| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -2 | How to self-improve as a lonely male?First, use 'men' instead of 'males'. The latter demeans men by reducing them to medical anatomy. You are a person and more than your body. Second, identify who in your life values you as a human being. When your time is taken up by people you want to be around and who actually value you, then it can get to a point where you feel like you have the opposite problem of loneliness. Finally, to meet new people, ask the people in your life if they know of any local events. If you genuinely have nobody… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | An abuser blocked me after I asserted my boundariesRegardless of the key info, I kind of wish there was more support. I think this subreddit is too hit-or-miss for actual support. | /r/MenSupportMen | 13/09/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | An abuser blocked me after I asserted my boundariesThank you. Kind of wish there were restricted support groups for this. | /r/MenSupportMen | 12/09/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere.That's super funny, and the article was a good read. It's exactly the issue that a lot of men's rights subreddits have. I think you'd be very drawn to randomized controlled trials. It's a science-based way to tackle the small social issues (as the article advises) while understanding what kinds of programs will work in what conditions. It's a much better alternative to the egotistical shots in the dark because 'I have an idea' that the article criticizes. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere.Thank you for your constructive criticism. I will do my best to overcome the failure state you mentioned: through free speech, a loud/harsh/insensitive but diverse intellectual atmosphere is created, and it naturally repels most of the other side Without giving out too much, I have an exciting project in the works. The link to that comic is broken. Could you send a working one? And I do love algorithms, haha. No shame. :P | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/09/22 07:14 PM |
| -3 | I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere.The 'curation' is post flairs. Unless a post doesn't match its flair, it'll stay on the sub. I haven't considered a general vent/rant flair. I currently have one for vents/rants regarding personal relationships (or lack thereof), and I have another one for social issues. Are there any kinds of posts that wouldn't be covered by those two flairs? | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Why I'm leaving this subreddit.I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | What is with the growing trend of extreme viewpoints being adopted by the users on this subreddit?I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | The level of discourse in this subreddit needs to changeI created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Guys I know you will think some people in this subreddit are dumb but we need to promote our position by teaching/informing instead of downvoting!I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Rant: I have a love-hate relationship with this subredditI created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Is this subreddit becoming an echo chamber? How do we know that the MRM is on track?I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | This subreddit needs to shake off its anti-women reputation for the sake of these issues being taken seriously.I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | I am legitimately so tired of feminist trolls invading this subreddit.I created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:32 AM |
| 2 | An Idea to perhaps make this subreddit more productive and less controversialI created r/TrueMRA with more reasonable anti-troll curation and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/22 05:32 AM |
| 2 | "It's not r*pe if there's no penetration."Thank you. I will be slowly, but surely, working on this in my free time every month. This won't be my focal point until after I obtain my reparations as a victim. | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/08/22 03:39 PM |
| 5 | "It's not r*pe if there's no penetration."I'm feeling better after a good cry. I'm not surprised, just wish people were better. I know what to do, but I'm impatient. It'll take decades, but it'll be so damn worth it at the end. | /r/MenSupportMen | 23/08/22 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Are there any subreddits that has male victims of rape stories ?EDIT: r/SafeSurvivors - https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/SafeSurvivors A safe space for victims and survivors with more privacy and moderation than is afforded elsewhere. Anti-racist, pro-trans, pro-enby, pro-aroace. Aggressively inclusive of male-identifying and non-binary victims and survivors. We believe all victims and survivors. EDIT 2: r/SurvivorSupport is a more lenient sibling subreddit for victims and survivors who need support now. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I'm (17) am at a low point, I'm plagued by anxiety, I've managed to slowly reduce it, but it's still there, constantlyEDIT: This post/comment originally contained evidence-based resources that primarily help victims and survivors. You can still access them at the following subreddit: r/SafeSurvivors: https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/SafeSurvivors | /r/MenSupportMen | 21/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I decided that I am seeking reparations as a survivor before contributing to societypeople who will take care of you in turn. Oh, I definitely help the few who will help me. I am also allowed to set boundaries and avoid being a floormat. Several trolls and narcissists have tried to police and gaslight me, and it's hilarious. If I didn't have any conviction for my decision, I sure do now. Society's issues are above me. I'm exhausted. Golden cuffs go brrrr, and I'm not sorry. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Weekend check-inI got into my uni's honors program. :) I'm studying maths and another quantitative discipline, and the term is going super well so far. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/08/22 07:09 PM |
| 2 | I decided that I am seeking reparations as a survivor before contributing to societyHaha, my reparations number scales with inflation. I'm pretty good at maths, don't worry. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 2 | I decided that I am seeking reparations as a survivor before contributing to societyParasites as in people who try to be nice to me for my money? I'm honestly not sure if that'll ever happen. I only make friends with kind, caring, and generous people. There's very few of that in this world. The few people in my life appreciate and respect me for who I am, and some are already pursuing lucrative careers, albeit to a lesser financial extreme than me. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/08/22 06:59 PM |
