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| 2 | [FR] I screwed up REALLY bad when going for the kissYea... I'm just worried cause we're in the same class, It's more of like a social circle thing. I'd prefer if this didn't spread. It's only a small class for the summer so after it's over I can start hanging out with my other friend group... | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 10:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I screwed up REALLY bad when going for the kissI feel like the world's gonna end bro. Hopefully I can just pretend nothing happened and hope that her friends don't tell all this shit to everyone once she tells them. | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 10:27 PM |
| 1 | [FEMALE PERSPECTIVE] Signs that a girl will be receptive to approachI've read through your post but I'm just wondering, do you have any advice for daygame? I usually find myself going out solo in the day to game rather than clubs at night. Can you make a whole post on daygame encounters? | /r/seduction | 25/07/13 11:55 PM |
| 2 | It's Sunday. What have you done this week?I went out about 5 times in the past week, approached maybe like 5-7 girls. Got blown out really badly by one girl who just stared me down. Got blown out by girls who would just say no and walk away after my opener. Was able to number close one girl after having a decent conversation. But she never replied to my initial text. Doing cold approach daygame has allowed me to open up and just strike up conversation with random strangers. When I was at the pool I started conversation with the lifeguar… | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 05:59 PM |
| -1 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readOkay I admit I was wrong in giving that hand comment and I should have just ignored it but I don't like what you're suggesting I respond with. The fact of the matter is you're a woman, you don't understand and you never will when it comes to guys trying to pickup. Why would I try to tell her that I want to meet people and I'm new? This is all lies and bullshit. No I'm not new and I didn't come to the mall to meet people, i came to pick up girls and I am going to be completely honest and straight… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 09:17 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readYea I definitely need to work on not instinctively guilting the girl into a better reaction, even in a joking manner I guess. Sometimes when I'm in set I like to think there's a potenital to turn things around with something I say or do. I don't wanna just say at the end of the day that I got rejected cause of her because that may not be true. If I got rejected because of what I did there's a way for me to change what I'm doing and how I handle things so I can yield more results. That's just how… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 06:08 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readI think I was pretty human in that situation, she literally didn't say anything so I didn't know what to thread off of. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 06:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readIt only sucks when the first thing the girl asks right off the bat is how old are you. That's when you know it's over and you might as well leave. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 05:59 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readShe's not 12, she was joking, she was easily 18+. I thought you got that joke... Also, you make it seem like I was really meaning to be violent with her... I guess I belittled her but I doubt all that talk about violence was running through her head. And I don't want to meet people, I wanted to pick her up and I should let her know that. Any other lines you have that I could have used to make her at ease instead of my hand comment? | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 08:33 AM |
| 0 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readThanks for such an informative reply, I'll address each thing you brought up. I believe that my opener was decent if not good. It was generic, I didn't stutter, I said it as I was smiling and in a positive manner. When I went in for the handshake you were right in that the vibe was terrible but I just wanted to follow up my introduction with it, it seemed right and I figured she would just shake it to be polite but she didn't, which led me to make a comment on that, the hand one, which came to m… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 08:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readWhat could I have said to make it sound less creepy? Like honestly I was just making jokes about it, I didn't really find anything worth saying. And when she didn't want to shake my hand how should I have responded? Just let it go unnoticed? EDIT: see the edit guys, she was joking, she looked 18+ and wanted to mess with me cause I was joking about my age. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 08:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] I got blown out soooo badly today doing daygame, a must readCan you suggest other opening lines I should use? I heard it's best to be direct instead of indirect. I wanna let her know straight up why I wanted to talk to her. As for my hand line I believe I delivered it in a joking way. I didn't wanna come off as douchy and honestly after my first lined I knew the approach was over and I wasn't getting a number. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 02:15 AM |
| 0 | [Request] How do you greet a girl (physical, i.e. handshake/hug/wave/etc)On cold approach: classic hi or opener whatever it may be. No need for physicality on first approach UNLESS she really likes you and it's obvious. On most girls just open, talk, be funny, see if you can hold her hand or something if you're implementing that in the conversation or if she has some tattoos or piercings just like lightly touch them or whatever to get a better look. Nothing too big, everything natural. On close, get the number, talk some more, if she really is excited and it's obviou… | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Cant seem to talk to the guy or girl next to me, but i want to ask them somethingJust open your mouth and speak man. I'm telling you. If you really can't do it then try this trick: when you're in the moment and you wanna say something but can't just clear your head for a good 20 seconds. Completely empty it, close your eyes even and maybe look down. After 20 seconds of this meditation, immediately break it and say hi or make the first comment that comes to your head towards the girl or person you wanna talk to. Don't even think about it, just clear your head and immediately … | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm too lazy to go out todayI went out today, no approaches but I went out. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 11:15 PM |
