| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way. | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 03:51 PM | |
| 8 | Need advice, after "the talk" with a plate | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 06:30 PM | |
| 8 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm... | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 02:42 PM | |
| 5 | Need advice...the talk... | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 02:54 PM | |
| 5 | I need advice on my anger... | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 03:45 PM | |
| 5 | "you must have given it to me!" | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:08 PM | |
| 3 | Issues...possibly old beta thinking? Any advice? | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 04:39 PM | |
| 3 | Can this be fixed? | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:04 PM | |
| 2 | BCAA's on rest days between workouts? | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 05:14 PM | |
| 1 | Need advice... | Demaon7 | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 05:50 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | My ex got her life in order while I became a directionless loser.You can. It’s not that hard. You are the prize here. You have to find some self worth first of all. Otherwise, all this?, will be a self fulfilling prophecy. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Need advice...the talk...Good point. I shouldn’t be sorry. I’m just going to pretend it never happened. I don’t plan to reinitiate contact with her however. So we will see. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/18 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Need advice...the talk...So far the red flags are tiny...so far...I was vetting her for a possible LTR, but based on her emotional response to this situation I don't know anymore. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...the talk...I've read that. I know how to handle the talk. Great advice btw. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...the talk...That is true I suppose. She knew what she was getting into as well. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...the talk...Indeed. But more so to give you guys details so that I can get good accurate device. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Need advice...the talk...This is good. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...the talk...Eh, true. I am not "chasing her" as I haven't changed my frame about anything and I haven't talked to her since she mentioned that. But a reasonable person would offer to talk it out (regardless of frame). I don't let me pride/hubris get in the way of being rationale. I would keep my frame regardless during the talk and set my boundaries etc. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...the talk...Yes, have been for a month. We also fucked a couple times when we first matched a couple years ago. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...the talk...I don't believe I have oneitis as I have many chicks I can hit up and I feel rather indifferent about it honestly (very cynical person). But thanks for the prescription. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...This is what I was looking for. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Need advice...Well I don't. The texting examples were shortened for you guys | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Tinder date with F-close. What it looks like when gaining a plate goes right, and how many lessons you can extract from it.Then GTFO this subreddit. Why are you even here? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | All hung up, no idea what to do.Dude...These are the things you did wrong: "hung around" - once you break up you go no contact until you heal (unless your frame is so strong that you can keep her as a plate; in this case your frame is not that strong) Wrote her a letter - women cringe at this shit especially post breakup - once again go no contact You have not read the sidebar here or on r/TheRedPill - do that and this shit would never have happened. You are giving her post relationship validation - STOP TALKING TO HER AND MOV… | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 09:39 PM |
| 1 | What goes on in the female mind during no contact?Completely unnecessary comment. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Can this be fixed?It's mental. I know in my mind that it won't feel as well as raw. Even though I could still finish, I wouldn't be as hard I suppose. Just a bad mental spot to be in mid-coitus. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Can this be fixed?Yea, I'm not bombarding her or anything, got my own shit to do. So no worries there. I hate condoms so when I put one on it makes me go limp so to speak (I guess mental shit). It just threw me off. But I have not mentioned anything about the sex just trying to arrange another meeting. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Can this be fixed?Yea I usually find out if they are on BC before I do it, but she was pretty spur of the moment. I am afraid the chance may have passed as I haven't heard from her in a couple days. We will see. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 2 | I turn 29 this year and have only been laid twice by drunken hookups from fat girls. Is it too late for me?I came here around 28. Before that I was super emotional and beta after the initial couple weeks with a chick. Bad breakup/fling and I showed up here. In regards to my sex life and getting in shape, it has been the best 5 years of my life. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 04:23 PM |