| 3 | I decided that I am seeking reparations as a survivor before contributing to societyThank you so much. It took a lot to make it, and a lot longer to fully come to terms with it, but I'm honestly happy. I'm amazed at how many trolls and narcissists on Reddit are gaslighting and hating on me for focusing on myself, especially after the hell and harm society has put me through, but maybe that's why society is so harmful to begin with. | /r/MenSupportMen | 20/08/22 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.What's the name of the gym? We should boycott them for ableism. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | about sub quality.Yeah, there's a bit too many trolls here. I wonder if there's another sub with a low minimum karma requirement just to boost the average quality of posts. Shit will still get through, but hopefully less shit. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 3 | What advice do you have for a woman starting a mens rights group?R*pe victims and survivors. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 3 | [AskReddit] Men of reddit who have been raped by a women, what's your story?Thank you. I took a break because this is an intense topic for me. Mind if I PM you? I'd love to connect with another genderfluid person and share our experiences. | /r/MensRights | 30/07/22 04:22 PM |
| 6 | [AskReddit] Men of reddit who have been raped by a women, what's your story?Glad to see/read that you've pulled yourself up by your bootstraps. It's more like 90% luck, 5% resilience, 5% grit. (I've hyperlinked a couple resources in case any male survivors want to use them.) EDIT: This post/comment originally contained evidence-based resources that primarily help victims and survivors. You can still access them at the following subreddit: r/SafeSurvivors: https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/SafeSurvivors | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 13 | [AskReddit] Men of reddit who have been raped by a women, what's your story?More perpetrators have raped me than I can count. As someone who is genderfluid, I experience the worst of both worlds. My 3rd grade teacher raped me, then my 5th grade teacher, then a classmate in uni, then a manager at a homeless youth shelter. There's probably more I can't remember off the top of my head. Several people and non-profits not only denied aid, but went out of their way to spend their time and energy harassing me for being a survivor. It seemed really strange that non-profits that… | /r/MensRights | 28/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 0 | This is why the majority of women don’t associate with feminists. This is why nobody likes feminism. You try and engage with these ‘people’ and they’re just overtly aggressive.Good luck in whatever you're trying to do. I hope it goes well, truly. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 04:18 AM |
| 0 | This is why the majority of women don’t associate with feminists. This is why nobody likes feminism. You try and engage with these ‘people’ and they’re just overtly aggressive.So what action do you propose to resolve that, if any? Normally when issues are brought up, there's some call to specific actions like donating money or time to effective organizations. Otherwise, it's just keyboard activism. I'm only interested in rational, effective action. I'm sorry if we have different interests. I truly think talk is cheap, so if that's what you're going for, then I'll bow out. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 04:07 AM |
| 0 | This is why the majority of women don’t associate with feminists. This is why nobody likes feminism. You try and engage with these ‘people’ and they’re just overtly aggressive.If not money, what do you propose to do instead? I'm interested in what can be done to help male victims/survivors since that was the issue discussed so far. What were you hoping people would follow up with? | /r/MensRights | 23/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 0 | This is why the majority of women don’t associate with feminists. This is why nobody likes feminism. You try and engage with these ‘people’ and they’re just overtly aggressive.What are some effective nonprofits that help male victims/survivors? I'm a uni student atm, but I could at the very least donate 1% of my disposable income (excluding necessary expenses). | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 07:45 PM |
| 0 | This is why the majority of women don’t associate with feminists. This is why nobody likes feminism. You try and engage with these ‘people’ and they’re just overtly aggressive.So they're perpetuating real r*pe culture by doubting male victims/survivors? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | This is why the majority of women don’t associate with feminists. This is why nobody likes feminism. You try and engage with these ‘people’ and they’re just overtly aggressive.R@pe culture women unable to r@pe men Don't these views contradict each other? | /r/MensRights | 22/07/22 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Bad Relationship: The Emptiness of the Therapeutic Alliance for MenEDIT: This post/comment originally contained evidence-based resources that primarily help victims and survivors. You can still access them at the following subreddit: r/SafeSurvivors: https://www.reddit.com/message/compose?to=/r/SafeSurvivors | /r/MensRights | 21/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Bad Relationship: The Emptiness of the Therapeutic Alliance for MenI posted about this in detail, but a university has released evidence-based, independent practices you can alone do in your free time. No therapist required. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 9 | A “””wonderfully productive conversation with a perfectly sane individual.”””Believe some victims and survivors, then silence the rest. 🤔 | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 06:22 PM |
| 8 | Ukraine military sees spike in female volunteers amid war with Russia (OP: It's nice to have a choice even when you technically might not. Another thing to consider if the U.S. decides to "draft" women.)Is fending off a military invasion not a priority? I thought the war was serious? | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 08:12 PM |
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