| 6 | My College classes ended a month ago. I have no idea where to practice. I am 18, live in the suburbs, and I have no willing Wingmen. Advice, please!Trust me bro, just go alone. Having friends to go out with will not change anything because if you're not able to approach alone you won't be able to approach with friends. It's really not that bad to approach alone, if you are really driven to do this pickup and seduction stuff you will not mind going out alone to pickup at the mall. I honestly think it's worth and you should totally do it, good luck. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Went out, stayed akwardWhat was your goal? Did you want to pick up girls? You should have approached their group and then tried to isolate with one particular girl. I'm honestly not too good at approaching groups, I'd always rather just approach girls that are going solo. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming a sticking point: Making the conversation a SEXUAL conversation! Some pointers on how to do it.After talking to her for a bit be like, "Now I have a question for you... where did you get that ass, it seems like it should belong in a museum" Insta-win, now go forth and reel them in my fellow PUA's, you know who to give credit to | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:10 AM |
| 2 | My friend and I thought of this idea today. Can Seddit help me make sense of it?Just talk to her. People make it all intricate on what choices you have to do and they try to analyze everything down to the point. If she is making an effort to notice you that's great! Talk to her then, get the number, close, make her laugh, do some kino here and there if it feels natural to you and set up a date in a couple days. Easy as that. | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:05 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Third night out - starting to feel like I might actually be able to get the hang of this, some day.You need to take more risks. The girl that you opened about the posters was your chance. I'm not sure what you want out of seduction,whether it is getting laid or making conversation with strangers. But what I would have personally done is as soon as the conversation started to get stale and felt forced I would have bounced around to different locations in the bar which you did which is good. But I maybe would have brought her to the dancefloor, grinded a bit and then k closed. Or if dancing is … | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 02:02 AM |
| 1 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.If feels like the conversation may have been a bit boring for her tastes which is why it warranted her to pull out her phone. But hey if this happens don't sweat it, once she pulls out her phone there really isn't much to say to make a recovery at this point. You could say something witty or just continue talking as if she didn't pull out her phone but unless it really sparks her interest the set will be lost. Try to be interesting in your conversation with the girls you talk to so that they won… | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 01:49 AM |
| 2 | My friend and I thought of this idea today. Can Seddit help me make sense of it?It honestly doesn't matter, it really does not matter at all if you stare at them just as long as you don't get caught and they don't notice you obviously watching them from afar without saying anything. At the end of the day the only thing that will matter is if you go up and talk to these girls. You are no better than your friend Nate for not acknowledging them or staring at them. As soon as one of you sees a girl that you like and goes up and talks to them you will be better and in the end th… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:59 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Still a kissless virgin. Approached after a long time. Made an absolute cringe of an approach, but I feel a little better.I know AA is tough but your main problem is that you are not 100% sure in what you are doing. You think that going out, talking to random girls and trying to pick them up is not "right" in a sense so you feel nervous about it. Once you can accept that it is perfectly normal to flirt with random girls that you meet you'll have no trouble at all carrying on a conversation with these girls. However the AA will still be there. AA never goes away and that initial anxiety of approaching will be there.… | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 08:24 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about SnapChat?I think that snapchat is a lot better than just sending day to day texts of mundane conversation... The reason is cause snapchat gets across what you're doing by showing them and it's interesting. It's a good little thing to do on your downtime instead of texting but the main goal should be setting up a date regardless of how you are going to communicate whether snapchat or texting. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Don't ignore Facebook!I honestly think that using facebook will not get you laid and if it does it is a very small percentage. Usually when I meet girls the most important thing to collect from them is the NUMBER. That's all you really need. Why would you add her on facebook when you just met her? There is no point, she can then stalk your profile and find out most of what you're about. As for adding people you see who you believe are cool and what not, I mean that's great and everything but in the end it won't reall… | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 10:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Daygame part 2 she had a boyfriendThere may be things that I need to brush up on my inner game but I think that I shouldn't determine that based on this interaction. I need to do more approaches, especially with girls that don't have boyfriends, and review what is going on. | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 05:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Daygame part 2 she had a boyfriendI didn't go out today but I think the it didn't really matter so much as to what I said and how I qualified her because she already had a boyfriend. And I thought she wans't as interested in me as we talked because she seemed like she just wanted to pay for her stuff and go. I didn't have trouble finding things to talk about, it was fine and I am great at that. It's just that she had a boyfriend so the interaction wouldn't have gone anywhere either way. And the whole direct thing is what I've le… | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 02:29 AM |
| 20 | How did you pick up girls in high school?Highschool is all about social circle game. Put yourself out there, acquire a lot of friends and be apart of several social circles. Girls will be attracted to your status and be willing to give you a chance and date you. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 03:51 AM |
| 0 | "I have to go find my friends?" how do you respondOkay, so let's say I approach a bunch of girls on the dance floor, and each of them replies with I have to go find my friends. Now the problem can't be that all of them are not interested because that is absurd. There is a certain way to approach a girl or a certain technique/mindset that I need to apply that'll get me more positive and receptive ques from the girl, I need to know what it is. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 05:42 PM |
| 4 | "I have to go find my friends?" how do you respondYes.. it's normal | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Are you gay? Shit testWhat if she backs up and refuses me from kissing her, then what? | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Open Library 4 Set [FR]You are a pro. Approaching a four set and deflecting when she said she is seeing someone. Good shit, i can tell you were dripping confidence in that approach | /r/seduction | 22/02/13 07:43 AM |
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