| 2 | How to get over a bad nightSometimes the universe doesn't work out. I've been TRP'ed for many years now after coming here at the advice of my friend after a bad fling/oneitis. I've improved my game, my looks, my physique, my career and still sometimes I have dry spells with women. It is strange. Some weeks/months - I can't keep up with all of the chicks messaging me Some other weeks/months - I can't get a text back on logistics and they flake all the time. Sometimes things just don't go as expected, just keep improving an… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m a bit confused regarding a girl I’m with.What do you mean by "acting different"? You need to provide more details. Remember - "Watch what she does, not what she says" | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Do women get satisfaction/kick out of emotionally draining men?I don’t keep up false frame because my frame is not giving a fuck and improving myself. You do you. You do what you want to do in life. Women are along for the awesome ride. I do not associate with emotionally draining women. No matter how hot they are. They suck the life force out of you. Strength (not weakness) is the dominant trait. And women are attracted to that. It’s evolution. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 02:51 AM |
| 13 | I Need HelpFirst of all...this is clear signs of Bipolarism (source: my baby mama bipolar as fuck and the sex was awesome). They are either manic or depressed. Second of all why are your talking to her friend and bitching? Super beta. Birds of a feather flock together my friend you can't change that. You need to distance yourself from this chick for a while. She is not stable and on top of that she is flirting with another guy (because bipolar people crave attention - via depression or mania). Take a break… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Proper response to “is everything ok” from girl you’re seeingI second this. Can attest. Done this before in a LTR and it only just darkened the mood. Proper response is "Yah, why wouldn't it be?" A&A and then you can deflect what she responds with. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Low Libido & Can't LastJust DGAF dude and keep slaying. Eventually your increasing n count will eat away at this worry. If they say that was terrible then tell them it only gets better. Fapping too much is a slippery slope. I've fapped a ton and thought it would help (just made me super sensitized). I've held it in for quite some time (just made me want to explode when I did it). Try some kegels and edging for 20-30 mins. When you fap just plan to do it for however long you want to last and work up to it. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Do women get satisfaction/kick out of emotionally draining men?It's a tough scale to discern but it depends on the woman as well. Like most posts here examples (losing job, money change, injury, illness) those are inherent signs of weakness that women just are programmed to detect. Hence why most people here (including me) are so resistant to opening up a soft side to women. They see your weakness and it initiates the hypergamy and the branch-swinging. That is why frame is so important. I'm not p | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Low Libido & Can't LastI think what you miss is truly a DGAF attitude. You seem so worried about it that it psyches you out. I'm 32, been a scrawny shit most of my life but in the past 5 years really gotten in shape and improved myself. I've been with countless women. Sometimes the sex is so intense that I can't help it, just go another round and DGAF. Don't apologize just be yourself. Oh, and learn to be a master at cunnilingus. If the girl is really super hot and its intense I will get her off first and then get it … | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Guys I need help getting started. I literally need someone to redpill the $&@! Out of meThis. I go into a whole another world when I lift. Channel all the inner demons. It's like meditation for me nowadays. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Do women get satisfaction/kick out of emotionally draining men?It means never show weakness around a girl. They can smell it. Once they do they know they can affect you like anything else that weakens you. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do [update]Believe me you sound like something, but not edgy. The minute I see "u" instead of "you" or any other crap like that I immediately take that person less seriously as it makes them look unintelligible. Do what you want, but personally I don't do all that crappy grammar texting. Edit: Didn't realize this was sarcasm induced. Carry on my friend! | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | What to do [update]Perhaps actually use proper grammar when texting. Also if she has your # in her phone with your first name...Facebook will find you in her "people you might know" area. It has happened to me when I put girls in my phone as their first name. They show up in that feed. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice - Is she shit testing me here or is she just not that into me? Help me please.Why does reading this make my head hurt? Even if you want to bone this chick, there is just too much baggage with her. Based on everything I have read you would: 1) Mate guard hard with all her orbiters 2) End up paying for sex indirectly 3) Become even more emotionally invested after banging her - beta tendencies She wants to rebound hard after her relationship and you were not the first person she spoke about. It means your SMV isn't high enough yet that she didn't even CONSIDER it. Your respo… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Successful Tinder Date Following Major Self ImprovementHow do you not like live music? That is just brutal. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meToo many goddamn "likes" in this FR. Drop the likes from your vocabulary bro, you will go far. