:44 PM
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Defiantly. She seems insensitive, he seems insecure.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:43 PM
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You did call him an incel loser so that is offensive. Your response is emotionally dismissive of his feelings, regardless of the subject. I bet you could get a real conversation going if you ask him to talk more about how he feels. Or you could just let the marriage crash and die over a social media trend.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 06:38 PM
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I mean, if you spend more time on your looks than most women you know then eithers it's not your looks, you are avoiding better solutions, or you aren't doing as much as you think you are. Not trying to be mean but you seem to have all the solutions yet helpless.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 08:26 AM
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How would you know if you have never tried the device? I mean, if you spend more time on your looks than most women you know then eithers it's not your looks, you are avoiding better solutions, or you aren't doing as much as you think you are. Not trying to be mean but you seem to have all the solutions yet helpless.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 02:11 AM
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https://jawzrsize.com/
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 01:23 AM
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I'm always confused why men say they aren't physically attractive and don't find ways to increase attractiveness. Is it your weight? Your face? Your height? Your hair?
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 12:19 AM
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Cost of a party planner and decorator. YES! and yes to 14. I used to walk my ex's dog ALL THE TIME and often stayed behind to pet sit ... for free.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 01:55 AM
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Cost of an at home therapist
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 06:06 PM
1

It's less of what kind and more about finding a therapist you feel is making progress. It's also helpful to listen to psychological videos on youtube that address some of your life experiences so you can learn more about your habits. Nothing happens over night. It took me 7 years to reach some life goals that look minimal from the outside. Might be helpful to know the difference between a best friend and a significant other. Best friends have to put up with less than a partner.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:51 PM
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Have you considered taking classes at a mastery studios like learning carpentry, how to do or how to cook fancy stuff? Learning to fly helicopters? Joining running groups? These are some of the hobbies I’ve heard other men say they do.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 04:03 AM
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Get a hobby, travel, explore religions, make weird friends … those things have made people more interesting because they have more life experiences to talk about
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:47 AM
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get better at being happy being alone I recently rejected a fairly attractive guy because he seemed so depressed and sad. I was afraid I would be spending all my time building up his confidence.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:27 AM
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As someone who has struggled with crippling depression that led to a suicide attempt hospitalization, I do think depression can be addressed through therapy, diet changes, exercise and good habits. My dating life was trash until I got out of the depression cycle.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 03:21 AM
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I'm a 5'7" woman. I've dated a guy who was 5'5". He was fit, career focused and confident. I ghosted him because he wasn't interesting, and I felt like he was only looking for arm candy. I have a male friend who is 5'5". Very bright happy personality from loads of therapy and he genuinely cares about other people. He only gets women from getting numbers in person. He's had several taller than him GFs. Several GFs. He has a lot of female friends.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 02:57 AM
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If you can't be alone happy, a relationship won't come your way.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 02:55 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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