Hey guys, I posted a couple weeks back about a HB9 that I had been hooking up with the past month. I deleted the post to cover my reddit tracks but the jist of it was this.

We matched on bumble a couple years ago and hung out for about a month. She went ghost on me for a month, but still kept in touch with me (didn't really care, my turn was over, etc.).

Anyways last month things really heated up between us when we attended a concert together and started hooking up.

We never had "the talk" as we both agreed that we liked the way things were materializing naturally.

After a weekend of hanging out together, she gets a screenshot sent to her of my bumble profile. Needless to say, she was hurt by that. She knows that it isn't really fair for her to feel that as we had not established the LTR guidelines yet via the "talk".

This women has a plethora of beta orbiters that text her all the time (which is a double standard for her being pissed at me for my Bumble acocunt) and seems really into me, but I have been vetting her for the past month. I am going to use her response to this situation as a test of her emotional control I think.

The way she usually responds to stuff like this is to ghost. I was preparing for this talk to happen over the weekend but it never did so I didn't bring it up. However, I don't think she will respond even though I said we should talk it out.

Any advice on this? I have been a member of this sub for years and I lift and have read the sidebar. I know she is not a unicorn but I really liked where things were going. If this is the end of my turn, then so be it. It probably won't be the same anymore now that she has been "hurt".

Any advice on this?