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How do girls even do this. Either they are masters of deceptions or I'm an idiotHonestly man, read the side bar on this sub and over at r/TheRedPill instead of asking questions here. If you don't read all that and ask these questions most of the people here won't give you the time of day with a legitimate response. Take the time to read all that as it explains outcome independence (the ability to handle rejection, the IDGAF mentality, and to still remain in your frame regardless of the outcome of a date, FWB, LTR situation that did not work out). If you don't take the time … | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm...Hmmm. I will look into this. I have no problem training her as she seems quite submissive. I will consider the hard next once we talk about why she's that way. If it is because she squirts I have no problem with that, but if it is underlying emotional problems then you are probably right. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm...No I'm 32 and she's 27. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm...It seems based on her body language and the words of affirmation that I give her that she is somewhat self-conscious (which could have been from a past relationship treating her like shit, or she used to be really fat, etc). But I have shown that none of that bothers me and I enjoy exploring her. She is religious and does the church thing every Sunday, so I also thought that it maybe is because it makes her feel bad (like she has sinned, etc). But I am sure it's one of the many reasons listed he… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm...Hopefully the more we talk this will come to light. It's either an emotional attachment issue or she's afraid to destroy my sheets. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm...I was leaning more towards this. But considering how she is quite shy and needs words of affirmation, it could be a past thing that fucked her up. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Had a chick over last night and she was scared to orgasm...IF that is the case, she has not told me about it, maybe that will come up in conversation when we continue to talk about it. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...I have been lifting for years. If by "you're cute?" do you mean am I attractive and not unattractive then yes. I don't have trouble pulling girls that are way hotter. That's not an issue. I don't have any tats because I'd have no clue what to get. But yes I think extended no contact is necessary. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...Yes there were some failed comfort tests, which I failed on purpose. I wasn't going to live with her, I wasn't going to love her when she wanted, and I wasn't going to become more emotional just because that's what she needed. So yea. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...I am sorry that it took you 20 minutes to read this, but thanks for your response! | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...I am somewhat angry at her for how she handled it, but yes you are correct, there is a part of me that is angry with my past self. I didn't expect her to say those things quite the opposite actually, but I should have seen it based on all the TRP reading and theory. But the past is the past and there is nothing I can do about it. All I can do is work on the now and the future. But thanks for the advice CapNBalls - hits home! Based on your post history you give sound advice! | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...Agreed. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...She essentially told me I was broken long term goal wise, I had no ambition or motivation in life. That everything I had done up to this point was worthless career wise. Amongst other things. I dicked around in my early to mid twenties and fell behind so I am a little behind where I want to be in my life, but I have been improving and working on my career and finally at a place that I can excel at. But for some reason what she said didn't sit right with me. And yes, it made me angry that it brok… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 08:05 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on my anger...Word. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...I see. I usually do respond well to criticism, but in this case it was an attack on my life and lifestyle which was a low blow, I'll be over it in a couple weeks. I will look into this book although I hear it is a tough read. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...What is WISNIFG? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...Yea, I was always stoic around her and when she couldn't get an emotional response from me during our relationship (i.e. "i love you" crap) she would get pissed. I try not to show my emotions but I do acknowledge when they are present and try not to let them control me (although anger is the strongest one - maybe I'm a Sith). She, however, as TRP has demonstrated is the exact opposite and wanted someone who would feel for her as strongly as she would for them (basically a beta). She bases it a l… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...Things that were said by her about me and my life that were pretty damning and hurtful, could have gone without those things being said. Other than that I am totally with you. I got a date tonight with a chick much hotter than her so I won't be thinking about it tonight. But you are right, she tried to turn me beta and when I refused she critiqued my life to justify the breakup and totally revealed a side of her I had never seen. I am just glad I didn't live with her or have a kid with her. My f… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:16 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on my anger...I didn't date a co-worker, I got her a job where I sometimes work for extra money (still same result I guess). This is very true. I am done arguing with her and pretty much exercised the nuclear option when she drunk texted me. She just wants her cake and to eat it to so to speak. I am just struggling with my anger. When I am busy and with friends or some chick I don't even think about it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...No there's no future. She wants to move away in two years and I highly doubt that I would go with her. She just wants her best friend back. I am just struggling with my anger, anger more towards the fact that she doesn't feel culpable in any of this, and of some of the thing she said to me that were pretty hurtful. It will subside. Just need to keep no contact and date other women. Not my first rodeo. The times I will have to see her I will just deal with it and keep contact to a minimum. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on my anger...I agree that I shouldn't let her know that she affected my frame, but if you knew what she said it would be tough to not get angry. Plus it upsets her that she upset me and I won't talk to her. But you're right - time, bitches, and the gym will help. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 04:11 PM |
| – | How to change my LTR decision about moving to other city?A long term-relationship isn't two months (a prospective one I suppose). Changing her mind to live with her mom where it could be possibly toxic just so you don't have LDR would be counter-productive. She would probably be turned into a different person. Also, I don't know if you live in the US but you being 20 and her being 17 isn't necessarily legal and she could claim statutory rape. LDR's have a very low survival rate, especially at a young age, you guys barely know each other only after 2 m… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 03:10 PM |
| – | First meet with Tinder girl ends with her saying "we will see"...is there a chance for more or did she mean "fuck off"?Your logistics were screwed from the get go. So that's not good. She only had an hour (or she just made that up because you were behind the sticks already). You were fumbling at your own goalline from the get go. Showed up late, the venue closed early. Took you 20 mins to walk to the other one. She felt like it was a waste of time. I would try to plan better logistics next time. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 05:08 PM |
| – | First date after a year long relationshipWell drinks are first, if everything goes well we may go to grab a quick bite. Kind of a vetting period. But they also have food trucks at the breweries and I am kinda counting on that (i know its logistics), but I'm going to be hungry regardless, ha. I am a big proponent of body language. I will watch hers to see if she is receptive or not. I set up the date on tuesday and she texted me to confirm yesterday if we were still on. Since then it has been radio silence. So I doubt she will flake. I … | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 04:35 PM |
| – | First date after a year long relationshipYea she is 420 friendly so I was thinking we could roll back to my place and smoke and go from there. Taking her to a brewery that is relatively close to my place (unfortunately no place is close enough to walk to my place). Then probably walk to another bar or go get some pizza. Going into this not expecting an F-close, just some fun and a good time. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 04:07 PM |
| – | First date after a year long relationshipUm, I am not new and I didn't want to live with her end of story. I've been a member of this sub for 2 years now, so yea, fuck off with that noise. I am not sacrificing my current situation at my place to live with her when I get sex frequently enough, especially after 6 months. Maybe I wanted to fail her shit tests, you know by not entering her frame. Basic red pill stuff. I am not going to treat her like a princess just for sex, especially when she was at my place almost every night. I think y… | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 03:36 PM |
| – | First date after a year long relationshipYea, well it was her first relationship (which she didn't tell me until during the break up) and she also said I was "broken" long term goal wise. So yea, don't need that shit. I'm not going to turn beta for her, so if I failed her shit tests then probably for the better. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 02:50 PM |
| – | Any personal tips for getting over an ex? (YES, I've read the sidebar, been on TRP for over a year)Personally, I would keep my mind busy. I wouldn't allow those thoughts to come into my head. My 1 year relationship recently ended (less than a week), and I try to stay busy af and stay with friends. Also, it is important to recognize your feelings (the grieving process stages) but not to act on them. Women act on them, but men do not. It's important to recognize them and not suppress them or numb yourself with drugs. The worst times for me are at night before bed when my mind tends to wander to… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you know a guy who killed himself over a girl?It is 100% their business. That's what you don't get. You really are enjoying the pain that you are feeling based on all the comments you have made. Sounds like you are hoping this chick will come back and see how depressed you are and make it right. She won't come back, she's gone. Left. Sayonara. You are wasting years of your life feeling this way only to make yourself feel even worse because you are trying to ellicit responses from people for your pity party. Your issues (that you admitted to… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you know a guy who killed himself over a girl?Also, they all went ghost on you because they can sense your depression and codependence. You owe it to yourself to be happy and only worry about yourself. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you know a guy who killed himself over a girl?There's your answer right there. You need to learn to love yourself. Sounds like your family structure was messed up and something happened to you in childhood that made you feel this way. We are products of our childhood and our upbringing. Perhaps you should read books about loving yourself. You say love from someone else is real? How do you know if it isn't. Even if it wasn't real you would still think it was real because they would never tell you that. How is that any better than loving your… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 06:51 PM |
| – | Did any of you know a guy who killed himself over a girl?This is a pity party that you are having. You are still stuck in the depression phase of a post-relationship fallout. I mean temporary in the grand scheme of your life. But when you talk about "life is temporary" again you are being super melodramatic. Life will suck if you LET it suck. Which is exactly what you are doing. Wah wah nobody loves me wah wah. How about your worry about the one person that matters the most? YOURSELF. Learn to love yourself again. You don't need someone else to love y… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 06:02 PM |
| – | Did any of you know a guy who killed himself over a girl?All you posts are cryptic as hell about why you feel this way. This feeling is temporary. TEMPORARY. It only feels like it will be forever because you are letting the depression immerse you into feeling worse for yourself. It's like a pity cycle. Take some time to work your shit out mentally and I guarantee you that 6 months from now you will laugh. As many people have said "Don't. Make. An. Emotional. Decision." It seems that you need to control your emotions better. As someone who was manic de… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | My first date ever is with a woman WAY out of my league. I'm not sure if I should go.Some women of this caliber don't find men in their tax bracket very interesting. Most of the opinions I have gotten from women like this is that most of the men that would match their SMV are shallow and terrible lays. However, if she is well off for herself and makes all that money herself then she is probably a very strong woman and intelligent. If you go in intimidated she will know. Sometimes girls like this like to date a middle class dude because they are more real and confident because th… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 03:53 PM |
| – | How to deal with passive aggressive beta malesTreat them just like a woman, withdraw attention. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 05:05 PM |
| 1 | How do I lower my smv?Once again, I have ten years between my GF and I. Women love guys my age, so once again terrible logic. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | How do I lower my smv?This is terrible logic. My GF is 23 and I am 32. If you read the sidebar, men usually peak in their mid 30's. You have very convoluted and confusing logic and responses in your post history. As I said before, heed u/kriation's advice. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I lower my smv?heed u/kriation's advice. You have issues you need to resolve yourself. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 04:35 PM |
| 3 | NEED HELP with text game shit testsI mean a little talking is okay, but if you tell her all about yourself before the date then you have nothing to talk about during the date? You have to be mysterious and make her want to meet you to get to know you better. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 04:54 PM |
| – | NEED HELP with text game shit testsShe had nothing to bake on. At all. You didn't give her the tingles with sexual word play, you didn't establish value besides stating you were dominant (which is the exact opposite of what she was looking for even though that is horseshit from her part since she is an alpha widow). You set up the date then you bake. Let her hamster spin after you have set up a place and time. She held all the cards so baking actually backfired on you as she probably found someone else. Also as stated many times … | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 04:15 PM |
| 4 | NEED HELP with text game shit testsYou lost it after the first conversation unfortunately. She can't be "controlled" anyway. When you didn't take the onus to ask her out in the first conversation she moved on. Also you talked WAYYYY to much about being dominant. And then she said that dominant men don't like her because she cant be controlled. Then you continued to talk about being dominant. Dominant dudes don't have to talk about being dominant. It's like that line in game of thrones. "a king who says they are the king, is obvio… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 03:47 PM |
| 14 | Learn the Art of knowing when to Shut the Fuck UpI prefer the old expression - "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool, then to open your mouth and remove all doubt." I agree however, sometimes spitting bullshit and diarrhea out of your mouth doesn't help your case. Girls can figure out when you are full of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/17 05:32 PM |
| 2 | What does this mean? Ex LTR finally messages me.I know my happiness is what really matter and maybe I'm just still getting over everything but the only current logical response in my head is that I'm happy when I'm with her. This woman flat out told you she isn't going to pay the rent for the remaining 6 months and broke up with you on your birthday and you still feel that your only chance at happiness is with her? You don't have a very good idea of happiness then. Today she messaged me saying "Tipsy. I'm so sorry" "I hate that I have hurt yo… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/16 08:51 PM |
| 2 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.You mean all your equally idiotic comments in the red pill? You sound like a dude who acts like he read the sidebar but was too lazy to read any of it which screams beta. I asked for advice, not to be chastised by some SJW. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/16 03:33 AM |
| 6 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Good stuff. Borrowing. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.good answer... | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Fair enough, I didn't know the definition of a LTR was more than 6 months. Honeymoon stage I would say is wearing off. She knows the rules and how I feel. If she doesn't like it she can bail, simple as that. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:44 PM |
| 7 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Oh she loves the push/pull and days where I am super receptive and days that I am not. She enjoys it all even if she doesn't tell me. The minute I get complacent is when stuff will go to shit. I agree the ends are greater when you stay aloof, keeps the tingles going the whole way. Maybe I can show it with more body language. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:43 PM |
| 2 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Ha. Good stuff! | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Love is not something I take lightly anymore since it has been thrown around as a weapon by women towards me. I guess my standards for love are super high. So rather than lying to the chick jsut straight up tell her what's up and if she doesn't like it then next. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:40 PM |
| 4 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.You are a fucking idiot. Stop trying to deflect and actually act like you are part of this conversation. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:38 PM |
| 4 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.just because you want to get your dick wet, does not mean you can lie to a girl and string her along like some game. This, perhaps? You are telling me to be honest with a girl. Then you say this conversation has nothing to do with honesty? And you just got called out on your shit and you are trying to deflect it like a beta i.e. "lets not call the OP names". GTFO out with your cognitive dissonance bullshit. You have no idea what to talk about and sound like a crying beta...HOW DARE YOU STRING AL… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 07:37 PM |
| 18 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.I guess I did answer my own question. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 05:18 PM |
| 6 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Best advice so far. Thanks for the input! | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 05:17 PM |
| 7 | LTR says she is falling in love with me...Gets upset when I don't feel the same way.Wow. Low personal integrity? By being honest with her? You don't know my past. This post stinks of beta. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/16 05:17 PM |
| 8 | She wants me to get an STD test before sex.I've dated girls in the past that were extremely anal (ha!) about this. Some people are terrified of STD's. Also, you can still contract STD's even with condoms (although it is very unlikely). I always try to get tested once or twice a year for my own peace of mind. I wouldn't trust her with her birth control (still use condoms) but if you have insurance most STD tests (I get a 9-panel) are not too expensive. I don't think getting a test is succumbing to her wishes. It is for your peace of mind … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | I got fired from my first post-college job and feeling very lost. I'm considering enlisting in the military.Love the passive aggressiveness. Keep it up, very red pill of you. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I got fired from my first post-college job and feeling very lost. I'm considering enlisting in the military.Good point. I will check it out. Agreed a lot of people didn't know what they wanted at that age. I guess I just had my mind made up. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/16 12:28 AM |
| 2 | I got fired from my first post-college job and feeling very lost. I'm considering enlisting in the military.Seems to be a problem of motivation for you. As someone who graduated undergrad with a shit GPA, that's on you. I barely made it out of undergrad. You also screwed up when you studied a field you ended up hating. Counselor's always told me to study something I would really enjoy for my whole life. Not to chase the money or the status. Also, it seems like you don't want to work more than 30 hours a week (which goes back to motivation and discipline). Any company that is going to pay you the big b… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Supplements/Libido?Get a new doctor and get your testosterone checked. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Field Report: Be FearlessBook is soooooooooo much better with so much more stuff in it. They left a lot of stuff out. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 03:03 PM |
| -3 | Field Report: Be FearlessIf this is a troll then cool (not really). It this is serious, then you need to get off reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Am I an ass for not tipping attractive waitresses?You have no idea what redpill is. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Am I an ass for not tipping attractive waitresses?This is fucking retarded, tip you asshole. It's people like you who make this world a shitty place. They live off of tips. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Am I an ass for not tipping attractive waitresses?If you don't tip then you won't have clean food, period. I can understand shitty service and not tipping, but waiters/waitresses live off of tips. So if you are a serial non-tipper then you can go fuck yourself. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | 3x a week 5x5 squats isn't too much?Bi polar much? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/16 02:58 PM |
| 1 | ex is now a homeless pan handlerStopped at "she was bi-polar". BIG ASS NOPE. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/16 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Started gym 6 months ago with close friend. He now looks much better than me, how do I get over the feeling of inferiority?As my brother said (who runs 50k's and triathlons and is shredded), a lot of times it is body type. For some people it is harder to develop certain muscle groups than others. Whatever muscle he has that is more defined than you, do isolation exercises for them (after the much better compound exercises of course). He had the advantage of small body fat already so all he had to do was bulk up and eat right. You have to trim body fat which means DIET LIKE HELL and intermittent fasting. Remember cal… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/16 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I find it very hard to move on unless I'm clearly rejectedI find that girls will ghost you more then straight up tell you they aren't interested. It's stupid because they create more pseudo-drama then just straight up telling a guy "hey, I think you're a cool guy, but I am not interested". Instead they would love to ghost you and let you stew then actually be mature and communicate their intentions. I usually don't have time/put up with girls that just ghost me. I keep the back channels open so to speak (facebook, snapchat, IG, etc.). I used to hard ne… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/16 04:47 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"I think you might be right as she said it was "strictly female" Although yeast infections can happen in men just not as common. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/16 04:46 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"Oh it's definitely torched, just hate no closure. Even if I did try to talk to her she wouldn't respond. I wished her well with her studies and left it at that (couple days ago in regards to her stuff). Just glad I don't have an STD. AWALT I suppose. Also, we were never exclusive and I've been talking to other chicks as well. Just sad how it played out. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"Well, I don't think she will ever tell me what it was or is, so all I can do is ponder. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Ex wants to chillNOOOOOOOOOO! I got involved with a bipolar woman when I was 21. Worst decision ever. Got a 10 year old out of it (who is my world and is a blessing in disguise that changed my world) but dealing with her was a nightmare. She tried to kill me and herself while she was preggo (although she did not know at the time). | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 04:13 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"She's one of those girls that gets sick all the time. Allergies, whatever. Just too many red flags going on here. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 04:03 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"When she found out she said she didn't know what she had, she would know more in a week. Again, another suspicious comment. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:44 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"I know that, but just a new situation for me. I'm pretty sure she fucked up and fucked another dude before or after me that had something and I got lucky wearing a rubber. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:37 PM |
| 1 | "you must have given it to me!"Well, I don't have any symptoms (I understand that it can be asymptomatic). I have only had one wart in my entire life and it was on my finger in high school. I have not had any warts anywhere else. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/16 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Need advice, after "the talk" with a plateGood point. She has since responded with a benign comment about something her and her mom have cooked but I have not responded. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 09:13 PM |
| – | BCAA's on rest days between workouts?I've been thinking about this. So 5g's pre and 5g's post should do right? What about mixing protein and creatine into one shake? Some say take the creatine first then the protein later? | /r/askTRP | |
| – | "you must have given it to me!"I just don't see why she would do that. A simple "I'm not interested" would have worked. No need for all this STD hooplah. The "don't waste your money" was in response to a conversation we had before we had sex about HPV. I told her that I was totally clean but that if I had HPV I would not know and it would not affect me. So I think that is the butt end of that conversation. I think that whole message was spiteful from her. She did admit to going on dates with another guy while she was dating m… | /r/askTRP | |
| – | Need advice, after "the talk" with a plateShe has her own place. The moving comment was in regard to if she got a job somewhere else in the country and wouldnt be able to sustain what we have. | /r/askTRP |
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